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What's up. Welcome back to Ada, girl. Hey, what a fun
week we've had. How't my guysknow? Actually, like I've had a
really good week compared to last weekwhen we talked. No really, Oh
my gosh. I feel like anew person. Yeah, things are looking
up. My hip is great.I started running at the end of the
week. Nice. My spot's lookthey're healed. I did self tanner last
night and I feel gorgeous. Ilove that I have a spray tan from
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last week. It's rubbing off.I don't feel too gorgeous, but it's
just something about that that tancy.We think I got my impatago from the
tanning bed. So my mom islike, I'd rather us pay for spray
tan self tanner than you get impatago. And I said, you know,
I get that. That's a goodpoint. There's a lady in Aniona.
I'm about to pay sixty dollars amonth for two spray tans. That's
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not bad. It's really not.And I because I don't think worth it.
A normal spray tan I think costme forty dollars, so it's like
basically ten dollars off way that's wayway better. I'm pretty excited about that.
Heck yeah, I also weekend.Have you seen the Anyone but You
movie? I haven't. Oh mygosh, dude, ten out of ten,
that's what everyone's saying. So you'veseen it, I guess. Is
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it comparable to like the early twothousands roum coms, that's what people keep
comparing it to. I think it'sone of my favorite movies I've ever seen.
Like I wanted to go back thenext day and see it again,
because you know those two thousand,like ten things I hate about you?
You well not even well that one? Yeah, and then you know which
one is my favorite? Which oneis that? The Amanda Vines one,
She's the Man. Yes, that'smy favorite movie. Yeah, but I
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think it was better. I thinkit was better, Oh my gosh.
And they were in Australia. Mydad looked to me, his a,
you can learn, you can learnand take take away from this and work
on your Australian accent. Perfect.Good point, mate, good point.
Might so. But it was freakingamazing. So if you have not seen
Anyone but You, please go watchit. What's the premise. It's like
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these two people, It's like arom com. Yeah, I love it.
I don't want to spoil anything becauseit's just that freaking good. I
will say, because of just myboy pass. Yeah, it was too
soon, like dang it, well, but it's wrong with me, Like,
yeah, I have this, Iknow what you mean. There was
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one part where just my heart hurt. I was like, Okay, don't
cry, it's okay. This isa great movie. It's not supposed to
hurt your heart. Yeah. Lastweek I was kind of down. I
thought I had messed up a situationthat I was in. Really yeah,
but it's all it's okay. Thismorning, we're good. This morning,
we're good to the Yeah, soI'm feeling great this morning. Yeah.
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Oh okay, what our boyfriends Okay, so I mean and Riley are competing.
Oh my gosh. If you listento our first episode, you know
I'm team Mosa, I'm team Kelseyand I don't know if y'all watched,
you know, the games this pastSunday, but we're good to the Bowl
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and Ley we're going because we're gonnasupport our boyfriend. I really would love
to go. How those tickets areso high? Huh? You know,
I feel like I know a guythat might be able to get his stick.
It's true. Oh my god,you're so right. We could totally
go to the super Bowl. Wecould go and all were at Bosa Jersey
and you wear a Kelsey jersey allday every day. Baby. Okay,
wait, wait, y'all might bewitnessing something good on right now. We
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haven't talked about this yet. Thisis the first time I say we do
it. I mean, I saywe shoot that text. Oh, let
me do that just real quick rightnow. And I'm just kidding. Hopefully
he's listening to this, and thenmaybe we could all go to the super
Bowl. Rick, Yes, okay, per would be so fun. Anything
else that you did this weekend orthis past week, I'm pulling up our
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I had a girl spotlight for theweek. I've been working all weekend.
I worked eleven and a half hoursyesterday. Right, So we're doing inventory
in our shop, and basically thatmeans every single item in our entire shop,
like every little part, every littlelug nut, all of it has
to be counted. So we're workingon her off days. I'm getting paid
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overtime, but still, I mean, at least, yeah, my paycheck's
gonna look kind of sweet. Butyeah, eleven and a half hours yesterday.
