Santi Can't Wait For Boots & Jocks Pt.1

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Tuesday. How we doing, how we feeling.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
We're feeling our right, feeling good. It's Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (00:06):
Yeah, Tuesday of Memorial Day weekend week, which is nice
because most people have off on Monday of the followings.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Well, I guess that positive in that is the outlook.
You get a shorter WEEKNX.

Speaker 1 (00:16):
I know, which is that's the really exciting part. Your
Monday is already Tuesday.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
And then the exciting part is is that it's starting
to feel like summer. I guess theoretically the weather where
is mentally like you know what's right there?

Speaker 1 (00:29):
The weather's making it tough. Yeah, yeah, like today there's
a legit chill in the air.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Oh, it's like freezing out. I hate it when it's
like this.

Speaker 3 (00:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
I don't mind the winter when it's cold in uself,
But when it's like this, we're caught in the middle
and we don't really understand where we're supposed to be.
This is when it's annoying.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
I keep feeling bad for all these girls that bouthor
like festival outfits for the Boston Calling Music Festival because jackets. Yeah,
because right now, Friday has an eighty five percent chance
of rain with a high of fifty six. Saturday has
a fifty percent chance of rain with high fifty nine.
Sunday is sixty two and cloudy, and Monday has a
forty percent chance of rain with a high have sixty three.

Speaker 2 (01:07):
I want to say it was four years ago we
had a Memorial Day weekend where it rained all week
and long.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
I can I can remember it.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
Yeah, yeah, it was miserable. But I'm sure the summer
after that.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
Was good, I know, because you just you expect Memorial
Day to be nice for the barbecues and all the
things and so but you know, we're just we'll just
tell ourselves it's cold now, it's raining now, but June's
gonna be lit.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
I mean, June is it?

Speaker 1 (01:30):
But June's really a toss up month too.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
Scientifically it will be warmer, it will, so you know, that's.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
It's on the horizon. DJ four and not worrying about
what our attempts are because that man is in Orlando.
Jules is hanging out with us. Day too, Alarm clock.
Day two. How are we feeling?

Speaker 3 (01:48):
Today was a tough one.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
It's not good.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
Not good yesterday. Yesterday was fine. Today I thought it
was going to get better. It has not gotten better.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
No, it never does. I've been doing it for years
and never. You don't coffee either, or have I missed
you drinking the coffee.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
I've got a coffee because I needed something today. But okay,
it's not working.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
You give me vibes like you drink like your coffee
is like TwixT coffee twix bar. Yeah, like cinnabon, it's
like candy exactly a milkshake. He says, he has a
coffee in there, and you know it has like it
probably has just a little dolls.

Speaker 2 (02:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:26):
Oh so he has like a little shot of coffee.
The rest is just sugar and milk.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
Dude, when I see those people like a dunks just
walk walk out with basically like a milkshake, I'm like,
that's the worst thing.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
You're like gonna blow up. Yeah, that's what my mother
said to me. My mother drinks like real like Puerto
Rican coffee that it's like it'll keep you up for
three days. Yeah, that's that's because you drink all that
sweet crap.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, I want to try the Puerto Rican coffee that
keeps you up for three days.

Speaker 4 (02:53):
I drink my coffee black. You drink your coffee black.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
But let me just say, on the weekends, I might
put a little milk in my coffee or maybe a
little bit of cream, and it is delicious.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
I'm not Yeah, the afternoons, I'm beginning the duncan with
like the sweeteners and it's so much better delish, But
then I pay for it with my stomach and it's
not doesn't feel awesome.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
We don't have to.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
I didn't go that set. I didn't go the extra
tap and say.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
There was one time where I was driving home I
ordered it was my same my afternoon cup.

Speaker 4 (03:22):
I was at mary Luz.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
And I ordered the usual cold brew black iced. She
hands me the coffee. I pull off. I looked, I
gave a little looksie to it, and I could tell
that it wasn't what I ordered. But I get uncomfortable
and I was just like I said, TwixT because it
was a TwixT bar coffee. I couldn't even drink it
because it was so sugar it was so sweet. Like

(03:45):
I thought to myself, I don't want to drink. I
will just go get a TwixT bar. I would rather
physically eat a candy bar than drink that.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
We have a friend who we follow and she posts
her coffee like every day it's straight sh it's ice cream.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
I don't understand. You can see the chocolate in it.

Speaker 2 (04:01):
Yeah, I don't understand how that's considered coffee and how
that's consumable for a person like this is good. It's
gonna get you know, get me going right. It's like, no,
it's a milkshake now.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
But everybody is Everyone gets their coffee a certain way.

Speaker 5 (04:15):
You know.

Speaker 1 (04:15):
People have written me on Instagram because they've seen my
coffee in our videos or something jewels and they're like,
you're disgusting with your bean juice, like because because look
at my coffee compared to yours.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
They've also people also think that it's coke at times too,
because I think because there's ice in there, and they
may assume, like, oh, is that a cup of coke
that you're.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Did someone did say I was drinking coke, which, by
the way, people I've seen people around here do that
drinking coke in the morning.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
I saw a guy actually in our vending machine last week.
It was seven seven am, I think maybe a little earlier.
I was going to the bathroom and he was pissed
because the coke was out, but that he said he
drinks instead of coffee a minimum of four or five
sodas in the morning.

Speaker 6 (05:01):
Tad.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
That gives me like, I don't know, I feel like
it's immaturity. I feel like I'm looking at a child.
I feel like after a certain age, you just stop
the cokes in the morning. You can have a coca
like at night, but in the morning.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Like you guys love coke, like Coca cola is so delicious.
But to me, drinking a coke before noon, slap yourself, like,
grow up, you gotta wait till lunchtime. Bro, you gotta
wait until you can order the nuggets off the menu.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
I also have an issue with grown men like walking
around with bottles of diet coke too. It just looks
something attle right.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Put the yes, there's that. There's actually an influencer that
I know, and he's obsessed with diet doctor Pepper, and
he just walks around with his diet doctor. Grow up,
be a man.

Speaker 3 (05:43):
I feel like anything diet is just trash. Yeah, be
a man. Drink take the real sugar.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
Yeah you're gonna do it.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
Just do it.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
There's actually the glass bottle Mexican Coca Cola's nothing better. Yeah,
those things.

Speaker 4 (05:57):
Like the sizzle, just it like hurts your throat, it's
so good.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Is different, I know, because they ship you the carbonation
and you put your own product in and you mix
it together. So that's the thing there, So that's why
it tastes like that.

Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yeah, Well, now I want McDonald's and an ice cold.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
Corner door dash.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
Don't even give me. Don't even if you see me
on the camera eating a hash brown in the next
thirty minutes.

Speaker 4 (06:19):
Just no, we have real, real deep rooted issues.

Speaker 6 (06:22):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
Photos from the Diddy trial are out and it's tough
to look at. We'll talk about it next morning.

Speaker 6 (06:29):
Actually and the Jamie Morning Show with j Foreign and
Santy Glynn.

Speaker 7 (06:33):
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Speaker 1 (06:41):
More Vibe, Tuesday, May twentieth. I wish I had a
better understanding of how it works in the courtrooms with
what photos were allowed to see and what gets to
the public and what doesn't. Because we've been through trials
where they they as in the jury looks at photos
and they never see the land of dead and they

(07:01):
don't see them.

