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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Daddy and the jam In Morning Show with d J
four and it's saut Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four. Five.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Hi babes, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
We're checking in on you six one seven nine three
one one nine four five. Kathy is in southe Kathy,
how are we doing?
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Hi Ashley with to Eave. I love you guys so much.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Oh, Kathy, we love you too. Thanks for listening.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
You have a you have a story to tell us
about your ex husband.
Speaker 4 (00:32):
I have a crazy story to share with the world
in you guys, So tell us. I sat up far
in this story.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Okay, we were so close. I get it though. It's
just like we're comfortable. Uh, let's go back, Hey.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Kath, Okay, you're getting ready.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Oka yea yeah, yeah, it's getting close to Friday. I'm
cool with getting fired.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
On a Friday.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
But let's let's rein it in no cursing. Tell us
the story about your ex husbands.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Okay, Okay. So I was with my ex husband in
for fifteen years. We have three children together. We met
when we started DEED and we were like in our
early twenties, like it was my space DS.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
So we had, you know, a very like up and
down relationship. A lot of a lot of damage was done,
a lot of teating. And it's funny that Farman had
said yesterday, you know, people will treat you the way
you allow them to. It's so true. It's so true.
I allowed so much. Anyways, that's not the end of them.
(01:34):
So about a year and a half ago he had
gotten back into the Boil and Maker's Union. And with
this job, it's like three months on, three months off,
so you're away for three months and they could send
you like anywhere, so he would go to like Ohio, Missouri, Pennsylvania,
stuff like that. So he I was like, wherever you've
(01:56):
been staying while you're out there? And he told me
that him and a cold was here on the cost
of an airbnb. And I'm like, oh, that's smart, that's good.
So come to find out that's not what they were doing.
He had rented it. So what So this is first
I seen an app on his phone and the app
was like women that are incocerated doing time, that are
(02:18):
looking for somebody to write.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Them Jesus Christ think it was going there. I saw
this little app tender not.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Like lot girl, so I was like, what is this app?
Like what you what is First I deleted it and
didn't say anything because I was like, you know, I'm
trying to pick my battles. I'm trying not to be
like I'm trying to like drops him and knock on
him left.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
That's not even a battle, that's a war. But okay,
good for you. You're like love is love fighting.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Right, So the app is back on the phone and
I'm like, what is this app? What is this app?
And he's telling me it's not and it's not been well.
Come to find out, he was writing this girl. They
stopped his relationship. He had rented a three bedroom apartment
for her and her children to share out da when
she got out, and then he sent me divorce papers.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
This was a year and a half ago.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
This was like a year and a half ago. But
at the time I was dealing with like I had
just lost my oldest daughter to substance abews. Okay, yeah,
Like I had a big surgery coming up that literally
almost took my life. Like I was in the hospital
for three months. What was supposed to be four to
six weeks of downtime turned into four to six months.
And then like money ran out. So now here we
(03:43):
fast forward all the time. We haven't seen or heard
from this man in over a year, or at least
a year. It's been at almost the year now, not
over a year, but almost the year now. He doesn't
even my oldest child has her own phone, Like, he
doesn't even call her a text her, doesn't respond to
her at Christmas time? Nothing is he with the jail lady?
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Are they Missouri?
Speaker 4 (04:08):
And they're like posting their happy little photos all over
Facebook and and I'm just looking, I'm like, and then
they both blocked me, so I can't see anymore. But
I still have my ways, honey, and.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
I know you do.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Cass Hey, listen, I need to know what was her crime?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Like what we're always talking about?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
What was I don't know what her Would you say
what her chod was or whatever?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
What was her?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
She hasn't had many conversations with me, Like.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
I was gonna say, the Google machine, let's let's get
to the bottom of that.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
We'll do it for you.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Honestly, the kid part is pissing me off.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I mean, you know, you're an your grown woman, and
it sucks and you'll figure it out. But to not
reach out to his kids.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Like exact and you know what, and that's first, like
I'm not gonna lie. Really was really hurt. Yes, we
have so he has together and all these kids, and
I'm like, I can't believe this, like but now I'm
over it. And honestly, if he's happy, I'm happy for him.
