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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake wake yo, Hi, everybody, My throat hurts now.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
From my heavy metal interpretation.

Speaker 3 (00:17):
Heavy metal is so weird.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
Heavy metal metal is the weirdest, weirdest, weirdest.

Speaker 4 (00:21):
And I'm not talking about like Metallica, like that's doable,
that's understandable.

Speaker 5 (00:26):
I mean, if I can understand what's being said, then
then that's fine.

Speaker 6 (00:32):
Do you know?

Speaker 2 (00:34):
That's what I thought, But.

Speaker 4 (00:35):
I don't think it is because in like the nineties
they were almost crossing over into pop and Jonathan Davis
as the lead singer that band, and some of their
songs were like rhythmically good Black Sabbath, Yeah, but most
Black Sabbath is heavy metal, but it's still very doable.
Some of their actually.

Speaker 5 (00:50):
Mega death Slipknot system of a down, System of a
down is like let the body that I can still understand, yeah,
but the Slipknot cool Slipknot don't understand it.

Speaker 4 (01:04):
And what's even worse if you see them live, Like
it's even worse with like the screaming and people just
up there.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
No they motion and everything.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
I don't get it. No, not for me go out
and get hurt fun, But.

Speaker 5 (01:17):
Yeah, I love for the guy who just like top
of the morning putting this song. Don't know what the
people are saying, screaming, hey, nighttime, that's what he's listening
to it.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
He just left it.

Speaker 7 (01:27):
My train, my train on my boxing class is one
of them. That's all he plays. He plays a mix
of just like heavy metal, like just like rageing music,
and it got you energized. I'm not gonna hold you once,
You're gonna get lost in it. You punch in the
bag what you don't.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
Even know what they're saying.

Speaker 7 (01:41):
One time, I remember somebody on TikTok puts a song
on there like this is my favorite song, and the
lyrics are kind of deep. I didn't know what they
was saying at first, but once they put out the lyrics.

Speaker 5 (01:49):
They were saying like like you broke my heart?

Speaker 3 (01:54):
How could you cheat on me? Why did you leave?
I'm like, what.

Speaker 5 (02:00):
Am exactly like that? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (02:05):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (02:05):
It's just not It doesn't make me feel relaxed.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
What's happenings?

Speaker 2 (02:13):
You're about to go to sleep? Why are you play?

Speaker 3 (02:17):
How would you listen to that then go to bed?

Speaker 2 (02:19):
What was like, No, listen, it's not just my friend
John Moore. You know that that there's people just like that. Yeah,
so weird.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
It is very weird.

Speaker 5 (02:31):
Yeah, but you're right, I can't some of these names
of people that we've said. If I can understand the lyrics,
it doesn't count as what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Heavy heavy, heavy metal.

Speaker 4 (02:40):
And hard rock is fine. It's like gets good. Some
of them has a like awesome.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Sounds, guns and roses like I love, yeah, but.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
When it's all mushed together and screams not good. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:52):
Like I'm a huge classic rock girly, like I love
rock music, and it's just I want to you know,
I want to understand I'm hearing number one. And but
you know what, people might argue that there's certain rap
songs absolutely that are hard to understand, absolutely, but those
have beats in rhythm.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (03:10):
You know, when the Migos first came out, everybody was
clowning them as mumbo rap because they were like what
a yes, what do you say? But over time, you know,
I mean, people come to understand what's.

Speaker 5 (03:17):
Happening completely unrelated to any of this. I want to do.
We have a little bit of time, yes, okay, I want.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
To tell a quick story. It's a feel good.

Speaker 5 (03:30):
I I think everybody knows this last year, like, there
was a lot of loss for me with you know,
I lost one of my really good friends, my grandmother, Drake.
I just there was a lot and I had Daisy,
so there was also a lot of life too, which
was nice. But you know, when we lost my former
teammate Melissa, it was it was really hard for us

(03:51):
because if there was one thing Melissa was amazing at
in this world, it was being a mother, you know,
and she left behind a husband and kids, and that
was I've never been to a funeral like that. Like,
it just was a really really, really really hard time
seeing her young kids like that, you know, know that
they're gonna go on now without their mom, and it's

(04:13):
it's it's one of those things that's like I'll have
moments where I'm okay, and then I'll have moments where
I'll go, like look back at our last text message exchange,
and you know, it's just it's weird because I always
this is even more weird to say, but sometimes I
feel like it's not real.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (04:30):
Anyways, I'm gonna I'm gonna tell you guys, there's a
little little little tidbit of my life over the last
week so we're planning our alumni game at Northeastern. It's
coming up in February, and the game is also going
to be like a nod to Melissa and her career
at Northeastern because she was an amazing basketball player, and so
we're gonna be wearing her jerseys where we got like

(04:51):
a mock up of her retro jersey, you know, with
her number and her name on it, which is which
is really dope. So, you know, Melissa was older than
I was. So there's kind of like the group of
Northeastern basketball player friends of mine that are the older ones,
and then there's the younger girls, like the girls that
I was a captain for that never even knew that
Melissa was a big time star at Northeastern. You know,

(05:12):
there was just a big age gap. So I've been
you know, kind of in both group chats, just kind
of helping out with all the details surrounding the alumni game,
and in the young the younger group chat, you know,
for them, I just said, hey, here are the details.
I know you guys know I was friends with Melissa
and none of you have met her, but we are
planning on wearing like her retro throwback jerseys.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
If you guys want to buy one, amazing.

Speaker 5 (05:37):
If you don't, I obviously understand you never played with her,
you didn't know her.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
It's cool.

Speaker 5 (05:41):
I'm just giving you the heads up that you know
the older girls like we're going to be wearing them.
I get choked up saying this. There was there was
probably fifteen of my younger teammates in this group chat.
Uh the fifteen only like thirteen can come to the
actual game. So the the thirteen that cannot come all

(06:03):
immediately then mode and said, buy a jersey for somebody
in her family, buy a jersey for her kids, buy
a jersey for her husband. I can't come, but I
want to donate a jersey. And it's like it's just small,
and it's something little that happens in my life. But
I just think that that's amazing that they did that.
You know, it can't be described, No, it really, it

(06:25):
really can't describe. They've never met her, they don't know her.
They did that because they know how much she meant
to me.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
Amazing because the biggest question is when was the last
time you picked.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
Up a basketball?

Speaker 5 (06:41):
Thank God we're not playing no, I mean it's.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
Been since right before Daisy because I had to stop
playing because.

Speaker 5 (06:50):
One thing about me though, once you have it, yeah.

Speaker 6 (07:03):
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Speaker 8 (07:08):
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Speaker 5 (07:16):
Five Friday, January tenth, and we are day four, guys,
with the wildfires in LA with a brand new one
that was started near Hidden Hills and Calabasas. Hidden Hills
is where you could find the likes of a Will Smith,
and Calabasas is where you can find the Kardashians.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
Now this is happening and breaking overnight.

Speaker 5 (07:39):
Remember yesterday I told you guys that there was a
rumor that some of these wildfires had been started on purpose,
And we are learning throughout the night, and as of
this morning that one suspect has been arrested and being
investigated as an arsonist.

Speaker 4 (07:57):
LA is a scary place. There's a lot of crazy
people out there, lot people walking this the streets. And
I get a picture that one of them did this
for what reason, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
I still think it will climb.

Speaker 5 (08:07):
The death toll went from five yesterday to ten structures destroyed.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
I think yesterday we were talking two thousand.

Speaker 5 (08:15):
As of this morning, ten ten thousand structures have been
destroyed with ten people dead, and that number is just
going to keep continuing to climb because these fires are
still raging on. Now. Did we yesterday start to see
more of the devastation as the fires kind of moved, Yeah,

(08:38):
wild seeing some of the celebrities post them going back
to their homes, and even non celebrities, it's just celebrities.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
We see more on social media.

Speaker 5 (08:50):
I mentioned it yesterday and I'll mention it again, Like
I just feel like it's such a disgusting narrative that's
being pushed where people are like, oh, please, they're celebrities,
they'll they'll rebuild. That's fine that they have money, and
maybe some other people don't have as much, but they
still may have raised their children there, they may have
still left behind things that meant the world to them.
They're still people. I get that they might have money,

(09:13):
but there's still people, and I just I hate that
people are I do see a lot of people pushing
that there's a curfew in La County right now because
the looting is at an all time high. And it's
not just stores. People are going into other people's homes
have left for safety and they're going to come home

(09:35):
to either nothing or their house might be standing, but
it will be empty because of looting. Like you loot
during something like this, you're the scum of the earth.
I think we can just go ahead and say it.

Speaker 4 (09:46):
I feel like La is going to be I mean,
it's not coming back, it's not going to be the same.
It's going to probably take twenty years for them to
rebuild this town.

Speaker 2 (09:52):
You know what's wild?

Speaker 5 (09:53):
You two would like jokingly say before this happened that
because of the drug epidemic that's happening in Elli right now,
that it was like zombie land, like physically looks.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
Like, yeah, it looks like the Walking Dead out there.

Speaker 5 (10:04):
For no one hundred percent looks post apocalyptic. It's it's
something out of a movie. It's it's crazy, And you know,
I just think that this is one of those things where, yeah,
it's it's far away from us, but I think we
can all kind of take a step back and know
what it would feel like if someone said you have
ten minutes to get out of your house and grab
all your things. I watched an interview with a mom

(10:27):
yesterday and she said that you have kids, you know
you think, Okay, I have ten minutes. I have to
get everything out for them. She goes, I have nothing
I grabbed like a pair of jeans for myself. Also,
you have ten minutes. Like what do you what? I
brought this up to the fireman last night. I said,
if someone told us we had ten minutes to get
out of this house for a burned down, like what
are we what are we grabbing? And he's like, I

(10:48):
think my first thought would be like you get out,
you guys, get out, and then whatever I can get,
I'll get.

Speaker 3 (10:55):
But I don't know.

Speaker 5 (10:55):
It's it's a very that must be such an eerie
thing to hear ten minutes, to have ten minutes to
get your life, whatever you can grab from your life,
and you have to go.

Speaker 4 (11:03):
Ten years ago in San Diego there was some bad fires.
We had a radio station on the air. They were
doing like charities and all this stuff. They were saying,
like the donations with like like all the money stuff
is fine, but the important things like the socks, underwear,
like all this stuff.

Speaker 3 (11:17):
You don't think think about because you lose everything.

Speaker 5 (11:19):
And I do see a lot of celebrities stepping up
in that department who may have had like a facility
where they were safe. Goop from Gwyneth Paltrow being one,
she's using her warehouse to send you know.

Speaker 2 (11:31):
I saw a lot of.

Speaker 5 (11:31):
Non perishables and baby wipes and diapers and stuff to people.
I know that yesterday the firefighters were like, we appreciate
everybody dropping off snacks and stuff, but we need protein,
like we need to eat.

Speaker 2 (11:41):
We're not sleeping.

Speaker 5 (11:42):
We're trying to be out there fighting these fires on
nothing like we're running on e So I know a
lot of restaurants in La some that got out unscathed.
They're trying to help there. But I mean, we're not
even close to being done with this. And if this
in fact is happening because of people start already, means
like arsonists, there's not just one. These fires are all over.

