Scammers Be Scamming

We reminisce on the time Santi got scammed, help a listener with her love life and find out a lot of people are having midnight snacks.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dashy, Good morning.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Bostin's number one for hip hop jamming ninety four or five.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
Listen. I think this is a good conversation to have
because we have all had those moments with our boomer
parents where we're like, well, wait, what do you mean?

Speaker 4 (00:18):
You know, my dad is just a great example.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
He had, like a random little boy show up to
his house a couple of weeks ago, and the kid
asked for a blank check to fit feed kids in Bosnia.

Speaker 4 (00:29):
My dad just handed on his check book.

Speaker 3 (00:31):
No cross references, just like, but this is what he does.
He literally the other day says to me, buddy, I
want a free fifty dollars Amazon gift card. Just had
to click the link and enter my social.

Speaker 5 (00:41):
It's like, no, that's not right.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
I beg of my parents, like if it feels wrong,
it is wrong.

Speaker 4 (00:49):
But they don't listen to anybody. They do what they want.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
My brother and his girlfriend called me so nice to say,
my brother and his girlfriend, we didn't think a time
would come.

Speaker 5 (00:58):
Yeah, you know, had a nice rink to it. It'll
be my brother and his fiance.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
We can only help. We can only because like slowly
starting to like her a little bit more than him.
But anyway, he called me over the weekend they were
together and they were like, Ash, we have to tell
you the craziest story. I was gonna tell it, but
I think it's better if my brother comes on Rye,
good morning, Good morning.

Speaker 4 (01:18):
Everyone listen.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
I think we're gonna tell this story as a lesson
for all. Like I said, if it feels wrong, it
is wrong. The people out here like frauding, they've gotten
so good. There's levels to it now. They know exactly
who to target, and think about it. If they target
one hundred people a day and they hit on two
or three, that's all they need. These people are horrible,
So tell everybody what happened.

Speaker 6 (01:40):
I'm gonna try to keep it short and I don't
know how much time. But basically, my girlfriend's trying to
make flon and she's calling her mom in a panic
for like the reci of which she doesn't want to
burn it la And she called her three times on
the four times she was I can't talk. I'm on
the phone of her rise and someone hacked my account
and bought eleven thousand dollars worth of stuff, and Jen's like,
uh okay. So fast forward. We're at dinner, and a

(02:03):
story came up Jen's brother in law some sort of
how his mom she got a call from the IRS
and they said, hey, you o twenty grand in back taxes. Well,
be able to wipe it, but you need to go
to CBS and buy us one thousand dollars in gift cards.

Speaker 5 (02:17):
Oh my god.

Speaker 6 (02:18):
And she was at CBS and she was in line crying,
and she called. You know, Jen's brother in law was like,
you know, they're on the other line.

Speaker 5 (02:27):
They told me not to call you, but I just.

Speaker 7 (02:28):
Don't want to comfort to buy an these gift cards.

Speaker 6 (02:31):
So like that story's being told and we're all laughing.
And then Zen's mom, you know, God, bless her heart.
She's just suetous lady. She'sa like, well, they tell you what.

Speaker 8 (02:40):
Happened to me.

Speaker 6 (02:41):
And then she goes in on this story of how
Verizon calls her and because she's a loyal customer, they
wanted to reach out proactively, and they had a police
officer on the line as well to reach out and say, hey,
someone bought five iPhones and five Apple Watches. Unfortunately we
can't get into your account to fix it. If you
can just give us your path where we'll hop right

(03:02):
in there and we'll you know, make a good thing.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
They had the cop on to just you know, oversee
of course.

Speaker 6 (03:08):
Oh yeah, I mean because the local authorities are now
getting involved in Verizon fraud in the cases. So she
she you know, at this point, Jen and her sister,
I guess he's steam coming out of the ears, like,
let me see the email. Let me see the email.
So they pull up the email from Verizon and it
was Verizon at gmail dot com with like a weird
it with a weird V as the logo. And Jen

(03:30):
and her sister are like, well, mom, that's one hundred
percent fraud. Like we have to go into your so
here's all the best part of the story. So we go,
what is your Verizon account connected to your credit card?
She goes, it's connected to my checking account. And now
I'm sitting there, I'm not saying anything. I'm looking at
my phone like checking the weather app over and over
and over again because I'm so uncomfortable, because I'm like,
they must empty your bank account.

Speaker 4 (03:51):
He drained her account.

Speaker 6 (03:52):
So she it takes her ten minutes, but she finally
figured out the way into her bank account and she
goes oh, no, me. While all of us are, I
can't see her phone. We're all on. She goes, I
had thirty eight thousand dollars in there yesterday. It's down
at two thousand dollars. Paul's Paul's her silence and dramatic effect.

(04:13):
Now I'm I'm so deep in the weather app on
my face is red. I'm like, oh my god, I'm
checking weather in like Des Moines, Iowa. At this point,
and and she goes, but I did write a check
for thirty six thousand dollars to BMW, so maybe that's it.
At this point, Jen just snapped the phone out of
her hands. She was, I'm sick of it. What's the

(04:34):
check number? So it was it was MW check, thank god.
And they did was They went into a Hoverizon account
and opened up six different lines which would have cost
like the NAT fifteen hundred dollars a month. They went
to the Verizon store. I figured it out, but no,
to everyone, if the cops are calling with Verizon's right,
it's not Verizon.

Speaker 4 (04:55):
Bub thank you for that.

Speaker 3 (04:56):
I appreciate and God bless this woman, and thank God,
thank God. In that CBS line buying ten five hundred
dollars gift cards. She thought to call Dan, the brother
in law, because that one would have been all right,
send Jen my love, thanks, thanks for that.

Speaker 4 (05:11):
Is that not absurd?

Speaker 5 (05:13):
Yes, luckily, just that the build.

Speaker 4 (05:16):
Up to her being like, they trained my account.

Speaker 5 (05:18):
But I did write a check to be by the way,
what did she buy a new car or something like that?

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Paying off the rest of a car or something like that. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
that was that was legit. But but that's the thing
is like they know who to target. They're going after
our parents, you guys. And then to tell her there's.

Speaker 4 (05:35):
A cop on the line as well. He pops in
to say hello, and she's like, I'm safe now.

Speaker 5 (05:39):
They do, and it's usually the older folks, but justin
from kisswan Away, God got duped in by like a
dumb ploy and he thought for the entire thing and
his bank account was gone.

Speaker 4 (05:49):
Oh my god, did you do? Are they at a break?

Speaker 3 (05:51):
We need to get him. Okay, that's another good example
a break. But I can go down and check, go.

Speaker 4 (05:56):
Down there and see in the meantime, lesson has been learned.
You're so right.

Speaker 3 (06:00):
It does happen to young people as well. But please,
everybody Verizon calls you and they say, hey, we got
a cop on the line too.

Speaker 4 (06:07):
Your account has been had.

Speaker 3 (06:09):
It's not Verizon, And if the email comes from a Gmail,
it's a thousand percent not who they say they are.

