A Gut Cleanse, Being on Reality TV, and HOT Concerts

This week Sisanie is on a GUT CLEANSE... and if you're wondeirng what on earth a gut cleanse is - so was Erica. Sisanie also talks about getting her puppy Diego into show business, and the pair wonder if they could handle being on reality TV. Plus, Erica reveals the event she went to that everyone should attend, and Sisanie debates what to wear to the winter's hottest concert - literally.

Episode Transcript

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So then I said, what aboutbreakfast at Siceny's. Well, that's one
thing. We got time to sitback, relax and indulge in your weekly
tea. Welcome to breakfast at sicins. We are back. Hey, it's
Sisney and Erica. Hello. Onthis International Women's Week, is that it's
not actually International Women's Week, right, let's just call it that Friday is

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actually International Women's Day. But youknow, we should be celebrated at all
times. How are you guys celebratingat work? Are you doing anything like
fun that you can that you cantease? We will be a little bit
more women themed, I guess forFriday Show, and I will be sharing

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my story of how I got intomy career essentially, Oh cute love that,
yeah, yeah, and we'll betalking about women that inspire us and
things like that. So it's kindof the theme for Friday Show. Okay.
It's interesting because sometimes at least Idon't know if it's our company or

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just companies in general, but it'sdifferent for us because we're a broadcasting company.
But it was very much kind oflike, oh, it's International Women's
Day, like let the women almostlike lead the conversation more or this and
that whatever, or it was almostlike they take the mic more in a

(01:32):
weird way. It's as if we'rebeing forced to work more. Yes,
like men got the day off andwe were like, huh okay, So
that doesn't like sit well with meat least. Yeah, and a lot
of people that I spoke to,So nothing is going to change as far
as our show goes, Like Ryan'sstill going to be on with us,
and it's it's not going to belike any different in the sense of just

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the topics that we're choosing to discussthat day. And I think that's fine.
Or give us the whole day offand give us a spa treatment day
and you know, to make somethingthat like really kind of like whatever.
But how about I don't know,uice in. I'm gonna share that with
my coworkers. Hey, guys,what if I got a massage during the
show. It's not a bad idea. I remember when I went on maternity

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leave with the twins and I cameback and you guys surprised me with like
someone that was giving me like afacial and then during the show, during
the show, it was amazing.I'm like, I'm yeah, I'm mad.
At that idea. I mean,we'd be pampered in that way.
Great, But but as far asI'm to like work extra, it's like,

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I don't know if that's the rightmessage. Yeah, no, my
take, you know, teach theirown. It's been a busy week in
our household. And by busy,I mean I have, like my schedule
at work has just been like alittle bit like fluctuated this week. And
that being said, I'm I'm doinga cleanse. And I don't know if

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you've ever done a cleans before.I did, like a soup cleanse back
in college, but I don't.I don't really do cleanses. And I
saw you post this, and I'mreally curious. So I've done a few,
like throughout my adult life. I'vedone a full on juice cleanse,
one where it's just liquids. It'snot even maybe it was soups, but

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like very very blended soups, likeno hard food whatsoever. It was just
like a liquid diet for like threedays. And then and I did that
probably in my early twenties. Andthen I've done a few like cleanses here
there, just like a bottle ortube and nothing gnarly remember one time you
came to visit and I had justdone a cleanse with like bad news bears.

