The Fat Cat Pt.1

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, wake it up, honey.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
I've been.

Speaker 1 (00:08):
Absolutely crushing audio books on my commune.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
That's what I do now.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
And I heard somebody say this, and I thought it
was the most accurate description.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
If you don't like audiobooks or you've never done them,
you should try it. Somebody said it's a movie for
your ears.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
I struggle with the fact of, like, you know, when
you read a book and you hold a book and
you're like reading, I feel like it triggers something in
your mind.

Speaker 2 (00:32):
It like keeps your mind sharp.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
Yeah, So I'm like, am I not keeping my mind
sharp because I'm listening to the books on audio as
opposed to holding them. But it's like I have this
time in the car where I can really do this.
So it's like a weird thing. But I do like
that a movie for your ears.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
I think it's important to still read something and I
kind of see how sentences are structured and stuff like that.
But I think it's more important for younger kids to
do that so they can learn that more as adult.
I don't think it's as important, but still nice. But
the audiobook world, oh my god, Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
And you put me onto the app audible because I
was spending you guys, before I started having a combo
with Auntie about this, but before I was I mean,
audiobooks are expensive.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
They're like twenty.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Dollars per So I had read, like I guess you
could do you say read, but I had read you
can okay, So I had read five audio books. I
was like, past one hundred dollars, like it was getting nuts,
and even the farman.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
Was like, you can't do that every single month. I
was like, I know.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
So you told me about the Audible app, where you
basically pay like a monthly fee, you get credits and
you can buy. I blew through my credits in two
weeks because I listened so much. But you can kind
of up your subscription. They also have you can go
on there's another app where you can go to libraries
and rent audiobooks.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
It's just the line.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
It's a line, and you have to wait until the
audiobook's available, and sometimes it takes too long.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
So I got impatient using.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
That with audiobooks. That's like the closest thing where I've
like I can't wait to get back in the car
and like finish this part. Or I remember being like
on long joves when I just drove back from Florida,
I've listened to an audiobook the entire one.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Well, you have no idea the excitement. I'll be like
getting you know, my makeup done and getting ready and
being like, oh, I can't wait to see what Alexis
is going to do. I feel the same feeling, same
payoff as if I'm watching a really good TV show
but I'm hearing it. I just that's the only thing
I struggle with, because I feel like reading keeps you sharp. Yeah,
and then audiobooks are different, but it's like I have

(02:29):
that time and it has completely revolutionized my community.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Absolutely. The funny thing about them, they weren't as good,
like they didn't have the actors on point like back
in the day.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
The voices can mess you what.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
They've gotten better. And I remember I did a couple
of The Twilight Ones on audiobook, and I hated Belda's
voice because I already had a picture what the voice was.
But now if you start them and the voice at
first might feel a little odd, but then you click
right into it.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
I have had both experiences of a like right now,
the one I'm reading. It's a guy's perspective as well
as a female, and they have two different actors.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
They have a guy actor and a girl actor, which
I love.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
But I've also had it where it's about a guy
and a girl and the girl does the guy voice,
and it drove me berserk because she'd be like I
went to the store and I saw Derek and he
was like, oh, I.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
I just can't. I can't.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
So it all depends, but I can usually get through it.
And sometimes you'll catch like an A list actress or
after reading a novel, depending.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
Especially if it's their bio. I heard that Charlie Sheen
one is really good because he reads it himself, so awesome,
and he actually he actually wrote that book himself too.
He didn't have a ghostwriter come in. He wrote it himself,
so it's in his voice. And also he's reading his
own like emotions.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Yeah, that's so dope. By the way, this is all
after you listen to our podcast. Absolutely our podcast should
be your number one most listen and then you could
get into a book.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
I also have to assume, and I've never read them,
but like the erotic books, do they have the same
appeal when you're reading them versus listening.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
I am listening to an erotic book right now, and yeah,
it's like it's funny because like the line today was,
he was like, and I couldn't believe that even speaking
to her on the phone made my penis feel crazy
in my past.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
That was the line. And I looked up at the
clock and it was like four oh.

Speaker 1 (04:19):
Two, Like, yo, I have a problem.

Speaker 4 (04:23):
A morning show when you need to know. We got
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Speaker 1 (04:33):
Five all Right Babes Tuesday, October twenty first, and the
Kettle overfloweth This morning, we should get Nick Rocko on.
I'm sure he has some inside info. But Michael Proctor
has dropped his appeal to get his job back, because remember,
this man was working hard.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
He thought he was allowed to have his job back.
I will never forget.

Speaker 1 (04:54):
The video of him sitting in his kitchen table wiping
his eyes with the burger king napkins. The burger came
nap and I was like, yoh, he's down and out,
because that's the bottom of that.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
You're sad, You're going to burger, you know what I mean?
If you were like sad, and you know things even better.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
You're hitting Mickey d Whopper. You're not well, you're hitting
the king. Anyways, we know he was fired over his
conduct during Karen Reid's high profile murder case. We will
never forget the iconic leaky buttole.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yeah, we can't forget that.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
And like the balloon, Oh my god, so accurate. I
didn't I never knew that that's what people called it.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
Yes, I have heard that before. It's just tough having
a detective who's investigating a murder. It's texting about him too.

Speaker 5 (05:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
And then also he's in her phone looking for nudes.
That was the craziest.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
On both sides.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
You're like, Okay, this is my daughter you're talking about,
and also like, my son is not with us anymore,
Like shouldn't you be doing your job?

Speaker 3 (05:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (05:53):
But anyways, based upon this is what we got quote
based upon disclosure disclosures made available to our office on Friday,
October seventeenth, the appeal of Michael Proctor was withdrawn today.
That was his attorney who said that now we didn't
get any more info on what exactly was made available

(06:16):
to them. However, the date coincided with a notice from
Norfolk County District Attorney's Office regarding info from his cell
phone that is potentially relevant to other cases he investigated.
So essentially they got more cell phone records from Michael
Proctor for the other cases that Brian Walsh all of
these other cases that he's been working, and they were like,

(06:38):
he's never getting his drawn.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
Yeah, we're letting this guy, which makes you wonder what
that information is. And also when is this going to
get leaked? Because if we've heard it like to this point,
now you have to assume at some point all this
information is going to get out. Yeah, and what is it?

Speaker 2 (06:53):
Listen.

Speaker 1 (06:53):
I mean, we've argued this, and we've chatted about this.
There is such a thing as like locker room talk
and then you having a conversation with your friends.

Speaker 2 (07:02):
But this man was doing it on his work line
to his You.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
Can't And if you're a detective like that, shouldn't you
just assume and know that you shouldn't do it in
that capacity?

