ep. 20 - Things We Need To Bring Back

Riley and Cam discuss popular things that need to go and some old school things that need to come back!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up, hell, Riley Man, Oh, it's been a morning.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (00:09):
So, I mean, I feel like everyone can relate to this.
There are times where we just have so much going
on in our lives and you just don't want to
talk about it, and you hold it in, you've got
all this weight. Yeah. I find that I've.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Been dealing with that big time recently.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah, and I haven't.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
I am someone I mean, I'll be the first to
admit that I hold in a lot of my issues.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
And I'm someone that keeps a lot of my private
life very private. Yeah, to the point where even like
close friends or family or family, you know.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
Yeah, I'm just I'm very.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
I don't know, I feel almost guilty, and I know
that's wrong. I shouldn't, but I almost feel guilty. Like
when I am talking to someone and it's like a
fun I'm.

Speaker 1 (00:55):
Like, Hi, nice to see you.

Speaker 2 (00:56):
How have you been, Like I don't want to be
like terrible.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
Yeah. Actually when you say that life's been pretty crappy,
thanks for asking.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
So I'm never one to like damp in a.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Mood with my issues. I'm just Yoh, it's great. Keep
it pushing, you know, I understand that, like there's times
Corey can tell something's up and I'm like, I just
don't want to be a Debbie downer, Like I don't. Yeah,
I don't want it to be any a thing you
have to worry about, Like this is just for me
to worry about. And then it's also fear of like

(01:26):
for me, I like for him to think and others
to think I'm happy, smiley and strong, yeah, and so
showing the vulnerable side. You don't want someone to have
a different opinion of you, yeah, yeah, or feel sorry
for you.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
Oh I hate that because I mean I will never
I'm just not the kind of person that becomes a
true martyr. Ye, Like I don't if I say anything
a little you know, screwed up about my life, it's
never to hear.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
Oh, I'm so sorry. That actually makes me more uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yes sometimes yes, I mean it's nice, yeah, and he's
always from a good place. But it's almost like, oh,
let's make a joke about it and get this back
under the rug, because I can't do that right right.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
And yeah, but we've kind of got to sit here
a little before we got started and just kind of
talk through some things just to like get things off
our chest of what's going on and understanding like, yes,
we freaking love doing this podcast every Monday, oh my gosh.
But behind the scenes, like there is real stuff going
on and we are human beings just like everybody else.

(02:30):
And maybe eventually, like we can talk about some of
this if we feel comfortable, but just know, like we
are human, we are dealing with things, but know that
you're not alone. Whatever you're going through, feel free to
message us if you want to talk about it.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
I promise one of us will probably relate to you
more than you think. Yeah, absolutely, I mean both of
us have been kind of put through the ringer in
certain areas of our life.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Yeah, and I promise we're we're very relatable a lot
of different things.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
Yeah, it's not something a lot of my I'm gonna
say quote unquote issues because I mean I could just
call it an ish my issues, right, because they're important.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
Yeah, absolutely, But yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
It's probably not something I would choose to talk about
unless I had consent from others, just because it's not
all about me, absolutely right, right, But I would love
to dive into it one day, so maybe hopefully, Yeah,
because I think it's an important topic. To discuss and
connect with everyone.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
Yeah, and then it's also when you do have people
giving you feedback of things they've gone through, just realizing like, Okay,
we're not in this alone. Truly, there's a community of
people who can relate, and maybe finding ways people have
dealt with the things they're going through can help.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
You.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Know, there's just so much. But I think even just
sitting here and talking hopefully lifted some of just definitely
some of the pressures and feelings lifted a little bit.
But now we get to come on here and talk
and hopefully light in the mood and talk about fun
things that are oh we think are funny. Hopefully all

(04:10):
think are funny too. We're talking about different ways we
can come on here and just be ourselves and topics
to talk about that are just light and fun and
too much down and point and fingers and drama going
on in this world. I just cannot stand it. So
we want to we want to give everyone a good
laugh and like, let's let's have fun. Yes, gosh. Yeah,

(04:32):
So there's a lot of sayings nowadays, fashion drends, TV shows, yeah, everything,
Yeah that needs to go. Yeah, it's just why it's
a thing I don't know.

Speaker 2 (04:48):
And there's also things that have been popular in the
past that need.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
To make a comeback. Why did they stop? Yeah, we
need them back. Yes, I think the world to be
a better place of a lot of these things came back.
So we want to go through some things that I've
got to go and some things that need to come back. Yeah.
Do you want to start us off? Sure?

Speaker 2 (05:07):
So I'll be honest, a lot of my things that
need to leave have to do with clothes, perfect, just
because that's where most of my point of contention is with.

Speaker 1 (05:21):
I'll start scrolling on TikTok. I'll give you one.

Speaker 2 (05:24):
Okay, modern farmhouse, gray everything, no color homes.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
Do you know what I'm talking about?