But our six year old son especially is like upst
with his dog like upsets and he just every single
(05:16):
day faithfully, it's like I miss my I miss daddy,
I miss daddy, And I just say, I know Boddy,
and you know what, wherever he is, I know he
misses you too. I would never bad mouth him to
my kids. That would be not okay. I would never
do that. They love him so much and I know
that he loves them. I think he might be struggling
with I think he might have fallen back into his
old waves, but also with this chick, like you know,
(05:38):
like he's any free time he does have that he
can get on social media or whatever. I notice he's
like writing messages to her. And that's when I'm like,
I sat not feel really too bad anymore about his
issues that I know what.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Hurts me about it, Cass.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
You mentioned that she has kids too, So now here
he is with kids of his own, but he's playing
house in Missouri with the with the jail lady and
her kids and neglecting his own.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Well, he has the thing right, like, so he gets
this big apartment for like her and her kids. But
I have not once, not one photo. And she posts
pictures of her and him and they supposedly got married
like this, supposedly they did so she but not one
picture of her and her kids. I don't even think
she has her kids to be really honest, if we
(06:25):
want to get really.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Yeah, well, I mean depending on the crime. Hey, do
you allow does.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
His family reach out to you and say I want
to see the grandkids?
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Like you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
No?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
And his mother and I used to be really close
and her and I had a fallen out and that's fine,
but she doesn't even attempt to see my children, her grandkids,
like at all. She hasn't even attempted.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
That's so weird that it's a shame. It is a shame.
How old are the kids? Said, I know you mentioned six, but.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Yeah, so Sun Matthew is twelve Mackenzie's ten and TG.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Oh, well governments, that's awful. But that wow, But Kath,
you're not lying. That is a legit lifetime movie right there.
It really is like.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
It's danity, it's like crazy. And this girl, like I
literally thinks that, like she got the greatest thing on earth.
And I'm like, listen, like you know what I mean
and don't. And then she tried to come to me
and my kids and I'm like, kas, there is no.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Way she thinks she got the greatest man on the
planet when he doesn't even he's a father, and he
doesn't father.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
He's the one that can buy a man that doesn't
even take care of his children. Yeah, volumes for the
type of person you want.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
I know, well, I know I don't need to ask
this because I feel like you would have said it.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
But he's clearly not helping financially. Correct.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
No, not even a little bit, man, Kath.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
I'm sorry, Uh, if you want us to Santill pay
for it, and if you want us to get to
the bottom of it, we'll find out her crime that
we could do that for you. So you just don't
hang on the line there. Yeah, don't go anywhere because
you know STI what.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
Hair, I want a chance to win the Disney trip.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I think, okay, well actually you you might be one
that deserves it. Well that's at eight twenty, so hang
on the line, but good luck hopefully for and takes
your you know you're called twenty five.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
What the best thing about is that the guy.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
The guy has a type. He was seeking out a car.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Imagine being left full convict who was in jail. That's
about all these other things that I've said before that
would hurt me, and that would be that would.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Send me seriously like he did survived that, Like he
wants a battie, like a true one. Oh my god,
if you're on hold, don't go anywhere. Six one seven.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Nine three one one nine four five six one seven
nine three one one nine four five.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
How the hell are you? I know you're better than Kathy.
What's going on?
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Check your armor today? Vibe and like this man thinks
he has something over here. You're not cool if you
just copy Forlorn like that's not you just scary him.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
It's not cool. Floren's hipmin that that is my lifeline.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Santi's in the kitchen with Joanne, Like have you seen
my latest Instagram.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
It's a movie. Yeah, sicko.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
By the way, we tried, we Kathy didn't have much
infotogas because you already know.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
I was gonna report to you guys what this woman's
crime was. But she had nothing. She had his married her,
she had like the chicks marry name if.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
That is me. I'm going to Missouri and I'm I
will find out the woman's cvs.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
That she goes to. I I I have to know
the answer. It's but anyways, we digress. We're moving on.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Let's check in with Gwen in Fall River. Gwen, who's pregnant?
Speaker 5 (09:48):
Hi, my cousin.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Oh this is exciting, right, Uh?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Yeah, but I.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Found out that I was pregnant. Baby boy is coming
in May. I don't note that I was pregnant in
September of last year, around my birthday ish, like the
end of September, and me and my fiance went out
to eat one day and this was almost around Thanksgiving,
so we are like, you know, a couple of more months,
(10:16):
you know, being pregnant. Whatever our whole family knows at
this point. Mind you, my cousin's boyfriend is my fiance's
best friend. We all went to school together minus my cousin. Okay,
so we all have a relationship like me, my fiance,
and his best friend. We're basically all best friends built
in one. You know, there's no secret to be kept anything,
(10:41):
like he'll tell us anything like. That's what you know.
