July 10, 2024 • 35 mins
Sisanie and Erica have RETURNED from a hiatus and have a LOT to catch up on. Or at least that's what Erica thinks... Get updates on Sisanie, the kids, and Diego the Dalmation - plus Erica's new home and big life step! The pair also talks Taylor Swift conspiracy theories and a strange new baby name trend.
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So then I said, what aboutBreakfast at sicinys. Well, that's one
thing. We got time to sitback, relax, and indulge in your
weekly tea. Welcome to Breakfast atSicins. Welcome back to another episode of
this podcast that apparently we just kindof taken a little hiatus from. We
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took like an early summer little hiatus, and in my head, I was
like, oh, the season's over. We'll come back in the fall,
sure, but that's way too muchtime to not check in with you.
And literally, when I say you, I mean Erica and for everyone listening,
because so much has happened in thelast two months. Almost when was
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our last podcast? It was Mayfifteenth, Oh lovely, Yeah, so
yeah, May fifteenth to even likethe end. I was like May fifteenth
to like mid June, my lifewas crazy town, crazy what all happened?
And then fourth of July came andnow here we are. Well,
the twins graduated kindergarten, so that'sright. It's like it was like another
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graduation for them because they graduated preK last year, and that was the
whole thing. You know, Iwas wondering about that. Why is kinder
and graduation a thing? Because youstay at the same school. I don't
know why, but yeah, Ifind it too much. Oh this was
way more mellow. They didn't havelike caps and gowns and all that,
or actually they were. It wasso cute in preschool when they did have
the caps and gowns because they're justso little and I'm like already envisioning my
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head, like the side by sidephotos of them, like when they're graduating
high school and I'll be like framemembor something then imagine college. Just stop,
I know, but yeah, it'slife is moving quick survey. It's
gonna start preschool soon. Our almostthree year old, she shurning three next
month. She wants a Buba party. Do you know who Buba is?
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No, becaus not like a boobparty. That's exactly what it sounds like.
When you try to google Buba partydecorations, I get a bunch of
booba Buba is b o o ba. He is a I don't even
know what he is. He's somesort of creature and he's on Netflix and
I believe he's Russian. And yeah, that your face says it all.
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That's what it's like. Uh huh. He's a very peculiar, almost like
a troll. Half. He's likea hairy baby. He's all white,
like white fur. Yeah. Soyeah, he's the most attractive character.
But she's obsessed with this show onNetflix. H episodes like three minutes,
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and it's kind of he doesn't talk, he's just like it's all he does.
It's like oooo she So kids becomeobsessed with it, but they don't
actually know what's going on. No, you do. It's kind of like
I don't know if you remember Tomand Jerry when you were a little but
like I watched Tom and Jerry andthen that didn't have dialogue. It was
just like the cat chasing the Mouse, and it was scenarios and it was
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whatever. So that's exactly what thisis. Like he's trying to get into
this room but the room's locked,and then he tries to put boxes on
top of each other and then allthe boxes fall down, and it's just
it's just a very like fast paced, essentially a stupid show. I wish
I understood what he was to betterunderstand why your child, your sweet sweet
Saveya loves him. I think shejust checks out. It's just like when
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the Twins liked Coco Melon and CocoMelan's just like the ghost creepy like cartoon
characters that just sing nursery rhymes butlike made up ones. Right, So
this has very little movie. Actually, there is music in one of the
episodes of Back when I were inthe kitchen and she was watching, and
all of a sudden, we're like, is that Vechy something like remixed like
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a Vechy levels into like a songof his And one of the episodes were
like, that's kind of dope.That is cool. So yeah, so
she wants a booba party and boonot a boob party. Sure do you
ask a three year old, hey, what would you like for your bay?
I do. I involve her verymuch. She's on the computer with
me while we're looking for decorations,and I keep asking her like, are
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you sure you want to a bubaparty? You sure? Like? I
gave her all the options. Iwas like, you like Mowana, you
like Mini Mouse, And so sheis adamant. I found a place on
Etsy that's that sells a buba pinata. Oh my, got that and a
cake topper, and I think I'mcalling it a day because everything else I
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search, I just get like boobpictures and I'm done with that. So
yeah, so what is the partyentailing this year? Her first birthday was
a big bash. Oh we've beenlike mellow since then. Yeah, backyard
family friends love it. Very minimalPada the cake. You know, we
just bought this like inflatable water slidefor the pool. How that going.
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It's actually not. It was likereally affordable on Amazon some right, check
it out. But yeah, andthen she is a very independent little two
year old almost three year old,to the point where I turned my back
for one second and the next secondshe had chopped her veins off. Yes,
I need to know this story becauseall you did is just so casually
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posted that she gave herself a bang'shaircut. Okay, so here's what happened.
I came home from work. IsI working, oh somewhere doctor's appointment,
and my nanny was there with thekids. And you know he isn't
Maxim are out of school right now, and if they're not doing an activity
with me during the day, thenthey're just at home doing arts and crafts
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and whatever. And that's exactly whatMaxim was doing. And he left the
scissors out. So this is alland so when we asked her, why
did you cut your hair? Shewas max and did it? Oh,
Max and did it? And well, and so then I go to Max
and and I'm like, Maxine,she's saying that you cut her hair,
and he's like, I didn't tellit. I did it, like freaking
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out, and so I was like, well, look, I'm going to
give you a chance to tell methe truth because I'm gonna check the camera
because we have the camera in theirplayroom. And so he's like, I'm
telling you the t I didn't cuther hair. I didn't cut her hair.
And so I was like, well, I don't know why she's pointing
the finger at you. He goes, Okay, I know the truth.
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And I'm like, what, Like, I didn't cut her hair, but
when she grabbed the scissors, Ijust let her cut her hair. Oh.
So he watched her cut her Hewatched her and didn't try to stop
her, didn't you know. Itwas just like like he basically was like
relishing and like she's gonna get introuble, so let me just like let
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this happen type of thing. Ohwow, which I think is even worse.
No, it's not whatever it's justit was just more annoyed because it
was. Yeah, there was aday before the fourth of July, so
I was like, cool, everyone'scoming over tomorrow, and this is what
your hair. So I like triedto fix it. I pulled like some
more of her hair down and liketry to even it out. But there's
still just like holes and it lookslike Lloyd from Dumb and Dummer. Didn't
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a'sa have a haircutting incident? Yes, And I gave Michael so much shit
about it because I was out oftown and and then then here we are
again. It's happening. So idnothing destined to happen with girls? It
always happens, Yeah, I guessso. But so we moved past that
and everything is good. Michael andI took this gnarly trip to Europe which,
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oh my gosh, I don't reallyneed to recap. Just look at
my Instagram. Just beautiful. Yeah, yes, all the things. DM
me if you're going to Greece orItaly and I can send you some recommendations
for hotels or restaurants and places thatwe visited. But how long were you
gone again? Two weeks? Twoweeks? Okay? Was it hard?
To be away from the kids.Yeah, I'd say, like about day
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ten, day nine, I waslike, okay, like after the first
full week happened, like that feltlike it was a good amount, and
then oh my gosh, we havea whole other week. And then that's
when you kind of started feeling likethe days right, well, I was
ready to come home. I thinkten days is a good amount to be
away from them, Like it wastechnically thirteen days, but it was extra
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three days or just too much.Yeah, you start to be like,
okay, we gotta like get backto them, but enough about me.