I wanted it at nine, didn'tleave to all. So that's why
you have a ghost For those whodon't know, she's shrinking a ghost energy
right now, which if you haven'thad a freaking love ghost energy, They're
so good. It's my favorite.This is straw Bango Margarito and the cans
are pretty. It kind of makesa difference. Now. I understand designing
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digital media, graphic design all thatlike something I would love to do for
work. But I mean, whenyou go into a gas station and say
you don't know much about energy drinks, you're gonna buy what looks best.
Yeah, it looks amazing. Itlooks fruity and tasty and five calories heck
to the yeah. But yeah,after this, I have to go back
to work. I'm working it stilltoday. Oh my gosh. You know
what me have to do? Youget off tomorrow or anything, You go
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straight into the week. I gostraight into the week. So I've worked
from last Tuesday and I will workevery day till next Saturday. Oh it's
okay. Well, let's kind ofget into some highlighting some women, because
I mean we share, like you, Dad, gem all this freaking work.
Oh no, but we have asubmission from actually don't know who it's
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from, your husband, Rebecca.Rebecca, I think it's Corey. Is
that how you would say that,Corey? I think so, Rebecca,
Corey. Your husband actually nominated you. He said that you are truly amazing.
That you'll have two babies, twounder two. Oh goodness, God
bless you. Yeah, which incredible, that you left your job to make
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sure that your kids are taken careof, which being a mother is one
of the hardest jobs in the world, and that you do it with no
complaints, you kick but and that, yeah, you're just freaking amazing.
And I think a lot of people, you know, we get in these
talks of what do we want todo one day, and a lot of
girls are like, oh, I'dlove to just be a stay at home
mom, and it's I don't thinkthey realize what they're saying. No,
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And it's not one of those thingswhere it's like it's gonna be a stay
at home like, no, youyou work your tail off as a stay
at home mom. Have you heardthat song Mister Mom where he loses his
job and so he stays at home. His wife goes to work, and
he's like being mister mom. Nah, I don't know the words, uh
sweet potato and the baby's chair.But anyways, he's just talking about how
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being at home as a mom,because that's the thing, like, for
instance, me, Yeah, Iget to clock out and be done with
my day. I get to leavemy office. Yes, I get to
leave it there for the next morning. Stay at home mom. You work
twenty four hours. You don't getit. You don't get paid. No,
yeah, you don't get paid.You're not You're not paid for babysitting
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your own kids. No, youjust take care of your kids, like
twenty four seven. You can't clockout of that. You can't be like
I'm putting y'all in this room.I don't know what's gonna happen to you,
But I need a moment. Ohyou can, but you can put
it without it. You can't dothat without anxiety. Yeah, you know
it in your heart. Man,I'm not and a good mother right now.
So and I mean all of thecooking and cleaning when you're home all
day and you're kid, you're home, and the messes that are made and
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just it's I don't know, it'scan I say something this might be a
hot topic, and I apologize it'sokay. I don't enjoy the idea of
a woman, even if she choosesto stay home, like that's best for
their family. I don't enjoy theman coming home. It's not helping out
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around the house because the idea intheir head is you've been home all day.
I agree, And it's also there'sa difference for me too. I'm
such a doer and gift giver andserver, that's just my nature. But
as soon as it's an expectation forme to be doing that, I'm out.
Yeah. I agree. If youcome home and you expect everything to
be cooked, cleaned, and foryou to not pitch in, Yeah,
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that's not how this works. Becauseit's also like the whole clocking out thing,
like, yeah, as the husband, you get to clock out at
the end of your day, andthen you get to rest when you get
home. Yeah, your wife,when does she rest? Yeah, that's
it. That's a very good point. When does she rest? I think
when you get home from your whateveryou do, whether it's no taxing on
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your body, whatever it is,like, I think both of you need
rest though, And I don't thinkit should be expected that you get to
come home and sit on your ass. I agree. I think that's a
great point. I mean, that'sa great point, I think to full
circus, Yes, right on backto miss Rebecca, you are do an
awesome girl, and there needs tobe a lot more women like you who
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are kicking butt with no complaints andyes, doing the damn thing. And
then I think there needs to bemore men like your husband who appreciate you
and are wanting to recognize how awesomeyou are at what you do, no
matter what that looks like. Agree, we love a supportive man. We
love a supportive man, and asupportive man no matter what it is you
are doing. You could be abaker baking cupcakes and your husband better be
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like you know what, my wifemakes the best, yes, cupcakes?
