Save Britney pt. 1

Is Brtiney Spears Ok??

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake up, wake yo, wake up.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hi everybody. It's pulling out of my house this morning.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
And you know, I want to say that I was
being attentive to the roads and really paying attention, but
you know.

Speaker 4 (00:24):
It's very early in the morning.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
I'm getting situated in the car, getting my drink ready,
and I look up and there's just.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Three deer staring me down.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
That's like, where do where do you think you're There's
something about seeing the deer that immediately makes my butthole
get tight.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
I don't know, I get sort of nervous.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Yeah. Well, I also feel like I hear these horror
stories about how they just demolish people's cars.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah, but that happens on the highway though, Yea, you
hit them?

Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah, I mean I want to believe I wasn't going
highway speed in the neighborhood, but I was going I
was whipping huh.

Speaker 5 (01:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
I usually cruise up out of there. I'm the only
car that's leaving at that time. But yeah, every time
I see them, I'm like, I just feel like I'm
in their.

Speaker 6 (01:11):
Definitely, definitely, the thing did in the headlights is definitely
a real thing.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
They like, flease up.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
I don't know what they look at free they they
probably can't see us right headlights, Like what are those things?

Speaker 2 (01:21):
Exceptually? Like what they are? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:24):
And then and it just made me feel like I
was ruining whenever they they had going on.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
They're in the street right.

Speaker 6 (01:31):
There in our neighborhood. When you're on the lawn. We
could talk about it. When you're on the pavement.

Speaker 2 (01:38):
Now, should have pressed the gas? Did me hit one?
I had some delicious.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Venison, right, yeah, I have had it in Colorado.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
It wasn't bad.

Speaker 4 (01:50):
Peta is going to lose their mind right now?

Speaker 2 (01:53):
Okay, Peter can't be upset the standing in the middle
of the road like like what do they want?

Speaker 3 (01:57):
Well, I would never hit them on purpose, Like you're
the type of person that has killed bunnies squirrels.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
On purpose, Like I'm a killer now, No, I know,
not on purpose, but you ran them over and you
don't care.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
You're like, oh, there's Peter Cottontale dead onto the next
What am I going to do? No, it would mess
me up. The bird once. I wasn't right for a
week with the rabbit.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
It probably happens is at least like once a month
where there's a dead rabbit around, or like two months
ago my dog killed two baby bunnies and I have
video on like the ring. There so many rabbits around
dog dog world. It really is.

Speaker 4 (02:37):
It's not nature though, for Santy to run them over.
Just look, open up your eyes, take.

Speaker 2 (02:42):
A piece of definitely stares into them. No, I don't.

Speaker 7 (02:46):
They run by the driveway and then I just fe
a little bump. Yeah, I'm like, oh, there's another one.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
But then then there's bunny on the Porsche wheels and
I don't think those are cheap.

Speaker 2 (02:56):
No, those are tires are not cheap over.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
No, I really have heard horror stories about people driving
hitting deers and the deers like legitimately total their car.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
And who picks those deers up?

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Like there's been a dead raccoon out here in Medford,
like laying on the ground. He looks asleep, but he's
dead and he's it's been four days in this man,
he's just out here.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
I'm like, who's coming again? The city's supposed to come
straight that up?

Speaker 7 (03:23):
Yeah, and then the Highway department does too, like off
the you know, but some some of those deers too,
they get demolished. So whoever has to go and pick
all that stuff up, like that's a tough job to do.
I would like carcasses.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
I would not be the same. I would in turn
of ours. One time hit a deer demolish or car.
It was like so bad she hit it like full
on on, like the highway.

Speaker 3 (03:44):
Yeah, they like, and you're going seventy Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
She was solid.

Speaker 6 (03:50):
You know, these are these are solid animals like bones, muscle,
like they're solid. So you hit one of them and
you're going that fast. Just physics alone is going just
I would be.

Speaker 2 (04:01):
It's not. I have never seen them flying in the air.

Speaker 7 (04:04):
I've seen that before. Yo, it's wild.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
Smile. I'm not even smiling, bro, No, he's not.

Speaker 7 (04:12):
Yeah, seriously, he's not funny about it because they like
it's like really they kind of understand what happened. So
they're just in shock and they're flying through the air.

Speaker 6 (04:23):
And they're in pain, been knocked out for show because
they limp, just just holves just flying.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
But that's another thing.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
Have you ever seen the videos where they're lying in
the air and they land and they just go and
they don't land.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
On all four they flop, but then they just But.

Speaker 7 (04:40):
What you don't see is them in the woods just
collapse and die because they're a.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
Dreasing so far.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
We got an email from Peter because of this attitude.
I know what he's it's not.

Speaker 2 (04:50):
It's not that funny though. It's not what you've seen it.

Speaker 7 (04:55):
It's funny to see it flying through their like like
a helicopter. Yeah, just spinning and then get up into
the right.

Speaker 6 (05:00):
And then now he's talking about his facts. I'm sorry, Peter,
these are facts. Yeah, they don't. They don't stiffen up
and then just collapse.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
They dr came back, had no idea. We had beef
with Peter.

Speaker 7 (05:15):
I don't know if you saw this there, but this
but this is sad though. But like all the street
dogs on the highways. One time we've counted it was
like twenty something. It's I didn't say any dead ones. No, no, no,
I didn't say any dead ones. That's a ton of
them outside.

Speaker 4 (05:28):
But that's not funny because they're.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
Because dogs have souls. I don't think deers do.

Speaker 7 (05:32):
Yes, you can hunt a deer, and like, right, you
can't hunt dogs, right.

Speaker 6 (05:38):
You couldn't, thank you. Yeah, but just because you can
hunt them don't mean they got souls. They got families.

Speaker 3 (05:44):
Bro they do and that's today.

Speaker 8 (05:48):
There was a family out there they made a film
off of They just don't come home. Dear parents get
like getting killed and it was a smash hit. So
Bambi maybe's mom died killed.

Speaker 2 (05:59):
That was tough.

Speaker 3 (06:00):
So yeah, you know, that's like a thing about Disney World,
like there's always a.

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Yeah, all of them if you look back and do them.

Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (06:06):
Anyways, well this is pretty sad anything.

Speaker 6 (06:08):
To you speaking of killing many Now, y'all gats me up.
I want to watch weapons. No movie, it's not. It's
not as horror flicky as I thought it was gonna be.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
So I read that there's a there's a villain like
this woman that looks creep. Yeah. I don't know if
y'are y'all gonna watch it something.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
I do plan on it, all right, especially if you're
saying it's not as horror, it's.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
Not as it's not it's it's thriller.

Speaker 6 (06:33):
I mean, they do little scenes to make it look
super like scary and hard, but it's more so if
the concept of the movie is more like a thriller,
it's more like a psychological thing going on in the
city where this woman comes into town and she's she
has a family there, and she uses basically voodoo to
to kind of get her way because she she needs
to feed off. She basically needs to feed off of
human beings. And she finds out that she can't feed

(06:55):
off a family because they're too old, so she goes
for the young kids, and that's how the young kids disappear.

Speaker 2 (06:59):
But the ending, she's eating them. No, no, no, she
doesn't eat anybody.