(12:04):
That means there's more and could potentially.

Speaker 3 (12:06):
Be me more.

Speaker 4 (12:07):
It doesn't matter like this, but I wonder what this
is going to do to the entertainment like industry, because
that's the center of the universe for all of them.
All the movies have filmed their TV shows. I got
to assume it's gonna shut down things.

Speaker 5 (12:17):
You wouldn't even think about. My best friend. I remember,
I told you guys lives in Manhattan. Be she's a
she's a Division one basketball coach. They were supposed to
have a game yesterday. They couldn't play the game because
she her school is lmus T right outside of LA
Because of the air quality and there's windows in the
gym and due to the fact that the air was
getting into the gym, they weren't allowed to play. Pepperdine

(12:39):
University has canceled classes until like middle to end of February.
Everything is going to change. Kids' schools were burnt down
to the ground, Like the crowd, how are we starting
to rework these kids getting back in school? Like you
don't think about the snowball effect of what this is
going to do to communities. You know, we might not
see Pacific palisades rebuilt for decades.

Speaker 3 (13:00):
Absolutely, this is crazy. It is.

Speaker 4 (13:03):
This is up there and like one of the worst
catastrophes this country has ever had.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
Yeah, no, it really is.

Speaker 5 (13:09):
And I we're like, again, we're on the opposite side
and we're removed from it. But I do think this
is one of those things where you can kind of
take a step back to like, damn, like imagine how
hard it must be. Joey b also making it clear
that the government will help fire relief for up to six.

Speaker 2 (13:24):
Month at one hundred percent. So that's going to be
nice too, all.

Speaker 5 (13:27):
Right, quickly, if people weren't crying about what's happening in La,
they were crying because of TikTok yesterday. For the past
four years, TikTok has been facing a crisis of maybe
going away and being banned in the US. Remember, our
Justice Department wants it to go because they feel like
it's a threat to our national spot security here that we're.

Speaker 2 (13:50):
Being spied on.

Speaker 5 (13:51):
They wanted to go and a law could be passed
very quickly, and as of jan nineteen, there is a
chance that TikTok is gone.

Speaker 4 (14:01):
I don't see it going away. Hopefully at the end
of the day they'll come up with some sort of solution.
But if it does go away the very next day,
I will just go on with my life.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
Yeah, they got four days, isn't it? The fourteenth?

Speaker 2 (14:12):
Nineteenth?

Speaker 5 (14:13):
That's the deadline for Bite Dance to basically sell off
it's its operation or the Actually they're refusing as of
right now, So yeah, they there is a chance that
that Jan nineteen date gets pushed while they try to
like deliberate and make a decision. But I don't know. Listen,
I'm not a TikTok head so it but you love it.

(14:33):
I know how much you love it, and I know
that this would this would hurt you.

Speaker 4 (14:37):
Absolutely, yes, yes, But at the same time, something else
will pop up.

Speaker 5 (14:40):
I hate to say it, but like then people will
just rely more on whether it will.

Speaker 4 (14:46):
Be will change and it will be okay. But I
do somehow I think they'll come to some conclusion at
the end of the day.

Speaker 5 (14:51):
And we'll get through it all right, lastly and just quickly.
I know we had mentioned obviously everything that's going on
in La and all these celebrities losing their homes, one
of which is Janey I Aiko. She lost her home
in the LA fires and she has a son with
Big Sean that we know, just two years old.

Speaker 3 (15:07):
She said.

Speaker 5 (15:07):
Praying for everybody this morning, those who lost their home,
those who lost their life's work, those who lost their life,
praying for the city, praying for the wildlife and lost pets,
praying for the world. Let suffering be a gift, a
lesson in compassion. She said, my children's home is completely
gone and is burned to the ground with all of
our things inside. Lord have mercy, thank thankful we still
have each other starting from scratch. My heart is so heavy.

(15:29):
God bless us all.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
You know.

Speaker 5 (15:31):
That's one thing I see. I see a lot of
people that have lost their homes writing just like things
that they're now looking back like, Okay, it's burned to
the ground.

Speaker 2 (15:41):
I have nothing, but I wish I grabbed this.

Speaker 5 (15:43):
I saw Myles Teller, Miles Teller's wife write, you know,
a whole thing about their home, and do you know
what she wishes that she grabbed the one thing that
she can't get out of her head her wedding dress.

Speaker 2 (15:55):
Oh yeah, yeah. And it's strange like mine sets there
and collects. Yeah, but it's sentimental. If it was, if
I yeah, it's.

Speaker 3 (16:04):
I still go back to it.

Speaker 4 (16:05):
I think the picture is the most important thing for
me personally, be all the hard drives, because that was
the last twenty years of my life.

Speaker 5 (16:10):
AJ saw something I don't do you remember the company
about how people were offering to take so there's a
company that basically was saying that if you did rescue
any photos and you got your pictures out, they will
take them and digitalize them for you for free if
something happened to you with the La fires. I do
think there's a lot of companies that are trying to
do their best, their best just to help out as

(16:32):
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Speaker 5 (16:56):
Hi, everybody, I know we talked about this earlier in
the week. So just to kind of give everybody a
where are they now? Potty training has begun in my household.
I have to say I read a couple different books.
Oh crap book I read, I read it. I read

(17:16):
a few different things. As people are like which book
are you reading? Which training are you doing? And I
would say that I've read multiple things and I've kind
of taken something from each one and made it in
my own and kind of tailored it to my kid.
If you are potty training or you're getting ready to
potty train, please you could DM me at Ashley Felman
Twoe's on the Ashley. But the most important things that
I have done so far Day one, completely naked. She

(17:42):
was wearying nothing.

Speaker 2 (17:43):
Okay. I bought doggie pads like.

Speaker 5 (17:47):
Sofa covers, took the cushions off the back of the
couch so she couldn't hide, and it was a free
for all in that house. She at Max did like
a couple little squirts, but then very quickly figured out,
I don't like that. If my only option now is
to go on the potty, like I will hold it
and I will go to the potty.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
The girl figured out pee quick.

Speaker 3 (18:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (18:10):
Day two, I had her naked for three days straight.
We did not leave the house three days straight. By
day two I.

Speaker 2 (18:16):
Might have put a T shirt on her, but always
no underwear.

Speaker 5 (18:19):
You know. By day three she was telling me I
have to go to the bathroom. I bought the potty watch,
which has been amazing. It goes off once an hour.
It plays a little song. She knows oh, if I
haven't gone, it's time to go. One of my favorite
things that she does. If she goes, and say ten
to fifteen minutes later, the potty watch goes off, She's like.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
Excuse me, potty watch, I already went. She talks to it.

Speaker 5 (18:43):
So the potty watch was one of our listeners actually
suggested it, and it was well worth the like fifteen
or twenty bucks that it was. We just leave it
out there on the kitchen counters. Doesn't want to wear
it when it goes off. She knows to pop up.
By day four or five, I started transitioning to undies,
but still when it came to p number one.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
She was number one.

Speaker 3 (19:04):
Yeah, like number one's easy A plus.

Speaker 2 (19:06):
For number one. Number two has been.

Speaker 5 (19:12):
Something that I couldn't even have prepared for physically and mentally.
Like I don't know, I don't think any I mean,
I do think people that have gone through body training
understand now there there is a theory out there that
little ones, toddlers feel like when they poop that they're
losing a body part, and that's a real fear for them.

Speaker 3 (19:30):
I mean enter that point because sometimes when I do,
I actually do and wait.

Speaker 5 (19:38):
So terrified of poop is an understatement. She's little, so
she doesn't know how to describe things. So I know
the signifier for when she has to go is my
butthole is itchy. That's what she will tell me. She'll say, Mommy,
help me scratch it. My butthole is itchy, and that
means I have to go. But I am just sucking
it in. She she'll start to telling me that her

(20:00):
buttole is it she at around eleven thirty noon and
that she won't go to damn near five pm. Yeah,
we've had that's skiddies in the okay, because we're just
trying to figure this out.

Speaker 2 (20:12):
Okay, by the way, I buy the cheapest ones and
we trash those. I'm not watching those. So you know,
she's gone the last three days in a row.

Speaker 5 (20:21):
So we're talking Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Tuesday and Wednesday. If
somebody was walking past our home and they heard the
action of her actually going, they would have thought I
was beating my child.

Speaker 2 (20:33):
Like that is how horrified she is.

Speaker 5 (20:36):
How much she screams, they're snot everywhere, and please, like
I I know you guys are going to hit me
up with tips and tricks, and that's school. I'll gladly
accept them, but know that I am doing everything like,
know that you're not going to tell me something most
likely that I am not doing that.

Speaker 2 (20:52):
I haven't read.

Speaker 5 (20:55):
What I have found works the most, which is really
tough for me to admit on air because I don't
poop myself, but I've had to pretend that I am
also pooping. And yesterday the fire man, he was upset.

Speaker 2 (21:10):
He did not like it.

Speaker 5 (21:11):
But her and I will alternate pushing, So we hold
each other's hands and I'll say mommy's turn, and then
we go one, two, three, and I go.

Speaker 3 (21:22):
But you can't push like that. I know what you
have to.

Speaker 2 (21:28):
Really, I'm Julia robertson this thing, guys.

Speaker 6 (21:30):
Increase.

Speaker 3 (21:33):
And so that's what I'm saying about.

Speaker 2 (21:35):
No, no, no, I looked into getting her fiber.

Speaker 3 (21:38):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (21:38):
No, no, he can't tell you I looked in.

Speaker 5 (21:41):
I looked into getting her fiber because that's another thing
I want to get to if any parents are going
through this.

Speaker 2 (21:49):
The turds that come out of her.

Speaker 5 (21:50):
Body, where how were they fitting inside? They're massive, you, guys,
I'm worried. She's a lot of grilled chicken and I
am wet braid. But yeah, actually I'm thinking about putting
her on some like like a little five hours bomnies
or something something. But it's so sad because she is

(22:12):
stuck in between this phase of like congratulatory to herself,
like she knows she's doing the right thing, but she's
also so afraid and so scared, so she's.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
Crying and.

Speaker 5 (22:22):
Ya yay, yeah guy, she knows I'm going on the
potty and she the fireman told me that.

Speaker 2 (22:29):
Last night.

Speaker 5 (22:29):
When I was showering, she stopped down and said, Daddy,
I went poop on a potty. Mommy is so proud
because I always tell her over and over how proud
I am of how far she's come with the potty training,
and she's she's doing so great, and I'm so proud.
Yesterday's poop was the best one we've had so far,

(22:49):
not without tears, not without itchy butthole for five hours,
but it after it happened, it was like the least traumatic.

Speaker 4 (22:56):
I mean, you have to imagine at some point it's
gonna be like okay, like this is an okay thing
and it won't be a scary.

Speaker 5 (23:00):
Right, Yeah, and she's just like she knows that what
she's doing is the right thing.

Speaker 2 (23:05):
Like, listen to this, everybody.

Speaker 5 (23:07):
Just did tell them what you just did.

Speaker 2 (23:12):
Good baby, I said, big Poop's She's like, I just
had a big poop. But she knows it's the right
thing to do, and we're working on it. But potty
training isn't.

