January 31, 2024 • 39 mins
Sisanie and Erica break down all the excitement around pop culture's greatest moment: Taylor Swift going to the Super Bowl... errrr, her boyfriend anyway. And what will Taylor wear!? And how does her red lipstick last so long? Sisanie also reveals the milestone moment happening at home this week! The pair also talks Vanderpump Rules season 11, tidal waves (??), and becoming desperate in dating.
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So then I said, what aboutbreakfast at Siseney's. Well, that's one
thing. We got time to sitback, relax and indulge in your weekly
tea. Welcome to breakfast at Sicinys, Welcome back. Happy. Oh.
I was gonna say, have ahappy February. No I'm not. Yeah,
you know what I should say?Happy birthday to my mom. It
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is her birthday today. Your mom'sa January thirty first baby. Yeah,
And isn't that cute because I'm Marchthirty first, So cute, so cute.
Happy birthday to your mom. She'sthe best. It's not that I
forgot her birthday. It's just thatwe celebrated it for like a week already.
She came and stayed with me lastweek and dinners, brunches, all
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the things. In my head,I was kind of like done with it.
But technically it's today. I dothink when we were recording last week,
you said, my mom's getting heretoday. Yeah. Right, So
she hung out, we drank toomuch wine, and it was good.
It was a lot of fun.Let's I always have my mom. When
I came to the conclusion is thatI would like to have her come and
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visit us. More often and haveit be like a routine thing, like
where it's in the calendar every sixweeks she comes for a week for like
a week. Yeah, it's sonice. I truly would love my parents
to live closer to me, butthey will never leave Orange County. I'm
convinced in the house that they,you know, built together. Well,
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the house that they live in isthe house you grew up in. Right,
It's the house I was brought homefrom the hospital in by That house
is home one hundred percent. Hi. By the way, it's Systey and
Erica to do a proper, aproper intro, But here we are.
I feel like it's funny you werementioning before we got on to do the
podcast, like, has this feltlike the longest month ever? Yeah?
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The answer, yes, it feelslike this month has been. And I
think this happens every chain and thenthe rest of the year just like flies.
But it definitely feels like this monthhas been three months in one.
Why. I don't know. I'mnot even doing dry January. I'm I'm
not really doing anything. Yeah,that would drag it out, I would
make it feel like it's dragging outlonger, right, for sure. No,
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No, I had a very boozyweekend. M boozy boozy football.
You know, I'm excited for footballseason to be over. It's time to
cut the booze on Sundays. It'stime to cut the tailor out of your
swift out of your life. It'stoo much till No. Actually, that
part's going to be awful And that'ssomething I've never experienced before when football season
ends. But yeah, we getall these extra glimpses into her life that
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we usually wouldn't have been able towitness in her love life. No,
I'm here for it. It's definitelya Swift Bowl coming up here in a
week and a half, and thatI like, it's motivated us to like
maybe have us You know you're gonnabe in town, and it drives me
so it makes me so sad thatyou're gonna leave because we're gonna have like
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a super Bowl party and flight Noway, I have work on Monday.
I can't stay for a super Bowlparty and then fly back and then like
hump over. Okay, well,listen to me. First of all,
you can control your booze intake.Second of all, and don't tell me
that you're gonna drink on the flighthome anyway. No, I don't know.
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Okay, anyway, what was thesecond of all? The second?
How long is the flight for you? Two hours? I think so?
Yeah. Okay, so the SuperBowl surts is like three thirty, it's
gonna end like six thirty. Geton a seven o'clock, eight o'clock flight
and you're home by nine. Iguess what time difference. I get home
at ten, then I get actuallyhome at like eleven, and then Mom
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is turning today like you are not? Not I am? Okay, I'm
still protesting this because you guess what, We're gonna have a whole Taylor Swift
themed super Bowl, so all thethings. I think. My boyfriend bought
a go Taylor's Boyfriend sweatshirt, which, by the way, is he not
the one for me or what?But I'll tell him to bring it that
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weekend because there is really cute.There is a sweatshirt that's going around Etsy,
and I actually was wanting to buyit. It says Taylor's version,
but it just has like the NFLlogo. Yeah, I kind of like
that one. Get it. Sohere's my great dilemma. Currently, I
am a forty nine Ers. Girltechnically grew up in the Bay Area,
and now I have to root againstthe Chiefs. I have to root against
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Travis Kelcey. My father might beashamed, but I think I might root
for the Chiefs. You need topick us a lane and stick to Well.
You come over here, do youroot for the Chargers? If you're
with me, you root for theNiners. Now you're rooting for the Chiefs,
Like, oh my god. Iknow I am kind of more of
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a Chargers fan than a Niners fan. I know what you mean, though,
I'm like torn because it doesn't reallymatter, like they're not either one
of them or my teams, butyou always kind of want to, like
pick one to win when you're watchingthe Super Bowl. Makes it fun.
They're like, okay, right,I think this person's gonna win her this
team whatever. But yes, itcomes down to Taylor versus the you know,
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the designer of her jacket? Yes, girl, And is she gonna
make her outfit for this game eventhough they're against each other. Now,
my co host and I debated this. I don't think so. I think
a little bit Colo's outfit because ison the Niners. I think she'll make
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her own. She's only Wow,she's got two weeks. I don't think
she will what about I mean,it's Taylor freaking Swift. But will Taylor
even ask? Because, right,Taylor is very much a girl's girl,
which is the only reason I havehesitation that maybe she would. Well.
Also, she hasn't worn all ofher outfits or every since just once.
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Oh really, I thought that therewas another jacket, this last one,
this last coat. She was justwearing like a cardigan. No no,
no, no, no, Likethis last game, I could have sworn
Brittany ma Holmes. They even bringingBrittany Mahomes. No, it wasn't a
Kristen either. I did research,so whatever, you know. I did
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text all my girlfriends yesterday because I'mthinking about the important things with the super
Bowl, and I was thinking,what is Taylor Swift going to wear to
the super Bowl? Will she gobig? Will she stay chill? She's
I mean, it's Las Vegas.It's not gonna be that cold, right,
so you can kind of go flashy. She's not really a flashy girl.
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I mean she performs in dazzled bodysuits every night on tour. Okay,
that is completely different. I thinkwhen she's performing on stage, which
she's not. It's been confirmed.Do not expect any to have a sort
of Taylor's swift performance whatsoever. Thatwas confirmed by TMZ and sources, sources
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close to them. Well, youknow what, she's come about four nights
of Tokyo, Like she's barely gonnaget there in time, and she'll get
there with about twenty three hours tospare. Yeah, but you expect her
to put on her glitter to tubody. No, I don't. I
do feel there's one person in allof this that I feel a little bit
bad for. It's Usher. Noone cares about Usher anymore. Hey,
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I gave Usher some love today onthe air. I said, listen,
it's Usher's moment and let him havehis solo halftime show performance. You don't
think he'll bring anyone out, Idon't. I mean yeah, right,
And as of now it's being reportedthat he doesn't have anybody, but it
would make sense for him to atleast have Little John and for them to
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do yeah, yeah, so funnytoday I thought it was hilarious. Thank
you? Yeah? So yeah,Usher, I mean I get it.
I guess what, sorry man,Okay, So Taylor's just gonna be like,
let me just get on in hereand do a few minutes half.
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No, I don't think she pullslike a Kanye like you're gonna have your
moment Usher right now sitting here.No, I think. I think just
no one cares. Like the TaylorSwift fans are coming out to watch this
in full force much more than theUsher fans are. I'm here for Usher
too. I guess sure, loveto Usher. I guess Taylor is not
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gonna do anything but just look cutewith her red lipstick. Love her,
but it'll just be that. Doesit matter? Okay? But you know
what broke the internet this week?It was her doing nothing other than going
down onto the field after the game, and that sent everyone, including myself,
into a tizzy because she's gone downto the field, the nails,
the red lipstick. Can we talkabout the nails for a second. I
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hate them? What What are theseweird square sparkly tailor. Everyone's saying that,
it's, of course an Easter eggfor something. Oh why else would
she be showing her hand? Yes, she knows I'm going to go down
there for the first time, I'mgoing to be photographed. And it was
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she made a point. She madeit a point to grab his face when
she kissed him, which it kindof is crazy. She's really thinking that
for like that much, right,which I don't think. I don't know
that she's taking it that far.But at least she knew I am going
to be photographed. Everything matters.Now. What I want to know is
what red lipstick stays on like thatand doesn't come off on the guy?
