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March 19, 2025 13 mins
Beating cancer is celebrated!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Daddy and the jam In Morning Show with d J.
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Speaker 2 (00:04):
Morning, Bustin's number one for hip hop jamming ninety four five. Hi, everybody,
good morning. We're checking in on you. We've been gone
the last few days. So how was the long weekend?
For some?

Speaker 3 (00:18):
It was long weekend?

Speaker 2 (00:19):
But what have we missed over the last few days?
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
That is six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. We're gonna kick it off with Della in Roxbury. Della,
Oh my.

Speaker 4 (00:32):
God, Hey tell everybody.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
How many times you've beaten cancer?

Speaker 4 (00:39):
Three?

Speaker 5 (00:40):
Jeez?

Speaker 3 (00:40):
What three times?

Speaker 4 (00:43):
Three times? And I just had my boobs removed finally
in December, got a brand new set. I'm feeling fabulous.
Oh baby, just turned sixty, doing good?

Speaker 5 (00:54):
You know.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
I remember my aunt went through this and when she
got her new pair, she wanted everybody to touch those,
like every everybody feel them, feel them, feel them?

Speaker 4 (01:03):
How really did you? I didn't want anybody to touch them,
but everybody wanted to touch them.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Yes, did you get the tattoo part?

Speaker 4 (01:13):
I did not add of yet.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
Okay, do you guys know what I'm talking about?

Speaker 2 (01:18):
It?

Speaker 4 (01:18):
I still have one, but the other one's gone, so
I'm considering it and get them sixty. Nobody's still messing
with these like that.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
So well, I wasnteering as tribute three times.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
It's crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
I always ask this, Did you feel something initially that
you were like, man, I should go to the doctor.

Speaker 3 (01:37):
Did you feel a lump?

Speaker 1 (01:38):
Like?

Speaker 3 (01:38):
How did that all happen?

Speaker 4 (01:40):
Absolutely not. What I've learned is that cancer is found
always by accident. Nobody goes to the hospital and say,
check me for cancer, unfortunately, but we should. I had
a stomach issue, had MRI. They went up a little
higher and say you've got a lump there, you might
want to get it checked. Well, the whole year went
by before I did, because I was there for my
stomach and then I felt it.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
Damn Tella. That is crazy.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
So right now cancer free brand new breaths might get
a tattooed.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
No, they we're waiting to figure it out.

Speaker 6 (02:10):
Yeah thatll I do got a question because I do
got a close friend of mine who's going through her
mom's just going through this actually and about the surgery,
and you know, I don't really know how to confort
like to kind of even say anything you know what
I mean, because that's a big deal to to to
have those removed. Like, how did you how did you
kind of deal with that? Like is there what advice
could you give me?

Speaker 1 (02:30):
Basically, well, well, it.

Speaker 4 (02:32):
Was very hard, I'm telling you because I'm young, and
you know, when you think about losing your breast, you
feel like you're losing part of your womanhood, you know.
But at the end of the day, when I really
had to think about it three times, they kept finding it.
The only way to you know, cure me, so to speak,

(02:52):
is to remove them. The blessing in that is to
remember that she's going to get a brand new set
that's not going to death, going to be cancer for
that's not gonna sag, you know. So that's the way
you can kind of help her out. Just remind her
that this next step is no more cancer.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
Maybe if you would be willing, you could grab herself
for it and then just offer a shift she ever
needs anybody to talk to somebody that's gone.

Speaker 6 (03:18):
Through it, because I really don't know what to say.
I know it's a hard thing, you know, I'm not
I'm a guy, so I can think about it. So
it's when I'm trying to kind of give words of wisdom.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
I have none.

Speaker 6 (03:29):
Yeah, I'm honest, I'm lost, you know what I mean.
So I'm glad that I'm.

Speaker 4 (03:33):
A peek kid. So I believe in prayer and you know,
prayer and good conversation and research.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
Yeah, let's link up.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah I like that, della. Yeah, don't go anywhere. We'll
get your number. I couldn't imagine.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
I think, obviously, if your options are be cancer free
or you know what I mean, if this is what
you have to do, you have to do.

Speaker 3 (03:53):
But like you know, I don't know her history, but
for me.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
I would think like I fed two kids with these
like you know what I mean, you go through all
of those emotions.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
Yeah, absolutely is.

Speaker 5 (04:04):
But get checked, man, like get checked often too. I
think her point, you like, let it go. So yeah
I would. I would go today to get checked.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
It's unrelated, but I don't know what it is, and
I don't know. God, I feel like such a creep
right now because I don't know if it's just me.
But when I get checked, when like the doctor, like
their hands are so soft and nice like the way
they check, so I know, I know, I know, I'm

(04:37):
not that I'm crying right now. I'm not saying that
it turns me on, but they're these women are just
so nice and so gentle the way they do, and
there's a little chill to their hands, like I don't know,
it's just.