Speaker 5 (23:24):
I think there's this misconception that it's like, oh, three
days no underwear and it's done. Like, no, it takes time.
I mean we we've been out at the store and
she'll say to me, I have to pee, like she knows,
she knows to tell me now. But you know, there's
definitely fear around poop, that's for sure. So now I
have to like lie and walk around the house and say,
mommy poops and everybody poops and stuff, which isn't true,

(23:47):
but it's something that I have to do for my kid.

Speaker 4 (23:49):
I'm picture if she's dropping the log like that, that
mommy must become the same page.

Speaker 3 (23:57):
And she's getting tall. She's getting an example from somewhere
that she knows like, all right, well that's why mommy's proud.
We match logs of love.

Speaker 6 (24:12):
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Speaker 5 (24:24):
Five Friday, January tenth, and we're on day four of
the wildfires in LA, with a brand new fire starting
near Hidden Hills in Calabasas. It's fast, it's moving quickly,
and I did tell you yesterday that there were rumors
that some of these fires may or may not have
been started on purpose. And I can tell you that

(24:45):
as of this morning, one suspect has been arrested and
is being investigated for arson.

Speaker 4 (24:50):
Which is crazy, and it makes me think that there's
more people involved in just one.

Speaker 7 (24:54):
I agree, And you just throw up some video of
people actually doing it, being caught red handed, like on
camp right now.

Speaker 3 (25:00):
Yeah, if we.

Speaker 5 (25:01):
Take a step back and really think about the magnitude
of how if in fact this was all plot and
a plan, imagine no, and the devastation that is happening
in LA right now is like something out of a movie.

Speaker 2 (25:19):
I know people probably like a right, Ashley, you keep
saying that.

Speaker 5 (25:21):
But that's there's just no other way to describe it.
Pacific Palisades is gone, it is wiped away, it is ash.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
It will take decades to rebuild that.

Speaker 5 (25:32):
As of this morning, the death toll has doubled ten
That will I will definitely climb with more than ten
thousand structures destroyed. The newest fire in Hidden Hills in
Calabasas is the one that's honestly opening my eyes to
maybe this was a planned attack. Every neighborhood that's under

(25:53):
like legit siege right now is an affluent one where
celebrities live. Pacific Palisades, Hidden Hill, Calabasis. That's where the
Kardashians live. Will Smith lives in Hidden Hills.

Speaker 2 (26:04):
It's weird.

Speaker 4 (26:05):
That's an interesting word. Attack and that's what it's starting
to feel like the more videos get posted. But it
feels like an attack.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
It absolutely does.

Speaker 5 (26:13):
And you know, the containment is the issue with the
eighty to one hundred mile per hour winds. Fatigue plays
a factor here for these firefighters who aren't sleeping, they're
not eating. I can tell you it does seem like
LA is really trying to come together and help out
anybody being affected by these fires.

Speaker 2 (26:32):
People who were lucky enough.

Speaker 5 (26:35):
To still have their brick and mortar standing or trying
to send in meals to the firefighters get relief to
some of these people who heard, Hey, you have ten
minutes to get out of your house or you're going
to die and your entire house is going to be
burned to the ground, Like you need to leave.

Speaker 4 (26:49):
It's almost like they picked the perfect time to like
wait till the winds were super high, to do all
these things.

Speaker 2 (26:54):
It's now I'm convinced it's spooky.

Speaker 7 (26:56):
Well, there's a conversation that Joe Rogan had with a
five fighter at this click went went viral viral, but
from like two thousand and two I think it was,
and the firefight had won that La is lucky that
the winds blow the way they do. But he said
the minute that they changed direction, it's a wrap. Almost
predicted what was going to happen.

Speaker 5 (27:14):
He literally told Joe Rogan, all it will take is
one time with the winds the right way, and La
will disappear.

Speaker 3 (27:19):
That's it.

Speaker 7 (27:20):
There's a homeowner in the Palasads who was like, yo,
just wipe the Palaceads off the map, like it doesn't
exist anymore. It's not here, there's nothing here.

Speaker 5 (27:28):
I saw an interview with a guy on the news
this morning, and he had a fireproof safe with like
his grandmother's jewelry and thing melted to the ground, like
even something that's fireproof, not when it's that type of
fire like it's it's gone. Joey b making it clear
that they will help with fire relief for up to
six months. We are going to be talking about the

(27:49):
devastation of these wildfires for years to come. And like
Forlorn said, I Pacific Palisades might literally be gone, but
I think of things like, you know, schools and reso
all of these kids and starting to start that process,
but also still grieving, like these teachers lost their homes too.
So how are we going to make all of this happen?

(28:09):
And how do we move on and move forward? It's
going to take a long time, it really is. This
one's for foreign. Let's talk Meg the Stallion. This one
came out of nowhere.

Speaker 3 (28:20):
Yesterday.

Speaker 2 (28:22):
Well I thought that too, but now I have a little.

Speaker 3 (28:24):
Bit more of a a thought.

Speaker 2 (28:25):
I have a theory.

Speaker 5 (28:27):
So Meg the Stallion guys requested a five year restraining
order against Tory Lanez and a judge granted it. Now,
remember he's convicted right now, for shooting Megan twenty twenty,
not scheduled to be even considered for parole until twenty
twenty nine. She got the restraining order through January of

(28:48):
twenty thirty.

Speaker 2 (28:49):
I read the headline, I started reading the story.

Speaker 5 (28:52):
She hopped on like a zoom to basically plead her
case to the judge.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
She was bawling, crying. She was emotional.

Speaker 5 (29:00):
She said things like, I feel like maybe he'll shoot
me again. Maybe this time I won't make it, She said,
I want my restraining order because I haven't had peace
since twenty twenty. I'm a nervous wreck all the time.
He's violent and he's a dangerous criminal, she said, even
now while behind bars, you know, he has shown no
signs of stopping. So I thought to myself, why are

(29:20):
you getting.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
A restraining order on a man that is in jail.

Speaker 5 (29:23):
But now I'm wondering if there is some sort of
way and he has some sort of capability, maybe he
has a phone.

Speaker 3 (29:31):
And what is a ratting?

Speaker 2 (29:32):
That's what I think.

Speaker 10 (29:33):
I think.

Speaker 5 (29:33):
I'm telling Why else, though, why why else would you
do this?

Speaker 11 (29:38):
You know what?

Speaker 2 (29:39):
I think he feels like threatened.

Speaker 7 (29:40):
By him thinking, especially a five y and one I'm
thinking that maybe they feel like he might be getting
out of jail soon and they're trying to play ahead
of the game.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
You get the theory.

Speaker 7 (29:50):
I mean that way when he comes out, like I
don't want him talking about me doing nothing, they put
out the case that they said that he's harassing her
through his music, but again, he's he's a if he's
a number one, if he's able to get I don't
know if it's legal to put music out from jail.
But after that, she's like, oh, now he keeps talking
about me in his music and I feel harassed.

Speaker 5 (30:08):
And she made a comment too, like when she goes
to her shows, people yell free Toy.

Speaker 3 (30:13):
I mean, what does I know?

Speaker 2 (30:15):
But but the bottom line is now that she got this.

Speaker 5 (30:17):
If he even were to try to harass her from
behind bars or have someone else do it, like he's
gonna he's gonna add time to his sentence. So this
definitely will change things for Toy. He's gonna have to
be on his best behavior. But yeah, I saw the
headline and I'm like, wait a second, make it makes sense.
But there's a couple of different theories that could lend
to why she would do something like this. But I
also like Meg is still not well Okay, yeah she's not.

Speaker 3 (30:42):
And Tori's a couple of years into his ten year bid, right.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
Yeah, well yeah twenty two. Well now he wasn't arrested. Yeah,
you're right.

Speaker 5 (30:47):
It so like I don't know, ye I remember us
saying that he was going to be doing Christmas in jail.
So it was last year Jesus all right. And lastly,
it could be rip to TikTok. I'm not a TikToker,
but I know this will hurt a lot of people.
Santi buys something maybe twice a week from the tiktokast
that thing goes away.

Speaker 2 (31:08):
This man is in trouble.

Speaker 5 (31:10):
But obviously the US and the Justice Department wants TikTok
to go away because they think we're being spied on.
They think it's a national security risk, and they think that,
you know, foreign adversaries are using this to gather data
on us as Americans. If that's the case, by by
get rid of it.

Speaker 4 (31:26):
But what am I going to do for for like
mom talk and like that's a major thing for me
and it plays a major role.

Speaker 2 (31:32):
In my Now it'll move to Instagram, I'll know.

Speaker 4 (31:35):
But on TikTok there's more freedom for all these moms
to dance, and they're tight closed.

Speaker 7 (31:39):
And a lot of people are making money on TikTok.

Speaker 2 (31:41):
As the people that I think are going.

Speaker 4 (31:43):
To be really yeah, TikTok like TikTok. TikTok is amazing,
especially for the shopping. I mean, I almost bought a
Freddie and Jason Valentine's Day thing there. But is is
it going to be around?

Speaker 2 (31:55):
We don't know. But here's the here's the latest.

Speaker 5 (31:59):
Jan nineteen is the day, and that's the day we
might be saying to buy to TikTok for forever. But
a lot of people believe that that date won't be
as like a hard fine date just because they'll need
time to deliberate make a decision.

Speaker 2 (32:12):
So who knows. Maybe by Valentine's Day it'll be gone.

Speaker 4 (32:15):
But there is a chance start getting your handles on
Triller because that's the same exact thing as TikTok and
it almost became big a couple of years back.

Speaker 2 (32:22):
So oh wow, it's a nice little tidbit.

Speaker 5 (32:24):
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gonna go to the Boston Calling Music Festival. We're gonna
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then Pop will hook you up in the three pm hour,
and then after that we are tying a nice little
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Speaker 2 (33:11):
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be Gryffindor next one?

Speaker 5 (33:16):
Oh that's right, Gryffindort and dinners that even a hint thought,
Gryffindor and dinner.

Speaker 2 (33:23):
Do with that what you will?

Speaker 6 (33:25):
All right?

Speaker 2 (33:25):
Right now, we're gonna do the check in. How are we,
what's going on? What's up?

Speaker 5 (33:29):
Call me, tell me a story, say good morning, ask
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Speaker 5 (33:58):
Hi, everybody, good morning. We're doing the check in right now.
Check it in on you, your life, your world. It's
all about what you got going on. Call me and
tell me a story, Say what up, say good morning,
ask us for advice anything.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
There's a mic in this studio. It's just waiting for you.

Speaker 5 (34:15):
Six one seven, nine three one one nine four five
six one seventy nine three one one nine four five
Call me Happy Friday. By the way, Tiff is in Methuin. Hi, Teff,
thanks for holding babe.

Speaker 3 (34:27):
Hi.

Speaker 5 (34:28):
So let's talk about your love life. You were with
a guy who was in jail for two years. Did
we know him before?

Speaker 12 (34:35):
Were still in jail?

Speaker 2 (34:36):
He's yeah, still in him before.

Speaker 5 (34:38):
Okay, okay, so you know him before before he went in.
Were you guys dating or you were just friendly?

