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Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's Up Ashley and the jam In Morning Show with
DJ Floord and Santhy. Here we go.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
It's Tinner Tuesday, y'all on Boston's number one for hip
hop and the best throwbacks jam at eighty four five.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
Hi, everybody, good morning. We are talking dating, love relationships.
The lack there of the evolution of tiner Tuesday is
a beautiful thing. It has changed so many different ways.
We call it tinner Tuesday because it's the radio and
it has a nice ring to it. But you can
call me about any dating apps. You can call me
and tell me that you can't find love, that you're

(00:35):
in love, that you're getting married, that you need some advice,
anything you want that involves dating, love relationships.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
This is our time to do it. Six one seven.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
Nine three one one four five six one seven nine
three one one nine four five.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
Scott is in Boston. Hi, Scott, Hey, how you doing?

Speaker 3 (00:53):
So?

Speaker 1 (00:53):
You just started dating somebody new? Tell us about them.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Uh, she's going through a little struggle and I'm having
a hard time adjusting her likes and dislikes and what
I should be able to do for what I can't
do for.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
Okay, I'm gonna need a little bit trying.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
I'm trying pretty hard to be as good as I can. Okay,
I don't know if it's gonna be good enough.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
All right, Scott, Well let's let's let's let's let's move back.
Where'd you meet her?

Speaker 3 (01:24):
When?

Speaker 4 (01:25):
When? Where?

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Any details are on?

Speaker 3 (01:28):
Yeah? Yeah, down down in South End, Boston. And that
was like Friday, And we had a good couple of days.
You know what I mean to complain about.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
Okay, So you met Friday, Yeah, tesday, Friday, following.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
A weekends following the Friday you met.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
It is now Tuesday. How many like dates have you
gone on in that short time?

Speaker 3 (01:57):
Uh? Mostly spent the time in my place, Okay, Okay,
we she uh just been cleaning up a little bit,
which is nice, doing the lady type stuff. And we've
been we've been eating. Okay, so that's good too. You know. Yeah,
she says I saved her life. Yeah, you want to

(02:19):
talk to her, You want to talk to me.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
I would do anything to talk to her anything.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
Here you go. I guess she's embarrassed a little shit.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
No tell her, tell her, tell her, it's just me.
She's just going to talk to Ashley, just.

Speaker 2 (02:34):
Me and her.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
Yeah, actually wants to talk to your girl. She's she's all.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
You're getting her up?

Speaker 2 (02:43):
Yeah, all right, well let's talk.

Speaker 3 (02:48):
Right, Yeah, this is Ashley, Yeah, the DJ. Anyway, I
don't know if I have the ability to do it.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
Yeah, well might I ask?

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Is it is? Is she struggling with addiction?

Speaker 3 (03:08):
I can't I'm sorry, I couldn't hear you.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Okay, is she struggling with addiction? Like you've mentioned struggles?
What what kind of struggles are we?

Speaker 3 (03:15):
Yea, yeah, yes, yes, she's going through that too. She's
going through that and uh, her uh living situation is
a little tough. Her monetary situation is a little tough.
Her legal status is a little tough.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
Guys, Scott, I know you. I want to go back.

Speaker 3 (03:44):
So I either got to invest a lount of time,
effort and energy.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Or Scott, if you don't mind me asking, do for job?

Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yeah, I'm a marketer.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
A marketer.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Okay, Well who do you market for? Just like a
company in Boston.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
No, it's called heads up consulting, Heads.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Up consulting, and you're a marketer for them.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
That's correct.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
Okay, are you off today? Are you off today? Or
do you say work from home?

Speaker 3 (04:22):
Yeah? I work from home typically, okay, and.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
You're listening to us what on the app or.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
Something almostens on the radio?

Speaker 2 (04:31):
You got a radio in your house? I don't.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah, I still do a lot of people. From what
they say, iHeart radio has like four times the reach
of TV streaming services.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
Well, you are a marketer, you would know.

Speaker 4 (04:46):
I heeart, I.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
Heeart, iHeart radio. Marketing cares about results, post him as
a client.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
As a client, Scott, here's my question to you, buddy.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
And obviously you know she's there so she could hear
what I'm saying. I am just worried that with you
having a house and a job possibly and these things,
that she might be using you for a place to stay,
especially if her living situation isn't great.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
And I don't I don't want you being taken advantage of.

Speaker 3 (05:16):
You know, I understand that. That's kind of how I
feel sometimes too. Sometimes it's hard. It's hard to know
that what's right sometimes, you.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
Know, it's also hard to know that in two days too,
which I can understand. Yeah, weekend, a quick weekend.