Speaker 4 (06:16):
Stay vigilant.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
Oh man, Hi, everybody, good morning. It's Ashley in a
jamb morning show. So justin from kiss. I think we're
gonna make sure to have him on and he can
do it around nine thirty. Oh, he's going to join
the show. Cause it's a good example that you know,
I was saying, boomers are parents, like we have to
be careful with them.

Speaker 4 (06:33):
You know, my dad will click any link.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
Hey, senior citizens can get four thousand dollars, click this
link enter your so like, he'll click the link. So
that's obviously important. We have to teach our parents make
sure they stay vigilant. But it happens to younger people too.
I think that's a good point that Santy made. And
speaking of Santy, I just also think we should include
the story that you know, everybody, I know what you're

(06:59):
gonna say now, which is important because I felt like
during that conversation with my brother, you were on the horse.

Speaker 4 (07:06):
Yeah, And I just want.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
To bring you back down to reality that you also
have been a victim of fraud. Yes, I might not
have involved like bank accounts and going to CVS. Yeah yeah,
but do tell in case you haven't heard this story, everybody,
because listen, I will not let this man make fun
of other people because he watched when Justin comes on watch,

(07:29):
he's gonna be like idiot, loser.

Speaker 4 (07:32):
Remind everyone.

Speaker 5 (07:33):
I got a call from Turkey on the way home
one time, and this woman was on the phone telling
me that a next classmate of Mia from when we
were young was basically being held hostage for the last
twenty years of his life and he wanted to get
in touch with me to try to save him. She
was trying to get me to contact the FBI and
to save him from the kidnappers. Yeah, and I believe that.

Speaker 4 (07:55):
But but going to CBS for gift cards.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
He was going to break somebody out of a Turkish prison.

Speaker 5 (08:04):
And by the way, this was multiple days. This was
one phone call. It was call after call on FaceTime
with them and stuff.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
Yeah, sat, he wears his emotions on his chest, like
I know when he comes in here and he's hurting,
And he came in the one day after he had
been on with the Turkish prison for three hours and
he's like, I have to talk to you about something.
I'm like, I know, I can see something's off.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
What's up? And he's like, want won't listen?

Speaker 9 (08:32):
Dude?

Speaker 4 (08:32):
He was like, because you were, and he goes, I
got to tell you something.

Speaker 3 (08:37):
And I sat there and I listened to the whole
thing and I could just see how genuine he was
in his eyes, and he's to be honest, I think
you need to really look me in the eye and
tell me.

Speaker 4 (08:46):
Do you does part of you still think that was
real or no?

Speaker 5 (08:49):
I think it was fake because if it was actually real,
they would have kept going, right, they would have been
going for years. Be like, no, this is an actual.

Speaker 3 (08:55):
This guy really thought he was going to like break
clear days out of like the broken down palate.

Speaker 4 (09:00):
I couldn't believe it to that point.

Speaker 5 (09:02):
And this is like, like, this is the thing I
pictured myself on the Today Show. Tell him the story.
That's the saddest part about this whole thing. I already
started picturing the hero I can well hold up. Let
me tell you they knew not kidding.

Speaker 3 (09:18):
And guys, that was his comeback to me. He was like,
but ash, they knew where I went to Element you
can find anything on good But he couldn't let that
aspect of put it this way, you guys.

Speaker 4 (09:29):
Joanne was like pissed off. She was like, what are
you like?

Speaker 9 (09:32):
How?

Speaker 4 (09:32):
What is this? This is crazy? So when Justin comes
on and this story isn't, I'll give you that.

Speaker 3 (09:38):
Okay, you can get back on the high horse during
the thing. But I want everybody listening to keep in mind.
You can call, you can d M him, let him
know that happened. Back to reality. Yes, all right, okay, yeah,
sorry to everyone, Morning.

Speaker 2 (09:53):
Show, and it's time for another DM dilemma.

Speaker 4 (09:57):
All right, everybody, let's help our guest.

Speaker 3 (10:00):
She wants to say anonymous, which I told her. I said,
I don't know why you don't just come on the show.
This is a good problem to have because we have
people calling us talking about dating issues and things they're
going through.

Speaker 4 (10:11):
And it's bad, bad, bad.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
This is a good problem. But essentially, she's been seeing
this guy gone out a few times. I did ask
her to be specific about that, because I think that's important.
She said, they've gone on three dates so far, so
keep that in your head three dates. She wants to
know what number date do you start going over to

(10:35):
each other's places, because he has invited me over. I
didn't know if people have, so I obviously want to
take calls for this in six one seven, nine, three
one four five. That's six one seven, nine, three, one
one nine four five. Do people put a number in
their head, like, AJ, do you have a number? Or
are you just kind of like going off of a

(10:56):
gut feeling.

Speaker 7 (10:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (10:58):
I think for me, it all depends on the vibe.
Because there was a guy would you on one not
on one? No, absolutely not. I probably wouldn't on two.
So I did go to someone's house on the third date.
But there's another guy where I wasn't comfortable enough to
go to his house on the third date. So I
think it really depends. Okay, I don't think I would
do less than three, but.

Speaker 3 (11:18):
Yeah, right, that's what I mean. I feel like that's
more so the she's already made it to three dates.

Speaker 5 (11:22):
But if the vibe is really great, you can invite
them over on the first night. But obviously there's dating involved,
and obviously that's a guy's perspective. But I will say
sex the third date is universally like, Okay, I think
you can get a sense of if you like the guy,
if you think he's safe, and then you can kind
of go down that path.

Speaker 3 (11:36):
I think you might on the first day be like, Wow,
I really like this guy. I could see something going,
but you might fistfight on the inside, like I can't.

Speaker 4 (11:44):
I can't go to his house on the first.

Speaker 5 (11:45):
Maybe the second A thousand percent the third date, you
can go to your.

Speaker 3 (11:49):
Thing, all right, So you think she's hit the cusp
that it's okay for her to go.

Speaker 5 (11:54):
Yeah, because by this point she probably knows that she
likes him or not. I feel like she probably established
on the first date. If like this, then I can't
date this guy. But by this point I think she
already knows.

Speaker 3 (12:01):
Technically speaking, this would mean she'd be going to his
house on the fourth date. I feel like she, for
a lack of the better word, thinks that she's being
kind of.

Speaker 5 (12:14):
Oh honestly, I don't think she is.

Speaker 3 (12:19):
I know, I think that's how she feels, like, because
she's like, I need to know if that's too soon, Like,
am I going to be judge type of thing?

Speaker 4 (12:28):
No? I mean there's people out here going on date one.

Speaker 5 (12:30):
Obviously, the assumption is she goes over there, things are
going to happen, right, But that's not really what we're
talking about. Just going to the person's house doesn't mean
like you're guess now.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
I really I agree with you, and I think there's
this huge misconception, like, listen, would that be the place
to do it?

Speaker 4 (12:45):
Sure?