Speaker 6 (07:03):
She can make so she can make She could take
a strand of your hair, put it on a stick,
get a little bit of her blood, get a bowl
of water, and she can make you do whatever she
wants you to do. That's the reason why they become weapons,
because she can just crack a stick and be like,
go attack this one, Go, get this one, go, slap
this one.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
Go.

Speaker 4 (07:19):
She's creepy looking.

Speaker 2 (07:19):
To us, she's creepy looking. She looks like a clown.
Yeah she does.

Speaker 6 (07:23):
Yeah, she's wild. But the movie's dope. The movie's super fire.
The ending or the payoff at the end is that's
what I was going to ask you this off at
the end of it.

Speaker 3 (07:32):
Once it got to like Saw seventy five, I was
like the ends of these is just so stupid. Like
the Terrifier, they say, there's no plot in that thing.
He just kills for no reason.

Speaker 6 (07:41):
Yeah, now this one, this one, and then what they
do They show you perspective of each person that's involved, right,
and how they end up to be in the scenes
that they end up being.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
It's dope.

Speaker 6 (07:49):
It's dope again, I though sometimes I laughed because, like
the dad was having a nightmare about his missing son and.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
Then he woke up and arras and he.

Speaker 6 (07:56):
Woke up like what the like he was frustrated, So
that was funny. I was like, that's that's kind of
comedy to me. So it's dope, though, go watch it.
Definitely worth the whatever Rotten Tomatoes giving it.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
It Is it your favorite, like scary one that you've seen?
What do you are you you're not putting Terrifier?

Speaker 6 (08:13):
No, Terrified was just gore for no reason. No, I
don't even know what I would put as my favorite.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
What movie that you saw scared you the most I
got to think about of all time?

Speaker 7 (08:23):
Yeah, the Exorcist was really different because when God involved,
I don't.

Speaker 6 (08:29):
A couple that goes around no, no, no, what's that one?
The couple and they about to drop another movie again.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
The couple.

Speaker 6 (08:35):
It's a couple of a priest and the wife and
they go around and they're trying to like conjuring.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
I like the conjuring.

Speaker 4 (08:43):
Yeah, I don't like watching stuff like that.

Speaker 7 (08:45):
The conjuring was cool, especially when it's God based the church.
Just like you almost like already said this.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
It's a practical magic, all right, stop killing animals and
watch practical magic hocus Pocus.

Speaker 1 (09:00):
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Speaker 9 (09:04):
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Speaker 4 (09:12):
Five Here we are.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
Tuesday, August nineteenth, and let's start out with the Kennemine Queen.

Speaker 3 (09:19):
If you're thinking to yourself, I kind of heard that before.
Who's the Kennemine Queen. She is one of the drug
dealers that was mentioned in the death of friend star
Matthew Perry. She's the last one in that group of five,
and it was announced that her real name, Jasbine Sanjas,

(09:40):
agreed to plead guilty to five federal criminal charges, including
the big one. She provided the kennemine that ultimately resulted
in his overdose in October of twenty twenty three, which
inevitably killed him.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Yeah, it's really tough with this one because obviously, like
she was dealing this, right, but at the same time,
Mattie would have found this with some somebody else. Yeah,
he was.

Speaker 3 (10:02):
From what I gather, they say he was like microdosing
ketamine to help with his depression.

Speaker 7 (10:08):
Yes, and his mental health because micro dosing, now with
that stuff, there are there's research out there that says
that it can be beneficial, But I don't know if
he was really doing it, like at the microdosing level. Yeah,
and usually when you do it, it's like monitored by
a doctor.

Speaker 4 (10:22):
And we know that he struggled with addiction anyway.

Speaker 3 (10:25):
So you know, she she's been in federal custody for
over a year and she's going to formally enter this
guilty please with in the next coming weeks. But here's
the crazy part. She's a dual citizen here in the UK,
so she's looking at sixty five years Oh wow, she's
going away. Yeah, she's only forty two years old. The

(10:46):
ketamine queen.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
I mean, clearly she was dealing this to a lot
more people. Oh she was.

Speaker 3 (10:51):
She was Hollywood's dealer of ketamine. Like they if a
celebrity wanted academy, they were going to the ketymine Queen Rack. Yeah,
forty two years old.

Speaker 2 (11:03):
Looking at sixty five, she's got die in prison.

Speaker 3 (11:05):
Yeah, it's so crazy. It's so crazy to think that
he's gone too, because you know, towards the end of
his life he was really trying to help so many
other people because he struggled so much.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
He was but like if you saw him in interviews,
I wasn't shocked when he died, especially when they did
the friend that big. You could see it there he
was in another world. Yeah, it was sad, it was
you know. Also thinking back then when he was on
he was so on point with his time was perfect.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
When he passed, I started to like read more about him,
watch more docs about him, and you can see the
fluctuation in his weight from the beginning of Friends to
the middle to the end. And there was a time
there where he was there wasn't a minute in his
day where he wasn't high. Like he would take something crazy,
like I forget what it was fifty perks a day

(11:56):
to get through, and he was spot on and he
was fun and people loved him, and he was just
going through so much that people had no idea.

Speaker 7 (12:04):
And then also too, he had issues with like his stomach,
like his colin it's loaded. Yeah, Like there's stories like that.
So when he passed away, I'm like, I wasn't shocked,
but I guess I was shocked in the way that
he died.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
So he was in his hot tub. Yeah, I think
he got super high and just passed out. Yeah, awful,
all right.

Speaker 3 (12:22):
The first performers have been announced for the upcoming MTV
Video Music Awards. I still can't believe the MTV Video
Music Awards are happening, especially with the cancelation of so
many other award shows, but they're powering through.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
We're gonna get performances from.

Speaker 3 (12:34):
Alex Warren, Busta Rhymes, J Balvin, Ricky Martin's going to
be living Leavita Loco, handsome man.

Speaker 2 (12:44):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
Yeah. When Santi and I saw him in person, I
was taken aback. That man has an.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
Aura to him.

Speaker 3 (12:49):
Ricky Martin, Sabrina Carpenter also going to perform. Busta Rhymes
is going to receive the MTV v M A Rock
the Bells Visionary Award and the reason Ricky Martin will
performs because he is going to be honored with the
Latin Icon Award. Remember it was announced last week that
ll cool Jay is going to host. They will happen Sunday,

(13:09):
September seventh. I'll catch the the highlights Monday, September eighth.

Speaker 2 (13:14):
Same, I'll catch the highlights on TikTok.

Speaker 4 (13:16):
I'm not watching this.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
Yeah, I'm not watching I again the Oscars maybe, yeah,
because I like to see what movies win.

Speaker 4 (13:23):
And you know, if we had watched the shows with
the actors or whatever.

Speaker 6 (13:26):
I just and MTV Music Awards was was icon about
the videos, right, because everybody's a million dollar budgets into
videos and we were seeing things that we never seen before.
Now you could do that with a camp with the iPhone,
and everybody's doing it, and it's like, ain't nobody really creative?

Speaker 3 (13:42):
Howso feel like with these big artists, we get music videos,
but not at the like velocity that we used to
get them back in I feel like back in the day,
almost dim near every song on the album would have
a music video if it came out, if it was
a single now sometimes and then sometimes they choose to
do music videos for songs.

Speaker 6 (14:01):
But I'm like, why this key They dropping videos for
every song. It's just nobody cares about them like that
no more.