Speaker 6 (07:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (07:13):
Right, Like you want to go home to your wife
and sit down after a long day of detectiving and
be like, man, yo, her balloon knot or whatever it is, right, Yo,
her balloon nay, yeah, I don't know. Sure whatever however
you talk to your wife, I don't know, but yeah,
like that that's you. But do here you kiss, not
you doing your jaw, that's you talking.

Speaker 3 (07:32):
You know what I'm thing.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
It's sad, it's so it's so true.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
I see people pull in and I'm like, they'll never
be okay, they will never recover from this.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
All right? We got more legal news.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
The legal team for Diddy has officially filed appeals to
overturn the Moguls federal conviction and sentencing.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
We knew this was coming.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
The appeal began yesterday. His legal team will file like
they're a little brief for the appeal within four six weeks.
They don't have to do it now we know did.
He was sentenced to a little over four years in
federal prison for those charges related to the Man Act.
He was acquitted on the more serious charges of racketeering
and sex trafficking. This is we just it was really

(08:15):
just a timing thing. And when was it going to happen.
We knew an appeal was coming.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
Absolutely, maybe I'll win the appeal. It's really tough to
think that he's behind bars for years now, just like
really thinking about it that it's like kind.

Speaker 1 (08:25):
Of absolute yeah right now it's four Yeah, but maybe
he wins this appeal he gets some time.

Speaker 2 (08:31):
I don't know, we don't know what it's gonna look like.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
We also have to assume that when he goes behind bars,
he's gonna behave. He's he doesn't seem like the type
that will cause ruckous, like he just wants to know.

Speaker 1 (08:39):
It's giving AH to me. I think he'll be very
popular in there. I think he'll be you know, and
especially if he's at Fort Dix. I mean they talk
about that being if a luxury prison.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
We're going down the AH route. So maybe did he
will find a partner in there?

Speaker 1 (08:52):
Did maybe he'll find love. Man, this news is getting
the fact. Let me just end it with something where
I don't think we can be sexual, which is baseball.
The twenty twenty five World Series is happening. The Dodgers
are taken on the Toronto Blue Jays, So I don't
know if you want to talk about this. The Dodgers
are back to defend their title. The Blue Jays making

(09:12):
their first appearance since I think it was like nineteen
ninety three, Yeah, something like that.

Speaker 3 (09:16):
The Blue Jay should just stay home. It's that simple.
The Dodgers had the absolute best player on the planet,
and what he did a couple of games ago was
absolutely amazing. He pitched six innings like scoreless, hit three
home months. It's the best performance in a playoff game
ever by any baseball player on Earth. Show. Hey is
the best player on their planet, and the Dodgers have
this in four games.

Speaker 2 (09:35):
So the Blue Jays should stay in Toronto. Just just
stay in Canada. It's beautiful.

Speaker 7 (09:39):
You know.

Speaker 3 (09:40):
They don't pronounce the second T in Toronto. So just
stay home.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
Just go back home.

Speaker 1 (09:44):
Well, we'll see Game one is Friday actually in Toronto
at eight pm.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
That's a late late first.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
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Speaker 4 (10:06):
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or five.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
Hold on, guys, I haven't even had my first step
of my crack cocaine. I have to make a sound
when I put the straw in my Starbucks cup. Because
it's so horrifying.

Speaker 3 (10:24):
It's not that bad.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
The sound of the straw going in the plastic is
so bad. But anyway, let me give you that I'm
pretending like I'm shaking up like fun stuff. Inside it's
just a black cold roats. Okay, you have a problem.
We've known this about you. You have deep rooted issues. Yeah,
you leave your house in the morning at the last

(10:47):
possible second, the very last possible second to get here.

Speaker 3 (10:52):
Ye, but there's a reason, which is what I'm Dominican.
We're on Dominican.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
But anyways, we all knew this was gonna happen at
some point. Yeah, and this morning was the time you
got pulled over.

Speaker 3 (11:07):
Well, let me just tell you this has happened before.
I'm not saying it happens often, but it it happens
probably a couple times a year. But this is the
latest time. Was this morning. You ever get tickets, I
don't ever ever, And it's because I'm nice to them,
and it's because I admit that I was speeding. But
this morning saw a cop in the middle lane. Well,
first I didn't see him, and I was coming up

(11:27):
kind of quickly, not as quick.

Speaker 2 (11:29):
As I got away.

Speaker 1 (11:29):
Not even in the Porsche, guys, because if he was
in the Porsche, he might be in jail right now.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
If I was in the Porsche, I was probably I
usually do like one hundred. But I was going eighty
five and I saw the cop in the middle lane
and I slowed down. But then I'm already in the fastling,
so I'm like, okay, well, I can't really now get
behind him because that's gonna look weird. So I'm like,
I might as well just pass him going to decent speed,
like going with the flow of the JAP.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
That is something I fight in my body too, because
it's like, you have to drive normally, right, but my
body doesn't want to pass the cop because then I
feel weird.

Speaker 3 (11:56):
My body was saying the same thing. But then I
also was like, well, don't make it obvious just to
pass him, but going on normal speed. So I passed him,
maybe going like seventy two. He may have been going seventy.
So I passed him slowly, then got in the middle lane,
and then I saw him get in the fast lane
like on the on my left side. I'm like, oh, good,
we are in clear. No, he just did it to
pass the car that was right in front of him

(12:16):
and got behind me. The lights went on, like, because, yes,
what the hell is this for? Yes, I could have
been speeding up until the point, but he didn't get
me speeding. That's what I was thinking. Pulls me over.
I get to the side, I do everything. He comes up,
Hey do you know why I stopped you? I go,
I assume it was feeding.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Is that the line? Do they all say that?

Speaker 3 (12:34):
I think they do.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
Hey, do you know why I stopped you? I feel
like that is just the iconic police line.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
I think it's the iconic police line. It's usually the
line that I get. But I also probably have heard, hey,
I stopped you because he were speeding.

Speaker 2 (12:44):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 3 (12:45):
But regardless, I don't get pulled over a lot so
but regardless, I always say, yes, I was speeding. And
I was really nice and polite to the guy. And
then he told me that he had me going eighty
five with his rear radar. I didn't know this was
a thing, nuts. I just thought that maybe they can
guess to me as you passed them. No, he got
me coming eighty five behind him.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
And that means there's some sort of technology because he
can't be like holding like the radar guns, so it must.

Speaker 3 (13:12):
Alert him built into the car, which I didn't know.

Speaker 2 (13:15):
Crazy. I did not know that.