We love about him. He's very open, he's very honest,
and he couldn't obviously keep a secret from my fiance,
and my fiance couldn't keep that secret from me. So
one day we were at a restaurant, me and my fiance,
we went out to eat and my fiance was like,
(11:02):
I need to tell you something and I was like what, Like,
what's the matter? Like I was just like freaking out,
like what are you keeping from me? You know? And
he was like, your cousin is pregnant. And I literally
looked at him in shock because I told them when
we were like literally just pregnant, like we were so
(11:23):
excited and they were the first people that we told.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Okay, I can hear that there's like a little bit
of anger in your voice about the fact that she
hasn't told when there could be there could be a
magnitude of reasons why she she's not telling you maybe
she miscarried.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
And she wants to keep it to herself until she
feels safe. I don't know bouncing idea has She has
a six.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Year old son, and that's my god son. So that's
why I'm kind of upset is because me and her
have always had a relationship growing up, Gwen, and we've
always told each other everything.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
When Gwen, you're making this about yourself, it's really not
about you. Clearly there's a reason why she's holding back information,
and maybe at some point she's gonna tell you, but
don't internalize it is making about you.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Yeah, no, no.
Speaker 5 (12:06):
No, that's not no, that's not what I'm like referring to.
But the only thing why I'm upset is, uh, his
whole family knows. Okay, his whole family knows. And I'm
like towards the end of pregnancy. So she's only three
months three months like after me, so she's clearly half
(12:28):
almost halfway too, So like, what's the big secret?
Speaker 1 (12:33):
You know?
Speaker 5 (12:35):
I want to so bad? So there's another quick there's
another quick story going on. We had to go to
like a birthday party and it was about her fiance,
her boyfriend's brother. It was his birthday party. We were
all together, and she gave me such a think guy
when I walked in and didn't talk to the whole party,
(12:58):
So obviously I didn't. I didn't say anything because obviously
I'm upset because she didn't tell.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Maybe she doesn't like snitches.
Speaker 5 (13:08):
Yeah, I wasn't gonna. I mean, I just I wanted
her to tell me at least because no I told
you something like that's so important, you know.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
I mean, listen, I'll be honest with you. I don't
know what her history is. I don't know why she's
not telling.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
But I didn't tell some people in my family that
I was pregnant until I was six months six. So,
like I think, to each their own, we don't know.
We don't know what's going on with her. But I
to Santi's point, like it real, like that baby could
could come on out, and she may not. She still
may not have told you that her timeline is her timeline.
You can you can't let it bother you and get
(13:47):
in your head because guess what, You're about to have
a baby and you're they're already stressed.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
So Gwenn is coming from you shed something important with her.
But you know, in life Gwen, we got to stop
putting expectations of what other people should act the way
we do. You act the way you do, and let
her do her thing. If she doesn't want to say anything,
it's up to her. I don't think you should go
tell the family if she doesn't want to. She has
a reason why she hasn't said anything. You don't know it.
Speaker 5 (14:11):
Oh no, Like I know, like I'm I was just
speechless at the point where, like you know, like how
you said, like I told her in the beginning, we've
always had a relationship, and then just for her not
to tell you know, it's like I'm finding different things
out from different.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
People, right, No, And I know that's hurtful for sure,
especially because, like Boren said, you confided in her. But
I think concentrate on your pregnancy, getting everything ready.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Is this your first baby? Yes, so this is so exciting.
Concrats girl, You're not gonna have time to.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Think about anything else in a month or so, so
just just you know, gear up for the baby because
life is about to change.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
Don't worry about your cousin.
Speaker 5 (14:52):
Yeah, all right, all right, thank you guys.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
You're welcome. Good luck.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
Something happened between them because shows she's pregnan in life
like that though that expect you because I did this
for you, you should do the same thing.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Not the way life works right now.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
You might confide in me and cool, thank you.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
But I might not want to talk about it and
and like females were different, like it would hurt you know,
like it would hurt me if I found out like
Jody kept something from me.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
It would But I also would say something to Jody
for sure. Correct, Yeah, like you should go to Yeah,
what's up?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
What did I do? Why are you upset? Like I
want to support you through this pregnancy? Why are you
not telling whatever the case may be, I wouldn't like
I wouldn't, you know.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
And like, what's up with that bump? Yeah, you have
a basketball shape thing going on. Then you can't say
that's people anymore, you know, you can't. That's that's a
roll of the dice. It's a roll of the dice.