Speaker 2 (14:06):
Yeah, No, you're right. I used to search for them.
I used to be so excited to see them. Bust
Rhymes used to put out some videos.

Speaker 6 (14:14):
Missy Elliott used to put out some crazy videos if
it had to hype Williams. At the beginning of Oh
You were like, Okay, this is going to be a
dope adult video, but nobody cares.

Speaker 3 (14:22):
Yeah, all right, Offsets album is on the way, as
well as many many other artists. And I think, you know,
for those of us like myself that are messy and nosy,
we were dying to know. Is he going to talk
about Carti? He's been on a on the promo run
right now. He's doing a ton of interviews, a ton
of sit downs. I was saying to four in this morning.

(14:44):
Something switched in his mind. I don't know if if
an event happened with him and Carti. I don't know
if they had to sit down. I don't know if
something happened with the kids. But something switched in his
brain and even the way he speaks on Cardi. Now
it's a different attitude, especially when he's discussing this song
now I told you yesterday, there was a rumor that
he was going to have a song on his album

(15:04):
called moving On where he was going to discuss that
him and Cardi are kind of closing that chapter of
their life. They want to move on peacefully. Here he
is discussing it's.

Speaker 10 (15:12):
About moving on peacefully. That's what the message is supposed
to be, moving on peacefully. It's how I love peace
like it's love ended that ended that up with the album,
just like just to end that chapter that because it's
like just move on like we it's it's over and
done with it.

Speaker 2 (15:28):
Was it?

Speaker 10 (15:29):
It was great? W I last it? That shouldn't be
the topic for me, the one of us.

Speaker 4 (15:33):
More, it's interesting that shouldn't be a topic for either.

Speaker 2 (15:37):
One of us. I wouldn't call it great while it lasted, though.
Was there like a bumpy at times? There was? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (15:42):
But doesn't it like it just feels like he's on
He's on something new.

Speaker 6 (15:46):
The PR team probably sat him down. It was like,
you can't talk crazy about her because that doesn't make
you look, you already a cheetah.

Speaker 2 (15:53):
That doesn't make you look.

Speaker 6 (15:54):
As a good man now bashing though, right, Yeah, cause
he sat down with E Bro too, and he was like, we.

Speaker 3 (15:59):
Played that last year that it was great because I
liked two part that it was a grown man being
like I need another man like friend to call me
and be like stop acting like this.

Speaker 2 (16:09):
Correct. And then he took responsibility and said, I definitely
messed up, you know.

Speaker 6 (16:13):
Yeah, yeah, I mean, and I think you're gonna get
more simple me as a strategist, I'm a market I'll
be like, Bro, if you come out being a little
bit more apologetic, people are gonna gravitate to a project
a little bit.

Speaker 4 (16:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (16:23):
Now, if we listen to the music and he's like
f you and this this and your boyfriend ain't ish
and all of this other stuff, you know, that's going
to be a different story. But he's definitely he's playing
down the drama.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
No, he is, he is. And again it's like, I
don't know what it was.

Speaker 3 (16:38):
I don't know what set it off, but even like
you can hear in his tone it's different. Now listen tomorrow,
could he be walking around with six females by like
who knows. Maybe you're right, there's nothing wrong with that.
They done him and Cardi are done. She's a Patriots
fan and his album by the Way, is out on Friday,
which means foreign will probably bless us with some song.
I need that one. I need you to give me

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that one on Friday. That is you need to know
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Speaker 3 (17:24):
I mean, I'm not really sure how many times I've
had to publicly say this, but I you know, listen,
if I say something and I feel like I've made
a mistake, I will be the first one to admit
that I will, and it's I've embarrassed myself many a
time on this show. Britney Spears Dad. If you're listening

(17:45):
Britney Spears Dad. If anybody has a connection to Britney
Spears Dad, it can maybe reach out and let him
know that I apologize.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
I appo logiz.

Speaker 3 (17:56):
Listen, do I think you were doing some crazy things, like,
you know, with the birth control and only giving her
an a lotted amount? Actually I take back the coffee thing,
because he was only giving her a lot of amount
for coffee.

Speaker 2 (18:07):
Makes sense now she she probably couldn't handle too much coffee.

Speaker 7 (18:12):
And the birth control thing is like an extreme thing.
And I'm not saying like anybody should do that, but
I understand what his thinking was.

Speaker 2 (18:18):
I meant what I understand stable enough to the bear
child again, well and listen, take it. Take away that
it's Brittany.

Speaker 3 (18:28):
Let's pretend it's just some blonde girl that you know,
inside of her home and she's talking like this and
dancing in front of poop, in front of dog, piles
of poop behind her. You're not like motherly, you know,
you're not thinking, oh, I hope she's raising a kid.

Speaker 4 (18:45):
You're thinking, thank god, it's only a dog.

Speaker 7 (18:47):
But that poor dog, Like it's crazy. When you think
it can't get worse, it actually does. And I think
for me this video, what makes it so bad is
the dog poop in the back.

Speaker 2 (18:56):
There's two piles.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
Yeah, there's two, but also just like what's going on
in that area?

Speaker 4 (19:00):
Does she get out of the foyer? Does she leave
that space?

Speaker 6 (19:03):
It's yeah, And then she got the nerve to capture
and said, oh setting up lights and cleaning.

Speaker 3 (19:11):
Day in your life and the extensions are so bad.
I just there's so many things. And by the way,
we have done this conversation before, thinking we're peaking here.
It can't get worse and gear up everybody, because it
always does. This is current day.

Speaker 2 (19:27):
Britney spears no.

Speaker 11 (19:38):
Day know who drive a middle lan.

Speaker 12 (20:11):
No no, no, no, because we all know very well because
I know that he knows a kiss.

Speaker 4 (20:25):
On it is hidden rust her. I'm like done done,
locked around, not lock.

Speaker 3 (20:33):
She always does that nasty voice at the end.

Speaker 2 (20:37):
It's giving massive cast.

Speaker 3 (20:39):
Like you know that the dogs are somewhere hidden, like
shut up, like let us outside. I want to see grass.

Speaker 7 (20:45):
It's one thing if somebody is dirty, I feel like
that's more acceptable. But when you cross the line of
like living with feasts around like that's a real problem,
a real problem.

Speaker 3 (20:53):
I know somebody that does that. And let me tell
you something not mentally stable.

Speaker 2 (20:56):
Right, because imagine being to just walk over there that's
that's what I mean. Yeah, because you see it.

Speaker 3 (21:02):
Yeah, it's like the person that I know it was
like that, like will push it with her hand.

Speaker 2 (21:07):
What the then then do what?

Speaker 7 (21:09):
Like just go cook, just go about their lives, just
go typing on the computer.

Speaker 3 (21:13):
Just push it away as if it's like under a
couch and move right on.

Speaker 2 (21:17):
Mentally unstable guys.

Speaker 3 (21:19):
And you know what, Listen, there are there are people
out here who are blindly defensive of Brittany. Blindly take
the blinders off, guys, get rid of the red flowers.

Speaker 2 (21:31):
We have to be serious about.

Speaker 6 (21:32):
She don't lose shows, she don't put out music, she's
not she's not featured anyway, she don't got a podcast.
I mean, I'm assuming she's getting paid off her content
on Instagra.

Speaker 2 (21:40):
Man.