Oh, I want to talk aboutyou, you know, sisty, I'd
love to talk about me for asecond and talk about you. Today.
I text you and say, wehave so much to catch up on.
You have the nerve to ask meif I got engaged and just didn't tell
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you. I don't know, maybeyou got engaged last night. Okay,
well, okay, if I gotengaged last night, I guess yeah,
I maybe wouldn't have told you yet, but okay. The text was literally
was we have so much to catchup on. Like I that sounds like
you're holding big news that you needto tell me everything else. I know
you bought a house, you movedin with your boyfriend, Like, those
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are the two big things I needed. What else do we need to catch
up on? I don't know,just life. We hadn't texted. We
had not texted for almost a fullmonth. I know I have said crazy
at weddings non stop. But no, so I'm not engaged, which is
very fine by me. But haveyou gone ring shopping? No, that's
gonna happen probably next weekend. Areyou going to go with him or no,
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we're going to go together. We'regoing to just look at cuts and
I am going to know nothing elsethat's exciting. No, I think you're
a trust what I said, there'sa lot of trust. Yeah, yeah,
we'll go with that. But yeah, No, since our last podcast,
I put an offer on a house. I hadn't even started house hunting
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officially. I knew you had theoffer. That's where we left off,
like you were either about to getit. No, you got the keys,
that's all your picture? Did Idream that? You? And I
texted about that. But on thepodcast, last thing was I was about
to start looking at houses. Yeah, I put an offer in, we
went into contract, we closed,I got the keys, and then we
didn't move in for like three weeks, and we just moved in this weekend.
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I believe it's called escrow. Ohwhat, I went into contract?
Who says that, No, yougo under contract you need to learn and
you go into escrow and then youclose. Really yeah, yeah, I
guess you just did it when yougive them your money and then it's like
sitting there, I considered the wholething. Escrow to me, you know
what, I'll tell you. Escromade me cry. I gave away the
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most money I've ever given away inmy life. Oh my gosh, get
over it. This is just thebeginning, just the beginning of all the
money I'm gonna give away. Yes, now you really are gonna live paycheck
to paycheck. I'm gonna be savingmoney. Oh you'll see, and then
you're gonna and then you're gonna likebe like I kind of want to maybe
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tear that wall out or change thisor do that. Oh it's never ending,
like to do list. We havefun whole basement that we're gonna finish.
I'll see, Yeah, there's yourmoney, there goes my money.
But it's all an investment. Itgoes back in the house and then eventually
if you want to refinance all thethings. Like it's it's like a really
really positive situation to be in.Same. I'm really happy for you,
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Thank you, very excited. Verystressful moving it's kind of stressful, like
combining two households. Yeah. See, this is the next step that we
should discuss, is moving in withyour boyfriend right lovely? Yeah? Yes,
friends reference. Yeah. So ithas it been a month since we
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moved in together? No, youspent three nights. Oh, we move
in together in this past we gotit, got it, got it,
got it, got it. Okay, so so far nothing has changed because
you spent the night that much witheach other. Yeah, nothing's changed except
that when I come home from work, he's here. Oh yeah, he's
here right now, he's he's inthe home. I want when you hear
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me, I have headphones, comeout, come out wherever you are.
Okay, So three days cute?Cute? Did you pick furniture around together?
Did you have or just merged everything? We're merging everything. So is
there anything of his that you've unpacked? And you're like, what in the
actual hell we need to get ridof this many things? I'm aware of
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that I haven't seen. It's likeyou're already like, Okay, you're gonna
have to have like your own mancave for all this crap. So he
works from home, so he'll havean office, and I'm like, okay,
whatever you put in that office,fine by me. Right with the
skulls that were in his living room, yeah, we don't. Also like
but him in a Halloween box rightright, I'm Halloween the foam hat that
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he got at Saint Patrick's Day thatwas on display. Oh, it's apparently
sentimental to him because there was thatone night that had so much fun and
this and that and can't get ridof the hat. I understand. No,
I don't get rid of get ridof the hat. Yeah, I'm
sure he will if I ask himto. I haven't asked yet, so
yeah, yeah, may I getit? I remember this? Yeah,
Well, where were you and Michaelliving when you moved in together. I
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was living in North Hollywood in mycondo that I purchased on my own,
thank you very much, snapsnap,just like you, yes, yes,
yes, and and I was oh, technically, oh, we met in
my apartment before this, and thenI bought my condo he moved He moved
into that condo with me when wegot engaged. Oh not till you wait,
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you didn't move in until you gotengaged. How do you not know
this? This is like my motto. Yes, no ring, no ring,
no roof. Where that was?I mean he basically was spending the
night all the time, but hewas not moved in. No ring,
no roof. That's hilarious. Idon't know. I just made that up
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right now, Okay, okay,yeah, so he Yeah, he got
engaged and then he slowly moved in. I want to say lease was up
like that March, so that hereally was, like it was like nine
months and then we were married,but wow, yeah, and then we
lived there and then we went.Then we kept that condo, rented it
out for a year, rented anotherhouse just to feel like what having a
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house is like. Yeah, reallywanted to feel that. And then we
bought our house a year later.You rented that house for a year,
yeah, when I'm actually that's alie. I think it was two years.
You're right too, Okay, yesit was two years, because I
remember what. They redid the leaseand they up the rent. I was
like, you guys just suck,like we're leaving. We wanted to buy
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that house and they didn't want tosell to us. Oh why didn't they
like you enough? I think theywanted to list it to see if they
can get more money because they feltlike they'd have to cut us a deal
just because we've been there ten twoyears. OK. But anyways, this
is not funny, but it isinteresting, Like everyone's stories are just different.
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Yeah, they really are. AndI can't wait to hear more of
like the weird collectibles that you're goingto start finding, because even now I've
been married with Michael together, marriedfor ten together for fifteen years, and
when we left our other house thatwe were at for seven years to this
new one this last summer, heabsolutely will not let me get rid of
all of these, like random beermugs from viny My mom and I were
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talking about this. Men just hoard, just hoard. What is that?
I don't know, shouldn't we belike that? We're sentimental? I kind
of am. I create very organizedhoarding boxes for them, you know,
like it's like not like it's notlike I have a whole room of boxes,
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but I have three little memory boxeson the top of my closet.
One is for the kid's art.The other one is for my own memorabilia,
random learn notes that Michael has,you know, things I have saved
throughout the years. And then theother one that one maybe I could go.
It's a random stuff. It's arandom memory thing that I barely can't
get rid of. But they're small. They are like ten by twelve.
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They're like it's like a big giantshoe box. Essentially. They're really nice
white canvas. They have another they'relabeled, and it's they're just there.
I don't know when I will openthem again, but they're there. Yeah,
And like, when did you stopcollecting kids art? If you're not
opening up kind of like this isthe last year? Oh I don't know,
or yeah, I mean right nowthat box is not that full preschool.
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We have these bins that are inthe garage that we really don't need.
So I can figure out that out. I need to do that Instagram
ad you know where they tell youthe like you put them in this box
and you send them and we'll makea book for you. Oh that's cute.
It's probably not in your ali itsnot in your algorithm. R My
algorithm is all wedding dresses and yeahmiature, and yeah, well I should
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send you some notes going to continuemy algorithm. For whatever reason, my
algorithm is also wedding stuff. Why, I think because we talk about it
on the show so much, becausewhere I'm like, I'm talking one's engaged,
and so I think or like I'mtalking to her about it, Ruby
Tubs is engaged, the engaged.Everyone is going to be engaged or is
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engaged, And so I get allthese random things like you should do this
at your wedding, you should haveyour guests do this, and they're all
like just stupid ideas. I'm like, these are so cute, and I
keep sending them to them. Yeah, I'll send them to you now even
though you don't have a ring.Yeah, no, I'm not engaged.
