November 26, 2024 • 26 mins
Red Flags! Everyone has them and has some they won't accept in others. Come with us as we discuss!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up? Welcome back to at a girl or at
a boy? Yeah, so I just got back this past
weekend or got back from a birthday party I went
to this past weekend and her party was a red
flag party.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Love it.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
And I'd never been to one of those before. I'd
never walked around with my red flag on my shirt.
And we actually had red flags where you could write
other red flags besides what's on your shirt if you
thought of them throughout the night. And it's funny how
you start really thinking about like, oh I do this,
and oh and this and this. Wow crazy yep, But
(00:37):
what's so funny? It's like, is it really a red flag?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Like?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Is it?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Think?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
So?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Is that a red flag that I think it's not?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Yeah? Like me too, me too.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's kind of like, just hear fun facts about me? Yeah,
oh what, let's be positive. Why does it have to
be such a negative thing?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Why is it a red flag? Why can't it be
just a fun fact? Yeah, but I think it would
be funny to go through our fun facts.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I am gonna think of mine off the top of
my head. I also might get a list here in
a minute. I'm in text message. I did text David
and ask him.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
When I asked Corey originally he was like, you don't
have any Oh, David will not say that. No, my
queen of Like what are he said? Okay? Actually the
fact that you don't speak to me when Alabama loses
in football, I said, fair o.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Well that's start and strong. It's a good one.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
That's a fun fact about me. I'm a sore loser.
And if you don't relate because you aren't Alabama fan,
you don't get it. Like when I'm hurt that we lost,
hit steep, don't I Your team can lose, but it
still doesn't feel like when Alabama loses. Okay, So when
you're an Alabama fan, I convent and talk to you
(01:53):
about the loss, right right. Corey's a Georgia fan. Even
though Georgia loss this past weekend, he should have been fine. Yeah,
and he still talk to me.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah, it's just Georgia.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Yeah. Like being an Alabama fan and losing, you just
don't get it because you're not an Alabama fan. You don't
feel how I feel when Alabama loses, right, and so
I need some time to myself, like it puts me
in such a bad mood. Like, I just want to
go to bed and wake up and be like, please
tell me that didn't happen. I'm not kidding.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
I think my red flag is I've never cared about
something like that in my entire life, and maybe that's
a red flag. I've never given a shit more, yeah,
I about it or not. I've never done that, yeah
about anything.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
See, I think that's a red flag. Though I should
care more about things.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
No, well, I don't know. I mean because I don't
actually enjoy a lot of things in life because I
am so intense, right, like Riley, you don't speak to
your loving sweet boyfriend who wants to. He would rather
lose at something that I'll lose for me, he praised
Alabama wins because he wants us to like continue being fine.
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And it's not me mad at him. I'm never once
mad or frustrated with him. I'm like, no, I'm so upset.
The album just lost. I can't even talk right now.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
That's bad.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
So that is the red flag I.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Wore on my shirt this past Sure, Sure, that's a
good one.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
And it was because if we went out at least
I had like written like my boyfriend on my shirt.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Perfect I love it. Oh that's good. Yeah, that's he
liked it too.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
He's like, oh, because at first I was trying to
think the other ones. He's like, oh, you just don't
want it to be on your shirt that you have
a boyfriend. I was like, yeah, that's exactly right. If
I could walk around with a ring on my finger
like city never trying to find a fake one, yea,
so that when people see me be like, oh, sorry,
I do that because.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
It's fun though it's not even for it. Some girls
do that because they're like real serious and like.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
For me, I'm just like, don't talk to me like
I just am.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
I think it's funny.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I'll do it when I'm single just because I think
it's funny, because I don't I I'm.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
One of those people. Is this a red flag?
Speaker 3 (04:01):
No?
Speaker 2 (04:01):
I think this is a green flag.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Okay either way, I don't go out to find a man.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
See, that's never and I just for me, I'm like, please,
just don't like.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
I'm out with my girls, like exactly.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Ruin tonight and talk to me single or dating. Corey,
I don't want anything to do with you. If I
was interested, i'd probably come up to you yep, and
I'm not.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I've never been in a bar with this sole intention
of like, yeah, I'm going home with someone tonight.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Yeah, we're like you can pay the eye contact game
like who and here is like oh is he looking
at me?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Oh? Wait?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Is the attention on me? No, We're there to do
drop splits and walk around with drinks on our head.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
That was literally what I was about to say.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
The only intention I should be getting is when I
do my split in the middle of the room with
a drink on my head in a high.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Five like wow, that was sick.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Yes, appreciate it exactly.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
So. Yeah, I think one of my red flags is
that I am chronically tired and I never know why.
But honestly, if I really think about it, it's because
I go to bed every night way past midnight and
wake up at seven thirty in the morning. That's probably
a red flag. I'm gonna complain about being tired and
(05:08):
know exactly why I'm tired, that's okay, And.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
No, I'm not gonna do anything to fix it.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
No, I mean that's what red Bull caffeine, that's what
that's for.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I agree.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
And also, when am I gonna get my me time.
If I don't stay up in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
See my thing too. I talk her this all the time.
I'm like, going to bed early, I feel like I'm
missing out on stuff me too, Like I feel like
the later I stay up at least, I'm like me,
I have PHONEO when I go to bed early.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I one hundred percent what I don't know me neither.
I one hundred percent get you though, because like, Okay,
I'm at work all day. Yes, I come home, hang
out with my girls, Yes, my nieces, my brother and
sister in law. I see David after he gets home
from work. There's no mean time in this, in any
of this equation. I'm with people the whole day. So
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if I go to bed early, that means I haven't
had like rotting time. No, I need like at least
thirty minutes of rotting time a day to like not speak,
to read my book. I mean, I'm not getting any
of that when y'all are talking to me. And it's
not that I want y'all to not talk to me.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I just need that time also.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
And sometimes it goes a little further. You get hooked
and the online shopping continues to happen like you just
never know late at night, it just I know I
get you on that though I need my mean time.