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I know, because I like whereeven a nude lipstick and it's all it's
all over Michael or my kids orwhatever. Right, I know, I
hear the Lady Go House Labs oneis really great. So maybe it's that
we were like in a group chatwith some of my friends and I think,
I'm like, it has to belike an Anastasia stain, because whenever
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I wear one of the Anastasia stains, they stay on like it's like still
on the next morning. Oh gosh. Not acasually, don't do bright red,
but like just in general, likea peachy nude, whatever pink color
it'll say, and I only wearthose when I do, you know,
my show performances like ring your bedazzledbody suits and thigh and I really bring
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it out maybe we need to findlike, uh, signature lipstick for you,
just like Taylor for all these events. Okay, we'll do a trial
and her when you're here. Perfect, perfect, I love. Oh,
we'll do a little video montage oftrying on the best lipstick for my skin,
et cetera. Right, she couldreally rocket red lipstick. A red
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lipstick on me is not great.A red lipstick on me looks like who
brought the clown show? Like asif you could pull it off because you
got like the blonde hair, Likethere's something with the red lipstick and blonde
hair, you know what. I'mconvinced though, it's just so important.
We got to tell the world.I think blonde hair and brown eyes and
red lipstick doesn't work. Blonde hair, blue eyes, red lipstick works great.
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The brown eyes make it do intense. Yeah. Yeah, I had
to have a red lipstick when wewere like all redoing the Ariana Grande cover.
Oh yeah, I thought that wascute. Thanks. We really all
brainstorm together to really promote the excitementfor Ariana Grande. This is what we
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do at work. We have thesepawaws and you know remember being his office
called it the vortex. Oh mygosh, you'd never leave. You'd end
up sitting there for hours and hours. I'd bring my luncheon, I bring
my laptop, my lunch, mywater bottles, all my things. How
many people will go into that?Because that's a small office. It's well
else. She got it cleaned overthe winter break, so a lot of
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the boxes and crap that was onthe ground is now gone, so that
freed up some real estate. Shegot a little bench couch, and then
a little other side bench, andthen the chid and then the director's like,
you could put a lot of peoplein there. Yeah, okay,
you could, you could. Yeahspecial anyways, yes, side, I
digress. You're asking if I haveanything new happening with my family this week,
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and yeah, it is major.What's happening like today on my mom's
birthday? How special is that?Saveya is starting her first dance class?
Oh I when I wrote that inmy email to you, I wondered,
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when does Saveya get a chance toshine? She's ready, and I gotta
tell you, Asa is not excitedfor her, not excited to share hobbies.
I feel like this is going tobe an interesting dynamic to navigate through.
Trying to be now was the timeboredom. I don't know, I
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because I just was like, howmuch more can I add onto my plate?
Let's just add another activity on justseeking. I was at dance with
ASA. Actually this is how ithappened. I was at dance with the
ASA this last week. It's notthis week, but last week, and
she goes on Mondays, and soI was just sitting there and I was
reading like, oh, the springrecital is going to be coming up June,
blah blah blah. And then itwas showing that like, oh,
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only but the only people that canperform in the spring sidle will have to
be two and a half or older. And I was just like, well,
she'll definitely be two and a halfby then, but she's not really
two and a half now, andthey have like rules where they have to
be two and a half by Septemberof the year whatever, So technically she's
a little on the young side tostart. And this could do like I
could do like a Mommy and meclass. I can do like we're the
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one I'm in there with. I'mlike, but I don't want to do
that. So she's going to bethree this summer. I know, she's
going to be three this summer,but she needed to have been two and
a half this past September, andthen she was only she's only like two
and one month, okay, Solike we're talking like pennies and change here,
Like it's not right, literally,like not that big of a deal
when it comes like nickel and dimingthe months in my opinion. So I
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asked a director of the studio andI was like, hey, do you
think that she'd be too young?And she was like no, no,
no, I'd be fine, blahblahs like great. So of course the
class that I wanted was full.They put me on the waiting list,
and then I got an email earlierthis week that they're a spot opened up
and I'm going to take her beforeclass to get her tap shoes because I
was My original plan was to haveAS's old stuff just fit her. But
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because I'm starting Saveyah a year beforeI started AISA, there's oh she's too
big still, and yeah, Asawas three and a half when she started,
Like their first recital, she waslike four. No, there was
a winter recital. Oh, soshe was like, oh I'm still three
and a half. Okay, Ohmy gosh, what four for the next
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one? Yeah, I know.So I'm like so excited, and I've
been kind of telling Saveah. Ithink she understands. I remember, like
last week when I asked her ifshe wanted to do dance, She's like
yeah, and I was like,okay, so yeah, we'll see.
What do you tell her? Becauseit's really interesting. My nephew is only
a month older than Saveah, buthe is he seems like he's five.
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He's super talkative. He knows whathe wants. He tells you what he
wants. So like just Saviah probablyis similar. I just haven't seen her
in a while. Yep. Same, So she understands. She understands,
like she I should basically potty trainer. At this point, she'll literally just
come up and she'd be like booppoo, like it's already in her diaper.
Shoot. But it's funny because inmy head I was actually just looking
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at the diaper sizes two days agobecause I had to reorder them. And
I always like to pick the designsI order from Hellabella shout out to them
and I switch up the designs everymonth, because like this one's I got
like the Valentine's Day hearts, youknow, And I was looking at the
sizing and I was like, wow, I she's still a size She's still
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a size five, and the sizesix is like not until she's over thirty
five pounds and she's only like twentyseven pounds maybe, And I'm like,
she's not gonna be that ever,I don't think. I'm like, the
twins were for sure in size sixes, like I know for a fact because
I remember. And so I waslike, did we have the twins in
diapers just like that much longer?And Mike was like, yeah, we
didn't even start potty treating, startthinking about potty training them until they turned
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three. And I was like,I guess you're right. Like I just
everything's just wow, fast paced andadvanced with her, and she's showing signals
like the twins were just not thatthey were clueless, but they were clueless.
They didn't have an older sibling goingto the potty, you know.
So there's so much of that.How interesting. I can't believe she's like
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this age now. Yeah, she'slike she wasn't really talking sentences. Everything
is It's so funny. She repeatseverything you say, so it'd be like,
hey, like, you know,she's kind of transitioning from her high
chair to the bench or like oneof the regular chairs in that. But
sometimes we have people over, youknow, there's not no seats, and
I'll still put her in the highchair. And I was like, oh,
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there, you're gonna be in thehigh chair tonight. And she's like,
oh, they get in the highchair tonight. Like she just repeats,
like everything you say, she's makingsense of it all. Yeah,
I'm like you, I'm gonna getyou a banana for snack. Okay,
I get banana for snack. Likeit just everything I say she'll repeat.
I'm so excited to see her sointeresting, awesome, And the twins know
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me so much better than she knowsme, so it's like such a weird.
Yeah, you're gonna be a completestranger to her. She's gonna be
like, who the heck are you? Yeah? Not great. I'm just
kidding what I said. You'll probablylike your boyfriend. She probably, Well,
my boyfriend trimmed his beard so allthe kids will like him. I
have to see a picture. NoI posted one. I didn't see it,
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you know I posted I don't scroll. I only say this because my
baby nephew was kind of scared ofhim with the long beard and oh my
gosh, I'm going in you.Oh that is not okay. I was
picturing completely shaved. Oh, ohgosh, clean face. Absolutely not.
I don't know. Wait, wasthis your hard launch? No? Okay,
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no hard launched on Thanksgiving? Dude, I don't know when you did.
Oh I see okay, yeah,for the first time before it was
like a Santa beard but just notwhite. Yeah. I mean yeah,
yeah, yeah yeah, Now youcan see it. It's cute. Okay,
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yeah, super cute. Wow?Is that soft to kiss? What
like his beard? Is it softto kiss or does it irritate? Oh?