Speaker 5 (04:47):
And I tell you that when they check us for
for like, it's not nice. It doesn't feel good.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
But yeah, every time, well anytime they ask can I check,
I'm like, yes, please. Actually want to go in one
of those chambers and get like fully checked out, But
then I know I'll go into a deep dark hole.
You know.

Speaker 5 (05:05):
It's like ten grand to Dodd how much you caught something.
It's like six or ten thousand dollars.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
You can go in like a chamber thing. It does
a full ten.

Speaker 5 (05:13):
My wife's old boss does it yearly.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (05:16):
Yeah, just to make sure I would give anything for that.
I want that.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
I just know that I'm scary. Ten grand.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Yeah, damn are you going to talk to high c four?

Speaker 7 (05:29):
Good morning, my people, how are we doing?

Speaker 3 (05:32):
We're good? Listen, you have a You and fourn have
an event coming up.

Speaker 7 (05:38):
Yes, April eighteenth, Me and Foreun will be at the
Middle East downstairs and Cambridge opening it up for chef
g We'll be playing obviously Bob Boston's favorite song like
the Way DJ four and be mixed featuring your boy
C four and my good friend Mickey Space.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
I love it so as since you produced the song
for him, you'll be up there on stage.

Speaker 3 (06:03):
But you're like, what do you do?

Speaker 1 (06:05):
I just need the song?

Speaker 3 (06:06):
Oh okay, You're.

Speaker 6 (06:07):
Not like, provide little background and libs and that's about it. Yeah,
but I'm just I'm dating his set. So part of
it set is going to be the song, which is
going to be fire song. I love it. I think
performing in live. You should pull up tomorrow to man,
you know, we had a we had a we had
a halve for Boston Richie.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
After Oh yeah, I definitely be there for sure.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
Let me know.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
Oh we're stopping out on the third night. Oh you're
gonna be tired on Friday.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
I'm dreading it. But it is what it is.

Speaker 6 (06:36):
Got to do it, you know what I mean. Boston
Richie is a dope artist. So make sure you pull
up tomorrow.

Speaker 5 (06:41):
Shut up, Boston Richie is amazing, right, yes, yeah.

Speaker 1 (06:45):
Right right?

Speaker 2 (06:48):
Six one seven and nine three one call us guys.
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five,
call me. We're talking about anything.

Speaker 3 (06:58):
You wants to check in. I guess we missed you.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
What a crazy last couple of weeks we've had. We
were just saying, like we were just in Orlando. We
came back, we did two shows here. You left Friday
earlier in the show to go to Mexico. You just
got back from Mexico last night. I was in this
really very similar to Mexico Marshfields for the past couple
of days, hanging with the babes. Daisy is nine months
old today. Nine months fast.

Speaker 4 (07:26):
I know.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
I keep saying how and by the way, that's one
of the first things people say to you when you
have kids, like it goes by so fast. That's an understatement.
I don't think there's there. It's a blink of an
eye and she's nine months. I'm gonna have to do that.
The trend that people do or they do nine months
in nine months out. Have you ever seen those where

(07:47):
they show that they show their like nine months belly
like busting out, and then nine months out the baby,
by the way, full on crawling, pulling herself up on everything,
trying to walk a lot.

Speaker 3 (07:59):
No, it's not dope.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
It's way more dope when they just sit and you
put toys around them. Now, I gotta have eyes on
her twenty four to seven and add in the toddler
trying to play with her. Yesterday, yesterday Daisy has.

Speaker 3 (08:12):
Her foot like up inside of the kitchen door. Laila
just walked by for no reason, shuts the door to
the kitchen on her little foot. I said, what the
hell are you doing? You just gotta have your head
on a swivel in my house right now.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
Speaking of daughters, Kim is in Wooster celebrating two of
your daughter's birthdays.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
What ages are we talking?

Speaker 4 (08:33):
Twelve and nineteen?

Speaker 3 (08:34):
And did it also go by in a blink for you?

Speaker 1 (08:37):
Like?

Speaker 3 (08:37):
How yes?

Speaker 4 (08:41):
Especially my nineteen year old was like, how did the
time go by?

Speaker 1 (08:45):
This?

Speaker 5 (08:46):
I know?

Speaker 2 (08:47):
What was your If you had to say, you have
a twelve and a nineteen year old and including baby age,
what was your what's your favorite age?

Speaker 4 (08:54):
My favorite age was like you said, the baby who
to just say toys around everything is good? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (09:04):
You know, because yeah, you know, I think about once
they're out in the real world, then it really does.