Speaker 2 (05:33):
I will scroll on TikTok. This is the one that
bothers me the most. And it's like, and I'm not
mom shaming whatever, but it'll be like, oh, I just
bought my kids all these aesthetic toys and no color
there building blocks of just gray nothing, or like just
the you know that warm tan color that's really popular

(05:55):
right now. Everything's white and big and everything.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
Why did my okay, you know what my mind just
this is so random? Is it Halloween Town? Where they
go to that guy's house or everything's gray.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yeah, so like modern farmhouse does it the most. Like
people will build those and I think they are gorgeous, stunning,
beautiful homes. Yeah, it's not the actual architecture of the home. No,
but it's the inside because every time they will slap
those gray hardwood floors and they're not even hardwood, but whatever. Yeah,

(06:27):
gray floors, gray walls, white trim, couches gray with a
white blanket. Everything in the kitchen is gray and white.
It's like, oh my gosh, are you guys not depressed?

Speaker 1 (06:40):
Are you sad? You're sad? This is horrible.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
And then like even like Renter friendly homes, any house
that you can rent white now right now, it's like
Renter special to slap gray vinyl floors every front.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
Yeah, where's the color. Give me a little pop of color.
You don't have to do a ton.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
I'm serious, a little pop. Give me an emerald green wall.
At this point, I want, let's bring back wallpaper. No, no,
I okay agree.

Speaker 1 (07:11):
But when we were sitting there, we went to what's
it called, uh Robbie Monkey. They have this wall of wallpaper,
the one in here in Birmingham and that wallpaper. I'm obsessed.
Every time I look at it, I'm like, yeah, yeah,
at least it's fun. It's cute. See one agree.

Speaker 2 (07:27):
Like when I buy a home one day, it will
be almost like a fever dream being in there because
I'm gonna get so excited. There's gonna be so much
color everything. Yeah, jewel tones, I can see it.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
I think that's I love it. I love how that sounds.
I'm I'm a person. I am a very neutral person
when it comes to home decor, but I always have
a pop of color that's throughout or patterns.

Speaker 2 (07:52):
My entire bedroom is pink and blue.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
It is you know why because it makes me happy.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Absolutely, And I don't care that I'm twenty five.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
I'm almost twenty six. I don't know why.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
I don't care that I'm twenty five. Pink and blue
still make me happy, like I'm a kid. Yes, and
it's done tastefully. It's not like a child bedroom.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
But yeah, oh it's so cute. I love it. Yeah,
and it makes me happy. But it also says a
lot about your personality. I love when you go Like
in college when all of us had our rooms and
we got so excited to decorate our rooms and you
go in and it's like, this is so you and
your personality should be seen through your house. And if
everyone's got the same cookie cutter, gray and white house,

(08:31):
what does I say about you? Yeah? I don't agree.
That needs to go. It's gotta go, get out of
here for me, one thing that's gotta go. Some people
like fire, Oh that's fire. Oh fire. Once in a
while I'll be like fire, like someone say something, Sure,

(08:54):
I'll text it and do like emojis with it. But
these people who like pick a word and that's every
other word. I just can't. Fire is one of those fire.
Someone's like talk fire fire.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
I agree completely. I feel the same way about the
phrase it's like it's giving. I was, For example, I
was watching Love Island this past season, the UK version.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
Yeah, and I love.

Speaker 2 (09:20):
This girl, but it was almost laughable, like you could
have walked it, walk in with what you're wearing and
she would have said it's giving hoodie, Like yeah, I'm.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
Freaking wearing a hoodie. Everything she said it's giving. Oh,
it's giving blonde streaks in your hair. Like it was like, yeah,
because it is that. See, but I just feel like. Also,
there's so many words like demir. I know we've already
talked about this in the past, but like I know,
good night, what is with these these things? And it's funny,

(09:54):
But it's funny when you do it like a once
a yeah, to make it as a joke, but when
you're serious and that becomes like your thing.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
I mean, I understand because this has happened to me.
I'll start saying something ironically because I'm making fun of
everyone else that uses it, and then it becomes actually
part of my vocabulary. You know a word I've been
using recently that I want everyone else to catch up
on steezy?

Speaker 1 (10:16):
What does that even mean? So background of the word.
Ever heard this word? It's I don't even think it's
not popular.

Speaker 2 (10:26):
Okay, it was like a long time ago, Matt Well,
I would didn't even put this on my list. It
just came in my head since we were talking about it.
But this totally fits the theme of the video back
in like you remember when in the two thousand, like skateboardings. Really,
I know it's still popular, but skateboarding was like the
thing everyone.

Speaker 1 (10:42):
Had DC shoes.

Speaker 2 (10:44):
Yeah, yes, steezy derived from the word style and ease.
So when you would do like a skateboard or snowboard,
I think any board style trick. You had style and
it looked like it was done with ease.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
You know. You were like, yeah, that was a steezy trick.
I like it.

Speaker 2 (11:07):
I'm using it just like like, you look steezy.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
Thanks, looks steazy today. You got style and it's with ease.
I like it. I think it's cute. We need to
bring it back. You heard it here first steezy. I
commented it on my.