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No, I literally don't remember younot remember this, Okay, I
don't think you had moved yet,or maybe you were already lived in San
Diego, but you came up tovisit for the weekend or whatever, and
I was just like, I don'tknow what is going on, Like my
stomach hurts so bad. And thenand then I remember that I had taken
one of the press juices like they'recleanse one that morning, and you were
like, why do I feel likethis? And It's like maybe because you're

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forcing things out of you so thatit's funny because I went to get my
nails done last Friday, and it'sright next door to where I get my
nails done, so I was like, oh, I'm going to get a
juice. I should just you know, get like a green juice made.
I'm like kind of kickstart the cleanseprocess because I'm going to start my cleans
on Monday. And I saw thatjuice and I'm just reminded me. I
was just like, oh my gosh, I'm taking the picture and sent it

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to you, like not remember areyour nails right now. My nails,
Oh, they're like a like anude maybe, oh okay, mine are
like a lavender. But in thecamera they look very similar. And I
was like, we can't be doingthis again. Yeah. Last time our
nails was like fully matched. Yeah, but that was because I saw yours
and I literally cat Yes, that'strue. Okay, but but the gut

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cleanse you're doing, so this oneis specific to the gut and you know,
rying on it in my head thatand we carry around up to fifteen
pounds of extra fecal matter that wedo not need to carry around. I
saw this on Instagram, And whileI respect him educating you about this,

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I'm also kind of like, whyare we talking so much about this?
The word fecal. I have aproblem with it. Aha. It doesn't
sit well with me, and Idon't appreciate it for normal vocabulary. But
yeah, it came up a lotlast week because he was doing a gut
cleanse, and so we had thespecialist who was providing him, you know,

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like told him about that specific gutcleanse. He was on with us
talking about everything, yeahd YadA orwhatever. So I wanted to do the
one that he was doing, butit was like so intense. It was
it was just a lot of preparingand I just won't have the time.
So I'm like, I need onethat'll be delivered to me. And Tanya,
who I do the show with,a well, she suggested one that

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she found and she she's like,I want to do this with me,
and I was like, all right, I'm down. And her name is
Alissa Goodman. You can look ather on Instagram. That's her handle,
and she has the different types ofcleanses. There was just like normal cleanses
and then this was the gut onespecific. I wanted to just do a
three day because I know me,and like five days is like it's five
days, and she didn't have adut cleanse for five days. I'm sure

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I could have like probably curated oneand it's probably not too far off of
what the one I'm doing. ButI was like whatever, I'm going all
in, let's do the five days. Here we go and it's really great,
like Okay, I'm halfway through itand I feel great. It's not
tearing up my stomach to where I'mlike in the going to the bathroom every
five minutes, like it's really smooth, for lack of a better word,

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process perfect. Thank you for that. Are you eating any food? Yes?
So okay, so she provides youand I don't know one like near
me, but think comes in glassjars. So the tonic that you have
to drink in the morning, whichis like a lemonea water with like a
turmeric and who knows what else isin the pribabe garlic and whatnot. You

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drink that in the morning. Shetells you to like take like I have
to take a charcolate pill in themorning, probiotic enzymes, magnesium at night,
and those are kind of like thevitamins. And then once you take
the the water or the tonic waterlemon water, you're drinking regular water throughout
the day. Okay. Half ofyour weight by the way, in ounces,

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did you know that? Oh yeah, I drink more than half my
weight mounts. Yes. And thenthen there's like other there's like a chia
pudding for like your morning breakfast typething of food, and then yeah,
there's like blueberries in it. Andthen amazing salads. The salads have been
like because I think maybe because you'rejust drinking so much like where you're like
when you look forward to the salad, you're like, oh, this is

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delicious, Like, yeah, okay, what's like in the salad? Well,
yesterday's, for example, had lentil, it had grapefruit, it had
just I don't even know what itmaybe like some sort of like uh,
zucchini that was like spirally but alsolike kind of like noodlely yeah, but
not. But it was also Ithink pickled, like it had been marinated

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in something delicious, and a fewother ingredients, oh, chickpeas were in
that salad, and then the dressingwas like a pesto vinaigrette. Okay,
love, it was delicious, I'mtelling you. And so then you do
that for lunch, and then youdo another like broth mid afternoon, and
then you do a soup for dinnerthat has like chunky ingredients like I had
like a butternut squash type soup lastnight, and it had some sort of