Speaker 3 (12:46):
But I mean I think there really is a thing
where the guy could be like, come on over, we'll
make dinner.

Speaker 4 (12:50):
Mainly because maybe nobody wants to go.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
To a restaurant every single time you see somebody, right,
that gets old? So at what point do we deem
it okay to go to somebody's house in the initial
like courting phase of dating. She's already been on three dates.
She wants to know for the next date. Do we
find it acceptable to go to the guy's house? Six
one seven, nine three one one nine four five six

(13:15):
one seven nine three one one nine four five in
the dating world?

Speaker 4 (13:19):
Which date is it okay to go back to the
person's house?

Speaker 3 (13:23):
Hi, everybody, good morning, It's Ashley in the jam of
morning show. You know, this type of conversation and question
is such a sign of the times, like the real
answer should be whenever you feel like you want to,
That should be the real answer. But I think dating
is so hard now and so many games are being
played out there that everyone's trying to play the game
back and do the right thing instead of just doing
whatever the hell they want. And that's no shade too. Anonymous.

(13:47):
She she had DM me and she's like, ash, things
are going well with this guy. We've gone on three dates.
He keeps asking me to come back to his house,
like can I do it now?

Speaker 11 (13:56):
Like?

Speaker 4 (13:57):
When? When is it okay?

Speaker 3 (13:58):
In the dating the beginning phases to start doing Hey,
let's just hang out at your house tonight. I think
she thinks she'll be judged by going over there. On
the fourth date, Hey, you don't want to do something,
you just don't do.

Speaker 5 (14:11):
It well technically. After the second date, I went back
to my wife's place and you know, oh we made
I can't say we made love, but we did. You
know it was.

Speaker 4 (14:19):
Touching yah Manoa.

Speaker 3 (14:22):
So six one seven nine three one five that is
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
At what point do we deem it like acceptable to
in the In the I'd say the honeymoon part of
dating to go to the person's house. Danielle is in Boston. Hi, Danielle,
good morning, Good morning. So babe, you're fifty years.

Speaker 4 (14:42):
Old, you're out here, you're dating.

Speaker 3 (14:45):
Almost almost almost, and you're like, it's difficult and you're
just trying to like learn and and you know each
person is different.

Speaker 12 (14:56):
Yeah, it's it's it's definitely different at the a once
you know, because I've been in long term relationships and
you know, once you separate and you're in the dating
scene again. And I've been single for about two years now,
you know, dating you know here and there and just
you know, trying to get to know someone and it
just to me, it just requires so much effort that

(15:17):
I just I you know, once you get comfortable being
alone and loving yourself and pouring into yourself and things
like that, the dynamics of you know, you have to
fill some big shoes, you know what I mean. And
the discernment of picking a good partner is definitely there,
you know, being there, you know, being there and doing

(15:41):
that and just you know, I've been cheating on you know,
just the whole spectrum of just everything at this stage
is just very awkward, you know, and people are at
my age are already like grandparents, you know. So I
don't have any children, and you know, a lot of
the you know, women that I meet you have and
you know family, you know, grandchildren, things like that, you know,

(16:03):
and that's okay with me.

Speaker 4 (16:04):
But I was gonna say, are you okay with that?

Speaker 5 (16:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (16:07):
Yeah, I'm cool with it.

Speaker 12 (16:08):
I'm cool with it. I'm I'm like, you know, I'm
like the cool gay on in the family.

Speaker 7 (16:11):
You know what I mean, what.

Speaker 4 (16:14):
Are you talk to me about? Talk to me about?

Speaker 3 (16:17):
Like a woman in her early fifties lesbian, like, what
are we coming across?

Speaker 4 (16:24):
When you're out there where you're just like, I'm good
like it?

Speaker 6 (16:29):
What?

Speaker 4 (16:29):
What are a couple of things you're saying?

Speaker 12 (16:31):
What a couple of things? I don't know. A lot
of them are definitely said on their ways, and they're
not willing to, you know, use that wiggle room to
change or try new things or I'm very spontaneous. I
my grab a bag, let's go, you know, let's do
something fun. And you know, like I said, a lot
of them are just said on their ways and yeah,
you know, and I.

Speaker 3 (16:51):
Can see that, I mean later in life for them,
so they're like, oh no, I have already done ABC
and D and I don't.

Speaker 12 (16:58):
Yeah, yeah yeah, And to me, I still don't understand
our age, like why are we cheating? You know?

Speaker 4 (17:03):
Yeah, yeah, I'm with you on that.

Speaker 12 (17:06):
You know, I was, I was like, this was not
supposed to happen.

Speaker 13 (17:09):
I was already supposed to be married and like settled.

Speaker 12 (17:12):
I'm like, why am I single at this age and
dating a whole bunch of weird you know, not weird.
I'm not being judgmental, but you know, just getting to
know someone. It's just requires so much effort that I'm
so comfortable being alone that I'm just like, whatever, right,
I dave myself. You know, I go out and you know,
have fun and you know things like that. But you know,
for me to be pressed about being in a relationship

(17:34):
or dating or going to someone's house, it's just, you know, yeah,
it's gonna take a little bit for me. It asks
me personally, I think too.

Speaker 3 (17:42):
I think for some people it just becomes like a task,
like a job, instead of like something and exciting.

Speaker 4 (17:48):
And you don't want it to turn into that to either, you.

Speaker 12 (17:51):
Know, yeah, exactely, it's becoming it's becoming too much. It's like,
you know, you know, I'm talking to someone right now
when the person's like I have to wait, you know,
until such and such state, and I'm just like, why
that's so awkward to me. I'm like, you know, let's
go out to dinner, let's grab coffee, let's like a
walk on the beach when it was nice, you know,

(18:12):
just just things like that, just small things. And like
I said, at this age, I never expected to be alone.

Speaker 3 (18:18):
So you know, that stands out to me because usually
lesbians don't wait.

Speaker 4 (18:23):
Lesbians are like, let's move in.

Speaker 7 (18:24):
Oh hell yeah, you know what I mean.

Speaker 12 (18:26):
Sitting in my younger years, I was on the.

Speaker 3 (18:28):
U haul, like you know, you were like, I'm Danielle,
let's want to move in to get larn.

Speaker 7 (18:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (18:37):
Well one day, oh baby, it's all now. I'm like whatever,
I'm like, you have to pull some big shoes and
you know, to disturb, like not disturb. But like, you know,
I'm at peace right now in my life and that's okay. Yeah, listen,
that's okay. Take yourself out to date and you know,
you meet someone nice, that's nice. But like I said,
right now, at my age, it's just requiring, so much

(18:59):
effort that I really just don't care to put into.
I mean, I'm secure my job, I'm secure my career.
I'm secure and like so you.

Speaker 4 (19:08):
The thing about you is I'm older.

Speaker 12 (19:11):
You know.

Speaker 4 (19:12):
We have a lot of people that came on this
show daily.