Once again, I am confusing peoplewith those facts. We talk about it
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all the time, like we areon the speaking of engaged. What are
your thoughts on Taylor Swift and TravisKelsey and are they engaged? Are they
married? No, they're not married. Where are you getting married? Yeah?
I don't know. I think Ireally don't think they're engaged. But
because I think it would leak,but I do think it's possible. Him
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crying at her singing that mashup thatwas clearly very about him and about being
together forever made me feel like,Oh, perhaps they were engaged and that's
why he was crying, or he'sa poor he's about to, or he's
about to. You know, Ihave a theory about her eras tour in
general. Have I shared it onthis podcast? I'm not so sure that
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you have. Okay, So,and this is all speculation, of course,
I know, I know nothing,and I'm being completely honest. The
we know the NFL reached out toTaylor to get her schedule so they can
figure out the NFS the NFL schedulefor this upcoming season, for this upcoming
season, right because I guess theywanted a Chiefs game, blah blah blah.
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Well no, wait, wait wait, I think it was because she
plays arenas and she's not playing manyarenas here in the States. She's doing
New Orleans and Miami, and that'sin Indianapolis. I think, Okay,
thank you, okay, or maybeis it New Orleans, maybe it does
Indianapolis. Whatever, So oh,I'll get to that second. Okay.
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So the NFL thing is one thing. Blah blah blah. The schedules out.
Everyone's doing their games, no problem. Well, when that schedule came
out, which was about maybe likea month or two ago, we noticed,
and me as a Charger fan becauseI have season tickets to the Chargers
here in La Interesting, there isa three week gap in the month of
September where there are no home gamesfor the Rams or the Chargers. Interesting,
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very very good detective work you've donethere. Oh, this is I
can't take a full credit. Thisis like combined with like people here at
the office and all of us talkingand getting more like I know this fact
and I know that fact, andwe're piecing it all together kind of.
So that being said, we wouldimagine that Taylor might come back to Sofi
Stadium to do a few more datesso that she could film the Poets the
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Tortured Poets Department, and they includethat into her Disney Plus so that it
can all be part of the Era'stour, because she has been doing songs
from that album on the aras toyleast exactly. Oh my gosh, and
that's not filmed yet. Another clueis it takes her a week to set
up, a week for shows,and a week to break down. Those
would be the three weeks at soFI. She also has a gap in
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her schedule in September. In addition, she has not thanked Los Angeles,
not and I have wondered about that. So why hasn't she thanked Los Angeles?
Really really firing you up? Overthere? Here's my flaw on your
theory. Oh, I don't popmy bubble small. It could mean still
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your theory could still hold strong.She's doing two she did that London leg
just recently. She's doing another one. But she did thank London and said
I'll be back, but she didn'tthink LA. Now, another theory that
I have on the whole La thingis that she will probably want to break
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some sort of record as to howearly you can announce a show and sell
it out, Oh, before youperform it, you know what I mean?
If she does this in September,I am quitting my life and I
am finding a way there. Iam I don't be there, you know.
I have to look that up.But I think it's like the I
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think it's the second, third andfourth week of September. Oh my gosh,
or maybe. Second, that doesmake sense. Second, yes it
does. Yes, those are consecutivethree weeks. I just don't think it's
I don't think it's the last week, but I guess it could have been
like the week before Labor Day onNo, because the Chargers have a game
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on like the ninth or tenth whateverthat Sunday is. That's the home opener.
So after that there's nothing until Ithink September twenty ninth. Okay,
so it's like a twenty day somethingalong those lines. Very interesting. I
love your theory. Do we thinkthat's when Travis is gonna propose? No,
I think he's gonna propose on herbirthday after she's done with the tour.
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Oh that no, wasn't. No, I don't have a theory about
that. That no, was wrong. No. I think they're going to
be very private about a private weddinglike all of that. But we think
they're getting married, right, Ithink for sure they're getting married. I
think so too. The whole likesong that she wrote in was a two
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thousand and six Mary song. Yeah, Mary song. Do you know the
crazier fact about that? The eightyseven eighty nine thing? That's what?
Yeah? Yes, that one.Travis has a grandma named Mary. Oh
my god, I know she didn'tknow this. Well, yeah, this
is like her invisible string. It'sso cute the entire time, the whole
time, all right, And that'sabout Taylor. Yeah, I love her,
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but it really brings my my bloodsugar, not blood sugar, blood
pressure. Thank you can't even talkright, Okay. So another crazy thing
that I saw, and this actuallyI saw it right before we went to
break before fourth of July. Ihaven't talked about it on the podcast,
is that people are trying to getvery unique when they're naming their babies.
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For sure, it's like a competition. Now no, thanks to you.
Wow, maybe I set the barhigh right right, And so they're trying
to get you know, very creativeunique. They want something different, they
want something whatever. A lot ofpeople are kind of bringing back old traditional
names like I have. I havea couple that named their baby Henry.
Like to me, like, that'sbefore I had that, Like I'm like,
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I don't really know Henry and Igrew up with Henry's. I didn't
grow up with Henry's. I don't. Yeah, But and now it's like
that when I see that baby.I'm just like, you're Henry, Like
it's just the cutest. Ever,So these couples are going to graveyards and
actually looking at tombstones and getting oldnames from way back in the day.
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Something about that gives me bad vibes. Maybe it's just because I don't like
graveyards. I agree with you.I don't care how cool the name is
or if you loved it the wayit spelled all that, But he's like,
that is that was someone's Now ifthere's a difference between like your dead
grandma or your dead relative that nameand relative whatever, Right, I have
great great Grandpa because that's your familythat I feel like you have merit to
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like use that name, right,But in this way, you're kind of
just like taking it from a randomdead person, and I feel like you're
inviting that spirit to enter your life. Why not, you're very has Maxim
been talking to any spirits lately?Why no? Remember didn't he used to
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do that? What the hell areyou talking about? Why are you saying
my baby talks to us. I'mswear you told me that on a podcast
once. Anyway, Well, itwas at the time that he like freaked
out and he was like laughing hystericallyand didn't stop laughing, And I was
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like, dude, I swear hesees like a funny ghost or something that's
like making him crack up, becauseit wasn't me. Like he was just
straight up having a laugh attack,and like there was nothing that I could
do to break him, to makehim stop laughing. Right, Okay,
so no spirits there those spirits.My thing with the name is you don't
know the life that person lived.What if they were a horrible person?
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Yeah, don't like it. Don'tlike it. I believe in spirits,
and I believe that they live onamongst us. You believe you had a
spirit in your old home? Ohyeah, I wonder if they miss us.
Probably it's probably quiet now, maybethey're happy. My house is chaotic
right now. I mean, youknow because you came to visit us.
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Yes, No, I mean Ihave three kids. They run around like
crazy. I have three dogs.Diego, yeah, Diego the Domati.
He still he's still around. No, Yeah, he's doing great. Actually,
he is learning very he's basically pottytrained. But it takes that long.