I thought you were asking if wewere soft kissing the photo. I
was like, we're very clearly not. Yeah, it is soft. Yeah,
it's never been like I've never beenlike a beard person, but I
guess when it's that long, thatjust looks like it's soft. Now you're
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somewhere else on my Instagram. Yeah, yeah, no, it's soft.
And I almost weirdly just said youcan try it when you meet him,
and then I thought, please don'tkiss him. Well, can I touch
your beard? Sir? I havemy first question, touch your beard?
First question? No, goodbye himso excited to come visit you. I
get so soon it's coming up.I know that the next podcast will be
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Well, no, that way,you weren't. Dang it all right,
we always get ahead of ourselves.Hey, speaking of excitement, Last night,
vander Pump Rules Season eleven finally premiered. Wait, weren't you worried about
being able to watch this because youlike changed your cable and stuff. I
know, but I actually got ascreener from work. I got to watch
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ntink. Okay, I have notwatched it yet because because it doesn't record
it to you and you have towait the next day. Well, Sisney,
I have never had things recorded forme, so because on Peacock it
comes out at midnight and by thetime I got home from work it's now
So this is like not great forme, Like I don't I need stuff
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the day of but at your leisureinstant gratification. I guess I was to
describe it. I think your optionsare watching it live live with commercials the
next day. I don't know whenI got hooked up with that screener from
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work. On Monday, I waslike like winning the lottery. So okay,
Well, let's talk a little bitabout the episode. Don't spoil everything,
but what are okay, so whatdo you what have you like seen
in like the promos that you're curiousabout, and then I can maybe answer
the question that might be easier approachhere. Well, I saw a promo
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that Arianna and Tom are for surestill living together, but they don't speak.
Yeah, so they just don't speakin the house. They communicate through
the assistant, whether it's her assistantor his assistant, but a middle person
shared assistant perhaps, Okay, Butthey both have upstairs bedrooms, which I
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still found less interesting because their houseis two stories, and i'd imagine that
there'd be a guest bedroom downstairs still, but it looks like he's in one
of the other runs the smaller one, and looks like she still has the
primary. And yeah, they don'tever really cross paths. It's almost like
they live in this giant frat house, but it's just the two of them,
and they don't talk. They don'ttalk, and uh, you want
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to cook dinner like that? Ithink they're that domestic, like I think
that they are in and out.And she was you know, filming stuff
and traveling, and then he wasalso traveling and who knows, but you
did mention in the episode that Iguess. Uh, Raquel Rachel still sends
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him packages and send him like apostcard from Arizona with like the lightning and
I'm like, wow, that's someballs to send it to the house,
Like, yeah, I had apostcard like you could read with on the
back. Do they address where Tomstands with Raquel Rachel at this time?
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Like is that talked about in thisepisode? It looks like they're still together,
like uh oh and at this sothis is like shortly after everything.
Yeah, And I was trying tofigure out that timeline because they do reference
and there's a few times that Ithink, like Arianna said, like three
months ago before Tom blew up ourlives and so I think this is all
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being filmed, like may, ohmy god, what took so long to
get it out? I don't know. It sucks because yes, this is
like this is standard procedure. Theyalways do this. They film all summer
and into maybe the fall, andthen they need that time to edit it
and turn it around. I don'tI'm not a producer editor, but that
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was the I mean in theory.In other ways, I am but no,
no, no, what the hellthey do it? So, yes,
I agree with you, way toolong. But and I'm also confused.
Is Ariana and Katie's shop open theirsandwich shop current day at this moment?
Yes, I think so. Iwhat is it called again? Something
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about about her? Something about her? I tried googling it and they could
not find anything. I'm such astalker. Oh I know that, I
mean, something about her sandwich shop. And then when you go and yeah,
yeah, you do something about hersandwich shop, and then it takes
you to this place called All aboutthe Bread, which is that's not it?
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And then if you go to theirwebsite it says like coming soon.
So I'm like, what is long? Because in the that episode they also
were like, yeah, this lastSeptember, we secured the lease for our
sandwich shops. And how long doesit take? Over a year? That's
I mean in the last two years, Schwartz and Sandoval, Schwartz and Sandy's
took like two years or so toopen. So yeah, I guess maybe
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it's that open in this season.Oh, it's open. And apparently they
had like some big viewing party lastnight that if I didn't have to go
to a Grammy event thing, Iwould have totally wanted to go to that
if I didn't have to go interesting. Okay, okay, here's my other
follow up before I actually watched theepisode, where do Schwartz and Sandoval stand
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at this time in the season atthis time, and I'm like trying not
to take out of confuse because Iwas listening to the Nick Vile podcast that
he did yes where he had dressesthat and that's obviously like real time.
I think in this episode they arenot talking. They're not on great terms
at least I don't know that it'snot long great because like they're partners,
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they're business partners at the end ofthe day, right, But they didn't
like show much interaction between them.And then you don't see Tom Sandibal at
all until the very last scene,so you don't see him out on the
whole in the first episode, sohe's like away, he's doing something.
I don't know what it is,but touring where he's dumb, I'm sure.
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But they talk about maybe they talkabout a lot like Laala's you know,
Lala's trying to come around, orat least in the episode, she's
like coming around and like try totake uh Raquel's side a little bit and
being like, I know, Iknow what it's like to be isolated,
and I know what it's like tomake a mistake and to be questioned as
the other woman and all this stuff. And so it did kind of like
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take a turn there because Ariana waslike wtf, like you just you're supposed
support me kind of thing. Likeat the Tables return, which they were
at one point, Lala went likecrazy that everybody or anybody spoke to Randall.
Remember she got all mad at theboys and she was like, I
can't believe you guys are hanging outwith him, like you're like pick with
him. Yeah. Yeah, itwas all about pickleball. Yeah. So
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there's an interesting little thing there,and then it touches on Sena's life a
little bit. It looks like thisseason is getting it messy for Shena.
Yeah. So, like the previewsat this shows, I think Schwartz says
that he hooked up with Sheena likeat the time that she's been married or
I don't know, but we're gonnahave Schwartz in on the morning show here
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at Kiss, like he's at thisweek and I have to ask. I
know, he might don't say anything. It's gonna like that's like the Cliffhanger
teas for like the whole season.Right, Yeah, I could like read
his body language, you know.I feel like he'll squirrel. Yeah yeah,
Oh he's a squirmy, wormy dude. Totally Okay. I liked him
a lot until he's just lost.I feel, you know what it's,
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you know what it is about him, Like he's like codependent. I feel
like he was co dependent on hisrelationship. I feel like it's codependent with
his friendship with Sandoval. I feellike he's totally you know, he's just
kind of like all right, likegoes where the wind takes him type of
thing. I could be wrong,but hey, I get it. Life
is hard when you're trying to navigatethrough it, figure out what's right and
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wrong. And like when you've beton reality TV for the last ten years
and those people are like I can'timagine being a part of that cast.
It's like those people are also responsiblefor your success and stuff, you know
it. It was like his hisloyalty to Sandoval was like the downfall of
his reputation, and he didn't necessarilyhave anything to do with this with the
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affair, but the fact that hedid know about it the entire time and
then was lying and then was like, you know, it's pretty lucky.
Yeah. Well, I'm excited thatit's back. I am. I am
itching for some reality TV too.I'm very excited. The Housewives Beverly Hill's
been pretty good too. I wouldrecommend that one. If you're not watching
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it, I'm not I could bingeit. Have you heard about this term
avalanching for Valentine's Day that everyone's likeon high alert about. No, the
only avalanches I hear about are thereal ones happening in the mountains here.
So does that happen? Oh yeah, it's not horrifying. I think pretty
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bad. I've asked my boyfriend todo a lot of avalanche training because it
freaks me out. I'm sorry,how do you do avalanche training? I
don't know. It's a thing thatlike skiers and snowboarders do. But apparently
if you're at the resorts, you'refine. They won't like come down to
me. Yeah, and pure beinglike a tidal wave, you know,
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No, no, just if you'relike a lot of tide a wave like
a tsunami, that's what I'm picturing. Aren't those the same thing? No?
