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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jackson is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted from a date he
went on with a woman named Amanda. So in a
few minutes we'll call her see if she'll tell us
why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
But first, Jackson, how long has it been since you
heard from Amanda?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Like long enough to know you're getting ghosted? Days? Or
is this like that you added the date last night?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
No, like it's you know, it's been three days, maybe
three and a half.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
Okay, what makes you feel like you're being ghosted?
Speaker 6 (00:35):
Well, I mean we went on on this great day, right,
We were to the same place that we both wanted.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
To go and wanted to try. And I mean it
was really nice and you know, we had.
Speaker 6 (00:46):
Three courses Whiningssert, and it felt really awesome. You know,
it was really romantic, easy. Amanda's beautiful and she youat
all her food. It was so cute, you know, and
I mean it is it would be to start of
something great, but she hadn't you know.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
I mean, I've written her, you know, I walked into
her car. I wrote her afterwards.
Speaker 6 (01:08):
And said, you know, you know, I hope to hear
from her, and I thought she would write me back,
and she never wrote me back, and I.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Kind of want to know what a problem is.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
So you said what to her, I'm sorry, I hope
to hear from you.
Speaker 6 (01:20):
No, I said, you know, it was a great date,
and I hope you know, you know, I hope to
hear from you. When we left the date, and then
when I texted her, I said, it was a great
night last night.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
And she didn't respond, Well, why why do you think
she's ghosting you?
Speaker 4 (01:33):
Well, I mean I was fifteen minutes lady.
Speaker 6 (01:36):
I mean I had to take my dog out, and
I was apologetic about, you know, like I kind of
mismanaged my time, and she kaved me about it a
little bit, and I thought it was a joke.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
But I don't know.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
Maybe, you know, first impressions are tough, you know, I
don't know. Maybe she seemed like she understood and got
over it, but maybe she didn't.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
So when you arrived, was she kind of cold shoulder
like at that point? Was she cool with you? You know,
somebody s updirten say you're kind of mad or annoyed,
I should say, but that's valid and it's the first time.
So then was she like, so anyways, tell me what
sign you are? Or was she more like can we
just order?
Speaker 6 (02:13):
She made she made a couple of jabs and uh,
but she didn't you know, she got over quick.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
Okay, it sound like she got over quick.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
I feel like that's fair. Yeah, how the rest of
the date go personally?
Speaker 6 (02:26):
You know, we had we had we had three courses,
you know, one misserer and and we we discussed you know,
with the food, and we discussed like, you know, travel
and we liked to be both like to travel. We
both like this, you know, like like wanted to go
to Italy and you know.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
I mean it was like it was pretty good, Like
we had a really good conversation. It was a long night.
I mean, I thought it was really good.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
So you felt like she was engaging with you and
asking you questions and stuff like that.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Absolutely, I didn't. I walked her to a car at
the end. So I feel like, you know, it wasn't
like she wasn't put off, It wasn't awkward.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Did you put her on your lips at the end.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
What do you say, like, because if he did it
the way Jubel said, then that would absolutely be why he's.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Getting ghosted in So no kiss, did you guys hug
at least?
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Or yeah, we got like a half hug.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
That's not a good sign. I'm not gonna lie. Every
time I've half hugged a guy it kind of resulted.
I mean they were talking to him again in.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
A rush, or you're like on your way somewhere.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
I feel like it was a good ending even though
it was a half hug. It sounds good.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Okay, But now she hasn't talked to you in a
few days, and you want to know why you're getting ghosted,
So play a song come Back, and then we'll call
her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Okay, excellent, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Play a song, come back, get your first day follow
up next if you're just joining us for today's first
date follow up. Jackson is on the phone and he's
getting ghosted by Amanda. So we're about to call her
and see if she'll why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him another day. But first Jackson, Why don't you
remind us about your situation?
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Well, I met Amanda and we went out on a
great day, and you after thinking about it and talk
to you guys, I feel like we had a really
good time and I really don't know why she's not
getting back to me. After a few days, I wrote
her and she didn't texting back at all, and I feel,
you know, like she shout up, it was definitely a
good time.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
What was the last thing you said to her own text?