This used to be one of my red flags, like
it used to be. It's not anymore because when I
first met Corey, my dad was like, Okay, what are
his red flags? Because you're not gonna stay with him
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if he has none. My one of my old red
flags is that, like I did date or not, I
didn date a talk to. Was interested in guys who
had red flags, and I loved to ignore them. Yeah whoo,
you preached into the choir like that before Corey, genuinely.
And so my dad was like, this is not gonnalast.
He's too nice, Like he treats you too right, he's
(06:55):
too kind, he's too thoughtful.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
That's so me.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
So that used to be red flag of mine. Is
like I actually did enjoy a little bit of toxic
because that's all I really knew for two years.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
So you know, it's fun.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
I think I'm dating now he's not toxic. Yeah, but
he still gives me that like adrenaline because he picks
on me.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
So it's a good balance.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
It's like, I still don't I get like the oh,
you're too nice vibe. I don't get that from Corey either, though.
I think there's a difference between.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
He's just so sweet. He's so sweet because if he
thinks something or feels the type way, he's gonna tell me.
He's not gonna let me just say anything. He's gonna
put not put me in my place. That sounds bad,
but like he's no, he's gonna stand firm and stand
his ground.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
I think it's because he's like a man. Oh yeah,
because this might sound bad. I the reason a too
nice guy.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Gives me the ick sometimes is because that also is
usually coupled with like.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Lack of masculine energy. I need a man. I literally
just made a TikTok about this. I'm not gonna talk
about the TikTok because they got taken the wrong way
by a lot of people, which I think that's their problem,
not mine. I talked about what makes a man a
manly man for when you're just confident, so you don't
need to put me down to boost you up. You
don't need to make me feel less fancy. You feel
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more like.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
You're not always searching for the next best thing. Is
you're confident and content in your life.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Yes, and he literally any little thing I do he
thinks is so cool or so awesome or so whatever.
And he's always building me up and like he's always
so nice, but because he doesn't put me down and
make himself like this over compensating.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Yeah, he's such a man exactly.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Always.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I get that, like me and me and David have
separate interests, but we do them together. That kind of
so fun. So he's working on this little race car.
I say little race cars like they're they're really sick.
I probably please, I'm gonna get shipped for that. He
(09:03):
works on his really cool, awesome, amazing race cars, manly stuff,
grease monkey. Yeah, and I read my little books.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
But we were talking.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
I was like like we could sit in there and
be doing that for like hours and hours and hours,
and the only thing we say to each other is
like he'll say, like, go get me a wrench, Go
get me you know, I'm like the runner girl.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
But I was like talking us.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
I was like, I need to be more comfy in here,
you know, Like this is I'm on a lawn chair
with my feet propped up on your like mechanic stool.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
I'm not vibing.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Yeah, so I think we're gonna hang a hammock chair.
The reason I say all that is because I think
it's really sweet, yes, that he.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Wants to make me comfortable in his space face you
know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
That's such a like that's a green flag.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
It is. That is a massive green flag.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
To want to want to make me more comfortable in
your space so we can spend like good time to
eating each other.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
I like it.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I love that. See we now attract green flagged men,
don't we we do.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
That's crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I know we were kind of talking about that this morning.
Just the fact that we're in the spot and like
excited about future.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
It's so weird.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
The fact that I'm talking about marrying Corey and like
beyond excited about it.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
I know.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
I used to think to myself, like, oh my gosh, Like,
so you're married to the same person for how many
years and it's like gonna stay good? Or like does
it fade? And you just like put up with it
because you have kids, you know, Like, how does marriage
actually work?
Speaker 3 (10:34):
I genuinely used to say I would never get married
because I can't imagine like staying with one person the
rest of my life, and and I believed that because
I was like everyone I had dated I got sick
of so easily. Yeah, because they were mean to me,
had red flags whatever.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah, because I was actually talking to my mom about
this last night. Who Corey was when we first started
facetiming years ago. He is the exact same note Like
every night before bed, I am not exaggerating, I either
get a paragraph text or a voice memo. That's nice
every night. That has never changed. The only I think
there's been one time and he fell asleep ball is
(11:10):
teaching line dancing and didn't stay up and forgot to
send one. Woke up the next morning like, oh my gosh,
I didn't send you text last night, like he is.
And I told him this the other day. One of
my favorite things about him is how consistent he is.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
I've never had a man in my life like dating,
not talking about my dad or brother, but like, yeah,
relationship man who has been so consistent because things have
always faded. And I think that's why my marriage was
always like I don't know though, like it's already faded.
Now we're not even yeah, but what do you mean
we're not even married.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
I've never dated someone that like genuinely wanted to spend
time with me and like talk to me.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Yes, and that sounds so sad.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Yeah, but like genuinely like all of my exes, like
we would be together but not really talking at all.
We wouldn't be texting when we weren't together, So, like
you know what I'm saying, we never did phone call.
This person calls me at least nine times a day
per day.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
See, and maybe this is one of my red flags.
My only form of communication is FaceTime, and quite literally,
Corey and I could probably FaceTime like all day, even
when we're out doing things, like yeah, just his presence
on the phone, but like I've never really had that,
Like he does genuinely enjoy talking to me. And sometimes
I'm like, well, if you need to go do stuff,
like don't feel like we have talking He's like yeah,
like I literally have nothing else I'd rather do than
sit and talk to you right now.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
That's sweet?
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Yes, yeah, quality time, it's communication.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
Yeah, someone that like genuinely enjoys your company feels so nice.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yes, not feeling like a burden. Yeah, which, like you said,
sounds so sad because I was.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Always someone too like even in this relationship, like I'm
just now getting comfortable enough to like spend the night,
stay the full day next day, spend the night again.
