Preparedness pt. 1

Nicki Minaj & Cardi B Beef reaches petty lows

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake wake yo, wake up.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
You know.

Speaker 1 (00:16):
It's it's it's a Tuesday.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
It's a Tuesday. And I didn't think that I was
gonna have to come in here and read off tweets
between Cardi B and Nicki Minaj and but here we are.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
What I like is about.

Speaker 2 (00:32):
This beef is that Nicky's trying is really bringing back
like basic rap because in her tweets, she's like, a.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
B C D E f G.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
You look like Barney, you know, and I can rap
like that, Like I could be like a B C
D E f G ash pancake, Lee, you know, like
I a pancake.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
But Lee, I can, I can.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
I can do this. This is this is basic stuff.
But it's just very strange to me. I feel like
Nicki just can't by the way we've said this too,
I think Nicki just can't escape the headlines of Cardi B.
Cardi goes number one, Carti's everywhere, whether it's a good
or bad story, and she just felt like she had
to say something.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
I don't know why Nicki inserted herself.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
But here we are.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
You know what's crazy. I'm not even involved in like
the hip hop beefs, like that, But I'm not shocked
that this happened because she can't handle it.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
And we have to remember these two fists fought at
the metoun Oh like it got physical.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yeah, they absolutely despise each And where.

Speaker 4 (01:33):
Did this whole thing start? Is it just because they
are two females in the game?

Speaker 2 (01:36):
Yeah, like which one has the crown?

Speaker 5 (01:38):
That's it, Nicki feels, you know, and they're both from
New York and knows what else? But Niki dropping the
news that she was dropping an album in like six
like six months on the weekend Ash, did.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
You see that, Nikki? You know, she posted She's gonna
drop an album. I'm like, yeah, next year, Like I
don't it's just getting weird.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
But again she did that to try to be rail
what was going on with But you.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Carti is the moment, you know, and Carti is the
moment right now. It can't be derailed. But guess what,
Carti's clock's ticking, honey, Nicki. Once Friday hits, nobody's talking
about Carti. Carty knows it too. Once this Taylor Swift
album drops, yeah, that's that's it.

Speaker 6 (02:18):
Goodbye.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
Yeah, I want to talk.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
About am I the drama anymore? Because it's not gonna
even probably none of her songs will be in the
top five because it'll just be Swifty Nation.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
And that's like the best thing you could do is
let her have her time. Don't put yourself in the
middle of it, because then people are start coming for
you too. I don't think nick stories about I think what.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Hurt Nikki the most yesterday, if I had to guess,
was that Carti's numbers and people started posting Carti's numbers. Oh,
she's pushing this many units in.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
Her first week.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
She went number one, And I just don't think Nicki
could handle it that she may be surpassed.

Speaker 4 (02:50):
If anything, it should motivate you now to come back
with something better. Don't get petty, you know, and so like, especially.

Speaker 5 (02:56):
If you have the better rapper right rightamk and hes
saying that she she does ABC raps, so she's clearly
not on your level. Why you stooping down to hers
if that's how you feel.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
I want, I wanted to go back to that.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
I can because I I can wrap there, I can
get down to that level. Yeah, A, B C, D
E F G your mama, Uglee.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
Like, I'm sign up.

Speaker 3 (03:16):
I'm it's just it's it's so much.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
It's just such a crazy back and forth, and I
really feel like, at the end of the day, it
was it's elementary. I mean Nicki saying that Cardi looks
like Barney, then Carti posting a picture of Nicky's brother
with wig On, I mean, Kenneth Petty jokes like, it's
just it's stupid.

Speaker 4 (03:38):
And that's the thing. Nicky can never really win because
when your husband's a convicted pedophile, it's tough.

Speaker 1 (03:44):
Tough. R it is.

Speaker 3 (03:45):
It is tough.

Speaker 5 (03:48):
Yeah, and you know, there's no such thing as bad publicity.
She might look crazy, but people are talking about her,
you know what I mean. If it shows to drop
a single today, everybody probably go listen thinking that she's She's.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
My favorite.

Speaker 2 (04:01):
Part of the whole thing was because this is how
I would feel too. Carti was like I was, It's
a Monday, and I was trying to make ribs and
blondies in my house, Like I just really didn't want
to have to deal with this, but now I have
to put the ribs.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
Down and deal anyways, what's up with you guys?

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Cool?

Speaker 3 (04:18):
Not that no one's in the midst of a Twitter
drama like that.

Speaker 4 (04:22):
No, I couldn't handle Twitter beef like that. I can
be even like Instagram beef. I just end up like
not responding at the beets anymore tool for that game.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
Yeah, I mean I try, I don't.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
I really don't respond like that anymore, to be honest,
I love it's mostly about my drinking now that people say,
and I don't respond to those, but I'll post them
of me drinking.

Speaker 4 (04:44):
I feel like it was one of a couple of
weeks ago, maybe because on this past weekend, that's right
about the beer and then you were licking like the thing.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
Yeah, I was licking the rim of the glass because
the guy was like, you're just destroying your internals.

Speaker 4 (04:57):
Okay, little does he know they've been destroyed.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
And also a little as you know, that was just
a little beer buddy done way worse than that.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
I also had a moment yesterday in my home.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
We finally got rid of the last little supply of
breast milk I had. We have the smallest freezer in
the planet and we need this space anyway. And she
couldn't drink the milk because it was past it time.
Some people keep it for baths and such or like
you know, for the kids if they have a rash.
But I didn't need it anymore. There was only a
couple of bags, but a lot of people were responding

(05:31):
to me posting that I was getting rid of the
last couple of bags, just upset that I wasn't making
breast milk jewelry.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
What it?

Speaker 2 (05:40):
So let me start out by saying this zero shape
because a couple of our listeners they make they take
the breast milk. I think they put it in like powder.
They make it to powder. I don't know how they
do it, but they make jewelry with the breast milk.
It is respectfully a no diss to them because that's
their job and that's cool, and it's not my vibe.

(06:00):
It's not I had to write that sixteen times, sixteen
different ways.

Speaker 1 (06:04):
Not my vibe.

Speaker 4 (06:04):
So what are we talking? Like a bracelet made out
of breast milk?

Speaker 2 (06:07):
The one I saw it was like a ring and
it looked like you know, a guys picture, like a pearl,
but the pearl is white because it's filled with breast milk.

Speaker 3 (06:15):
And it's filled it's like legit like inside. I want
to say, they make it into powder form.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
I could be wrong on that people have necklaces, they
have bracelets.

Speaker 4 (06:23):
To keep the connection to their own body.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
I think maybe to like remind themselves that they fed
a child with It's.

Speaker 5 (06:30):
Not for na no, so the baby walking around that's
growing up doesn't remind you that you want to freed it.

Speaker 4 (06:36):
Or looking in the mirror and.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
Right right, guys, I was trying to be so respectful
because I was just like, that's so great that you
do that for people. And there are some people that
like because trust me, I'm very proud of my body.
I mean how many times. I mean, my kids haven't
had a drop of formula. I'm very proud that they
were my boobs were able to do this. I don't
want to wear the ring. Yeah, I I don't want

(07:01):
to wear the ring.

Speaker 4 (07:01):
Well, the worst part about it is that they like
almost I'm sure and I'm assuming they kind of have
an attitude or like a tone like why won't you
do that?

Speaker 2 (07:09):
Well, some people were like, why wouldn't you say that
for bass? Why wouldn't you make that into jewelry? I
don't want to wear a breast milk ring. I don't
know what the way to say it, like politely I
don't want to wear a breast milk and necklace.

Speaker 4 (07:20):
Like what if it breaks? Is there like milk powder
like coming out of or like no, because like a
little drip.