Speaker 4 (07:02):
Sometimes they leak, sometimes they don't.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
We know there's no cameras allowed in the courtroom for
Ditty's trial, but the prosecution did, in fact process some
very very clear photos for all of us to see.
The federal attorneys released pictures of evidence that they collected
from Ditty's hotel room when he was arrested last September.

Speaker 4 (07:25):
That's the part that's important to me.

Speaker 1 (07:27):
These aren't like lost files of Ditty's freakoffs from like
oh two. This is from Ditty's hotel room last September,
meaning that he was doing this type of stuff all
the way up until when he got arrested. This wasn't
just like, oh yeah, I did freak offs and no five, no, No.
One of the bags in the photos shows some items

(07:49):
including drugs, lubricant, and I'm using their word, copious amounts
of baby oil. I mean, we've talked about this in
length last week, but ye you we heard the baby
oil rumors. But I think we thought rumors. People are
trying to be funny. Maybe there was one or two
bottles of baby oil. Cassie said this man had her

(08:12):
swimming in baby pools filled with baby oil.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
I guess I can imagine what he wanted it for.
There were other things he could do, but just baseline,
he wanted her covered in that.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Right said she had to be shimmering was the baseline
of it. Like she always had to be lubed up,
and like it sounds just slip.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
It sounds we right too. Yeah, I can understand like
putting a little bit on, but it sounds like he
wanted her drenched in that. Right.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
That sounds uncomfortable and without like doing I just don't.
That's not healthy for us to be laying in a
pool filled with that. That's not that's not good.

Speaker 2 (08:51):
Would lend to the story of why she was getting
some UTIs consistently of.

Speaker 1 (08:55):
Every single time. Yeah, and when you're having when you're
being forced to have sex for forty eight hours and
lay in a pool like that, no wonder she had
to drug herself to get through it, because that's I
can't even I don't even know what that is.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
My question is, right when they were done with whatever
it is that they were doing, did they clean up
themselves or they just leave the hotel and the poor
mate at the comman and clean up the pool?

Speaker 1 (09:19):
Right now? Jewel Santia ever showered with baby oil. You
need a dime size, You need a beep, and then
you still might slip in your cup. I'm serious. So
every once in a while, especially like if I'm out
in the sun or something and I will, although I
know I will, you need a dime Like I'm not
a dime size. A baby bill might be too much

(09:41):
because you might lose your life. It's like putting on
an old navy flip flop thong in the rain. You're
risking your life out here. So that much baby oil,
It's like it's really just lunacy.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
It's messy.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
Anyways. Prosecutors obviously arguing that the drugs were used, you know,
to course these people into participating in the freak off parties.
Now Diddy's defense is saying that the drugs were just
offered as consensual usage drugs. Anybody, you know what I mean,
Just like, hey, we're having a party. There's a lot

(10:15):
of baby oil. If you'd like, there's also some drugs party. Right,
we're in week three of the Diddy trial. I think
it's pretty much confirmed that Diddy is grotesque when it
comes to like sexual I think he's a deviant. I've
said this before. I think when you have more money
than God and you have an addiction to porn, you're
constantly in your mind leveling up. It wasn't enough for

(10:38):
Diddy to just have vanilla sex. That wasn't enough for him.
He needed to keep doing these deviant, creep things because
nothing was enough. We also got a slew of photos
from the men that were considered escorts and people that
did he and Cassie had hired. I say Cassie because
remember Diddy had her doing some of his dirty works,

(11:00):
sometimes hiring some of these men off of Craigslist and more.
And we got a little looksie at some of them.
I was appalled at the comments section because there were
just regular civilians being like, Oh, that's Joe, that's Joe,
that's Joe. I mean, I know Joe. I've seen him
at the grocery store.

Speaker 8 (11:20):
You know.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
Damn, Joe must have had a family to feed and
needed to pay his bills. Like oh, that's Greg. Greg
was my promoter at all the clubs in Miami, and
he would put me at the best tables and hooked
me up with the best balls. I mean, these are
regular dudes that are doing this stuff on the on
the DL. That's not the DL anymore. So people were
recognizing that.

Speaker 2 (11:41):
You have to imagine too, that these pictures were sent
to people like on Instagram, like, hey, don't it like
isn't this the guy you brought to dinner last last
couple of weeks something like that, where a lot of.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
People, a lot of them are removed from that world
now and they're just dad like they're you know what
I mean, they have the families.

Speaker 2 (11:57):
And now imagine you married a guy after he did
all the things, like, you're gonna probably go back and
have some uncomfortable conversation with them about like their past.

Speaker 1 (12:04):
You want answers. I mean, I don't think it's worth
breaking up a happy home.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
Well no, but if you were unaware, if maybe they
were like got with Diddy and you didn't know that,
you probably questioned a lot of like.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
The things you dealt, How did you not tell me this?

Speaker 2 (12:19):
Or like did you sleep with Diddy? And I thought
you were straight?

Speaker 1 (12:24):
Oh yeah right, because we don't we don't know, Like
I said, we're we're entering week three of this trial.
One thing I do want to say, and I felt
sick to my stomach watching it, and I don't know
if either of you did. But Don Richard was on
the stand yesterday. Obviously she was cooperating Cassie's stories and
just saying, listen, I saw Diddy beating her just beyond

(12:45):
also some of Cassie's friends who are no longer her friends,
which I find interesting and I want to get a
little bit more inful than that. But saying the same
thing that Cassie was just beat by him when he
was drunk, beat by him when he was sober. Did
he did he for this alone, for the domestic violence alone,
I think should be locked away for the rest of
his life. Take away the key. But remember we're looking

(13:06):
for these racketeering and sex trafficking charges. But what I
was gonna say is, there was a video that went
viral of Down Richard leaving the courtroom. The things that females,
man females were yelling at her. Here's one of them.
You need to shut the hell up. I would let
Ditty beat me and abuse me for twenty million. Take

(13:28):
your money. You all need to take your money and
shut up. I would let Ditty abuse me for a
small amount of money. Dawn Down, you need to shut up.
You need to shut up. And I couldn't. I couldn't
now down. She just kept looking straight, she kept walking.
But I was horrified. And it was females.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
I mean they say that, but they're just saying that
because they're just looking at the money. They don't understand
the mental abuse that everybody has gone through.

Speaker 1 (13:52):
There also was a little internet rumor that people are
being approached on the streets saying I'll give you twenty
dollars if you stand out front of the Ditty court
room wearing a free Ditty shirt, insinuating that Diddy has
a team that's trying to get these people to kind
of stand outside and maybe either a harass or b
look like Diddy has all this support.

Speaker 2 (14:10):
Not shocked, because then that turns into a pr thing.

Speaker 1 (14:12):
So yeah, yeah, I just I was like, I just
kept thinking in my head, like, imagine that's your daughter
with these people. Who are these people?

Speaker 2 (14:21):
That's the thing again, it's easier said than done, right, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
It's sickening, all right. Megan thee Stallions speaking out about
this new rumor that there's new info that Kelsey is
the one that shot her. As opposed to Tory Lanes, Remember,
Kelsey's bodyguard supposedly has come out and said, you know,
we were trying to protect Kelsey. But the fact of
the matter is Tory Lanes did not shoot Megan thee Stallion.

(14:47):
It was her friend Kelsey because they were in this
huge love triangle. You know a lot of people are like, well,
if that's the case, why wasn't Tory screaming that from
the rooftops? If if that's the case, why did Tory
Lanes get found guilty by a jury of his peers. Also,
if that's the case, how weird is it that that
came out right after he got stabbed? What's going on here?