You know what I'm saying, because I always would like, oh,
I'll go do my own thing today and like you
can get stuff done and then I'll come back like
give you we can have dinner together or something like you.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Know, scared to like make something feel comfortable mm hmm,
because you don't want it to be comfortable, and it's like, oh,
is it not comfortable for you? Like I don't know exactly,
like I'm trying to.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
I do that.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
I think I do that in more areas than I think,
because I abandoned him on the couch the other day
and sat on the other couch and he was like,
are you just gonna abandon me? And I was like, oh,
I didn't want to make you uncomfortable. You looked comfortable,
and he was like, shut get.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Over here, shut up.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
That's what red flags will do to you, so bad. Overthinker.
That's my next one, complete and utter overthinker.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
You know, I think that could be my my largest
one too, like where I have it like on a post,
like in the back of my truck and I fly
around with it, I mean drive around with it flapping
in the wind.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Ah. I like to create stories and scenarios that are
just so far fetched and complete opposite of true. Me too,
And I think that's.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Really big red flag.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Like Corey's like, there's no way you just told yourself
all of that. Like I did, Like I bought my
plane ticket okay to go see him this weekend, but
I also did the protection package because he was already asleep,
and I was like, what if he ends up like
having something to do, like doesn't want me to come,
I need to get the protect protection package just in
case I need to refund my flight. And I told
him that. He's like, no, you did not. I said,
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I did.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Why?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Yeah, that was so rob No, you're so me though.
I would have done that one hundred percent would have
done that. It's like the other day I had an argument.
Not really, it was just like I literally I think
the first text I sent was like, can I say something.
I know it's about to sound crazy, but I need
to get it off my chest so it can live.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
Yes, so I'm not burdened with that.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Yeah, because keeping those things in you're like, Okay, I
gotta get this out.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
Like I'm like going stir crazy in my own brain.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah, he was like, oh shit, what.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Great and that So he had went to his buddy's house.
And this is not that's not the problem. I don't care. Please,
you can go to the bar till four I am
go have fun. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
It was just the fact that like I used to
be invited.
Speaker 3 (15:18):
In my head, this is what I said in my head,
I used to be invited with all his friends. But
now that was when they were going to the bars.
Now they're going to his buddy's house and it's like
a big group to watch like football games, like football season.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
This has started.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Yeah, and I haven't been invited to one of those.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
So like, like, are you losing feeling?
Speaker 2 (15:38):
It's like no.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
In my head, I was like, there's a girl that's
invited that they're trying to set you up with, or
it's your ex, or it's your somebody that you don't
want to know that you've moved on, or you don't
want to know that.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
You have a girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Yeah, it's spirals.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
I mean truly truly spiral.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
And I said it all to him and he was like,
first of all, I went three total times. You act
like I go every weekend, went three total times. Two
of those I had my daughter with me, okay, valid,
cool as he did, and one other time I just
went and hung out with the boys. I didn't know
that it bothered you. I was like, no, like, here's
(16:17):
where you're getting me wrong. It didn't bother me.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Yeah, can you just tell me, am I you know, like, no.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
It didn't bother me that you were hanging out with
your guy friends or that you went or any of that, Like,
please go, you don't have to invite me.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
I just want to know.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
I just want to make sure there's no reason you're
you're not inviting me.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
As long as I know that, then okay, cool, go continue.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
Have fun and never invite me. It's fine.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
He invited me this weekend.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
It's fun. Yeah. See.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
But I wish Corey was listening right now so he
can know it's not just me like these scenarios. I
can't help it, and it's nothing you're doing, because he's
always like, what am I not doing a good enough
job with it? And it's not. It's me. My brain
It just wonders. It wanders so bad yeah, and it spirals.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
It's awful and it's honestly debilitating. Like when I get
in those headspaces, I can't I'm not let it go.
I cannot let it go. It's all I think about.
I'm not productive and other things.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Get mad at yourself, yeah, for why did I think
that way? And why did I bring this up? And
then you get mad at yourself and it's like it's
a cycle.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
And that's when Cameron Light gets in her car and
drives for like three hours, okay, because I'm a psychopath
and I'm like, I need to listen to music and
I need to draw out everything else, and I can't
do that at my house because it's too loud. It's
a whole thing. So I have to get in my
car and I'm driving for three hours.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
So I used to be that way and listen. Unfortunately
Zach Bryan's driving, yep, Like I would listen to that
as driving, Like, yes, this is irrelatable, yep, not anymore.
Find something else, Taylor Swift, I guess there you go.
But yeah, definitely a red flag everything Cordine meaning. Another
(18:00):
one is I don't go anywhere without my tripod or
ring light. Okay, yeah, influence your life, but it's also
really embarrassing in a red flag.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
I wish I was more like that because I think
the most complaints that I have when I take a
photo of myself is like the lighting or the setup
or the angle or anything.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
If I was more like that, than those complaints would leave.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
Also, Corey told me last night because I was sending
on a bunch of like oldff like the first pictures
and videos that we have together. Yeah, and he's like,
I'm so glad you've documented all of this because I haven't.
Your darn right, it's a good thing. I'm an influencer
now exactly. Yeah, we can look back and see how
far we've come. You're welcome.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
I wish that I was more of a camera like
pull out your camera person, like there's prison cons.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
I'll say, though, I do it and then put it away.
Yeah I'm gonna document this, put it away. It's not
a constant like yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
No, but I don't. I don't think about it though.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Because I'm not in that mindset like, yeah, I wish
I wish how was though, because there's I mean, I've
been to a million concerts, I've been to whatever I'm
going to a concert tonight.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Actually, I know, I'm excited.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Yeah, I go to shows all the time, whatever, and
I have nothing to show for them, and that feels
I have a t shirts always buy the March.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
That's like eighty thousand dollars.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
But that's my one documentation is that, oh yeah I
saw them, I was there.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
Yeah, the shirt should tell you everything.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
I just wish I took more pictures or like even
like this is weird but good meals that I've eaten.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
I wish I took more pictures of.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Those and really appreciated. I'm always the funnyas first, like
Corey knows. Now, I'd be like, did you get a
video of the food first? He knows, like, oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
No, no I need to do that.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
Yeah, just in like everyday life too.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I don't appreciate that enough.