Speaker 3 (19:15):
I I usually am a good tell of crazy also
because I am crazy, so crazy can tell crazy. You
don't sound crazy, You somedingly have a good head on
your shoulders.

Speaker 4 (19:24):
Like, I think it's all going to work out for
you in the end, not to.

Speaker 3 (19:27):
Take away from the difficulty that it is right now,
because dating is just it's been difficult for a lot
of people, at least judging off of who calls our show.
But I think I think you'll be I think you'll
be just fine and you'll figure it out and and
it's going to be okay. I love yourself, so yeah, yeah,

(19:47):
well listen, best of luck to you.

Speaker 4 (19:49):
Keep us posting on.

Speaker 3 (19:50):
Your on your.

Speaker 4 (19:53):
You too, babe.

Speaker 12 (19:53):
And by the way, but I have to go into work,
no I.

Speaker 3 (19:57):
Know, and you I got I know some people, so
I'll ask around for you, see what I can find,
see what I can dig up.

Speaker 12 (20:05):
Oh god, no drama.

Speaker 9 (20:08):
Do you know you all all right, all right.

Speaker 4 (20:12):
I'll do what I can. Thank you for the call.
Rage is in reading.

Speaker 3 (20:17):
This initial conversation started outrage with us trying to help
a girl out. Anonymous was like, I've gone on three dates,
Like can I go to his house on the fourth date?

Speaker 4 (20:27):
Which you know, I hate that. This is even like
go when you want to go, but you look at
you You're like first date, we're hanging out.

Speaker 7 (20:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 14 (20:39):
So I actually met my boyfriend on bumble. We had
been talking for like probably two weeks, facetiming and stuff,
and he invited me over. We hadn't had a first
date yet, but I was like, you know what, like,
let's just do it. I'm just gonna stand it.

Speaker 4 (20:56):
Yeah, I know what you did.

Speaker 3 (20:57):
Obviously your gut was like not a murderer, Like you know,
we we know we all look at people.

Speaker 7 (21:04):
If they crossed my mind, like am I going to
get murdered?

Speaker 6 (21:06):
Right right?

Speaker 1 (21:07):
Raby is okay, Well, we've been together four years now.

Speaker 14 (21:12):
The ring is hopefully coming soon, and it was a
great decision. We talked all night. We didn't even like
get physical, but I mean we just talked.

Speaker 7 (21:22):
Yeah, yeah, and it was it was perfect.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
So when you heard I was going to say, I'm
assuming when you heard me say that, you were probably
yelling in the car, like just go to his house.

Speaker 4 (21:31):
It's been three dates.

Speaker 14 (21:33):
Yeah, I'm like, three dates, that's too long.

Speaker 4 (21:37):
I love it well, Rach, I hope you get the ring, honey.
That's that's what weirdly been.

Speaker 15 (21:41):
Next.

Speaker 14 (21:42):
I love you guys A first time caller, so I
was excited.

Speaker 4 (21:45):
Oh my god, we love you too. Thank you for calling.

Speaker 3 (21:47):
Good luck, keep us posted and then when you do
get the ring, callers, so Sandy can judge you on
size caliber. All right, the phones are ringing six one
seven nine three one five six one seven nine three
one nine four five.

Speaker 4 (22:03):
God only knows what these people are calling about.

Speaker 3 (22:05):
Maybe it's a lesbian for Danielle, or maybe we're talking
how many dates till you go over the house? Hi, everybody,
good morning. It's Ashley in the gym in Morning show.
We're we're doing a little DM dilemma at this moment,
but basically we had a girl right me.

Speaker 4 (22:18):
She said that she's gone on three dates with a guy.
He keeps saying, let's just go to my house.

Speaker 3 (22:24):
He's probably sick of going to restaurants and he wants
to just hang out at his own house, or maybe
he wants the other thing. I don't know, but she's
basically like, how many dates until it's okay to go
to the other person's house?

Speaker 7 (22:34):
You know?

Speaker 3 (22:35):
I would argue that for this one, it really is
a gut feeling, but I think it's this weird world
where everybody's playing a game, so she feels like she
kind of has to play the game too. She doesn't
want to be judged for going. She doesn't want to
be deemed garden tool, you know, and I feel bad,
like you go when you feel good, but everyone's different.

Speaker 4 (22:57):
Help me out with the name I thought it said
ja Quirky.

Speaker 3 (23:01):
I was like, oh, Jacorey, you good morning, Good morning,
So talk to me about this. Do you do you
feel like there should be a number for when we
should be going to somebody's house?

Speaker 15 (23:16):
So I feel like it kind of just depends on,
like what Santi said and A J said, how do
you feel how comfortable you are?

Speaker 6 (23:24):
I feel like and I don't.

Speaker 15 (23:27):
I don't want to be like sound like a guy
too much in this, but I feel like if you're
assuming that something is going to happen, you kind of
want to see how it is early.

Speaker 6 (23:40):
Ah, God, if you're if it isn't good or if
it is.

Speaker 15 (23:45):
Good, you can kind of gauge if you actually want
to be with that person or not. I truly don't
want to say like that should be the definition of
the relationship, but it should be definitely something that helps
out the relationship.

Speaker 3 (23:58):
In THEO sence. Yeah, listen, I don't think we're inviting
anybody over on any dates if there's not that sort
of like sexual attraction. But yes, you're right when you
take it to that like fun land, maybe there's a
lot or yes, I get what you're saying. And if
you're dating for a year and then you find that
out makes sense to me. Yeah, he's going on one

(24:24):
day and he's like, come on over, let's see, let's see.

Speaker 4 (24:26):
What things are, see what's happening.

Speaker 3 (24:28):
All right, Well, thank you so much for the call.
I appreciate it. And yeah, I think that's the bottom
line there.

Speaker 4 (24:33):
You got it. You gotta go with your gut. We
all do a test.

Speaker 3 (24:37):
We all look at people and we're like, would definitely
kill me, you know.

Speaker 4 (24:42):
Jenny is in Rosie. Hi, Jenny, good morning.

Speaker 7 (24:45):
Hi, good morning, We're good how.

Speaker 4 (24:48):
Are you good?

Speaker 7 (24:50):
I'm great, I'm great.

Speaker 4 (24:51):
We're having these this like in depth convo.

Speaker 3 (24:53):
It's kind of been a little not all over the place,
but we've had, you know, different kind of input on
dating and how it is out there and like games
people are playing and where are you at with it?

Speaker 4 (25:05):
All of it?

Speaker 7 (25:07):
The dating game right now is horrible. I'm a big woman.
Big girls need love to you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (25:14):
I feel like the society is portrayed big girls are
just taxis and money or you know, a place to.

Speaker 7 (25:23):
Stay, you know what I mean. Even though this can
happen to any woman of any size, you.

Speaker 1 (25:28):
Know, but I feel like, you know, it just sucks,
like what's the little love that you know?

Speaker 3 (25:34):
Of course everybody does. Do you feel like that you're
being used in that way? Or have you been used
in that way?