Like I agree, a supportive manall of the way. Thank you,
Rebecca, Thank you, mister Rebeccafor raising our future leaders. We appreciate
you, We appreciate all the moms. Yes, awesome. Kind of going
off of that into needing some moresupportive men. I'm not sure who started
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this trend on TikTok, but ifit was a man, dam minute.
Whoever it was Oh, you're manwho created this trend. Listen, y'all.
I pull up my TikTok and Isee this girl talking about legging legs,
like what the And I was like, mom, what are legging legs?
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And she goes, I was actuallyabout to ask you the same thing.
It was all over her feed.So we start looking into it and
I find a video explaining what legginglegs are. So, if you don't
know what legging legs are, theseare legs that apparently only look good and
leggings. So if you don't havethese type of legs, then you don't
have legging legs. And that meansa thigh gap. A thigh gap,
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thigh gap are legging leg So like, so we don't have legging legs.
Yeah, I'm wearing leggings right now. I wear them all that yesterday because
yeah, you don't. You don'thave legging legs, so you're not supposed
to wear it. Okay, wellthat sucks, Yes, it's too bad.
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Yeah. So now, man,think about all the stores that are
going to go out of business becauseonly legging legs can go buy leggings,
oh my gosh. Or maybe they'regoing to make them extra compressions, So
maybe they make a thigh gap,maybe you pass out from them being so
tight, but at least you havelegging legs. And so women are uncomfortable
in their own bodies again, Yes, and little girls are going to stop
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wearing leggings to school to practice asathletes. Oh my gosh, if you
have a female, you know,what do you wear to the gym?
Wow? I wonder if they're goingto turn into what about shorts? How
does that apply with shorts? Canyou wear like hispanic shorts? If you
have a thigh gap? I don'tknow you're gonna have spandex legs or No.
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I don't feel like that's going toturn into a whole other thing.
Maybe just sweat pants. I thinkto hide them, probably just because if
you can't show them because you don'thave a high gap. I'm feeling feisty.
I feel like I could just likelike I'm hated up right now because
just this is a whole new thingwhere women have to feel uncomfortable in their
freaking bodies. And you're just strollingwhat you're scrolling on TikTok and you're seeing
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this, imagine think about him,how impressionable you are as a female,
Like I mean, I take thingsand I run with it, especially in
middle school in high school. Andif I see on my phone all these
girls that have these skinny legs,which props to you, you go grow,
That's something. Though I'm not sayingthere is anything like thigh gaps.
Yeah, No, thigh gap beautifulno matter what, legs are powerful things
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and it doesn't matter what they looklike. I'm just saying if I'm sitting
there because I've never had a thighgap and I'm looking at all these girls
with these skinny legs with thigh gap, I feel like a thigh gap too,
is more genetics get anything. Imean that can be your hips.
Like for me, I don't havewide hips. I have an athletic frame,
so I do not have white hips. I don't care how sky my
legs are. I don't have wideenough of hips for my legs not to
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touch. Yeah, they're gonna touch. Like I'm not just the thinnest girl
in the world. But I thinkeven if I got down to my thinness
that my body could be Yeah,I would not have a thy gap.
I'm not built like no, andit takes me back. I was at
the beach this summer and I madea TikTok. Oh, got you know
when you get a bubble in yourthroat? Yes, sorry, the high
pitch just gone. We are thebeach and we were walking, me and
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my mom, and I was like, oh my gosh, I'm making TikTok
about this. I just got inthe water and my my legs are chafing
because I got the water and we'regoing for a chalk and I have Donner's
Thyes and yeah, so I makea video. My mom was like,
do not post that. I waslike, why, it's funny, it's
real. It's my thunder thighs chafing. And she's never been to the beach
at non chain. Yeah, andshe's like, you don't have thunder thyes.