Speaker 3 (19:48):
I take pictures of the girls a lot because I
just think they're cute, and I'm like, oh my god,
y'all are cute.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Let me get a picture. But I don't. I don't know. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
So maybe it's just a fun fact about me, not
a red flag.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
No, it's a great I think it's a great flag,
great green flag.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
I wish I was more like it.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Do you have any others I.
Speaker 3 (20:07):
Think that I could genuinely, I think this might be
a red flag. I could genuinely sit in solitude for
like I'm not joking, probably seventy two hours at a
time and not speak or not do anything, and just
I think that's a red flag. Yeah, I could never
I I don't think I.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
Would probably talk out loud to myself.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
But like if I had like no company, like I
just had like a book, like books, like I could
see I could genuinely sit in silence and read for
seventy two hours and be fine and not get bored.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
When I go periods of time without the presence of people,
I'm like, I need people. Yeah, I feel so alone.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
Well, you know what I will say, I may feel
that way because I'm surrounded by people one hundred percent
of my time. That might be why I think I
could do that and be cool with it. Because like
usually my mondays, like especially once we take off, like
no one's at my house, it's just me, everyone's at
work and I'm just sitting there. I usually run errant
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and do stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
But like I.
Speaker 3 (21:11):
Usually don't like speak unless i'm I get a phone
call until like six pm.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Wow, and it's nice. I can't it's nice.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
But I think I should have some more of that.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
But no, it's fun for me. I like it.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
That's great love.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
I love it genuine I think.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
That's important, like to have that time and Okay, to
be fair, I'm home alone with Sadie Mae all day.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
Okay, you have that time then, but.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
I'm usually trying to find people to talk to. Like
I'm like, who's not doing anything right now? Not most
people are at work rightly.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Most people are at work.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
Right now, which you should probably be getting work done
actually to fill your time. I can't watch TV shows either,
Like I literally am like I need someone.
Speaker 3 (21:56):
I understand that so I can watch, Like I watch
my Real House while I'm doing New York watch right now.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
They're good.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
I can watch them, but like then like three episodes
in there on my nerves, like I gotta turn it off,
like the noise bothers me. And I can't listen to
music for a long period of time because then I
decide I hate all of the music I've ever liked ever,
and I have to turn it off.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Wow, like I just I get in these.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
But you love your all time.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
I love silence.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
I think, Oh that's that's good.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Not in the car though. So my brother and Beth,
both of them are a different breed of human. They
don't listen to music in the car.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
They just don't. I like the silence.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
No, that's that's sociopath just kidding.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Oh, oh do you have more?
Speaker 2 (22:40):
Oh good?
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Do I have red flags? I have four text messages.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Oh, let's freaking go.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
He's so weird, Okay, he said, I really can't come
up with one.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Besides, you're in.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
Therapy top that's funny, and you vape, which facts. Unfortunately,
that is a red flag that I need to get
rid up. He said, so nun Oh, your red flag
is that you're with me.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
But that's so cute. That's a perfect answer. I know
he's sweet.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
He's not.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Actually he's an asshole okay in his own way, though.
He's not toxic and he doesn't Oh he's not mean
to me. Yes, he's not mean to me, which is great.
He picks on me and we joke and we we
genuinely Like yesterday, I was saying earlier, how I Yesterday
was like the first time I've like not ran out
in the morning and been like, yeah, i'll see you
later probably like let's spend like I'd spent the entire
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day with him, Yeah, which.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
We spend like hours together.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
But you know it's different when because we spent like
all night Saturday, all night Sun, all day Sunday together, Yeah,
doing stuff.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
All night last night, like more like real life stuff.
Speaker 3 (23:53):
I know, crazy, yes, because I'm just it's been of
my own affliction. Like I'm just like, yes, I'll let
you have some space, don't get tired of me goodbye.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Like, well, if you need a weekend, like just spending
the guys that we know. He's like, what are you
talking about? If I plan on spending the rest of
my life with you, it's a good point. And then
when he when he hits me with that, I'm like, oh, that's.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
A good point. You're right.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
But like yesterday we just like laughed and giggled and
hung out and it was so fun.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (24:24):
Like do you ever like sit in moments and you're
like just sitting there. Nothing truly amazing is happening, but
you're just sitting there and you're appreciated.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
I was doing that. That's awesome.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
I love those moments. Sorry, but no, you're just getting
to your I thinking about it. It's just that sentimental.
But we want to hear y'all's red flags, right, yeah,
please y'all let us know in the comments you're fun facts. Sorry,
it's not a bad thing exactly, some red flags so like.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
Yeah, don't don't comment and tell them yourself that you
like abuse something emotionally verbal, all of it.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
Yeah, like they're like funny red flags. That's what we're
getting at. Like they're funny ha ha, not like real life,
like stay clear of me because I do this, Like,
please don't.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Hit us with that exactly.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Those can go into the DMS, but not public comments.
So we want to hear from you all. But those
are our fun facts slash red flags slash green flags.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
I mean, yeah, I don't think anything we think. Do
we really have?
Speaker 3 (25:27):
Watch people in the comments that know us be like
I think you left out and.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Like roast us. Yeah, please honestly do it.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
I'd love it.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
Please don't don't talk about it next week. Just kidding.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Well, we love y'all. Thanks for the constant love and support.
Please keep commenting. And letting us know what you want
to hear from us.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Yes, and keep the lookout on social media. I've got
to get better at making some graphics.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
I have to do better about like cutting all this
and like putting it on social media.
Speaker 3 (25:55):
So so keep a look out on that. We're gonna
be announcing some merch some merch news soon.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
I think, let's freaking go. So keep a lookout on that, please.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
But yeah, I hope you'll have a great rest of
your week.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
Bye everybody, Bye,
What's up? Welcome back to at a girl or at
a boy? Yeah, so I just got back this past
weekend or got back from a birthday party I went
to this past weekend and her party was a red
flag party.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Love it.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
And I'd never been to one of those before. I'd
never walked around with my red flag on my shirt.