Speaker 3 (05:37):
If I knew my next step would be my best step,
I really appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
Yeah, next step the best Well, are we're telling you
to step away. I think you know you you can
maybe try to help her get into a program. You
can try to help her get clean, but she doesn't.
You don't have to do that while she's living in
your home, and I'm worried about that. I don't want
like she you know, she's not getting high in your house,

(06:02):
is she?

Speaker 2 (06:02):
Scott?

Speaker 3 (06:05):
No comment.

Speaker 1 (06:06):
Okay, buddy, you gotta and we don't want to do that, Scott, Scott, come.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
On, yeah, you know, like you're right, we gotta slap
some sense ine mey, you gotta slap some sense in
me verbally I am.

Speaker 1 (06:16):
I am verbally slapping you, and I am just letting
you know that I do want her to get help,
but I don't know if necessarily you are the one
to do it. So maybe we sit her down and
we're like, hey, you need to get into a program somewhere,
and today we work on doing that because under your
roof is not is that's not the place to do it.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
All right, that makes sense. I'm gonna hang up now.
I appreciate you guys taking the time to hear what
my issues were, and hopefully everything goes good for you know.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
Yeah, Scott, just one more question. Who is she talking
to in the back? Who is she talking to.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
In the background, either me or herself?

Speaker 2 (06:51):
I know, Okay, call the police. Yeah, all right, Scott,
good luck, buddy.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
Bye, guys. Thanks, no like for real life.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
Like he also I think needs a lot of help.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
He did not meet her in the South and he
and met her on mass and cates like, I'm worried.

Speaker 2 (07:07):
About definitely skiing in the house.

Speaker 1 (07:09):
Yeah, it's skiing as sounds.

Speaker 2 (07:12):
They need a lot of help.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
Yeah, And that's the thing. They need help, And so
I don't want him to not do that. And I'm
sure he's still listening because he has on terrestial radio
in his home, and I love that for him.

Speaker 2 (07:21):
He has I got physical radio. They both need.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
Help, and you know, I think they need like professionals.

Speaker 2 (07:28):
But I appreciate him because he thought it was funny.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
Laugh.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
He's high. You know what high people think. You're fine.
That's what we just learned.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
Six one seven, three, one four five. We're talking dating,
love relationships. It's Tender Tuesday. Hi, everybody, good morning, It's
Ashley and the Gym in the morning show.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
It's Center Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
We're talking dating love relationships, you know. And sometimes people
call and they say, Ash, I met a guy on
Tinder and it went like this. And sometimes people like
Ramone call from Attleborough. First time call her, Hi, Ramone,
good morning.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
What's going on?

Speaker 1 (08:03):
We need a little relationship advice is what you're looking for?

Speaker 5 (08:07):
Okay, okay, talk to me. So first time called it?

Speaker 3 (08:12):
By the way, who it?

Speaker 4 (08:18):
So?

Speaker 5 (08:19):
Now? I was just talking before him. My wife this
year she asked me for something a little a little
different for Christmas. She wants lit fillers, okay, And I
told the I told her, I'm like, uh oh, I
don't know, because sometimes I don't know if you've seen
I think we've all seen bad lip fillers. When a

(08:39):
girl gets in, it looks like her top lip is
like curling up and she's like trying to sniff. She's
trying to sniff her top lip. Sorry if somebody just
cut me off. But and then and then also and
then also when she brought it up, like she gave
me like a look as if like I'm supposed to
say something like like a little bombastic side eye, like
she's like, I think my lips are nice.

Speaker 1 (09:00):
I don't know, yeah, like this could have been a
two part setup, like she might have needed you to
hear her like she meant have needed to hear I
think your lips so fine, like you don't need that,
you know.

Speaker 5 (09:10):
Right, right, right. And I blame it on my sister too,
because she I think this is the second second time
she's got lip fillers from the same girl that the
wife wants to go to, and she's posted it all
over her Instagram and my obviously the wife are seeing
her Instagram story and chief either it's like five hundred
dollars for like one session.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
No, listen, it's exactly it is. And I think that
this is a two part right. There are some people
that get it done and they don't go to the
right places, and then there's other people that go to
like I've seen, uh, this woman. It's an owner of
a place called Audrey Rose and Wuburn. She does flip
fillers and work on people, and I am flabbergasted at

(09:52):
how amazing and natural it looks. But then I also
see other places. You, yes, the thing, you must keep
it naturally. You don't want to go to crazy. So
if she's if she's vetted the place and she feels
like she has seen their work. I think that that's
also important. Ramon, this is just us talking. Now, this
is just you and me.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
Does she does she need it?

Speaker 4 (10:18):
She?

Speaker 3 (10:18):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (10:19):
So my wife is half Mexican, half white. Her lips
are like, I mean, she loves my wife. She looks good.
I think that looks look fun.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
All right, Well, then there it is. There's the answer.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
Hey, you don't need it. But and that's the thing, like, listen,
we could all play this game.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
Right If I.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
Asked my husband do you think I need a spray tan,
He's gonna be like, no, you don't need a spray
can you look beautiful?