I don't know actually, okay,but anyway, I'm balanching for Valentine's
Day. I know I don't knowmuch about it. You really stepped me
on that one. It is thetitle wave and a tsunami the same thing.
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Let me google about the title wavea tsunami. Oh. The term
tidal wave is often referred to isoften used to refer to tsunamis. However,
this reference is incorrect. Tsunamis havenothing to do with tides. So
a tidal wave is when the tidepulls back too far and then comes in
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and tsunami is and surfers can surfit. I don't think so. I
don't think so. He's not usedas whatever you're gonna use is as a
video clip? Oam, how bigis a tidle wave? Ooh? Look
that's the next. Tidal waves arepretty darn flat. What that's tide waves?
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That's tide waves. A tidal wavecan reach one hundred feet above sea
level. Yeah, probably not safefor a surfer. Personal surfers are crazy,
though, so maybe okay, notone hundred feet crazy, like that
is ridiculous. I don't know howmany feet is one hundred feet? Okay?
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Usually like I think, like,look up, what's the world record
for a wave that a surfer hassurfed? Because I bet you it's like
maybe fifteen feet maybe no more thantwenty feet, no more than twenty feet,
sissy, eighty six feet? What? Let me tell you. In
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October of twenty twenty, Sebastian somethingname I don't know made surfing history.
He surfed a wave that closed inat eighty six feet. Wow. Okay,
so they they can surf tidle waves, like I said from the very
beginning, Okay, okay, youmight be correct here. They cannot surf
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tsunamis. No tsunamis will kill you. Tsunamis are not like tall waves.
Tsunamis just pull back and then theyjust like pushed all the water forward.
Oh yeah, what was that show? Remember that show that opened with a
tsunami in Los Angeles? Oh?Nine to one one? Maybe I feel
like we watched another I love thatshow. I know it's like final destination
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scenarios, but like every episode's different, and the firefighters anyways. Okay,
so let's go back to this realquick. You might not be aware of
it because you're not on the datingapps anymore. Would you do with your
apps? You just delete them?All? Yeah? Of course, well
obviously, but like, did youhave to like close your account and then
delete him or did you just deletethem? No? I closed the accounts
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and then deleted him. My boyfriendsaid he just deleted them, and I
said, you're technically still on there, and he's like, do you want
me to log back in and deletehim? And I was like no,
but do you no? He wouldnever he would never mess with me.
I know you would never mess withyou, But somebody could mess with his
identity because they could like crack hislike password and then like be him.
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Okay, well, now you've createda whole new scare for me. I
guess I'll let him know that heshould log back in and delete these.
I mean, you don't want todon't even get me started on AI all
right? Oh god, So Valentine'sDay is around the corner, and I
feel like a lot of people areon the apps trying to essentially, you
know, boo up, boo up. Avalanching is when somebody just swipes like
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crazy on people that they want tomatch with that maybe in the past they
wouldn't necessarily swiped right on them.But because there's like a desperation to kind
of have a partner around this timeof year, that you'll see an increase
in matches on your dating profile orwhat people that you're whatever. Basically they're
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lowering their standards right Like. Sothis is a very very kind way of
saying, like, you get indesperate, but okay, I also feel
that there's like a hopeless romantic scenarioin here because there because look, I
think that maybe you in the I'mnot saying you, Erica, I'm saying
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no, and you the general peoplewould be like, oh no, there's
no way I would date that guypast, past past. But then you
keep it open mind and you lookpast his bushy eyebrows, or you look
past whatever threw you off with thatthird picture in his profile and whatever it
is, and you end up swipingright and then you end up meeting and
then who knows, it was likethe great a date of your life,
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and then it actually turns into arelationship because you swiped Avalanchine versus not Avalanche
Okay, I see what you're saying, because I do think that people on
dating apps, myself formerly included,had this like very weird standard of like
everything had to be perfect, whenin reality, no one's like exactly going
to meet every little single thing thatyou think you want, and sometimes you're
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surprised. So I prefer your viewon it. Well, I feel a
little desperate. Aren't we all desperatewhen we fall in love? I don't
think so. I here's I wouldhave three of desperate people and the nicest
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way possible. Okay, rude.Second, that wasn't even a first first
route. Second, I don't knowwhat my second point was because you threw
me off. So I was desperate. I was desperate when I met Michael.
Like I was desperate to find love, I was desperate to find a
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boyfriend. Not that I forced myrelationship with him. I think if it
didn't work out, we would havegone our separate ways. Sure, but
there was a desperation for me tohave a long term boyfriend that lasted for
more than six months at the time, because that's how long my boyfriends lasted
before I met Michael. Okay,fair, there's a desperation for me to
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not date a shitty dude, butyou were desperate enough to like just date
nobody like or to date like acrappy person. No, I'm not saying
that you were that desperate. No, Okay, thank you so much.
But what I wanted to say isI really, really, really genuinely,
after all my years of spending Valentine'sDay solo, those were some of the
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most fun Valentine's Days. I spentthem with my friends. I spent them
doing wine with girlfriends and like doingGallantine stuff and like embracing that single hood
and all of that is over.What I mean, it kind of is
now for me. Yeah, likeyou're gonna have to share all this stuff
with him and then eventually your kids. Like Michael's just the other day,
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he's like, what are we doingfor Valentine's I was like, we should
just be home with the kids.Oh wow, Well, it's like,
what's the point, Like We're gonnago and get like a prefixed dinner somewhere,
which is not the end of theworld. But him and I just
had a lot of alone time togetherfor our anniversaries, so totally, it's
makes it makes sense for us tostay home it's a Wednesday, it's not
like it's a not even on aweekend. But and then on top of
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that, it's like all that timeyou were single. Yeah, one hundred
percent, I enjoyed being single beforeI met Michael. Because you don't get
that back. You don't like youreally even have like your girls weekends.
Like you could have came out here, like just by yourself to visit me
without your boyfriend, which is wouldhave been fine, and we still wouldn't
have had like a girl's weekend.It's like my kids are around, my
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husband's around. Unless you and Iactually like travel to a hotel somewhere or
like fly somewhere together, we willhave a lone girl time. But like
it all goes away. So we'vereally, in this moment, made a
really good strong stance for just celebratingValentine's Day with your girlfriends or avalanching,
because it could be the one younever know. I have to say,
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throw in all the chips and allthe dices and how fun while it lasts,
whatever it is, enjoyed the moment. Don't dwell on being single because
one day you're gonna have to shareyour bed with a boy for the rest
of your life. One day,your best friend's gonna call you desperate.
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I'm not saying you are desperate.I'm just saying, you know, we
all were desperate at one point.I don't know myself that no I was.
There were times when I was like, oh, it's hard out there.
Maybe I should date someone. MaybeI should so maybe, Well that's
what you did. You went onso many first days. I can you
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believe. I couldn't count. There'sso many. I forget some of their
names. I was thinking about theother day. I couldn't remember that guy.
You should have journaled it. Itcould be making it made for a
good movie or a book. Someonego back and go back into the drawing
board and think that as much asI can. Look at your old look
at your old text messages they deletedafter a year or so, they do
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mine do? I've sat up thatway because there's no storage on these things
anymore. Who uses the storage onthese things? Get to get the cloud
you need like a one R twoterribles Okay, it's ten dollars a month
Thereka, you'll be fine. Tryto buy a home, Systey, okay,
the cold or the home okay,well, I have like years and
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years of text messages that I guessI don't need to have on my phone,
so I guess you're right. Cute. Yeah, okay, people are
pining me. I'm supposed to bein a meeting. Oh okay, well
you should get on your way.And this was so much fun though,
everyone take care, Happy Grammy weekendand oh yeah, anyway, we didn't
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even discuss the Grammys, but Ifeel like, yeah, sizz all the
way, Taylor all the way,Well you have to know, Okay, bye bye
So then I said, what aboutbreakfast at Siseney's. Well, that's one
thing. We got time to sitback, relax and indulge in your weekly
tea. Welcome to breakfast at Sicinys, Welcome back. Happy. Oh.