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I don't want to get a dognow. Why that just feels like
a long time, haven't you hadIt's like February, yeah, March,
April, May, June, andwe're into July. It takes about three
months, it's change. And thenwe were gone all of June, so
we did we Yeah, so thisis a whole thing. So he hasn't
had any accidents in the house,okay since like I don't even know when
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that's what I'm saying. He's basicallypotty trained. But you know there's the
when I say potty train, islike I wouldn't leave him alone. God
it, he doesn't like scratch atthe door. You still have to like
make sure he goes out. Yes, right now, we're like monitoring,
like I know what times he poops, like you know, it's just like
you know, he's very regular,yeah for him. Yeah, But at
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the same time, it's we're cratetraining and so they will not soil their
own beds and they'll stay in therecrate until you let them out. And
he's doing very well with that.But he's not doing very well with being
in the crate if we're home,Like if we're home and I'm cooking and
I really can't have my eyes onhim, Like he's not really giving me
any reason lately to like that he'sgonna pee or poop in the house.
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But he's a puppy still, sohe can't be left alone as do things.
Yeah, like if we if thekids have their shoes, I'll try
to go for the shoes. He'slearning not to, but he has.
We have dog toys all over thehouse. It's like when I had the
babies and they were crawling and itwas just like toys everywhere. So he's
just the baby of the house rightnow, and it's gonna take some time.
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Yeah, you really said, mybaby's not a super baby anymore and
I'm gonna get a puppy. Yeah. Yeah. And Saveah just went into
a big girl bed and I sawthat she is so happy, and I
it was the first time out oflike all the milestones that I've gone with
her. Then I like felt awayand I was like, holy crab okay
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after this, Yeah, like she'snot in a crib anymore. Like she
doesn't wear diapers at all during theday. We put them on at night,
but she doesn't wear them during theday at all. Yeah. Oh
oh, I know, Like bythis point, when the twins were this
age, I think I was alreadypregnant or I yeah, no, I
just got pregnant basically because I hadthem and the twins turned three. They
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were three years old in three months. Oh my gosh. And I'm feeling
that same way again, that likeyou kind of like the itch, but
no, it's not gonna happen.It's not gonna okay, No, I
got a puppy. Yeah, here'sthere's no way. Here's the itch.
And I'm gonna get a puppy probablysoon, and then you can just come
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visit and hang out with my puppyand maybe are you still gonna get a
wiener dog? Yeah, oh it'syeah, for sure, probably in January.
So I think Gypsy is part dogson. I think he's got like long
haired docks in in him or somethinglike his body is a little on the
longer side, like not extreme,like a full bread docs in. But
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so if he if there's anything likein the same qualities of like demeanor between
the two, like hopefully that yourdog's kind of like Gypsy. It was
just like mellow and so loving dog. I know, just cuddle exactly.
Diego is forty five pounds and istaller than me when he stands up,
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if he stood up on his hindlike he like yeah, if he got
up on his highlands and I wentlike this, like I could put his
like yeah and like his we're faceto face? Can we be fair?
Though? Oh, you're pretty sure? For eleven and a half for me
to take care, I'm going totake a picture of him against Michael so
you can really see how tell youis. Yeah, yeah, well I
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want one against both of you sowe can get the full like joy out
of that. Okay, speaking ofdoggin, have you heard of raw dogging?
What beautiful transitions. I've heard ofraw dogging? But what kind are
you talking about? Not the dirtykind? Okay, okay, you both
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know what it means. Yeah,it's like not having protection, right,
yes, okay, don't have towhisper podcast. I just want to make
sure we were on the same page. I know, and everyone thinks that
that's what I'm talking about. WhenI say everyone is raw dogging on flights,
It's like, no, not,everyone's up there having unprotected sex.
Right. How did you know?You know? Honestly? Yeah, there
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was there was a moment because weflew business to Europe, and then you
thought about it. I did thinkabout it because let me just tell you,
British Airways Airlines, it's a doubleducker, massive air busy and we
were on the second level because Ithought it was so cool to sit up
there. I never have mine.Oh you hate it. I loved it
so much. I was like,this is so clol. I've never been
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on a double decker plane. Anyways, So I went to the bathroom,
and the bathroom up there was amassive like I'm telling you, there was
like a padded bench in there.There was like roue floor. I don't
know why, but I came backand I was like, Michael, if
we're going to do this, it'son this flight. And you didn't go
for it. No, we didit, and we were like too excited
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to watch movies by ourselves our pods, right right, What could be better
than watching movies by yourself? Well, like maybe when they were like all
the way back on the way back, they we're just exhausted and sexed out,
so we're fine, right anyway,So what is the raw dog?
Okay, has nothing to do withthat. It's basically met And I don't
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know why it's guys that are doingthis. Do you know they're okay.
So they're going on planes and they'resaying, oh, I just raw dog
that plane for seven hours seven hourflight, and they're bras how long the
flights were and how long they rawdogged. And what it means is you're
not using your phone, zero technology, you're not streaming movies, you're not
even getting food or drinks. Itis a full on raw dog sash of
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staring into the I don't even knowthe back of the seat. I've seen
some people say that Jerry O'Connell,who Jerry O'Connell posted himself raw dog anyways,
I just see that some people willjust watch the plane go across the
map if they happen to have athat's it. You know what, though,
if I saw someone sitting next tome who had access to a little
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TV and instead of watching it,they watched the plane go across, I
would think they were a sociopath.I don't. I think I've witnessed this
before I knew about it being atrend, and I I have definitely like
been on flights like to New Yorkand people never want to turn on the
TV. They never literally looked attheir phone. And I don't even know
if they looked at the tracker.They just either like slept maybe, but
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I think you're not supposed to sleep. Maybe doesn't count. You need to
be awake. It's supposed to belike a meditated thing. I'll tell you
what. I don't need to meditatethat bad. No. I would rather
take my entertainment. I get I'dbe productive. I like to delete photos
and videos off my phone during flights. Wow, that is really productive of
you. I always try that,and then I get so frustrated, and
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then I look at the same fourpictures. I'm like, oh, I
can't delete that one because there's alittle smirk, and then that one looks
a little different, and this isstupid. Wow, well gonna happen.
Would you ever raw dog a flight? No? Maybe Vegas, but that's
the extent of it. And eventhat, I have to have a drink,
so I don't think. So thisis not in your future. This
is not for me. Not likethese guys are doing sixteen hour flights and
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whatever and they're trying to like postabout it, and they post about it
after I was talking like, you'relike, so now you use technology,
after you did the whole flight yeah, I'm good without like boredom. Yeah,
I'm good without boredom too. Yeah, I'm just good. And actually
i'm good with all the features metoo, I need all the stuff.
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I'm not really on my phone.If there's a TV, I'll stream whatever
movies we're given. And I don'treally bring my laptop to stream Netflix or
anything. I just I just watchwhatever's given. And if not, then
maybe I'll try to buy the I'llbuy the Wi Fi and go on my
phone. But sure, no,I definitely don't read. I'll listen to
a book on tape. I know. Sorry, yeah, we got it
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creates a book club, and it'sjust starts judging people for how they you
know, get they're they're reading downbecause I don't. Well, I'm technically
read the book because I listened toit. Which book? Well, I
whatever? Book? Oh okay,yeah, yeah, I can feel the
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judging us like I'm going to justgo on that note. Maybe you'll be
here next week, maybe you won't. Outside sad. All right, thank
you for hanging and we will talklater. We have nothing else to talk
about. We will talk later.We will be back in a Jimmy bye
So then I said, what aboutBreakfast at sicinys. Well, that's one
thing. We got time to sitback, relax, and indulge in your
weekly tea. Welcome to Breakfast atSicins. Welcome back to another episode of
this podcast that apparently we just kindof taken a little hiatus from. We
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took like an early summer little hiatus, and in my head, I was
like, oh, the season's over. We'll come back in the fall,
sure, but that's way too muchtime to not check in with you.
