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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Checks and the Morning Show with d J Foreign It's
Sad Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five, well for and you know it's always gonna
be a good story. And I stopped him because I'm like,
you can just finish this on air. It started out
with so I lie to my wife.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
What are you doing? What am I doing?
Speaker 4 (00:25):
So I lied to my wife.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
And by the way, it has something to do with
a TikTok shop because he was on the TikTok shop
and then he goes so I lied to my wife.
This man is obsessed. When I tell you obsessed, they
could be like it's Heroin and it comes in pill form.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Here it is, but it's on the TikTok shop, so
I have to buy it.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
It's cheap because it's cheap, it's shiny, and it like
sheen is it TV.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
But it's so.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Easy to purchase with a double click. Then it's at
your house, and I.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Like that make it super easy. What are y'all going
to do with TikTok when it's gone in a.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Couple of serious, you're gonna be okay, move to China.
TikTok has been popping up with a bunch of like
lingerie sets. I don't know how I got down this path.
It's probably because I follow a lot of these like
hot moms that are trying to spice up their marriages.
So yesterday I bought like, I don't know, I think
it's called a slit where it's like or like a
(01:15):
nighty thing.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Okay, So a.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Slit is not and out like Okay, a slip puff
slip with a p might have a slit to with
a t in it. A slip would be like a
little like a dress, like a like what it.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Is a slip with two high slits on the side,
so you see a lot of like the hip and
the whole thing is designed for you not to come
to bed in with an underwear on. So it's like,
you know, trying to spice up the marriage. So I
bought that without telling her. But yesterday, that's fine. Yesterday
a set of thongs, like a ten pack of thongs
that popped up that are seen that are seamless came
(01:52):
came up. But I didn't know what size to buy,
so I needed to ask her. I'm like, hey, are
you a medium or a large? Turned out she's a medium,
which you know, I'm like perfect. She's like, why go oh,
because this company wants to send me their new songs
and they were asking specifically what size you were because
they want them to send to you.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Yeah, so that's I'm putting that in the white line bucket.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Yeah. So it's it's.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
Not gonna like hurt her in any way, but.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
It's all red flags because you know, you do a
lot of concert.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
But if I told her that I was buying them
for her, she instantly would have been defensive and would
just assumed that boy some like dirty stuff. But man,
I can't wait to see what she looks like in
these songs though. Yeah, dude, can I tell you?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
I can I tell you?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Over the vacation, I don't know, Like our connection has
just been better over the last couple of years. It's
just getting better, like every day. But man, our intimacy
during the vacation was just so stressed.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
You both of you are healthy, you know what I mean?
You have the loss of way. Yeah, looking good. You
know that that's gonna.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Drive up to sex drive and where are you at
like VIAGRAA wise?
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Oh, I still take it okay, but it takes cilice.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Sorry, Yeah, it's.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I am a junkie and I am happy and I
am never going to go to rehab. I take it
on Saturdays before our thing and it lasts a whole
weekend and it is amazing.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
And see, because I think everybody defines intimacy and their
relationship differently, Like what is a moment of a really
great intimacy for you and Joyanne?
Speaker 1 (03:27):
I think a good example is that we were talking
about our twenty twenty five goals, but specifically like part
of that was talking about what we want from each other,
and I just to kind of like continue the communication
because I think I struggle sometimes with her knowing what's
in her heart and what's in her head. Where to her,
it's like, well, I'm here and I'm fine. That means
that I'm happy, which I understand that's her. But I
need a little bit more. And she's giving me these
(03:49):
things that I've been asking for and obviously for her,
she's asking me to do more around the house. So
I'm consciously trying to think about this stuff when I
get home. Yeah, the whole Yeah, pick up this the
trashy things. You should job now so I am free
of that, but I'm constantly just asking, like I.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Think some people think intimacy is like you guys laid
up on the bed together.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
And there are parts in the bedroom that have definitely
stepped up because I think she's listening to me about
all this, and I'm thinking about this because I wasn't
supposed to talk about a last year. I made a
power point of what I was looking for. I want
to see it. No, I made a power point of
(04:33):
what I wanted in the bedroom, like what what do
you You presented this to her?
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Yes, I did, you know it can't get so see
what you presented?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
These pictures of other people.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
There's no pictures. They were like generic pictures of like couples.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
It reminds me of when we do like the basic
training for media.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
These six of like a hand on a butt like that,
Like what were you telling about?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
You know? At the very last page of the presentation,
it's like, here's the review.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
What was the review of the presentation?
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Those were called action items. They're basically the presentation was
like we have done all these things, and I don't
want to stray away from what you're comfortable, things that
you kind of like. But let's explore within them, have
some fun with and then playing around with some of
the stuff that we've done before that we haven't done
in a while. I give me one, my divorce will happen,
(05:35):
you know what.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
I think?
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Like the outfits, the songs, and the slip dress.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
When it comes to the outfit, she is easygoing with
all that stuff. Now she likes she knows what.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
A couple of years back, he asked her if she
could shower with the door open. That was like a big.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Can I tell you though? The moon moves went away?
But I want them like they are back now they
are back because it's like sleeping naked. It's like sleeping
with just a T shirt on. So they look good.
They look so now now I love them.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
What is one thing that you wanted to change? Was
it a different sex position?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
No, No, I think it was, Hey, it's going to
be this one vanilla position, but.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Let's spice let's spice up around it, because we're eventually
going to get to that position. But everything around it
can be a little bit like I.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Know, there was one there was one act.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
There was one act of sexuals that you had really
hoped for, Like.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
In the you know what you're talking about, that.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
We're closer to it. Position in the
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Position it's Have you ever had you know, the blowpops
with have you read a blow pop
Checks and the Morning Show with d J Foreign It's
Sad Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five, well for and you know it's always gonna
be a good story. And I stopped him because I'm like,
you can just finish this on air. It started out
with so I lie to my wife.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
What are you doing? What am I doing?