Speaker 3 (13:16):
Either, so when he told me to know, when he
told me that, I admitted that to his I admitted
that to him too. And he also asked me if
I was in a Russia and you'd go anywhere where
I was going, I'm.

Speaker 2 (13:25):
Wondering about that. So did you give him the SOB story?

Speaker 8 (13:27):
No.

Speaker 3 (13:28):
I was like, listen, I'm on my way to work.
I have no rush. I'm just like I was speeding.
You got me, and yeah, it is, it is where
it is, and I apologize.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
I have this.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
It's like a fatal flaw of mine. You've seen it
live action. I will give far more than his asked
because I feel like it's helping me and it's I
would have given the.

Speaker 2 (13:45):
Whole story about how we're on the radio and if I'm.

Speaker 1 (13:48):
Late, people will know, like I just wouldn't be able
to end like and then it would probably come across
as like we thought we were.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
I was cool because I'm like, I'm on the radio,
but it's not.

Speaker 1 (13:56):
I was just trying to make the point of Hey,
people will know if I'm late, and it just it's
already sounding bad.

Speaker 3 (14:01):
It gets bad, it is, But I think if you
put more of the attention on the fact that what
you did was wrong, then they're finding that because I
assume what they usually deal with a lot is most
people fighting them back and like a like are just
arguing with them, and that's the last thing that they want.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
When you get a warning, did you have to give
license and registration to.

Speaker 3 (14:17):
I gave my license, not my registration, and he just
ran probably a background track see if there was any
warrants or anything. Came right back when my license and
just said just keep the speed down. I said, thank you, sir,
have a good day. It happens a lot. He's just
pulled off, dude, my white Yeah, and just pulled pulled
the speed limit. I think technically it's fifty five.

Speaker 2 (14:35):
You don't know it, but I no idea. I don't
know it's a problem.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
Yeah, but you were going one hundred through the tunnel.
That's like a different story. It's tunnel, which is really
crazy to think.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
On this show, I am the only one that hasn't
gotten pulled over in the morning.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
That's true. That's keep that going.

Speaker 3 (14:53):
And most of the time, I'm in my car, which
is built to be driven a certain way, so I'm
just following.

Speaker 1 (14:58):
Okay, Yeah, you actually really lucked out that you didn't
bring the poor show.

Speaker 3 (15:02):
No there. You know, like the Life three sixty eight
actually tracks your speed. I get spoken to daily and
how fast I went because they'll track it. On ay, you.

Speaker 2 (15:10):
Are risking your life, that's what it's telling you.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
On average. It's ninety three in the morning on average.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
That doesn't shock me.

Speaker 1 (15:18):
I'll tell you why, because I can sometimes get it
up to eighty and the jeep, and the jeep is
like not I don't like going fast and that thing
I don't even mean to. So if I can get
up to eighty, yeah.

Speaker 3 (15:29):
And I would look like the fifty five is way
too slow. I feel like the speed limit should be
elevated to at least seventy because I think that's what
the average person drives.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
And listen, we've talked about this.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
The people that are driving with us in the morning,
it's like us construction workers. Yeah, sometimes they make my
eighty look like I'm going eight, like singular, like so fast,
so fast, up behind me, up in my grip. I
have to move over so quickly.

Speaker 3 (15:53):
Truck, yes, yeah, it's always a pickup trucks.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
Always the pickup trucks, always ripping a butt.

Speaker 3 (15:59):
Yes, that's very true. Then they flick it like out
the wind lick.

Speaker 9 (16:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (16:02):
Yeah, So we got out of the ticket. So that's good.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
So that's a great start.

Speaker 3 (16:05):
Actually, the key to the entire thing is be respectful,
admit your fault and that and that's that. Don't fight
with him.

Speaker 5 (16:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (16:12):
I it is funny, like the weird things that you
feel when you see the cop on the road. Like
I fight myself like, okay, I'm going the speed limit,
he's going a little slower.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
It's okay to pass.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
Him in the lane or else you're gonna look weird.
You're not doing anything wrong, but your body.

Speaker 3 (16:29):
Just feels odd.

Speaker 2 (16:32):
It does.

Speaker 3 (16:32):
What my wife does, which is really annoying, is if
she sees a cop on the other side of the highway,
she slows down. I'm like, what do you think he's
gonna do, cross the media and come get you, like
grow up.

Speaker 1 (16:44):
Yeah, he's not gonna get off the exit and a
whip it.

Speaker 2 (16:48):
Honey, You're gonna be okay. Well, you know what. At first,
I was like it's a bad start to the day.

Speaker 1 (16:53):
But when you get off with a warning, Gucci, you
are winning.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
Everybody.

Speaker 10 (17:00):
Morning.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
It's Ashley in the cham of Morning Show. If in
fact you're just tuning in, Santi got pulled over. I
think I got the text at like five am. I'm
gonna be late. I got pulled over. It by the way,
leave it up to your boy. Set me a selfie
of him. We have to, Yeah, just for a receipts
actually Instagram. Yeah, so there he is sitting in the
front seat with the selfie. You can see the police

(17:21):
lights behind him. But he told Santi, I got you
on the radar in the back of my car, which
we had no idea. My brain is them in the
cut with the gun. Yeah, that's what I picture.

Speaker 3 (17:35):
That's a universal thing that you always think of. But
I guess it's not.

Speaker 2 (17:38):
Well, we just learned from this talk back. It's definitely not.

Speaker 3 (17:44):
Ashley and Santi.

Speaker 4 (17:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (17:45):
Police car has two sets of digital numbers, one for
the front of the car in front of him and
one from behind him, so we can tell who's going
whatever speed and it's right on the dashboard.

Speaker 12 (17:58):
It's no new technology. They've had it forever.

Speaker 11 (18:00):
I've been arrested many times and been in the back
of a police car watching it many.

Speaker 3 (18:05):
Times, many times, many times.

Speaker 2 (18:09):
Hey, sorry, are bad.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
We have not been in the back of a cop
car many times to know that this technology exists.

Speaker 2 (18:16):
There's probably cops.

Speaker 1 (18:17):
Listening, dying, laughing right now, like this has been around
since God only knows.

Speaker 2 (18:21):
We had no idea it could have been.

Speaker 3 (18:22):
But I feel like they keep the secret though, right, Yeah,
universally talked about now.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Danny is in Rhode Island. Danny was like, you guys
been talking about tickets. I just got one. It's nott
to got a warning, thank god. But Danny, you in
fact got.

Speaker 3 (18:36):
A ticket, Yes, I did.