Speaker 3 (09:11):
It becomes a reflection of your parenting.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
Right when they're out there, they're at school and they
do something wrong, it's like, damn, gotta look in the
mirror because you know what, then you have to maybe
blame yourself and that that.

Speaker 3 (09:21):
That also scares me.

Speaker 2 (09:22):
But I feel like what I've noticed, especially talking to YouTube,
every age every you guys is awesome.

Speaker 3 (09:28):
You guys have age's.

Speaker 6 (09:29):
Great when they're baby, you're teaching them how to be humans.
And then they grow up and they start talking. That's
a cute stage. Then they grow up and they're like
you know, eight, nine, ten, and they just saying anything
they want and you know the world is so innocent
to them. Then you get to like, you know, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen,
Now you can hang up. I could go to concerts
with my kids like yeah, and we could turn up
together like that. Every age group is super fire. Just

(09:52):
cherish it. I'm telling you, blink of any I used to.
I used to hear that and be like, yo, yeah,
the stupid for saying meets it.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
But it's really it is true. I blink of a
nine grown.

Speaker 3 (10:00):
I actually now hate.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
Those people because I don't feel like they force it
upon me enough. They're like it goes by fast, ash
they should have been like, no, you don't understand, like
take it very seriously because it's nuts, and I, you know,
I I go back to I thinking about myself being
pregnant and how like I rushed it so much because
of my history and I just wish I.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
Could slow down time because it's it's crazy.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
But Kim, Happy birthday to the girls twelve and nineteen
the other things.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
I got a thanks from the sea.

Speaker 6 (10:28):
As school mind you thank me.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
It's just like, mom, can you grand bat me? How
much is going on? Like what's the adamatic thought right there? Yeah? Yeah,
some texture. I'm like, what's going on? I'm like hello, hello, Hello, hello,
like you know, like trying to get our attention to
text me back. We'll stretch back so I get in

(10:51):
the car rush over there. You'll have a friend's thought
and another girl had excusion.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
Like uh, obviously not good for that girl. Hopefully she's okay.
But yeah, like we're gonna have to set the twelve
year old down and say, hey, let me let me
teach you how to text because you're scaring Mommy.

Speaker 4 (11:10):
Was like the scariest thing.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
I know.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
Well, I'm glad everybody's okay. Hopefully that girl that had
the stroke is also okay or seizure.

Speaker 4 (11:18):
Sorry, that's the only thing I say.

Speaker 5 (11:21):
I know how it is.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
I know like she was on that astronaut like she
was in the in the bubble.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
Kim, we're losing you, babe.

Speaker 2 (11:35):
You sound like you're in space X so happy herd
day of the girls kissed them for me. Yeah, dude,
I was like, by the way, how about those guys
getting off the word am I s space ship?

Speaker 1 (11:46):
Space ship?

Speaker 5 (11:47):
Yes, they were up there for so long that they
came back down.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
They forgot how to walk.

Speaker 3 (11:50):
Yeah, physically you can't.

Speaker 5 (11:52):
You can.

Speaker 2 (11:52):
When we were watching that this morning, they were saying
they were in space so long that for them, like
lifting even a pencil, Yeah, even a pencil would feel
like lifting a legit weight to them.

Speaker 5 (12:02):
And then like they don't talk about this enough, but
like your bowels are like what the hell is happening?
And then gravity takes over and just things about the.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
Two astronauts that got off the space ship after being
like stuck in space, they just got out and they're
kind of decent.

Speaker 3 (12:18):
I'm not talking about them going to the bathroom.

Speaker 2 (12:20):
I was saying that they're detailing what it's like and
that even for them lifting up a pencil, it's going
to feel like they're lifting up a massive weight just
because of them trying to refigure out the rehability.

Speaker 1 (12:29):
Basically they learn how to walk and every all it
takes weeks.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yeah, And I felt so bad for them because they
had cameras in their face the second they got the spaceship.
They were trying so hard to be like the guy
struggled to even smile.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
Like, that's a long time. What did they fall in
love up there?

Speaker 1 (12:43):
No? Probably not think they were they what were they
going for? About a year?

Speaker 5 (12:48):
Right?

Speaker 1 (12:48):
No?

Speaker 3 (12:49):
No, I think it was fifty days that I.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
Mean they were almost like you don't think they had sex.

Speaker 2 (12:57):
I honestly don't even know their family histories or anything.
But that's a lot of time to spend with.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
Somebody'll bustle one in space That was it just floats, floats,
you're just watching it. I didn't even drink. Wow, that
was a good one.

Speaker 3 (13:12):
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