Speaker 7 (07:24):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
I don't know how it works.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
I don't do it.

Speaker 3 (07:28):
But I'm very specific with my jewelry. It's just not
my thing.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
But I have a lot of people giving me like
grief for not wearing the milk ring, and it's just like,
I don't.

Speaker 4 (07:36):
This is why the Taliban hates America because women are
out here worrying about that and getting upset each other
over there.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
And it's also if someone comes up to me, Oh,
that's such a nice ring and I'm like, oh, that's
mother's milk.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
I don't know how to explain that.

Speaker 7 (07:51):
Especially show with foreign It's saunty when.

Speaker 8 (07:55):
You need to know, No, we got you three things
you need to know on bus number one for hip
hop and the best throwbags.

Speaker 7 (08:02):
She haven't any more?

Speaker 2 (08:03):
Five all right, Tuesday, September thirtieth. It's like we're saying
bye to September and we're saying by the love. And
that's just where I'm at with this, because you know,
I'm gonna talk about it because when it comes to Hollywood,
really thought this was gonna last. I mean it did

(08:23):
for nineteen years. After nineteen years of marriage, Nicole Kidman
and Keith Urban have split. Damn No, I'm I honestly,
I saw the two of them, you know, when you're
you know, when they announced breakup and they put their
their their pictures side by side. I saw it and
I said, no, nope, I'm not gonna read that headline

(08:44):
because I just refuse to believe it.

Speaker 4 (08:47):
Because to your point, like every time that they were out,
they seem so happy. It was more so the way
she looked at him.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
She was in love with him, enamored by him, and
he's shorter than her. Yeah, and they still lasted nineteen years.

Speaker 4 (08:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:01):
Yeah, So here's what's weird. So they were She was
seen on Monday. I don't even know if it might
have been Monday of last week, but she was still
wearing the engagement ring. She had on a wedding band
ring something. Even in June she was talking about their
marriage and she was like gushing over their anniversary and

(09:22):
being married to the love of her life and how
happy she's I mean, god, she went from Tom Cruise
the nutso to him, so she was like, I just
love Keith. I love him so much. And now the
sources are saying that they haven't been good since the
beginning of the summer, that they've been living separately. He
acquired his own residence in Nashville, because I think you

(09:43):
have thought that they had a shared one. Now he
has his own place in Nashville, And an insider is
saying that Nicole is the one who didn't want.

Speaker 3 (09:51):
To separate and has tried to save the marriage.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
She's also been caring for the two kids, trying to
hold the family together, whilst filming Practical for Us for
Me in London, and he's touring.

Speaker 4 (10:06):
And that's probably it, right because like if you're touring
and and you're doing like all the film and stuff,
how much chemistry and how much connection do you really have.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
With the partner, right because you just physic they physically
can't get together.

Speaker 4 (10:16):
And on top of it, maybe he fell in love
with somebody else, because these things happen, no.

Speaker 5 (10:20):
I know, or maybe she's not the one that he
fell in love with. She looked different nowadays.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
Yeah, that is true. She's had a lot of surgery,
so he's probably like this is not who I'm married.

Speaker 3 (10:29):
I still find her to be attractive, but yeah, there's
a lot.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
Like a permanent smile on her face now.

Speaker 4 (10:35):
Yeah, Or maybe it's just the fact that she's doing
all these sex scenes continuously with all these different people,
Like some of these sex scenes are intense and not
just like and.

Speaker 5 (10:45):
I felt like lately she's been doing like a lot
more than in all the movies.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
What was the film that when Baby Girl, Baby Girl
with the Milk?

Speaker 4 (10:51):
Yeah, yeah, that was next level.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
Yeah, And maybe maybe they had some sort of maybe
she's been tom bradying him and saying like I'm and
I'm not doing things like that.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
And they've been finished for years and they just try to,
you know, keep it up. Maybe I did.

Speaker 2 (11:06):
See that, but damn talk about keeping it up. I
mean Jada and Will, like Jada's was she barely tried.
We could kind of read through that Nicole is like
bragging about him, she's hugging him, she's kissing him.

Speaker 3 (11:18):
She's wearing the like that's a lot. But she's an actress.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
She's an actress after all.

Speaker 4 (11:23):
Maybe Keith, Keith came home when she thought he was
going to be away, and he caught her watching the
latest Mission Impossible, and he just lost. He thought he
was done with you're.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
Not doing this again, and no, you're not doing this again.
You told me a fun fact. It's not fun.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
I don't know why it's no.

Speaker 2 (11:41):
No, I don't know why I said it like that
for him, But I didn't know Keith Urban did crack.

Speaker 4 (11:45):
Yeah, he had a crack addiction, like bad, like twenty
years ago, like it was a long time ago.

Speaker 3 (11:50):
Many years ago, would put it right before their marriage.

Speaker 4 (11:52):
But let me tell you, like it wasn't just a
crack addiction, like he loved crack, Like crack.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
Was the world coming from him, Like he would wake up.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
Crack dinner crack like all the time like him and
wouldn't even get together this book crack.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
No, that part's a lot.

Speaker 3 (12:07):
That parts a lot.

Speaker 2 (12:07):
Yeah, but that's great, and who knows.

Speaker 4 (12:09):
Maybe he Yeah, he seemed to be good and like
has been in recovery for twenty years, so I don't
think it's that. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
I find it interesting that all the people that are
close to them are saying that she's the one who's
trying to save it, and he's like, I'm good, I
got my own place in Nashville. By it's just nineteen years.
That's such a long time. You don't see it in
Hollywood when I saw it now, mind you, they did
say and they're making it clear it's a separation.

Speaker 3 (12:34):
It's not a divorce yet. I think she's trying to
hang on.

Speaker 4 (12:38):
Yeah, it's it's gonna be done. And like you, when
you say it like that, I feel like he's been
done because maybe he has somebody.

Speaker 5 (12:44):
Else her trying to save it, man, Yeah, trying to
save face. Be like, oh no, we'll just splitting up.
Bros like ro stop telling them we split up there.

Speaker 3 (12:51):
Yeah, he's like, please leave me alone.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
They have two kids, And as upsetting as it is,
I will still be watching Practical Magic too with Sandy Bullock.

Speaker 3 (12:59):
I can't wait.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
All right, everybody buckle up. Nicki versus Cardi B. You're
gonna be like, where did this come from? Ash Why
did Nicki Minaj just on a Monday be like I
am going to come for Cardi B.

Speaker 3 (13:11):
I can't tell you.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
I don't know what it was, or maybe her and
Kenneth were laying on the couch and she saw somebody
post Cardi goes number one again and She was like,
I'm not dealing with this. I'm about to remind Cardi
who I am. I can't tell you. But she picked
up her phone and she went off. She posted a
tweet from somebody this is this is Nicki now follow along.
Nicki said, despite false reports, Nicki Minaj is the only

(13:32):
female rapper to have an album across two hundred k
units first week this decade. Then she followed up with
a picture of herself with a crown on. Then the
tweets come and I can't I can't say everything because
the word abc D e FG pregnant play with his
abc D e FG surgery to look like me, tell

(13:54):
the rat and tell Jay z Rico fraud and perjury
face Act for point nine abc D e FG a
rap like Barney still ugly Barney b abc D e
FG heavy tongue gee. Then she posts a picture of
an eagle and people are like, wait, why is she
posting an eagle? And someone said the crow jumps on

(14:17):
the eagle's back, pecking at its neck to provoke a reaction.
While most animals would fight back, the eagle does not. Nicky.
That doesn't play to you though, because you are fighting. Yeah,
I think you are fighting back, and then you know,
Cardi was in the kitchen. She said, she was just
trying to make some ribs and make some blondies, and
then all of a sudden she finds out that the

(14:38):
tweets are happening, so she puts down the brownies. She
puts down the blondies. By the way, one of the
tweets from Nicky to Cardi pregnant with your fourth baby
Barney b BV HPV allegedly it's a lot, dude, it's
a lot like it's I'm talking about this at six
twenty seven.

