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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Dashy and The jam In Morning Show with d J.
Fourn and Sawntree Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
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Speaker 3 (00:11):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
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Speaker 4 (00:26):
A question like so, good morning, Ashley, Good morning, Santi,
Good morning, feign. This is Dennis from Boston, Massachusetts. I've
been told that once you get married, it's supposed to
cut off the day that you got together anniversary and
only celebrate your marriage anniversary. This year would make it
seventeen years me and my wife been together and twelve
(00:48):
years me and my wife been married. I just want
to know are we supposed to cut it off or not?
Because I've been doing.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
It ever since.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Yeah, I think the national drip the natural thing to
do is to cut it off, because then you just
celebrate the anniversary of your marriage, and that's what we've done.
We just we're coming up on twenty but we've been
together since February twenty third of two thousand and one.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Oh see, I'm counting those. If anybody asks me, how
long have you guys been together?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
On counting from the time I met?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, like seven eight years.
Speaker 6 (01:14):
What have celebrated though? Which I celebrate that day? I
think that's the question, right, do you celebrate the day
we met? Or do you celebrate the anniversary of marriage.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
I definitely would say we acknowledged the wedding anniversary, like, oh, this,
you know we've married.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
It was a rule though it makes sense, but I
never knew it was a thing.
Speaker 5 (01:30):
I think it's a natural like progression in conversation because
people will start asking you how long have you been
married not been together?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
I think it starts of vall. Yeah, so celebrate both.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Or yes, first off, celebrate as much as you possibly can.
I love a good holiday. But I feel like people
will say to me, oh, how long have you guys
been together? And so then I just answer and I
add the years to before we got married.
Speaker 6 (01:55):
Some people say that too, it's like, you know, we
mad we met seventeen years ago, we've been married to
mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Why it matters to me is I could not make
a relationship last over two years. Two years was like
the kiss of death to me. I couldn't get past
two years?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
What was it about the two years? Not drugs?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
It could have been, but no.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
So once I the fireman and I made it past that,
I was like, this is big money for me and
he because I never made it past the two year mark.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Three years I wouldn't, we'd move in, do the whole thing.
And then two years. Wow, I don't know, I don't know. Oh,
the one was a cheat, but the other.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
One, yeah, just Ashley, I think I don't think it
was I think it was them problem.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Well, the one guy you were with before, the one
that cheated, that was there was some issues there with
him as a person.
Speaker 6 (02:46):
That's a question though, what's more important the day we
met or the day we got married?
Speaker 3 (02:50):
I'd said the day we met the.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Marriage with you, I'd say the day we met that.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
But it is the day we met that you're celebrating
or the day you guys became official you see now
we even did and deep.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
I know and some or is it like the day
that you guys exchanged I love you or that you
had the convo, but like, are we hooking up with
other people.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
The first date. The first date, yeah, is a variation.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
I mean, but so you talk kind of about the
first time y'all went out to what was it, Friday
Jeff Fridays.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Yeah, like you like you talk about like you remember it.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
It was February second, two thousand and one, but you
don't celebrate it. We don't celebrate it. But like I've
used hold on, let me see if I can just
make sure that none of I've used pass codes of
that date, so like pink codes, I don't have any
like anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Yeah, I remember, I remember our first date. We went
to Venanzia in Port Norfolk. Delicious Italian food if you've
never been, got a chicken parm And why why I
specifically remember it is because I wanted to sit at
the bar because I thought that that made the date
more like casual. And when he got up, the bartender
leaned into me and she goes, I don't know what
(03:56):
this is, but it's not lasting.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Is quiet?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Yeah, she went, but you knew her drunk and loud
at the time, so she is probably like.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
She's like, he's quiet, he can't keep up with you.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
The personalities don't match. There's no way, and you know,
and you know what I did. As soon as he
came and sat back down, I told him everything she said.
I was like, she doesn't think you have.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
A chance with me.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I don't think you have a singular chance.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
By the way, he still will will bring her up
and it's not nice what he says.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
That's all to do, right. Maybe she wanted him, yeah,
to make it, but we.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Do have very different personalities.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
So but that's a good thing though, And I think
it's a bartender. You would know that that, Like, that's positive.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
As soon as he got out to the bathroom, she
was like, I don't know what this is, but this
is not lasting like.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
That lady hates love. Though she wanted the world to me.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
She doesn't work there anymore. But yeah, I feel like
the first date is a bit like you remember that moment. Yeah,
you definitely do, but also whatever it is that you choose,
like that's just your way and that's fine.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
But the first time you go sex too, that's a
hard time. Kiss I remember that, celebrate it all, man,
don't let decide.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I remember them. I don't remember the dates, though.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I think if I thought hard enough, I could think
of the dates.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I remember the first sleepover we had.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
He tried.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
No, I don't remember the date. I remember he tried
and I shut it down. But when I woke up,
I had one pant off, like he was so close.
One pant leg.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
He had one pant leg. He got one off while
you were sleeping.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
That sounds like you said, when you woke up, one
pant leg was off.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
That's her morning warning.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Oh my god,
Dashy and The jam In Morning Show with d J.