Speaker 13 (34:45):
We we were interested, and then we stopped talking and
then he went in. He knows my brother, so he
was calling my brother and he was like, can you
tell your sister. I'm sorry because we got into like
just petty crap. And I wrote him a letter and
then he called me about like a month later and

(35:08):
then we've been talking ever since. But it's just been
a lot. It's been very stressful. He's moved a bunch
of times, like he's he's been in the hospital a
few times. In there, the inmates took his tablet and
was messaging me and harassing me, and there's just it's
a very stressful situation and it's hard for me.

Speaker 2 (35:29):
It doesn't sound ideal.

Speaker 5 (35:31):
Doesn't sound ideal to me. Crime level ten being just
like murder.

Speaker 2 (35:38):
Yikes.

Speaker 13 (35:40):
It wasn't his fault, he.

Speaker 2 (35:46):
Was he was put.

Speaker 12 (35:47):
Into a situation.

Speaker 2 (35:49):
So the situationship, So what are you giving it a two?

Speaker 12 (35:53):
I'd say like a three or four?

Speaker 2 (35:55):
All right, we're going three or four.

Speaker 5 (35:57):
So yeah, so you're chatting with him, you write the letter,
you guys start dating? How long did you would you
say that you dated for while he was locked up?

Speaker 13 (36:07):
It literally just ended on Tuesday from February fifteenth, twenty
twenty three.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
Oh wow. And what was the final straw? I mean,
what's his bid?

Speaker 6 (36:18):
Like?

Speaker 2 (36:18):
How long he will he be in there for?

Speaker 13 (36:21):
He's going to be in there maybe till like June.

Speaker 3 (36:25):
Oh, it's almost a getaway driver light.

Speaker 2 (36:30):
So why did we break up?

Speaker 5 (36:31):
I mean, obviously it wasn't his fault the crime, so
it couldn't have been that he was in jail.

Speaker 2 (36:35):
What was it? What pushed you over the edge?

Speaker 13 (36:38):
It's a lot, and I feel like we're different. I
feel like his lifestyle is very different than mine.

Speaker 12 (36:44):
He likes fast cars and.

Speaker 13 (36:47):
Money, and I have a son and he's very accepting
of that, and he loved my son. But I think
it's just going to be very overwhelming for him. And
I'm scared to put myself in a position and when
he gets out and then it not worked out and
he doesn't he doesn't understand it from like a female's perspective,
if that makes sense.

Speaker 5 (37:07):
And thank you from what I gather from what you
told foreign too, what's bothering you the most?

Speaker 2 (37:12):
About all of this is not that you broke up
after two years and you're kind of single now as
of Tuesday.

Speaker 5 (37:19):
Is that he has not tried to call you or
get you back since Tuesday.

Speaker 13 (37:24):
No, we are you really bad that night and then
the phones turn off at nine fifteen and he hung up,
and then I haven't heard from him since. But he
hasn't blocked me, because I can see if he blocks me,
like on the securest app and he hasn't. So I'm
just wondering if like he needs a space and he'll
come around, because like I don't genuinely care you dumped him, no,

(37:49):
but I feel like he will want to make it well.
Like I just want him to understand from my perspective, Okay, so.

Speaker 5 (37:55):
You didn't really you don't really want to break up
with him, You're trying to teach him a lesson while
he's in jail.

Speaker 13 (38:01):
I just I want him to like understand from somebody's perspective,
like a relationship can't just be all on him, like
he wants it his way. He wants me to move out.
He can't live where I live because of stuff, if
you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (38:14):
How does he have this on you?

Speaker 13 (38:16):
When he's in prison, because if I, if I don't
move in with him, then how would our relationship work.
I'd have to travel where he is all the time
with my son. It'd be so much stress on me.
And he has to have somewhere to live. So I
can understand it from his perspective, but at the same time,

(38:38):
he's rushing it, and like, I don't want to move
in with him and rush it and then it not
work out.

Speaker 4 (38:44):
Tiffany, you know that he's getting out of prison in
June potentially, and like a lot of these guys, when
they get out, they need some sort of stable place,
and sometimes they con people into like having a situation
for them so when they get out they have a
place to live and all these things.

Speaker 3 (38:56):
I hope you have thought.

Speaker 7 (38:57):
About that, But this would be true if they didn't
outside of jail.

Speaker 3 (39:01):
Yeah, they know each other out.

Speaker 11 (39:03):
He has my name.

Speaker 13 (39:04):
Tattooed on him. Now, mind you, I've never been with him.
I never kissed him on visit, nothing he had.

Speaker 5 (39:12):
Okright, Listen, you did the right thing number one by
breaking up with him. Okay, you did the right thing.
If it is meant to be when he gets out
in June, he will court you. Okay, he will find
himself a place to live. He will take you out
on some dates. You guys can have a first kiss.
He wants you to move so he can move in
with you because he's getting out of jail and he
is nowhere else to go. He's using you, so we

(39:35):
have to we have to take and if and if
I'm wrong and he's not using you, then he will
do right by you, which is figure his life out
land on his feet and call you up and say
I want to take you out on a proper date. Yes, yeah,
and you deserve that.

Speaker 2 (39:54):
You know you did the right thing.

Speaker 5 (39:55):
I know, I know, I know it's hard, and I
know you probably want him to call and I'm.

Speaker 2 (39:59):
Sure he will at some point. But babe, like you
have to date this man.

Speaker 13 (40:04):
You don't know this man, and I wish he understood it,
like I'm not doing it to be mean, like I'm
doing it because I want to make it work. And
I think he understands that. But he's a very like
he needs it his way type of person.

Speaker 5 (40:19):
Yeah, well, don't like Okay, we all would love it
to be our way, but that's not the way.

Speaker 2 (40:24):
The can also Tiff you have a child. You have
a kid, Okay, we got to worry about that.

Speaker 5 (40:32):
Yeah, And I'm sorry because I know you feel sad
and I can I can sense it in your voice.
But like, it's not fair for him to put that
pressure on you. He needs to get out, he needs
to figure out his life, what he's going to do
to make some money, and he needs to take you
to the ninety nine.

Speaker 2 (40:45):
I don't know, somewhere something friendlies.

Speaker 12 (40:48):
For supposed.

Speaker 3 (40:51):
Bo wild wings.

Speaker 5 (40:52):
I understand you shouldn't be bad, Tiff, stay strong because
he's going to call Akay.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
He might listen to jamming.

Speaker 13 (41:01):
Right now, I don't think so, Okay, just.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
Be careful, all right, take care of yourself.

Speaker 3 (41:10):
He can't listen to the station because the other guys
took his tablet.

Speaker 5 (41:15):
Right and then threatened her, and he can't live in
the thin and she goes you know why he did
his crime?

Speaker 2 (41:25):
Like, I don't. I have no idea. I mean, it's
just weird.

Speaker 3 (41:29):
Jay is in Lowell.

Speaker 5 (41:31):
Jay, you have a little advice for for our girl?

Speaker 14 (41:37):
Yeah, man, from somebody that was just locked up. It's
always good to have a girl on the ouse. I
want to be there for you when you come home
and keep your head straight. But he might have crashed
out after that phone call, and uh, he's sitting in
the box right now, so keep your head cool.

Speaker 2 (41:52):
Sodi crashed out?

Speaker 6 (41:54):
Is it?

Speaker 7 (41:54):
He got?

Speaker 5 (41:54):
He got, he got, he got a real upset and
then maybe did something and now he's in I elation.

Speaker 3 (42:01):
Yeah, but oh well.

Speaker 5 (42:04):
Jay, I mean you you just got out, and so
you can understand what I am trying to say when
I say, like, let that man find out who he
is outside of jail, laying on his feet, and then
you know, properly court her and date her.

Speaker 14 (42:20):
Yeah, you're probably right about that. I'm with you.

Speaker 5 (42:23):
Both, Okay, Jay, if Tip is still listening, where would
you take her out on a proper date?

Speaker 14 (42:32):
Probably?

Speaker 3 (42:33):
Oh my bad? Jay?

Speaker 2 (42:40):
Hey, not wrong, not wrong, but he cursed so we
had to dump him. But he basically said, listen Buffalo Wow.

Speaker 5 (42:46):
Wing's is cool. I like that place first date, not
for her first date. Let me say that, all right?
Six one seven nine three one four five six one
seven nine three one one nine five. We're talking about
anything you want. It's the checking only on jab in
ninety four or five. Hi, everybody, good morning, It's Ashley
and the jam in morning. So Happy Friday, Cheers to

(43:07):
the freaking weekend. We are checking in on you, your life,
your world. We're gonna go to the dumpster dive King
real quick because I actually have a question for you.
Uh he said, he doesn't have much to talk about,
but I have something to talk to tell you about.
If you don't know, The dumpster dive King is famous
on the TikTok for literally dumpster diving, and you go

(43:29):
all different types of places, you find the craziest of
crazy things.

Speaker 2 (43:33):
One person's trash is another man's treasure.

Speaker 5 (43:35):
For real, What will you do if in a week
or so, TikTok is no longer.

Speaker 2 (43:43):
I'm assuming that will hurt the bank account?

Speaker 10 (43:46):
Huh oh hell no, no, we got I'm on Facebook.
I'm already well establishing all the other.

Speaker 2 (43:55):
It's a joke to you, all right.

Speaker 11 (43:58):
Facebook.

Speaker 10 (43:59):
Facebook pays a lot more than TikTok. TikTok is just
kind of like more of a fun platform to play with,
you know what I mean. It's got a fun algorithm.

Speaker 6 (44:05):
And stuff like that.

Speaker 10 (44:06):
But if that's pears and go on to the next one.

Speaker 5 (44:08):
You're moving on now, is dumpster diving?

Speaker 2 (44:12):
Your full profession or do you have another side job?

Speaker 10 (44:15):
Dumpster diving is my hobby. Making videos is my profession
at this point.

Speaker 6 (44:19):
Yeah, no, that makes that makes sense.

Speaker 10 (44:21):
Line cooking and I just make it social media and
it's fun to me. I'm having fun with it, and
it blew up real quick within two years. And this
is where I'm not. I'm literally out of dumpster right
now as we speak.

Speaker 2 (44:31):
Where where's the dumpster?

Speaker 12 (44:33):
Oh?

Speaker 10 (44:33):
I can't give out locations?

Speaker 12 (44:34):
Actually you know this?

Speaker 5 (44:35):
Do you think people will roll up on you?

Speaker 3 (44:38):
No?

Speaker 10 (44:39):
No, no, I'm not worried about like getting caught, right,
That's not like it's illegal. I just don't like getting
seen in my spots. That's like giving out your bank account.
With what I do.

Speaker 5 (44:48):
For people listening that have never followed you or seen
your content, tell us a couple of things that you
found in a dumpster that you could not believe, that
you were blown away that you found.

Speaker 10 (44:58):
Oh god, I've found like a three thousand dollar patio set,
brand new in boxes. I mean, the list just goes on.
You're gonna watch the videos. That was just in Newsweek yesterday.
Actually a Newsweek article was just got to release from
firing a bunch of dog pet beds and stuff topped
out because of they were Christmas themes. So there's just
there's a lot going.

Speaker 7 (45:14):
On right now.

Speaker 10 (45:14):
If you just had people, it's got to google my
name Dumptydiveking dot com. I got all my socials on there,
and I'm everywhere right now, So no one hypes.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
The dumpster dive King more than the dumpster That's right.