Speaker 5 (14:57):
The beef stems from like twenty and seventeens, so this
is almost like ten years. But if you really think
about it, like Nicki's kind of being strategic because Cardi
B is like the front runner at rock Nation right now.
She doesn't like jay Z. She doesn't like rock Nation.
She said that, like I think even a few months
ago where she was like, you know, jay Z, you

(15:18):
ruined hip hop, you ruined the super Bowl halftime show,
you ruined live shows and all of these other things.
So I think for her it's easy because I already
got beef with your number one runner, right now who's
Cardi because she's on top of the charts, and then
you guys are backing up, so I'm gonna expose the
both of y'all.

Speaker 1 (15:33):
It's like killing two birds with one stone.

Speaker 2 (15:35):
I can see that. It's just that first tweet from
Nicki where it's like Nicki Minaj is the only artist
to I just feel like she's seeing all these headlines
of all these units that Cardi is moving and Cardi's
number one her album machine.

Speaker 5 (15:49):
She also knows that the machine behind all this happening
is rock Nation, which she despises.

Speaker 1 (15:54):
So it's like it's a double blow for her right right.

Speaker 2 (15:57):
And what did we say last week? You can't escape party?
Right now? Carti is the.

Speaker 5 (16:01):
Moment did the whole social media run like should be
studied for real, for real because they did it perfectly.
And because of that, she's number one right now. Nicki
can't stand it. But you know who knows what Nikki
got in the tuck for us when she drops her
album allegedly seventy at the end of she wants to
expose Ragnation for all their dirty deeds, so we'll see.

Speaker 1 (16:20):
So Carti stops cooking.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
She said she was making ribs and blondies and she goes, damn,
she was streaming magnet Heart as hell.

Speaker 3 (16:26):
Huh abc D e FG.

Speaker 2 (16:29):
Your man have to snatch Satata tastes like honeycomb. You'r
bro be touching twelve year olds. Cocaine Barbie, the power
I have make these bitches come out of rehab.

Speaker 1 (16:40):
Go to your room.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
Nothing more annoying than a bored bitch. You must have
missed me. Huh, Now kiss my feet. And then Carti
posts a photo of Nicki Minaja's brother in a pink
Nicki like wig, and just so we're all clear, Cocaine
Barbie started trending on Twitter within hour, Cardi Ben said,
all right, now, this is the third tweet. You're talking

(17:03):
about my pregnancy like you weren't going to different fertility
doctors because you couldn't reproduce from all those perks scrambling
your eggs, not allegedly, Lord, protect my babies. Why do
you keep bringing up my album. It's not the gag
that you think it is. You've been in the game
for sixteen years. You need to compare yourself to your
peers that started around your time. Rihanna Taylor Drake, those

(17:24):
are the numbers you need to be competing with, and
you can't because you're doing lower than all of them.
I was in high school when you came out, What
the hell are you comparing yourself to me for? And
then she posted a picture and said, nah, because I
really was baking these ribs and making blondie brownies and
here come this bitch trying to bother me on a Monday.
I can't him up, guys, I can't. There was a
meme somebody put out where with somebody like refreshing their

(17:46):
screen a thousand times.

Speaker 3 (17:47):
It was like that.

Speaker 2 (17:48):
By the way, fast forward to right now. Nicki has
deleted some of her tweets too. It's just it's very
strange because like, you don't want to dance with Cardi
because there's Nicki. You have some this stuff going on with.

Speaker 4 (18:00):
You, but also with all these things, like right now
it's just on the internet. But where does it go?
Is it gonna go down and people are gonna start
shooting each other. I won't get there one big impoc.
It won't get there.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
They won't get there until it gets there. That was
like ninety something.

Speaker 5 (18:14):
I think a shoe gets thrown and stuff like that
ain't nobody done over this?

Speaker 3 (18:19):
Yeah, I really hope not.

Speaker 4 (18:20):
And Kenneth is out there like holding guns just that's
why I say it.

Speaker 3 (18:23):
Yeah, I can't imagine what ken he saying about it.

Speaker 4 (18:27):
He's a pedophile?

Speaker 2 (18:28):
Is Kenny the husband where he's like put the phone down,
like stop dealing with this one?

Speaker 7 (18:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (18:34):
But but I don't think you tell like in the relationship.

Speaker 2 (18:37):
I don't think nick you don't tell Nikki anything like
NICKI wants to start tweeting, You're just.

Speaker 3 (18:41):
Like that's what you're gonna do.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
But anyways, like I said, let give we have to
give Cardi her time, like this really is her moment.
Cardi's all over the headlines. I got more Cardi t
for you next hour. It's never ending. But let's edit
on a positive note. This is so cute. This is
bad Bunny talking about his super Bowl perform and how
just excited he is for not only himself but for
Puerto Rico that he is going to be performing at

(19:05):
the halftime of the Super Bowl.

Speaker 6 (19:07):
I'm really excited for my friends, my family, Puerto Rico,
all the Latino people around the world. I'm excited about
the my culture. I'm excited about everything, not years for me.

Speaker 2 (19:26):
I think it's adorable because he's like, listen, this isn't
just about me. This is about my people, this is
about my family, this is my friends. Everybody's so excited.

Speaker 4 (19:32):
Now.

Speaker 3 (19:33):
This part I really can relate to.

Speaker 2 (19:34):
This is him talking about being in the gym and
getting the call from jay Z, hey you're going to
do the Super Bowl, and he talks about taking too
much pre work out.

Speaker 1 (19:41):
I've been there.

Speaker 7 (19:42):
It's crazy because I was.

Speaker 4 (19:43):
I was in the middle of a workout.

Speaker 6 (19:46):
I remember that after the call, I just did like
a hundred pull up.

Speaker 4 (19:53):
I was like, I didn't anymore.

Speaker 7 (19:58):
Pre workout or whatever.

Speaker 3 (20:03):
I've done too much pre workout and I've contemplated.

Speaker 2 (20:06):
Every life to say like, I've worked out, and yet
my heart's I can see my heart still beating through
my chest. So he's like, I didn't need any more
because I was so excited from that call.

Speaker 3 (20:14):
That's it's it's amazing for him, an.

Speaker 4 (20:15):
Amazing call and for motivation. Man, that guy's gonna be
working out for the next like six five months.

Speaker 5 (20:20):
I hate, though, the people that's out there for this
guy doing this.

Speaker 1 (20:24):
It's insane. I know I was going to say, so.

Speaker 2 (20:25):
We did the show from six to ten, and obviously,
like I'm looking at my phone while we're doing the show. Yesterday,
the entire afternoon, like my whole timeline was people going
back and forth about him, like if they're happy about it,
if they're not happy about it, how they It was
a lot. It was a big topic of conversations. It
got political, which I didn't even know that was a thing.

(20:47):
It was a whole of course. But I think the
real point is, and I know one of you guys
said yesterday, I think it was you for and it's
like it didn't matter if it could have been Taylor
Swift say it was people were still going to the
going to be half the people who hated half of them.
Nobody's ever like, Wow, this is it, this is what
we want.

Speaker 4 (21:05):
They always have something to say, especially in a world
where everybody has a voice, was like with their Instagram
accounts and all that stuff. So people are gonna hate
on it across the board.