Fourn and Sawntree Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Oh Boutin's number one for hip hop jam In ninety
four or five.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
If you can't call the show and ask us a
question during the check in or at any point during
the show, you can always leave us a talkback down
the free iHeartRadio app. Once jam And is on, there's
a little microphone. You can hit it and ask us.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
A question like so, good morning, Ashley, Good morning, Santi,
Good morning, feign. This is Dennis from Boston, Massachusetts. I've
been told that once you get married, it's supposed to
cut off the day that you got together anniversary and
only celebrate your marriage anniversary. This year would make it
seventeen years me and my wife been together and twelve
(00:48):
years me and my wife been married. I just want
to know are we supposed to cut it off or not?
Because I've been doing.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
It ever since.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Yeah, I think the national drip the natural thing to
do is to cut it off, because then you just
celebrate the anniversary of your marriage, and that's what we've done.
We just we're coming up on twenty but we've been
together since February twenty third of two thousand and one.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Oh see, I'm counting those. If anybody asks me, how
long have you guys been together?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
On counting from the time I met?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, like seven eight years.
Speaker 6 (01:14):
What have celebrated though? Which I celebrate that day? I
think that's the question, right, do you celebrate the day
we met? Or do you celebrate the anniversary of marriage.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
I definitely would say we acknowledged the wedding anniversary, like, oh, this,
you know we've married.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
It was a rule though it makes sense, but I
never knew it was a thing.
Speaker 5 (01:30):
I think it's a natural like progression in conversation because
people will start asking you how long have you been
married not been together?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
I think it starts of vall. Yeah, so celebrate both.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Or yes, first off, celebrate as much as you possibly can.
I love a good holiday. But I feel like people
will say to me, oh, how long have you guys
been together? And so then I just answer and I
add the years to before we got married.
Speaker 6 (01:55):
Some people say that too, it's like, you know, we
mad we met seventeen years ago, we've been married to
mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Why it matters to me is I could not make
a relationship last over two years. Two years was like
the kiss of death to me. I couldn't get past
two years?
Speaker 1 (02:08):
What was it about the two years? Not drugs?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
It could have been, but no.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
So once I the fireman and I made it past that,
I was like, this is big money for me and
he because I never made it past the two year mark.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Three years I wouldn't, we'd move in, do the whole thing.
And then two years. Wow, I don't know, I don't know. Oh,
the one was a cheat, but the other.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
One, yeah, just Ashley, I think I don't think it
was I think it was them problem.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Well, the one guy you were with before, the one
that cheated, that was there was some issues there with
him as a person.
Speaker 6 (02:46):
That's a question though, what's more important the day we
met or the day we got married?
Speaker 3 (02:50):
I'd said the day we met the.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Marriage with you, I'd say the day we met that.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
But it is the day we met that you're celebrating
or the day you guys became official you see now
we even did and deep.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
I know and some or is it like the day
that you guys exchanged I love you or that you
had the convo, but like, are we hooking up with
other people.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
The first date. The first date, yeah, is a variation.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
I mean, but so you talk kind of about the
first time y'all went out to what was it, Friday
Jeff Fridays.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Yeah, like you like you talk about like you remember it.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
It was February second, two thousand and one, but you
don't celebrate it. We don't celebrate it. But like I've
used hold on, let me see if I can just
make sure that none of I've used pass codes of
that date, so like pink codes, I don't have any
like anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Yeah, I remember, I remember our first date. We went
to Venanzia in Port Norfolk. Delicious Italian food if you've
never been, got a chicken parm And why why I
specifically remember it is because I wanted to sit at
the bar because I thought that that made the date
more like casual. And when he got up, the bartender
leaned into me and she goes, I don't know what
(03:56):
this is, but it's not lasting.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Is quiet?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Yeah, she went, but you knew her drunk and loud
at the time, so she is probably like.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
She's like, he's quiet, he can't keep up with you.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
The personalities don't match. There's no way, and you know,
and you know what I did. As soon as he
came and sat back down, I told him everything she said.
I was like, she doesn't think you have.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
A chance with me.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
I don't think you have a singular chance.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
By the way, he still will will bring her up
and it's not nice what he says.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
That's all to do, right. Maybe she wanted him, yeah,
to make it, but we.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Do have very different personalities.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
So but that's a good thing though, And I think
it's a bartender. You would know that that, Like, that's positive.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
As soon as he got out to the bathroom, she
was like, I don't know what this is, but this
is not lasting like.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
That lady hates love. Though she wanted the world to me.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
She doesn't work there anymore. But yeah, I feel like
the first date is a bit like you remember that moment. Yeah,
you definitely do, but also whatever it is that you choose,
like that's just your way and that's fine.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
But the first time you go sex too, that's a
hard time. Kiss I remember that, celebrate it all, man,
don't let decide.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I remember them. I don't remember the dates, though.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I think if I thought hard enough, I could think
of the dates.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I remember the first sleepover we had.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
He tried.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
No, I don't remember the date. I remember he tried
and I shut it down. But when I woke up,
I had one pant off, like he was so close.
One pant leg.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
He had one pant leg. He got one off while
you were sleeping.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
That sounds like you said, when you woke up, one
pant leg was off.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
That's her morning warning.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Oh my god,
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