(15:08):
What's happening? But I can tell you that Meg is
fed up? She wrote on TikTok. At what point are
y'all gonna make me stop reliving being shot by Tory?
At what point are Tory and y'all fans gonna stop lying? Like?
How much is the check to keep harassing me? Why
is this happening every single day? One minute him and

(15:29):
you guys said I know I was never shot, now
y'all letting him play you into y'all face again and
say I was shot but it wasn't by him.

Speaker 4 (15:37):
Oh okay, facts are facts.

Speaker 1 (15:40):
He did it. It was proven in court in capitals
Tory shot me. Ain't no new effing evidence. Y'all been
saying the same stuff for years. In caps Tory, please
leave me alone, you efing demon.

Speaker 2 (15:55):
Yeah, for he'd probably have some sort of a.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
He was, well, you know what he would say. She
posted that. Why is she talking about that? And I listen,
she she is She gets hot when you know, when
she's upset. She goes to social media a lot. But
I do feel bad for her, like people have made
her into a villain on this. But you know what
was interesting. I was telling you guys that she came
out with this statement and Jeweles was staying real quiet. Jules,

(16:21):
y'all liar.

Speaker 3 (16:22):
You know, if y're lying about one thing, we gotta
ask what what else y'all lying about.

Speaker 1 (16:27):
Initially, when Meg was on the stand, when she was
asked did her and Tori have a sexual relationship?

Speaker 4 (16:31):
She said no, And that's what Jules Jeweles is hanging
on to them.

Speaker 3 (16:34):
Yeah, and she did that on Gail King too. And
it wasn't Tory's gun. Whose gun was it? It was
Kelsey's gun? Right, So you know, it's fine.

Speaker 1 (16:44):
That doesn't mean Toy didn't shoot it.

Speaker 3 (16:45):
But what like he went into her person, grabbed her
gun and said dance and started shooting at her feet.
That doesn't even make sense. It doesn't. None of this
makes sense.

Speaker 1 (16:56):
Jules is outside of the Diddy court room.

Speaker 3 (17:00):
Damn No, you know what's crazy. I'm like, if he
did it, throw him under the jail, right, That's how
I feel. Yes, But the math ain't math in when
when it comes to like he's with two girls right
that he's smashing. He's smashing both of them, and he
decides to pull out a gun and shoot.

Speaker 5 (17:17):
One of them.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
I get I get it, but I think things change
when there's that much liquor involved. They had been drinking.

Speaker 3 (17:24):
From exactly, and I'm talking about the girls.

Speaker 6 (17:28):
Girls.

Speaker 3 (17:29):
Girls. You know when you go to the club, the
girls are the worst.

Speaker 1 (17:33):
Listen, I have a drinking problem, So I can't. I
am part of your example. And I will say, but
I just think, you know, like I said, I leading
up to that shooting with Tory and Kelsey and Meg,
there were there were breadcrumbs like them in the pool,
like Kylie Jenner's health. They had attitude with each other.
Meg didn't want to him in the frame like I think.

(17:57):
I think Meg was Meg as outwardly said, you know,
she lost her mother. She was kind of searching for
people to be around, to call family, and she kind
of picked the wrong the wrong people.

Speaker 3 (18:09):
It sounds like a lot of people are mad, and
Tory Lanez wasn't one of them.

Speaker 1 (18:13):
Well, listen to the comment section. I mean that people
don't like Meg. It's kind of crazy.

Speaker 2 (18:18):
Well to his point is she did lie I think
was unnecessary.

Speaker 1 (18:22):
Yeah, I do too. So what you had seck with him,
it's fine, he short, I get it. That's hard to admit,
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Speaker 1 (19:26):
Hi, everybody, good morning. We were talking earlier about people
who drink diet cokes, like Santi said he just can't
handle when it s He's a grown man drinking a
diet soda like this all stemmed from a conversation of
Jules holding up his I don't know if we can

(19:48):
call it coffee, his milk water that he has over there,
milk with like a little bit of coffee. Can you
read us the label on your coffee?

Speaker 3 (19:59):
VT names?

Speaker 1 (20:01):
Oh, no Vietnamese coffee? Have you ever? Has anybody ever
had a Vietnamese No, that's real coffee?

Speaker 2 (20:07):
Really?

Speaker 3 (20:07):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (20:07):
But okay, sorry, I have Venti iced.

Speaker 3 (20:09):
Hazel oak shaken espresso blonde espresso.

Speaker 1 (20:14):
Okay, that's not bad. Did you add any creams or
sugars to that?

Speaker 3 (20:18):
No, I just I'm not that advanced, so I just yeah,
I just ordered it.

Speaker 2 (20:24):
There milk in there. So essentially it's a milk oat milk.

Speaker 1 (20:27):
Yeah, he's milk. He's in there.

Speaker 3 (20:29):
YEA shaking up that.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Yeah. Let me tell you something. A Vietnamese coffee if
you have a place near you, if somebody has that
on the menu. I've had a Vietnamese a couple of
times in my life, up the whole day, really up
the whole day, like just staring at the ceiling at night,
being like why, making questions of why did I do

(20:55):
certain things in my life, like really just questioning everything.

Speaker 2 (20:58):
Yeah. So it's like doing a couple of key bumps.

Speaker 1 (21:00):
Yeah, and here's what I learned, because essentially, here's what
I learned. A friend of mine who's Vietnamese basically said
when she goes home to Vietnam, she's like, the coffee
is much smaller, Like it's in smaller glasses. You come
to America, the glasses are Vienti's they're massive. So all
of that is it's too much.

Speaker 2 (21:21):
It's water down.

Speaker 3 (21:22):
Yeah, yes, makes sense.

Speaker 1 (21:24):
Yes. So she's like I don't She's like, I would
never drink one here in America because again, yeah, you'd
be up if you've had one. I know you guys
know what I'm talking about if you've had it. But yes, yeah,
do you gotta try it.

Speaker 2 (21:34):
To that point, the coffee here is not the best
some of the bigger coffee shops and like the national
ones and not like quality coffee compared to other countries.
So when you come here like essentially yeah, like absolutely,
like that's what of Vietnam?

Speaker 1 (21:46):
No, I want to but anyways, okay, beyond the coffee,
So we started. We started with the coffee, we got
to the to the coke thing. And you there's something
about you that makes a man less manly if he's
just walking around with a.

Speaker 2 (21:59):
Diet coke, because it reminds me of a person who's
like a child. Like I can picture a kid who's
like twelve, like with a bottle of like diet coconuts
in like his hand. But if I see somebody here
with him, I'm like, dude, you're forty, like grow up.
It bothers me. It shouldn't, but it does.

Speaker 4 (22:14):
And then we got this talk by which is hilarious.

Speaker 9 (22:17):
I'd rather deal with somebody that drinks soda than people
that claim they're trying to be healthy by walking around
with an oversized water bottle. Like cool, dude, you're walking
around with a fricking horse.

Speaker 6 (22:28):
Stroth in a bottle form.

Speaker 9 (22:31):
And then you know it doesn't work out anyway, because
once you see him by noon, they only take two SIPs.

Speaker 2 (22:35):
Of it anyway, Like, nah, screw you live a little
have a nice soda.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
Put I honestly, he has a point. He called it
a horsetrough in bottle form. But I do see these
people out here in the streets carrying the water jugs
that are bigger than them, and I'm like, is it real?