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I'm like I do. It's okay, it's funny. And so I
posted it blew up like million andeveryone is talking about thunder thighs and how
beautiful thunder thighs are or girl,you don't have thunder thighs and what whatever,
thunder thighs or not. I don'thave a gap. There's chaffing going
on while I walk because my thighsrub past one another. Can we just
say, if you have legs,you have legging legs. Yeah, because
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it doesn't matter. I'm so overthis. Put leggings on your legs.
You have legging legs. Leggings,Hi, dah, surprise, you've got
them. They're there, just likeif you if you have a body,
you have a bikini body. Yeah, it doesn't freaking matter. And I'm
so sick. I'm just heated rightnow because I'm sick of like literally I
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can't buy or be trendy or likeget the coolest thing because of something about
me. Yeah shut up, yeah, shut up. Yeah if I think
something's cute, even the legging thing, like they're the most comfortable pants for
women on the market and working out, and so are we discouraging people from
working out too? So they alreadydon't have legging legs, but don't wear
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them because you have you obviously don'thave a thigh gap. But oh,
don't get work out in them either. Don't try to get that thigh gap
because you can't wear leggings. Let'sjust discourage all women. It's so stupid
and it's probably coming from the samemen that don't brush their teeth in the
morning you're you're not wrong, andyou have cheeto dust on their fingers from
the night before. Yeah, shutup, it better not be. You
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know how sad I'll be if thisdid come from women. Oh yeah,
I'll be pissed. I could seeit, though, I guess, because
okay, I just I can seeit. But I just don't get you
because here's my thing. So Iposted a video on my TikTok about it,
because I mean, I was like, well, I don't legging legs,
but you you're going right, I'mwon't be wearing leggings and I'm not
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gonna not wear leggings because I don'thave a thigh gap. Like that is
the stupidest thing I've ever I've neverI've never even heard a trend so stupid,
like it blew my mind. Sothen I'm like, what the Heck's
I post this video and everyone's goingon and on and on about how thunder
thighs and thick thighs save lives,ear muffs come whatever with those thighs,
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you know whatever. So then I'mlike, well, what are the body
trends? Like I don't even knowwhat what's going on? And you look
up the ideal body to like twothousand and eight to now, and this
is what makes no sense to me. It is big boobs, big butt,
small waist and a thigh gap.Please explain to me how someone is
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built like that. Care cannot theyare They're not built like that. It's
not natural. You cannot have allof that. More power to you.
If you're built like that, you'renot. That's insane. K here surgery,
which is just fine. It let'sbe realistic. It's the a man's
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standard. And like you don't seelike understand like men have the arguments like
they want tall, like full headof hair, whatever, push poosh,
because you don't see women. Okay, I'm sure you do. I'm sure
there's bad apples in each Yeah,you know whatever. But I feel like
it's so much less common to seea video of a woman being like,
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yeah, we don't like this aboutmen's bodies and y'all need to fix this,
and y'all shouldn't wear this and whatever. When have you seen that?
What trends do they have that theycan and can't wear? You're still wearing
cargo shorts and we're saying nothing aboutit. You wear a Superman t shirt
daily and we say nothing because whogives a shit you like it, wear
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it. We don't care if youare a convent, walk around and whatever.
That's what's cute. Oh he thinkshe looks good in that. I
like that exactly. You have.Uh, it just makes me ill.
No, it's ridiculous. It makesme really ill because like, we don't
constantly shit on you all the time. No, And it's like we're constantly
held to this standard and it's justit sucks. And social media has made
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it twenty times worse than it usedto be because TikTok, Instagram, everything
you see is a highlight reel.You see all of these girls. You
don't know they could post the mostamazing bikini picture. You don't know what
work they've got done, and youdon't know how miserable they might be in
their life to have that body,and you have no idea what they have
going on behind the scenes medical wisetoo. Yeah, like that's a whole
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other issue in topic, like justshut up. That's like. I was
watching a podcast last night. Itwas Alex Earl's podcast about her boob job,
and I was just curious for mepersonally, I'm wonna be completely honest.