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like cabbagey thing in there, thebutternut squash, other things. This all
really sounds like the stuff that justgoes into you and pulls everything else out.
It really well, that's what I'vebeen experiencing. But like I said,
in a very pleasant manner like.It hasn't been on comfortable by any
means. I don't know if you'veever liked, back in the day,

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taken a laxative and it like wakesyou up in the middle of the night
and you're like, Holy mother,what is that pain in my stomach?
I can't say I've had that experience. Don't wish that experience on anybody.
And so yeah, it's nothing likethat, like nothing like that at all,
which I'm happy for being that Istill have to function with you know,

(09:24):
society this week and like you stillhave children exactly. Yeah, but
I yeah, I know. Itold my kids and my family. I
was just like, Mommy's not gonnabe eating the dinner with you guys this
week. I'll still eat with them, and I'll have my soup and then
like right, they're having Actually lastnight we had we all had soup.
They had lentil soup, and thenI had my soup that I had.
But you know, it's not badand I recommend it so far. So

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do you feel like you will losethose fifteen pounds no fecal matter, I
don't know. Look, and theysaid it's anywhere from like five to fifteen.
So Okay, you know, Icould be on the lower end or
higher or whatever. I don't I'mnot necessarily doing this to like lose weight.
I'm doing this to just feel betterand kind of truly cleanse my gut

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and hopefully make it so that I'mnot craving sugar. Like I'm like,
that's my biggest thing is that Icrave sugar or I crave a glass of
wine every night, and I'm andthat's I need to just break that cycle.
And so I'm hoping that this islike a hard reset because in the
past it has helped me and youknow, but it's it's so funny because

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like just like an hour ago,my boss came in my office and she
was wearing she was eating like it'slike a protein pancake and she has like
turkey bacon and it like smelled sogood, Like why I really like to
have some of that, thank you. But at the end of the day,
this cleanse and like the cleanses thatshe has on her website if you
look her up, uh, areall just this. It's the shit that

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we know, Like it's like wholefoods, grains like all that stuff that
like this's good and healthy for you. If you can eat like that every
single day, then of course you'regoing to eventually feel fantastic and probably lose
some weight. Right if you startincorporating some of these things, like a
lentil soup or whatever you were sayingwas well soup, Actually we make that

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on the reg at our house.Oh, I mean, like the lentils
in the salady. Yes, yes, like more of the like fibers and
the whole filling. Yeah, it'sprobably really good for you to do that
more often. It's just I Idon't know if it's pure laziness or being
uneducated or mixture of both, butI love the fact that this is delivered

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at my doorstep right before, youknow, So that's cool every day,
the Sunday, so Sunday night,was they delivered the first three days,
and then tonight Wednesday, they'll deliverthe next two days. Okay, got
it? Got it gone. Imean I think that it's like, if
you're going to commit to doing somethinglike this, you have to be fully

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prepared. So that's the part ofit that's so nice that it's just delivered.
Yeah, I know, but it'slike, I don't know that you
can keep up that lifestyle. Yeah, no, you can't do this like
wance. You can't do this everysingle week. But like god, that
like pesto vinigarette, Like can Ijust learn how to make that? Or
I can that be delivered? Right? Yeah? You can probably figure out

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how to make it. Yeah,I'm just too busy, Erica. I
would bike under my desk for God'ssakes. Okay, well, why don't
you get your husband to learn howto make the pestove Vanigratt because that man
is definitely a cooking influencer these days. Are you peddling? I just did
right now, But I wasn't pedalingearlier. But yes, I'm still peddling

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every day. Four hundred calories atmy desk. Four hundred. That's not
good. I'm telling you. It'slike great, my legs are feeling.
I feel as if they're getting alittle bit stronger. Remember how we discussed
that I would do like a beforeand after picture, probably just like for
my own personal use. So Ilike, I took it of me and
then horrible angle you could possibly imagineto take up before picture only because I