Speaker 2 (21:12):
Yeah, yeah, I'm beefing up on my Spanish. That's what
I'm gonna do. Yeah, because I will know some of
the things this man's saying. I'm again, we've seen him
so we know. I just feel like the people who
haven't seen them, they don't know yet. I hope they
give him a chance.

Speaker 4 (21:24):
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that he has out like.

Speaker 2 (21:27):
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I'm not gonna know what he's gonna say, Hey, just
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Speaker 7 (21:45):
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Speaker 8 (21:48):
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Speaker 1 (21:54):
Hi, everybody, good morning.

Speaker 3 (21:58):
I Am almost said his name.

Speaker 2 (22:02):
It's always good for me for when when Sandy comes
in here and he's like, oh, I have to tell
you a story about something someone I can at least
say your affiliation to them, which is it's somebody that
you went.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
To college with.

Speaker 2 (22:16):
You have the best college buddies I want. I feel
bad because we talk about them often. We usually lie
and say it's somebody else, but.

Speaker 4 (22:23):
Yeah, my college. I mean, I feel like in college,
you you communicate with them more often, especially when it
comes to life situations, because they saw you at a
time where you were coming of age.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
Yeah, well this is a life situation now, isn't it.

Speaker 4 (22:34):
Yeah. I saw my friend and his wife. We kind
of met up on a vacation a few years ago.
And this is all last year. Was No, it's two
years ago.

Speaker 3 (22:43):
They're going to look at your Instagram, so just be careful.

Speaker 4 (22:46):
Okay. We met up on a vacation and basically the
guy told me that his wife was communicating with an
ex of hers over the last couple of months, years
or whatever it was, and he had found found out
about it, and he was fine with them being friends
and he was fine with them communicating. The issue that
he had with this whole situation was that in one
of the conversations, he was trying to get her to

(23:08):
come stay over for the night when she was gonna
be away. He wanted to sleepover, He wanted to sleepover,
but it was more so like the communication back and
forth made it seem like there was more than just
friendship there and that this was they were trying to
figure out how this was going to happen. Well, obviously
I understand, but it was more than just hey, let's
meet up for a couple of drinks. I've been seeing
you in ten years. It was like, all right, this

(23:30):
is becoming a thing. We have feelings for each other again,
come sleep over. How do we make this work?

Speaker 2 (23:35):
Well, okay, so we have to backtrack too. He knows
that they're talking, and he's okay with that. He doesn't
mind that she's talking to her house because some people would.

Speaker 1 (23:43):
He's he was trying to be cool about it.

Speaker 4 (23:45):
Okay, He's fine with them talking and being friends on paper,
on Instagram or whatever it is. He's not fine with
them communicating and having this like emotional relationship.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
So what He's okay if they follow each other on
social media with the chit chatting.

Speaker 4 (24:02):
But they can DM or like each other, right, the
liking and the DM's fine. I think it was more
so the how are you saying because DM A. It
was the context of the conversation that got alluding.

Speaker 3 (24:13):
He knows he's gonna get in trouble with this conversation.

Speaker 4 (24:17):
Like if you text with the with the one of
your old boyfriends, right, textan is fine, but if you
guys start flirting and start alluding to the fact that
things are going to happen, so we can say, what's.

Speaker 2 (24:25):
Up, how are the kids? Like, what's going on, grandma?

Speaker 4 (24:31):
But you can't say, Hey, I'm really missing you. Look
really hot there, I can't wait to see you again.
This is what was happening?

Speaker 2 (24:39):
What?

Speaker 7 (24:40):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (24:41):
And so then they're they're saying these things, and then
the guy says you should come sleep over, basically get
in the sleeping bag and and talk shop like what
do you who? What she's she's she's cheating.

Speaker 4 (24:53):
Well, I I don't think it's gone physical yet from
what I understand, but the emotional cheat has been happened.
So that has happened.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
If I read a text exchange with the fireman and Melanie,
and Melanie's talking about come on over, yes, so we
can have a sleepover, that's cheating.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
What are you guys doing it to sleepover?

Speaker 2 (25:17):
Right?

Speaker 1 (25:18):
Again?

Speaker 4 (25:18):
I don't know, Yes to him because.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
I feel bad because he's not they're still together.

Speaker 4 (25:22):
He's in a position right now he doesn't know what
to do, and he's questioning whether he has an issue,
and I told him, yes, this is this, this.

Speaker 1 (25:29):
Is a problem.

Speaker 2 (25:32):
Am I hearing why did you not?

Speaker 4 (25:35):
I told him that he has an issue, that he
has every right to be upset, and that he should
have a conversation with her, but he doesn't feel that way. Well,
he doesn't feel right. So that was that thing that kids. Yes,
this was at that initial vacation.

Speaker 3 (25:47):
Wait, I always feel like people will put inside.

Speaker 4 (25:50):
I saw him a couple of weeks ago and I
asked him about this, and he basically was like, I
just have to live with this. I guess I didn't.
I didn't ask him. I didn't get it to ask
him if like they had hung out or whatever.

Speaker 1 (26:03):
You just have to live with us.

Speaker 4 (26:04):
They're still together. They're still together, They're still I don't know.
They seemed happy, but I think this is all happening in.

Speaker 1 (26:10):
The back obviously the A side in this relationship.

Speaker 4 (26:13):
Yeah, I would say that he must.

Speaker 3 (26:15):
Have like sad her down and been like I know
about this, and she just like ate him alive at
all all?

Speaker 5 (26:20):
He knows if he says anything, he's not the dominant
one in the relationship.

Speaker 3 (26:24):
This is a Jada and Will situation.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
I can say that one and he doesn't want to those.
So he's like to go do your thing.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
She's like, I will sit down and I'll read you
the poems this man wrote me from back in the day.

Speaker 4 (26:35):
He did, he did seem or seems very broken about
this whole thing.

Speaker 1 (26:39):
I know my girl is saying she missed somebody. Let's
have a sleep over.

Speaker 2 (26:43):
Hold the kids.

Speaker 4 (26:45):
They're old enough to be okay with things.

Speaker 2 (26:47):
That's right, because I always feel like with little little
little kids, people might.

Speaker 4 (26:50):
Okay, here's what I'll tell you. They're in high school,
one's about to go into college.

Speaker 3 (26:53):
They're fine. I agreed to figure it out.

Speaker 4 (26:56):
I agree.

Speaker 2 (26:57):
I'm so sad for him. What what what is he
holding on for? Or like like he should go find himself.
Somebody wants to him.

Speaker 4 (27:03):
I mean they're both handsome, Yeah they could. They would
both do fine, They will both do fine, amazing jobs.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
And all this his his ego or his he doesn't
think highly of himself. I know what he looks like. Yeah,
I don't know what she looks like.

Speaker 3 (27:19):
I know what he looks like.

Speaker 2 (27:21):
He would be fine, yes, Yeah, he's beat down. His
wife wants to have a sleepover with another man.

Speaker 1 (27:29):
He's battered.

Speaker 4 (27:30):
I don't know what it is about the exes and stuff.
And people that for some people that we have in
our past, but some people come back and they just
lose it.

Speaker 2 (27:38):
I think that it's just because you know with that person,
you like, they've seen you naked. I don't know how
to explain it, Like you've had sex with them.

Speaker 1 (27:47):
There's a connection.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
There's a connect. Yeah, and you at one point got
to a point in your life. We'll get this is
for me as a female, because I'm not gonna have
sexuals if I don't have feelings.

Speaker 1 (27:57):
Yeah, you had.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
You got to a very serious point where you had feelings.
So maybe that's what it is for her, which again
makes it worse.

Speaker 4 (28:04):
Maybe and maybe you know this person that you're you're
missing something right, and this person is providing that, whether
it's his comments, it's you look beautiful in all these
things that you aren't getting like at home time.