Speaker 6 (21:40):
You know they're saying she's worth forty to seventy million dollars,
a lot of it invested into like real estate. So
she got bread because the cribs that she's staying in, yes, dirty, filthy,
but they're big houses.

Speaker 2 (21:50):
Yeah you can tell she's never been upstairs, but yeah,
and they're big.

Speaker 6 (21:54):
You know, when you got money and you ain't got
to worry about nothing, you do whatever you want.

Speaker 3 (21:57):
People were pissed at Kevin Federline for taking those kids
to Hawaii. Why wasn't far enough to be honest?

Speaker 2 (22:04):
Hawaii? I don't think was far like this is.

Speaker 3 (22:07):
And again the Britney Spears fans, they got the blinders
on because I see people in here liking these videos.

Speaker 2 (22:12):
Now they're like, like, what are you liking these videos for?
Unless you're making fun of her? What you probably are?
People love a train wreck, but maybe they're just liking.
But I feel like you can't this impossible? To defend
this behavior impossible? Somebody will? Let's I mean, I'll give
the number.

Speaker 3 (22:26):
I remember we have had people on this show that
are running Britney Spears rallies.

Speaker 7 (22:32):
I mean I understood when we didn't know what was
really happening. I could understand that perspective. Nowadays, I can't
imagine there's anybody out there still believing that this girl
needs freedom.

Speaker 6 (22:42):
One hundred and forty two thousand likes. This dropped thirteen
hours ago. Jack, She's got forty one million followers. The
other one dropped on the hourl before she got twe
hundred and twenty six thousand legs.

Speaker 3 (22:53):
I'm gonna play the beginning of this though, the first
like fifteen seconds, she still got there's something in there
vocals why, I mean, like right there, like you can

(23:17):
hear it a little bit. She starts going into some
crazy she does.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
It's in there. I mean to find something positive about this.

Speaker 7 (23:24):
She looks like her body looks really great, like she's
clearly like moving and she dances.

Speaker 2 (23:29):
Yeah, yeah, she's flexible. She still toils and does whatever.

Speaker 6 (23:34):
She How old is she she got to be like
like forty four? Yeah, yeah, she's still she still got
the moves, bro. I mean she's she was sagging her
little shorts.

Speaker 2 (23:42):
Which she keeps doing. That she keeps doing.

Speaker 3 (23:45):
She likes to wear them so low, like you couldn't
even like, how are they on?

Speaker 7 (23:51):
She's still grooming, I guess if we want to look
at it like that too. So some of these things
don't line up.

Speaker 3 (23:57):
But it's crazy to me that she's like, I'm going
to take care of ABC and D and she's like,
but I'm not going to brush my hair like how
Like I.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
Don't think she's showering. She got extensions.

Speaker 3 (24:07):
No, they're extensions, but they're like the most boot like
extensions I've ever seen in my life too long. They've
never they've been they were put in seven years ago
and have never been Injustic's crazy.

Speaker 7 (24:19):
Don't see anybody else in these videos, so like who's
around her? Because she's setting all this stuff up like
by herself.

Speaker 3 (24:24):
I was told not to say this, so I'm not
going to go in a crazy detail.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
So I just kidding.

Speaker 4 (24:29):
I think I've kind of hinted at this before.

Speaker 3 (24:31):
But I know somebody who knows a person who was
asked to come to Britney's house to do her hair
years ago, and he started working on her hair in
the foyer because she wouldn't allow anywhere else, and after
like four or five minutes, flipped out, freaked out, kicked
him out.

Speaker 2 (24:50):
Do you know what's something's going on?

Speaker 1 (24:52):
Man?

Speaker 2 (24:52):
That tells me that the rest of the house is disastrous,
like horder type type.

Speaker 3 (24:56):
I don't make the joke about the foyer for nothing.
That is, she resides in that place, I don't like.
I don't know if she rests her head on a
bed at.

Speaker 7 (25:03):
Night, If that area looks like that, could you imagine
what the bathroom looks like?

Speaker 4 (25:07):
And she doesn't have friends right now?

Speaker 2 (25:11):
Remember those are the times she went to Mexico, right,
she had a fake baby. Yeah, and she had to
fake accent and all that she brought up fake.

Speaker 3 (25:19):
And they she brought a fake baby to Mexican. People
are like Brittany for who, like four year old do
that with a fake baby?

Speaker 6 (25:29):
And the dolls isn't pretty spears almost any room that
you see and though it does live dirty Phil.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
It's like you these people, guys, you're gonna tell me.

Speaker 3 (25:39):
You go out to meet your best friend Molly for
brunch and she brings a fake baby and a baby carrier.

Speaker 4 (25:43):
You're not saying, lock this woman up in a padded.

Speaker 2 (25:46):
Cell, Molly. What's what the way?

Speaker 4 (25:49):
Oh I like to carry this fake baby's all around?

Speaker 2 (25:52):
Yeah? What ude? Brittany's at the level where she's pooping
in bags in the bathroom and just piling them up
in the corner.

Speaker 3 (25:58):
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
I highly doubt it could happen. But six one seven
nine three one one nine four five. We week, guys,
we have to we have to take the blinders off
here because what's happening to Brittany is not saying.

Speaker 2 (26:14):
Again, Hawaii wasn't far enough.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
I stand with k fedkay everybody, Oh, not the Britney Spears.

Speaker 4 (26:26):
But when we're talking about it about Brittany, that's messed up.
I'm not talking bad, we're just talking to no, we're
talking reality.

Speaker 2 (26:31):
And it's the tough part.

Speaker 3 (26:32):
The tough part about it is the Britney Spears fans
they got the blinders on, like they listen to that
and they think everything is okay.

Speaker 2 (26:39):
There's there's not.

Speaker 3 (26:41):
There's nothing okay about the life Brittany is living lately.
The last two videos she's dancing in front of dog
poop behind her in the foyer in the front of
our house where she resides.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
The other day she had a nipslip too, she.

Speaker 4 (26:56):
Did a lot of people were talking about that.

Speaker 2 (26:58):
But like that one like I can see and that.

Speaker 3 (27:00):
Doesn't even face me because again, the way how low
in which she wears her pants, it's an it's.

Speaker 4 (27:09):
It's like defying gravity, like I don't know how, and
how like.

Speaker 2 (27:14):
It's they're glue. I I don't. Susan is in door Chester.

Speaker 3 (27:17):
I said, I don't think anybody at this at this
certain part of BRIT's life can be like, you know what,
this is healthy, this is safe, it's not.

Speaker 13 (27:28):
Maybe the funk is keeps in her jeans up. I
don't know something, you know what.

Speaker 2 (27:33):
Maybe because it's something, it's something.

Speaker 13 (27:37):
But mental health is just such a real thing, and
it's sad that stars like people just ignore it. Look
how Michael Jackson was. I mean, I know, there's definitely
a lot to walk to it. But there's a lot
of stars that have mental issues, you know.

Speaker 2 (27:50):
Don't you say what Mike was said?

Speaker 1 (27:53):
Mike was.

Speaker 2 (27:56):
It broke records.

Speaker 3 (28:00):
Yeah, Brittany also was at one point too, but then
he was Michael was doing slumber parties.

Speaker 2 (28:07):
Yeah, and wants to bones.

Speaker 13 (28:10):
Wants bones to an elephant. The elephant man. There's something
wrong with some of these celebrate.