Speaker 12 (18:39):
Last week Friday in darkness. I guess there was a
plane that crashed earlier in the week. I don't know
if you guys seen that on the news, but yeah,
a private plane crashed on the highway and they were
still doing.

Speaker 1 (19:00):
Waiting with baited breath. What were they still doing. I've
never had this happen before. It's like he's there and
they're crackling. Danny, Okay, you know what, he dropped him
a couple times before, and now he's back.

Speaker 2 (19:17):
Let's see if this could this be him just right here? Danny.

Speaker 13 (19:22):
Yeah, So in New Hampshire they have drones to catch speeds.

Speaker 3 (19:26):
They have drones.

Speaker 1 (19:28):
Oh, they definitely got fourm with those couple of times
the way they didn't drones.

Speaker 14 (19:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 13 (19:36):
So when you go on to like Hampton and stuff
like that, especially in the summertime, they will catch you
in a drone and then like twenty feet fifty seeds later,
they're pulling you over because they caught you on the drone.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
Wow, you gotta stay vigilant in New Hampshire. That's really crazy.
Thank you for that information. That was wild also because
her name was definitely not Danny. No way, let's check it.
Let's play again, Danny, Danny.

Speaker 12 (20:06):
Yeah, I'm back. I just I was on bluetooth with yeah.

Speaker 2 (20:09):
Literally, yeah, and this is why you got arrested.

Speaker 1 (20:11):
Like stay stay focused, will yea? All right, So the
plane crash happens, you're in Dartmouth. What did you do that?
You got yourself a ticket?

Speaker 12 (20:19):
So I pulled out my phone to take a picture
of the plane. When do you see a plane on
a highway? And the cop happened to see me and
he pulled me right over, and he gave me a ticket,
one hundred and five dollar ticket, but just holding my
phone in my hands for.

Speaker 1 (20:33):
Being on your phone while driving, because I know they
can get you for that, RIGHTA.

Speaker 12 (20:37):
But it was like it was a slow traffic It
wasn't like I was going sixty five trying to hold
my phone. Bo I got your trouble.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
One hundred and five dollars. Now, were you when the like,
did you play the Santi game? Were you so nice
to the cop or were you like I did?

Speaker 12 (20:51):
I said, I'm sorry. You know, I know I never
see a plane on the highway, so you know what,
I don't know that.

Speaker 1 (21:02):
Cop.

Speaker 2 (21:03):
He agreed, you know, in his head he was like,
that's true.

Speaker 1 (21:05):
You really don't ever see a plane in the midst
of the road. But wow, one hundred and five dollars picture.
Did you at least send it to a few people?

Speaker 2 (21:12):
Get?

Speaker 3 (21:12):
It's worse Facebook?

Speaker 1 (21:17):
All right, Danny, thanks for the call. Danny's like, one
hundred and five dollars for a PHONEO, that's not worth it.

Speaker 3 (21:22):
The valid point though, right, you don't see that like
every day, so we always pull on our phones for
stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
It is illegal to be on your phone in mass right, correct.
You can get pulled over for that because I know, yes, okay.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
Yes, but if you see a car fire, I'm pulling
out my phone because it's something about it at the couch.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
But is it worth one hundred and five dollars?

Speaker 3 (21:37):
It's not.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
It's it's definitely not. So there you have it. That
was a ticket. You got a warning. I would say
we're winning here, Yes, we're winning.

Speaker 4 (21:45):
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Tuesday, October twenty first and we add some news on
the Karen Reid front. Michael Proctor has dropped his appeal
to get his job back. Never forget him sitting at
his kitchen table, crying, boohooing about losing his job, wiping
his tears away with Burger King napkins. That's when you know.
That is when you know, like nobody thought to put

(22:18):
a box of Kleenex on there.

Speaker 2 (22:19):
We got to know how sad he is.

Speaker 3 (22:21):
No, that's a no.

Speaker 1 (22:23):
It is, it absolutely is, his lawyer said, Based on
disclosures made available to our office on Friday, October seventeenth.

Speaker 2 (22:29):
The appeal of Michael Proctor was withdrawn today.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
Now, no, they did not elaborate on what exactly prompted it.
You know, what did you find out on Friday October seventeenth,
But they are saying that the date coincided with a
notice from the Norfolk County District Attorney AT's office regarding
info from proctor cell phone that is potentially relevant to
other cases that he investigated.

Speaker 2 (22:51):
I think that was the.

Speaker 1 (22:52):
Biggest thing after he lost his job because of the
Karen Reid case. People were like, well, hold up, because
he was the lead detective on my case, and on
this case, and on Brian Walsh's case, and on a
and seventy five people that are locked up cases. And
they were like, I went out, Yeah, he touched my case.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
I went out. So God only knows that.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
Hell, they found in his cell phone again that is
relevant to other cases.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
But it clearly was bad enough that he was like, yeah, no,
I'm I'll let this go.

Speaker 3 (23:19):
You have to assume that he was talking like that
about other people involved in in other things too, especially
like females.

Speaker 2 (23:24):
It's been a while.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
There were so many players in the Karen Reid case,
I wouldn't be mad at you for forgetting one.

Speaker 2 (23:30):
But Michael Proctor was blue knot leaky balloon knut because.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
If you look at it, it does look like it though,
like a blue nut.

Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:40):
I didn't even know that they called it that, And
then when I realized that that was what I was like, wow,
I can get Yeah, it was true. I can totally
see it, which is upsetting I think for everybody.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
All right, let's talk. Did he did?

Speaker 1 (23:51):
He's got his appealing. We knew what was coming. I
think it was just a matter of time. But he
is officially filed appeals to overturn his federal conviction and
his sentence. This all started yesterday. We're still waiting for
a brief for the appeal. His team doesn't have to
file that until at least they have like four to
six weeks.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
I believe.

Speaker 1 (24:08):
We know he was sentenced to a little over four
years in federal prison, but he was acquitted on those
more serious counts of racketeering and sex trafficking. I saw
a headline today and I had asked you about it, son,
because rumors are swirling that, yeah, did he did file
for this appeal with his team, but he was knocking
on Doddy Trump's door, and they're saying there's a chance that, yeah,

(24:33):
Trump commutes his whole sentence.

Speaker 3 (24:34):
The rumors are saying that Trump wants to do it,
but some of his people on his camp they don't
want him to do it. But at the end of
the day, Trump's going to make that decision. I feel
like he's leaning to doing it.

Speaker 1 (24:42):
You made a good point when we were talking about
this off air. It's like he's not he doesn't need
votes anymore. Yeah, right, Like he can't run again. He's
up out of air when this. I know people don't
think they there are some people that actually believe he's
just not gonna leave the office. But he's gonna leave
the office, and he's gonna go and he you know,
he's done, he's done his two terms. But yeah, like

(25:02):
who cares if he doesn't care if you upset some people?
Clearly he does it daily.