Disney's coming up eight twenty. Good morning,
Daddy and the jam In Morning Show with d J
four and it's saut Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four. Five.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Hi babes, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
We're checking in on you six one seven nine three
one one nine four five. Kathy is in southe Kathy,
how are we doing?
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Hi Ashley with to Eave. I love you guys so much.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Oh, Kathy, we love you too. Thanks for listening.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
You have a you have a story to tell us
about your ex husband.
Speaker 4 (00:32):
I have a crazy story to share with the world
in you guys, So tell us. I sat up far
in this story.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Okay, we were so close. I get it though. It's
just like we're comfortable. Uh, let's go back, Hey.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Kath, Okay, you're getting ready.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Oka yea yeah, yeah, it's getting close to Friday. I'm
cool with getting fired.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
On a Friday.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
But let's let's rein it in no cursing. Tell us
the story about your ex husbands.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Okay, Okay. So I was with my ex husband in
for fifteen years. We have three children together. We met
when we started DEED and we were like in our
early twenties, like it was my space DS.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
So we had, you know, a very like up and
down relationship. A lot of a lot of damage was done,
a lot of teating. And it's funny that Farman had
said yesterday, you know, people will treat you the way
you allow them to. It's so true. It's so true.
I allowed so much. Anyways, that's not the end of them.
(01:34):
So about a year and a half ago he had
gotten back into the Boil and Maker's Union. And with
this job, it's like three months on, three months off,
so you're away for three months and they could send
you like anywhere, so he would go to like Ohio, Missouri, Pennsylvania,
stuff like that. So he I was like, wherever you've
(01:56):
been staying while you're out there? And he told me
that him and a cold was here on the cost
of an airbnb. And I'm like, oh, that's smart, that's good.
So come to find out that's not what they were doing.
He had rented it. So what So this is first
I seen an app on his phone and the app
was like women that are incocerated doing time, that are
(02:18):
looking for somebody to write.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Them Jesus Christ think it was going there. I saw
this little app tender not.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Like lot girl, so I was like, what is this app?
Like what you what is First I deleted it and
didn't say anything because I was like, you know, I'm
trying to pick my battles. I'm trying not to be
like I'm trying to like drops him and knock on
him left.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
That's not even a battle, that's a war. But okay,
good for you. You're like love is love fighting.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Right, So the app is back on the phone and
I'm like, what is this app? What is this app?
And he's telling me it's not and it's not been well.
Come to find out, he was writing this girl. They
stopped his relationship. He had rented a three bedroom apartment
for her and her children to share out da when
she got out, and then he sent me divorce papers.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
This was a year and a half ago.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
This was like a year and a half ago. But
at the time I was dealing with like I had
just lost my oldest daughter to substance abews. Okay, yeah,
Like I had a big surgery coming up that literally
almost took my life. Like I was in the hospital
for three months. What was supposed to be four to
six weeks of downtime turned into four to six months.
And then like money ran out. So now here we
(03:43):
fast forward all the time. We haven't seen or heard
from this man in over a year, or at least
a year. It's been at almost the year now, not
over a year, but almost the year now. He doesn't
even my oldest child has her own phone, Like, he
doesn't even call her a text her, doesn't respond to
her at Christmas time? Nothing is he with the jail lady?
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Are they Missouri?
Speaker 4 (04:08):
And they're like posting their happy little photos all over
Facebook and and I'm just looking, I'm like, and then
they both blocked me, so I can't see anymore. But
I still have my ways, honey, and.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
I know you do.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Cass Hey, listen, I need to know what was her crime?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Like what we're always talking about?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
What was I don't know what her Would you say
what her chod was or whatever?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
What was her?
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
She hasn't had many conversations with me, Like.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
I was gonna say, the Google machine, let's let's get
to the bottom of that.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
We'll do it for you.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Honestly, the kid part is pissing me off.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I mean, you know, you're an your grown woman, and
it sucks and you'll figure it out. But to not
reach out to his kids.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Like exact and you know what, and that's first, like
I'm not gonna lie. Really was really hurt. Yes, we
have so he has together and all these kids, and
I'm like, I can't believe this, like but now I'm
over it. And honestly, if he's happy, I'm happy for him.