Speaker 2 (10:43):
It is whatever he's gonna say. But the spray tan
is going to make me feel better.

Speaker 1 (10:48):
And maybe a little bit of lip filler is just
gonna make her feel better and a little bit more confident.
So I think if she feels if that's what she
wants for Christmas.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
Let's do it.

Speaker 4 (10:58):
Go for it.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (11:00):
I'm just a little bit nervous about.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
The I know, I know, but if you say, I
get it.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
But if if whoever she knows has already gotten work
there and it looks great, then listen, natural, that's that's
the word.

Speaker 5 (11:12):
We want to use the lady does do good? She
did do pretty good on my sister.

Speaker 4 (11:18):
It's your sister.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
Okay, there we go.

Speaker 5 (11:20):
So I got a question for Ramon though, because sometimes
people start doing this and then they want more.

Speaker 2 (11:23):
You prepare for that.

Speaker 5 (11:26):
I don't. I mean like, it depends on what it is.
You know, you don't know what I'm saying for you know.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
It depends what it is.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
What does that mean?

Speaker 5 (11:38):
Bill, No, she doesn't need one of those.

Speaker 1 (11:43):
Well you know what, Sorry, Ramone, I do so okay,
I can say that I'm asking. Okay, I want to
know if anybody's with me on that, because I do.
Santi took a picture of the back of my sweatshirt
today and it was just I don't.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
It wasn't good. I can do it myself. I can
do it myself. Simone. Actually, you're pissing me off if
it's straight anymore.

Speaker 1 (12:06):
It's like, I don't know. Yeah, that's why I said, yeah,
listen again, I don't. I always lend to. If somebody
wants something to make them feel better about themselves and
feel more confident, stuff, go for it. I will never say, like,
you know, but there is some work out there that
you see people getting You're like, it's you just have

(12:27):
to you have to vet your person. And that's why
I brought up Audrey Rose because I you know, she's
her Instagram is amazing and I she does this thing
where she'll have a guy look at women and guess
if they've gotten work done or not, and they never
can tell. They never can tell. Let's go to Janelle

(12:48):
and what's their Hijanelle?

Speaker 5 (12:51):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (12:52):
How are you Janelle? He actually did, he did kind
of spell it like that, Hi, Janelly?

Speaker 2 (12:59):
What's up?

Speaker 4 (13:00):
Hi? So I just wanted to share my little love story.
I've been with my husband for twelve years, but we
got married.

Speaker 3 (13:11):
After twelve years. So we just got.

Speaker 4 (13:14):
Married last August, and we had a lot of people
telling us why get married now? Why get married after
so long? And so my advice is there's no rush
to marriage and it's never too late.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
Why why what?

Speaker 2 (13:35):
Why did you get married after twelve years? Why not
just stayed together? I mean, yeah, y'are not leaving each other?

Speaker 5 (13:39):
What is a marriage in the pace?

Speaker 4 (13:42):
So I think a couple of weeks ago, I talked
to four and I don't know if you remember, but
I had he yeah, we So he was actually bringing
it up for the past two or three years. Let's
get married. Get married. The reason we didn't get married

(14:02):
like right away after we got engaged. We were actually
engaged almost the whole time, by the way, and we
have two kids together. We have two kids together and
we don't have any kids with anybody else and all that.
But we got married because he kept on bringing it up,
and we never got married right away just because we

(14:25):
didn't never put a date on it. We never put
a day on it, and we were kind of sticking
tick on the date that we wanted to do. And
we actually we planned our wedding in five months and
we got married in August and it was very beautiful
and we're just happy and exciting. But I do have

(14:45):
an advice for women dating at this time and age.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
Okay, I can't.

Speaker 4 (14:50):
I can't imagine dating right now. I've been, you know.
But my advice is I'm all for women not settling. Obviously,
you never settle.

Speaker 5 (14:59):
But look out.

Speaker 4 (15:00):
If you keep on looking for the same thing and
it's not working out, just try to look at something different.
For instance. The reason I say that is because I
always went for older men and for once, I went
for something different and it worked out and we went
together for two twelve years and we have two kids together.

Speaker 1 (15:21):
There it is there, It is a j I hope
you were listening. Janellie, thank you so much for that.
Appreciate it.

Speaker 4 (15:27):
You're welcome, have a nice day.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
Okaybye, Yeah. Marriage God answered, I still don't know.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
I still know, and Ford to have the audacity to say,
got you know?

Speaker 2 (15:38):
You don't What do you got? You do not know
what she was saying, No one does.

Speaker 1 (15:44):
Oh my god, six one, five, Oh, the place's tender.

Speaker 2 (15:49):
Tuesday will take you. Good morning.
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