Speaker 3 (25:05):
And if you're asking me, I have a feeling he's
gonna do it.

Speaker 2 (25:09):
They're saying this week, could.

Speaker 3 (25:10):
You imagine my Friday? Did he could be freaking off
Halloween freaking Yeah, the joker.

Speaker 1 (25:15):
Nuts think about that costume as well, So we shall see,
all right. And lastly, I think this will come as
a shock to absolutely no, Bobby, And for some reason,
I think this might upset you. You just brought this
up to me the other day, Santi said to me, Ash,
if I'm in the car and Thriller comes on, like,
I don't even want to hear it anymore. But guess
where thriller is? Where number one on the Billboard charts.

Speaker 2 (25:37):
It's every year.

Speaker 11 (25:39):
Come on.

Speaker 3 (25:40):
It's not that it's a bad song, but I can't
help but move to this. I get it, and I
actually know of the dance because I perform this all
the time.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
That's also a cry for help.

Speaker 3 (25:48):
But the problem is is that this time of year
it's the only thing that people play. So I'm like,
just over.

Speaker 1 (25:53):
It, it says. In its most recent tracking frame. Thriller
sold over one thousand copies, with purchases increasing by more
than sixty three percent week over week. Ghostbusters and I
always feel like somebody's watching me. By the way, Michael Jackson, Yes,
but that is a rockwell song. It is, yes also,

(26:15):
But you know, let's get December. We all know who's
gonna be sitting at top of the charts.

Speaker 2 (26:18):
Marya. Mariah's defrosting as we speak.

Speaker 3 (26:20):
But the difference in thriller right, it's the song. I
would watch the video a thousand times once I hear
the song. Is this on the radio? Like enough, Michael, even.

Speaker 1 (26:27):
This right here makes me want to watch the music video.
What an iconic, iconic video. Also a son and we'll
just stay in the Halloween realm McDonald's is bringing back
the boo bucket.

Speaker 2 (26:38):
Of course you can get them starting today.

Speaker 3 (26:40):
Which, by the way, if you look on Ebaye, they
go for a pretty penny wild.

Speaker 1 (26:44):
Yeah, they got the ghost pumpkin and goblin boo bucket.
This takes me back. Oh by the way, there's they're
adding to a cat and a zombie. But this brings
me back. This was our childhood.

Speaker 3 (26:55):
Mine would always get filled. So it's not too big though,
that's the only thing I would not.

Speaker 1 (26:59):
I mean it it fits the nuggets, the fries and
the toy essentially, Like it's not big, but they are
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(27:21):
tickets have to be pretty much used by Halloween because
they're going to close down November first.

Speaker 3 (27:25):
We were saying a weekend.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
It's just it's a weird, just the way I think
the date hits on a Friday. They're they're shutting it down.
So if you do win these tickets, make sure you're
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Next up with Ashley and the jam In Morning Show,
Michelle and Attleborough. Congratulations, maybe just won that two for
one special. We're gonna do it again at eight twenty
with tickets to see Mariah the Scientists as well as
Spooky World tickets. Just remember, Spooky World is closing down
after Halloween, so if you are unaveil to go within
the next week and a half, you know you could

(35:39):
hold out and wait and let someone else win, but
I know you won't, so that's fine.

Speaker 2 (35:43):
I just always want to give people the dates so
that they know. I mean, it's Tuesdays. You kind of
have like two full weeks to go.

Speaker 3 (35:48):
And you have like that last weekend too, which is
gonna be perfect.

Speaker 1 (35:51):
I guess you also could win and pass that part
on if you want. If you want to go see
Mariah the Scientists, and you don't, you can't go to
Spooky World.

Speaker 2 (35:58):
Whatever it's up to you. Okay, we will.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
I'll do it again at eight twenty. In the meantime,
let's talk about your dating life. How are we what's
going on out there? We're doing beyond the swipe right now?
I will also add in because we've had this happen.
If you feel like nervous to call, you can DM
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and I can always read your DM. But we're talking
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(36:21):
Sometimes it turns into people being like, ash I got
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Speaker 1 (36:50):
We changed the name from Tender Tuesday to Beyond the
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I never know what you guys are gonna give me,
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Of course you can DM me leave a talkback for

(37:12):
inanemity whatever you want.

Speaker 2 (37:14):
We're gonna kick it off with Brian.

Speaker 1 (37:17):
We're talking dating, love, relationships, lack thereof. Brian has a
question for Signtia and I. Brian, I'm I'm gonna go
ahead and assume you're single here, you're trying to find love.

Speaker 21 (37:29):
No, I'm like in a a in a situation.

Speaker 1 (37:33):
We're in a situation. All right, let's talk about your situation.
How long have we been together in this situation?

Speaker 3 (37:41):
Like QUI y five? Yeah, okay, that's a long time.
How old you.

Speaker 6 (37:50):
Thirty four?

Speaker 1 (37:51):
Thirty four years old? We've been together? Let's just say
since you were around thirty? And why are we calling
it a situation and not this? I'm happy, I'm in
a relationship, I have a boyfriend, I have a girlfriend.
Why is it called a situation?

Speaker 21 (38:06):
Too many of the same mistakes.

Speaker 8 (38:07):
It's like, how many chances are you supposed to give someone?

Speaker 3 (38:11):
Are you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (38:13):
Are the mistakes infidelity or is it cheating?

Speaker 7 (38:17):
Nah?

Speaker 1 (38:18):
Okay, so what kind of mistakes are we talking? And
then I can have a better idea of how many
times I think.

Speaker 2 (38:22):
I could forgive it? Hung up?

Speaker 1 (38:28):
He hung Well, you know what he deserves it. I
don't know what she did, but guess what he deserves
it because you hung up. Let's go to anonymous. Anonymous
called before anonymous. Hi, babe, so you were dating a
guy that was in prison. Tell me about your first
time calling the show.

Speaker 8 (38:47):
So I called.

Speaker 14 (38:47):
We were having issues and it wasn't anything super bad,
but I think it was just we never knew each other.
We knew of each other outside of him.

Speaker 24 (38:58):
Being in jail.