And literally, when I say you, I mean Erica and for everyone listening,
because so much has happened in thelast two months. Almost when was
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our last podcast? It was Mayfifteenth, Oh lovely, Yeah, so
yeah, May fifteenth to even likethe end. I was like May fifteenth
to like mid June, my lifewas crazy town, crazy what all happened?
And then fourth of July came andnow here we are. Well,
the twins graduated kindergarten, so that'sright. It's like it was like another
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graduation for them because they graduated preK last year, and that was the
whole thing. You know, Iwas wondering about that. Why is kinder
and graduation a thing? Because youstay at the same school. I don't
know why, but yeah, Ifind it too much. Oh this was
way more mellow. They didn't havelike caps and gowns and all that,
or actually they were. It wasso cute in preschool when they did have
the caps and gowns because they're justso little and I'm like already envisioning my
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head, like the side by sidephotos of them, like when they're graduating
high school and I'll be like framemembor something then imagine college. Just stop,
I know, but yeah, it'slife is moving quick survey. It's
gonna start preschool soon. Our almostthree year old, she shurning three next
month. She wants a Buba party. Do you know who Buba is?
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No, becaus not like a boobparty. That's exactly what it sounds like.
When you try to google Buba partydecorations, I get a bunch of
booba Buba is b o o ba. He is a I don't even
know what he is. He's somesort of creature and he's on Netflix and
I believe he's Russian. And yeah, that your face says it all.
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That's what it's like. Uh huh. He's a very peculiar, almost like
a troll. Half. He's likea hairy baby. He's all white,
like white fur. Yeah. Soyeah, he's the most attractive character.
But she's obsessed with this show onNetflix. H episodes like three minutes,
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and it's kind of he doesn't talk, he's just like it's all he does.
It's like oooo she So kids becomeobsessed with it, but they don't
actually know what's going on. No, you do. It's kind of like
I don't know if you remember Tomand Jerry when you were a little but
like I watched Tom and Jerry andthen that didn't have dialogue. It was
just like the cat chasing the Mouse, and it was scenarios and it was
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whatever. So that's exactly what thisis. Like he's trying to get into
this room but the room's locked,and then he tries to put boxes on
top of each other and then allthe boxes fall down, and it's just
it's just a very like fast paced, essentially a stupid show. I wish
I understood what he was to betterunderstand why your child, your sweet sweet
Saveya loves him. I think shejust checks out. It's just like when
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the Twins liked Coco Melon and CocoMelan's just like the ghost creepy like cartoon
characters that just sing nursery rhymes butlike made up ones. Right, So
this has very little movie. Actually, there is music in one of the
episodes of Back when I were inthe kitchen and she was watching, and
all of a sudden, we're like, is that Vechy something like remixed like
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a Vechy levels into like a songof his And one of the episodes were
like, that's kind of dope.That is cool. So yeah, so
she wants a booba party and boonot a boob party. Sure do you
ask a three year old, hey, what would you like for your bay?
I do. I involve her verymuch. She's on the computer with
me while we're looking for decorations,and I keep asking her like, are
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you sure you want to a bubaparty? You sure? Like? I
gave her all the options. Iwas like, you like Mowana, you
like Mini Mouse, And so sheis adamant. I found a place on
Etsy that's that sells a buba pinata. Oh my, got that and a
cake topper, and I think I'mcalling it a day because everything else I
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search, I just get like boobpictures and I'm done with that. So
yeah, so what is the partyentailing this year? Her first birthday was
a big bash. Oh we've beenlike mellow since then. Yeah, backyard
family friends love it. Very minimalPada the cake. You know, we
just bought this like inflatable water slidefor the pool. How that going.
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It's actually not. It was likereally affordable on Amazon some right, check
it out. But yeah, andthen she is a very independent little two
year old almost three year old,to the point where I turned my back
for one second and the next secondshe had chopped her veins off. Yes,
I need to know this story becauseall you did is just so casually
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posted that she gave herself a bang'shaircut. Okay, so here's what happened.
I came home from work. IsI working, oh somewhere doctor's appointment,
and my nanny was there with thekids. And you know he isn't
Maxim are out of school right now, and if they're not doing an activity
with me during the day, thenthey're just at home doing arts and crafts
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and whatever. And that's exactly whatMaxim was doing. And he left the
scissors out. So this is alland so when we asked her, why
did you cut your hair? Shewas max and did it? Oh,
Max and did it? And well, and so then I go to Max
and and I'm like, Maxine,she's saying that you cut her hair,
and he's like, I didn't tellit. I did it, like freaking
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out, and so I was like, well, look, I'm going to
give you a chance to tell methe truth because I'm gonna check the camera
because we have the camera in theirplayroom. And so he's like, I'm
telling you the t I didn't cuther hair. I didn't cut her hair.
And so I was like, well, I don't know why she's pointing
the finger at you. He goes, Okay, I know the truth.
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And I'm like, what, Like, I didn't cut her hair, but
when she grabbed the scissors, Ijust let her cut her hair. Oh.
So he watched her cut her Hewatched her and didn't try to stop
her, didn't you know. Itwas just like like he basically was like
relishing and like she's gonna get introuble, so let me just like let
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this happen type of thing. Ohwow, which I think is even worse.
No, it's not whatever it's justit was just more annoyed because it
was. Yeah, there was aday before the fourth of July, so
I was like, cool, everyone'scoming over tomorrow, and this is what
your hair. So I like triedto fix it. I pulled like some
more of her hair down and liketry to even it out. But there's
still just like holes and it lookslike Lloyd from Dumb and Dummer. Didn't
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a'sa have a haircutting incident? Yes, And I gave Michael so much shit
about it because I was out oftown and and then then here we are
again. It's happening. So idnothing destined to happen with girls? It
always happens, Yeah, I guessso. But so we moved past that
and everything is good. Michael andI took this gnarly trip to Europe which,
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oh my gosh, I don't reallyneed to recap. Just look at
my Instagram. Just beautiful. Yeah, yes, all the things. DM
me if you're going to Greece orItaly and I can send you some recommendations
for hotels or restaurants and places thatwe visited. But how long were you
gone again? Two weeks? Twoweeks? Okay? Was it hard?
To be away from the kids.Yeah, I'd say, like about day
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ten, day nine, I waslike, okay, like after the first
full week happened, like that feltlike it was a good amount, and
then oh my gosh, we havea whole other week. And then that's
when you kind of started feeling likethe days right, well, I was
ready to come home. I thinkten days is a good amount to be
away from them, Like it wastechnically thirteen days, but it was extra
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three days or just too much.Yeah, you start to be like,
okay, we gotta like get backto them, but enough about me.
Oh, I want to talk aboutyou, you know, sisty, I'd
love to talk about me for asecond and talk about you. Today.
I text you and say, wehave so much to catch up on.