It's one thing I've always wanted Iwill never get done because I don't
want to change my body. It'sjust obviously being an athlete and being small
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tested you're always like, man,I wish i'd boobs like I was that
girl in middle school looking up howto grow your boobs. Okay, these
massages, circling this way, thisway, Oh, eating flax seeds or
all mints. I mean I didall of the pills that were not gonna
do a thing, so I andshe was talking about that in her video.
Was like, dang, that wasme too. But one thing that
I loved, I loved is shewas like, I will never hide what
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I've gotten done because girls look upto me exactly, and I want them
to know. Okay, if youwish you looked like me, but here's
why I look like this. Hereare the things I've gotten done. Yeah,
because when when people just post allthis stuff and they're not upfront honest,
you look at it and you're like, well, I don't look like
that. And that's like that wholeOzimpic and Manjaro, that whole topic.
Yep, no one needs to know, no, But if you are coming
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online and saying like I've lost thisin this way, and people are commenting
like, oh my god, how, Oh my god, how, and
you're sending them like, oh,I just eat healthy and shoot them like
a workout plan. Uh. I'mpissed. Yes, I don't like that,
because you're there's a whole like,no one has to know your medical
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history, no one has to know. But like if people are looking up
to you and asking like, howdid you get here? How can I
get here? You're an one here. I want to follow the steps that
you've taken so that my body lookslike yours, And you're leaving out a
huge, huge section of information.It's unrealistic for everyone else exactly you're and
then when people try what you tellthem and they fail you make it,
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they're just ten times worse. They'relike, oh, I'm not I'm not
working as hard as she did.Apparently, Yeah, I'm not. I
don't whatever. No, it's ridiculous, unrealistic, and it's discouraging. And
that's why I just have such aproblem with this whole social media TikTok,
these trends, because if you wantto put yourself out there and say all
this stuff, you better be real, you better be honest, you better
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be open and I and it's likefor me, I don't care what work
you done your body. Hell I'vegotten I don't care. I've got botox
in my forehead to help with myringkles. I got it in my TMJ,
like I am not gonna hide that. But anything, I've never gotten
anything else and I don't think I'llever get anything else. Have I gotten
my hair done? Yes? Right, But I'm not because if any if
there is a chance that one littlegirl is like, dang, she looks
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like this and I don't and I'vegot all this fake stuff done to me,
right, that is not fair tothat little girl, no to compare
herself to something that's not real.And that's fine that you're not real like
I. And that's the hard thingtoo, is for me personally, is
I'm so big on being authentic,being real and being natural. But then
you're like, oh, but Iwish I did kind of look like this,
or I wish I could change itfor myself. But then it's it's
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where do you find that line ofsaying natural but then also wanting to be
a little more confident and yeah,we're confidence comes from not outwards, so
you just kind of reel yourself backin. But on something like this where
legging legs, and that's not someonegetting work done, that's just genetic or
weight loss to have legs that havea thigh gap. And I think it's
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very dangerous to put these standards ongirls, yes, because I mean young
girls especially are so impressionable. Imean that could lead to like a whole
like forcing a thigh gap on yourselfcould lead to like a whole like eating
disorder. I mean, because terrible. You have to be really thin if
you're not built and yeah, ifyour body is not built to have a
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thigh gap genetically, you have tobe very thin to force your body to
have because also just unnaturally thin peopledon't. You can't spot remove fat.
That thing too Oh my gosh,Okay, I need this thigh gap.