I was gonna say, have ahappy February. No I'm not. Yeah,
you know what I should say?Happy birthday to my mom. It
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is her birthday today. Your mom'sa January thirty first baby. Yeah,
And isn't that cute because I'm Marchthirty first, So cute, so cute.
Happy birthday to your mom. She'sthe best. It's not that I
forgot her birthday. It's just thatwe celebrated it for like a week already.
She came and stayed with me lastweek and dinners, brunches, all
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the things. In my head,I was kind of like done with it.
But technically it's today. I dothink when we were recording last week,
you said, my mom's getting heretoday. Yeah. Right, So
she hung out, we drank toomuch wine, and it was good.
It was a lot of fun.Let's I always have my mom. When
I came to the conclusion is thatI would like to have her come and
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visit us. More often and haveit be like a routine thing, like
where it's in the calendar every sixweeks she comes for a week for like
a week. Yeah, it's sonice. I truly would love my parents
to live closer to me, butthey will never leave Orange County. I'm
convinced in the house that they,you know, built together. Well,
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the house that they live in isthe house you grew up in. Right,
It's the house I was brought homefrom the hospital in by That house
is home one hundred percent. Hi. By the way, it's Systey and
Erica to do a proper, aproper intro, But here we are.
I feel like it's funny you werementioning before we got on to do the
podcast, like, has this feltlike the longest month ever? Yeah?
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The answer, yes, it feelslike this month has been. And I
think this happens every chain and thenthe rest of the year just like flies.
But it definitely feels like this monthhas been three months in one.
Why. I don't know. I'mnot even doing dry January. I'm I'm
not really doing anything. Yeah,that would drag it out, I would
make it feel like it's dragging outlonger, right, for sure. No,
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No, I had a very boozyweekend. M boozy boozy football.
You know, I'm excited for footballseason to be over. It's time to
cut the booze on Sundays. It'stime to cut the tailor out of your
swift out of your life. It'stoo much till No. Actually, that
part's going to be awful And that'ssomething I've never experienced before when football season
ends. But yeah, we getall these extra glimpses into her life that
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we usually wouldn't have been able towitness in her love life. No,
I'm here for it. It's definitelya Swift Bowl coming up here in a
week and a half, and thatI like, it's motivated us to like
maybe have us You know you're gonnabe in town, and it drives me
so it makes me so sad thatyou're gonna leave because we're gonna have like
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a super Bowl party and flight Noway, I have work on Monday.
I can't stay for a super Bowlparty and then fly back and then like
hump over. Okay, well,listen to me. First of all,
you can control your booze intake.Second of all, and don't tell me
that you're gonna drink on the flighthome anyway. No, I don't know.
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Okay, anyway, what was thesecond of all? The second?
How long is the flight for you? Two hours? I think so?
Yeah. Okay, so the SuperBowl surts is like three thirty, it's
gonna end like six thirty. Geton a seven o'clock, eight o'clock flight
and you're home by nine. Iguess what time difference. I get home
at ten, then I get actuallyhome at like eleven, and then Mom
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is turning today like you are not? Not I am? Okay, I'm
still protesting this because you guess what, We're gonna have a whole Taylor Swift
themed super Bowl, so all thethings. I think. My boyfriend bought
a go Taylor's Boyfriend sweatshirt, which, by the way, is he not
the one for me or what?But I'll tell him to bring it that
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weekend because there is really cute.There is a sweatshirt that's going around Etsy,
and I actually was wanting to buyit. It says Taylor's version,
but it just has like the NFLlogo. Yeah, I kind of like
that one. Get it. Sohere's my great dilemma. Currently, I
am a forty nine Ers. Girltechnically grew up in the Bay Area,
and now I have to root againstthe Chiefs. I have to root against
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Travis Kelcey. My father might beashamed, but I think I might root
for the Chiefs. You need topick us a lane and stick to Well.
You come over here, do youroot for the Chargers? If you're
with me, you root for theNiners. Now you're rooting for the Chiefs,
Like, oh my god. Iknow I am kind of more of
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a Chargers fan than a Niners fan. I know what you mean, though,
I'm like torn because it doesn't reallymatter, like they're not either one
of them or my teams, butyou always kind of want to, like
pick one to win when you're watchingthe Super Bowl. Makes it fun.
They're like, okay, right,I think this person's gonna win her this
team whatever. But yes, itcomes down to Taylor versus the you know,
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the designer of her jacket? Yes, girl, And is she gonna
make her outfit for this game eventhough they're against each other. Now,
my co host and I debated this. I don't think so. I think
a little bit Colo's outfit because ison the Niners. I think she'll make
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her own. She's only Wow,she's got two weeks. I don't think
she will what about I mean,it's Taylor freaking Swift. But will Taylor
even ask? Because, right,Taylor is very much a girl's girl,
which is the only reason I havehesitation that maybe she would. Well.
Also, she hasn't worn all ofher outfits or every since just once.
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Oh really, I thought that therewas another jacket, this last one,
this last coat. She was justwearing like a cardigan. No no,
no, no, no, Likethis last game, I could have sworn
Brittany ma Holmes. They even bringingBrittany Mahomes. No, it wasn't a
Kristen either. I did research,so whatever, you know. I did
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text all my girlfriends yesterday because I'mthinking about the important things with the super
Bowl, and I was thinking,what is Taylor Swift going to wear to
the super Bowl? Will she gobig? Will she stay chill? She's
I mean, it's Las Vegas.It's not gonna be that cold, right,
so you can kind of go flashy. She's not really a flashy girl.
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I mean she performs in dazzled bodysuits every night on tour. Okay,
that is completely different. I thinkwhen she's performing on stage, which
she's not. It's been confirmed.Do not expect any to have a sort
of Taylor's swift performance whatsoever. Thatwas confirmed by TMZ and sources, sources
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close to them. Well, youknow what, she's come about four nights
of Tokyo, Like she's barely gonnaget there in time, and she'll get
there with about twenty three hours tospare. Yeah, but you expect her
to put on her glitter to tubody. No, I don't. I
do feel there's one person in allof this that I feel a little bit
bad for. It's Usher. Noone cares about Usher anymore. Hey,
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I gave Usher some love today onthe air. I said, listen,
it's Usher's moment and let him havehis solo halftime show performance. You don't
think he'll bring anyone out, Idon't. I mean yeah, right,
And as of now it's being reportedthat he doesn't have anybody, but it
would make sense for him to atleast have Little John and for them to
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do yeah, yeah, so funnytoday I thought it was hilarious. Thank
you? Yeah? So yeah,Usher, I mean I get it.
I guess what, sorry man,Okay, So Taylor's just gonna be like,
let me just get on in hereand do a few minutes half.
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No, I don't think she pullslike a Kanye like you're gonna have your
moment Usher right now sitting here.No, I think. I think just
no one cares. Like the TaylorSwift fans are coming out to watch this
in full force much more than theUsher fans are. I'm here for Usher
too. I guess sure, loveto Usher. I guess Taylor is not
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gonna do anything but just look cutewith her red lipstick. Love her,
but it'll just be that. Doesit matter? Okay? But you know
what broke the internet this week?It was her doing nothing other than going
down onto the field after the game, and that sent everyone, including myself,
into a tizzy because she's gone downto the field, the nails,
the red lipstick. Can we talkabout the nails for a second. I
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hate them? What What are theseweird square sparkly tailor. Everyone's saying that,
it's, of course an Easter eggfor something. Oh why else would
she be showing her hand? Yes, she knows I'm going to go down
there for the first time, I'mgoing to be photographed. And it was
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she made a point. She madeit a point to grab his face when
she kissed him, which it kindof is crazy. She's really thinking that
for like that much, right,which I don't think. I don't know
that she's taking it that far.But at least she knew I am going
to be photographed. Everything matters.Now. What I want to know is
what red lipstick stays on like thatand doesn't come off on the guy?