Speaker 2 (28:15):
That's not fair.

Speaker 3 (28:15):
Maybe she is getting that at home, but she she
has this want for something else.

Speaker 2 (28:19):
I don't know. I don't like it.

Speaker 1 (28:21):
I don't think that's something else is what she ain't
gott You don't think he's telling her she's I'm not
saying he.

Speaker 4 (28:25):
I just don't think they have that relationship like anymore.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
The spark is gone.

Speaker 4 (28:28):
Yeah, I think the spark is off going. When I
used to know, like when we were younger, they had
the spark, they would go out a lot, they would
all that stuff. I think life has changed for them
and I think that spark is gone. And I see
it in his eyes. His eyes are dead. I'm not
saying I'm not saying that, Like does he have a
good job. Yes, they both father like from what you
can see, like, yeah, so right, Like there's no reason
for her. She's just I mean, I've seen them fight

(28:49):
before and it's not pleasant. But at the same time, like, no,
she's not scary. It's just like their fights are like childish.
But yeah, and I really felt bad for him.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
You just feel bad that now, Yeah, like he has
to because now what he's just going to live this
life knowing at any day she could be in a
sleeping bag with her rex at his house, like I
don't know, I'm sleepovers and they're eating popcorn. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (29:12):
And I feel like if you're putting in this situation
like that, you can just spend the rest of your
life just wondering. When they're out of they're texting that person.

Speaker 1 (29:18):
And it's going to come to a point where she's
gonna fight bro over to the crib and not care
what he what he thinks a lot slide. Imagine what
else's he's gonna let slide after a while.

Speaker 2 (29:27):
Well, a lot of people would probably fight you and
I for it and be like, nothing physical happen, because
people forgive physical stuff.

Speaker 1 (29:34):
But they do know. But you're so right they do,
so they might.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
Say nothing actually happened. You guys are crazy. We could
get past this.

Speaker 3 (29:42):
I don't like.

Speaker 4 (29:43):
And then also too, I've heard people work their way
back from worse than this. It's bad, yeah, but it's
not the worst I've heard. But this guy's seen it.
They're talking about they miss each other, They talking about
let's have a sleep. I mean, what do you think
they're sleeping over to do watch movies and eat popcorn?

Speaker 5 (29:59):
And I think he knows that. He knows that, And
that's the fact that you can't even address it. And
he's just like, I'm just gonna live with it. That's
a beatdown, man. That soul is gone.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
I want to hold him.

Speaker 4 (30:10):
I want to hold him too. I felt really bad.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
How good is she like?

Speaker 2 (30:13):
Is she a smoke show, like you know what I mean,
you know, sorry, pretend she's a man described.

Speaker 4 (30:23):
Ractive, Yeah, very attractive. Yeah. I mean they seemingly from
the outside have it like had it all right, But
that's how.

Speaker 5 (30:30):
It be, though they'd be like that. And people again
Nicole Kinman and all of that. We you know, we
we thinking that this thing just ended.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
The grasses and always greener people a long time ago.

Speaker 4 (30:40):
But it's just to your point, as like you do,
like people sometimes let a lot of stuff slide without
nipping it in the bud.

Speaker 2 (30:46):
And again when there's little kids involved. I don't judge
anybody like people take people back, that's it's whatever. Anybody's
business is their business, and people want to do what
they want to do, and they should do whatever makes
them happy.

Speaker 3 (30:56):
But I don't, like I couldn't live you would. What
sleepover are you going to?

Speaker 5 (31:01):
That's what I'm saying. How do you let that slide?
Like we we miss each other and let's have a sleepover.
How different if it's like, oh, you know, it's been
a long my ex, I'm going out for lunch with
my ex, which is crazy too, but it could just
be on a you know, a friendship level. But they
literally are telling each other, we miss each other, Let's

(31:21):
have a sleepover.

Speaker 3 (31:22):
Let me give you a different scenario. Married couple.

Speaker 2 (31:27):
Guy goes on these work meetings, continuously constantly telling his wife,
I had I gotta I gotta work meeting.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
I had a work meeting.

Speaker 2 (31:33):
At a work meeting, guy knows that the dude he's
going on a work meeting with wants to hook up
with him.

Speaker 3 (31:38):
It's not a sleepover, but he's they're flirting. They're they're
they're eating bread.

Speaker 4 (31:42):
Bowls, They're one flirting.

Speaker 2 (31:46):
Why are you part of my scenario? Anyways? You finally
this guy is like sending you for like it's very
made very clear to you that this man is into you.
But yet you still keep on going to these work meetings.
If you're the partner there, are you not like this

(32:06):
is not it's not sleepover, but yeah to lunch. Yeah yeah,
when you say it like that, it is a issue
you and this friend made to preach. You and this
friend might want to sit down and look in the
mirror together to stare in for a long time.

Speaker 7 (32:22):
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Speaker 4 (32:24):
Traffic on ninety three southbound after the one twenty eight. Actually,
if this continues all the way down to the Fellsway,
you're still looking good on Root one southbound and four
five southbound. We are looking good from Haverhill all the
way down to the Pike. Have her Hill stop that
is people say, oh, it's Heather Haverhill.

Speaker 1 (32:41):
Doja Cata.

Speaker 2 (32:42):
Now she's going on a world tour, which is so
amazing for her, but she's going to actually hit the
globe first and then come back to the United States
of America, so she won't really be here until the
end of next year. But we're making sure that when
she comes you're there.

Speaker 4 (32:58):
It really sucks if you win these tickets and don't
make it to the show, like no, you life ends.

Speaker 2 (33:03):
You will make it in twenty minutes, can you make it?
I am gonna hook you up at the parent tickets
to go see Doja cat.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
At the Garden.

Speaker 2 (33:11):
Listen, these tickets aren't even on sale because it's a
year away. Plus it's it's more than a year away,
so I'm not gonna sale. You can't get them anywhere.
But her show is November twenty third at the Garden
in twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 7 (33:36):
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Speaker 2 (33:39):
Tuesday, September thirtieth, And you might not think I was
gonna talk about it.

Speaker 3 (33:42):
You might have seen the headline and been like, Ashley's
not addressing that.

Speaker 1 (33:45):
Yes I am.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
Because love is dead, It's not real, it doesn't exist anymore.
When Nicole Kinman and Keith Urban are calling it quits
after nineteen years of marriage.

Speaker 3 (33:54):
You just know something is wrong in this world. Let
me just say, I don't know country music like that.

Speaker 2 (34:01):
Actually pulled a couple Keith Urban songs to see, you know,
maybe because this was a big one, the one we're
playing on it. Somebody like you.

Speaker 1 (34:07):
This is a big one, somebody like you.

Speaker 2 (34:23):
So here's the thing. Keith Keith big, big, big in
the country world, right, He's massive. Nicole also just massive
in Hollywood. Keith was like the big dog back in
the day Nicole study on top YEA. So now I'm
thinking about this, I'm like, could this have played into it?

Speaker 7 (34:41):
You know?

Speaker 4 (34:41):
What's crazy about them? Is that they both of them,
they're both azzies from Australia.

Speaker 1 (34:50):
Yeah, they have a relation to Osborne.

Speaker 7 (34:54):
That was.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
Nicole Kidman and you have to listen to interviews from her.
It's because we and all these shows. Yes, she had accent, chat.

Speaker 4 (35:03):
Was British, but that was another thing. So they had
homes like all over the place, and they had this
solid connection that at their foundation they had like culturally
like a thing.

Speaker 2 (35:13):
Right, they had this connection.

Speaker 4 (35:15):
Yes, so even to lose that makes you wonder what happened?

Speaker 1 (35:18):
I don't think.