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was like, if I don't dothis now, I'm gonna forget and I'm
probably never gonna do it, solet me just at least have this.
Okay, So you took it.I took it, but I took it
here at work in the stall whileI was not going to the bathroom.
But like once I stood up andmy pants are still like at my ankle,
What you didn't do this like ina mirror? No, no,
no, And I just took itlike like like a shot like that,

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like shooting down like cropping my crotchout, but just kind of like focusing
on the thighs and like and likewhatever cell you let is present, and
then that's what I really want tosee. I want to see it like
if the cellulight disappears or if itgets better or whatever. Right, I
am not sure that anyone will everlook good from that angle. Like,
I don't know what you're thinking here. Well, what I'm thinking is if

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there's any improvement from this god awfulangle, then it's working. Oh my
gosh, if it's working by theend of the month. Do you think
you'll do this for a long termsolution. I don't think this desk thing
is gonna leave. Like, Ithink this is just nice you know,
it's just great little like circulation inthe legs. And yeah, I am

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happy as can be with this littleguy. I'm very happy for you.
I'm thrilled. Are you cycling now? Yeah, no, it's cycling.
Oh my gosh. It's good times. Everybody that I speak to about this,
they ask one hundred questions because they'rejust as intrigued as I am.
And I wouldn't be surprised if there'smultiple cyclists in the next few weeks here
down the hall. Multiple Yeah,mark my words. You know. I

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was joking that I was going tostart doing or I said I was going
to start trying to do push upsevery day, and I realized I have
not done a single push up sincewe discussed that. I haven't either.
Yeah. It's hard, it's hard. It's weird. You gotta get all
the way on the ground trying thetable ones. I I'll get a few
of them, and like at duringthe morning show, Yeah, I mean

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I could do you're sitting, butlike sometimes I have to stand. I'm
sitting for too long for the show. Oh yeah, yeah yeah, And
then so when I'm standing, Ijust like knocks them out. It's not
bad our puppy Diego is coming along. I'm so I'm counting down the days
that I can start walking him publicly. Yeah, when does that happen?

(15:24):
Like two more weeks? Okay,so right now, backyard dog we'll do
a few times, like in ourfront yard because they're a big grass like
patch area in the front. Andbut yeah, it's like anytime we're out
there when of our neighbors will comeout like with their dog and somewhere was
like, no, no, no, I don't know what the rules are,
you know, I'm just trying tobe safe here. So he to

(15:46):
get some more shots. He needsto get another round of shots, and
I think after that he'll be goodto go. Okay, Okay, that's
exciting. Have you enrolled him inany acting classes yet? Oh? Funny
you ask no. But people havereached out to his Instagram. I received
multiple offers and I'm still currently shoppingaround. I haven't committed to anybody,

(16:07):
may for what like agency representation,not agents, but companies that want him
to be their ambassador. And whatif I'm being honest, I feel as
if they're just like not like he'sabove these companies maybe like because they just
maybe not big companies right, likethey don't have as many followers. But
I'm like, does he need tohave a start like this, Like maybe

(16:29):
he starts with these smaller companies.I don't know what does it mean for
a dog to be an ambassador toa company. I didn't get much info
from a lot of them, butone of them that I was kind of
intrigued with, they basically said that, like they would post him on their
Instagram and then in return, wewould obviously like post or tag them.
They would send him like whatever topuppy treats and puppy toys, probably things

(16:52):
like that, and we would andyou would like make content with him exactly.
But it's just like a lot oflike I barely can do that stuff
for myself right now, so it'sjust like adding, Okay, well that
would be like another full time job. May we return to your husband,
who now officially has more Instagram followersthan me? Oh? Does that sting
a little? No? I'm notmarried to you, and you are much

(17:17):
more successful on Instagram than I am, so I can understand why people would
follow him. But like, Ifeel like he's really into making content.
Yeah, he loves it. Yeah, so you could put him on the
dog duty. I would love to, I honestly want. There's a show
that I saw the kids are watchingNetflix the other day, maybe a Netflix
or whatever other streamer, but therewas an actual like dog agent reality show