Speaker 2 (28:17):
Celebrity. Okay, we're with you. It's unfortunate that you brought
up Mike because now he's gonna have a eighty five jokes.
But you know what, she has a point.

Speaker 3 (28:28):
Most of these, most of these kid stars that start
out super dubrio.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
Justin Bieber, I mean, we could name a bunch of them.
They go through some things. Macaulay cockin Yeah, he came
out of it, but they go through something. Well he
was at a sleep Mike. Yeah, it's just getting it's
getting tough to you.

Speaker 4 (28:49):
Know, it's it's tragic, yes, but it's getting tough to defense.

Speaker 2 (28:52):
Susan, thanks for the call. She's not wrong, she's not.

Speaker 7 (28:55):
But like I think Michael Jackson issues in this childhood
that it now became famous and then was like a
mountain of craziness that just came spewing it.

Speaker 6 (29:02):
Too, like all these people got thrown into fame and
the pressure as a young kid, a young mind, that
that definitely broke her because at the beginning, when you
watch videos from her from back in the day, when
she was at the top of her thing, like she
talked normal, she acted normal, she looked normal.

Speaker 4 (29:16):
Now she just she had like a little twang.

Speaker 6 (29:18):
She's so far removed from that image. It's kind of crazy.
It's sad.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
Actually.

Speaker 3 (29:22):
It's like these young kids today, they don't know about
Brittany and the umbrella.

Speaker 4 (29:26):
They got no idea.

Speaker 7 (29:27):
No I forgot about the umbrella. Like they forgot that
she shaved her head.

Speaker 4 (29:31):
The paparazzi just really did that.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
But you know what, the again, not for nothing because
they I don't think that their fame was the same magnitude.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
But Christina Aguilera was came up with Britain. Yeah, she disappeared, she.

Speaker 4 (29:46):
Did, she was, but now she knows. She's had this resurgence.
Have you seen her lately?

Speaker 2 (29:50):
She lost weight?

Speaker 3 (29:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (29:51):
She I mean she looks good, unbelievable.

Speaker 3 (29:55):
She looks I mean, she looks like she's still the
same age, young again.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
It's crazy. She went through her drama tool. She was
going through her little crazy spelled tool, was she? I remember?
And then she went through a divorce and all and
all that, what divorce is crazy?

Speaker 1 (30:11):
Now?

Speaker 2 (30:11):
No? No, you the.

Speaker 3 (30:15):
Challenge challenge you guys are because you gouts are trying
to say Christina is Britney crazy.

Speaker 2 (30:20):
She's not. No, I didn't say Britney crazy. Four and
she went through her chap what thing from gaining way
to the divorce. Yeah, I don't know that. I didn't know.
Divorce is a sign of Mike clear clearly fan.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
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Speaker 3 (30:54):
Five Tuesday, August nineteenth, and it's official. The Los Angeles
known as the Ketamine Queen will accept a plea deal
in the case of Matthew Perry's drug overdose. We do
know officially that she is the one that provided the
ketamine that ultimately resulted in his overdose in October of

(31:15):
twenty twenty three, which inevitably killed him. She's agreed to
this plea plea deal and she will say she's guilty
to five federal criminal charges. She's very, very famous in Hollywood,
Like you needed your ketamine. You don't get the nickname
the Ketamine Queen for nothing.

Speaker 7 (31:34):
Yeah, you're like trafficking. Yeah, she plead that out forty
years hustler.

Speaker 2 (31:39):
Well, she's been in federal cosy for over a year.

Speaker 3 (31:42):
She's gonna like formally enter that within the next week
or so. She'll avoid a trial which was also set
to begin here in a couple of weeks. But this
is the interesting part, the dual citizen here and in
the UK, and with that she's facing up to sixty
five years in prison.

Speaker 2 (32:00):
She's only forty two years old. Have you seen the
photos of her? Pretty girl? Sixty five years? You can't
find somebody out to like wrap them out to get
the like sentences like reduced down.

Speaker 3 (32:12):
It's a tough part about these these drug dealers and
for and I feel like Snowfall did a really good
job of explaining this.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
But the people that.

Speaker 3 (32:19):
Deal almost have to block out what it is that
it's doing to people. And I think that that's why
I love the show Snowfall, because.

Speaker 2 (32:27):
They were able to separate themselves.

Speaker 3 (32:29):
And then in the end it kind of comes this
full circle moment where you really see what you've done
to like communities of people.

Speaker 6 (32:38):
And she's and she's in a lace, so she wasn't
like your typical drug dealer on the corner, just chilling right.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
Yeah, she looks good.

Speaker 6 (32:46):
She's part of the social circle, you know what I mean,
she's probably at all these she's she's up there because
in Hollywood, you got to move us a different kind
of way. So if they're hitting up a ketamine, she's
probably like, oh, yeah, you go over there sitting with
a cup, go holler.

Speaker 2 (33:00):
She's gonna get you. Right.

Speaker 4 (33:01):
Ketamine is special, K have you done that?

Speaker 2 (33:06):
What?

Speaker 3 (33:07):
No, I'm just saying that that's another street name for it.
But it's literally a horse tranquilizer, is it not.

Speaker 2 (33:12):
Yeah, I'm good.

Speaker 4 (33:15):
I don't do drugs anymore. No, so, but I've never
done that I want to make.

Speaker 7 (33:19):
But I will say, if I'm choosing between Special K
and Angel Dust, I'll go with a Special K.

Speaker 2 (33:27):
Is crazy.

Speaker 3 (33:29):
Things. I didn't know why why do we go from like, oh,
it's so nice out outside until Ashley does Angel Dust.

Speaker 2 (33:39):
I don't know how we always transition into it. But
I actually doesn't do age of us.

Speaker 3 (33:44):
It one time and it was unknowingly until I was hospitalized.

Speaker 2 (33:48):
Let's talk about Jimmy Kimmel. This is a hilarious story.
Jimmy Kimmel was doing an interview for.

Speaker 3 (33:54):
Variety magazine, and you know, Jimmy's very good friends with
Matt Damon.

Speaker 4 (33:59):
So he had Matt Damon over his house for dinner.

Speaker 2 (34:02):
Do you know the story? And Matt Damon literally.

Speaker 3 (34:07):
Almost died, almost choked to death on Jimmy Kimmel's ribs.
He said, yeah, Matt Damon was over my house. I
made pork ribs. He came late, he was super hungry.
He started eating very fast, and he started choking on
a pork rib. It was stuck in his throat for
about an hour and a half. His brother was there listen,
and I said, we have to go to the hospital

(34:29):
because if this man dies in my house, like, I'm
going to go to prison for the rest of my
life and I'm never going to be able to explain
this as anything other than a murder. But rather than
taking Matt Damon to the hospital, they did a lot
of youtubing and ultimately discovered that eating little weight, eating
little bits of bread was the way to get the
rib to work its way down into his stomach. Bread

(34:52):
saved Matt Damon. We tried the Heimlich many times, but
the thing was too far down.

Speaker 2 (34:57):
That's like to the choke it okay.

Speaker 6 (35:02):
Like feeling combos being like, let's go on YouTube, let
me see what we could do.

Speaker 3 (35:06):
Like I don't know, maybe just call a doctor. Your
boat you're all massive celebrities.