Speaker 2 (35:19):
So here's the thing, not divorced, separated. Rumor has it
that Nichole's been trying to hang on, but things have
been bad. They've been living a part since the beginning
of the summer. He got his own place separate from
theirs in Nashville. She was just in London filming Practical
Magic too, which thank god for all of us Halloween heads.
He has been on tour. They have two daughters. Nichole's

(35:41):
supposedly been trying to do her best to kind of
salvage but it's hard. Like she's in London filming, he's
on tour. Nineteen. I just don't want to believe it
because anytime we see I picture them sitting.

Speaker 3 (35:52):
Next to each other at the Oscars, and.

Speaker 2 (35:55):
Then I picture them sitting together Billboard Music Awards, and
she's there to support him, and vice versa, and their
holding hands and they're cuddling, and she's taller than him,
but she still loves them so much.

Speaker 4 (36:04):
It's just if you grow apart, does that imply that
somebody fell in love with somebody else? No, not necessarily, okay,
but if you end it kind of quick like that,
you see, we assume it's.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
Quick, though, we do.

Speaker 5 (36:17):
Yeah, this could have been done a long time ago,
and do it just saving face. People can fall out
of love, People can get hold of each other, especially
if he's saying that they got together while he was
heavy on the crack. I think he got I don't say,
but yeah, that crack probably stays in you for a
few years, you know what I mean, that crack behavior.

Speaker 1 (36:36):
He probably reached out. He's like, damn. The craziest part
of clear you made me want to so crack.

Speaker 2 (36:41):
The craziest part of both them is started dating in
two thousand and five, got married in two thousand and six.
It was like das whirlwind but then to stay together
for you.

Speaker 5 (36:50):
Nice hey, Yeah, because who knows how much business they
got together like that that sometimes you got to take
that into consideration. Again, this is the same, it's cheap,
but the keeper, you know, I mean it might be
a thing where they were like, if we separate, it's
so much like we got to divide in so much
like bs, we gotta go through.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Let's just stay together.

Speaker 4 (37:08):
But I feel like it's in Hollywood though, like they'll
deal with that because they have so much money that
it's not as bad to divide stuff.

Speaker 1 (37:14):
Raven, No, you never know. People's perception could be different.
She might be thinking. She might be thinking she's going
to lose the world, like he's like, nah, we're gonna
be straight.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
I think we should also keep this in mind. The
last seven days she was still wearing her ring. In June,
she was talking about how much he loves him, love
of her life. They're separated, they're not divorced.

Speaker 3 (37:32):
There's still a.

Speaker 4 (37:33):
Chance, you know, they're gonna divorce's you know what?

Speaker 2 (37:36):
We don't know.

Speaker 3 (37:36):
Yeah, we don't know. And we Chelsea, all right, do
we do it again?

Speaker 1 (37:41):
Do we dance?

Speaker 2 (37:42):
Do it?

Speaker 3 (37:42):
Because here's the thing. If I do it again. Now
I'm taking a break.

Speaker 2 (37:44):
Next hour. I can't be wrapping these tweets out. It's
getting crazy.

Speaker 1 (37:48):
Next hour.

Speaker 2 (37:48):
Okay, we're gonna wrap. Next hour, let's talk about Lotto.
Lotto is finally giving us the tea we want. Lotto
is finally confirming we knew what was happening. We knew
that Her in twenty one Savage were together, but she
just refused to say that that was her man.

Speaker 1 (38:04):
They got caught on vacation.

Speaker 2 (38:06):
Did you guys see those photos? They got caught on
Vaca together. They were at it on the beach doing
all the things. And so now a Lotto is not
holding back. TMZ caught up with her and she said,
that's my man, my man, my man.

Speaker 1 (38:18):
Stops.

Speaker 2 (38:21):
Oh wait, wait, so are you tired of people asking
about you know who?

Speaker 7 (38:25):
Twenty one?

Speaker 2 (38:26):
Huh?

Speaker 1 (38:26):
So you're not tired to hear about twenty one?

Speaker 2 (38:33):
She was dressed in head to to chanel and she
was like, I look like a mafia wife, boss.

Speaker 3 (38:38):
I have to go meet my husband for dinner, and
then gave the okie doke that it was twenty one soup.

Speaker 5 (38:44):
So we've been known right and every time like those
sometimes like she would do a live and like twenty
one would have came into the screen and she would
stop and be like, don't say a word, don't speak
because people knew that they he would recognize the voice.
Do you know why she kept us a secret so
long that they're saying is because twenty one If you
remember a few years ago had immigration issues. Do you
remember he was about to get deported. No, we talked

(39:05):
about this, this was maybe yeah, yeah, yeah, we talked
about this two years ago. He was going because he's
his mom is from the UK, he was born in
the UK. I did know that, yes, and he was
facing uh, deportation issues, immigration issues, So for him to
not like they were, they were about to get him
out of here, like this was a big deal.

Speaker 1 (39:25):
He ends up getting married.

Speaker 5 (39:26):
They saying he got married for papers, So he can
never come out and say that me and Lotto are
together because I got this marriage on the side over here,
which is supposed to be for my papers.

Speaker 1 (39:35):
You get what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (39:36):
So that might be over now and that's why now
she's able to claim him got it. So he's fine
with Ice now because I think I knocking.

Speaker 2 (39:44):
On his store, I never forget my interaction with him.
I saw him in the Celtics game and he was
sitting there and while he was just trying to relax
and watch the game, and I walked up to him
and I was like, hello, mister, hello, mister twenty one.
Do you mind if we take a picture together? And
he said no words back to me. It was like,

(40:06):
and we took our picture and walked. That's what's our interest.
He did not speak, so a lot of times I'm like,
don't talk.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
He wasn't. Anyway, he wasn't. He had nothing to say.

Speaker 2 (40:15):
All right, it's happening. Doja Cat is taking her new
album around the world and it's gonna be good for you.
The journey will take her to Latin America, Europe, speaking
of the UK, and then North America. Say, with that
being said, by the way, she added, you know in Australia,
New Zealand, Asia as well. With that being said, I

(40:39):
have fair tickets for you and we're gonna do it
right now. But I need you to keep in mind
this show isn't until twenty twenty six.

Speaker 4 (40:46):
What's the benefit of waiting that long or booking something out? Well,
when does the tool start that's the thing I thought,
I'm trying to find.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
We need to know that because it's going to end
next December in Madison Square Garden in New York City.
Because because she could, she could spread it out, and
because she's traveling the world, maybe she's like I'm gonna
and who knows, maybe she's not gonna starting until January,
but is that tour and that's.

Speaker 4 (41:06):
What I think it is.

Speaker 5 (41:07):
Maybe she's starting in Jane or or fab and you
know she's not gonna promote half of the toys. She's
just gonna be like, yo, I'm going on to here.

Speaker 2 (41:14):
Here's a good example. Think about Drake's tour. We saw
Drake's tour here. He's still doing the same tour correct
in Europe.

Speaker 4 (41:21):
But that's Drake, and I to respect her to like,
you know, do it sooner.

Speaker 2 (41:25):
She's doing the gardens. But she'll be fine, it'll be fine.
I just I want everybody, the phones are going crazy,
and I want you to have these tickets. I just
want you to realize you're gonna have Thanksgiving next year,
and that's when you're going to do like it's not
going to be this year.

Speaker 1 (41:40):
So we're gonna do it.

Speaker 7 (41:41):
Right here.

Speaker 2 (41:41):
That's three things need to know for Tuesday, September thirtieth
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
It is an early Christmas gift for next year from
us call her twenty five six one seven nine three
one one nine four five.

Speaker 3 (41:54):
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Speaker 7 (41:58):
In the Morning Show with DJ four it's said morning
Bustin's number one for hip hop.