Speaker 10 (45:26):
No, I am having fun.

Speaker 3 (45:27):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 10 (45:28):
I got my following. I think last time was eight millions.
I think I'm over fifteen million. Now was only several
months ago that I talked to you guys. If that
so just a really I'm having fun, you know what
I mean?

Speaker 2 (45:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (45:39):
How much are you making a month of bet?

Speaker 6 (45:41):
Like?

Speaker 3 (45:41):
Can you give us a guest amate or at least
a range on you?

Speaker 10 (45:44):
Yeah, I can't really talk about that. I'm very tired.
But content creators with my following can easily make thirty
grand a month.

Speaker 6 (45:53):
That's easy.

Speaker 3 (45:53):
So I'm gonna dive into just today. Yeah, you're good.

Speaker 10 (45:58):
You don't know anybody that knows about social media and
running and monetization know you can make one hundred thousand
of a month if you put your effort into it
and you yeah.

Speaker 5 (46:06):
And listen, people people like will try to clown influencers
and oh that's all you do. No one hasn't no
one has any clue how hard it is to come
up with content every day.

Speaker 10 (46:16):
Like it's terrible, real quick, My most hated comments right now.
Everybody gets hate, especially the bigger you get. Everything's fake,
everything's fake, everything staged, and I need to get a job.
Those are my top three. I can imagine, no idea,
but I see respond to him anymore.

Speaker 5 (46:32):
I see people throwing shade at content creators, and I'm like,
you could.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
You couldn't create.

Speaker 5 (46:36):
Thirty days straight of content if you tried, Like it
actually is a full time job.

Speaker 2 (46:40):
But people just love hate mainly because it's dulles seven.

Speaker 3 (46:42):
Days a week. Yeah, I'm up to three in the morning.

Speaker 10 (46:44):
Look at my phone and my my analytics and stuff.
It's if you know what you're doing and you can
do it, like I had no training. I just did this,
like hand me TV is my brother I show. We
actually talked. Now we hated each other.

Speaker 3 (46:54):
We talked.

Speaker 10 (46:55):
It was yeah, he's been doing for fifteen years. He
had all the hate and he's freaking millionaire.

Speaker 12 (47:00):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (47:01):
So love that anybody can do it.

Speaker 10 (47:03):
Anybody can do it.

Speaker 2 (47:04):
Where do you? Where do people find you? On the channels?

Speaker 6 (47:08):
Everywhere?

Speaker 10 (47:08):
I'm on YouTube, I'm on TikTok Woo woo woo woo.

Speaker 3 (47:12):
That's too excited.

Speaker 5 (47:14):
Yeah, let's go back to the dumpster dive came real quick. Hey, Hey, no,
no cursing. This is the this is the radio platform.
We can be cursing up here.

Speaker 10 (47:20):
I actually didn't swear for once.

Speaker 2 (47:22):
How did you stop yourself? Sound like you didn't?

Speaker 5 (47:24):
Hey, quick question for you from a listener because I
have to go into something else.

Speaker 2 (47:28):
But he wants to know.

Speaker 5 (47:29):
Have you ever dove into like a dumpster from a
pet store and found an animal or anything?

Speaker 10 (47:37):
I have found dead animals, not a lot, but it
has happened. I mean, yes, I have seen them. I
don't know if that's how that's built the discard or something,
and it has been a little while, but I definitely
have seen stuff.

Speaker 2 (47:48):
Yeah, Okay, you ever come in contact with a rap?

Speaker 12 (47:55):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (47:55):
God?

Speaker 3 (47:55):
I mean I do a date? Al right?

Speaker 2 (47:57):
We're done? How many times?

Speaker 6 (47:58):
Like?

Speaker 2 (47:58):
Are we serious?

Speaker 3 (48:00):
He plays the Numbsters, but he also makes two hundred
and sixty. He makes thirty in.

Speaker 2 (48:06):
Touch trash cans and can make that much.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
Like sixty thousand.

Speaker 2 (48:14):
I just want to be able to buy Posh peanut
every day. Uh, Nora is in Dorchester.

Speaker 11 (48:19):
Hi, Nora, good morning, Happy Friday.

Speaker 2 (48:23):
Good morning by best day of the week. How are we?
What's going on?

Speaker 11 (48:27):
I'm doing good today. I recently got engaged on Christmas
Eve morning. And my fiance loves the song Chris Brown Residual.

Speaker 2 (48:40):
I believe it is residuals and yes, and.

Speaker 11 (48:44):
He wants to hear it. And if he says he
hears it, you'll marry me next week. We're supposed to
get married in August this coming year.

Speaker 5 (48:52):
Almost So he loves the song that much that he said,
if you call him jam and they play the song,
he'll marry you.

Speaker 11 (48:57):
Now.

Speaker 3 (48:58):
Where is he with you?

Speaker 11 (49:00):
Read me next? Yes, he's actually in the car.

Speaker 5 (49:02):
Let me talk to him. Let me talk to I
need to hear it. I need to hear it.

Speaker 11 (49:11):
They want to talk to you.

Speaker 2 (49:14):
Hello, you really love Chris Brown this much?

Speaker 5 (49:18):
I really love Chris Brown this long.

Speaker 11 (49:20):
I love my fiance much more than Chris Brown.

Speaker 5 (49:25):
So if I play resist, if I play it, right now.
I can hear you have your radio on in the background.
If I play that song right now, you will marry
her earlier than you say.

Speaker 10 (49:36):
I definitely will.

Speaker 2 (49:39):
Well tell Nora she better go get the dress. She
better go get the dress. Hear you the dress, Go
get the dress. I'm just blessing you, guys. You're welcome.
Can we play the whole thing? Okay?

Speaker 6 (49:55):
Well? Actually, in the Jamie Morning Show with DJ Foreign
it's Santy need to Know.

Speaker 8 (50:01):
No, we got you three things you need to Know
on Boston's number one for hip hop and the best Throwbags.

Speaker 9 (50:07):
You haven't any more fires.

Speaker 5 (50:09):
Friday, January tenth, and like I said, day four of
the wildfires in LA, and we have a brand new
fire right near Hidden Hills in Calabasas. If you're thinking
those names sound recognizable, you know, the likes of Will
Smith lives in a Hidden Hills and the Kardashians live
in Calabasas. As of this morning, waking up and seeing
some of the photos from Pacific Palisades, it is gone.

Speaker 2 (50:31):
I mean, it's it's ash.

Speaker 5 (50:33):
And these fires are so fast moving that evacuations are
happening all around La. Now, this newest fire in Hidden
Hills in Calabasas. I can tell you that one suspect
has been arrested for arson. Obviously, there are rumors circulating
everywhere that these fires are being started on purpose, and
it makes sense. It's not like the cities in which

(50:56):
they're happening are back to back to back to back.
Some of them are, obviously, but you know they're also
affluent cities. It's Malibu, it's Hidden Hills, it's Calabasas, it's
Pacific Palisades.

Speaker 2 (51:08):
Something seems off to this.

Speaker 5 (51:09):
It seems like it's an attack more than a just
being some natural disaster.

Speaker 7 (51:13):
These new ones I feel like, well deliberate, but the
initial one I think was just you know, the roll
of the dice, how nature happened. It started and the
winds just blew a certain way and it started taking
out things. And then people took advantage of that and
was like, oh word, we burning down the whole city,
and they just started doing they thing.

Speaker 5 (51:29):
A couple of things that are obviously hurting the relief
are the winds that DJ Forn just mentionedle eighty to
one hundred mile per hour winds, which I know, Son,
you were looking up the weather. It looks like they
will subside.

Speaker 4 (51:40):
But then I heard them talking about it this last
night that it was going to keep going though the wind,
that it's going to.

Speaker 5 (51:45):
Be so dry to the other issue also the fact
that the firefighters are malnourished and they've been out there.
They're not sleeping, they're working ot people are bringing them stacks,
They're begging for protein. So I know a lot of
brick and mortars that are still standing are like we'king
of help. They're sending in food supplies, what are diapers
to peep? Whatever people need. As this morning, ten are

(52:06):
dead with more than ten thousand structures destroyed. Obviously that
number is going to continue to rise. Joe Biden making
it clear that he will help with fire relief for
up to six months. It's so crazy seeing people post
like I was in Santa Monica and I just got
the alert that I have to leave. Everybody is being
asked to evacuate. Maybe the fire isn't right in the
city that they are. But the air, yeah, the air.

(52:30):
I was learning a little bit about it yesterday. But
the air quality has to be at a certain number,
and I guess in a lot of places in La
the air quality is bad.

Speaker 3 (52:38):
If everybody's leaving, where are they going?

Speaker 5 (52:41):
I know, yeah, hotels especial girl that I saw posted,
she's like, thank god, my a friend of my family
has a house in wherever.

Speaker 2 (52:48):
I think she's going to Newport. Yeah, it's it's crazy.

Speaker 5 (52:53):
So we'll keep you posted there and just as we
learn more info, i'll let you know. But you know,
check in on anybody you have in Soco right now
because it's it's truly devastating. And speaking of the fires,
Jane I Aiko posting that she in fact lost her
house in the La fires, she said, you know, I'm
praying for everybody. My kids literally lost their home.

Speaker 2 (53:15):
It's gone.

Speaker 5 (53:15):
It burned to the ground with all of our things.
Lord have mercy. Thankful we still have each other. She
shares a child with Big Sean. I mean the laundry
list of celebrities who don't have a home. This morning,
I saw a clip of Milo. Yeah, he was the star,

(53:37):
one of the stars of This Is Us and he
also played Rocky Rocky Son.

Speaker 2 (53:42):
But no, I know him from Gilmore Girls.

Speaker 3 (53:44):
Oh really yeah yeah.

Speaker 5 (53:46):
But either way, he went back to his home I
think it was in Malibu and he started getting choked
up on camera because he's like, this is Jeff, but.

Speaker 7 (53:53):
You know what and understand, like the property's gone, but
y'all got life. Ten ten debts in this massive fire.
So far is so far. It's not crazy. Imagine we
were talking about just the highest amount of numbers of
death according to you know what I mean, like people
just caught off God, and it's thousands of people who
are just burned in this fire. Like you know, again,
property can be replaced. I know there's a lot of memories.

(54:14):
I know it's going to be hard, but at least
I got each other. At least I got life.

Speaker 5 (54:18):
And I do see a lot of people, like you know,
struggling with that because it's like you want to feel
bad for yourself. I lost everything, I have nothing, but
I do have I'm breathing and my kids are breathing,
and I'm sure that is a emotion that they're all
working through. They have highs of it and loads of it.
When you go back to your property and you see
you have nothing.

Speaker 2 (54:37):
But yeah, that's just a lot, all right.

Speaker 5 (54:40):
And last we might be saying bye to TikTok as
early as the nineteenth Oh my God's on you're in
some trouble, buddy.

Speaker 3 (54:47):
I just don't know what I'm gonna do for all
the hot moms.

Speaker 5 (54:50):
So TikTok has an estimated at one hundred and seventy
million users in the US, and the Justice Department is
worried that we are being spied on by fourign hour
adversaries through the app, and they're gathering data on Americans.

Speaker 2 (55:05):
Through the app.