Speaker 2 (11:24):
Friend's boyfriend's uh Instagram posted yesterday because there was a
picture of them too, and so I complimented her and
then I said, and you look pretty steezy in the
third pick, and.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
I was perfect. I hope people read that and was like, cool,
that's a good word, because he did. He looked steezy,
he had style with ease. It was It's a huge compliment,
too right to be told that you were stylish with ease,
like you didn't try too hard.

Speaker 2 (11:50):
And I just feel cool saying it too. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (11:52):
I don't know if it is cool. I might sound
like a millennial. No, I love it. We're bringing that back.
I like it.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
Yes, Oh, me, that's something we can bring back for sure.
Here's here's one fashion when Golden goose the whole brand,
the whole brand news.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
I am so sorry for anyone that wears them and
loves them. I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
I'm sorry for you because I don't know what's going
on in your brain.

Speaker 1 (12:19):
I could never pay what three to five hundred eight
hundred have. Some of them are on a bick that
much to have. Shoes come in dirty literally made scuffed up? What?

Speaker 2 (12:33):
And they also sorry not really? They also look like
you are taking your toddler to pick out their new
daycare shoes.

Speaker 1 (12:45):
They might as well be light up sketchers that are
five hundred dollars.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
Yes, spot the difference, can't?

Speaker 1 (12:49):
Can't? I don't understand, because here's my question for anyone
who wears them or likes them. If they didn't have
a name behind them, would you actually wear them?

Speaker 2 (13:01):
If they weren't five hundred dollars then it was like
a commodity to have it?

Speaker 1 (13:05):
Is that the right word commodity?

Speaker 2 (13:08):
Anyway, if it wasn't like a status thing to have them,
would you would you think those were cute? No? I
don't think so either. I'm googling commodity right now, because
I don't know if I use that right.

Speaker 1 (13:18):
Oh, your vote HAPs better than mine.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
So sometimes I throw a big word in there, and
I'm like, you know what, I don't know if that
was correct.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
That's okay, commodity.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
Is it hm a useful or valuable thing such as this, So.

Speaker 1 (13:34):
You use that correctly, it would be a commodity.

Speaker 2 (13:36):
Well, it's a useful or valuable thing.

Speaker 1 (13:39):
Valuable if it wasn't valuable, okay, it works, It worked.
I don't know if it's completely correct, but it's fine. Yeah,
but yeah, if it wasn't expensive, would you even buy them? No?

Speaker 2 (13:52):
No, no, I wouldn't buy them now, So I can't
imagine being in the mindset.

Speaker 1 (13:57):
What do you think about guys who have them?

Speaker 2 (13:59):
I've ever seen that before? Please stop?

Speaker 1 (14:02):
What do you mean? No, I'm shocked. No, I don't.
I can't say his name, joh on the floor. There
is a man that you know that wears X. My
most recent X before Corey, who played baseball at Alabama.
Shut up, he had gold gooses. I'm so glad you'll
aren't together anymore because and I found it out.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
I roasted him. Yeah, I need a screenshot. I need
someone to send me a picture of that now.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
Right, what are you talking about?

Speaker 3 (14:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (14:34):
I thought that was only a girl thing. I've never met.
Never never, never.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
You imagine CJ seeing Niches, CJ. I need you to
look up right now, Golden Goose shoes. I need you
to see these.

Speaker 2 (14:46):
Oh, you know on top of that Robert White, you
as well called.

Speaker 1 (14:49):
Out, Yes, I look them up, look at the price,
and tell me if you'd buy these. I want your
honest opinion on these Golden Gooses. Yeah, put in the yeah,
please me. And like I said, I'm sorry, if you
like them, you can't tell me you actually like the shoe,
you like the status.

Speaker 2 (15:06):
That comes with it.

Speaker 1 (15:07):
One h like Okay.

Speaker 2 (15:11):
So, for example where this works is Lululemon. Do I
think their leggings need to be ninety dollars Budge?

Speaker 1 (15:19):
No?

Speaker 2 (15:19):
No, no, Now, because I've been buying some Target leggings
that are incredible or Amazon design like these, you would
not know that these aren't Lulu.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
They feel just like them. But at least Lulu's product
is a good one quality. Yes, and if you get
as cute anything messed up, they'll replace it. Yes, great,
great brand, great brand, the price insane, can't.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
I have a lot of Lululemen technically, but it's all
been This is not a sponsor, I wish it was.
It's all been bought from thread up dot com, which
is an online thrift store. Yes, that's where every piece
of Lulu Women I've ever had.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
Yeah, or it's been bought for me. I've never bought
it for myself. Well, I might have bought, like I
don't know. I actually don't think I've ever gotten. I've
never actually spent money on Lulu for myself. Yeah, no,
me neither. No ever, I can't. I can't just fight it. Yeah,
this is what I do. And my six nine, my
Lulu fanny pack wherever it is, was given to me.