(17:41):
or something like that, and itwas about like an agency that's looking for
dogs. It was like, whatis this company? I need to know
about them? I mean there's dogsin so many like films and all that,
But like, is that the lifeyou want? I don't, And
I'm like I almost feel like that'snot the life I want for him,
Like he's a be a happy doghere in the backyard. I'm just sleeping

(18:03):
on my lap. Well, Iwatched The Housewives Reunion part one, and
you know, that's just like thelife that I kind of want for him.
But which Housewives Reunion? Beverly Hills. I don't watch it. I'm
sorry, I know I don't,which makes no sense because like you lived
around the corner from Rely Hills.I love any reality shows that are based
out of LA I'm like, yeah, sucker for them. I get that,

(18:29):
and I watch them sometimes with myboyfriend and I'll tell him like,
oh, well, I lived likefive minutes from there and it's definitely probably
annoying to him, but yeah,well and it's and you recognize all the
places and right, I mean obviouslylike Beverly Hills, they're just like beyond
next level, like the stuff theypurchase and by like unrealistic for the average
person. But it's still nice towatch and the season was good. It

(18:52):
was a lot of drums, butyou know, we should discuss what the
Valley are you gonna watch? Okay, I like didn't know about the Valley
until I saw that Jackson Brittany haveseparated question Mark and that they're going to
be on that show and it obviouslyalready filmed, and I'm like, what
are they going to do? Andshe was stopped by TMZ or someone the

(19:15):
other day and they asked her,what's your response to everyone thinking that you're
doing this for pr like as apublicity stunt. Yeah, and she's like,
absolutely not, Like why would Iput my life, myself and my
son through that this is not.So that's a speculation that people kind of
assumed because of the timing of whenthey announced this and just a fuse the

(19:37):
Valley. I believe it comes outin like a couple weeks maybe the sixteenth,
oh March nineteenth, oh nineteenth,okay, yeah, yeah so whatever,
maybe maybe not, but like asa and of course I do like
a psychodeep dive. I was like, what was the last time she was
like put them on her Instagram becauseshe changed her Instagram back to Cartwright,

(19:59):
right, or she dropped his lastname. I think it was always Britney
krt right, but she had Tayloron there. Yeah, And so I
wanted to see like almost the lasttime. And I think February like ninth
or something. It was the lastpicture they had together. No, but
they she had posted like a reelfrom their podcast, but the podcast they're
still doing. So she's she's talkingabout how she's still gonna do the podcast

(20:22):
with him, how I was twentiethOkay, the last post. But then
what was her last like public appearancetogether. Well on a first glance,
November fifth, Oh really was itthat late? Maybe? Yeah, we
make up my Dictuary ninth was apodcast video. Oh, and that's what
I was thinking of, maybe,but you're right, there's an earlier one.

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So she said, we're still goingto do the show, We're still
gonna do the podcast. We're stillgoing to very much still. And there
they have the bar, Jackson's Barin Studio City. What you didn't know
this Jackson has a bar. Ohmy gosh, yeah, I've been there.
Oh it's cute. It's like pubby, like small, okay, cute.

(21:08):
So there's that. And so she'svery much still. It's not the
co parent, but they're not divorcing. They are separated at this time,
right right. I think she saidsomething like JACKX needs to make some changes.
I don't know if those are theexact words, but something along those

(21:29):
lines. Let's be honest. Ifwe watched fan of pump Rolls, we
know he probably has a bad habit. She must have known that too,
So it's I know, okay,But the Valley Kristen Dodie and her boyfriend
right not her husband, are goingto be in it as well. Do
you know any of the other peoplewho are going to be in I don't.
I don't know anybody, which I'malmost like, when did they ask