And we actually had red flags where you could write
other red flags besides what's on your shirt if you
thought of them throughout the night. And it's funny how
you start really thinking about like, oh I do this,
and oh and this and this. Wow crazy yep, But
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what's so funny? It's like, is it really a red flag?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Like?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Is it?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Think?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
So?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Is that a red flag that I think it's not?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Yeah? Like me too, me too.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's kind of like, just hear fun facts about me? Yeah,
oh what, let's be positive. Why does it have to
be such a negative thing?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Why is it a red flag? Why can't it be
just a fun fact? Yeah, but I think it would
be funny to go through our fun facts.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I am gonna think of mine off the top of
my head. I also might get a list here in
a minute. I'm in text message. I did text David
and ask him.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
When I asked Corey originally he was like, you don't
have any Oh, David will not say that. No, my
queen of Like what are he said? Okay? Actually the
fact that you don't speak to me when Alabama loses
in football, I said, fair o.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Well that's start and strong. It's a good one.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
That's a fun fact about me. I'm a sore loser.
And if you don't relate because you aren't Alabama fan,
you don't get it. Like when I'm hurt that we lost,
hit steep, don't I Your team can lose, but it
still doesn't feel like when Alabama loses. Okay, So when
you're an Alabama fan, I convent and talk to you
(01:53):
about the loss, right right. Corey's a Georgia fan. Even
though Georgia loss this past weekend, he should have been fine. Yeah,
and he still talk to me.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah, it's just Georgia.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Yeah. Like being an Alabama fan and losing, you just
don't get it because you're not an Alabama fan. You don't
feel how I feel when Alabama loses, right, and so
I need some time to myself, like it puts me
in such a bad mood. Like, I just want to
go to bed and wake up and be like, please
tell me that didn't happen. I'm not kidding.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
I think my red flag is I've never cared about
something like that in my entire life, and maybe that's
a red flag. I've never given a shit more, yeah,
I about it or not. I've never done that, yeah
about anything.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
See, I think that's a red flag. Though I should
care more about things.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
No, well, I don't know. I mean because I don't
actually enjoy a lot of things in life because I
am so intense, right, like Riley, you don't speak to
your loving sweet boyfriend who wants to. He would rather
lose at something that I'll lose for me, he praised
Alabama wins because he wants us to like continue being fine.
(03:05):
And it's not me mad at him. I'm never once
mad or frustrated with him. I'm like, no, I'm so upset.
The album just lost. I can't even talk right now.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
That's bad.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
So that is the red flag I.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Wore on my shirt this past Sure, Sure, that's a
good one.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
And it was because if we went out at least
I had like written like my boyfriend on my shirt.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Perfect I love it. Oh that's good. Yeah, that's he
liked it too.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
He's like, oh, because at first I was trying to
think the other ones. He's like, oh, you just don't
want it to be on your shirt that you have
a boyfriend. I was like, yeah, that's exactly right. If
I could walk around with a ring on my finger
like city never trying to find a fake one, yea,
so that when people see me be like, oh, sorry,
I do that because.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
It's fun though it's not even for it. Some girls
do that because they're like real serious and like.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
For me, I'm just like, don't talk to me like
I just am.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
I think it's funny.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I'll do it when I'm single just because I think
it's funny, because I don't I I'm.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
One of those people. Is this a red flag?
Speaker 3 (04:01):
No?
Speaker 2 (04:01):
I think this is a green flag.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Okay either way, I don't go out to find a man.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
See, that's never and I just for me, I'm like, please,
just don't like.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
I'm out with my girls, like exactly.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Ruin tonight and talk to me single or dating. Corey,
I don't want anything to do with you. If I
was interested, i'd probably come up to you yep, and
I'm not.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I've never been in a bar with this sole intention
of like, yeah, I'm going home with someone tonight.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Yeah, we're like you can pay the eye contact game
like who and here is like oh is he looking
at me?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Oh? Wait?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Is the attention on me? No, We're there to do
drop splits and walk around with drinks on our head.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
That was literally what I was about to say.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
The only intention I should be getting is when I
do my split in the middle of the room with
a drink on my head in a high.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Five like wow, that was sick.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Yes, appreciate it exactly.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
So. Yeah, I think one of my red flags is
that I am chronically tired and I never know why.
But honestly, if I really think about it, it's because
I go to bed every night way past midnight and
wake up at seven thirty in the morning. That's probably
a red flag. I'm gonna complain about being tired and
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know exactly why I'm tired, that's okay, And.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
No, I'm not gonna do anything to fix it.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
No, I mean that's what red Bull caffeine, that's what
that's for.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I agree.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
And also, when am I gonna get my me time.
If I don't stay up in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
See my thing too. I talk her this all the time.
I'm like, going to bed early, I feel like I'm
missing out on stuff me too, Like I feel like
the later I stay up at least, I'm like me,
I have PHONEO when I go to bed early.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
I one hundred percent what I don't know me neither.
I one hundred percent get you though, because like, Okay,
I'm at work all day. Yes, I come home, hang
out with my girls, Yes, my nieces, my brother and
sister in law. I see David after he gets home
from work. There's no mean time in this, in any
of this equation. I'm with people the whole day. So
(05:54):
if I go to bed early, that means I haven't
had like rotting time. No, I need like at least
thirty minutes of rotting time a day to like not speak,
to read my book. I mean, I'm not getting any
of that when y'all are talking to me. And it's
not that I want y'all to not talk to me.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I just need that time also.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
And sometimes it goes a little further. You get hooked
and the online shopping continues to happen like you just
never know late at night, it just I know I
get you on that though I need my mean time.