But our six year old son especially is like upst
with his dog like upsets and he just every single
(05:16):
day faithfully, it's like I miss my I miss daddy,
I miss daddy, And I just say, I know Boddy,
and you know what, wherever he is, I know he
misses you too. I would never bad mouth him to
my kids. That would be not okay. I would never
do that. They love him so much and I know
that he loves them. I think he might be struggling
with I think he might have fallen back into his
old waves, but also with this chick, like you know,
(05:38):
like he's any free time he does have that he
can get on social media or whatever. I notice he's
like writing messages to her. And that's when I'm like,
I sat not feel really too bad anymore about his
issues that I know what.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Hurts me about it, Cass.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
You mentioned that she has kids too, So now here
he is with kids of his own, but he's playing
house in Missouri with the with the jail lady and
her kids and neglecting his own.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Well, he has the thing right, like, so he gets
this big apartment for like her and her kids. But
I have not once, not one photo. And she posts
pictures of her and him and they supposedly got married
like this, supposedly they did so she but not one
picture of her and her kids. I don't even think
she has her kids to be really honest, if we
(06:25):
want to get really.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Yeah, well, I mean depending on the crime. Hey, do
you allow does.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
His family reach out to you and say I want
to see the grandkids?
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Like you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
No?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
And his mother and I used to be really close
and her and I had a fallen out and that's fine,
but she doesn't even attempt to see my children, her grandkids,
like at all. She hasn't even attempted.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
That's so weird that it's a shame. It is a shame.
How old are the kids? Said, I know you mentioned six, but.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Yeah, so Sun Matthew is twelve Mackenzie's ten and TG.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Oh, well governments, that's awful. But that wow, But Kath,
you're not lying. That is a legit lifetime movie right there.
It really is like.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
It's danity, it's like crazy. And this girl, like I
literally thinks that, like she got the greatest thing on earth.
And I'm like, listen, like you know what I mean
and don't. And then she tried to come to me
and my kids and I'm like, kas, there is no.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Way she thinks she got the greatest man on the
planet when he doesn't even he's a father, and he
doesn't father.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
He's the one that can buy a man that doesn't
even take care of his children. Yeah, volumes for the
type of person you want.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
I know, well, I know I don't need to ask
this because I feel like you would have said it.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
But he's clearly not helping financially. Correct.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
No, not even a little bit, man, Kath.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
I'm sorry, Uh, if you want us to Santill pay
for it, and if you want us to get to
the bottom of it, we'll find out her crime that
we could do that for you. So you just don't
hang on the line there. Yeah, don't go anywhere because
you know STI what.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
Hair, I want a chance to win the Disney trip.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I think, okay, well actually you you might be one
that deserves it. Well that's at eight twenty, so hang
on the line, but good luck hopefully for and takes
your you know you're called twenty five.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
What the best thing about is that the guy.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
The guy has a type. He was seeking out a car.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Imagine being left full convict who was in jail. That's
about all these other things that I've said before that
would hurt me, and that would be that would.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Send me seriously like he did survived that, Like he
wants a battie, like a true one. Oh my god,
if you're on hold, don't go anywhere. Six one seven.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Nine three one one nine four five six one seven
nine three one one nine four five.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
How the hell are you? I know you're better than Kathy.
What's going on?
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Check your armor today? Vibe and like this man thinks
he has something over here. You're not cool if you
just copy Forlorn like that's not you just scary him.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
It's not cool. Floren's hipmin that that is my lifeline.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Santi's in the kitchen with Joanne, Like have you seen
my latest Instagram.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
It's a movie. Yeah, sicko.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
By the way, we tried, we Kathy didn't have much
infotogas because you already know.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
I was gonna report to you guys what this woman's
crime was. But she had nothing. She had his married her,
she had like the chicks marry name if.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
That is me. I'm going to Missouri and I'm I
will find out the woman's cvs.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
That she goes to. I I I have to know
the answer. It's but anyways, we digress. We're moving on.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Let's check in with Gwen in Fall River. Gwen, who's pregnant?
Speaker 5 (09:48):
Hi, my cousin.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Oh this is exciting, right, Uh?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Yeah, but I.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Found out that I was pregnant. Baby boy is coming
in May. I don't note that I was pregnant in
September of last year, around my birthday ish, like the
end of September, and me and my fiance went out
to eat one day and this was almost around Thanksgiving,
so we are like, you know, a couple of more months,
(10:16):
you know, being pregnant. Whatever our whole family knows at
this point. Mind you, my cousin's boyfriend is my fiance's
best friend. We all went to school together minus my cousin. Okay,
so we all have a relationship like me, my fiance,
and his best friend. We're basically all best friends built
in one. You know, there's no secret to be kept anything,
(10:41):
like he'll tell us anything like. That's what you know.