Speaker 7 (25:40):
I have been used in that way, But now it's.

Speaker 4 (25:42):
Like now on, you're like, I'm I'm good.

Speaker 1 (25:48):
You know, yes, Like why can't we just go on
a date without a guy saying oh, we need to
go do some things after or I'll get a hotel room,
Like come on, let's grow.

Speaker 7 (25:59):
Up, yeah that, let's get to know where's the vibe?

Speaker 5 (26:02):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (26:04):
Have you look what was your last what was your
last relationship?

Speaker 7 (26:07):
Like I felt like I was kind of love bombed.
You know, I don't know why.

Speaker 1 (26:13):
But you know, I feel like he was good in
the beginning, bring flowers and take me out. But the
next thing, you know, is like all the things was like,
you know, where's the affection, where's the love?

Speaker 6 (26:26):
Let's go?

Speaker 7 (26:27):
You know what's all that?

Speaker 4 (26:29):
I think?

Speaker 3 (26:29):
It's like, yeah, I think we could talk to we
could line up ten singles and everybody would have a
complaint about like how it is out there. Of course
there's these amazing stories and I do think obviously love
exists and it will be found and you'll find it.

Speaker 4 (26:44):
But you know, it's not easy out there right now.
The streets are.

Speaker 1 (26:51):
It's not you know, at this point, everybody's liking to
have a sneaky link or you know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (26:57):
It's like, come on, maybe it's a maybe it's the
type of guy that you're dating. You ever try changing
it up.

Speaker 1 (27:05):
I did try and change it up, but you know,
I'm kind of shy. I can't lie. But I am
a confident big girl. You know, I don't think I'm
ugly in the face.

Speaker 6 (27:12):
You know, I'm just like, what's the difference?

Speaker 7 (27:14):
I can always lose this weight. Are people going to
ever lose that ugly face? Sometimes?

Speaker 5 (27:18):
You know what I mean, that's.

Speaker 11 (27:24):
Heard.

Speaker 7 (27:25):
You know what I'm saying saying. You know what I mean,
that's saying. It's like, can we just have a vibe.
We're not young anymore. We don't need to go in
the car, hang out or you know, let's expand our minds.
Let's do things.

Speaker 4 (27:39):
Well where are you? Where are you looking for these guys?
What kind of scene are you went?

Speaker 1 (27:46):
I just tag a little bit, I did tender, I
did even the Facebook dating page, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (27:52):
And I even try to expand.

Speaker 7 (27:54):
To do a long distance and that didn't even work.
So it's like, what's going on? I keep saying my
future boot was not in Boston.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
Well, let's do this, because you know, we've had people
call the show and kind of describe themselves a little bit.
You know, the only thing that you've told me is
you have a pretty face and you're a quote bigger girl.
You got to have other attributes. What do you got
going on for yourself? Tell me a little bit about yourself.
And why somebody would want to date you, And who knows,
maybe the love of your life is listening.

Speaker 7 (28:23):
Right now. I'm a single mom. I can't lie. I'm
a single mom of a.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
Sold to be six year old and right now I
do like you know, I help people, like in the community.
I was helping the Biden people. I was doing working
in the shelter, you know. I do case manager outreach,
help people find housing, everything like that.

Speaker 4 (28:43):
Wow, that's a beautiful thing. See that's what I'm talking about.
What does Jenny like to do for fun?

Speaker 11 (28:48):
I like to go out.

Speaker 7 (28:49):
I'd love to eat, you know. I like to travel.
I like to have a good time with my friends.
We laugh, you know, we go to the bars, We
go to.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
Different places, try different things, sipping paint, you know, we
go just anywhere, just to try things different. So Sanzi
is doing.

Speaker 4 (29:11):
Nandi wants to hook you up with a j And
I'm trying to help this man. But none of that.
Did you say you are into women? Okay, and he's pinny.

Speaker 5 (29:23):
It's just the thought that popped into my head. Okay,
Well he didn't say that. You didn't say that. So
I was just thinking outside the box and I was like, hey,
there's two single people to stop.

Speaker 7 (29:34):
Don't get me wrong.

Speaker 6 (29:35):
Don't get me wrong.

Speaker 7 (29:37):
That's you know.

Speaker 4 (29:37):
I have a lot of friends that are you know,
but that's yeah, but I.

Speaker 7 (29:41):
Love them, but he takes my mind. I like my men.

Speaker 3 (29:45):
Yes, that's not her cup o tea. All right, well
listen you we don't know, we don't do you have
an Instagram that you feel comfort giving out in case anybody?

Speaker 7 (29:53):
All right, go ahead as Jenny pool oh four, Jenny
p o o h oh four, Jen Why woo.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
Oh four Jenny poo oh four. Fellas, if you're listening,
that sounded like a nice time with.

Speaker 5 (30:09):
The blonde hair.

Speaker 7 (30:11):
Yes, oh, okay, okay, son.

Speaker 4 (30:19):
Jenny cutie all right, Oh you don't. I'm the cutest
little kid too. All right, Jenny, Well, good luck's luck
to you. If anybody slides, If anyone slides in, let me.

Speaker 3 (30:31):
Know, because you know I'm nosy, I'll you will, all right,
good luck, best of luck. You can't you can't stop
putting everybody on aj.

Speaker 4 (30:41):
Stop stop.

Speaker 5 (30:44):
Your tagline is Jenny Big trouble.

Speaker 3 (30:49):
Jenny's big trouble.

Speaker 5 (30:51):
Slide in, Fellas, say show good morning.

Speaker 2 (30:56):
Sustin's number one for hip hop am in ninety four five.

Speaker 4 (31:02):
Hi, everybody, good morning.

Speaker 3 (31:04):
Before we get to Santi being like the literal worst,
I do want to give a quick birthday shout out
to Liam.

Speaker 16 (31:11):
Hi.

Speaker 3 (31:11):
Liam, Your mommy told me that it is your eighth
birthday today, so I hope you have the best day.
Poor mom makes Liam listen to us every day and you, Santi,
so that I mean, that's not much of a gift,
but I'm sure you're gonna get the best present today.
So happy eighth birthday to Liam. All Right, we already
know that you don't take out the trash, which is
mind boggling to me.

Speaker 4 (31:31):
It was like ninety nine.

Speaker 3 (31:33):
Percent of the reason why I wanted to get married,
because once you get married, you don't take out the
trash anymore, which is really tight.

Speaker 5 (31:38):
Okay, but now our son takes out the trash, so well, whatever,
you don't do it, no.

Speaker 4 (31:41):
Okay, yeah no.

Speaker 3 (31:42):
So Santi this morning was on with the kids. They
were trying to get the dog in. They couldn't get
the dog in, so he's talking to them through his
ring camera. So I go over there, you guys, and
I'm looking at his backyard and Penny his dogs running
a mock out there, and I said, damn, how do
you guys can try roll all of the poops? Like,
there's no way you could walk around and find all

(32:04):
those poops. You obviously it's easy.