Speaker 2 (35:11):
And like Matt, slow down on the res.

Speaker 3 (35:13):
I did not know that that, Like, if you're choking
eating little pieces of bread, well that's interesting fun fact.

Speaker 7 (35:19):
I mean it sounds like it was large, but he
could still breathe, so maybe it was to pass thee Yeah,
it wasn't serious. Like if you're choking though, don't eat
like you.

Speaker 2 (35:28):
Know the time, that's a fact.

Speaker 4 (35:30):
Like if somebody's choking but they can speak they're not.

Speaker 2 (35:33):
Like really choking, yes, because you're fine.

Speaker 3 (35:35):
Yeah you can well, because I think about that with
the kids, like if they can speak, but they're you know,
that's good.

Speaker 7 (35:40):
I think I was like nineteen, my mother was choking
and I did the Heim mike and like saved our life.

Speaker 1 (35:44):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
Yeah, did you YouTube it? No? I just rec good.
That's nice, all right.

Speaker 3 (35:50):
And lastly, I don't know if you guys saw the
viral video of the two male cheerleads son, did you
see the video too much?

Speaker 2 (35:57):
I didn't, but I'm compelled now. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (36:00):
So there's this video that went viral two male cheerd
cheerleaders for the Minnesota Vikings. Initially it was the one
male cheerleader with a female cheerleader. Anyways, you can only
imagine that it was a lot of back and forth
online getting to the point where the Vikings had to
make a statement because a lot of people were saying
they were going to boycott going to Vikings games. They said, well,

(36:22):
many fans may be seeing male cheerleaders for the first
time at Viking games. Male cheerleader cheerleaders have been a
part of the Vikings teams and have been associated with
collegiate and professional cheerleading for a very long time. The
team also told at NBC that no fans have officially
canceled their season tickets, despite all the online rumors suggesting

(36:42):
that they would do so.

Speaker 7 (36:43):
The mole with the long hair is actually pretty. Yeah,
like if you look at his faith, like his drying
line's nice. He's like a good looking man.

Speaker 4 (36:49):
So I spoke directly to you. Yeah, had a feeling
you would.

Speaker 3 (36:52):
So anyways, they open their season Monday nights, September eighth
against the Bears, and you can see Louis and Blaze.
Louis and Blaize are the two male cheerleaders.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
Blaize have to be the hole on the long ham.
By the way, Blaize can move.

Speaker 3 (37:08):
Fun fact for you, my uncle married two kids, was
a male cheerleader in college.

Speaker 2 (37:14):
I have to imagine that they got a lot of
loving from.

Speaker 4 (37:17):
The ladies, right yeah, big big musclee yeah, Burlei man.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
Louis and Blaize aren't like Muscle and.

Speaker 4 (37:23):
Burlin but finn yeah yeah ben men. All right, that
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Speaker 3 (38:03):
Hi, everybody, we're gonna do beyond the swipe right here.

Speaker 2 (38:10):
I think I should.

Speaker 3 (38:10):
Just say what it is, because you know, we don't
hide things on this show.

Speaker 2 (38:15):
Kas went away.

Speaker 4 (38:16):
It's on vacation. They're not in there. Repeats down there.

Speaker 3 (38:20):
Yeah, so we got we got new we got new
ears on the show.

Speaker 2 (38:23):
So welcome.

Speaker 3 (38:23):
I hope you choose us in the end. No offense
respectfully to our friends down there, but listen.

Speaker 2 (38:29):
I thank you for coming here, and now you're gonna
have fun.

Speaker 4 (38:32):
Yeah right, you're gonna laugh. That's what we want.

Speaker 3 (38:35):
But this part of the show on Tuesdays for all
you new listeners. We we talk dating relationships lack thereof.
We call it beyond the swipe because it's all encompassing.
You could be in a relationship and call us and
ask for advice. You could be struggling with dating. You
could just want to, you know, air something out grievances
when it comes to dating. Six one seven nine three

(38:55):
one one nine four five. That is six one seven
nine three one on nine four five. Mister Mike is
going to start it for us now. Mister Mike AJ
describes you as a quote unique character.

Speaker 4 (39:08):
I can't wait to hear what you have to tell.

Speaker 5 (39:13):
Yes, I am today.

Speaker 3 (39:15):
Yes I am today. Okay, Well on this Tuesday where
you're a unique character. What's going on with your dating life?

Speaker 5 (39:22):
Oh man, this topic struck me. Like I said, I
was in a relationship with a female for about twenty
to twenty five years off and on now she con
confide to me and everything. You know, so I didn't
buy her, but just recently she got her second BBL.
Oh and I think that I think the BBL went

(39:43):
to a brand because she told me, oh, I'm going
to find a husband with this. I'm like, so you
have me doing all these things for you, taking care
of you. I even liked the butt one time.

Speaker 2 (39:56):
That was red.

Speaker 3 (40:00):
No, that's like I like, I was telling you to
kiss when wait, people we keep it real on the show.
They're horrified, but so okay, so you yeah. But basically
what you're saying is she gets the second BBL and
now all of a sudden, she's brand new and she's
talking about you wants a husband. But she's not talking
about you.

Speaker 5 (40:17):
No, not mean no, she's out oh no, no, no, okay,
good man good And that's the part of the problem.
I don't pay for a lot of things because if
I did, I'm the type of guy. I'm like Chris,
what's what's the what's the comedian? And the guy that
take the lights off the tree? If he bought that's me.

(40:41):
So if I can't take it back, how you biting?
But that's why. That's what happened in my relationship recently.
And this is a lot of years I help raised
her daughter.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
All of that are your feelings her at all? Mike?
Throughout this.

Speaker 5 (40:56):
My heart is breaking. I went to the doctor and
they said I have a heart attack. I said, I
don't remember having a heart attack, but I did.

Speaker 3 (41:03):
Yeah, it's just the case's case of a broken heart.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
So you know, if she comes.

Speaker 3 (41:08):
Back with this BBL, you've obviously helped to raise her child.

Speaker 2 (41:12):
Are you guys in contact at all? Are you still
speaking to her?

Speaker 5 (41:15):
Yes, she still wants to talk to me, take walks
with me, run the park, and talk to me about
her new life with the BBL. I'm like, why do
you think I want to hear this?

Speaker 3 (41:26):
Well, Mike, it's giving simple. If you keep doing that,
you just stop walking with it. We can't do it anymore.
We're not going on walks with you.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
Guess what, You go find your husband. I'm going to
go find my happiness and wipe your own butt.

Speaker 4 (41:37):
It's right.

Speaker 5 (41:38):
I feel bad because the last time we spoke, I
had to because I'm trying to get rid of it,
get out of my system. So my last time speaking
to her, I threw a beer in the face, like
you can please just never come back again. I might
sound mean, but I can't work that.

Speaker 4 (41:53):
You can't hurt Yeah, Mike, I can't support you throwing
beers and people.

Speaker 5 (41:57):
It's real, it's real talk.

Speaker 2 (42:00):
Okay, Well listen, how old do you like?

Speaker 5 (42:05):
I'm forty five, forty five.

Speaker 2 (42:06):
You've been on and off with her for.

Speaker 5 (42:07):
Young I'm a young forty five.

Speaker 2 (42:09):
I believe it.

Speaker 3 (42:10):
I never said forty five years old though, So I
think you are young, and I think you know you
can still find love. I think you've been dedicating a
twenty twenty five years to her.