We love about him. He's very open, he's very honest,
and he couldn't obviously keep a secret from my fiance,
and my fiance couldn't keep that secret from me. So
one day we were at a restaurant, me and my fiance,
we went out to eat and my fiance was like,
(11:02):
I need to tell you something and I was like what, Like,
what's the matter? Like I was just like freaking out,
like what are you keeping from me? You know? And
he was like, your cousin is pregnant. And I literally
looked at him in shock because I told them when
we were like literally just pregnant, like we were so
(11:23):
excited and they were the first people that we told.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Okay, I can hear that there's like a little bit
of anger in your voice about the fact that she
hasn't told when there could be there could be a
magnitude of reasons why she she's not telling you maybe
she miscarried.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
And she wants to keep it to herself until she
feels safe. I don't know bouncing idea has She has
a six.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Year old son, and that's my god son. So that's
why I'm kind of upset is because me and her
have always had a relationship growing up, Gwen, and we've
always told each other everything.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
When Gwen, you're making this about yourself, it's really not
about you. Clearly there's a reason why she's holding back information,
and maybe at some point she's gonna tell you, but
don't internalize it is making about you.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Yeah, no, no.
Speaker 5 (12:06):
No, that's not no, that's not what I'm like referring to.
But the only thing why I'm upset is, uh, his
whole family knows. Okay, his whole family knows. And I'm
like towards the end of pregnancy. So she's only three
months three months like after me, so she's clearly half
(12:28):
almost halfway too, So like, what's the big secret?
Speaker 1 (12:33):
You know?
Speaker 5 (12:35):
I want to so bad? So there's another quick there's
another quick story going on. We had to go to
like a birthday party and it was about her fiance,
her boyfriend's brother. It was his birthday party. We were
all together, and she gave me such a think guy
when I walked in and didn't talk to the whole party,
(12:58):
So obviously I didn't. I didn't say anything because obviously
I'm upset because she didn't tell.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Maybe she doesn't like snitches.
Speaker 5 (13:08):
Yeah, I wasn't gonna. I mean, I just I wanted
her to tell me at least because no I told
you something like that's so important, you know.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
I mean, listen, I'll be honest with you. I don't
know what her history is. I don't know why she's
not telling.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
But I didn't tell some people in my family that
I was pregnant until I was six months six. So,
like I think, to each their own, we don't know.
We don't know what's going on with her. But I
to Santi's point, like it real, like that baby could
could come on out, and she may not. She still
may not have told you that her timeline is her timeline.
You can you can't let it bother you and get
(13:47):
in your head because guess what, You're about to have
a baby and you're they're already stressed.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
So Gwenn is coming from you shed something important with her.
But you know, in life Gwen, we got to stop
putting expectations of what other people should act the way
we do. You act the way you do, and let
her do her thing. If she doesn't want to say anything,
it's up to her. I don't think you should go
tell the family if she doesn't want to. She has
a reason why she hasn't said anything. You don't know it.
Speaker 5 (14:11):
Oh no, Like I know, like I'm I was just
speechless at the point where, like you know, like how
you said, like I told her in the beginning, we've
always had a relationship, and then just for her not
to tell you know, it's like I'm finding different things
out from different.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
People, right, No, And I know that's hurtful for sure,
especially because, like Boren said, you confided in her. But
I think concentrate on your pregnancy, getting everything ready.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
Is this your first baby? Yes, so this is so exciting.
Concrats girl, You're not gonna have time to.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Think about anything else in a month or so, so
just just you know, gear up for the baby because
life is about to change.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
Don't worry about your cousin.
Speaker 5 (14:52):
Yeah, all right, all right, thank you guys.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
You're welcome. Good luck.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
Something happened between them because shows she's pregnan in life
like that though that expect you because I did this
for you, you should do the same thing.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Not the way life works right now.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
You might confide in me and cool, thank you.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
But I might not want to talk about it and
and like females were different, like it would hurt you know,
like it would hurt me if I found out like
Jody kept something from me.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
It would But I also would say something to Jody
for sure. Correct, Yeah, like you should go to Yeah,
what's up?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
What did I do? Why are you upset? Like I
want to support you through this pregnancy? Why are you
not telling whatever the case may be, I wouldn't like
I wouldn't, you know.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
And like, what's up with that bump? Yeah, you have
a basketball shape thing going on. Then you can't say
that's people anymore, you know, you can't. That's that's a
roll of the dice. It's a roll of the dice.
Disney's coming up eight twenty. Good morning,
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