Speaker 3 (22:51):
Is it?

Speaker 1 (22:52):
I listen, and this has come from someone who needs
to drink more water. I know that, but but.

Speaker 2 (22:57):
I think we're talking about the people who carry it
around to make a point, to make a statement. There,
he starts, So they are also the types of people
who like, will eat a salad here at work and
then then you go home and they're just burying food
and like, you know, like just be here and.

Speaker 1 (23:09):
Just be yourself, right, Yeah, now it's Santi is like
he'll judge you, and we know this about it. But
what I was gonna say is Santi also, you guys,
I'm not kidding you. When we have breakfast every morning
at eight forty five, he heats up broccoli, rice, sometimes
chicken and eggs.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
Yes, that's pretty consistent.

Speaker 4 (23:26):
And the only thing I'll say about it.

Speaker 1 (23:28):
It would annoy me if you were doing that and
then you know later I knew that you were eating
something else. But you are like a crazy person. He'll
eat like that for the remainder of the day.

Speaker 2 (23:38):
I think the difference is and we do have to
Like back in the day, I would have been the
person walking around with a bottle of water telling everybody
about what I mean and why and like all this stuff.
I just get my food, come back here and just
don't bother anything.

Speaker 3 (23:50):
That's a lie.

Speaker 2 (23:51):
Every time, no no, no.

Speaker 3 (23:53):
Yes, everytime every time I grab uh some type of
juice and this is this has been like over ten years.
You know how much sugar is juice?

Speaker 1 (24:03):
Says the Devil's work. But he does do that. You actually, yesterday,
did you notice jewels sits down? Jewels comes in here
to have breakfast with us, which I love because Foreren
never comes in here and talk to us. So Jewels
comes in here, he sits down, he's enjoying his breakfast.
It's peaceful in here. All of a sudden, Santi, how
are the Tater talks? And you know he's not asking genuinely, No,
you're not. You're making a point to say a j

(24:25):
shaking right because she knows you're making the jewels because
he got the taters.

Speaker 2 (24:30):
Tater talks look really good. But admit, if this was
me back in the Gay.

Speaker 1 (24:35):
Jewels, so Jewels does what anybody else will do? Oh
do you want one?

Speaker 2 (24:40):
Back in the day, it would have been a lot worse,
and the judgment there would have been a lecture about
what that was cooked in that defried this and what
that's gonna do to your stomach.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
I hate to do this because I know I'm going
to get snitched on and people are gonna run down
the hall and leave stupid talkbacks on kiss one to wait.
But the issue for me is the people that are
carrying around the jugs of water, their bags of boiled
chicken and all that. And then I got to hear
about it they're shoving it in your face Justin.

Speaker 2 (25:05):
From down the hall.

Speaker 1 (25:06):
It's like, what is a crazy example if Justin from
down the hall heard Joe Rogan say every morning you
have to wake up and go and sniff for ten
minutes straight and you'll get skinny. This man would wake
up every morning go and so we have to hear
about it, like he's sniffing down the hallway because Joe
Rogan told him to. And he's like, yeah, down five pounds,

(25:29):
five pounds, I'm sniffing in the morning.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
We'll do it and tell you and start to lecture you.
We're not sniffing in the morning.

Speaker 1 (25:35):
Yeah, We're not waking up and going yeah like Joe
Rogan is, and you were only sniffing in the morning.
You were doing something else. But he's the type of
like he's the health nut that isn't the annoying kind.

Speaker 4 (25:53):
Yeah, you know, which you used to be, especially when
you did CrossFit?

Speaker 2 (25:56):
Were you I was the worst person in this building.
I'm sure Pepe hated me and all this stuff, but
I acknowledge it and I understand.

Speaker 4 (26:03):
Was I horrible when I had gestational diabetes?

Speaker 2 (26:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (26:06):
You like you? You would eat and I'm like, you're
not going to go on a walk with me. Yeah,
you're not going to help your blood sugar.

Speaker 6 (26:10):
I was.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
I was old you because I understand why you were
doing You were doing it because physically you had to
do it right. The hypetestand it was hod blood.

Speaker 1 (26:22):
Telling me that my pacenta was filled with honey. Yeah.
But I know everybody has something. They have somebody in
their life is just like a health night and you
just have to hear it and you want to be like,
shut the hell up. Or you see their morning post
from the gym and you're still in bed and you
just like go die six one seven nine three one
one nine four five six one seven nine three one
one nine four five. We all we all have something. Hi, everybody,

(26:44):
good morning. It's Ashley and the Jay a morning show.
By the way. Let me let me also clarify. I
love fitness. I love working out. I try to be
healthy during the week. My body is a dumpster on
the weekend. I'm not out here. You know, if Joe
Rogan says it, I'm every morning. I'm not that crazy.
But I have my things too, so I don't I
would like to get off my high horse for a second.

(27:05):
I got a DM from a girl and she said
that she's just tired of the fasters because everybody's doing
like intermittent fasting now. I actually saw an influencer the
other day post that she eats on Monday, doesn't eat
on Tuesday, eats on Wednesday.

Speaker 4 (27:19):
Doesn't it like she skips whole days of eating.

Speaker 2 (27:21):
I know that there are scientific stuff behind it. Yeah,
so I understand that, but but like why you skip
in days? I can understand the time thing too, Like
that's where consumable you to skip an entire day.

Speaker 1 (27:31):
I know there's this whole thing out there where if
you fast for like two or three days straight, you
can kind of like cleanse the toxins in your body.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
It kind of goes beyond that. If you faster, I
think three days, you cut down your chances of getting
cancer by a lot just doing it once in your life.
Dana White did this whole thing about it, and it's
pretty impressive. Then asked the doctor friend of mine.

Speaker 1 (27:51):
Joe, ro can do it, because if Joe wrote it,
did it just probably probably hasn't eaten in a few days.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
I actually went to lunch with a dude who made
it a point to tell me that he's fasting and
he's going to go to Like, why did we have
to go to lunch? Yeah, so we're sending you drinking
coffee sat in a park bench. I mean he looks
good though.

Speaker 3 (28:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
Yeah, no, I couldn't I listen. I think I could
maybe last a day.

Speaker 2 (28:11):
Yeah. Do you remember a few years ago there was
his diet where you drink water, cayenne, pepper, and lemon
for like a week.

Speaker 3 (28:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (28:19):
I tried it for a day. I was miserable.

Speaker 1 (28:22):
They say, what the fasting? Though, I know I'm gonna
get DM from the fastest now, But they say that
once you get past the twenty four hours, you start
to see it feel some sort of like euphoria.

Speaker 2 (28:32):
Yeah. Well, because I think the scientific thing behind is
like back in the day where we all used to
hunting hunting gather you would go days without eating because
you didn't have drive throughs in all these things around you.
So your body is theoretically like can get it done.

Speaker 1 (28:46):
So if you if you do the cleanse for three
days and you don't eat, but your first meal back
is something horrible, does it negates the last three days?

Speaker 2 (28:53):
I don't think so. I think your chances of k
not getting cancer are still very slim, so it's good. Wow,
So let's just do it. Guarantee that then I'll get
the big C. Absolutely yeah.

Speaker 1 (29:02):
But also your breath, Yeah yeah, because breath just in
general in the morning, like you're sometimes when you come
in without having had your first sip of coffee.