You have the nerve to ask meif I got engaged and just didn't tell
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you. I don't know, maybeyou got engaged last night. Okay,
well, okay, if I gotengaged last night, I guess yeah,
I maybe wouldn't have told you yet, but okay. The text was literally
was we have so much to catchup on. Like I that sounds like
you're holding big news that you needto tell me everything else. I know
you bought a house, you movedin with your boyfriend, Like, those
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are the two big things I needed. What else do we need to catch
up on? I don't know,just life. We hadn't texted. We
had not texted for almost a fullmonth. I know I have said crazy
at weddings non stop. But no, so I'm not engaged, which is
very fine by me. But haveyou gone ring shopping? No, that's
gonna happen probably next weekend. Areyou going to go with him or no,
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we're going to go together. We'regoing to just look at cuts and
I am going to know nothing elsethat's exciting. No, I think you're
a trust what I said, there'sa lot of trust. Yeah, yeah,
we'll go with that. But yeah, No, since our last podcast,
I put an offer on a house. I hadn't even started house hunting
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officially. I knew you had theoffer. That's where we left off,
like you were either about to getit. No, you got the keys,
that's all your picture? Did Idream that? You? And I
texted about that. But on thepodcast, last thing was I was about
to start looking at houses. Yeah, I put an offer in, we
went into contract, we closed,I got the keys, and then we
didn't move in for like three weeks, and we just moved in this weekend.
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I believe it's called escrow. Ohwhat, I went into contract?
Who says that, No, yougo under contract you need to learn and
you go into escrow and then youclose. Really yeah, yeah, I
guess you just did it when yougive them your money and then it's like
sitting there, I considered the wholething. Escrow to me, you know
what, I'll tell you. Escromade me cry. I gave away the
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most money I've ever given away inmy life. Oh my gosh, get
over it. This is just thebeginning, just the beginning of all the
money I'm gonna give away. Yes, now you really are gonna live paycheck
to paycheck. I'm gonna be savingmoney. Oh you'll see, and then
you're gonna and then you're gonna likebe like I kind of want to maybe
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tear that wall out or change thisor do that. Oh it's never ending,
like to do list. We havefun whole basement that we're gonna finish.
I'll see, Yeah, there's yourmoney, there goes my money.
But it's all an investment. Itgoes back in the house and then eventually
if you want to refinance all thethings. Like it's it's like a really
really positive situation to be in.Same. I'm really happy for you,
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Thank you, very excited. Verystressful moving it's kind of stressful, like
combining two households. Yeah. See, this is the next step that we
should discuss, is moving in withyour boyfriend right lovely? Yeah? Yes,
friends reference. Yeah. So ithas it been a month since we
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moved in together? No, youspent three nights. Oh, we move
in together in this past we gotit, got it, got it,
got it, got it. Okay, so so far nothing has changed because
you spent the night that much witheach other. Yeah, nothing's changed except
that when I come home from work, he's here. Oh yeah, he's
here right now, he's he's inthe home. I want when you hear
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me, I have headphones, comeout, come out wherever you are.
Okay, So three days cute?Cute? Did you pick furniture around together?
Did you have or just merged everything? We're merging everything. So is
there anything of his that you've unpacked? And you're like, what in the
actual hell we need to get ridof this many things? I'm aware of
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that I haven't seen. It's likeyou're already like, Okay, you're gonna
have to have like your own mancave for all this crap. So he
works from home, so he'll havean office, and I'm like, okay,
whatever you put in that office,fine by me. Right with the
skulls that were in his living room, yeah, we don't. Also like
but him in a Halloween box rightright, I'm Halloween the foam hat that
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he got at Saint Patrick's Day thatwas on display. Oh, it's apparently
sentimental to him because there was thatone night that had so much fun and
this and that and can't get ridof the hat. I understand. No,
I don't get rid of get ridof the hat. Yeah, I'm
sure he will if I ask himto. I haven't asked yet, so
yeah, yeah, may I getit? I remember this? Yeah,
Well, where were you and Michaelliving when you moved in together. I
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was living in North Hollywood in mycondo that I purchased on my own,
thank you very much, snapsnap,just like you, yes, yes,
yes, and and I was oh, technically, oh, we met in
my apartment before this, and thenI bought my condo he moved He moved
into that condo with me when wegot engaged. Oh not till you wait,
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you didn't move in until you gotengaged. How do you not know
this? This is like my motto. Yes, no ring, no ring,
no roof. Where that was?I mean he basically was spending the
night all the time, but hewas not moved in. No ring,
no roof. That's hilarious. Idon't know. I just made that up
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right now, Okay, okay,yeah, so he Yeah, he got
engaged and then he slowly moved in. I want to say lease was up
like that March, so that hereally was, like it was like nine
months and then we were married,but wow, yeah, and then we
lived there and then we went.Then we kept that condo, rented it
out for a year, rented anotherhouse just to feel like what having a
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house is like. Yeah, reallywanted to feel that. And then we
bought our house a year later.You rented that house for a year,
yeah, when I'm actually that's alie. I think it was two years.
You're right too, Okay, yesit was two years, because I
remember what. They redid the leaseand they up the rent. I was
like, you guys just suck,like we're leaving. We wanted to buy
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that house and they didn't want tosell to us. Oh why didn't they
like you enough? I think theywanted to list it to see if they
can get more money because they feltlike they'd have to cut us a deal
just because we've been there ten twoyears. OK. But anyways, this
is not funny, but it isinteresting, Like everyone's stories are just different.
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Yeah, they really are. AndI can't wait to hear more of
like the weird collectibles that you're goingto start finding, because even now I've
been married with Michael together, marriedfor ten together for fifteen years, and
when we left our other house thatwe were at for seven years to this
new one this last summer, heabsolutely will not let me get rid of
all of these, like random beermugs from viny My mom and I were
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talking about this. Men just hoard, just hoard. What is that?
I don't know, shouldn't we belike that? We're sentimental? I kind
of am. I create very organizedhoarding boxes for them, you know,
like it's like not like it's notlike I have a whole room of boxes,
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but I have three little memory boxeson the top of my closet.
One is for the kid's art.The other one is for my own memorabilia,
random learn notes that Michael has,you know, things I have saved
throughout the years. And then theother one that one maybe I could go.
It's a random stuff. It's arandom memory thing that I barely can't
get rid of. But they're small. They are like ten by twelve.
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They're like it's like a big giantshoe box. Essentially. They're really nice
white canvas. They have another they'relabeled, and it's they're just there.
I don't know when I will openthem again, but they're there. Yeah,
And like, when did you stopcollecting kids art? If you're not
opening up kind of like this isthe last year? Oh I don't know,
or yeah, I mean right nowthat box is not that full preschool.
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We have these bins that are inthe garage that we really don't need.
So I can figure out that out. I need to do that Instagram
ad you know where they tell youthe like you put them in this box
and you send them and we'll makea book for you. Oh that's cute.
It's probably not in your ali itsnot in your algorithm. R My
algorithm is all wedding dresses and yeahmiature, and yeah, well I should
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send you some notes going to continuemy algorithm. For whatever reason, my
algorithm is also wedding stuff. Why, I think because we talk about it
on the show so much, becausewhere I'm like, I'm talking one's engaged,
and so I think or like I'mtalking to her about it, Ruby
Tubs is engaged, the engaged.Everyone is going to be engaged or is
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engaged, And so I get allthese random things like you should do this
at your wedding, you should haveyour guests do this, and they're all
like just stupid ideas. I'm like, these are so cute, and I
keep sending them to them. Yeah, I'll send them to you now even
though you don't have a ring.Yeah, no, I'm not engaged.