(21:52):
me and Michael to do it?Okay? But actually it looks like I
would never want to be on theshow like this. No, I mean
reality TV frightens me. I feellike it's the kiss of death. Look
it. I mean, if thisis all true with Jackson Brittany, they're
all go separating and divorcing. Youknow, It's just like I think it
adds a whole layer of stress thatis unnecessary for your relationship. Yeah,

(22:17):
I guess I would never want tolike put my entire relationship on blast.
But I think reality TV would alsobe really fun. But I think that's
what everyone thinks. I think itwould have been fun when I was twenty
one years old, Yeah, butnow I just don't. I have too
much to lose, you know whatI mean. Yeah, And like,

(22:40):
exploiting your children isn't really the vibeall of that, So that's kind of
where I'm coming from. But exploitingyour dog, however, still up in
the air. You know, I'msure you'll get the highest quality treats and
food that of course, little pupkin, you know, the endorsement that I
want for him is the Farmer's Dog, because oh yeah, that food is

(23:02):
incredible. And while we're at it, if you guys want to endorse my
other two dogs, they'd be happyto be ambassadors for the Farmer's Dog because
you got three dogs right there.Probably for the price of like one and
a half. You're the perfect candidate. Maybe I needed to be my manager,
my dog manager me. I don'tknow sure, I need to speak
highly of my dogs for me.Oh yeah, okay, before we wrap

(23:23):
up, you need to tell mewhat a hailer dance party is. Okay.
So I went to a hailer danceparty with four girlfriends on last Friday
night, and I think that everyonein their lives should go to these.
They happen in like a bunch ofdifferent cities. The one we went to
here is a DJ who mostly isin Salt Lake City. Was he the

(23:45):
best? No? No, hewas quite bad. He didn't remix the
songs at all. But it wasso much fun. We showed up like
right as he was starting, andI literally it felt like I was at
the aristore little bit, like wewere screaming and singing and dancing with Everyone
in the room was dressed up.No one was in just like normal clothes.

(24:07):
Everyone was in like arostour outfits andhad like sparkles on their face and
it was just like a good funnight. Where did they do this?
They did this like in Salt LakeCity at like a small venue, but
they do them all over the country. You just look for like Taylor Swift
Night or Harry Styles Knight. Theydo a lot of Haler nights. So
and it's just their music. I'massuming the entire night to be honest,

(24:30):
it was just two hours of himpressing play on the next song. Like
I wish it had been an actuallike mashup right night, but yeah,
no, it was just their musicfor two hours, which is perfect.
I was home by eleven thirty.I loved it. Not a little drunk,
but like they do these kind ofnights for a lot of pop people.
So there's like Olivia Rodrigo Knights.There's all this stuff. So if

(24:52):
you aren't like a Halo fan,that's fine. Did you come home to
your apartment alone? Or did yougo over to your boyfriend's house? Uh?
No, I had girlfriends come overand one of my friends or two
of my friends stayed over. Actually, oh god, I got no.
Nate did not go to this withme. He did not experience any of
this. I think if he hadseen me after, he would have been

(25:14):
like, you guys are insane.Well, I was asking because and maybe
this is just being married for forever, but whenever I go out and I
get a little saucy and then Icome home, you know, it's it's
basically like Mike. I think that'slike Michael's favorite version of me. Sometimes,
like when I come home kind ofdrunk from a girl's night or an

(25:36):
event or something. Is it becauseyou like want to be frisky or it's
it's a mixture. I don't knowif want is the right word to it.
Like I'm down, you know,whereas like sometimes midweek when we're distressed
with work and this and that,like it's a lot more difficult to really
kind of get it on right orin the week. But after a night

(26:02):
like that, it's almost like aguarantee that we're gonna have sex, like
no matter what. Sometimes I'm justlike, I'm actually more likely middle of
a week than after a girl's night. After a girl's name, I am
drunk and I am tired. Ihave danced for two hours straight. I'm
not doing nothing. Oh no,it's the opposite for me. And it
was just like it ignites like thiswhole other, whole other part miss of