Speaker 2 (29:11):
It's okay. Do you want me to start when you're
in my friend? Well, how do you know that? I
just because I didn't tell you what, especially in.

Speaker 6 (29:19):
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Speaker 1 (29:31):
Five Tuesday, May twentieth, and we got an official statement
from Joey b. He released it on social media yesterday
just after we found out that he has an aggressive
form of prostate cancer. He said, cancer touches us all.
Like so many of you, Jill and I have learned
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(29:51):
you for lifting us up with love and support. Remember,
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options for a prostate cancer that has fantastasized to the bone.

Speaker 2 (30:02):
I mean, he's former president, so he'll get the best
treatment that's out there.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
Yeah, you know what's wild. We when we talked about
this yesterday, and I just said, really, politically, at the
end of the day, no matter what side you're on, like,
he's a dad, he's a grandpa, he's you know, he's
family to somebody.

Speaker 4 (30:18):
So you know, you never wish this upon anybody. Not
in our talkbacks.

Speaker 1 (30:21):
No, the talkbacks were crazy, and I hope nobody thought
I was actually gonna play those.

Speaker 4 (30:27):
But uh yeah, there's a lot of people who who
who Yeah, don't feel bad.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
Those are the same people that would get upset if
you said that for the opposing side, which is.

Speaker 1 (30:35):
For sure yep, yep.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
Let's take up let's take away the fact that he
was president and all that stuff. This is an old man, like.

Speaker 1 (30:41):
I said, this is this is pop up to somebody,
and it's just people are weird, dude, there were you.
You can hate everything he's done politically, you can hate
what he had done for the country and stuff. But yeah, yeah,
I just I mean again, towards the end of his term,
I was worried about he didn't know where he was.

Speaker 2 (30:58):
I'm pretty sure his entire staff was feeling the same
thing to.

Speaker 1 (31:01):
One hundred percent. All right, off to dead and we go.
By the way, Erica, if you're listening, Erica calls us
a lot. She is, you know, kind of the lead
woman outside of dead Um, kind of leading the free
Karen Reid movement. There.

Speaker 4 (31:16):
Those people have been moved multiple times.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
They're not allowed to hold signs up anymore, they're not
allowed to wear pink, and they are also not allowed
to wear any shirts with anything in reference to the case.
I am being told by listeners that Erica got arrested
yesterday for wearing some sort of shirt that had something
to do with the with the Karen Reid and Free
Karen Reid movement. So, Erica, if you're still not in

(31:39):
the clink, do call me because I want to know
what happened.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
It doesn't make any sense you can arrest somebody on
base off what they're wearing.

Speaker 1 (31:48):
I think if you're what you're wearing, if you're past
the perimeters of the guidelines of where you're supposed to
because remember they don't want them in earshot of the
jury because during trial one they were out there chanting
and the jury could hear them act like it's trespassing.
Maybe we're gonna find out. I'm assuming she'll call us
at some point, But all right, let's head into court
Week five for Karen Reid. Defense attorney Robert Alessie was

(32:12):
putting on a show yesterday during his cross examination of
aperture expert Shannon Burgess. I have thought all morning. I
didn't even do this in the first news because I
was really trying to think of what is the easiest
way to explain to you guys who Shannon Burgess is
and why he's so important and why we had Nick
on yesterday to even chat about it. But the best
way I can explain it to you is Shannon Burgess's

(32:35):
job for the prosecution was to tell everybody, Hey, here
is the time in which we got it off of
the computer in Karen Reid's lexus, that she reversed the
car and did a three point turn. That reversal and
that three point turn from taking the video of that

(32:55):
from the computer. Okay, so hard to do, but in
layman's terms, it's very hard to do. But essentially what
he was trying to prove is, hey, once I got
the videos and all of the information from John O'Keeffe's phone.
I was able to take the info from inside the Lexus,

(33:16):
team them up, make sure they're synonymous. And that is
how I am on this stand proving to you that
Karen Reid backed that car up after John O'Keeffe used
his phone for the last time, because essentially that's what
the prosecute. The prosecution is trying to prove to us.
The last time John used his phone, he used the

(33:37):
facial id recognition, he locked his phone, that is when
Karen hit him. And so Shannon Burgess is up there
being like, that's actually true. Because I have this scientific
theory that I can take John O'Keeffe's phone link it
up with the data from the Lexus, which, by the way,
we didn't have in trial one because somebody there was
an error and we didn't get it off the chip
or somebody didn't do it the right thing with the chip.

(33:58):
Now that I have it, I can prove that he
locked his phone with his face and then she backed
up into him.

Speaker 2 (34:05):
Because technically both the vehicle and the phone are on
the same timestamp right.

Speaker 1 (34:09):
Exactly once they took both of the things, he was
able to sync them now. Again, he was on the
stand all day yesterday, and that is me just trying
to dumb it down as much as possible. There's probably
some technological things that I'm missing here, but that's the
best way I can explain who Shannon Burgess is and
why the prosecution called him and why he was so

(34:30):
important yesterday.

Speaker 4 (34:31):
But I say that Robert A.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
LESSI put on a show because the cross examination got
a little nuts.

Speaker 10 (34:37):
If I did the math correctly, Sir, you've been pursuing
a Bachelor of Science degree for seventeen years.

Speaker 2 (34:43):
Correct.

Speaker 10 (34:44):
That is correct, and you have not obtained it as
you sit here today.

Speaker 5 (34:48):
That is correct.

Speaker 10 (34:49):
And yet there are the various documents that we've seen
that state did you have obtained the Bachelor of Science?

Speaker 6 (34:55):
Correct?

Speaker 5 (34:55):
Again, with errors or misinterpretation?

Speaker 10 (34:58):
Yes, airs are mister interpretation. That are you stating? But
you would agree those errors or misinterpretation have been in
existence for some time?

Speaker 6 (35:07):
Correct?

Speaker 5 (35:08):
Yes, I'm yes, I'm being made aware of them now, yes.

Speaker 10 (35:10):
Yeah, and they haven't been corrected for some time.

Speaker 3 (35:12):
Correct.

Speaker 5 (35:13):
Correct you work for insurance companies? Correct? I do work
for insurance companies in addition to law firms.

Speaker 10 (35:22):
Yes, but you work for insurance companies?

Speaker 5 (35:24):
Correct, yes, sometimes yes, well you.

Speaker 10 (35:27):
State that right in your report in this case, don't you, sir,
that you work for insurance companies?

Speaker 5 (35:31):
Get again, I do work for insurance companies.

Speaker 1 (35:33):
Yes, Robert Alessi pulled out the DJ jewles. He said, well,
wait a second. If you're on here lying about your degree,
what else are.

Speaker 3 (35:41):
You a lying about the issue?

Speaker 1 (35:43):
Right, he has a bachelor's degree, but not what it
says on his either linked like they had a couple
profiles of him, and on certain profiles there was misinformation.
Now everybody, well it's a play. You could google me
and you right now and are at worth and it's
like not accurate.

Speaker 4 (36:03):
So I don't know where they're getting these sources from.

Speaker 2 (36:05):
Yeah, there are people out there clearly make stuff up,
and you know, yeah, but to be at this level
and you can't lie on anything you've done in the
past because you could get called to stand at some point,
right and listen.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
Just because either there was a there was a mistake
with his LinkedIn or just because doesn't mean that his
theory and the way he did this with the two
videos isn't correct. But he's in a build out poking holes.
Robert Leslie put on a show yesterday and he's not done,
and it was I watched a good chunk of it.