This used to be one of my red flags, like
it used to be. It's not anymore because when I
first met Corey, my dad was like, Okay, what are
his red flags? Because you're not gonna stay with him
(06:34):
if he has none. My one of my old red
flags is that, like I did date or not, I
didn date a talk to. Was interested in guys who
had red flags, and I loved to ignore them. Yeah whoo,
you preached into the choir like that before Corey, genuinely.
And so my dad was like, this is not gonnalast.
He's too nice, Like he treats you too right, he's
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too kind, he's too thoughtful.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
That's so me.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
So that used to be red flag of mine. Is
like I actually did enjoy a little bit of toxic
because that's all I really knew for two years.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
So you know, it's fun.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
I think I'm dating now he's not toxic. Yeah, but
he still gives me that like adrenaline because he picks
on me.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
So it's a good balance.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
It's like, I still don't I get like the oh,
you're too nice vibe. I don't get that from Corey either, though.
I think there's a difference between.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
He's just so sweet. He's so sweet because if he
thinks something or feels the type way, he's gonna tell me.
He's not gonna let me just say anything. He's gonna
put not put me in my place. That sounds bad,
but like he's no, he's gonna stand firm and stand
his ground.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
I think it's because he's like a man. Oh yeah,
because this might sound bad. I the reason a too
nice guy.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Gives me the ick sometimes is because that also is
usually coupled with like.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Lack of masculine energy. I need a man. I literally
just made a TikTok about this. I'm not gonna talk
about the TikTok because they got taken the wrong way
by a lot of people, which I think that's their problem,
not mine. I talked about what makes a man a
manly man for when you're just confident, so you don't
need to put me down to boost you up. You
don't need to make me feel less fancy. You feel
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more like.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
You're not always searching for the next best thing. Is
you're confident and content in your life.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Yes, and he literally any little thing I do he
thinks is so cool or so awesome or so whatever.
And he's always building me up and like he's always
so nice, but because he doesn't put me down and
make himself like this over compensating.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Yeah, he's such a man exactly.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Always.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I get that, like me and me and David have
separate interests, but we do them together. That kind of
so fun. So he's working on this little race car.
I say little race cars like they're they're really sick.
I probably please, I'm gonna get shipped for that. He
(09:03):
works on his really cool, awesome, amazing race cars, manly stuff,
grease monkey. Yeah, and I read my little books.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
But we were talking.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
I was like like we could sit in there and
be doing that for like hours and hours and hours,
and the only thing we say to each other is
like he'll say, like, go get me a wrench, Go
get me you know, I'm like the runner girl.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
But I was like talking us.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
I was like, I need to be more comfy in here,
you know, Like this is I'm on a lawn chair
with my feet propped up on your like mechanic stool.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
I'm not vibing.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Yeah, so I think we're gonna hang a hammock chair.
The reason I say all that is because I think
it's really sweet, yes, that he.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Wants to make me comfortable in his space face you
know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
That's such a like that's a green flag.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
It is. That is a massive green flag.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
To want to want to make me more comfortable in
your space so we can spend like good time to
eating each other.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
I like it.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I love that. See we now attract green flagged men,
don't we we do.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
That's crazy.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I know we were kind of talking about that this morning.
Just the fact that we're in the spot and like
excited about future.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
It's so weird.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
The fact that I'm talking about marrying Corey and like
beyond excited about it.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
I know.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
I used to think to myself, like, oh my gosh, Like,
so you're married to the same person for how many
years and it's like gonna stay good? Or like does
it fade? And you just like put up with it
because you have kids, you know, Like, how does marriage
actually work?
Speaker 3 (10:34):
I genuinely used to say I would never get married
because I can't imagine like staying with one person the
rest of my life, and and I believed that because
I was like everyone I had dated I got sick
of so easily. Yeah, because they were mean to me,
had red flags whatever.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah, because I was actually talking to my mom about
this last night. Who Corey was when we first started
facetiming years ago. He is the exact same note Like
every night before bed, I am not exaggerating, I either
get a paragraph text or a voice memo. That's nice
every night. That has never changed. The only I think
there's been one time and he fell asleep ball is
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teaching line dancing and didn't stay up and forgot to
send one. Woke up the next morning like, oh my gosh,
I didn't send you text last night, like he is.
And I told him this the other day. One of
my favorite things about him is how consistent he is.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
I've never had a man in my life like dating,
not talking about my dad or brother, but like, yeah,
relationship man who has been so consistent because things have
always faded. And I think that's why my marriage was
always like I don't know though, like it's already faded.
Now we're not even yeah, but what do you mean
we're not even married.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
I've never dated someone that like genuinely wanted to spend
time with me and like talk to me.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Yes, and that sounds so sad.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Yeah, but like genuinely like all of my exes, like
we would be together but not really talking at all.
We wouldn't be texting when we weren't together, So, like
you know what I'm saying, we never did phone call.
This person calls me at least nine times a day
per day.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
See, and maybe this is one of my red flags.
My only form of communication is FaceTime, and quite literally,
Corey and I could probably FaceTime like all day, even
when we're out doing things, like yeah, just his presence
on the phone, but like I've never really had that,
Like he does genuinely enjoy talking to me. And sometimes
I'm like, well, if you need to go do stuff,
like don't feel like we have talking He's like yeah,
like I literally have nothing else I'd rather do than
sit and talk to you right now.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
That's sweet?
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Yes, yeah, quality time, it's communication.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
Yeah, someone that like genuinely enjoys your company feels so nice.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yes, not feeling like a burden. Yeah, which, like you said,
sounds so sad because I was.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Always someone too like even in this relationship, like I'm
just now getting comfortable enough to like spend the night,
stay the full day next day, spend the night again.