(26:26):
the night exactly. I will admit. This weekend, I had a friend
from out of town in town fora couple of nights, and this weekend
was the first time that I havenot like been with my boyfriend for like
sleeping in the same bed since middleof January. It's like a long time.
Yeah, so you're kind of likeexperiencing what it's like to live with

(26:47):
a boy. I know, youlive with a boy. You're gonna have
to live with a boy. Yeah, it's friends. I'm gonna have to
live with a boy, yes,exactly, moving out. Or and Rachel
are not going to live together anymore. Oh, it's so good. When
did you and Michael move in togetherwhen we got engaged? No, yeah,

(27:08):
he lived. He wasn't even livingin La yet. He moved out
here, and so we got togetherin nine and then we did two years
long distance, long distance, Isay, San Diego to La and then
he moved up here, but Imade him get his own apartment. Well,
no, first he lived with Morgan. I forget the order, but

(27:30):
yeah, he lived a year withour friend Morgan, so it was them
two and then he had his ownapartment for a year. And you still
had roommates or a roommates. Istill had Taja, but she basically moved
out right when he moved out here, because she knew that he would be
spending the night all the time.It's just so no, yeah, and
so she so I basically just hadmy own condo, and then little by

(27:52):
little, yeah, he would spendthe night all the time. So we
weren't living together. He always hadhis own place, like for the handful
of times that we would get inarguments and he would be able to slam
the door and leave, okay,which it didn't happen. Off then I
can literally to count maybe two orthree times that happened in the two years.
And it wasn't until we got engaged. He started moving his stuff in

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and then got rid of his apartmentand okay, okay, that makes sense.
Yeah, but yeah, it was. It was two full leases,
I guess of like basically him livingwith you, but he still had his
own place for whenever he needed it. It was the principal I was trying
to respect. Yeah, and like, I just my parents are really old

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school, and I knew it wouldbreak their heart if they knew that we
were living together, and like not, yeah, you know, I'm just
and I kind of felt the sameway too. I was like, if
there's no ring on my finger thenby so I like don't know almost anyone
other than you who went out untilthey were engaged. I know, but

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I'm also just like, it's sofunny because I like, I break most
rules sometimes, but I follow mostrules at the same time too, And
that's not really a rule. Butit was just like a weird thing with
my parents. Like even when wewent to their house, they made Michael
sleep in the bonus room and Ihad to sleep in my room. Yes,
like we never shared a bed andI don't even think we shared a

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bed when we were engaged. Stillat their house. Yeah, like super
super old school. That's so funny. Literally, the first time my boyfriend
met my parents, we were stayingat my sister is in the same room.
I mean, mind you, thisis like fifteen years ago. I
feel tired. It's true, it'scompletely different now. Like my nephew,
who is their grandson, their firstgrandson, lives with them, so it's

(29:45):
them two and my nephew. Yeah, Riley, he lives with them right
now. Oh, I did notknow that he's going to community college and
he's about to transfer to a universitywhich is still nearby. And I'm not
gonna be surprised if he does allof his college years living with my parents.
But anyways, they like, youknow, don't care what he does.
Like it's like he can have hisgirlfriend over for a week in that

(30:10):
room and it's no big deal.So wild. I wonder if it'd be
different if there was a granddaughter,though probably there's something with like my brother
got away with everything and my sisterget away with whatever they want. I
know. So, yeah, doyou think about your own children? You
you're so rre not like that.I'm just saying, you're like so far

(30:33):
from that. But would you bemad if they were living with the significant
other before they were engaged? Onlyif the only if the relationship was toxic,
and I would hope you wouldn't evenwant them to get engaged. Then
I know, well, that's partof the reason why I wouldn't want them
living together, because what if theydid end up getting engaged? So I
would just like if my kids arestarting to like ere in a toxic relationship