Speaker 2 (42:18):
It's a long time.

Speaker 5 (42:19):
I'll finding love on all the wrong places now though,
I'm having sex and parking lots and I'm feeling crazy.

Speaker 3 (42:27):
Ryckry back now we have kiss one of weak people listening.

Speaker 2 (42:30):
We're not going to We're not going to change.

Speaker 3 (42:33):
I'm yeah, that's a little crazy. I'm having sex and
parking lots like where we headed were.

Speaker 2 (42:37):
Heart broken, beer in her face part. It's like, okay,
we're hard, but what what is happening?

Speaker 6 (42:46):
So what I'm really trying to get down to the
just because he didn't pay for no bbls? Is he
mad that she just doesn't.

Speaker 2 (42:51):
Think that she doesn't.

Speaker 3 (42:52):
I think what happened when she came back and she
looks different and now she wants something else herself, don't Yeah,
the old case of the bb of hell.

Speaker 7 (42:59):
But she's a ham al and he's following suit. I
promise that I will not be like that when you
get yours. Yeah, yeah, no, I will, I will not.

Speaker 2 (43:07):
I will stay there.

Speaker 7 (43:10):
It just blows your head up than you're talking about
it and you're gonna get one done. Who's going to
help you out when you need to help?

Speaker 2 (43:19):
I don't, I won't.

Speaker 3 (43:20):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (43:20):
I don't because I want don't here, we don't know.
I'm not offering that. That's crazy talk there. Really, Yeah,
you wouldn't. You wouldn't talk. We shouldn't be brand new
because fine, sorry, yeah.

Speaker 3 (43:38):
We know we know. Six one seven nine three one
one nine four five six one seven nine three one
one nine four five. We're talking dating, love relationships, to
be honest. I morning, Hi, everybody, Good morning. It's Ashley
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(43:59):
one seven, nine three one one nine four five. If
you want to join us, we're talking dating relationships. Lack
thereof you call invent Whenever we talk about the lack
thereof when it comes to relationships, we go to our
lack there of relationship connoisseur. It's our insider gives us
all the inside info on that A J's got a

(44:23):
new update for us in hell, what's what's going on?

Speaker 8 (44:27):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (44:27):
Well, I got ghosted again, So there's that a shock
to no one.

Speaker 3 (44:33):
For those of you that are new to the show, AJ,
why don't you in a couple of sentences just describe
your dating life if you could do that.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
At this point, it's nonexistent. Yeah, it's pretty sad.

Speaker 4 (44:44):
You're given it a go though you are trying.

Speaker 2 (44:46):
You know, I am still.

Speaker 14 (44:47):
Putting myself out there, but it's not going well.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
It's not. And it's funny though when she first started dating,
she was gonna bet a lot of dates. She was
going out there and the sex and cars like it's crazy.
He loves it, loves to bring it up.

Speaker 8 (45:00):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (45:00):
So you got ghosted last week because the guy asked.

Speaker 3 (45:03):
For your number and you gave him like a Google
Voice number, and he was like, this is weird and
what did you most recently get ghosted over?

Speaker 2 (45:10):
Uh?

Speaker 14 (45:10):
Yeah, So I was chatting with a guy for a
couple of days and he asked me what my nationality was,
guessing that I'm Irish and Italian. So I said nope,
I'm I'm German, Italian and Polish. And it has been
a week since he's responded to me.

Speaker 2 (45:25):
He's like, I'm out. I don't want He said no
for me? What that is so weird?

Speaker 14 (45:33):
Yeah, so I don't know, I'm like the wrong nationality
or something.

Speaker 3 (45:36):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (45:37):
I wouldn't think that people cared like that. I think
they'd be like, are you white? Black? His Spanish would
make the decision.

Speaker 4 (45:43):
You don't even have to ask that. He could see
her photo. Y see that she's white.

Speaker 2 (45:47):
That is random. Are you sure that's all it is?
Because I have to imagine it something else.

Speaker 14 (45:51):
We were talking prior to that, and then he asked
that question and I answered him and he never responded again.

Speaker 2 (45:57):
Bye, so weird. It's so weird.

Speaker 3 (46:00):
I'm with you, Like, they can see the photo so
they know. I mean, that would be like me someone
being like, oh what your nationality? Me telling someone that.

Speaker 4 (46:09):
I'm Croatian and then they're not liking it and they're
gone like the wind.

Speaker 7 (46:12):
It's strange because everybody now this day and age, has
something deeper, like she thinks it's that.

Speaker 2 (46:17):
I know, I'm feeling the same thing. Yeah, she did
something again, said something again.

Speaker 3 (46:22):
I mean I would read the convo, but did it
disappear No, okay, well I will play We'll play a song.
I'll read the convo, see if I can get to
the bottom of it. But in the meantime six one
seven nine three one one nine four five six one
seven nine three one one nine four five we're talking dating,
love relationships.

Speaker 4 (46:42):
Good morning. Let's be on the S Wife only on
Jim ninety four five. I'd rather live than lose you too,
you know, want you in my life?

Speaker 3 (46:51):
Uh six one seven nine three one one nine four
five if you want to join the com But we're
talking dating love relationships.

Speaker 4 (46:58):
You could be in a relationship and have a problem
like McCall does in Goffstown.

Speaker 2 (47:02):
Hi McCall, good morning, Good morning. I rode a bike
path once in Goffstown, didn't I, guys? Very true? Yeah yeah,
actually the picture the other day actually nice town. It
was a nice place. No, yeah, yeah it is.

Speaker 3 (47:15):
So I was saying for be honest, wife, But you know,
you just really never know what it's going to be.
And a lot of people call in and say, hey,
I'm in a relationship. Any little bit of advice, Uh,
what's going on?

Speaker 15 (47:25):
So long story short, my boyfriend and I were still
together as of right now. We've been together for about
seven months. We knew each other for years prior work together,
et cetera. When we first got together, I'm not joking,
it was hands down the beach relationship I've ever been in.
He loved me exactly how I needed to be loved
without me asking for it, and that was something completely

(47:46):
foreign to me because I had been with less than
to other people in the past. So I thought everything
was great. I myself am in recovery. I just celebrated
a year sober like that is a huge, huge part
of my life, and he knew that going into it.
In about a month ago he relapsed. He was honest
about it. I mean, not that it's a good thing,

(48:07):
but like all of the things that I could have
asked for him to do in a situation like that.

Speaker 11 (48:11):
He did.

Speaker 15 (48:11):
He was upfront about it, like, look, I messed up.
I know that I want to get myself into some help,
et cetera. So it's kind of been just going through
the motions of trying to help him the best I can.
But I had a lot of trauma from my ex
husband and I went through the same exact situation with
him where it was he'd be sober for a while,
like get my hopes up, he'd relapsed, everything would go

(48:33):
back down the drink to get arrested, et cetera. And
like I don't want to live that toxic cycle. I
really don't. Yeah, but then I try to put myself
in his situation, like, Okay, well, when I was an
active addiction, like I wish I would have just had
one person that stood ten toes down for me, because
if I had had that, then that would have made
a world of difference and I would have gotten I'm
telling you, I would have gotten sober so much faster.