Speaker 4 (32:07):
I said, oh it is.

Speaker 3 (32:09):
That's a lot of like you have a lot of land.
And he's like, no, it's like a really easy honestly,
it's like she poops a lot in the same spot.

Speaker 4 (32:15):
I'm like, oh, so that. I wait a little bit,
and I go, when do you pick up the poops?

Speaker 3 (32:20):
Like, you know, we have a schedule at our house,
Like the fireman goes out there, you know, he picks
up the poops, takes out the trash, you know.

Speaker 4 (32:24):
And Sonnie goes, I don't pick up the poops. I said,
what you just you mind? You guys, it's so easy.
What do you mean.

Speaker 3 (32:36):
As I'm stupid? So then I said, okay, if you
don't take the trash out, you don't pick up the
dog poops.

Speaker 4 (32:42):
Who picks up the poops? And Joe wamb she does. Okay,
there's no defense to this.

Speaker 3 (32:50):
His wife is out there taking out the trash and
picking up poops. Seriously, what do you do? Give me
two manly responsible abilities that you have in that home.

Speaker 8 (33:01):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (33:02):
Okay, I change the fire alarms like like all the
bat Okay, what do you mean that that's like for death?
That's like for death?

Speaker 4 (33:08):
Okay, anybody can put a battery in.

Speaker 5 (33:10):
Okay, what are you doing?

Speaker 4 (33:12):
That's getting dirty? Like like really getting your hands?

Speaker 5 (33:15):
Dir Do you wash a dish I put him in
a dishwasher from time to time. Okay, Okay, okay, okay.
I helped brings uff up from the basement.

Speaker 4 (33:29):
You're the carrier, so she needs something to be carried around.

Speaker 5 (33:32):
Carry as a family, so it's not just me.

Speaker 4 (33:34):
So so you're looking for something that I just some
household responsibilities? Do you have any No?

Speaker 3 (33:41):
No? No?

Speaker 4 (33:42):
All right?

Speaker 5 (33:43):
Can I defend? I always give her the option, like, listen,
if there's anything you want me to do. And now
I understand there's a big thing here of like, well,
I shouldn't have to tell you to do things?

Speaker 11 (33:53):
Right?

Speaker 5 (33:53):
Fine, But in my head I'm not wired to see
these things and just do them because I wasn't raised
like that. I'm like unfortunately, right I if she would
have given me a list of ten things, I would
get all those things done every single day. Without a complaint.

Speaker 3 (34:05):
Okay, well here I am telling you how much it
would mean to her that if she went out there
with the pooper scooper and was like, oh my god,
Sante has already picked up all the pooper, she obviously
would probably think like, hell, haf frozen over.

Speaker 4 (34:17):
But do you know how like amazing?

Speaker 5 (34:20):
I understand that. But now the other part about this
too is that she doesn't want to You had to
know when the landscaper has come to cut the lawn,
like it all gets cut up into the lawn too,
so it gets so it disappears so really like we
pick up for one part of the part of the
yard and and like just the rest of it gets
like dissolved into the lawn.

Speaker 4 (34:37):
Keep saying the word we please stop doing that.

Speaker 5 (34:39):
So I'm using we as like a family. So I
haven't yet.

Speaker 4 (34:46):
She she you have not a singular responsibility. I thought
I was.

Speaker 7 (34:52):
No, I do not.

Speaker 5 (34:53):
That is very true.

Speaker 4 (34:54):
Yeah, you haven't done laundry in years.

Speaker 5 (34:57):
I want to say years, I would say months. And
I've put away the laundry too.

Speaker 3 (35:01):
I like this.

Speaker 5 (35:02):
I dispersed it from mine and it just sits in
my closet in a pie again. Yeah, but you're making
seem like a bad husband.

Speaker 1 (35:07):
I'm not.

Speaker 5 (35:08):
I don't do the household, not great, George, but I
do other things. I provide the intimacy.

Speaker 4 (35:15):
Should we call her and see if that's true?

Speaker 5 (35:17):
Because she would say, yes, I'm the affectionate one. I'm
the one who kind of adds fun to them.

Speaker 4 (35:21):
Let me tell you something.

Speaker 3 (35:22):
If I had the choice of doing the trash and
picking up the dog poops or the intimacy, I think
I'd be like, you know what, I'll because.

Speaker 5 (35:29):
All right, So what should I be doing besides the choe?

Speaker 3 (35:32):
I just want to see if we can get one
man to call in and tell me that he doesn't
take the trash out or like clean up the dog
poops or deal with the animals. Can we get one
man to call in and say he also has no
responsibilities in his home. Let's just see six one seven,
nine three one one nine four five six one seven nine.

Speaker 4 (35:51):
Three one one nine four five. I gonna get one.

Speaker 3 (35:53):
Hi, everybody, good morning, it's Ashley in the gym in
the morning show. I thought it was bad when Santi
admitted that he didn't take the trash out at his home,
because of course, like you get married. I have so
many women writing me though, being like no ash, like
I'm the full on male in my household, like I'm
doing all that, I'm doing, the trash I'm doing, I'm
picking up the dog poops. Now, listen, the fireman when

(36:15):
he works on trash night, I contemplate leaving him, like
I think about getting.

Speaker 4 (36:20):
Tender or bumble.

Speaker 3 (36:22):
What's the one where the celebrities go on the Danny
atte raw something, because like, what what what?

Speaker 13 (36:27):
What?

Speaker 3 (36:27):
I hate it.

Speaker 5 (36:28):
Why can't you guys just communicate to us what you
want done. I don't understand that.

Speaker 4 (36:32):
Oh I don't don't get don't excuse me. I don't
take out the.

Speaker 5 (36:37):
Trash up the red minds. And I understand that's there,
and I understand that should see all the clothes and
all that suff But my mind is broken. Guys, I
wasn't raised like this. I'm trying to explain that just
communicating Milly, good.

Speaker 11 (36:47):
Morning, so simple, good morning, good morning.

Speaker 4 (36:51):
Please tell me.

Speaker 11 (36:52):
I was just calling to give Santy the female perspective
that I was that woman who was with the guy
for fifteen years and I even pay his bills, like
he didn't know how to take a damn check.

Speaker 3 (37:06):
I don't want to interrupt you, but I will say
to scientist, oh, hey, did you sign up for health
cares ago?

Speaker 4 (37:11):
I don't know. I don't pay that like he does
none of it. So go on, Millie, you are you
are Joanne, keep going.

Speaker 11 (37:20):
It is embarrassing. So I was that female and I
got tired as soon as my son turned fifteen and
he started running these things around the house.

Speaker 12 (37:30):
I'm like, what do I have a husband for.

Speaker 11 (37:32):
I pay bills, I'm capable of doing all these things.
So you do as a female get tired, so it's
for you to take.

Speaker 4 (37:42):
She's she's yawning, she's yawning.

Speaker 11 (37:45):
She's like, yes, I'm sorry to break it to you, honey,
but if you want to keep that good wife, you
better start picking up some manly chores.