Speaker 2 (16:19):
I have a Lulu shirt on right now technically, but
it was bought on thread up, and I don't think
anything I've ever purchased from there, that is Zulu was
over thirty dollars. No, which is fine by me.

Speaker 1 (16:29):
See, but that goes back to the whole thing we
were even talking about too, with designer clothes. Oh yeah, yeah,
Because here's my thing. I'm just gonna be straight up.
Maybe it's because of where I live and how I've
grown up. I'm just not bougie. I don't even know
name brand stuff. You could be wearing something that's one
thousand dollars and you say, what do you think this is?
Where do you think I got it? I could look
at you and say, Target, Oh me too, old Navy,

(16:53):
me too. I don't. They started doing this thing when
I was in college, where like friend groups for a
girl's twenty first would come together and all buy a
really nice, expensive gift, like one gift for her, and
we would all pitch in. Okay, So one of my
roommates we went to her birthday party and she pulled

(17:13):
out these slides, slides, slides, and they were I couldn't
even pronounce it and never even heard of the brand.
I couldn't even tell you what they were. But they
were like five hundred dollars slides. Everyone pitched in to buy,
and I kid you not, I would have looked at
them and been like, uh, Balenciaga, Okay, but at the

(17:35):
time I had no idea. I think that's what they were. Yeah,
that's probably right at the time, though, I mean, how
am I supposed to know? Yes, slides are this expensive?
And why? Because the name, yes, but I don't. I
just I guess for me, I'll never understand it because
I'm just not that type of person where having a

(17:58):
Lulu bag makes me feel like I'm so awesome.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
Yeah, I don't really because I'll wear this one day.
Yes it's Lulu technically, Yeah, no one would know. I
got it from a thrift store, but I'd tell them
if they asked, because I'm not wearing it because it
was ninety.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
Dollars because it wasn't right.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
I will wear this today and then I'm gonna wear
a Walmart T shirt probably tomorrow that was five dollars flat.

Speaker 1 (18:24):
Or feel just as cute. When Mom was going on
these trips to New York, she got me a fake
Gucci belt when Gucci belts were the thing. Yep, wow,
talk about I kind of liked it. I'm not gonna
lie like I liked them. But when people are like,
oh my goshould be like, oh yeah, it's from Chinatown. No,
me too.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
I have a lot of David Yeerman quote unquote stuff
from Chinatown when I went when I was in high school. Oh,
none of it's real, And people compliment me on it
all the time, and I'm like.

Speaker 1 (18:50):
Town, see, but and you thought it was real?

Speaker 2 (18:52):
Yes, that's that's the bigger that's a bigger compliment to
me than actually wearing it and be like, oh thank
you my video. Who cares like, oh my god, you
thought it was real? China South Yep, I'm more excited
to talk about that.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
And for me, like, I'm big into quality. So like,
for instance, my cross necklace in the chain both are
fourteen care at Gold. I never take this off. It
doesn't yeah get it was a gift for either birthday
or Christmas, and I never take it off and I
wear it all the time because it's a quality jewelry item. Yes,
if I'm wearing something that's like an everyday staple piece,
quality and investment, yeah, you'll spend my sure in that.

Speaker 2 (19:29):
I agree, completely, sure, completely.

Speaker 1 (19:31):
But it's not name brand. No, doesn't have to be.
I can't.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
I just for me, I don't Yeah, just buying stuff
just because it's expensive or has like a certain logo.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
On it, I can't get it.

Speaker 2 (19:43):
Go.

Speaker 1 (19:44):
I don't understand it because I literally could look at
you and have zero clue where it's from.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
And you know what, deeper than that, the people that
that will genuinely attract. Are not the right people?

Speaker 1 (19:53):
No? And if that's I was literally just about to say,
if the only people I can tell what it is
are the same people buying it. Yeah, there's just this
like community of like bougie people. If you're not in that,
like you don't know, no, and like you're not impressing me,
you might impress your community yet I don't know. Yeah,
I don't really give a shit. I don't know what
you're wearing. Like literally, I.

Speaker 2 (20:12):
Can recognize logos if you're wearing like yeah, if you're
wearing like a full patterned logo Gucci suit, Like, do
you're wearing Gucci? But it's also like I want to
send you home packing because that looks like pajamas.

Speaker 1 (20:24):
Where are you wearing that? Yeah? What the hell are
you talking about? And who cares? My thing is too.
When you purchase something that much, like one item for
that much money, how many other things you could have
gotten for that same You could have gone on a cruise? Yeah,
like actually you could have gone on a ten night vacation.
You know what I just thought about.

Speaker 2 (20:44):
I'm I'm like, this is really turning some gears. These
people are not even paying you. You're purchasing their product
to free brand for them.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
Let's stop doing that. That's because you know what, You're
wearing a full printed pack in logo Gucci suit and
they're not giving you a dollar to free freely market
for them. You're right, you are a walking you know
what you are.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
You're a walking wrapped car, a business wrapped car. You're
a business fan yes for Gucci, and they don't even
know you exist. Stop doing it, Honestly, that's giving me
the icky.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
You just paid, however much to do that for them. Oh,
big brands are smart, They're genius. That's smart.

