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Cheaters, Beware of the Roses.She's on the air with c K and
Carmen in the morning on b ninetyfive. Maybe just maybe we're gonna catch
ourselves the cheaters ck and Carmen Warof the Roses. Here we go with
something. Man. Yeah, man, I'm gonna be straight up, like
everything's going great, Like we're havinga great relationship. Everything's going great,
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but like sometimes she's staying at work, like really really late with her clients,
and like at this point, I'mlike, Okay, this is weird
because like I'm not sure what tothink because like like she is the breadwinner
and everything, like she works hardto makes a lot of money. She
helps support us. But at thesame time, like it just seems it
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seems weird that she's always working late, like kiss goodbye when she leaves.
We're still having like we're still intimatea lot, and it's everything seems to
be going well, but I justI don't know, I feel like something
isn't right. Okay, So she'sthe breadwinner, and if I'm not mistaken,
just looking at your email, youguys have been married for about eight
years and you do have kids.Correct, You're saying everything else seems to
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be fine. So it's not likethere's an action that's making you feel a
certain way other than the fact thatshe's staying out late. So what is
What do you think is making youfeel that gut feeling? Is it just
like a feeling you got out ofnowhere? Was it because she started dressing
up a little too much? Whatgave you that feeling? Honestly, it's
just like a like an eerie youknow how somethimes you feel like someone's watching
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you. Yeah, I understand whatyou're saying. Hold on a little bit
because I could barely hear you.It sounds like you got a little muffled
there. But go ahead. Yousaid you get that eerie feeling. Yeah,
it's just like like sometimes you feellike someone's watching you when you feel
like I don't know, it's hardto explain it, but it's like I
just feel like something off, something'sokay. I mean, I guess that's
the best way of looking at it. There's no real red flag. It's
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like you said, you guys arestill intimate. She still gives you a
kids before she leaves. The onlyreal red flag is that she's working a
little bit later. But she kindof is the breadwinner, and sometimes things
happen. Hey, listen, yougotta bring home the bacon. Yeah,
and that woman's intuition is a veryreal thing. But also men get it
from time to time. Called theguy's gut. Oh, there is guy's
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gut. So here's what we're gonnado, Tyler. We're gonna get chavan
on the phone. We're gonna offerup a dozen roses. We're gonna offer
up a couple's massage. We're gonnasee, you know, where this whole
thing goes. We'll bust out seaand see floral and uh, we'll see
what she says. Okay, let'swhat's gonna happen. We're gonna get her
on the phone. Next CKA andCarmen B. Ninety five, War of
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the Roses CK and Carmen in themorning, catching those cheaters. It's War
of the Roses now on B ninetyfive. All right, So we're gonna
get her on the phone. We'regonna see what's going on inside this War
of the Roses c K and CarmenB. Ninety five. Hello, good
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morning, morning, good morning.I'm looking for Chavon. This is her,
Chavon how you doing. It's Rogersfrom CNC Floral, brand new floral
shop that just opened up over hereat Sean Blackstone and we have a tremendous
promotion for you today. Uh youknow what, Ka and Carmen. I
know that you so wait what updateis it? Like the roses or what?
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Well? If you know Rogers iscalling, yeah, he's pretty much
down. You know what's Award Rose? So you know what we're calling you,
right? You kind of know allthis works? Yeah? Is John
on the phone? John Jacob?Yeah, that that's not John, that's
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Tyler. Yeah wait, this isthis is Tyler? All right? You
know Tyler's your husband? Right?Oh? Yeah, I know why why
is he called calling me? Butwho is John? Yeah? That's the
real question. Who is John?Because something is not adding up right now?
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Like everything was good, you knowwho we are, and then you're
like, is John on the phone? I'm like, Jevan's a little confused
right now at first, but nowshe's go ahead, girl speak on all
right? Okay, Okay, okay, I mean not how I wanted to
do it, definitely, Okay,So Hi, here's the deal, Like
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I needed something else, Like Ijust needed something else so for like five
years, I've I've been seeing someoneand it just keeps us happy and that's
that's the most important. Okay didyou just say for five years? Yeah?
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Wow? Okay, and she hithim with the nickname too Tai Ti.
Listen, I'm gonna tell you something. So how do you feel about
this? Obviously this is something that'suh, you had a feeling about,
but now that you're you've confronted herand it's confirming what you felt is real.