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I know, because I like whereeven a nude lipstick and it's all it's
all over Michael or my kids orwhatever. Right, I know, I
hear the Lady Go House Labs oneis really great. So maybe it's that
we were like in a group chatwith some of my friends and I think,
I'm like, it has to belike an Anastasia stain, because whenever
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I wear one of the Anastasia stains, they stay on like it's like still
on the next morning. Oh gosh. Not acasually, don't do bright red,
but like just in general, likea peachy nude, whatever pink color
it'll say, and I only wearthose when I do, you know,
my show performances like ring your bedazzledbody suits and thigh and I really bring
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it out maybe we need to findlike, uh, signature lipstick for you,
just like Taylor for all these events. Okay, we'll do a trial
and her when you're here. Perfect, perfect, I love. Oh,
we'll do a little video montage oftrying on the best lipstick for my skin,
et cetera. Right, she couldreally rocket red lipstick. A red
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lipstick on me is not great.A red lipstick on me looks like who
brought the clown show? Like asif you could pull it off because you
got like the blonde hair, Likethere's something with the red lipstick and blonde
hair, you know what. I'mconvinced though, it's just so important.
We got to tell the world.I think blonde hair and brown eyes and
red lipstick doesn't work. Blonde hair, blue eyes, red lipstick works great.
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The brown eyes make it do intense. Yeah. Yeah, I had
to have a red lipstick when wewere like all redoing the Ariana Grande cover.
Oh yeah, I thought that wascute. Thanks. We really all
brainstorm together to really promote the excitementfor Ariana Grande. This is what we
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do at work. We have thesepawaws and you know remember being his office
called it the vortex. Oh mygosh, you'd never leave. You'd end
up sitting there for hours and hours. I'd bring my luncheon, I bring
my laptop, my lunch, mywater bottles, all my things. How
many people will go into that?Because that's a small office. It's well
else. She got it cleaned overthe winter break, so a lot of
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the boxes and crap that was onthe ground is now gone, so that
freed up some real estate. Shegot a little bench couch, and then
a little other side bench, andthen the chid and then the director's like,
you could put a lot of peoplein there. Yeah, okay,
you could, you could. Yeahspecial anyways, yes, side, I
digress. You're asking if I haveanything new happening with my family this week,
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and yeah, it is major.What's happening like today on my mom's
birthday? How special is that?Saveya is starting her first dance class?
Oh I when I wrote that inmy email to you, I wondered,
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when does Saveya get a chance toshine? She's ready, and I gotta
tell you, Asa is not excitedfor her, not excited to share hobbies.
I feel like this is going tobe an interesting dynamic to navigate through.
Trying to be now was the timeboredom. I don't know, I
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because I just was like, howmuch more can I add onto my plate?
Let's just add another activity on justseeking. I was at dance with
ASA. Actually this is how ithappened. I was at dance with the
ASA this last week. It's notthis week, but last week, and
she goes on Mondays, and soI was just sitting there and I was
reading like, oh, the springrecital is going to be coming up June,
blah blah blah. And then itwas showing that like, oh,
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only but the only people that canperform in the spring sidle will have to
be two and a half or older. And I was just like, well,
she'll definitely be two and a halfby then, but she's not really
two and a half now, andthey have like rules where they have to
be two and a half by Septemberof the year whatever, So technically she's
a little on the young side tostart. And this could do like I
could do like a Mommy and meclass. I can do like we're the
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one I'm in there with. I'mlike, but I don't want to do
that. So she's going to bethree this summer. I know, she's
going to be three this summer,but she needed to have been two and
a half this past September, andthen she was only she's only like two
and one month, okay, Solike we're talking like pennies and change here,
Like it's not right, literally,like not that big of a deal
when it comes like nickel and dimingthe months in my opinion. So I
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asked a director of the studio andI was like, hey, do you
think that she'd be too young?And she was like no, no,
no, I'd be fine, blahblahs like great. So of course the
class that I wanted was full.They put me on the waiting list,
and then I got an email earlierthis week that they're a spot opened up
and I'm going to take her beforeclass to get her tap shoes because I
was My original plan was to haveAS's old stuff just fit her. But
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because I'm starting Saveyah a year beforeI started AISA, there's oh she's too
big still, and yeah, Asawas three and a half when she started,
Like their first recital, she waslike four. No, there was
a winter recital. Oh, soshe was like, oh I'm still three
and a half. Okay, Ohmy gosh, what four for the next
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one? Yeah, I know.So I'm like so excited, and I've
been kind of telling Saveah. Ithink she understands. I remember, like
last week when I asked her ifshe wanted to do dance, She's like
yeah, and I was like,okay, so yeah, we'll see.
What do you tell her? Becauseit's really interesting. My nephew is only
a month older than Saveah, buthe is he seems like he's five.
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He's super talkative. He knows whathe wants. He tells you what he
wants. So like just Saviah probablyis similar. I just haven't seen her
in a while. Yep. Same, So she understands. She understands,
like she I should basically potty trainer. At this point, she'll literally just
come up and she'd be like booppoo, like it's already in her diaper.
Shoot. But it's funny because inmy head I was actually just looking
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at the diaper sizes two days agobecause I had to reorder them. And
I always like to pick the designsI order from Hellabella shout out to them
and I switch up the designs everymonth, because like this one's I got
like the Valentine's Day hearts, youknow, And I was looking at the
sizing and I was like, wow, I she's still a size She's still
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a size five, and the sizesix is like not until she's over thirty
five pounds and she's only like twentyseven pounds maybe, And I'm like,
she's not gonna be that ever,I don't think. I'm like, the
twins were for sure in size sixes, like I know for a fact because
I remember. And so I waslike, did we have the twins in
diapers just like that much longer?And Mike was like, yeah, we
didn't even start potty treating, startthinking about potty training them until they turned
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three. And I was like,I guess you're right. Like I just
everything's just wow, fast paced andadvanced with her, and she's showing signals
like the twins were just not thatthey were clueless, but they were clueless.
They didn't have an older sibling goingto the potty, you know.
So there's so much of that.How interesting. I can't believe she's like
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this age now. Yeah, she'slike she wasn't really talking sentences. Everything
is It's so funny. She repeatseverything you say, so it'd be like,
hey, like, you know,she's kind of transitioning from her high
chair to the bench or like oneof the regular chairs in that. But
sometimes we have people over, youknow, there's not no seats, and
I'll still put her in the highchair. And I was like, oh,
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there, you're gonna be in thehigh chair tonight. And she's like,
oh, they get in the highchair tonight. Like she just repeats,
like everything you say, she's makingsense of it all. Yeah,
I'm like you, I'm gonna getyou a banana for snack. Okay,
I get banana for snack. Likeit just everything I say she'll repeat.
I'm so excited to see her sointeresting, awesome, And the twins know
(17:40):
me so much better than she knowsme, so it's like such a weird.
Yeah, you're gonna be a completestranger to her. She's gonna be
like, who the heck are you? Yeah? Not great. I'm just
kidding what I said. You'll probablylike your boyfriend. She probably, Well,
my boyfriend trimmed his beard so allthe kids will like him. I
have to see a picture. NoI posted one. I didn't see it,
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you know I posted I don't scroll. I only say this because my
baby nephew was kind of scared ofhim with the long beard and oh my
gosh, I'm going in you.Oh that is not okay. I was
picturing completely shaved. Oh, ohgosh, clean face. Absolutely not.
I don't know. Wait, wasthis your hard launch? No? Okay,
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no hard launched on Thanksgiving? Dude, I don't know when you did.
Oh I see okay, yeah,for the first time before it was
like a Santa beard but just notwhite. Yeah. I mean yeah,
yeah, yeah yeah, Now youcan see it. It's cute. Okay,
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yeah, super cute. Wow?Is that soft to kiss? What
like his beard? Is it softto kiss or does it irritate? Oh?
I thought you were asking if wewere soft kissing the photo. I
was like, we're very clearly not. Yeah, it is soft. Yeah,
it's never been like I've never beenlike a beard person, but I
guess when it's that long, thatjust looks like it's soft. Now you're
(19:10):
somewhere else on my Instagram. Yeah, yeah, no, it's soft.