Speaker 4 (37:55):
Distress, honest, anything like just anything in the house.

Speaker 5 (38:00):
And so the only reason you guys broke up was
because he didn't do the dishes and paid the bills.

Speaker 11 (38:05):
No, he did not do anything around the house.

Speaker 5 (38:08):
Why you broke up.

Speaker 11 (38:12):
The big Yes, yeah he was.

Speaker 1 (38:18):
Just he was just there.

Speaker 4 (38:20):
Yeah, he was just there. But did he provide the
intimacy the intimacy right, Yeah, I know, but that's another
part about a marriage.

Speaker 5 (38:32):
It's like, looks I am falling flat when it comes
to doing like the house chores and all that that
I can admit, But there's a whole other part of
relationship that's not based on the dishes and the trash.

Speaker 4 (38:41):
Yeah, it's just like my favorite part.

Speaker 16 (38:43):
Guys.

Speaker 3 (38:43):
If the whole thing is that he tries to then
take credit. I said, oh man, that's a lot of land.
How do you pick up all those poops? It's easy,
it is.

Speaker 4 (38:51):
How do you do it?

Speaker 6 (38:52):
Him?

Speaker 4 (38:52):
Well, I don't do it your land. Oh Nicole, good morning.

Speaker 9 (38:58):
Good morning, Ashley.

Speaker 4 (38:59):
Talk to your friend and he's listening.

Speaker 9 (39:03):
So I was with the father of my little girl
for eleven years and he didn't do a thing. He
woke up, took a deuce, went to work, did some Instagram,
you know, scrolling, came home and enjoyed a beautiful clean home. Listen.
I don't mind it. That was my responsibility, that was
my job. I was the mommy, the caretaker, you know,
the house cleaner, the grocery shopper, the cook. That's fine,

(39:25):
But when it came to the trash, he couldn't even
take out the trash like, hey, I had a newborn baby,
crazy crazy.

Speaker 3 (39:33):
Did you ever say to him, okay, can you take
out the trash? Like hey, can you help me out?
And did he say you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (39:39):
Of course? Oh, of course.

Speaker 9 (39:42):
It was like, that's not my job. Oh maybe you
get to a certain point.

Speaker 15 (39:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (39:47):
No, nothing was his job but to go to work.
And again it's like it's one thing if you're appreciated.

Speaker 4 (39:52):
But yeah, and I will throw Santia bone.

Speaker 3 (39:55):
I do believe with my whole heart and soul, if
Joanne asked you to do any thing, you would say
yes and a heart. If Joyne was like, listen this
whole week, I'm not cooking, I'm not cleaning, I'm not
taking out the poop. Sorry, because Joanne does everything, I'm
not doing anything because I do it all.

Speaker 4 (40:11):
He would, he would step up, he would give it
a go. She wouldn't like the.

Speaker 9 (40:14):
Way it was done. I'm sure I can see that
in Sancy. Yes, yes, I can see that in Sancy.
I don't see him being like.

Speaker 4 (40:20):
No, no, he would never. He would never.

Speaker 9 (40:22):
I didn't even ask anymore.

Speaker 4 (40:23):
Oh why would you? Yeah, I wouldn't either. And by
the way, I'm assuming he's out of the pick.

Speaker 9 (40:30):
I took out the trash.

Speaker 4 (40:31):
My you're going to end on that one. Okay, girl,
go clean up a poop today out there.

Speaker 5 (40:42):
Morning show, Good Morning.

Speaker 2 (40:44):
Bustin's number one for hip hop. He am in ninety
four or five.

Speaker 4 (40:50):
Hi, everybody, good morning.

Speaker 3 (40:53):
I was literally just having this conversation with the fireman,
and it's funny that Cardi b mentioned it.

Speaker 4 (41:00):
I don't believe that people get up in the middle
of the night and eat. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (41:03):
I'm being very close minded here, and I get that.
I'm just like I think about the I guess even
if you have to go to the bathroom, right, you
try to deny that because you're like, you don't want
to get up, You're going.

Speaker 4 (41:16):
To get cold, You're going to wake up more, and
that's just a pee.

Speaker 3 (41:21):
Now, if you are getting up to go eat in
the kitchen, like you're committing to that, you're awake now.
You gotta then come back. Do you rebrush your teeth?
Do you then get back in the beds to take
you a little while to fall asleep? Someone time you
don't brush your teeth, get me, I know, but it's like,
don't comme. Many but do you do that again? And
then are you awake? Are you are you restless? It'll
take you a little while to go back to sleep.

(41:44):
I obviously know that the terminology a midnight snack came
from somewhere. There's somebody somewhere was like, I keep getting
up at midnight. But my thought process is like, add
another piece of meat to your dinner.

Speaker 4 (41:56):
So it's okay.

Speaker 5 (41:57):
But I think it's because of the way that you eat,
and I have I have to assume it's because you're
health conscious that you're not eating in the middle of
the night, and you're like, the solution to you is easy,
add some more protein, right right. But people are still
hungry in the middle of the night, So I think
and then like, I'm hungry, So what am I gonna do?
I have to eat?

Speaker 3 (42:13):
Like Kennex is in Madapan, Kennix, I want.

Speaker 4 (42:16):
To know what your wife.

Speaker 3 (42:17):
What's your wife having for dinner that she's waking up
and she's having chips and cookies in the middle of
the night.

Speaker 4 (42:23):
We got to get some more protein in this woman.

Speaker 8 (42:27):
First off, last time I was on air, my wife
was mad tight that I didn't tell you. She loves you,
As I watched every episode you was on.

Speaker 5 (42:34):
Stop.

Speaker 4 (42:35):
I love her for that to mar said thank you.

Speaker 8 (42:38):
But secondly, twenty sixteen doesn't sleep. We performed at Summer Jam,
so just wanted to say that. But yeah, my wife's listen.
She loads up the bed before we go to sleep
with every snack you can think of. This is like
I'm kicking snacks off the end of the bed.

Speaker 4 (42:54):
No, this, and we're talking.

Speaker 3 (42:56):
We're talking like chips, cookies, like chips, cookies, cakes.

Speaker 4 (43:04):
We feel like the beach, like so much sand in that.

Speaker 8 (43:06):
Bad she'll wake up. No, she won't even wake up.

Speaker 6 (43:11):
She'll be sleep.

Speaker 8 (43:12):
She'll open something, eat it and won't even open her eyes.

Speaker 6 (43:16):
She'll still be sleep.

Speaker 3 (43:17):
No, Okay, what'd you guys have for dinner last night?
I need to know, I need to understand because I
just what did you have for dinner last night?

Speaker 5 (43:27):
Listen?

Speaker 8 (43:29):
Honestly I didn't eat because I wasn't at the house.
But my wife cooks meals for her and the kids,
and she cooks for me separate because I don't eat animals.
But yeah, she cooks. I mean, she cooks, cooks, cooks.