Speaker 5 (55:06):
So they basically set a deadline for the nineteenth, telling
TikTok's China based owner byte Edance, you have to sell
off your US operation or the app will be banned nationwide. Now,
there are people who believe the nineteenth won't be the
actual day because they're going to give the justices time
to kind of deliberate and reach a decision. So it
might actually not happen on the nineteenth, but there's a

(55:28):
chance any.

Speaker 4 (55:29):
And by the way they are spying on you makes
all the sense in the world. But that being said, seriously,
what am I gonna do for the hot long?

Speaker 2 (55:34):
I know you're here, you're really where will your shop?

Speaker 4 (55:39):
I don't know we're all shop but yeah, ex is fine. Yeah,
but there's something about the dance and moms that just
gets me nice and warm.

Speaker 2 (55:45):
There will always be something else.

Speaker 3 (55:46):
Yes, it's gonna be a That.

Speaker 5 (55:48):
Is three things you need to know for Friday, Jan ten,
Boston Calling Music Festival.

Speaker 2 (55:52):
Guys, it's going to be here before we know it.
From Memorial Day weekend.

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paying TLC, Aale Being, Dave Matthews Band, Luke Combs and
hopefully I add you to the list. Six one, seven, nine,
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Speaker 6 (56:09):
And the Jamin Morning Show with DJ fourn It's saw
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Speaker 9 (56:13):
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Speaker 2 (56:19):
TI Babes Friday. We made it. First week back from vacation.
Always a tough one.

Speaker 5 (56:26):
Move slowly, Kelly and Marlborough is going to the Boston
Calling Music Festival. DJ pop Dog has a chance at
three and then that will put a nice little bow
on the Boston Calling Music Festil for now, we might
have tickets closer to but we will do something with
Gryffindor and Dinner next week.

Speaker 6 (56:42):
That is.

Speaker 2 (56:42):
That is your little clue, all right.

Speaker 5 (56:45):
Sometimes during the check in we get calls from people
and we're like, m we might have to put a
little bit of more time into that. I don't want
to feel like I'm rushing you off the phone stuff.
I had seen your call in the call screener and
I said, oh, no, no, no, I have never spoken
to a person who dated a billionaire with a bee
b billionaire.

Speaker 2 (57:07):
So I needed I needed some more time.

Speaker 5 (57:09):
Are you currently in the relationship or are you guys?

Speaker 2 (57:13):
Have you separated?

Speaker 3 (57:14):
Ways?

Speaker 14 (57:16):
Ah?

Speaker 12 (57:16):
Well, it depends who you're asking. So we we we
are together. We're on the outs though, because I'm not
very compliant. I'm from Massachusetts, so I do have a
couple of things to say in my opinion, does matter
to me?

Speaker 5 (57:30):
Okay, he where does he live in Texas? He lives
in Texas and he's a billionaire with a bee. I
know you probably don't want to say exactly what he does,
but can you give us a hint?

Speaker 2 (57:43):
Oil. I watched land Man True.

Speaker 12 (57:49):
Everything that's in that is true? Wow.

Speaker 5 (57:52):
Okay, So before we get into your relationship, what is
it like dating a billionaire? And what are some things
that only one can get from dating a billionaire?

Speaker 12 (58:03):
A six stomach all the time? Oh, money doesn't buy happiness.
We'll just say that Yeah. He's very frugal though, so
you would never know he had money. He drives a
Chevy Silverado. He doesn't look like he has money. He
has a lot of has a lot of houses, like
a million dollar homes, things like that, but you wouldn't

(58:27):
know he was a millionaire, a billionaire. I met him
twelve years ago. He was my customer. I cold called him.
He owned a telecom company. I didn't know like his
family was into cattle ranching and oil. So we became friends.
He was always super super cheap. So there's a reason

(58:48):
that they have money. They don't spend any money like
we're so oh yeah, like ash, he would divorce you
so quickly.

Speaker 5 (58:57):
So I was literally about to say him and I
I no good.

Speaker 2 (59:02):
I couldn't even imagine it.

Speaker 6 (59:04):
Bye.

Speaker 12 (59:05):
Yeah, he busted my ball is about two hundred dollars, Like,
come on, I'll go get my own job and pay
my bills.

Speaker 5 (59:11):
Come on, but oh my god, so are you So
you guys are in this like long distance relationship?

Speaker 2 (59:16):
Clearly?

Speaker 12 (59:17):
Yeah, but I spent the last year going back and
forth between Boston and Texas and Boston and a house
in Florida that he bought. So we could go there
and be together.

Speaker 2 (59:30):
Does he Does he pay for your living situation here?

Speaker 11 (59:35):
Everything?

Speaker 2 (59:36):
Okay? And you obviously live in the city, and is
that because you work here?

Speaker 12 (59:41):
Yes, my kids go to private school here, so I
need to stay here at least one more year.

Speaker 2 (59:45):
Does he put the bill on the private school?

Speaker 12 (59:48):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (59:49):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (59:50):
When I asked you what it's like dating a billionaire,
you said you always have a six stomach.

Speaker 12 (59:54):
Why because prior to us being in a relationship, he
appeared to be like one of my best male friends.
I went to school for psychology. Mental health is important
to me. We discussed this, so I already knew like
the red flags and his self, he grew up with
no love in his relationship in his home, so I
get it. I thought, great, he found me weak at

(01:00:20):
a time, so I gave him a chance. I started dating,
and all against my friends were like, no, this is
a bad idea. You already know how it's going to
turn out. We got into the relationship and he's emotionally inept,
like cannot talk about anything to do with like feelings.
If you say anything, he thinks you are attacking him.

(01:00:43):
Like he's such an avoidant. It's just like I knew
better because I saw the red flags, but because I've
known him for twelve years, I made excuses and I
didn't go with my guts. So it's my own fault. Honestly.

Speaker 2 (01:00:55):
Do the kids have a relationship with them?

Speaker 12 (01:00:58):
No, My eighteen year old actually doesn't like him. He
thinks he has a god complex and he's like, with
thirteen billion dollars, you could solve like world hunger and
buy countries. Mom, like Monseano's paying your bills and you
hate them, like you're going against all of your morals.

Speaker 5 (01:01:16):
Like please, did we all celebrate the holidays together?

Speaker 12 (01:01:20):
No, because he doesn't celebrate holidays. Actually, even though yeah, yeah, it's.

Speaker 2 (01:01:27):
So, he doesn't sound.

Speaker 5 (01:01:30):
He hasn't been described to me in any way, shape
or form as fun.

Speaker 2 (01:01:34):
What does he does he give you other than money?

Speaker 12 (01:01:40):
Well before I did think it was emotional support. So
I know that you say it like that, yeah, money, No,
he did. I thought brought me happiness. In the beginning,
probably the first six months, he was very emotionally supportive.
I think he was probably baiting me along the way. Okay,

(01:02:02):
I quit my job. I did all the things that
he was like, if you do this I'll give you this.

Speaker 5 (01:02:09):
Did you are Do you still have a job or no?

Speaker 12 (01:02:12):
I do now. But back in November we got into
a fight because we got into a fight because he
tried to tell me I didn't know what it was
like to be poor. I'm like a single mom whose
kids go to private school. I do know what it's
like to be poor because I was working two jobs
my whole life to pay for that.

Speaker 2 (01:02:31):
It's also just like a weird thing to say, are
you Is he much older than you?

Speaker 12 (01:02:34):
He's eight years older than me, but he was raised
different right like his family. They grew up like on
a cattle ranch, like working in the oil field. So
even though they are billionaires, they literally get up and
work every day, which is cool.

Speaker 5 (01:02:50):
I like that, John Dunn, John Dun, Yeah, But I
feel like you called us to tell us about this
because you maybe need to hear something or you wanted
to get it off your chest so we could tell
you that it genuinely seems like the only reason you're
sticking around is because of his money. Because girl, I

(01:03:12):
mean again, nothing that you've said has made me be like,
oh wow, I mean this, Like I asked you what
it's like dating a billionaire and you said you're sick
to your stomach every day.

Speaker 2 (01:03:22):
That's like, yeah, I'm describing.

Speaker 12 (01:03:25):
My really punching bag. Yeah, Like I didn't realize that
until like the past week or two, to be honest.
And I'm just trying to hold on because I'm like,
I love him, and some of my friends are like,
why he's so mean? Even this morning he's like sending
me verbally like abusive, like like it's just such a

(01:03:46):
tension seeking behavior, and I like.

Speaker 7 (01:03:48):
This, does he show you with gifts?

Speaker 5 (01:03:53):
No?

Speaker 12 (01:03:54):
Not really, Like but here's the thing. Though I'm a
single mom, I've never had like a real solid man
in my life. Like I'm super independent because of my
past trauma, I dealt with it. What he did do
was if oh, my garage door is broken, he would
be like, oh, I'll help you. He's very hands on, right,

(01:04:14):
so he's like a handyman. So he always had the answer,
even from Afar all right, So even though we didn't
live together, he fixed everything.

Speaker 15 (01:04:22):
Right.

Speaker 12 (01:04:23):
If I said I needed something, it showed up on
via Amazon. I'm like, wow, that's awesome.

Speaker 5 (01:04:27):
So he might also argue for and like he pays
for her to live and He also pays for her
kids to go to school, So maybe to him, that's
the way somebody's showing you, Yeah, he's worth is definitely
the reason why he is the.

Speaker 3 (01:04:42):
Way that he is.

Speaker 5 (01:04:43):
Well, why can't you call him right now and say
you're you're verbally abusive to me?

Speaker 12 (01:04:48):
He will say I'm wrong, okay, but he will say
it is all me. If I changed, yeah, he would,
we would be perfect. And I'm like, I literally couldn't
stfu more if I tried, so, I couldn't.

Speaker 2 (01:05:00):
What if you called him right now and said I
don't want to abuse with you anymore? Would you fight it?

Speaker 6 (01:05:06):
No?

Speaker 12 (01:05:06):
Because he literally is paying my bills for at least
another six months. So he's like, okay, that's final.

Speaker 7 (01:05:12):
Just like that's the problem, and that's why you're that's
what game is on our leaf, talk about it and
that's why you're staying right, It seems very.

Speaker 12 (01:05:23):
Well, I don't. He has to pay my rent though.
Either way, he's going to pay my rent, right his
name is on my leaf.

Speaker 2 (01:05:29):
Yeah, but he could evict you, right because.

Speaker 12 (01:05:31):
He's he wouldn't. He's not manipult. He's not like, he's
not Teddy or vacetious like.

Speaker 2 (01:05:38):
That, like, yeah, which is good. I'm just saying, you
live here till July.

Speaker 3 (01:05:42):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:05:42):
If he's stopped paying all of your bills and for
the kids schooling and all that stuff, would you still
be with us? Man?

Speaker 12 (01:05:47):
Yes, that's the problem. It's something's wrong with my brain.

Speaker 3 (01:05:51):
I think you know that if you're into psychology as well.

Speaker 12 (01:05:53):
So yes, I know. I don't know how this happened.
Like it's a real stark awakening. I hope to so
many women who think you can't be manipulated or tricked
by whatever just happened, you can, Like if I just
listen to my gut instinct many months ago, a year ago,

(01:06:17):
I would.