Speaker 4 (00:25):
So I lied to my wife.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
And by the way, it has something to do with
a TikTok shop because he was on the TikTok shop
and then he goes so I lied to my wife.
This man is obsessed. When I tell you obsessed, they
could be like it's Heroin and it comes in pill form.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Here it is, but it's on the TikTok shop, so
I have to buy it.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
It's cheap because it's cheap, it's shiny, and it like
sheen is it TV.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
But it's so.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Easy to purchase with a double click. Then it's at
your house, and I.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Like that make it super easy. What are y'all going
to do with TikTok when it's gone in a.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Couple of serious, you're gonna be okay, move to China.
TikTok has been popping up with a bunch of like
lingerie sets. I don't know how I got down this path.
It's probably because I follow a lot of these like
hot moms that are trying to spice up their marriages.
So yesterday I bought like, I don't know, I think
it's called a slit where it's like or like a
(01:15):
nighty thing.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Okay, So a.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Slit is not and out like Okay, a slip puff
slip with a p might have a slit to with
a t in it. A slip would be like a
little like a dress, like a like what it.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Is a slip with two high slits on the side,
so you see a lot of like the hip and
the whole thing is designed for you not to come
to bed in with an underwear on. So it's like,
you know, trying to spice up the marriage. So I
bought that without telling her. But yesterday, that's fine. Yesterday
a set of thongs, like a ten pack of thongs
that popped up that are seen that are seamless came
(01:52):
came up. But I didn't know what size to buy,
so I needed to ask her. I'm like, hey, are
you a medium or a large? Turned out she's a medium,
which you know, I'm like perfect. She's like, why go oh,
because this company wants to send me their new songs
and they were asking specifically what size you were because
they want them to send to you.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Yeah, so that's I'm putting that in the white line bucket.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Yeah. So it's it's.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
Not gonna like hurt her in any way, but.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
It's all red flags because you know, you do a
lot of concert.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
But if I told her that I was buying them
for her, she instantly would have been defensive and would
just assumed that boy some like dirty stuff. But man,
I can't wait to see what she looks like in
these songs though. Yeah, dude, can I tell you?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
I can I tell you?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Over the vacation, I don't know, Like our connection has
just been better over the last couple of years. It's
just getting better, like every day. But man, our intimacy
during the vacation was just so stressed.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
You both of you are healthy, you know what I mean?
You have the loss of way. Yeah, looking good. You
know that that's gonna.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Drive up to sex drive and where are you at
like VIAGRAA wise?
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Oh, I still take it okay, but it takes cilice.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
Sorry, Yeah, it's.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I am a junkie and I am happy and I
am never going to go to rehab. I take it
on Saturdays before our thing and it lasts a whole
weekend and it is amazing.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
And see, because I think everybody defines intimacy and their
relationship differently, Like what is a moment of a really
great intimacy for you and Joyanne?
Speaker 1 (03:27):
I think a good example is that we were talking
about our twenty twenty five goals, but specifically like part
of that was talking about what we want from each other,
and I just to kind of like continue the communication
because I think I struggle sometimes with her knowing what's
in her heart and what's in her head. Where to her,
it's like, well, I'm here and I'm fine. That means
that I'm happy, which I understand that's her. But I
need a little bit more. And she's giving me these
(03:49):
things that I've been asking for and obviously for her,
she's asking me to do more around the house. So
I'm consciously trying to think about this stuff when I
get home. Yeah, the whole Yeah, pick up this the
trashy things. You should job now so I am free
of that, but I'm constantly just asking, like I.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Think some people think intimacy is like you guys laid
up on the bed together.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
And there are parts in the bedroom that have definitely
stepped up because I think she's listening to me about
all this, and I'm thinking about this because I wasn't
supposed to talk about a last year. I made a
power point of what I was looking for. I want
to see it. No, I made a power point of
(04:33):
what I wanted in the bedroom, like what what do
you You presented this to her?
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Yes, I did, you know it can't get so see
what you presented?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
These pictures of other people.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
There's no pictures. They were like generic pictures of like couples.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
It reminds me of when we do like the basic
training for media.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
These six of like a hand on a butt like that,
Like what were you telling about?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
You know? At the very last page of the presentation,
it's like, here's the review.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
What was the review of the presentation?
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Those were called action items. They're basically the presentation was
like we have done all these things, and I don't
want to stray away from what you're comfortable, things that
you kind of like. But let's explore within them, have
some fun with and then playing around with some of
the stuff that we've done before that we haven't done
in a while. I give me one, my divorce will happen,
(05:35):
you know what.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
I think?
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Like the outfits, the songs, and the slip dress.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
When it comes to the outfit, she is easygoing with
all that stuff. Now she likes she knows what.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
A couple of years back, he asked her if she
could shower with the door open. That was like a big.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Can I tell you though? The moon moves went away?
But I want them like they are back now they
are back because it's like sleeping naked. It's like sleeping
with just a T shirt on. So they look good.
They look so now now I love them.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
What is one thing that you wanted to change? Was
it a different sex position?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
No, No, I think it was, Hey, it's going to
be this one vanilla position, but.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Let's spice let's spice up around it, because we're eventually
going to get to that position. But everything around it
can be a little bit like I.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Know, there was one there was one act.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
There was one act of sexuals that you had really
hoped for, Like.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
In the you know what you're talking about, that.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
We're closer to it. Position in the
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Position it's Have you ever had you know, the blowpops
with have you read a blow pop
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