And I almost weirdly just said youcan try it when you meet him,
and then I thought, please don'tkiss him. Well, can I touch
your beard? Sir? I havemy first question, touch your beard?
First question? No, goodbye himso excited to come visit you. I
get so soon it's coming up.I know that the next podcast will be
(19:33):
Well, no, that way,you weren't. Dang it all right,
we always get ahead of ourselves.Hey, speaking of excitement, Last night,
vander Pump Rules Season eleven finally premiered. Wait, weren't you worried about
being able to watch this because youlike changed your cable and stuff. I
know, but I actually got ascreener from work. I got to watch
(19:57):
ntink. Okay, I have notwatched it yet because because it doesn't record
it to you and you have towait the next day. Well, Sisney,
I have never had things recorded forme, so because on Peacock it
comes out at midnight and by thetime I got home from work it's now
So this is like not great forme, Like I don't I need stuff
(20:19):
the day of but at your leisureinstant gratification. I guess I was to
describe it. I think your optionsare watching it live live with commercials the
next day. I don't know whenI got hooked up with that screener from
(20:40):
work. On Monday, I waslike like winning the lottery. So okay,
Well, let's talk a little bitabout the episode. Don't spoil everything,
but what are okay, so whatdo you what have you like seen
in like the promos that you're curiousabout, and then I can maybe answer
the question that might be easier approachhere. Well, I saw a promo
(21:00):
that Arianna and Tom are for surestill living together, but they don't speak.
Yeah, so they just don't speakin the house. They communicate through
the assistant, whether it's her assistantor his assistant, but a middle person
shared assistant perhaps, Okay, Butthey both have upstairs bedrooms, which I
(21:21):
still found less interesting because their houseis two stories, and i'd imagine that
there'd be a guest bedroom downstairs still, but it looks like he's in one
of the other runs the smaller one, and looks like she still has the
primary. And yeah, they don'tever really cross paths. It's almost like
they live in this giant frat house, but it's just the two of them,
and they don't talk. They don'ttalk, and uh, you want
(21:45):
to cook dinner like that? Ithink they're that domestic, like I think
that they are in and out.And she was you know, filming stuff
and traveling, and then he wasalso traveling and who knows, but you
did mention in the episode that Iguess. Uh, Raquel Rachel still sends
(22:07):
him packages and send him like apostcard from Arizona with like the lightning and
I'm like, wow, that's someballs to send it to the house,
Like, yeah, I had apostcard like you could read with on the
back. Do they address where Tomstands with Raquel Rachel at this time?
(22:30):
Like is that talked about in thisepisode? It looks like they're still together,
like uh oh and at this sothis is like shortly after everything.
Yeah, And I was trying tofigure out that timeline because they do reference
and there's a few times that Ithink, like Arianna said, like three
months ago before Tom blew up ourlives and so I think this is all
(22:52):
being filmed, like may, ohmy god, what took so long to
get it out? I don't know. It sucks because yes, this is
like this is standard procedure. Theyalways do this. They film all summer
and into maybe the fall, andthen they need that time to edit it
and turn it around. I don'tI'm not a producer editor, but that
(23:15):
was the I mean in theory.In other ways, I am but no,
no, no, what the hellthey do it? So, yes,
I agree with you, way toolong. But and I'm also confused.
Is Ariana and Katie's shop open theirsandwich shop current day at this moment?
Yes, I think so. Iwhat is it called again? Something
(23:37):
about about her? Something about her? I tried googling it and they could
not find anything. I'm such astalker. Oh I know that, I
mean, something about her sandwich shop. And then when you go and yeah,
yeah, you do something about hersandwich shop, and then it takes
you to this place called All aboutthe Bread, which is that's not it?
(24:00):
And then if you go to theirwebsite it says like coming soon.
So I'm like, what is long? Because in the that episode they also
were like, yeah, this lastSeptember, we secured the lease for our
sandwich shops. And how long doesit take? Over a year? That's
I mean in the last two years, Schwartz and Sandoval, Schwartz and Sandy's
took like two years or so toopen. So yeah, I guess maybe
(24:25):
it's that open in this season.Oh, it's open. And apparently they
had like some big viewing party lastnight that if I didn't have to go
to a Grammy event thing, Iwould have totally wanted to go to that
if I didn't have to go interesting. Okay, okay, here's my other
follow up before I actually watched theepisode, where do Schwartz and Sandoval stand
(24:49):
at this time in the season atthis time, and I'm like trying not
to take out of confuse because Iwas listening to the Nick Vile podcast that
he did yes where he had dressesthat and that's obviously like real time.
I think in this episode they arenot talking. They're not on great terms
at least I don't know that it'snot long great because like they're partners,
(25:11):
they're business partners at the end ofthe day, right, But they didn't
like show much interaction between them.And then you don't see Tom Sandibal at
all until the very last scene,so you don't see him out on the
whole in the first episode, sohe's like away, he's doing something.
I don't know what it is,but touring where he's dumb, I'm sure.
(25:32):
But they talk about maybe they talkabout a lot like Laala's you know,
Lala's trying to come around, orat least in the episode, she's
like coming around and like try totake uh Raquel's side a little bit and
being like, I know, Iknow what it's like to be isolated,
and I know what it's like tomake a mistake and to be questioned as
the other woman and all this stuff. And so it did kind of like
(25:55):
take a turn there because Ariana waslike wtf, like you just you're supposed
support me kind of thing. Likeat the Tables return, which they were
at one point, Lala went likecrazy that everybody or anybody spoke to Randall.
Remember she got all mad at theboys and she was like, I
can't believe you guys are hanging outwith him, like you're like pick with
him. Yeah. Yeah, itwas all about pickleball. Yeah. So
(26:21):
there's an interesting little thing there,and then it touches on Sena's life a
little bit. It looks like thisseason is getting it messy for Shena.
Yeah. So, like the previewsat this shows, I think Schwartz says
that he hooked up with Sheena likeat the time that she's been married or
I don't know, but we're gonnahave Schwartz in on the morning show here
(26:45):
at Kiss, like he's at thisweek and I have to ask. I
know, he might don't say anything. It's gonna like that's like the Cliffhanger
teas for like the whole season.Right, Yeah, I could like read
his body language, you know.I feel like he'll squirrel. Yeah yeah,
Oh he's a squirmy, wormy dude. Totally Okay. I liked him
a lot until he's just lost.I feel, you know what it's,
(27:12):
you know what it is about him, Like he's like codependent. I feel
like he was co dependent on hisrelationship. I feel like it's codependent with
his friendship with Sandoval. I feellike he's totally you know, he's just
kind of like all right, likegoes where the wind takes him type of
thing. I could be wrong,but hey, I get it. Life
is hard when you're trying to navigatethrough it, figure out what's right and
(27:34):
wrong. And like when you've beton reality TV for the last ten years
and those people are like I can'timagine being a part of that cast.
It's like those people are also responsiblefor your success and stuff, you know
it. It was like his hisloyalty to Sandoval was like the downfall of
his reputation, and he didn't necessarilyhave anything to do with this with the
(27:59):
affair, but the fact that hedid know about it the entire time and
then was lying and then was like, you know, it's pretty lucky.
Yeah. Well, I'm excited thatit's back. I am. I am
itching for some reality TV too.I'm very excited. The Housewives Beverly Hill's
been pretty good too. I wouldrecommend that one. If you're not watching
(28:21):
it, I'm not I could bingeit. Have you heard about this term
avalanching for Valentine's Day that everyone's likeon high alert about. No, the
only avalanches I hear about are thereal ones happening in the mountains here.
So does that happen? Oh yeah, it's not horrifying. I think pretty
(28:41):
bad. I've asked my boyfriend todo a lot of avalanche training because it
freaks me out. I'm sorry,how do you do avalanche training? I
don't know. It's a thing thatlike skiers and snowboarders do. But apparently
if you're at the resorts, you'refine. They won't like come down to
me. Yeah, and pure beinglike a tidal wave, you know,
(29:03):
No, no, just if you'relike a lot of tide a wave like
a tsunami, that's what I'm picturing. Aren't those the same thing? No?