Speaker 2 (42:03):
You am in ninety four five before we get in
to be on this way, if I want to show
someone to Charlene she's going to Doja Cat next year,
that it would be nice to be able to laugh
and not cough. But I'm serious, Like the Doja Cat
Show for the thousandth time is November of next year.

(42:25):
I just want to make it clear when you win
the ticket, I don't want you showing up at the
garden this November being like where's Doja?

Speaker 1 (42:30):
Somebody absolutely absolutely on Friday being like, yo, you to
doja on Thursday? What happened?

Speaker 7 (42:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (42:39):
So anyways, we'll do it again at age twenty. In
the meantime, we're talking dating, love relationships. The lack thereof
six one seven nine three one one nine four five
and that is six one seven nine three one one
nine four five. Uh, you can call us, you can
leave a talk back. You obviously can say anonymous. I
just got a DM from a girl. She doesn't want
to come on, which aren't if this isn't I always

(43:04):
want you guys to come on and chit chat with us,
because no one's gonna know. Well, I have a few
people will. But I don't think she's in the wrong
for this. This is a last minute thing. She basically said,
I'm gonna sise here. But she basically said her and
guy are going back and forth. Everything is great. They're
setting up for the first date. Now she knows going

(43:24):
into it.

Speaker 1 (43:25):
He has a kid.

Speaker 2 (43:27):
He's obviously not with the mother of the child. Child
care fell through, but he's pressed and he still wants
to go out on the date. He asked if they
could bump the date up earlier and he would.

Speaker 3 (43:40):
Bring the kid.

Speaker 4 (43:41):
It's too soon.

Speaker 1 (43:43):
This is the first day, right, it's the first date.

Speaker 2 (43:44):
So then she not only says I don't want to go,
but she now it's like, I have this bad taste
in my mouth because I'm thinking what Dad would say.
I really still want to go on the date, but
I'll bring the kid, Like I shouldn't be meeting the
kid that.

Speaker 3 (43:58):
I'm kind of with her on that's really weird.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
You just got to say, I'm really bummed out. This
is terrible timing. My child care fell through. We need
to do another date, not I'm going to bring my
child on the first date. You're looking bad.

Speaker 5 (44:12):
But maybe he thought it was a nice break or
something like that. I could see maybe way he could
have went that way, but still.

Speaker 2 (44:17):
It shouldn't even be meaning she could be a one
and done then.

Speaker 4 (44:20):
Also, why not just bump the date back a day
or two or three?

Speaker 1 (44:24):
Who knows.

Speaker 2 (44:25):
I didn't get into that because but I just wanted
to tell her, Like, first off, I said, you should
have called him the show because everyone was going to
agree with you. And number two, you're not wrong for
feeling well now, not only did that date fall through,
but I don't want to go on any more dates
with this dude. He's weird.

Speaker 4 (44:38):
Yeah, that is weird.

Speaker 2 (44:39):
I don't know how old the kid is, but like,
that kid should not be meeting her.

Speaker 4 (44:43):
The hell, I imagine it's an infant too, if he's
having a little baby.

Speaker 2 (44:46):
The hell, my imagine I'm single and I just roll
with Daisy and Layla to a first date. The he no,
So a story like that, don't be afraid to call
us because we're gonna be on your side with that one.
But if that's if that's what's happening out there, that
that people so desperate for a date that they're like,
I'll bring the kids, that's not a good sign.

Speaker 4 (45:03):
I had a friend actually meet a girl in a
parking lot and she had her kid in the car
and they were hooking up in the other car. Like
it was really weird. Yeah, excuse me what. Yeah, he
met her like online and he met up in a
parking lot with this girl and she had a kid.
She brought the kid.

Speaker 1 (45:14):
I mean, that whole scenario just screams not, you know,
a service relationship.

Speaker 4 (45:18):
Yeah, but my friend is also weird too, so he
does stuff like this.

Speaker 1 (45:21):
That's he didn't care.

Speaker 4 (45:23):
I would have left up that.

Speaker 2 (45:24):
You don't want to be with someone that is that
type of parent, Like that's just all that parent, right,
that's all around bad.

Speaker 3 (45:30):
That's all around bad.

Speaker 2 (45:32):
So anyway, six one seven nine three one one nine
four five six one seven nine three one one nine
four five don't be afraid. We're talking dating, love, relationships,
lack thereof. It's crazy out there in the streets.

Speaker 1 (45:44):
Tell me what's going on.

Speaker 2 (45:45):
Sixty one seven nine three one nine four five. It's
Beyond the Swipe only on channels. Hi, everybody, good morning.
It's Ashley in the gym in morning show. We're doing
Beyond the Swipe. We just talk about your dating world
and what's happening out there. You know, if we're judging
spit off we see on social media, it's not CUD.
It's pretty dreary. Six one seven nine three four five.

(46:07):
We call it beyond the Swife. Jess is in Maldon. Jess,
I had a DM from a girl. We're just chatting
about this and she's like, I was supposed to go
on this first day. Guy's child care fell through, so
he said, I'm bringing the kid and she goes. Not
only do we cancel that day, but I canceled all
future dates because I'm not going out on a date
with someone who's bringing their kid. And you're like, whoa, whoa, whoa,

(46:27):
You actually took your kid on a first date.

Speaker 9 (46:30):
I sure did. I sure did, only because let me
explain why, Only because just because I get along with
that man.

Speaker 10 (46:39):
All that female doesn't mean that my kids do.

Speaker 9 (46:44):
I'm the type of woman i'd like to know if
my kids.

Speaker 10 (46:47):
Get along and if that man is really for me
or not.

Speaker 9 (46:50):
Your kids will never lie to you, Okay, there's no connection.

Speaker 10 (46:55):
There's no you know, feelings and their skits.

Speaker 9 (46:58):
And something's wrong with that person.

Speaker 10 (47:00):
So here we are. Here, we are bringing my four
year own daughter.

Speaker 9 (47:05):
And you know, I say, children don't lie.

Speaker 10 (47:08):
So instantly they got.

Speaker 9 (47:11):
This good connection.

Speaker 10 (47:14):
It was weird.

Speaker 9 (47:15):
It was weird at first. I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, woah,
whoa whoa.

Speaker 10 (47:17):
Wait wait, wait, wait, what's going on?

Speaker 7 (47:20):
You know?

Speaker 9 (47:21):
And now I'm still with the same man. It's going
on two years on March ninth, will be two years
of this year, and they're it's unseparable.

Speaker 2 (47:35):
Now.

Speaker 9 (47:36):
I can't get them two away from each other. I
can't get none of my none of my three kids
away from him.

Speaker 10 (47:43):
Like he's the best step father in the world. You
never know until you.

Speaker 9 (47:48):
Bring your kids around somebody to see if that person's
the right person for you.

Speaker 2 (47:54):
Well, you know what, I've learned a lesson here. I
If I am ever single, when the date is lined up,
I'm just sending Laila in. I'm not even going in
the restaurant. I'll have her go in and then eat
and report back to me. Thank you for this, Jess.
I've learned something here.

Speaker 9 (48:14):
It's it's going on two years and let me tell
you something. I don't regret him meeting my kids on
the first date because I went on a date by
myself with somebody before and didn't bring my kids. And
not even three months later down the line after he

(48:36):
met my kids, my daughter was acting strange and I said,
oh no, oh no, maybe listening.

Speaker 10 (48:44):
To guy for me and to find out this guy
was a bad person.

Speaker 9 (48:48):
Revery abuse her. And that's when I said, no, if
you can't accept me, bring my kids. I don't care
if I have a babysitter or not. Kids are always
gonna tell you up. They have more sensitivity than Windy.
That's because we like the person. We want to get

(49:10):
to know the person.