You know what I'm saying, because I always would like, oh,
I'll go do my own thing today and like you
can get stuff done and then I'll come back like
give you we can have dinner together or something like you.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Know, scared to like make something feel comfortable mm hmm,
because you don't want it to be comfortable, and it's like, oh,
is it not comfortable for you? Like I don't know exactly,
like I'm trying to.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
I do that.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
I think I do that in more areas than I think,
because I abandoned him on the couch the other day
and sat on the other couch and he was like,
are you just gonna abandon me? And I was like, oh,
I didn't want to make you uncomfortable. You looked comfortable,
and he was like, shut get.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Over here, shut up.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
That's what red flags will do to you, so bad. Overthinker.
That's my next one, complete and utter overthinker.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
You know, I think that could be my my largest
one too, like where I have it like on a post,
like in the back of my truck and I fly
around with it, I mean drive around with it flapping
in the wind.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Ah. I like to create stories and scenarios that are
just so far fetched and complete opposite of true. Me too,
And I think that's.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Really big red flag.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Like Corey's like, there's no way you just told yourself
all of that. Like I did, Like I bought my
plane ticket okay to go see him this weekend, but
I also did the protection package because he was already asleep,
and I was like, what if he ends up like
having something to do, like doesn't want me to come,
I need to get the protect protection package just in
case I need to refund my flight. And I told
him that. He's like, no, you did not. I said,
(14:27):
I did.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Why?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Yeah, that was so rob No, you're so me though.
I would have done that one hundred percent would have
done that. It's like the other day I had an argument.
Not really, it was just like I literally I think
the first text I sent was like, can I say something.
I know it's about to sound crazy, but I need
to get it off my chest so it can live.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
Yes, so I'm not burdened with that.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Yeah, because keeping those things in you're like, Okay, I
gotta get this out.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
Like I'm like going stir crazy in my own brain.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah, he was like, oh shit, what.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Great and that So he had went to his buddy's house.
And this is not that's not the problem. I don't care. Please,
you can go to the bar till four I am
go have fun. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
It was just the fact that like I used to
be invited.
Speaker 3 (15:18):
In my head, this is what I said in my head,
I used to be invited with all his friends. But
now that was when they were going to the bars.
Now they're going to his buddy's house and it's like
a big group to watch like football games, like football season.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
This has started.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Yeah, and I haven't been invited to one of those.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
So like, like, are you losing feeling?
Speaker 2 (15:38):
It's like no.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
In my head, I was like, there's a girl that's
invited that they're trying to set you up with, or
it's your ex, or it's your somebody that you don't
want to know that you've moved on, or you don't
want to know that.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
You have a girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Yeah, it's spirals.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
I mean truly truly spiral.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
And I said it all to him and he was like,
first of all, I went three total times. You act
like I go every weekend, went three total times. Two
of those I had my daughter with me, okay, valid,
cool as he did, and one other time I just
went and hung out with the boys. I didn't know
that it bothered you. I was like, no, like, here's
(16:17):
where you're getting me wrong. It didn't bother me.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Yeah, can you just tell me, am I you know, like, no.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
It didn't bother me that you were hanging out with
your guy friends or that you went or any of that, Like,
please go, you don't have to invite me.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
I just want to know.
Speaker 3 (16:29):
I just want to make sure there's no reason you're
you're not inviting me.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
As long as I know that, then okay, cool, go continue.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
Have fun and never invite me. It's fine.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
He invited me this weekend.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
It's fun. Yeah. See.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
But I wish Corey was listening right now so he
can know it's not just me like these scenarios. I
can't help it, and it's nothing you're doing, because he's
always like, what am I not doing a good enough
job with it? And it's not. It's me. My brain
It just wonders. It wanders so bad yeah, and it spirals.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
It's awful and it's honestly debilitating. Like when I get
in those headspaces, I can't I'm not let it go.
I cannot let it go. It's all I think about.
I'm not productive and other things.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Get mad at yourself, yeah, for why did I think
that way? And why did I bring this up? And
then you get mad at yourself and it's like it's
a cycle.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
And that's when Cameron Light gets in her car and
drives for like three hours, okay, because I'm a psychopath
and I'm like, I need to listen to music and
I need to draw out everything else, and I can't
do that at my house because it's too loud. It's
a whole thing. So I have to get in my
car and I'm driving for three hours.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
So I used to be that way and listen. Unfortunately
Zach Bryan's driving, yep, Like I would listen to that
as driving, Like, yes, this is irrelatable, yep, not anymore.
Find something else, Taylor Swift, I guess there you go.
But yeah, definitely a red flag everything Cordine meaning. Another
(18:00):
one is I don't go anywhere without my tripod or
ring light. Okay, yeah, influence your life, but it's also
really embarrassing in a red flag.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
I wish I was more like that because I think
the most complaints that I have when I take a
photo of myself is like the lighting or the setup
or the angle or anything.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
If I was more like that, than those complaints would leave.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
Also, Corey told me last night because I was sending
on a bunch of like oldff like the first pictures
and videos that we have together. Yeah, and he's like,
I'm so glad you've documented all of this because I haven't.
Your darn right, it's a good thing. I'm an influencer
now exactly. Yeah, we can look back and see how
far we've come. You're welcome.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
I wish that I was more of a camera like
pull out your camera person, like there's prison cons.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
I'll say, though, I do it and then put it away.
Yeah I'm gonna document this, put it away. It's not
a constant like yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
No, but I don't. I don't think about it though.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Because I'm not in that mindset like, yeah, I wish
I wish how was though, because there's I mean, I've
been to a million concerts, I've been to whatever I'm
going to a concert tonight.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Actually, I know, I'm excited.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Yeah, I go to shows all the time, whatever, and
I have nothing to show for them, and that feels
I have a t shirts always buy the March.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
That's like eighty thousand dollars.
Speaker 3 (19:17):
But that's my one documentation is that, oh yeah I
saw them, I was there.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
Yeah, the shirt should tell you everything.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
I just wish I took more pictures or like even
like this is weird but good meals that I've eaten.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
I wish I took more pictures of.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Those and really appreciated. I'm always the funnyas first, like
Corey knows. Now, I'd be like, did you get a
video of the food first? He knows, like, oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
No, no I need to do that.