Speaker 16 (01:06:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:06:19):
But it's and that's all well and good that you
see that. We can't live in the past now, right.
We have to figure out what's the next step. And
you're not happy? So are you just going to stay
in this for the rest of your life?

Speaker 12 (01:06:29):
Like?

Speaker 2 (01:06:29):
What are you getting at?

Speaker 12 (01:06:31):
I'm literally nothing, that's the problem, I will tell you. Ever,
since I decided like I don't want this anymore, my
entire nervous system feels better, so I know it's the
better choice. I just don't know how to like make
him stop, Like do I just do I block him?
Like do I?

Speaker 2 (01:06:50):
Well, first off, to make.

Speaker 12 (01:06:51):
Them stop texting me, you.

Speaker 5 (01:06:54):
Have to first you have to break up with them.
I mean, that's the first thing you have to tell him, like,
I'm not happy. I don't want to do this anymore.

Speaker 12 (01:07:00):
And they were going and that's the thing. We go
back and forth every day. Right, He's like, I know,
I don't want to deal with your kids. I'm like, right,
you know, I had kids for twelve years. But nice
job deflecting. Ah, you're emotionally an apse, sir, Like, that's
the problem, and I'm calling you out on it and
it's making you angrier at me.

Speaker 7 (01:07:16):
Notymos then want to get on air, but she says
you should know better because he's displaying seven out of
the nine narcissistic.

Speaker 12 (01:07:24):
I know, I do know better, And she's like.

Speaker 7 (01:07:28):
This woman knows who she's dealing with. You're just choosing
to stay for the money.

Speaker 2 (01:07:34):
Well listen, and now you're getting emotional.

Speaker 5 (01:07:36):
But again, I think that that that we can let's
try to take this as a positive in a sense
of you're starting to learn some things about yourself and
about this relationship, and you you know you if you're
if one of your kids came home and explain this
entire situation and they were going through it, you'd be like,
what are you doing?

Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
You have would end?

Speaker 10 (01:07:54):
Would yeah?

Speaker 12 (01:07:56):
Even Yeah, you're.

Speaker 5 (01:07:56):
Right and you can do it. You can definitely do it.
And you know what if if he says, hey, maybe
he'll shock you. Maybe he'll say, listen, I have felt
this too yet we don't know, but I'm just saying
the bottom line is you can't you if.

Speaker 12 (01:08:09):
It's worse three times three girlfriends like, no, it's always them,
it's never him.

Speaker 5 (01:08:14):
So you got to get out of this stuff, like listen,
like I this man has he's he's it's he's changing
you and it's not for the better.

Speaker 2 (01:08:22):
And he didn't even get you a burken like it's
you gotta go, we have to.

Speaker 12 (01:08:25):
But he did get me many persons.

Speaker 2 (01:08:27):
Oh that's nice, Well good, they're yours now, they're yours now.
You can keep those as a memento.

Speaker 5 (01:08:33):
But if it made you feel better and just in
your mind to think I'm done with this relationship, imagine
how good it's going to feel when you're really done
with the relationship.

Speaker 12 (01:08:41):
Yeah, you're right. Wow, I was like, actually blinded by money.
That was weird.

Speaker 2 (01:08:47):
Do you think don't think you're the first one.

Speaker 5 (01:08:49):
I'm sure a lot of people would be blinded by
money and dating a billionaire.

Speaker 2 (01:08:53):
And we'll stay because of that.

Speaker 5 (01:08:54):
But if you can, if you can afford to pay
your own bills and get out of it for you,
for your own mental health, and I mean, you're clearly
not in love with this man anymore, that's for sure.

Speaker 12 (01:09:07):
Yeah, you're right. I think I'm just telling myself that
I am in love with him.

Speaker 2 (01:09:11):
I'm sure, I'm sure.

Speaker 3 (01:09:13):
Okay, you know what's going on, right.

Speaker 5 (01:09:16):
Well, listen, keep us posted, stay strong, you got this right.
The first step is telling him I don't think we
can do this anymore. You know, we got to start there.

Speaker 12 (01:09:28):
Oh he did just dift me my mercedes though, so
that's the plus.

Speaker 7 (01:09:32):
Like you're part of the problem too, though, we'll talk.
Let's keep that bucket. Yeah, you're kind of part of
the problem because it's like you know who you're dealing with,
but you're hanging on because of bread. Like, don't let
him pay for your schooling, no more, your kid's schooling.
Don't let him pay your bills. No more, don't let
him buy your Mercedes.

Speaker 5 (01:09:49):
And by the way, from what it seems, your kids
will be so happy.

Speaker 12 (01:09:54):
Yeah, he did stop paying my bills in November, though,
in my defense, he just took my partway and shut
off everything.

Speaker 3 (01:10:01):
And how do you stop paying them back? How do
you stop paying them back?

Speaker 12 (01:10:05):
He hasn't. I just got a job and paid it myself. Okay,
So he pays my rent though, Like he pays my
rent and I sent him his gas card back, like
I don't want anything from you, including your attitude.

Speaker 4 (01:10:17):
Yeah, you can't pick and choose, but you don't have
to take the car. You don't have to care the car.
This is how he hooks you in every single time.
And I'm sure you'll call him today a break up
with them, then tomorrow there'll be something else there and
you'll come back.

Speaker 12 (01:10:32):
No I won't.

Speaker 3 (01:10:33):
I hope not.

Speaker 12 (01:10:34):
No, No, I'm not going to.

Speaker 2 (01:10:36):
I hope you don't either.

Speaker 12 (01:10:37):
I don't believe you. But he deserves to be alone, Okay, well,
he deserves to be alone with his words.

Speaker 5 (01:10:44):
There's gonna be a lot of people who want an
update on this story stuff, so so stay.

Speaker 2 (01:10:47):
In contact with us.

Speaker 12 (01:10:48):
You give me one month.

Speaker 2 (01:10:49):
Keep it all right, Well, we'll talk to you in
thirty days.

Speaker 12 (01:10:52):
All right, thank you luck.

Speaker 3 (01:10:55):
No, bro, I'm not signing.

Speaker 2 (01:10:57):
She actually stressed me out. He's not going neeler.

Speaker 3 (01:11:01):
He's flying here with a pj's I Love you. Get
on the PJ. Go to Texas there.

Speaker 7 (01:11:06):
And then come back, and then and then and then
dooky on him on the airways talking about.

Speaker 2 (01:11:11):
That and everything. We said, Well, he did get me this,
he did give it. Please a Mercedes in a Chanel bag.
She's staying sash.

Speaker 6 (01:11:18):
In the morning show with DJ four and it's sat Morning.

Speaker 9 (01:11:22):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.

Speaker 5 (01:11:28):
Hi, everybody, I was just texting with my Bessie, who
I've told you about. You lives in uh Manhattan Beach,
which is right outside's by, like twenty minutes from Lax.
They've just evacuated Santa Monica, so it's starting to get
closer to her where there's a potential that she might
have to evacuate, which is insane.

Speaker 10 (01:11:47):
Uh.

Speaker 5 (01:11:47):
Hidden Hills Calabasas lit up into the wee hours of
like the evening into the morning. It is suspected that
that was an arsonists, which leads me to believe there's
a chance that some of these others were as well.

Speaker 2 (01:12:02):
It's crazy, No, it's it's lunacy.

Speaker 5 (01:12:04):
I mean people are out here looting, families are losing everything,
They're being sold. Hey, you have to get out now.
You may have ten minutes, but probably not even like
you got to go. Ten people are dead as of now,
that numbers most likely going to rise over ten thousand.

(01:12:26):
Structures gone, Like the Pacific Palisades is literally gone.

Speaker 2 (01:12:30):
I know everybody has seen the images by now, but
it looks fake. It's it's just ash.

Speaker 5 (01:12:36):
And the before and after is from the day before,
like literally the day.

Speaker 3 (01:12:41):
It looks like a bomb head. That's the best way
to describe to bomb after the bomb.

Speaker 5 (01:12:46):
So obviously when we were doing the news, I was
talking about that. Then I was talking a little bit
about Jena Aiko, We were mentioning some of these other celebrities,
and I was also saying, Lissen. Some of these neighborhoods
are are affluent hidden hills, the Calabasas, Malibu, Pacific Palisades.
A lot of celebrities live in those areas, but also
middle class families as well. Are mixed in and anybody

(01:13:09):
who lost their home you just feel absolutely awful for
I know a lot of people in LA who have
brick and mortars that are still up or trying to
help everybody.

Speaker 2 (01:13:19):
But there's certainly a little discourse.

Speaker 5 (01:13:21):
Online with some people saying things like who cares if
a celebrity's house burns down? They have the money to
get a new one. And it's just so weird to
me that people are saying stuff like that, Like it's
strange because why because they're good at acting.

Speaker 4 (01:13:40):
Or they succeeded at something that I think, like, they
work their asses off and they're successful, we can't feel
bad for them as humans.

Speaker 7 (01:13:47):
There's all as a divide between people who have money
and those who don't. There is, but like.

Speaker 5 (01:13:52):
Some people might also argue that sentimental things are worth
more than money. Absolutely, so some of these things that
regular people celebrities at lost, Like there's no monetary value
for that this. Celebrities can't go back and buy, you know,
I look at it like this, I'm not I'm beyond
like the things in the house, like maybe that house
was the last time you spent with your significant other

(01:14:14):
before they died of something maybe it was the last
time you saw your grandma before you lost her. It's
like memories and you can't put a monetary value on that. So,
because we've mentioned that some of these these neighborhoods are affluent,
and I'm naming some of the celebrities that lost their
their houses, I think there's certainly and there is a
back and forth online too. But we started to get

(01:14:35):
some some talkbacks like this, y, you're.

Speaker 13 (01:14:38):
A clown, like saying all the celebrities lost their moves
tar dashing extent and reduces a dollar us both the
people who have no money, you're a clown.

Speaker 4 (01:14:49):
Okay, So we love these people when they make movies,
when they make songs, we love them when they have
TV shows, We watch them, we buy they emerge all
this stuff. The minute that house burns down, we can't.
I feel bad for them as humans.

Speaker 3 (01:15:01):
I still don't like the Kardassians.

Speaker 2 (01:15:03):
And by the way, their house didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:15:05):
I don't even know why I don't. I don't. I
don't wish their houses to bounce on anybody. Yeah, that's
that's not cool.

Speaker 7 (01:15:11):
I can I can see maybe where some people are
like listen, there's people that's probably the extra crib. That's
probably the extra home that they have on the beach.
They can afford to lose that. I don't think anybody
can afford to lose anything because they paying millions of
dollars to buy these homes. Okay, if if they put
in their work and they again, I can understand the
contrast between rich and poor. Yeah, but you don't. But

(01:15:32):
you don't say like, oh, you know, let it burn down.
It's on them. You know, they're rich already now, so
don't worked hard.

Speaker 3 (01:15:39):
To get to be.

Speaker 5 (01:15:40):
So Tom Cruise is supposed to be mad at himself
because he's good at acting in movies.

Speaker 2 (01:15:47):
I mean, and that's not the only one.

Speaker 16 (01:15:49):
I just like to say that, yes, it is devastating
that these fires are happening, but let's also keep in
mind that these fires.