Speaker 14 (38:59):
But we never went on a date, we never hung
out anything like that. We were going to try it.
It didn't work out, so then he ended up contacting
my brother while he was in there because their friends.
I want to talk to your sister. Okay, So we
tried it. We were good for two years, and it
was rocky, but we made it work. I kind of

(39:22):
just got tired of it. I called the show. I
kind of had a feeling. I wanted to end it,
but kind of speaking to you guys just gave me
a little more like just end it and see where
it goes. I ended it, and I was happy. Like
I said, I have a child from you know, like
another relationship, and he's not the dad. So it's very

(39:43):
hard juggling being a single mom and then being with
somebody in jail. So we took time apart and it
was good. He then kind of, you know, circled the
block and called back around my son's birthday to wish
him a happy birthday, because you know, he he knows
my brother, he knows the family, and we were together

(40:05):
for two years. He was just being nice about it.
I said, Okay. He said he wanted to fix things.
This is when I just recently called. So we talked
a few times and I kind of said, like, we'll
be friends and we'll see where it goes. We're not
getting back into a full relationship. He was fine with that.
Last night he called. We were having a great conversation.

(40:27):
He was asking me, like, you know, just updating him,
like with my life and how things are going, because
we don't talk a lot anymore. He slips the switch
and he's just like, I know you've been doing X,
Y and Z. And I said, well, with all due respects,
we are not together. You are allowed to feel whatever
way you do about whatever you think is or isn't

(40:50):
going on. I'm single, so I don't have to explain
it to you. You are allowed to be upset thinking
that I am out here doing whatever. Maybe I am,
maybe I'm not. And in the same you know, situation
roles were reversed, I could feel the same as you,
and I would have to respect whatever answer I'm given.

(41:11):
And it just got into a full blown argument and
then the pelons obviously have to turn off at a
certain time, and I'm just like, I'm not I'm not
doing this like you apologized, and I genuinely thought you
felt bad for like the four or five months that
we were done done, and then you're just like you

(41:33):
slip you like slip a light switch, and you just
go crazy. I get for no reason.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
Let me ask you something. I'm sure you told me
the last time. How long is he in for?

Speaker 14 (41:45):
Well, he's getting out in like less than two months.

Speaker 2 (41:48):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (41:49):
When you talked to him this last time, you didn't
feel good, did you. I can tell you didn't feel
good after that conversation.

Speaker 6 (41:55):
No.

Speaker 14 (41:55):
I just was like, these are the issues that we've had.
And the thing is, like I've known because I'm you know,
twenty eight. I know when I'm right and I know
when I'm wrong. And in this situation, I'm not sitting
near a line to him saying like, oh, I don't
have anybody, and I do have somepody on the side.
I'm telling him think whatever you think.

Speaker 13 (42:17):
Think like I You're you're.

Speaker 2 (42:19):
Telling him it's not his business. He's not your boyfriend.
He's in jail. Tell him, tell them you want to
be a real bitch, Tell him to come say it
to your face.

Speaker 8 (42:26):
He can't exactly what the thing is.

Speaker 14 (42:29):
If I'm sitting there saying like you can you can
feel any type of way you do. You're not here,
and no matter what I tell you, you're not gonna
like the answer, because you're not gonna believe. There's nothing
I can do about that.

Speaker 1 (42:44):
You put away and you you gave him two years
of your life while he was in jail, and you
held him down for those two years.

Speaker 2 (42:51):
You guys called it quits.

Speaker 1 (42:53):
That's nice of him to call and say happy birthday
to your son, which by the way, he didn't want
to do. He did that because he knew you would
allow it. And then you opened up the or a
little bit and he used it as an inn that's me.

Speaker 2 (43:03):
That's your kid, But that's probably what that was.

Speaker 1 (43:08):
And now he has the audacity to ask you questions
that like, respectfully, that's not his business.

Speaker 2 (43:14):
Who you're dating, who you're hooking up with, what you're doing.

Speaker 14 (43:17):
And I and he said to me, I'm not going
to take you serious when I get out, Okay, fine,
that's fine. Like it if like, what what what would
you like me to say? Do you want me to
you know, go to bed crime tonight? Like I'm living
my life? And I told him, I said, I'm able
to I don't cat child support from my kid's father.
He hasn't seen him in four years. I'm doing it

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everything on my own, and I'm you know, this person
helped me out a few times, which I've been grateful for.
But the thing is, if I can do everything on
my own and I don't need your help, what are
you able to do? You're not able to benefit me,
then I don't need you in my life.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
I think I think that you should give the next
two months break, let him finish out his sentence, and
who knows. When he gets out and he gets on
his feet, maybe things will be different because he'll be
physically in front of you and you guy, guys can
have a better relationship.

Speaker 2 (44:09):
But right now it just seems a little toxic.

Speaker 7 (44:11):
You know.

Speaker 14 (44:13):
It's just the way he was before he went in.
This is the type of person I feel like he
will always be. I feel like this is him, regardless
of being in our being out.

Speaker 17 (44:25):
This is who he is.

Speaker 14 (44:26):
And I don't think you know him being in our
little change it.

Speaker 2 (44:30):
Yeah, well, listen, I don't. I haven't heard from him.
I don't know his side of it.

Speaker 1 (44:33):
He could tell me something very different, But what I
do think is with him in there right now, there's
just no point in you having conversations with him and
feeling bad every time you guys hang up. So I think,
stop with the calls, give him his last two months,
and when he gets out, maybe maybe he's singing a
different tune and you guys can work it out. But
I mean, if you're not feeling good after getting off

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the phone with him, then don't get.

Speaker 3 (44:56):
On the phone with him.

Speaker 14 (44:57):
Yeah, well, we had been doing good. But like I said,
I'm sitting there talking about my cat, and now my
cat goes on a diet because he's overweight, and he
turns and just like I know, you're sleeping with people.
I go, how did we start this conversation right? And
now you're completely totally different like my cat?

Speaker 2 (45:17):
What are you not getting?

Speaker 1 (45:19):
Honestly, without respect to him, to transition from my cat,
it's fat to you're hooking up with somebody he died.
Maybe he is a keeper, after all, I don't know
how he got there.

Speaker 8 (45:28):
That's cool, you have no idea.

Speaker 1 (45:31):
Actually, well, I also I don't want him on my
bad side either, So you know, I don't know. We'll see,
but keep us posted because let me tell you something.
Just from judging off of this call, he's going to
be back in your life in some capacity. I think
you guys, I think there's more I don't know, and
we're going to learn more from the two.

Speaker 14 (45:49):
I'm not going to answer the phone no more.

Speaker 8 (45:51):
That's just kind of where I'm at with it.

Speaker 1 (45:53):
All right, Well, hey, keep us posted, good luck And
by the way, a J, do you have any suggestions
for cat food?

Speaker 2 (46:01):
Thanks for the sorry, Well, her cat is fat, she
said it.