What do you think? I mean, I know you're stunting a little
bit. Well, Tyler's quiet,Tyler's not saying a word. So Tyler,
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you gotta say something now, man. I mean, I don't know
the way you're so nonsolant about it, like it's not a big deal and
calmed too though, And that's whatI was gonna say, Carmen, because
it's almost like she don't care.Yeah, she sounds like she don't care.
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And it seems like you're, Idon't know, not too shocked or
maybe he's in shot or maybe inshot, like speechless, like I don't
know what to say because your hellarelaxed. It sounds like you know,
five years is a long time forsomeone to be cheating on you, and
you're like, like, what doyou say to that? Like if someone's
you know, at five he like, so hold on, Tyler, you
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speak up, like tell him,let us know what the heck is on
your mind right now, because we'rewe're feeling a lot of emotions for you.
I mean, I don't, Idon't know. I don't know what
I'm supposed to say, Like Ididn't. I don't blame you. You,
I mean you was happening, butfive like for the five years,
like I didn't, that's not chavan. You really didn't. You don't you
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don't care that you just threw thisat him, like this is your husband
we're talking about. I know,but it's not like that. It's like
a band aid, you know,you gotta explain the v well, you
know, instead of just being likelet me tell you at the beginning and
this, No, here's the thing. It's like ripped a band aid off
so that we can get to what'sunderneath. Okay, So did you have
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a plan though, did you likethink at some point you're gonna let him
know that this has been going onand how you can work through it.
I mean, it doesn't sound likeyou're trying to leave child. I don't
think she's trying to work through it. No, No, it's because it's
it's about what I need, andI just I need something else, like
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I don't. This is where Idon't want to do it on radios.
This is why it's bad, becauselike I just I need something else,
like in bed, I just needsomething different than what we have. But
we have good marriage, you know, And that is the problem you think
about that you have. I mean, okay, I guess you kind of
knew that's why I'm here. Butlike, for the most part, like
it just works like it's my thing. It takes care of my thing,
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and then I just keep it outof your life. You don't need to
know about it or care about itbecause it's not about that. It's making
our life better. You know whatthis sounds like. This sounds like you
want to be in an open relationshipand you want him to be understanding of
what's going on, and he shouldbe okay with it because well, everything
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is being taken care of. Yeah, and then I'm not going to feel
resentful that I'm a whole and I'mnot getting what I want. I mean,
but you couldn't have this conversation withhim to let him know, Hey,
I think we're lacking in the bedroom. Be upfront with him about that.
I mean, that would have beena better idea. I mean,
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yeah, because I get it,you're paying the bills in all, but
at the same time, you're ina relationship slash marriage where you are committed
to one another. So it's notlike, you know, it's one of
those things where you don't have conversation. You're in a we're talking marriage stage
now, so you should be ableto come to him at least to be
like, hey, something ain't writewith us. If you can't tell him
that, hey, the bedroom isnot a situation that I'm excited about,
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then maybe just be upfront about thefact that you feel like somebody's missing.
Hey, his guy's gut was righton the money. It was really weird
because if I'm not mistaken, yousaid the intimacy was good. She still
gives you a kids goodbye. Wellhe thought it was good. Yeah,
No, he thought it was good, but something just wasn't right. Now
we figure out something isn't right andit's in the bedroom, and what are
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your thoughts I mean, Tyler,now that you hear this, Yeah,
especially the fact that she's not tryingto go anywhere, She's just trying to
live this lifestyle. Tyler, whatare your thoughts? Man, I don't
know, I don't I just Idon't know what to say. Guys.
I gotta I think, I gottago. No. No, I understand
this is one of those conversations thatwe can't solve it for you guys on
the radio. I mean, we'renot going to get to the bottom of
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it under normal circumstances. I'm happythat oh chavan knew exactly who we were,
but man, this was crazy.Yeah. And obviously she's been meaning
to let that out, because boywas it easy for he just spill out.
Well, I don't mean to bakeyou, Dave easier, but I
literally have to go. No.I know, I know you read what.
You gotta get back to working.Hi, I love you. I
talked to you later, Love you. Go buy wow damn. Okay,
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Well, Tyler, we're gonna goahead and get you off the phone.
Man, I'm sorry, this isa lot for you to take in today.
This is a lot for you tohave to figure out. And I
know that that wasn't easy. Imean, all right, sorry about that.
Hold on now, man hold onnow, we get it. There
you go, this morning's War ofthe Roses Ck and Carmen b. Ninety five.