(36:38):
And Shannon Burgess when he started and he was with
Hank Brennan relaxed, very poised. You know, I can prove
this without any reasonable doubt. I can prove this scientifically
one percent. As Robert A. LESSI started chip chip chipping
away his face, he started to get really read. He
started to get very uncomfortable. Yeah, I mean, listen to the

(37:00):
prosecution is is they have a good what you would
think theory with this, but the defense is like, give
me a second.

Speaker 2 (37:09):
So does he have his Bachelor of Science because he
does not.

Speaker 1 (37:12):
He has a Bachelor of something else.

Speaker 2 (37:17):
This type of job.

Speaker 1 (37:18):
And he's literally a forensic expert, so he obviously like
he worked, like he said, he has worked with insurance
companies before. He has, you know, worked with and I
believe in court cases before. Uh but yeah, I mean,
Robert A. LESSI was like, hold on in a second,
you're an expert, but you're lying about where you guy.

Speaker 4 (37:34):
It's it's just again.

Speaker 1 (37:36):
All to prove a little bit of reasonable doubt to
the jury because and I thought it was great because
he was very assertive when he was going over I
use this, I use this, I use that. I can
tell you. He also, at a couple points during it,
referred to John O'Keefe's death as a homicide. And UNLESSI
brought that up, you can't be referring to this as

(37:57):
a homicide. You don't know. He also, UNLESSI further went
on to accuse him of operating under the assumption that
Karen had one hundred percent backed into John o'keef, without
being like, Okay, well, let me see once I get
all the parts of this, let me see like he
had kind of already made an assumption on it.

Speaker 2 (38:15):
This case is crazy, it's.

Speaker 1 (38:16):
Nuts, and I believe Shannon Burgers will be back up
on the stand today. Nick Rocko was in court, so
I'm sure he'll have even more of an inside look
at that for us. All right, Lassie, very quickly, Megan
thee Stallion is sick of it. She is sick of it,
and I cannot say I blame her. Just a week
after Tory Lanez was almost killed in jail, new evidence.

Speaker 4 (38:39):
In his trial, which by the way, there is no trial.

Speaker 1 (38:41):
It's done. He got found guilty, but new evidence has
been introduced by Tory's lawyers to say that he did
not shoot Megan thee Stallion. In fact, her best friend
Kelsey at the time, is the one who shot her.
She went on TikTok. By the way, I also thought
that was weird. She wrote it on TikTok.

Speaker 2 (38:58):
Think you should put something up on you Instagram, not TikTok.

Speaker 1 (39:01):
She said, at what point are y'all going to stop
making me relive being shot by Tory? At what point
are Tory and y'all fans going to stop lying? How
much is the check to keep on harassing me? Why
is this happening every single day? One minute y'all said
I was never shot by him, And now y'all letting
him play you in your face again and say I

(39:21):
was shot but it wasn't by him. Oh okay, facts
or facts, he did it. It was proven in court
Tory shot me. Ain't no new evidence. Y'all been saying
the same stuff for years in all caps, Tory, please
leave me alone. You're an effing demon. Then she also
went on to say I'm off of this internet stuff
leading me to believe she might do.

Speaker 4 (39:42):
The thing again where she goes off the internet.

Speaker 1 (39:43):
But she did just announce a bathing suit line with Walmart,
So I don't know if she can.

Speaker 3 (39:49):
But that's not why Tory went to jail. He didn't
go to Joe for shooting her. He went to Joe
for holding a gun.

Speaker 4 (39:56):
But yeah, but they it was believed that he was
the one who held the gun and shot her.

Speaker 3 (40:01):
Yeah, but that's but but that's not why he went
to jail. He went to Joe for holding the gun.
It was for wielding a firearm.

Speaker 1 (40:09):
I don't know. I can't.

Speaker 4 (40:10):
I don't know that to be true. He got ten
years for holding it.

Speaker 3 (40:14):
I think he's a felon.

Speaker 1 (40:15):
Okay, so he already had priors than this, And then's
what because you I don't think you would get ten
for that. But yeah, I don't know. I honestly don't know.
I think to where he shot her in the foot,
I do.

Speaker 3 (40:27):
Not buying it.

Speaker 2 (40:28):
Regardless, regardless, she does this thing where she posts like
every time something comes out against her, so every time
people say things, she responds she needs to stop doing that.
She always says she's gonna come off the Graham and
all that stuff, but she always goes back to Hime,
I know, stop doing that, but I also feel so bad.
I feel bad too. But again, this is the reaction
that they're trying to.

Speaker 1 (40:46):
Get constantly being caught a liar, and imagine she's like
living this truth of where she's like.

Speaker 4 (40:50):
No, I saw him. I don't know either way.

Speaker 1 (40:54):
Meg has always painted it as the villain in this,
So we shall see what ends up happening. There's three
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(41:36):
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or really the lack thereof. So it always seems anonymous,
good morning.

Speaker 5 (42:06):
Good morning, listen, tough go for.

Speaker 1 (42:10):
You right now. You and your boyfriend just broke up
after four years. Yes, that's a long time, babe. How
are you holding up.

Speaker 11 (42:21):
Fine?

Speaker 1 (42:22):
Oh what did he do?

Speaker 12 (42:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (42:26):
Well, I was the one that had messaged you about
him and Mother's Day and how the two year old
was supposed to get a gift because I'm his mom
and not the boyfriend's mom.

Speaker 4 (42:40):
So yeah, you know what it's all kind of ringing about.

Speaker 1 (42:43):
And we actually talked about you on DM Dilemma, but
at that time you weren't comfortable enough to come on right.

Speaker 12 (42:49):
Yeah, and I was trying to get to word. It
was a crazy morning.

Speaker 1 (42:52):
Yes, no, guys, that's totally fine. So give everybody just
so for people that are listening, just a little bit background.

Speaker 12 (43:04):
So of the breakup of how it went.

Speaker 1 (43:07):
Or just like your guys relationship and why you would
hit me up initially and then what happened.

Speaker 8 (43:13):
So I hit you up initially because I didn't.

Speaker 12 (43:16):
I kind of was looking for confirmation, like if I
was crazy for you know, feeling bad that he didn't
want to get me a gift because of his mom
passing and YadA, YadA, YadA, and.

Speaker 1 (43:27):
Correct me if I'm wrong. He kind of was just like,
I don't like Mother's Day. My mom passed. Also, you're
not my mom, so I'm not going to get you again.
Here you're the mother of our child, but you're not
my mom. Okay, yeah, it's it's ringing a bell.

Speaker 11 (43:37):
Yes.

Speaker 12 (43:38):
And so all he did was the day before Mother's
Day gave me, like, you know, some money towards the pedicure,
and that was it. Didn't hear from him the day
of Mother's Day at all.

Speaker 1 (43:50):
You didn't hear from the father of your child. Where
was he do you guys live together.

Speaker 12 (43:56):
No, we don't.

Speaker 1 (43:58):
All right, there's a lot of things. Yeah, okay, so
you did you end up? Did you end up breaking
up with him?

Speaker 12 (44:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (44:04):
I did.

Speaker 12 (44:05):
And his reaction was you're breaking up with me, which
was crazy.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
Oh he was mad that he didn't.

Speaker 2 (44:11):
Yeah, he didn't do.