Speaker 2 (21:30):
You are a wrapped logo.

Speaker 1 (21:32):
Van, Yeah, cruising around town. That's crazy. Anyway. Something that
I think needs to come back is the ice cream truck. Oh,
I agree. Cute. Like I was making a joke to Korey,
like I was passing something. I was like, oh oh oh,
He's like, what are you doing? I'm like the ice

(21:52):
cream man. He's like, I don't. I was like, have
you ever gone up to the ice cream truck?

Speaker 2 (21:58):
You know?

Speaker 1 (21:58):
Like you we I can remember being in the house
and you hear the little jingle you run outside you
have cash, which it's another thing. Cash needs to come back.
Nobody carries cashing. My dad does, like I know people like.

Speaker 2 (22:12):
No, But my question is people who carry cash, Like
do you go to the bank once a week, like
after a direct deposit?

Speaker 1 (22:18):
Do you go to the bank and say, like I
need three hund dollars cat? How are you all doing that?
I'm not how like I know how to do it?
But is that what you are you making that extra trip?
Or do you do you click cash back when you
do go to the grocery store? Oh?

Speaker 2 (22:30):
Yeah, could do that to an option anyway.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
So, yeah, you get cash, you go out there, You're
so excited and then he's like tricking you with the tree.
Yeah you're like finally like okay, I got it. And
I swear we have the same ice cream guy for
as long as I can remember.

Speaker 2 (22:44):
So I didn't grow up with an ice cream truck
coming to my house because I lived in a very
like oh oh my gosh, this is a word I
can't say, rural.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
Rural.

Speaker 2 (22:55):
That's a terrible word. That makes me like I can't
say that word. But anyway, yeah, I lived on like
there was a my next door neighbor was a pasture.
So yeah, not pastor pasture with cows. Yea, So we
didn't have an ice cream truck. But when I started
going to the lake with my friend, they would come

(23:17):
in the campground and.

Speaker 1 (23:19):
All the way and I got to experience that and
it's just so cute and fun and like I always
got the e strawberry shortcake one with the tumbles. Yes,
it was the best. And I just feel like so
many people are missing out on that, Like I don't
think that's a thing anymore. No, I need to eat
one of those. I knows does not sound good. You
went today? I think, like, I don't know. That's just
such a core childhood memory for me, and I just

(23:42):
feel like that's lost. Too many kids are like this, yeah,
with headphones in so they can't even hear the ice
cream truck. Come.

Speaker 2 (23:47):
Oh. Things that need to leave iPad kids, yes, oh
my god, not the children, the iPads.

Speaker 1 (23:51):
iPads because yes, not the kids. The kids can stay,
but the iPads they gotta go.

Speaker 2 (23:59):
Yeah, because let me, hands up, pants down. I'm not
a mom, okay, I will. I'm not a mom. I truly,
I really don't know what it feels like to not
be able to console a child and you're just trying.

Speaker 1 (24:15):
And trying and trying. I'll be the first to admit that. Okay,
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (24:18):
That frustration okay, But what really grinds my gears is
like when I'm sitting at a restaurant and a kid's crying,
that's not the part that makes me mad.

Speaker 1 (24:29):
I don't care if they're crying. I'm not one of
those people.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
And they just shove their phone or iPad in their
face and then they continue with their dinner like back.

Speaker 1 (24:38):
Turn, like I don't really give a shit what you want.
Yeah here anyway, quick fix. Oh it makes me angry
because it's one of those things you literally solved zero
problems just.

Speaker 2 (24:49):
You you made an entire problem.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
This is a deeper I like, why are people not
emotionally intelligent nowadays? They don't have to be. It don't
have to be. They don't have to figure out their
feelings when they're three. No, they just get okay, I'm happy. Yeah,
they're like, why it's not even happy, I'm distracted, distracted.
Let's just shove everything down and just like have this disc.

Speaker 2 (25:10):
It's just gonna piss people off because I know, look,
I know, I'm not a mom.

Speaker 1 (25:13):
So like. But here's my thing, though, people who are
moms currently now, for the majority of these moms, you
didn't have an iPad or a phone to fix your
problems grown up, so it can be we I mean,
we didn't have that grown up. We didn't even have
that grown up. So there are ways to work around

(25:34):
it without an iPhone or an iPad because that's how
we were. Yeah and so old. Yeah we're fine, Yeah
kind of. I go to therapy.

Speaker 2 (25:42):
I did go for two years, but but no, really,
I mean I can't imagine, and like I know how
addicted I am to my.

Speaker 1 (25:52):
Phone, imagine starting that at three, self inflicted addiction to
my phone. If I would have started when I was three,
I don't. I don't.