Speaker 5 (46:05):
I'm me.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
I'm trying to Oh yeah, but AJ's cat is dead.
You're right, and I'm sorry, and rest in peace to
your cat. But I know, oh my god, let me
get out of this. Six one seven nine three one
one nine four five six one seven nine.

Speaker 3 (46:19):
Three one four or five.

Speaker 2 (46:21):
And I'm sure it's gonnapen.

Speaker 1 (46:22):
That cat's gonna die, That's all I keep thinking about
like that. I don't know if the cat's gonna could
because she's so she's got so many other things going on,
single mom, guy in prison, that cat, that cat's geting
fed too much.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
Cat's like eating starving.

Speaker 1 (46:36):
Ah six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
We're talking dating, love, relationships, everything, in between. Clearly Brianna
is in Lynn and she's gonna bring it all back
for us. You have finally found some.

Speaker 8 (46:50):
L O V E.

Speaker 2 (46:51):
Girlfriend.

Speaker 8 (46:52):
Yes, it's been a long time, a really hard road,
but I finally feel like I have some in my life.

Speaker 2 (47:01):
Tell us about it.

Speaker 8 (47:03):
So so really, I was in a real bad relationship
for a long time. It was violent, abusive, it was
really bad. And I finally cut the cord and I seen,
can I see my husband or I just call my husband?
We're not even married. But his name is Derek, and

(47:24):
I've seen him after the bad relationship. I randomly seen
him walking through CBS parking lot. I've known this man
since I was like sixteen years old. He gave me
my first tattoo and I was like, oh my god, hi,
and then he messaged me on Tree's book. We got
to talking and it's been We've been together basically ever since.
He's so kind and like you know how people say, oh,

(47:46):
I have a golden retriever boyfriend. Now mine's a German shepherd.
He only loves me and he'll fight for me.

Speaker 2 (47:53):
So I love this so much. For you, what a
tale to tell? And how long have you guys now
been dating.

Speaker 8 (48:01):
It's been almost sorry, it's been almost a year. But
it's like we're best friends and you.

Speaker 2 (48:09):
Yes, and do we do like good morning at night text?
Like we're together all the time.

Speaker 8 (48:15):
Yes, like all the time. We're always talking when we're
not together. We spend a lot of weeks together. You know,
my whole family loved him. My mom adores him. She
like we went apple picking together like two weeks ago
with my son and my mom and him, and oh wow,
it was just such a good time. Like it was.

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It was just something so simple and we had so
much fun.

Speaker 2 (48:40):
I was gonna I bet you did.

Speaker 1 (48:42):
And if he's out here apple picking with the kid
and and Nana, let me tell you something.

Speaker 2 (48:47):
Keeper.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
That's a keeper right there. Yeah, Well, you went through it,
and I'm sorry that you had to go through it.
That's awful, But I'm so happy that you're finally seeing
some some light.

Speaker 2 (48:58):
Babe.

Speaker 8 (48:58):
You deserve it, and my son deserves it. He doesn't.
He doesn't deserve to see.

Speaker 5 (49:03):
His mom unhappy.

Speaker 2 (49:04):
No, shout out to Derek, that's our guy.

Speaker 8 (49:07):
Yeah. Can I say one more quick thing? Sure, if
you like anybody who's going through it, or you know
in that type of bad relationship, like you can get
out and you can get help and there is fulp
and you'll find someone who loves you for you.

Speaker 1 (49:20):
Brianna, you could have just saved somebody right there. So
thank you for saying, Matt, and thank you for the call.
Give Derek a hug for me today.

Speaker 2 (49:26):
I will thank you, Okay, thank you. That's powerful stuff.

Speaker 1 (49:30):
Yeah, it's uh to find love after that and having
gone through that is an amazing thing.

Speaker 2 (49:35):
And she's right.

Speaker 1 (49:35):
If you are going through something, you absolutely can get
out of it and you can get out on the
other side. I wouldn't say like we're the right people
to call, but if you do, if you are going
through it and you need to call us, we'll make
sure you get into the right hands. Six one seven
nine three one one six one seven nine three one
one five. The phones are ringing. You're talking dating love relationships.

(49:56):
It is beyond the wipe on me on jammin, Hi, everybody,
It's Ashley and the gam in Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (50:03):
We're doing beyond this wipe. We're talking dating, love relationships.
Jules is in Dorchester. Hi Jewels, good.

Speaker 5 (50:08):
Morning, Hi, good morning, HOI you doing good?

Speaker 1 (50:12):
So this is interesting because we had somebody hit us
last week who has a similar situation, not the exact,
but you're dating a guy who lives with his cousin
last week?

Speaker 2 (50:23):
Okay, because last week it was a girl who was
dating a guy who was living at home with his parents.
I feel like cousin's a little bit more.

Speaker 5 (50:32):
It's doable, you know, Well, how about he stays with
his cousin. He's very, very, very soft hearted, and I
see and feel that he's scared to even open.

Speaker 12 (50:47):
Up to her.

Speaker 5 (50:48):
If he's fifty nine years old. I just turned fifty
five before teen of this month, and I haven't seen
him since his mother's birthday party that he invited me to.
He was night at my house. Says, well, a few
nights at my house, and when he go home, I
drop him off and cousins outside. She custs him out
because you know, he don't report to her or whatever.

Speaker 1 (51:12):
Uh.

Speaker 5 (51:12):
To make a long story short, I haven't seen him
since his mother's birthday party on the fifth and he
didn't support to come to my house. And on the sixth,
the morning of the sixth, I touched to Mike, Michael,
you know you didn't come to my house. You know,
if there's no communication or understanding, it's not gonna work.
This friendship's not gonna work. You know, we can't even
begin a relationship if you're not open, you know, if

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you're not true to me.

Speaker 14 (51:36):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (51:37):
How can I know what's going on if you don't
open up? Well, tell me why. I set outside and
checked and told him I was outside. His cousin pulls
up twenty minutes later with him in the car. Did
know he was in the car. He has tinted the
windows and she gets out the car, comes to my car,
tell me to get the f away from my house.
I can excuse me, ma'am, I gotta do a test
to six. I can park anybody want. I'm not harastionalbody.

(51:57):
I'm not disrespecting nobody. I touched Michael. I'm a friend,
and he never told me he didn't want to be
my friend.

Speaker 2 (52:05):
So, Jules, I just I'm not I don't want to
cut you up. I have to ask, how do we
know she's a cousin? Because it's giving girlfriend.

Speaker 5 (52:13):
Energy energy and told I told him that. I said,
like she's screwing you. I said, literally, you should not
be scared to tell her that you have friends. You
shouldn't have to. He should not have to tell her
when he's coming and going, He.