So we're going to We're gonna runor walk or whatever to lose all this
on your thighs. And guess what, you might lose it in your tumbeing,
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in your arms, and your yourlegs might stay the same the rest
of your life. You can't spotremove fat, so it's just a toxic
And so next thing, you know, you're losing all this weight and it's
not doing a thing for what youactually want it to. And that's just
ridiculous to have those expectations because growingup, I mean, I've always had
muscular legs, but I've never hada thigh gap. And there was a
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period of time because that's where Igain all my weight. Yeah, that's
the first place I gain it,and so that was the last place I
lose it. Yeah, And Iremember in high school guys always giving me
a hard time about how thick mythighs were. And the guy who was
eight at the time, he wasalways so supportive and encouraging about my body,
but his friends, his teammates wouldalways give me so much shit for
my legs, and it bothered mebecause they were joking, but it was
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one of my biggest insecurities. Andthen to say all that, and say
all that, and say all that, and so I've always always been insecure
about my legs until probably the pastlike two years, and then to see
something like this, and I'm like, now, because the past two years
I've been praised for my legs thatI have Carrie Underwood like legs, not
quite as Selena's first but Carrie Underwoodlegs. But I don't have a thigh
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gap, so I don't have legginglegs. It's ridiculous. It's dangerous and
it's wrong, and I just itmakes me mad when there's just like another
trend that's shitting on women and it'slike like why. But also, guys,
I need. This is a callto all men. Please please encourage
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healthy women. Please please praise beautifulthick thighs. I mean, there is
nothing these guys that are asking formy legs to be ear muffs. Please
keep asking. No really, Imean, because I'm not gonna lie like
it makes me not that I'm like, oh yeah, come here, put
yeah, let me warm those earsup. No, that's not what I
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mean. But I mean it aslike you make me feel comfortable in my
skin, and it shouldn't be.It shouldn't take other people making me feel
comfortable in my skin. But whenit's taking people that people are making you
uncomfortable in your skin, it isgonna take other people to bring you back
in. Yeah. Yeah, Soguys please and women, let's love on
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each other and praise all body types. Yeah, because everyone is insecure about
a different thing, Like I havelike friends who think they're overweight, and
I have also friends who think they'reway too skinny and like try to put
on it and like it's a wholeit's like the same insecurity whole other issue,
like you know what I mean,And like just no one one of
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the time feels one hundred percent comfortablein their own school in it. So
just can we stop making it harder? Yeah, everybody? And then and
the thing is, that's crazy aswe always forget that the grass is always
greener. So for me, it'sso easy for me to put on muscle
my whole life. I've always beenbuilt, work out a little bit there
it goes. It's easy for meto put on weight too. But there
are so many girls who cannot puton muscle and cannot put on weight to
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say their lives. And I takethat for granted when I have, like
my thin friends will be I strugglewith this in high school a lot because
my thin friends would be like,oh my gosh, like I look bad
in this, and I'm in myhead like, oh if only I had
that issue, Like if only youthought I would looked too thin? Yeah,
Like I just I couldn't. Mybrain would not no process that,
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and I had to really learn,like everybody's going to have their own insecurity,
whether you agree with it or not, you know what I mean?
Yeah, and just stop putting somuch pressure on it, and let's stop,
like, please, let's stop thislegging legs trend. I want to
see as many women in leggings aspossible. Yes, please post post pictures,
post videos, and tag us.Please tag at a girl. And
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I would love to encourage you tokeep wearing those dad gam likings because you
look beautiful in them. If youhave legs, you have ligging legs?
Yes, because what what even doesthat mean? Who said that? Oh?
My freaking goodness. I just can't. But we're sorry, are we
kind of ranted today? We're justsorry, and I apologize. Sorry.
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It's ridiculous. It is ridiculous.I just don't understand why it's trendy to
make people feel like shit, Yeah, it's why exactly, you know,
you know what it is Confident womendon't tear other women down. So this
is coming from insecure people who it'smaking them feel like which this might come
off across wrong, and I don'tmean it how it's gonna say, it's
probably someone who has a thigh gap, super thin, who wishes she could
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be thicker. And maybe she's like, well, I have liking legs and
you don't. Maybe could? Younever know, But I'm just saying.
Confident people don't tear other people down. So let's love on each other,
build each other up. I mean, be comfortable in your own skin.
And oh my gosh, thunder thighssave lives. I agree, Like,
rock your leggings. They're so freakingcomfortable. Who cares ass looks great?
(26:12):
Your ass will always look great.Gosh, and even if they're not squat
proof, guys love that. Yeah, wear are those dad gum leggings?
Please agreed? Well, we lovey'all at a girl gang. This has
been so much fun and you arebeautiful, so beautiful. All be confident.
(26:32):
Ignore all of the outside noise that'sstupid. Yeah, love yourself and
speak up and speak out against it. Please have a voice, because you
do have a voice, and useit. Everybody does. Yeah, but
we love y'all. Thanks for listeningwhere you can't wait for next week?
Bye y'all, Bye,