Speaker 12 (44:14):
Big time mad And I mean, but it is what
it is. I feel fine, I'm I'm fine. I'm ready
for hot girl commer.

Speaker 1 (44:21):
Oh okay, well, Megan Istallion just dropped a hawkerel line.

Speaker 4 (44:25):
Of bikinis at the Walmart.

Speaker 1 (44:27):
So you're you're on the up and up.

Speaker 6 (44:29):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Do you feel like he'll be able to stay in
the kid's life or do you think he'll probably fight
that too?

Speaker 12 (44:35):
Oh no, no, no, no, no, absolutely, like everything will be
the same, which is why I say, like, I feel fine,
it's not going to make a big difference.

Speaker 3 (44:43):
Good my life.

Speaker 1 (44:44):
Yeah, I even I remember when you and I were
kind of going back and forth. I feel like he
there was something going on with him. So I certainly
think you made the best decision. And you'll find somebody
who you know gives you a gift on Mother's Day
as you are an amazing mom, So thank you. So
much for updates us. This this is the update I want.
Thank you, all right, Bet, because how many times on

(45:05):
do we get these DM dilemmas either A we don't
get a follow up or B we're like you have
to leave he's cheating, he's doing this or what and
they never.

Speaker 2 (45:13):
Do no because they want us to go him. The
other answer of like stay with him, KEVINM another chance?
Yeah they want to do.

Speaker 1 (45:19):
Yeah, all right, we have another call, similar situation.

Speaker 4 (45:23):
Did you recently just go through a breakup as well?

Speaker 8 (45:27):
I did? I was in a five year relationship, two
kids involved.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
Five years, two kids involved. What happened? What was the
what was the last straw? Well?

Speaker 12 (45:40):
I think for the longest time we were like our
goals weren't aligned and we weren't on the same page.

Speaker 8 (45:47):
So we came to a conclue. We kind of like
just came to an agreement that like it's best for
us to go our separate ways so we don't hurt
like the children.

Speaker 12 (45:54):
There was a lot of back and forth.

Speaker 13 (45:57):
We didn't live.

Speaker 8 (45:57):
Together, like I just felt like we weren't growing together.

Speaker 1 (46:01):
So well, it sounds like it was as far as
breakups go, semi healthy.

Speaker 12 (46:07):
You know, yeah, it was pretty healthy. I just feel like,
you know, ending a healthy relationship is worse than a
toxic one.

Speaker 1 (46:13):
That's true. Yeah, I could. I can imagine that would
be harder. And you guys have how many kids together?

Speaker 8 (46:19):
Well, we don't have any kids together, but he has
a child, and then I do as well.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
Okay, all right, Well, you know it's summertime, is coming
warm weather? Being single in.

Speaker 4 (46:30):
The warm weather's better.

Speaker 1 (46:32):
Than being single in the cold cold weather. I'll ask agent,
all right, babe, godspeed, do you have a preference being
single in the cold or in the warm weather? Summer
is better? They have everybody, If that's just it, it's
better to be single in the summer. Six one seven
nine three one six one seven nine three one five.

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We're talking dating, love relationships or I guess breakups today
it is beyond the swipe only on GM ninety four
five the morning never change. Hi, everybody, Good morning. It's
actually in the January soo. By the way, I'm I'm trying
to do God's work on the other end of this.
And get Erica, who was arrested outside of the courtroom
in debtam with the Free Karen readers to come on

(47:14):
at eight thirty and kick off the check in. She's out.
She's not in prison anymore.

Speaker 4 (47:19):
She's out. So I will do my best to get
that done.

Speaker 1 (47:22):
In the meantime, we're talking dating, love relationships, or just
breakups today, So it seems anonymous you and you're I'm
gonna go ahead and say new boo because you guys
have been dating for four months now, how's everything going.

Speaker 13 (47:37):
So everything has been fine since the beginning. It's just
like we've hit that plot coau in our relationship and
like we did like the whole I have a son
and I'm a single mom, so it's kind of hard
for me to get out to that date night. So
like he's met my son and everything, but it's just
like we shit a flat line. I'll kind of talk
to him and he'll like simpletely just stare at me,
not say anything. Or I'll be like, oh, this is

(47:57):
making me uncomfortable, and I'm like, because I asked you,
like what your love language is, and like what do
you want to do for dinner? I don't I'm not
getting it.

Speaker 1 (48:05):
So all right, let's backtrack a little bit because there
are people listening that are gonna be like, you've only
been dating somebody for four months and you've introduced them
to your kid. What made you feel comfortable enough.

Speaker 4 (48:16):
To do that? Because that is that is pretty early on,
you know.

Speaker 13 (48:20):
So we've talked for a while through like virtual we
bet on Facebook dating. We've talked for almost a year
before we actually like started hanging out, like getting into
it more, but like trying to make plans of the
single mom, I don't have the support system that I
need to be like yeah, yeah, So it's just like
it was just easy to bring him, so my son

(48:41):
would just be like hanging out with us, but then
we'd have our time by ourself when my son went
to sleep.

Speaker 1 (48:46):
How how old is your son?

Speaker 13 (48:49):
Hit three?

Speaker 1 (48:51):
Yeah, that's tough, And I get what you're saying because
you don't have the help and so then you would
have to literally put your whole love life on the
back burner until maybe you know, and there's nobody you know,
well whatever, that's separate conversation because I was gonna ask
about a babysitter and all that. Listen, you know what's
funny you saying that he felt weird about the conversation.

(49:11):
I feel like if I was dating somebody this like
early on three four months and they started asking me
what's my love language. I might feel weird about that too,
because I'm not big into that whole Like, well, that's.

Speaker 13 (49:23):
The crazy thing. That's why I assumed at first. But
we've talked about like everything under the sun, like wanting
another kids, marriage, the whole night. Yo, she has a
seven year old Yeah, he has a seven year old son,
and like he's worried that his baby mom was gonna
taken the court for childcare. Tostly because I'm now is
a picture and it's like, well, how for three months
did you basically like you were super good to me

(49:45):
and now you're just like staring at ty pole.

Speaker 1 (49:47):
So first off, that makes me so uncomforty for you.
By the way, if you guys are talking marriage and
kids and all that stuff, like he needs to grow up,
But did anything else happen? You guys have been dating
for four months? Have you had a fight, a disagreement
and argument?

Speaker 13 (50:00):
Nothing? Nothing, That's the thing. Everything's been perfect until now.

Speaker 2 (50:04):
But you really don't know him because you talked with
them for a year, didn't really hang out with them,
So in theory, you've only been for four months.

Speaker 13 (50:10):
We grew up in we live in the same town.
Like we live in the same town. Like it's pretty
He's eight years older than me, but he's like his
baby mama is friends with my friends. So we're like associated.
We know of each other.

Speaker 2 (50:22):
Yeah, but you really don't know him and what he's
doing all the time.

Speaker 13 (50:27):
We always just talk.

Speaker 1 (50:28):
That's it.

Speaker 13 (50:28):
Like we have conversations.

Speaker 2 (50:30):
We have these.

Speaker 13 (50:30):
Conversations, but it's like sometimes I'll ask the questions and
he just won't answer. But if he starts the conversation
to talk for hours.

Speaker 1 (50:37):
So the last time you guys hung out was one
days ago, and in that conversation is when you said
to him, what do you want to have for dinner?

Speaker 4 (50:45):
What's your love language? And he literally said zero.