Once again, I am confusing peoplewith those facts. We talk about it
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all the time, like we areon the speaking of engaged. What are
your thoughts on Taylor Swift and TravisKelsey and are they engaged? Are they
married? No, they're not married. Where are you getting married? Yeah?
I don't know. I think Ireally don't think they're engaged. But
because I think it would leak,but I do think it's possible. Him
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crying at her singing that mashup thatwas clearly very about him and about being
together forever made me feel like,Oh, perhaps they were engaged and that's
why he was crying, or he'sa poor he's about to, or he's
about to. You know, Ihave a theory about her eras tour in
general. Have I shared it onthis podcast? I'm not so sure that
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you have. Okay, So,and this is all speculation, of course,
I know, I know nothing,and I'm being completely honest. The
we know the NFL reached out toTaylor to get her schedule so they can
figure out the NFS the NFL schedulefor this upcoming season, for this upcoming
season, right because I guess theywanted a Chiefs game, blah blah blah.
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Well no, wait, wait wait, I think it was because she
plays arenas and she's not playing manyarenas here in the States. She's doing
New Orleans and Miami, and that'sin Indianapolis. I think, Okay,
thank you, okay, or maybeis it New Orleans, maybe it does
Indianapolis. Whatever, So oh,I'll get to that second. Okay.
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So the NFL thing is one thing. Blah blah blah. The schedules out.
Everyone's doing their games, no problem. Well, when that schedule came
out, which was about maybe likea month or two ago, we noticed,
and me as a Charger fan becauseI have season tickets to the Chargers
here in La Interesting, there isa three week gap in the month of
September where there are no home gamesfor the Rams or the Chargers. Interesting,
(19:23):
very very good detective work you've donethere. Oh, this is I
can't take a full credit. Thisis like combined with like people here at
the office and all of us talkingand getting more like I know this fact
and I know that fact, andwe're piecing it all together kind of.
So that being said, we wouldimagine that Taylor might come back to Sofi
Stadium to do a few more datesso that she could film the Poets the
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Tortured Poets Department, and they includethat into her Disney Plus so that it
can all be part of the Era'stour, because she has been doing songs
from that album on the aras toyleast exactly. Oh my gosh, and
that's not filmed yet. Another clueis it takes her a week to set
up, a week for shows,and a week to break down. Those
would be the three weeks at soFI. She also has a gap in
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her schedule in September. In addition, she has not thanked Los Angeles,
not and I have wondered about that. So why hasn't she thanked Los Angeles?
Really really firing you up? Overthere? Here's my flaw on your
theory. Oh, I don't popmy bubble small. It could mean still
(20:30):
your theory could still hold strong.She's doing two she did that London leg
just recently. She's doing another one. But she did thank London and said
I'll be back, but she didn'tthink LA. Now, another theory that
I have on the whole La thingis that she will probably want to break
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some sort of record as to howearly you can announce a show and sell
it out, Oh, before youperform it, you know what I mean?
If she does this in September,I am quitting my life and I
am finding a way there. Iam I don't be there, you know.
I have to look that up.But I think it's like the I
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think it's the second, third andfourth week of September. Oh my gosh,
or maybe. Second, that doesmake sense. Second, yes it
does. Yes, those are consecutivethree weeks. I just don't think it's
I don't think it's the last week, but I guess it could have been
like the week before Labor Day onNo, because the Chargers have a game
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on like the ninth or tenth whateverthat Sunday is. That's the home opener.
So after that there's nothing until Ithink September twenty ninth. Okay,
so it's like a twenty day somethingalong those lines. Very interesting. I
love your theory. Do we thinkthat's when Travis is gonna propose? No,
I think he's gonna propose on herbirthday after she's done with the tour.
(22:03):
Oh that no, wasn't. No, I don't have a theory about
that. That no, was wrong. No. I think they're going to
be very private about a private weddinglike all of that. But we think
they're getting married, right, Ithink for sure they're getting married. I
think so too. The whole likesong that she wrote in was a two
(22:25):
thousand and six Mary song. Yeah, Mary song. Do you know the
crazier fact about that? The eightyseven eighty nine thing? That's what?
Yeah? Yes, that one.Travis has a grandma named Mary. Oh
my god, I know she didn'tknow this. Well, yeah, this
is like her invisible string. It'sso cute the entire time, the whole
time, all right, And that'sabout Taylor. Yeah, I love her,
(22:48):
but it really brings my my bloodsugar, not blood sugar, blood
pressure. Thank you can't even talkright, Okay. So another crazy thing
that I saw, and this actuallyI saw it right before we went to
break before fourth of July. Ihaven't talked about it on the podcast,
is that people are trying to getvery unique when they're naming their babies.
(23:12):
For sure, it's like a competition. Now no, thanks to you.
Wow, maybe I set the barhigh right right, And so they're trying
to get you know, very creativeunique. They want something different, they
want something whatever. A lot ofpeople are kind of bringing back old traditional
names like I have. I havea couple that named their baby Henry.
Like to me, like, that'sbefore I had that, Like I'm like,
(23:33):
I don't really know Henry and Igrew up with Henry's. I didn't
grow up with Henry's. I don't. Yeah, But and now it's like
that when I see that baby.I'm just like, you're Henry, Like
it's just the cutest. Ever,So these couples are going to graveyards and
actually looking at tombstones and getting oldnames from way back in the day.
(23:56):
Something about that gives me bad vibes. Maybe it's just because I don't like
graveyards. I agree with you.I don't care how cool the name is
or if you loved it the wayit spelled all that, But he's like,
that is that was someone's Now ifthere's a difference between like your dead
grandma or your dead relative that nameand relative whatever, Right, I have
great great Grandpa because that's your familythat I feel like you have merit to
(24:21):
like use that name, right,But in this way, you're kind of
just like taking it from a randomdead person, and I feel like you're
inviting that spirit to enter your life. Why not, you're very has Maxim
been talking to any spirits lately?Why no? Remember didn't he used to
(24:42):
do that? What the hell areyou talking about? Why are you saying
my baby talks to us. I'mswear you told me that on a podcast
once. Anyway, Well, itwas at the time that he like freaked
out and he was like laughing hystericallyand didn't stop laughing, And I was
(25:03):
like, dude, I swear hesees like a funny ghost or something that's
like making him crack up, becauseit wasn't me. Like he was just
straight up having a laugh attack,and like there was nothing that I could
do to break him, to makehim stop laughing. Right, Okay,
so no spirits there those spirits.My thing with the name is you don't
know the life that person lived.What if they were a horrible person?
(25:25):
Yeah, don't like it. Don'tlike it. I believe in spirits,
and I believe that they live onamongst us. You believe you had a
spirit in your old home? Ohyeah, I wonder if they miss us.
Probably it's probably quiet now, maybethey're happy. My house is chaotic
right now. I mean, youknow because you came to visit us.
(25:45):
Yes, No, I mean Ihave three kids. They run around like
crazy. I have three dogs.Diego, yeah, Diego the Domati.
He still he's still around. No, Yeah, he's doing great. Actually,
he is learning very he's basically pottytrained. But it takes that long.