Speaker 10 (49:11):
But bring your kids.

Speaker 9 (49:12):
I don't hear if they say no, I'm not onto
the next.

Speaker 1 (49:17):
All just hey to each to each their own.

Speaker 2 (49:20):
It worked out for you, and I'm happy to hear it.
Thank you so much for the call. If anybody else
that listens to this show brings their kid in the
first date.

Speaker 3 (49:27):
I'm slapping you.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
You know what I heard. I didn't hear that she
loved that man. I didn't.

Speaker 5 (49:34):
Yeah, I think she was looking for stepfather. Yeah, you
get what I'm saying, the job, I don't think. Yeah,
I don't think she was. Again, I wanted to ask
her that, but I didn't want to say and say, Hey,
my kids are attached to him.

Speaker 1 (49:45):
I can't separate him and I love him so much.

Speaker 2 (49:47):
On this show, you're the one that's the single man. You,
You and that shanty are going on a first date
and you roll and she's got the baby. The hell
are you doing?

Speaker 7 (50:00):
No?

Speaker 1 (50:00):
I mean a baby is different a baby and a
creator like you know what I mean that we don't
love it.

Speaker 2 (50:04):
Though, Yeah, we don't love it. We don't old that
can that can talk worse to him?

Speaker 1 (50:09):
You can pick up their own plates, have a conversation with.

Speaker 2 (50:13):
You order I want chicken, fingers and fries.

Speaker 5 (50:15):
And they're under the age of whatever and you bring
them there. Nah, fam, Yeah, no, we're not doing that.

Speaker 2 (50:21):
And how am I supposed to combat her when she
says autistic children don't lie like she?

Speaker 3 (50:25):
I mean, what am I gonna say you can't.

Speaker 4 (50:27):
But I'm not like she's being very specific. We were
generalizing the entire thing. At the end of the day,
don't bring any kid.

Speaker 2 (50:33):
I'm still standing with him. Yeah, I'm still standing on
that kid.

Speaker 7 (50:36):
That kid.

Speaker 1 (50:36):
That kid might be cool with the guy, but how
you know that person is good for you?

Speaker 5 (50:39):
So you're determining, like it's your kid giving you the okay,
whether you should date a man. You date him, you
see these good quality then you bring them around the kids,
and if the kids don't like.

Speaker 1 (50:49):
Him, then you make your decision.

Speaker 2 (50:50):
And by the way, their kids, I could be out
with Jeffrey Dahmer if he offers Leila chocolate milk, chocolate milk,
She's gonna be like, I love Jeff, Like the hell
are we somethingskids might not have a father figure in
their life and they seem man and they're like, oh,
new daddy, Jeff gave me chocolate milk. Mommy won't real talk.

Speaker 1 (51:09):
What are we doing?

Speaker 2 (51:09):
Mike? Is it?

Speaker 7 (51:11):
Mike?

Speaker 2 (51:11):
Wait? What do you want to do? Okay, Mike is
in Nashville. Mike, let's change the subject. Pissing me off.
I met somebody at the Seaport. Okay, so you went
out at the seaport on Saturday, my favorite hot spot.
You were out and about you met somebody talk to us.
We were out to be exchange numbers.

Speaker 11 (51:30):
Yeah, so we are. We were on the seaport, one
of the one of the hotel bars down there. How
to how to blast me me A couple guys and
I work with And so we're in the seaport and
things are going well. We get there literally within like
five minutes, I see these two girls, one of which

(51:51):
is probably like a solid seven or eight.

Speaker 4 (51:54):
And I was like, oh, absolutely say something, okay, okay, And.

Speaker 11 (51:59):
So so I'm like, hey, we've only been here a
couple of times, Like, we want to check out upstairs.
You guys want to come with us. So we go
up there and things are going well, and talking to
her for like twenty minutes, I was like, you know,
we're pretty cool, Like maybe you know, can I get
your number? Like if you're still, if you're single, are
you singing anybody?

Speaker 7 (52:20):
No?

Speaker 11 (52:21):
Very single? Love to get nice. So she saves her
number in my phone and and I'm like all right, cool,
Like I'm like just because I get her number doesn't
mean I'm gonna stop talking to her. So we talked
for like another like five minutes, and like, I'm gonna
get a drink, Like, do you want to get a drink?
She goes, I would love an express of martini. So
I'm like, all right, like get drinks and yeah right,

(52:45):
and so you know, we're talking getting drinks and you know,
getting to be pretty flirty. She she breaks the touchberriers.
She's touching my hand and I'm like, okay, like all right,
this is cool. And and then I text her this
was a Friday night, and so I text her Saturday,

(53:05):
and I'm trying to figure out, like if she was
just drunk and just wanted to have some attention during
the night like while she was out, or like trying
to figure out like why I'm not hearing back from her.

Speaker 3 (53:21):
So I think I'm just trying to feel like do
I feel like me mean or not?

Speaker 2 (53:25):
Because I don't. I'm in like a week number one.
You just called her a seven rate. We're never hearing
from her again. That's would she asked to be at ten.
So after the espresso, martini, the touch barrier, how did
it at the very end, how did it go?

Speaker 3 (53:41):
Were you like, all right, I'll talk to you soon.

Speaker 1 (53:42):
See you buy is that?

Speaker 7 (53:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (53:46):
So we I was my friend ended up leaving because
I was talking to her and so I was like,
I don't know where my friend is at, like do
you guys want to go down and say and helped
me look for him and ended up he ended up leaving,
and so they're like, well, we're going to go to
the bathroom and like okay, so like as a as

(54:11):
a what did you say? So anyway, I'll continue to
the story.

Speaker 2 (54:18):
It's getting along, like it's let's just get to the
very end of it, because there's a lot of.

Speaker 1 (54:24):
If I just if a very friend.

Speaker 4 (54:29):
Like what do you mean?

Speaker 11 (54:33):
So she did an Irish goodbye. I don't think I
ever got it.

Speaker 2 (54:36):
That's it, all right? So she Irish goodbye. So something
happened in the conversation that she didn't like and that's
really the easiest face or you said a seven hundred.

Speaker 3 (54:46):
Times and she was like, I can't do it anymore,
and the man just said.

Speaker 2 (54:49):
And a lot I don't know, but yeah, I mean listen,
who knows what it was, but maybe something there in
the common if she Irish goodbye and didn't make it
a point because we listened. We like what we like,
we want what we want. We know how guys can be.
If you liked her, you were into it. If she
was feeling the same way, she would.

Speaker 3 (55:07):
Have sought you out. To make sure to say bye,
is my thought.

Speaker 11 (55:09):
I agree, Yeah, all right, I appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (55:14):
All right, Mike, Hey, back to the drawing board, get
back to the seaport this week and we'll get another
We'll get get another fish.

Speaker 1 (55:20):
You got it?

Speaker 7 (55:22):
All right?

Speaker 4 (55:22):
Hey, thanks for every buddy, good luck, just seven or eight.
I wonder what Mike was. And that's always like me
is if you're judging a female like that, look in
the mirror first and say what am I?

Speaker 7 (55:33):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (55:33):
No, it's weird to see Blanco.

Speaker 2 (55:36):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (55:40):
Yeah, you could be two go for you know.

Speaker 3 (55:42):
You know what that's that's a fact right there.

Speaker 1 (55:45):
That's sweet.

Speaker 2 (55:45):
You know, we always learn lessons in every story, and
Penny Blanco bags Selena go bez. We have to keep
that in mind. Doja cat next year Thanksgiving twenty twenty six,
you're going, we're gonna hook you up at eight twenty
Come on,