Speaker 15 (01:15:59):
Are happening to people who have millions and millions of
dollars in the bank. Their banks are not burned down,
and they can go anywhere and buy a home cash
and be fine.

Speaker 2 (01:16:14):
People are fine.

Speaker 3 (01:16:15):
That's an assumption. People are weird that think that's exactly it.
So what is the line?

Speaker 4 (01:16:19):
What is the network that we start to feel bad
for people because they're around here. Obviously that's on a
celebrity spot. But if you own a construction company and
bring in like five million dollars a year in your
house burns down, are we not supposed to feel bad
for the guy who's worked his ass off the.

Speaker 2 (01:16:31):
Building, buy buy a building.

Speaker 3 (01:16:33):
Of course, that's just crazy to me. He crazy.

Speaker 7 (01:16:36):
I mean again, just because they're worth fifty million doesn't
mean it doesn't make this thing any less.

Speaker 2 (01:16:41):
You know, the sentimental value of what was in that.
We don't know what was sentimental.

Speaker 3 (01:16:45):
To that lost their pet, Like who knows. I will
say this.

Speaker 7 (01:16:48):
When this first story started breaking, you know, I think
the news was driven a lot because it was happening
in celebrity areas when it first started. Now that it's
spread all over La and all of a sudden, now
it's in all kinds of rodeo or wherever it's at.

Speaker 12 (01:17:01):
You know.

Speaker 7 (01:17:02):
In the beginning, I think it was like, Okay, the
news is jumping on this because these are celebrity homes
that are burning down. But now that it's like become
this massive fire that's just taken out the whole neighborhoods,
it's a biggest story than that.

Speaker 5 (01:17:13):
I also think that the celebrities are being mentioned because
these are the people that we follow on social media,
and it's an easy way to be like, oh yeah,
if the fires hit this town, oh you know who
lives there, this celebrity, because that's tangible for us. We
can now go look at their Instagram and we can
see there.

Speaker 2 (01:17:29):
But we can't.

Speaker 5 (01:17:30):
We don't know everybody that's being affected by this, but
we do know some of these celebrities.

Speaker 7 (01:17:34):
But on the flip side, people could take that as
being like, why y'all glorifying that it's a celebrity home, right,
because if it happened in the neighborhood just in LA,
would this be a story now? But because it's not Brad,
I don't know if Brad Pitt's home is there. I'm
just using an example. But just because it's Brad Pitt's crib,
why do we have to have it on News nine.
If it was so and so's crib down the block
and it was our street, nobody would care about it.

Speaker 4 (01:17:54):
That's that's the sentiment that some people. But we do
see that stuff on the news here though. We see
when there's homes burning then people try to come together.
The news cycles always go for the yeah's delacious.

Speaker 2 (01:18:05):
Yeah they're going to do.

Speaker 5 (01:18:06):
But I think that that's a different conversation than Paris
Hilton's Malibu home burns down and she doesn't deserve to
be sad about it because she has millions of dollars
and she can buy a new one. Like no, like
she brought her when her kid came home from the hospital.
That's the how she took her kid to, Like, she
has memories there. It's okay to be like, damn, that sucks.

Speaker 4 (01:18:28):
To Fourn's point, there's a the vibe when it comes
to financing. But are you supposed to hate somebody because
they're rich or poor? But also again let's go back
to Paris Hilton. A lot of people can't probably feel
like she's a snotty chick who's just her noses. In
their age, she's mad boogie. These people who think that
with these people are going to be like these people
are mad boogie. They already they act like they made
out of gold. They talk a certain way, they move
a certain way. Yeah, it's good that their house is

(01:18:49):
burned down, because not they're being brought back to reality.
That's the way some people think, you know, what I'm saying,
it's not the right things.

Speaker 5 (01:18:55):
Just sad because we don't know any of these people
at all, but we know what we what we see
of them.

Speaker 7 (01:18:59):
If I go back again, is actually being I mean,
she bought a bigger house than me, but we're not
going to talk about that, but just say, like, if
my house was to burn down right now, that's all
everything I've ever worked for in my life. That was
a goal that I made to whether it cause a
three hundred, four hundred, five hundred ten million dollars, no
matter what it is, it's still my crib.

Speaker 3 (01:19:20):
I still want hard to go buy it.

Speaker 2 (01:19:21):
But you're on the radio. You have money, do you
see what I'm saying?

Speaker 12 (01:19:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:19:25):
Yeah, So that's what I understand what the general consensus is.
Just because they have money doesn't mean that they can't
feel lost. You can say, exactly because at the end
of the day, we're humans, exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:19:37):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:19:37):
Like and again there's obviously people who who think like
us and are able to kind of take a step
back and be like, listen, not everything is of monetary value.

Speaker 2 (01:19:46):
Some things are just sentimental that you can't put a
price tag on.

Speaker 5 (01:19:48):
But then the other people, like you could tell the
guys he's mad. In that talkback, he like, sir, your
house burned down.

Speaker 4 (01:19:55):
Yeah, if your house burnt down and somebody who who
wasn't as financially said as you didn't feel bad for you, you
wouldn't you be like, Okay, well if you then.

Speaker 5 (01:20:01):
I think it's all easy for everybody on this side
of the coast to say what they want to say
about it. But it didn't happen to them, So how
could any of us possibly know?

Speaker 7 (01:20:10):
We might just supposed to have money does not mean
that you know, you can bounce back neither. You don't
know what kind of money these people don't reach you.
They could be broke, the very broke living in a
fifty million dollar house, but they spent all their money
on that crib.

Speaker 3 (01:20:22):
Again, you know what I mean. This is a devastation.

Speaker 7 (01:20:24):
This is memories, This is you know, every time I
see a news story to somebody being like, yo, dude,
I grew up in this house. My children grew up
in this house, my grandkids grew up them. I've lost
it all.

Speaker 2 (01:20:34):
The mom that ran up on yeah, on the governor
and was like call the president.

Speaker 7 (01:20:39):
The only thing it was on the phone with the
He lied, he lied, and then two seconds like she
was like, oh, I want to see can I hear
the conversation?

Speaker 3 (01:20:46):
Oh I don't have a cell phone signal? And how
you on the phone with him? Why would you even
say that?

Speaker 10 (01:20:51):
Bro?

Speaker 7 (01:20:51):
Some of your politicians just put your foot in your
mouth for no reason.

Speaker 2 (01:20:54):
I think she probably had just seen her house.

Speaker 5 (01:20:56):
She probably and pissed and she wanted He's like, I
want to get your answers to But yeah, I.

Speaker 2 (01:21:03):
Like how she was like, oh wait, I'll watch I
want to watch the call.

Speaker 5 (01:21:06):
It's just we can't imagine what the people in California
are going going through. But the bottom line is is like,
at the end of the day, yes, they might be
the most amazing artist in the world, and they might
be able to act, and they might be able to
draw or whatever the case may be, but there are
still people and ye, it's not their fault that they're
good at that.

Speaker 4 (01:21:23):
The majority of people out there want more money, right,
I think that's safe to say. So why are you
hating on somebody that was lucky enough to get it,
or work to ask to get or whatever situation was
to get it. Why are you hating on them now
because their house burned down, Like that's crazy. Why didn't
you trade for that house? Why don't you trade for
their professional or whatever it is. I don't know, guys,
let's just be human together.

Speaker 3 (01:21:45):
I need a.

Speaker 2 (01:21:45):
Cigarette or no, I honestly I'll smoke them. It's just people.
Just make sure you want someone new.

Speaker 6 (01:21:56):
Okay, Morning show with j Foreign such good morning.

Speaker 9 (01:22:01):
Sustin's number one for hip hop. He am in ninety
four or five.

Speaker 2 (01:22:07):
All right, everybody that is going to do it for us?

Speaker 5 (01:22:09):
On a Friday, we upset the talkback guy. He's left
twelve now twelve. He's upset. He is upset. He's upset
his talkback got played. And yeah, listen, upset that his
talkback guy played and that we didn't agree with him.

Speaker 3 (01:22:25):
Oh god, his house burnt down. I would feel very
bad for him. And that's an open and.

Speaker 2 (01:22:29):
I don't know how much he makes, but yeah, I
don't care.

Speaker 5 (01:22:33):
Yeah, either way, I hope he has a good weeknd
he takes a deep breath and like finds, you know, happiness. Yeah,
because you know what, it could be worse. His home
could have burns down.

Speaker 3 (01:22:42):
Very true.

Speaker 2 (01:22:43):
Seriously, all right, sound shoutouts.

Speaker 4 (01:22:45):
Instagram shout outs to Michael Fredo, Sonny and Connie. Shout
out to you, DJ four Actually be too easy.

Speaker 7 (01:22:50):
We club in the night this weekend. I'm off actually
because I'm dealing with my boiler.

Speaker 2 (01:22:55):
We're we're still a boiler alert.

Speaker 5 (01:22:58):
Yeah, so did you get the clearance boiler? But now
we need to put it in.

Speaker 3 (01:23:01):
It's not a clearest boiler.

Speaker 5 (01:23:05):
He got his boiler off Clarna boiler.

Speaker 7 (01:23:10):
Now the boiler just got here actually yesterday. So old
boys supposed to be coming in my picture.

Speaker 2 (01:23:14):
Is is it huge?

Speaker 7 (01:23:16):
No, it's not. Actually I thought it would be the
same thing. It's probably the size of like the back
of your chair, the back part of your chair. It's
not big at all.

Speaker 3 (01:23:23):
They used to be big.

Speaker 2 (01:23:25):
But now yeah, I'm thinking.

Speaker 7 (01:23:27):
Nah, this is the thing I could carry myself. I
can hang on the wall and just go from there.
It's pretty like.

Speaker 2 (01:23:32):
What's the hold up?

Speaker 7 (01:23:34):
No, just came in yesterday. That's what I was waiting for.
So now the guy got to come in this weekend
to do it. But I want to be there to
make sure that everything gets done properly.

Speaker 3 (01:23:41):
But how are you going to check if it's done?

Speaker 2 (01:23:42):
Proper, are you boiler?

Speaker 7 (01:23:44):
Yeah, because I actually used to work at a job
doing this for customer service, and my boy that got
me the discount of the thing works for the company
that so.

Speaker 3 (01:23:53):
I'm going to be there. He's going to be like, yeah,
you have some knowledge, yeah, a little bit.

Speaker 7 (01:23:57):
And then I got back up in case I needed
so that that way they just not come there and
slapping the thing on the wall and it breaks in
them up.

Speaker 5 (01:24:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:24:03):
Well, you guys will also be shocked to hear this.

Speaker 3 (01:24:06):
Their bathroom.

Speaker 2 (01:24:07):
They're in there right now. Okay, I mean finished today,
but they're in there, which is huge. They canceled on
me twice this week, but they're there.

Speaker 3 (01:24:15):
They didn't take a half a day. They'll leave, taken lunch.

Speaker 5 (01:24:18):
I'm putting in the atmosphere that maybe just maybe for
the first time in six months next weekend, maybe I'll
be sleeping. So are they there by themselves? No, the
kids are home with Helen. Yeah, they're always there, always
somebody there.

Speaker 3 (01:24:32):
Okay, good, Yeah, don't let them just run around the
crib like that.

Speaker 12 (01:24:35):
Yeah,
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