Speaker 16 (43:40):
She's eating.

Speaker 4 (43:41):
She's not like skipping dinner. She's eating. Okay, Wow, this
is just her thing. This is her thing.

Speaker 13 (43:47):
She just man.

Speaker 4 (43:49):
People do it, people do it. I know you're proving
me wrong. Thank you for the call. I'm just like
blown away. Brian is in Dorchester.

Speaker 3 (43:56):
Brian, you're on you're kind of on our schedule because
you're up at four o'clock in the morning.

Speaker 4 (44:02):
What do you do for work?

Speaker 17 (44:04):
Four?

Speaker 6 (44:04):
I am union coppingers three nine.

Speaker 17 (44:07):
Shout out real quick, okay.

Speaker 4 (44:09):
Shout out to the shout out at the union caps.

Speaker 3 (44:11):
All right, so you're up at four, but you also
eat like a midnight snack and well time you go
to bed.

Speaker 4 (44:17):
Let's start there, all right.

Speaker 17 (44:20):
My wife gets out of work at six, so I'll
do the cooking because I get out of work at
two thirty.

Speaker 4 (44:25):
Good, Okay.

Speaker 16 (44:26):
The thing is so I'll get the do the kicking.

Speaker 8 (44:29):
The cooking, walk the dog, you know, play with that
son and so on.

Speaker 17 (44:33):
E setch up? What I going down and I'll cook
and we'll eat.

Speaker 6 (44:37):
Last night I sausage puppers.

Speaker 16 (44:38):
Onion smushrooms over pasta, okay, by religiously because of my
fast metabolism and getting up, I get up and I
either have six months out of the year I either
have oatmeal with peanut but the instant real quick micro

(44:59):
waved boom with peanut butter and my body's craven protein,
or I have Nikella and melvine religiously.

Speaker 3 (45:07):
I mean, he's delicious, but like and by the way,
these aren't just like something you could do with your
eyes closed, like you gotta put the microwave the peanut butter.

Speaker 4 (45:17):
This is a lot.

Speaker 7 (45:20):
It is.

Speaker 17 (45:20):
But I haven't set up because I know I'm going
to do it, and I go right back to bed
and I get up because that automatic alarm clock in
your head.

Speaker 16 (45:31):
Just I'm sure you haven't. You've been getting up brody
by all on.

Speaker 17 (45:35):
But my question is the fireman, if he works oh
and Ita so on, did he have a different eating
schedule than you.

Speaker 4 (45:44):
Well, listen, that's a good question.

Speaker 3 (45:46):
When he's in the firehouse, I feel like that, Like
that man he'll say to me, oh, yeah, we were up,
so I grabbed a donut at two am.

Speaker 4 (45:54):
I'm like, who are you? Because you know at home
we would never do that.

Speaker 3 (45:57):
But they're not sleeping sometimes in the fire house all night,
so their their clocks are different. But well, no, but Brian,
I'm telling you right now when he is at home
sleeping in the bed with me. We don't get up
in the middle of the night for midnight's next and
if he did, I would I would tell him about himself,
like get another piece of chicken on your plate for dinner.
This is crazy, Brian, thank you for the call. No,
it's never ending here. Tyra is in Moulden, Tyra, You're

(46:19):
just chocolate chip cookies.

Speaker 4 (46:21):
Middle of the night.

Speaker 11 (46:23):
Okay, Now I'm middle of the night.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
I'm a night shifter, so you know, I usually let
to see.

Speaker 11 (46:26):
You guys in the morning, but that means I go
to bed late, so I'll put the baby down.

Speaker 14 (46:31):
You know, we ate dinner at six seven.

Speaker 17 (46:33):
That's how I go to bed around midnight.

Speaker 9 (46:34):
I'm copy again.

Speaker 4 (46:35):
I mean to snack miya.

Speaker 3 (46:37):
I'll do it every night, but some night, see, I
don't know if you don't go to sleep and then
wake up and eat.

Speaker 4 (46:43):
This is like a little something you're having like right
before bed.

Speaker 9 (46:46):
Okay, true, not true.

Speaker 15 (46:47):
But I have a question for you because I resfeed.

Speaker 1 (46:50):
I know you've breastfeed ye would you not rab in
this the first like two months?

Speaker 11 (46:53):
I'm happy eat no, no, no, in.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
The middle of the night.

Speaker 3 (46:57):
I mean no, never in the middle of the night,
but I would definitely eat something right before I kind
of like fell.

Speaker 4 (47:03):
Asleep, And yes, yeah I was.

Speaker 3 (47:05):
I was more so thirsty than anything, just a thirsty
bitch like I was just drinking all the time. But yes,
you know, obviously when you breastfeed, your your metabolism is
going and you gotta eat a little bit more.

Speaker 4 (47:14):
So I feel you on that. Thank you for the call.
I'm counting. I'm not counting that one. You gotta you
gotta be asleep, wake up, wake up and say hey,
I need like yeah, like, do we have time for
another word?

Speaker 3 (47:25):
Maddie and Hyde Park Listen this is he says Maddie,
You're like, it's normal. I'm the crazy one, completely normal
to have a midnight snack.

Speaker 4 (47:33):
What was yours last night? You went to bed, you
woke up? What'd you make?

Speaker 6 (47:37):
I made a TV in Jane and I ate right
in bed.

Speaker 4 (47:41):
You're a nasty you are nasty in bed. The crumbs like.

Speaker 13 (47:46):
Ah, I do every piece of food I do, ship
I do I do. I do peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.

Speaker 3 (47:58):
I do geese cheese like what like slices of Deli
cheese in the bed after you've gone.

Speaker 6 (48:05):
To just like stream cheese, and I just like it
all right, thank you?

Speaker 3 (48:12):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (48:12):
What did you have for dinner? Like, let's work, let's
work on this. What was your dinner?

Speaker 13 (48:17):
I had salmon? My mom saladon for me, and then
I'm reading my salad salamon.

Speaker 4 (48:24):
Yeah, okay, Salomon. Did you have a little side with that?
Did she at least make you some rice like something?

Speaker 2 (48:37):
No?

Speaker 3 (48:37):
Just that I named myself. I mean you can't just
have like a piece of fish and think that's it.
We might need a little carbon there like whatever. Fine,
so you but how old are you?

Speaker 8 (48:48):
Fifteen?

Speaker 3 (48:49):
Okay? Thank god, thank god, because I was like, wait
a second, this just got weird.

Speaker 4 (48:53):
Thank you, Matt. Okay, Matt.

Speaker 5 (48:56):
While his head is on the pillow, I'm like, yo,
this is a cry for help.

Speaker 3 (48:59):
And like slices an she's here, I'm thinking he's thirty eight.

Speaker 4 (49:02):
And then he's like, my mommy makes me Salomon. I'm like, whoa,
he's we have bigger issues here.

Speaker 7 (49:07):
Stop.

Speaker 4 (49:07):
Why are you guys doing this?

Speaker 3 (49:09):
Sh