(26:07):
I don't want to get a dognow. Why that just feels like
a long time, haven't you hadIt's like February, yeah, March,
April, May, June, andwe're into July. It takes about three
months, it's change. And thenwe were gone all of June, so
we did we Yeah, so thisis a whole thing. So he hasn't
had any accidents in the house,okay since like I don't even know when
(26:33):
that's what I'm saying. He's basicallypotty trained. But you know there's the
when I say potty train, islike I wouldn't leave him alone. God
it, he doesn't like scratch atthe door. You still have to like
make sure he goes out. Yes, right now, we're like monitoring,
like I know what times he poops, like you know, it's just like
you know, he's very regular,yeah for him. Yeah, But at
(26:53):
the same time, it's we're cratetraining and so they will not soil their
own beds and they'll stay in therecrate until you let them out. And
he's doing very well with that.But he's not doing very well with being
in the crate if we're home,Like if we're home and I'm cooking and
I really can't have my eyes onhim, Like he's not really giving me
any reason lately to like that he'sgonna pee or poop in the house.
(27:15):
But he's a puppy still, sohe can't be left alone as do things.
Yeah, like if we if thekids have their shoes, I'll try
to go for the shoes. He'slearning not to, but he has.
We have dog toys all over thehouse. It's like when I had the
babies and they were crawling and itwas just like toys everywhere. So he's
just the baby of the house rightnow, and it's gonna take some time.
(27:37):
Yeah, you really said, mybaby's not a super baby anymore and
I'm gonna get a puppy. Yeah. Yeah. And Saveah just went into
a big girl bed and I sawthat she is so happy, and I
it was the first time out oflike all the milestones that I've gone with
her. Then I like felt awayand I was like, holy crab okay
(28:03):
after this, Yeah, like she'snot in a crib anymore. Like she
doesn't wear diapers at all during theday. We put them on at night,
but she doesn't wear them during theday at all. Yeah. Oh
oh, I know, Like bythis point, when the twins were this
age, I think I was alreadypregnant or I yeah, no, I
just got pregnant basically because I hadthem and the twins turned three. They
(28:27):
were three years old in three months. Oh my gosh. And I'm feeling
that same way again, that likeyou kind of like the itch, but
no, it's not gonna happen.It's not gonna okay, No, I
got a puppy. Yeah, here'sthere's no way. Here's the itch.
And I'm gonna get a puppy probablysoon, and then you can just come
(28:48):
visit and hang out with my puppyand maybe are you still gonna get a
wiener dog? Yeah, oh it'syeah, for sure, probably in January.
So I think Gypsy is part dogson. I think he's got like long
haired docks in in him or somethinglike his body is a little on the
longer side, like not extreme,like a full bread docs in. But
(29:11):
so if he if there's anything likein the same qualities of like demeanor between
the two, like hopefully that yourdog's kind of like Gypsy. It was
just like mellow and so loving dog. I know, just cuddle exactly.
Diego is forty five pounds and istaller than me when he stands up,
(29:33):
if he stood up on his hindlike he like yeah, if he got
up on his highlands and I wentlike this, like I could put his
like yeah and like his we're faceto face? Can we be fair?
Though? Oh, you're pretty sure? For eleven and a half for me
to take care, I'm going totake a picture of him against Michael so
you can really see how tell youis. Yeah, yeah, well I
(29:53):
want one against both of you sowe can get the full like joy out
of that. Okay, speaking ofdoggin, have you heard of raw dogging?
What beautiful transitions. I've heard ofraw dogging? But what kind are
you talking about? Not the dirtykind? Okay, okay, you both
(30:18):
know what it means. Yeah,it's like not having protection, right,
yes, okay, don't have towhisper podcast. I just want to make
sure we were on the same page. I know, and everyone thinks that
that's what I'm talking about. WhenI say everyone is raw dogging on flights,
It's like, no, not,everyone's up there having unprotected sex.
Right. How did you know?You know? Honestly? Yeah, there
(30:41):
was there was a moment because weflew business to Europe, and then you
thought about it. I did thinkabout it because let me just tell you,
British Airways Airlines, it's a doubleducker, massive air busy and we
were on the second level because Ithought it was so cool to sit up
there. I never have mine.Oh you hate it. I loved it
so much. I was like,this is so clol. I've never been
(31:03):
on a double decker plane. Anyways, So I went to the bathroom,
and the bathroom up there was amassive like I'm telling you, there was
like a padded bench in there.There was like roue floor. I don't
know why, but I came backand I was like, Michael, if
we're going to do this, it'son this flight. And you didn't go
for it. No, we didit, and we were like too excited
(31:25):
to watch movies by ourselves our pods, right right, What could be better
than watching movies by yourself? Well, like maybe when they were like all
the way back on the way back, they we're just exhausted and sexed out,
so we're fine, right anyway,So what is the raw dog?
Okay, has nothing to do withthat. It's basically met And I don't
(31:49):
know why it's guys that are doingthis. Do you know they're okay.
So they're going on planes and they'resaying, oh, I just raw dog
that plane for seven hours seven hourflight, and they're bras how long the
flights were and how long they rawdogged. And what it means is you're
not using your phone, zero technology, you're not streaming movies, you're not
even getting food or drinks. Itis a full on raw dog sash of
(32:15):
staring into the I don't even knowthe back of the seat. I've seen
some people say that Jerry O'Connell,who Jerry O'Connell posted himself raw dog anyways,
I just see that some people willjust watch the plane go across the
map if they happen to have athat's it. You know what, though,
if I saw someone sitting next tome who had access to a little
(32:37):
TV and instead of watching it,they watched the plane go across, I
would think they were a sociopath.I don't. I think I've witnessed this
before I knew about it being atrend, and I I have definitely like
been on flights like to New Yorkand people never want to turn on the
TV. They never literally looked attheir phone. And I don't even know
if they looked at the tracker.They just either like slept maybe, but
(33:00):
I think you're not supposed to sleep. Maybe doesn't count. You need to
be awake. It's supposed to belike a meditated thing. I'll tell you
what. I don't need to meditatethat bad. No. I would rather
take my entertainment. I get I'dbe productive. I like to delete photos
and videos off my phone during flights. Wow, that is really productive of
you. I always try that,and then I get so frustrated, and
(33:20):
then I look at the same fourpictures. I'm like, oh, I
can't delete that one because there's alittle smirk, and then that one looks
a little different, and this isstupid. Wow, well gonna happen.
Would you ever raw dog a flight? No? Maybe Vegas, but that's
the extent of it. And eventhat, I have to have a drink,
so I don't think. So thisis not in your future. This
is not for me. Not likethese guys are doing sixteen hour flights and
(33:43):
whatever and they're trying to like postabout it, and they post about it
after I was talking like, you'relike, so now you use technology,
after you did the whole flight yeah, I'm good without like boredom. Yeah,
I'm good without boredom too. Yeah, I'm just good. And actually
i'm good with all the features metoo, I need all the stuff.
(34:05):
I'm not really on my phone.If there's a TV, I'll stream whatever
movies we're given. And I don'treally bring my laptop to stream Netflix or
anything. I just I just watchwhatever's given. And if not, then
maybe I'll try to buy the I'llbuy the Wi Fi and go on my
phone. But sure, no,I definitely don't read. I'll listen to
a book on tape. I know. Sorry, yeah, we got it
(34:30):
creates a book club, and it'sjust starts judging people for how they you
know, get they're they're reading downbecause I don't. Well, I'm technically
read the book because I listened toit. Which book? Well, I
whatever? Book? Oh okay,yeah, yeah, I can feel the
(34:52):
judging us like I'm going to justgo on that note. Maybe you'll be
here next week, maybe you won't. Outside sad. All right, thank
you for hanging and we will talklater. We have nothing else to talk
about. We will talk later.We will be back in a Jimmy bye
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