Speaker 8 (52:30):
Should not paying her what not?

Speaker 2 (52:32):
At that did you say this?

Speaker 5 (52:34):
Let me say he's fifty nine. Well, let me tell
you what happened.

Speaker 3 (52:37):
What she called the police.

Speaker 5 (52:38):
The police came and I'm still sitting here, and uh,
she they go to her first because she called them. Well,
it was two paddy wagons. And when they came to me,
they actually my name. I said, I'm not giving you
my name because number one, I'm not doing that illegal.
I'm not harassal body. I said, I'm here because I
checked Michael and let him know that I was here
because I was concerned. Oh, don't you know on the

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fourth on the fourteenth, five days ago, the police came
to my house with a summon for me to go
to court. That she went to court on the fourteenth,
on my birthday. Mike, I haven't been there since the sixth,
that I was harassing her. She made him go to
court with a harassment charge against me. Well, I'm in group.
I'm a recovery coach of seventy Divine Way. Okay, I

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got I got time under, a lot of time under
my belt clean and he only got a couple of months.
I brought in the church with me, Well, tell me
why I come out of group yesterday, and his recovery
coach calls me in the office with the director and
gives me the two silver braces and the gold chain
that I bought him and tells me that he told
him that I am harassing him because I don't he

(53:45):
told me he don't want to be my friend. He
never told me that, And I told him if he
hadn't told me that, he didn't want nothing to do
with me, he didn't want to be friends anymore. God
said Boubs to not take love nor friends. Do you
know how many people that God put him I liked
and removed because of situations like this, Then be toxic.
I'm looking for love, joy, teaching, happiness, and I text

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him that. So when I go to court on a
twenty eighth, I have to prove myself for what this
is an unnecessary confrontation when all he had to do
was tell me I don't think we could be friends anymore.

Speaker 2 (54:22):
There is no way that is his cousin because I am.
And by the way, if it is his cousin. I
feel so sad for Michael. Free Michael, because like Michael Michael,
he can't do anything.

Speaker 5 (54:36):
I mean, I met his mother, I met his mother,
I met his brother, and I met another cousin that
is definitely his cousin, and she controls that man's life,
you know why, because of his money.

Speaker 1 (54:51):
Jules.

Speaker 2 (54:52):
Let me ask you something.

Speaker 1 (54:52):
When the cops pulled up that original time on the
six right, the cops come because she calls the cops,
did Michael ever get out of the car and say.

Speaker 5 (55:00):
Michael got No. Michael got off the car and walked
to the porch, and before after the police, one police
car went one way, one went the other way. I
left me sitting there because I wasn't doing letting legal,
you know what. I backed my car up and I said, Michael,
well you still have out fixed that. I bought you
at my house a couple of tags. The lot I'm

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hanging into my closet. You have underwhere you have boxes,
you have stock. If you want, I can bring you
your clothes and I can go on about my way. Well,
he looks at her out the corner of his eyes.
A friend, never once, never once stared at me face
to face. Okay, stared at her up the corner of
his eyes and shook his head. No, put his head

(55:43):
down a little bit in a scared manner. My thing
is when I go to court on the twenty eight Baby,
what am I? All I could do is so to
judge the truth. Yeah, and I have text messages. I
have chext messages generally where I checked Michael and I
told Michael, you know, all I'm looking for is love, joy,

(56:06):
peace and happiness. You know, if this is not what
you want, you would just be real with me so
I can go on about my way.

Speaker 1 (56:14):
Well, Jules, listen, honestly, here's you dodged a bullet here,
because I know you and Mike had something, and I
know you're a woman of the Lord, so I don't
mean this disrespectfully, but it seems like you and Mike
maybe took it to like a sexual place.

Speaker 2 (56:28):
And so that's fine.

Speaker 5 (56:29):
We never had sex.

Speaker 2 (56:31):
You never had You were just buying them one clothes
and jewels. You were buying them all these things for nothing.

Speaker 5 (56:39):
Listen, listen, let me tell you somebody flatten my tie
and not at the time in his heart that he
fixed my tire. One hand is supposed to walk the
others your friends. You're not supposed to be a one way,
one weight.

Speaker 1 (56:53):
B Yeah, well, listen, you don't want to be friends
with somebody who's completely controlled in their whole life.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
And that's unfortunate, because you.

Speaker 5 (57:01):
Know, my spirit already told me that. Well let me,
I said, baby, I get the message. I'm going to
go to the house and I'm gonna get picked a
pack your stuff, okay, and I pray that you answer
the phone so I can bring you the clothes that
I brought you. I bought them clothes as a gift
out of the kindness of my heart because of who

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I am. I love you for who you are. Okay,
now you had to do this, be honest with me.
I should have gotten no message from your cousin because
it's not your cousin, it's my it's my your and yours,
because this relationship is mine and yours regardless of what.
I'm not out here for problems. I'm not having trouble.

Speaker 14 (57:46):
I just want love.

Speaker 5 (57:47):
Joye Wi you get this message, bless me?

Speaker 1 (57:50):
No, please, And I gotta say this because we're running
out of time. My spirit tells me that you just
need to let this situation go. Don't worry about getting
the you know what, take those clothes with the tags back,
get your money back.

Speaker 2 (58:03):
Okay, let him good. God, that's what I'm talking about, Jules.
You know, let Mike go.

Speaker 1 (58:11):
Mike is he needs to be freed, but he's gonna
have to do that for himself. Let him go, don't
text him anymore, don't call him.

Speaker 8 (58:18):
Don't show up, and I'm moving on.

Speaker 2 (58:20):
Go to court, be done with it. And and then
that's that.

Speaker 5 (58:24):
My thing is, I just don't want that against me,
because who's to say his cousin don't lie and say
I went by there.

Speaker 2 (58:30):
And well, you know what, the cousin doesn't have God
on her side.

Speaker 6 (58:34):
You do.

Speaker 3 (58:36):
Yeah, God is good.

Speaker 5 (58:37):
And I prayed on that this morning when I was
on praying this morning, I pray for all all my
enemies person.

Speaker 1 (58:45):
I can sense it. I have never been more invested.
So could you call me after court and let me
know what ends up happening.

Speaker 2 (58:52):
Yes, I will, Honey, God, bless you, God bless free Mike.
Thank you so much for the call.

Speaker 3 (58:59):
I usually don't say this, but I am dying to
hear the other side because I have a strong feeling
that the other perspective is completely freaked out.

Speaker 2 (59:10):
I would pay actual dollars, yeah,