Speaker 2 (48:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (48:56):
Well, first and foremost, let me say that a year
sobriety is amazing. I know that I've lost a lot
of friends to addiction, and I know every day is
a battle. So to be able to put three hundred
and sixty five of them together is a huge feat.
You should be really proud of yourself. I Well, sorry, okay,

(49:17):
so I think Saddi's bisexual.

Speaker 2 (49:20):
Just so you know, I don't.

Speaker 3 (49:25):
Again, I'm not an expert here, Okay, I can't. I'm
not gonna act like I am. I just I worry
about you and your sobriety, and you're you're putting in
your yourself in situations for success and not for failure.
Is there a way in which you could be a
part of his life and not in like a romantic
way and also support him while he gets clean. I
don't know, maybe, but I just don't want you to

(49:47):
risk what you have going on because you've done so
amazing so far.

Speaker 15 (49:52):
That's like, honestly where I'm at. I have a three
year old, I have a six year old. They are
super attached to him because we're very much like a
fam oriented type group, Like on our weekends we spent
times together and do things for the kids like, so
he very much is like a part of my family.
So I'm trying to figure out where that area is
of like, Okay, you're a grown I can't swear it,

(50:13):
you're a grown man. Do what you need to do,
get your stuff together. I'm not like, I don't know.
I kind of guess like love him from a distance,
But I am struggling, girl, I am struggling so hard,
but I just want to be like I can love you, like,
just let me love you. I know that won't fix it,
but like I know, when I was at my lowest,
literally all I needed was somebody to hear me and

(50:33):
to love me.

Speaker 3 (50:34):
That's it.

Speaker 15 (50:35):
I could do the rest of the work myself. So
I'm trying to teach myself like, Okay, you can love
him and love him from a distance and support him,
but that doesn't mean that exactly like you guys just said,
that doesn't mean that you need to jump in the
same shrinking, sinking ship with him.

Speaker 3 (50:48):
Yeah, and I didn't know that there were two kids involved,
and you got babies to protect him now three and
six like that, they're so young and you know you
don't want them around that either.

Speaker 2 (50:57):
But yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (50:58):
This is such a such a true do you think,
because I can clearly hear that you love him and
you want to be there and help support him. But
I mean, I think first he needs to support himself
and figure that out for himself before he can start,
you know, loving you and the kids.

Speaker 2 (51:11):
He's got to love himself.

Speaker 15 (51:13):
So he leaves for detox this morning at literally nine o'clock.
So like he's doing like I said, like he really
is putting in the effort to do the things that
he needs to. So I just don't know, Like I
don't know where my boundaries need to be set clearly.
He's not allowed to see the children, like that's already
been set in stone. That's non negotiable until you can
actually have some consistency and sensibility that it is what

(51:35):
it is. As far as myself, that's what I'm struggling with.
My kids are protected, I know they're straight. But me,
I'm like, but I just want to help him. I
just want to be there. I just want to be
that person I needed. And I'm not good at not
like showing somebody that I love that I love them.
I'm very much like one hundred and ten percent type person.
So I just don't know.

Speaker 1 (51:55):
How to help.

Speaker 15 (51:56):
But not myself say that I'm.

Speaker 6 (51:58):
Going to sink into into like you might relapse yourself
by helping him out.

Speaker 1 (52:03):
No, I'm not.

Speaker 15 (52:04):
I know this sounds whatever. Everybody can have their opinion,
I tell you right now, put with I am good
as far as anything like that, Like I have my
preventative measures in place. I'm not stupid, you know what
I mean. Like I'm taking care of everything that I
need to on my side of the street. But it's
just that, like, honestly, at the end of the day,

(52:25):
it's just that human compassion, Like I know that somebody
I love and care about is struggling, and I don't
want to abandon them. Like I'm not. I'm not that
type of person. My loyalty knows no bounds.

Speaker 6 (52:34):
But hold on, Sancho. But my thing is like, if
you love this man and he loves you, and he's
with the love that you, why would you even think
about not standing by him while he goes through this.
I'm on the opposite side.

Speaker 15 (52:47):
Because I was see, Okay, well, this is where the
other side comes in. I was with my ex husband
for thirteen years.

Speaker 2 (52:51):
He's not your ex husband.

Speaker 3 (52:52):
Though I know.

Speaker 15 (52:56):
He's not your ex husband, I'm not I'm trying to
figure out how to not correlate the two, how to
not have the situation that I'm in right now. But yes,
I guess that it's going to play on my trauma
a little bit, but I just need to figure out
how to Okay, Yes, it's healthy that I'm like processing
my trauma. Yes, but in the same breath, I know
that he's not the man who put me through that.

(53:16):
It's just the same situation.

Speaker 6 (53:19):
I don't think that's fair to put that on him.
Especially since it's not let me even ask you this.
If this, if the tables will flip, because you said
you will add it before and again the whole year.
If the tables will flip, then you kind of relapsed
and he didn't. Would you want him to kind of
abandon you and let you go figure it out yourself
and came back, or would you know it?

Speaker 15 (53:36):
That's why I don't know how to put healthy boundaries.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
Yeah my boundaries, yes, yes, And that's my point. You
can still stand by him.

Speaker 2 (53:47):
But you are not easy.

Speaker 3 (53:48):
And she's also a parent, yeah to a three year old,
which I am absolute terrorists like you gotta be careful
just to go back to it real quick. I actually
am going to stand with AJ on this. I'm reading
a little bit of their combo. AJ got ghosted for
because the guy said, what's your nationality? I'm guessing Irish
and Italian? She wrote, I'm Italian, German and Polish and
he just ghosted her. He never responded. Yeah, I I

(54:10):
don't know what I guess, but I'm reading their combo.
I mean she did earlier in the combo say she
was sweating, so I don't know if maybe he was
gross that she got in her car and she was sweating.

Speaker 2 (54:23):
Why would she specific? Why though? What I mean?

Speaker 1 (54:32):
So her?

Speaker 2 (54:34):
Hey, how's your day going? Him? It's good? How is
Madagascar out here? But I'm thriving? How about you?

Speaker 7 (54:40):
Her?

Speaker 2 (54:41):
Yeah, I just got into my car and I am sloating,
but I'm okay him. You're not sweating, you're glistening. What's
your nationality? Irish and Italian?

Speaker 3 (54:50):
I'm guessing l L her I'm Italian, German and Polish
hymn Casper.

Speaker 2 (54:56):
How long ago was this?

Speaker 1 (54:57):
Like?

Speaker 2 (54:57):
How long ago was the last The last message was
a week ago. Yeah, it was a week ago yesterday.
It was consistent before this. Yeah, we were talking for
a couple of days. Yeah, he's looking for a certain.

Speaker 14 (55:07):
I mean I was thinking about hitting them up and
being like, so am I the wrong nationality?

Speaker 2 (55:12):
I mean, like really talking like I'm I'm going back up,
I'm there. There they were.

Speaker 4 (55:16):
I didn't I didn't read, but they were really chatting
a lot.

Speaker 2 (55:20):
And he's Italian.

Speaker 4 (55:23):
Yeah it was the German in or I guess he wasn't.

Speaker 2 (55:28):
Germany, but I guess Irish. I'm not Irish. Yes, he
did ask about Irish Irish drink a lot regardless, though
still a dub regardless of what we have.

Speaker 3 (55:39):
Here is another's, just like it's the in which she
reads