I don't know actually, okay,but anyway, I'm balanching for Valentine's
Day. I know I don't knowmuch about it. You really stepped me
on that one. It is thetitle wave and a tsunami the same thing.
(29:27):
Let me google about the title wavea tsunami. Oh. The term
tidal wave is often referred to isoften used to refer to tsunamis. However,
this reference is incorrect. Tsunamis havenothing to do with tides. So
a tidal wave is when the tidepulls back too far and then comes in
(29:47):
and tsunami is and surfers can surfit. I don't think so. I
don't think so. He's not usedas whatever you're gonna use is as a
video clip? Oam, how bigis a tidle wave? Ooh? Look
that's the next. Tidal waves arepretty darn flat. What that's tide waves?
(30:11):
That's tide waves. A tidal wavecan reach one hundred feet above sea
level. Yeah, probably not safefor a surfer. Personal surfers are crazy,
though, so maybe okay, notone hundred feet crazy, like that
is ridiculous. I don't know howmany feet is one hundred feet? Okay?
(30:33):
Usually like I think, like,look up, what's the world record
for a wave that a surfer hassurfed? Because I bet you it's like
maybe fifteen feet maybe no more thantwenty feet, no more than twenty feet,
sissy, eighty six feet? What? Let me tell you. In
(30:56):
October of twenty twenty, Sebastian somethingname I don't know made surfing history.
He surfed a wave that closed inat eighty six feet. Wow. Okay,
so they they can surf tidle waves, like I said from the very
beginning, Okay, okay, youmight be correct here. They cannot surf
(31:18):
tsunamis. No tsunamis will kill you. Tsunamis are not like tall waves.
Tsunamis just pull back and then theyjust like pushed all the water forward.
Oh yeah, what was that show? Remember that show that opened with a
tsunami in Los Angeles? Oh?Nine to one one? Maybe I feel
like we watched another I love thatshow. I know it's like final destination
(31:41):
scenarios, but like every episode's different, and the firefighters anyways. Okay,
so let's go back to this realquick. You might not be aware of
it because you're not on the datingapps anymore. Would you do with your
apps? You just delete them?All? Yeah? Of course, well
obviously, but like, did youhave to like close your account and then
delete him or did you just deletethem? No? I closed the accounts
(32:02):
and then deleted him. My boyfriendsaid he just deleted them, and I
said, you're technically still on there, and he's like, do you want
me to log back in and deletehim? And I was like no,
but do you no? He wouldnever he would never mess with me.
I know you would never mess withyou, But somebody could mess with his
identity because they could like crack hislike password and then like be him.
(32:25):
Okay, well, now you've createda whole new scare for me. I
guess I'll let him know that heshould log back in and delete these.
I mean, you don't want todon't even get me started on AI all
right? Oh god, So Valentine'sDay is around the corner, and I
feel like a lot of people areon the apps trying to essentially, you
know, boo up, boo up. Avalanching is when somebody just swipes like
(32:50):
crazy on people that they want tomatch with that maybe in the past they
wouldn't necessarily swiped right on them.But because there's like a desperation to kind
of have a partner around this timeof year, that you'll see an increase
in matches on your dating profile orwhat people that you're whatever. Basically they're
(33:13):
lowering their standards right Like. Sothis is a very very kind way of
saying, like, you get indesperate, but okay, I also feel
that there's like a hopeless romantic scenarioin here because there because look, I
think that maybe you in the I'mnot saying you, Erica, I'm saying
(33:36):
no, and you the general peoplewould be like, oh no, there's
no way I would date that guypast, past past. But then you
keep it open mind and you lookpast his bushy eyebrows, or you look
past whatever threw you off with thatthird picture in his profile and whatever it
is, and you end up swipingright and then you end up meeting and
then who knows, it was likethe great a date of your life,
(34:00):
and then it actually turns into arelationship because you swiped Avalanchine versus not Avalanche
Okay, I see what you're saying, because I do think that people on
dating apps, myself formerly included,had this like very weird standard of like
everything had to be perfect, whenin reality, no one's like exactly going
to meet every little single thing thatyou think you want, and sometimes you're
(34:23):
surprised. So I prefer your viewon it. Well, I feel a
little desperate. Aren't we all desperatewhen we fall in love? I don't
think so. I here's I wouldhave three of desperate people and the nicest
(34:45):
way possible. Okay, rude.Second, that wasn't even a first first
route. Second, I don't knowwhat my second point was because you threw
me off. So I was desperate. I was desperate when I met Michael.
Like I was desperate to find love, I was desperate to find a
(35:06):
boyfriend. Not that I forced myrelationship with him. I think if it
didn't work out, we would havegone our separate ways. Sure, but
there was a desperation for me tohave a long term boyfriend that lasted for
more than six months at the time, because that's how long my boyfriends lasted
before I met Michael. Okay,fair, there's a desperation for me to
(35:28):
not date a shitty dude, butyou were desperate enough to like just date
nobody like or to date like acrappy person. No, I'm not saying
that you were that desperate. No, Okay, thank you so much.
But what I wanted to say isI really, really, really genuinely,
after all my years of spending Valentine'sDay solo, those were some of the
(35:51):
most fun Valentine's Days. I spentthem with my friends. I spent them
doing wine with girlfriends and like doingGallantine stuff and like embracing that single hood
and all of that is over.What I mean, it kind of is
now for me. Yeah, likeyou're gonna have to share all this stuff
with him and then eventually your kids. Like Michael's just the other day,
(36:14):
he's like, what are we doingfor Valentine's I was like, we should
just be home with the kids.Oh wow, Well, it's like,
what's the point, Like We're gonnago and get like a prefixed dinner somewhere,
which is not the end of theworld. But him and I just
had a lot of alone time togetherfor our anniversaries, so totally, it's
makes it makes sense for us tostay home it's a Wednesday, it's not
like it's a not even on aweekend. But and then on top of
(36:37):
that, it's like all that timeyou were single. Yeah, one hundred
percent, I enjoyed being single beforeI met Michael. Because you don't get
that back. You don't like youreally even have like your girls weekends.
Like you could have came out here, like just by yourself to visit me
without your boyfriend, which is wouldhave been fine, and we still wouldn't
have had like a girl's weekend.It's like my kids are around, my
(36:58):
husband's around. Unless you and Iactually like travel to a hotel somewhere or
like fly somewhere together, we willhave a lone girl time. But like
it all goes away. So we'vereally, in this moment, made a
really good strong stance for just celebratingValentine's Day with your girlfriends or avalanching,
because it could be the one younever know. I have to say,
(37:22):
throw in all the chips and allthe dices and how fun while it lasts,
whatever it is, enjoyed the moment. Don't dwell on being single because
one day you're gonna have to shareyour bed with a boy for the rest
of your life. One day,your best friend's gonna call you desperate.
(37:42):
I'm not saying you are desperate.I'm just saying, you know, we
all were desperate at one point.I don't know myself that no I was.
There were times when I was like, oh, it's hard out there.
Maybe I should date someone. MaybeI should so maybe, Well that's
what you did. You went onso many first days. I can you
(38:04):
believe. I couldn't count. There'sso many. I forget some of their
names. I was thinking about theother day. I couldn't remember that guy.
You should have journaled it. Itcould be making it made for a
good movie or a book. Someonego back and go back into the drawing
board and think that as much asI can. Look at your old look
at your old text messages they deletedafter a year or so, they do
(38:27):
mine do? I've sat up thatway because there's no storage on these things
anymore. Who uses the storage onthese things? Get to get the cloud
you need like a one R twoterribles Okay, it's ten dollars a month
Thereka, you'll be fine. Tryto buy a home, Systey, okay,
the cold or the home okay,well, I have like years and
(38:53):
years of text messages that I guessI don't need to have on my phone,
so I guess you're right. Cute. Yeah, okay, people are
pining me. I'm supposed to bein a meeting. Oh okay, well
you should get on your way.And this was so much fun though,
everyone take care, Happy Grammy weekendand oh yeah, anyway, we didn't
(39:16):
even discuss the Grammys, but Ifeel like, yeah, sizz all the
way, Taylor all the way,Well you have to know, Okay, bye bye
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