Speaker 2 (26:00):
I think I would just be a glob of skin
on earth, Like I don't.

Speaker 1 (26:05):
I wouldn't have I wouldn't be productive, I wouldn't.

Speaker 2 (26:07):
Do anything else.

Speaker 1 (26:08):
I mean, you would have no character building. No, Like,
I really feel like it's making people so numb and
I don't know when you really just think about the
deeper meaning behind all of it, it's just scary. It's
scary because we were talking about like raising kids and
how we were raised go outside. Yeah, it's so different,

(26:28):
spend time with families, spend quality time, go to the
movie theater. Yeah. And it's crazy for me too. How
it's my job. Yeah, but I feel like I handle
the amount of screen time and the amount of everything. Well,
I think so too. Yeah, I don't think i'm You're
still present.

Speaker 2 (26:46):
Yes, it's not like you're constantly yeah. Like so a
lot of people don't understand too. It's like when you
get a snapchat and you just answer it really quick.
I think a lot of people who don't use their
phones like almost ever, they're like, oh, she's always on
her phone. It's like checking, we're blind to a snap
and then you're done. Do you consider that once in
a while always on your phone.

Speaker 1 (27:06):
No, I don't care, don't either, but I know what
you're talking about. People do get frustrated and upset about
that she's always on her phone just because you checked
notication so I looked at it. Yes, annoying, Okay, maybe
it is always on her phone. I don't know an
another thing that you know what I missed though. I
don't really think this needs to come back. I think

(27:27):
it's just me like missing It goes back to like
even the fashion trends when you look at TikTok nowadays
and what these girls are wearing. Yeah, and looking so
old for their age. Like when I was in middle school,
I wore Chaco's and Patagonia shorts and T shirts.

Speaker 2 (27:44):
Yeah, I remember elementary when do you remember the whole
plaid Bermuda shorts?

Speaker 1 (27:49):
Yes, have so many with the whatever what brand was that?
I don't know, it was that monky. Do you know
what I'm talking about? Yes, yes, yes, I missed that.
Like I wore Bermuda shorts with tennis shoes and my
hair in a ponytail likesick back ponytail.

Speaker 2 (28:07):
Me too, every day every day and I felt like
hot shit.

Speaker 1 (28:12):
Well, I felt so cute because I felt like tomboyish
too at the same time, like I care to be
this like girly girl look too old for my age.
I mean heck, I didn't look like a female honestly
until ninth grade. I was put like a box. Honestly,
me too. I had more muscles than most the guys
didn't grown like. I didn't look feminine and like cue,

(28:32):
I didn't look cute. People didn't notice me literally until
I got my braces off. In high school, someone walked
by and was like, oh, I will I remember I
was in health science academy, like I will forever remember this. Yeah,
walk past me like, oh hey, Riley, like something looks
different about you, like it was, and all of a sudden,
like I was being noticed. Yeah, but it's because I

(28:54):
did not care. I didn't want to be trendy. I
didn't want to Yeah. I thought I was Yeah, I
thought I looked cute.

Speaker 4 (29:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
I don't remember going to elementary school, middle school, and ever, ever,
ever being concerned about what outfit I had on.

Speaker 1 (29:08):
Or what was the other trendy nowadays, like what is
the I don't know, other than the Patagonia shorts and chockos.

Speaker 2 (29:16):
I just thought of a funny story.

Speaker 1 (29:18):
I don't I don't remember ever being truly aware of
my outfit except this one. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (29:24):
This one time I told my dad over and over
and over that morning that it was Pajameday today, It's
pajama day. It's Pajameday, Like I promise, like, let me
wear my pajamas, not any pajamas. Rudolph the Red Nose
Reindeer night down, And I'm sure I had tennis shoes
on it with my pjac Yes, I told him, and

(29:48):
he kept telling me, Cameron, today is not Pajamaeday.

Speaker 1 (29:52):
It's I promise it's not Pajamaeday, and send it the newsletter.

Speaker 2 (29:55):
Yeah, I said, no, it is no like I heard
it at school the teacher said it. I totally know
that it's Pajamaday. My dad, being the man he is,
he said, fun, hey, put it on, but no, let's
go to school. Put your pajamas on. Can't wait. We
show up to school and I'm in. Let me reiterate,

(30:15):
Rudeolph the Red Nose reindeer, nightgown, nightgown, nightgown, and no
one else.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
We pull up in Carlina.

Speaker 2 (30:27):
No one else is in pajamas and I said, oh shit,
I's a five year old. I'm probably cussing because I
was scarred. I was like, Dad, Dad, I can't leave.
I cannot go inside, I cannot go sout.

Speaker 1 (30:37):
He said, he said, no, baby's pajama day. You said, nuts,
pajamina gown.

Speaker 2 (30:43):
He said, go to school's pajama day.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
I can see your dad like that.

Speaker 2 (30:49):
I was in kindergarten, I was little kid, and he said,
NAT's pajamaedae baby, remember, go ahead and I'm in.