(30:56):
and I'm just like, ah,like, how do you I don't even
want to know, how do youhow you navigate that? No? So
right now, I mean, butyou know it could happen sooner for me
than Maxon already kissed a girl onthe cheek at school and he's in kindergarten.
So yeah, yeah, he justhas so much love to give that.
Oh go mine. He just issuch a lover. He's such a

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love bug. I know. Sometimeshe's just like I'm like, he's like
so close to me when I'm likeon my computer or whatever, and I
just come up to me out ofnowhere and I was like, what's up.
He's like, I just want togive you a kiss. Mommy.
Oh cool, Kate, as youcan. So you had told me the
story of him kissing the girl inthe cheek at school, and when I
was visiting you, he said somethinglike I just want to give you a
kiss. And I was like,I was like, you can kiss my

(31:41):
cheek. But I think he waslike, I'm not supposed to. I'm
telling you this. I told himhe has to ask, now. I
was like, you can't just kisspeople without their permission. Well he took
that to heart. Yeah, becausehe always wants to kiss like Asa.
And his little sister doesn't really matterbecause she's just like she's two and she
kisses right back and she is likeyou know, a lover too, but
A's is like my space, myarea, like that off six feet please.

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She would have loved the pandemic.Well, they were so young and
know how it was. But yeah, I don't know. I just feel
like, well, we'll have tocross that bridge when we get there.
Hopefully we'll know how to navigate throughit. Ten plus years one would hope
I got to keep these kids offTikTok and Instagram. Yeah, that's true,

(32:30):
keep them off the dating apps too, exactly. I'm gonna go see
Madonna this weekend with my sister,so I'm so looking forward to that so
fun. I've seen her one timein concert, and to be honest,
it was it was an okay experience. She didn't play a lot of her
old songs. So I'm looking forwardto this decade's tour that she's doing.
So she's like really supposed to bedoing everything. Yes, and hear that

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she does. Maybe those songs areshorter than that we would want, you
know. Sure. And I knowsomeone that saw her in Vegas, and
I don't know if it was justthe Vegas venue or if this is what's
gonna happen here in La but theysaid it was so hot in there that
not to the point where it wasunbearable, but she just wished she would

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have known, so she would havedressed different because she was wearing like jeans
and like a booty and like andso you would kind of think to wear
to a concert. Do you thinkthat she uses like a lot of pyro
and that's why it gets so hot. I heard that she purposely keeps it
at a warmer temperature because of hervoice. Isn't that wild? That is

(33:34):
wild? Okay, it's true.You should wear layers. Yeah, I
were layers, But I also,like, I have a friend who works
at the kiforums, so I'm gonnaask him if this is true or not.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, notlike I'm in here out not like
I'm thinking about getting coming in likea fur coat or something faux fur.
Oh, like a spandex bodysuit orsomething like what are you gonna wear?
No one wants to see that.I don't know how well you think this

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cleans is gonna work? But whyI haven't thought about my outfit yet.
I know it's gonna be the lastminute thing. Are you going Friday or
Saturday? I'm going Saturday. Butin my in my head, I would
think I would probably do my goto leather pants which are quite warm once
it gets warm, and then andlike a cute tub or something with a

(34:22):
jacket that I thought I would justprobably wear the entire concert. So now
I'm yeah, I am kind ofrethinking it, but I need to any
confirmation. Yeah, find out findout the exact temperature that's being requested for
the inside of such a weird thingto ask, like, do you know
how it's gonna be? Do youknow how hot it's gonna be at this
indoor venue in the early March.That's what. Well, when my friend

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was doll just like, just becareful because the Madonna concert is hot,
and I was like, ooh,like what do you mean hot? Like
I vitally thought yeah, but I'mlike, of course it's hot. It's
Madonna like a virgin nowise. Sothere's your tip if you're gonna be heading
out to the Madonna concert. Perfect, that'll do it. Have a wonderful
week, and we'll catch up againnext week. That's it. Bye.