Speaker 13 (50:47):
Words, yeah, nothing, just stared at me.

Speaker 1 (50:51):
So that did you say hello?

Speaker 8 (50:52):
Hello?

Speaker 13 (50:53):
I was like hello, excuse me? Like, yeah, I don't.
I was like, the question is not uncomfortable, So I
don't understand why you're not giving me an answer, And
what do you say? Nothing? He just said at me.

Speaker 1 (51:04):
So did you guys then not speak for the remainder
of the evening?

Speaker 13 (51:08):
Yeah, we just like cuddled.

Speaker 1 (51:12):
Something feels off. Jules you're a single man, you're out there.
What is this like you hear this whole scenario? What
is this giving to you? Buns can say it in
a normal way.

Speaker 3 (51:24):
She needs to hear the truth, especially because it's only
been four months, Like.

Speaker 1 (51:27):
Okay, but normally he's just probably maybe he is he
just in it for sex? Dide you ever get that
feeling or Buns.

Speaker 13 (51:35):
That's that's what I've That's what I've never thought because
like he's been single for four years before he was
oh wow, ok yeah, Like he's been involved in his business,
trying to make money the whole nine yards and he
has a son, so like it's it's understandable. But it's
like we the first couple of months it was amazing.
Now it's like we've hit that like plateau in the relationship.

Speaker 1 (51:54):
Could we could we even shoot him a text? Maybe
he feels felt weird in person, but could we shoot
him a text just be like hey I felt okay?
Like hey I felt weird the other night, like is
everything okay? And you got nadaut Like.

Speaker 13 (52:07):
I said, I was like, how do we how do
we make this work? Because it's just not it for me,
it's not working that they're not clicking, you don't respond
to me, and he just didn't answer.

Speaker 3 (52:15):
So do you think the love language like like sometimes
people don't understand what that is, right? And he heard
love and shut.

Speaker 13 (52:22):
Down questions that I asked. Yeah, he's that's like do
physical touch like like love affection? Like would just give
me something? And he doesn't. He just doesn't answer. He
doesn't even say like, oh, I don't know, it's just
he's fare at me.

Speaker 2 (52:37):
Do you think there's potentially some other person he's involved
with too?

Speaker 13 (52:41):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (52:42):
That's the hard part of the seventh.

Speaker 1 (52:45):
I always ask people this, So there's seven nights of
the week, how many are you guys hanging out?

Speaker 13 (52:51):
Well, my son probably not that much, but usually like
we have think nights once a week. Yeah, but said
he has his son, he has his on the other night.

Speaker 1 (53:01):
Have you met his son?

Speaker 13 (53:02):
Like, no, hist his baby.

Speaker 1 (53:05):
Moment's crazy for me to so, yeah, so he's met
your child you haven't met Yeah, To be honest, I
know it's this just doesn't wait what this sounds.

Speaker 4 (53:16):
I was just gonna say, this doesn't sound normal to me.
This sounds strange.

Speaker 1 (53:18):
But we have somebody else on hold that's saying her
man does the same thing. Don't go anywhere. God, I know,
I know, so don't go anywhere, but you have the radio, ops,
So listen to what she has to say. What do
you mean your man does the same thing?

Speaker 8 (53:31):
Okay? So, like not with every question, but so sometimes
he'll just like blank out and not answer me and
just look at me when I'll ask him a question
of something, and I'm like, hello, yeah, if anybody look
at me and put his head down, yes, okay. But
I've been with him for twelve thirteen years now, but
finally he'll let me know, like I'm like, why do

(53:53):
you do that? Like, when you you know what I'm saying,
why do you just blank out like that? I hate
that about you? If there's only one thing I hate
about you, is that, why do you do that? And
once he finally told me a couple of years ago,
and he said, because if I don't want to answer you,
I don't have to, like I don't want to answer
that question. And I'm like that corny, Yeah, so corny.

(54:13):
But I'm thinking that that's what this guy she's dealing
with is like the same way. I'm not sure, but
that's what I'm getting.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
Yeah, just for clarity, what's your man's first name so
we can make sure there's no cross over here because
this sounds strange.

Speaker 8 (54:28):
No, we're anonymous right now, her man.

Speaker 1 (54:32):
Okay, let me go back to her. Yeah, okay, wait, wait,
wait about this? How about this? What letter does it
start with V?

Speaker 3 (54:40):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (54:41):
Okakay, So don't go anywhere. Please tell me this man's
name is and start with a V as in Victor.

Speaker 13 (54:47):
No, no, no.

Speaker 1 (54:48):
Because can you okay?

Speaker 3 (54:51):
Can you?

Speaker 1 (54:52):
Is that enough for you? Because I don't want to answer,
so I'm not Could you live your life like that
with this?

Speaker 13 (54:57):
I don't know, but that's like okay, Like she's been
her man for twelve fifteen years, Like did it start off?

Speaker 1 (55:03):
Like?

Speaker 2 (55:03):
Was it always like that?

Speaker 13 (55:04):
And then she was like, okay, let me just get.

Speaker 1 (55:06):
Used to it. And that's why I'm not getting used
to that, why I'm all set. Yeah, and listen, honestly, anonymous,
you're early enough into this where I think you could
cut ties and be Okay.

Speaker 4 (55:16):
She's twelve fifteen years deep in this. I think it's
a little different.

Speaker 1 (55:19):
I mean, she's kind of you know, that's probably the
love of her life, and they figured it out. You've
been with this man for four months. I mean, I
think that's nobody wants to sit there and have a
conversation with themselves.

Speaker 4 (55:31):
Yeah, no, you can't.

Speaker 1 (55:33):
I also anonymous want you somehow, some way you're gonna
dump this guy, and then your goal for the next
few months is to find yourself a good babysitter.

Speaker 4 (55:41):
Okay, that's that's your goal. We're going to work on that.

Speaker 13 (55:43):
I mean, I did just graduate with my masters, so
I'm just holding for a career.

Speaker 1 (55:48):
Perfect, Okay, fine, let's concentrate on our career. I like
that too.

Speaker 4 (55:52):
All right, Yeah, I think it's time to cut ties,
unless son, you want.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
To fight, I don't know, dump them. Yeah, let him go,
let him go. And besides, he has messy baby mam
and drama and we don't want that either.

Speaker 13 (56:02):
Yeah, okay, okay.

Speaker 1 (56:03):
All right, babe, good luck, keep us posted, Thank you,
thank you.

Speaker 3 (56:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (56:08):
No.

Speaker 1 (56:09):
By the way, imagine you go home and you say
a question to Joanne and she just doesn't answer, Like
what kind of disrespect is that?

Speaker 2 (56:17):
Especially when it's like, what do you want for dinner?
Like it's something as simple as that. He's on answering.

Speaker 3 (56:20):
That's crazy, right.

Speaker 1 (56:22):
I ask a question to the fireman and he's like, hey,
I I really don't want to answer because I don't
think you're going to like my answer. I think that's
a little bit different. But to just stare in your
soul when I say do you want McDonald or Taco
Bell and you can't answer the question is just like
last night. I think it was seven thirty PM and
I asked the fireman to go to Dairy Queen and

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he did an answer, And I think that was more
for me than for him.

Speaker 2 (56:47):
He was protecting me.

Speaker 1 (56:48):
He was helping for my addiction.

Speaker 4 (56:50):
Okay, that's actually that's actually a good fan right there.