Speaker 1 (31:00):
Off the red nose reindeer night gown. And probably I
bet she never participated in Pajameday again. Even on the
actual day, you did not guard scarred for live. I
was so embarrassed.

Speaker 2 (31:14):
Luckily my mother brought me a change of clothes about
but it was like halfway through the day damage. The
damage was so done. And I remember my teacher. I
don't remember much about childhood for real, I remember this
day very vividly.

Speaker 1 (31:27):
I remember she's like talking.

Speaker 2 (31:28):
To my mom and she's like, I'm sorry, like my
you know, she insisted on Pajameday and miss Anderson was
her name. She said, well, baby, I know you were comfy.
That's all that matters.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
You were comfy sholing make me feel better. Sobbing, Yeah
I would. I was so embarrassed. I would. I would
have been too anyway. That's the one day I know
I was very aware of my outfit. That's tough. Thankstep. Yeah,
he taught you a lesson on that one. He knew
what he was doing. They say you learn best and

(32:01):
moments like that are humiliated. You'll never do it again.

Speaker 2 (32:05):
I mean, I was so embarrassed to be because it
wasn't just any pajamas, Like why couldn't it have been
like a cute pajama set, Yeah, you know, pants in
a flannel type vibe.

Speaker 3 (32:20):
It was your nightgown with Rudolph, big rudof his nose
like right here, like ruffles like ruffled bottom.

Speaker 1 (32:33):
I'm gonna cry thinking about it. It's awful cute. It
was cute. Oh see, but that's how he grew up. Though,
I know what else?

Speaker 3 (32:46):
Do you?

Speaker 2 (32:46):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (32:46):
You know what I forgot about these? I have a
little I have a little list. So I googled.

Speaker 2 (32:53):
Like old timey phrases that were really popular, and I
scrolled through them, and there are some that I have
to use, like we need to bring them back. First
of all, this one's not really that old. Calling someone
a dork hits so hard and we don't do it enough.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
It's cute, is it? A dork?

Speaker 4 (33:11):
Dork?

Speaker 1 (33:13):
I love that, though, ordweb Boath, Yes, we.

Speaker 2 (33:16):
Are not using that enough.

Speaker 1 (33:17):
No anyway, because because I like that idea of something
like that that feels softer but can be tossed around more. Yes,
some of the things we're calling people nowadays are just
so harsh that it's a little like, yeah, kind of
I didn't like. Yeah that hit Yeah like that.

Speaker 2 (33:35):
That is just like your little dork. Yeah I'm a dork.
Yeah too, love it.

Speaker 1 (33:41):
I agree.

Speaker 2 (33:43):
I think we need to start saying let's make haste
more often when we're in a hurry, make haste.

Speaker 1 (33:53):
Okay, like I said, dork, But but I'm serious. I
think the way you said it though, you have to
say it, like, you can't just say let's make haste. Yeah, No,
it's not hitting. You got hitting you make haste. Yeah,
it's a little bit of an accent there too. Yeah,
old English vibe. Yes, okay.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
So when you're in a in a problem with someone,
I think we need to start saying.

Speaker 1 (34:16):
Yeah, like me and Mariley are quarreling at the moment. Yeah,
it's a good word. It's a good word. So how
are How are you and Susie at school? Mom? We're
really in a quarreling right now. Can you image if
you're a fourth grader? Came home, I'm quarreling. We're in
a quarrel. Quarrel, quarrel. Wow, squirrel, it hits good. Yeah, Okay.

(34:42):
At night time, someone's like, oh, what are you about?

Speaker 2 (34:45):
To do.

Speaker 1 (34:45):
I'm bedword your bedword? Yeah, okay, that means headed to bed,
I'm bedword. Yeah. Like see, but I love how these
are all like old English. They're the ones I like most. Obviously, Hey,
I mean it's we did I guess you say all
these like I'm gonna start saying it. It's like onward

(35:09):
bad word, I'm bad weed. I'm gonna say that to
Corey and I I'm not gonna tell him anything. I'm
just gonna make what he if he's gonna he's gonna say,
what are you doing? I'm a bad word. It's good.
I'm gonna let him figure it out. And then also
the last one is.

Speaker 2 (35:31):
So if you're in a quarrel with someone, you might say, oh,
they're about to cop a mouse.

Speaker 1 (35:36):
That's a good thing to say. What does it mean though,
get a black guy cop a mouse? That sounds if
you don't you're gonna cop a mouse? Are you trying
to cop a mouse? Right now? Like it? Cop a mouse? See?
I like it sounds like you're about to say cotton mouth.
Oh I hate that. Cop a mouse. Cotton mouth cop

(35:59):
a mouse? Yeah, but I like things that people just
are not going to see coming. I agree, like.

Speaker 2 (36:06):
I think that needs to be Do you have like
bits in your life, like little bits that you do, Like,
for instance, me you'll say like, ah, I had a
rusty nail on my tire. I really enjoy the joke.
That's what they called me in high school. Yes, we've talked.
No no, no, I yes, I throw that in conversation

(36:27):
more than anything. That's what they called me in high school.
If you say something funny like.