Speaker 3 (19:42):
Yeah, just in like everyday life too.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I don't appreciate that enough.
Speaker 3 (19:48):
I take pictures of the girls a lot because I
just think they're cute, and I'm like, oh my god,
y'all are cute.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Let me get a picture. But I don't. I don't know. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (19:55):
So maybe it's just a fun fact about me, not
a red flag.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
No, it's a great I think it's a great flag,
great green flag.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
I wish I was more like it.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Do you have any others I.
Speaker 3 (20:07):
Think that I could genuinely, I think this might be
a red flag. I could genuinely sit in solitude for
like I'm not joking, probably seventy two hours at a
time and not speak or not do anything, and just
I think that's a red flag. Yeah, I could never
I I don't think I.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
Would probably talk out loud to myself.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
But like if I had like no company, like I
just had like a book, like books, like I could
see I could genuinely sit in silence and read for
seventy two hours and be fine and not get bored.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
When I go periods of time without the presence of people,
I'm like, I need people. Yeah, I feel so alone.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
Well, you know what I will say, I may feel
that way because I'm surrounded by people one hundred percent
of my time. That might be why I think I
could do that and be cool with it. Because like
usually my mondays, like especially once we take off, like
no one's at my house, it's just me, everyone's at
work and I'm just sitting there. I usually run errant
(21:08):
and do stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
But like I.
Speaker 3 (21:11):
Usually don't like speak unless i'm I get a phone
call until like six pm.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Wow, and it's nice. I can't it's nice.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
But I think I should have some more of that.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
But no, it's fun for me. I like it.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
That's great love.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
I love it genuine I think.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
That's important, like to have that time and Okay, to
be fair, I'm home alone with Sadie Mae all day.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
Okay, you have that time then, but.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
I'm usually trying to find people to talk to. Like
I'm like, who's not doing anything right now? Not most
people are at work rightly.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Most people are at work.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
Right now, which you should probably be getting work done
actually to fill your time. I can't watch TV shows either,
Like I literally am like I need someone.
Speaker 3 (21:56):
I understand that so I can watch, Like I watch
my Real House while I'm doing New York watch right now.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
They're good.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
I can watch them, but like then like three episodes
in there on my nerves, like I gotta turn it off,
like the noise bothers me. And I can't listen to
music for a long period of time because then I
decide I hate all of the music I've ever liked ever,
and I have to turn it off.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Wow, like I just I get in these.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
But you love your all time.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
I love silence.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
I think, Oh that's that's good.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Not in the car though. So my brother and Beth,
both of them are a different breed of human. They
don't listen to music in the car.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
They just don't. I like the silence.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
No, that's that's sociopath just kidding.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Oh, oh do you have more?
Speaker 2 (22:40):
Oh good?
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Do I have red flags? I have four text messages.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Oh, let's freaking go.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
He's so weird, Okay, he said, I really can't come
up with one.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Besides, you're in.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
Therapy top that's funny, and you vape, which facts. Unfortunately,
that is a red flag that I need to get
rid up. He said, so nun Oh, your red flag
is that you're with me.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
But that's so cute. That's a perfect answer. I know
he's sweet.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
He's not.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
Actually he's an asshole okay in his own way, though.
He's not toxic and he doesn't Oh he's not mean
to me. Yes, he's not mean to me, which is great.
He picks on me and we joke and we we
genuinely Like yesterday, I was saying earlier, how I Yesterday
was like the first time I've like not ran out
in the morning and been like, yeah, i'll see you
later probably like let's spend like I'd spent the entire
(23:39):
day with him, Yeah, which.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
We spend like hours together.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
But you know it's different when because we spent like
all night Saturday, all night Sun, all day Sunday together, Yeah,
doing stuff.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
All night last night, like more like real life stuff.
Speaker 3 (23:53):
I know, crazy, yes, because I'm just it's been of
my own affliction. Like I'm just like, yes, I'll let
you have some space, don't get tired of me goodbye.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Like, well, if you need a weekend, like just spending
the guys that we know. He's like, what are you
talking about? If I plan on spending the rest of
my life with you, it's a good point. And then
when he when he hits me with that, I'm like, oh, that's.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
A good point. You're right.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
But like yesterday we just like laughed and giggled and
hung out and it was so fun.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (24:24):
Like do you ever like sit in moments and you're
like just sitting there. Nothing truly amazing is happening, but
you're just sitting there and you're appreciated.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
I was doing that. That's awesome.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
I love those moments. Sorry, but no, you're just getting
to your I thinking about it. It's just that sentimental.
But we want to hear y'all's red flags, right, yeah,
please y'all let us know in the comments you're fun facts. Sorry,
it's not a bad thing exactly, some red flags so like.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
Yeah, don't don't comment and tell them yourself that you
like abuse something emotionally verbal, all of it.
Speaker 1 (25:00):
Yeah, like they're like funny red flags. That's what we're
getting at. Like they're funny ha ha, not like real life,
like stay clear of me because I do this, Like,
please don't.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Hit us with that exactly.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Those can go into the DMS, but not public comments.
So we want to hear from you all. But those
are our fun facts slash red flags slash green flags.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
I mean, yeah, I don't think anything we think. Do
we really have?
Speaker 3 (25:27):
Watch people in the comments that know us be like
I think you left out and.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Like roast us. Yeah, please honestly do it.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
I'd love it.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
Please don't don't talk about it next week. Just kidding.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Well, we love y'all. Thanks for the constant love and support.
Please keep commenting. And letting us know what you want
to hear from us.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Yes, and keep the lookout on social media. I've got
to get better at making some graphics.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
I have to do better about like cutting all this
and like putting it on social media.
Speaker 3 (25:55):
So so keep a look out on that. We're gonna
be announcing some merch some merch news soon.
Speaker 2 (26:02):
I think, let's freaking go. So keep a lookout on that, please.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
But yeah, I hope you'll have a great rest of
your week.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
Bye everybody, Bye,
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