Speaker 1 (36:31):
That, ah, they called me in high school like those
little bits. No, that's that's really fun.

Speaker 2 (36:38):
I think a new bit I'm going to implement is
old English things.

Speaker 1 (36:41):
Just rand do it. But I think I think the
thing is too Like when people like old phrases that
people have never heard, people think you're like slightly more
intelligent because you've got they seem pocket and just whip
them out. And people are gonna be.

Speaker 2 (36:58):
Like exactly exactly because like yes, you could say like yeah,
hurry up, or you could say make haste.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
See in that compared to what people are saying. We're
shortening words nowadays and trying to be like period yea
or period what's the one that are short? Like uh,
I can't even think of them because I don't use
them fire. Yes, like we're saying all of these things
when you can sound way more intelligent and say something
that's way more entertaining with a lot more meaning. You

(37:30):
could say, ah, your fit's fire, or you could say
your virtues have so strangely taken up my thoughts. See,
that would mean so much more if if if you
told me that I.

Speaker 2 (37:45):
Love your personality, that's a better alternative. I love your
personality where your personality.

Speaker 1 (37:50):
Is fie fie. Oh my gosh, I forgot about that fie. Yeah,
your vibes are fie perfect that or.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
Your virtues have so strangely taken up my thoughts so
much better.

Speaker 1 (38:06):
See, And it's like this that TikTok turn. Sorry, we're
just kind of like rolling with this now at this
point that TikTok turn where it's like, uh, you can
come over if you want, or it's the song lyrics
and it's like I just want to spend you around
around that dancewer And it's like the abbreviation like he
said that, or he could say exactly, that's funny.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
Yes, old slang superlative actually signifies perfect young females, you
know what that one says.

Speaker 1 (38:32):
Jammius bits of jam. I love that, though. Where are
the guys talking like this?

Speaker 2 (38:41):
Rally and camra the Jamius bits of jam like, oh,
that's kind of.

Speaker 1 (38:46):
Like a rhyme. Wait, I like this too. Okay, So
we have we have the old English guys and then
we've got the what's your snap? Oh, come over if
you if you want.

Speaker 2 (39:03):
No, honestly, if I want. Is this an invitation? Or
am I just making the decisions here? Because if you're
gonna make me wear the pants, I'm staying in the
hell in my bed.

Speaker 1 (39:14):
What are you talking about? I hate that. Instead of
saying I would love for you to come over and
come over if you want, you should say make haste.

Speaker 4 (39:22):
Yeah, make haste and come over here right now? Bye, Wood,
make haste. We're bad wood, my.

Speaker 1 (39:32):
Jemmiest bit of jam. Yeah, there you go. I need
that in my life.

Speaker 2 (39:36):
That's exactly what I want.

Speaker 1 (39:39):
Old english men. You're about Jews taking up my whatever
you got thoughts, my jemmiest bit of jam. Make haste.
Let's be Bedwood. We can put these on a shirt Bedward.
I want that shirt, Beadward. So yeah, y'all let us know. Please.
Messages tell us things that need to come back. For instance,

(40:00):
CJ showed me a picture of him and Missus Lewis,
and he was in a Nike turtleneck with these oh baller, uh,
Nike turtleneck with these like parachute pants and Nike sneakers
in his little stud or his hoop whatever baller. He
also told me the story of how they met, and

(40:21):
he was so upset. We haven't gotten to talk about
it on here. They had passed each other in the
car like class or something a bunch of times and
kind of whatever, ran into each other and like, oh,
I know you from somewhere whatever, And I think I
don't remember the story exactly correctly. But he made her

(40:43):
wait and made her make all the moves and he's like,
yeah I did. I was like, CJ, yeah, I know.
It shocked me, especially because he's so sweet, Like seeing
them two together, their dynamic is so cute. He didn't
want to come on too strong or like that was.
He was the cool guy like, come to me, Yeah,
come to me. He was like, yes, I made her

(41:05):
come to me. Oh yeah, I could so see it.
I could so see CJ being such a pimp. Yeah.
CJ was but good for CJ. Yeah, so missus Lewis
had to be the one that was pursuing him. Then finally,
finally he gave in and was like, okay, okay, fine down. Yeah, jeez,

(41:30):
all right, well this is a long episode. It is,
so if you listen this far, thank you so much.
Hopefully we were somewhat entertaining and let us know seriously,
things that you want to come back or things that
have got to go.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
If you listen to this far, leave in the comments
your favorite phrase from today. Yes, if you have something
new that you think we would love, comment it.

Speaker 1 (41:48):
Please, please, please, Like we're begging you that we'll use
him on the next next episode. Literally, that might be
my new thing is just slide in old engmush sling.
Let's do it. Okay, you love y'all. Thank you so
much for listening. We really appreciate it more than you know.
We'll catch y'all next week, all right, bye bye,