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I said to her, you.
Speaker 6 (04:27):
Know, I had a really good time last night, and
I thought, you know, she would have.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Gotten back to me.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
M okay, Well you ready for us to call her
and see if we still tell us why she's ghosting you?
Speaker 4 (04:37):
Absolutely?
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Here we go.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Well, I'm asking to Amanda. Please, this is Jesus calling hi, Amanda.
My name is Jewbel and this is a radio show.
It's called the Jewbil Show.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Yes, the show is here. My name is Nina. Hi,
I'm Joria Hi.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Hi, Hey hi, oh you know the show?
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:07):
Yeahs so great.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I'm actually calling today because you went out on a
date with somebody and now you're ghosting them.
Speaker 7 (05:17):
Okay, I might need more info.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Well, you know, we do the first eight follow up
on the show where if you go out on date
with somebody you ghosts them, they can email us to
get you on the phone and ask why we got
an email about you from a guy named Jackson.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Oh okay, I laughing at was that a good date
for you?
Speaker 7 (05:42):
He doesn't know why? I guess no, he does not
that crazy that he has no idea why.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Okay, so it should be obvious.
Speaker 7 (05:55):
Yeah, I would say like, okay, this is this is nuts. Okay, hey, yeah,
so well, let me let me preface. The restaurant was
fantastic and the food was fantastic, and that was good.
The company was not good.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
He seemed to have a different perspective on it.
Speaker 8 (06:16):
That's weird because he spent the entire night just hitting
on the server.
Speaker 7 (06:22):
So I have no idea why he would be confused.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
He was hitting on the server obviously.
Speaker 8 (06:27):
Oh like huge, Like like I checked out five minutes in.
Speaker 9 (06:33):
Oh, and I was like, I'm good, the food's good,
and I just focused on my food and getting you know,
a good meal out of it, and that was it.
But I checked out five minutes in because instantly he
was like, oh, you're so gorgeous and like it's like, oh,
your hair's so pretty and like, oh my gosh, I
love the color of your nails and like like yeah,
(06:53):
like no joke, Like he was making jokes about like
feeding her what came and he was like, oh, you
want to bite us and like I.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Can eat you. Oh yeah, Like he commented on her
legs at one point, like it was it was sick.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
That is a little bit awkward and a huge red flag.
But yeah, uh.
Speaker 7 (07:13):
Yeah, tell me about it.
Speaker 8 (07:14):
Like the fact that he doesn't know what's going on,
it just blows my mind.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
That's just kind of fun.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
I mean that's blatant.
Speaker 8 (07:22):
Yeah, Like I mean in front of me, he was
just like he was like anstedly she walks up and
he's like he's like, oh, hey, you're gorgeousn't any Just
like every time she came to the table, there was
something else, Like he talked about you was just like
oh this is there, like it was as sweet as
you are and blah blah blah.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Yeah, that's also kind of like rude, like you're on
a date with someone else.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Did he say that stuff to you too? Was it
just like how he communicates with women or was it
her specifically, No.
Speaker 7 (07:50):
Like there wasn't even like a you look nice like
there was like all on the waitress I was. I
was flabberg acid.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
Like okay, well, thank you for telling us.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Also, I don't know if you forgot, but Jackson is
on the phone listening and wants to talk to you
or maybe find out the waitress isn't at the same time.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
I don't know, but oh well, like what is that about?
Like way I wasn't like you need to sound like
I was really elaborate like I've always you know.
Speaker 6 (08:19):
Just talked to you know, you know, to your service,
you know, awesome and give them great compliments because they
figure serving and better pores and I mean you treat
me all around. It's like a win win, And that's
what I was doing. And I just I don't think
that was like, you know, like into the serpent into
the waitress so.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Much like that's teaching you you're please and thank you sir,
not like you give me your legs.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Well she had legs, what.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
So you were hitting on her.
Speaker 8 (08:51):
If she hadn't had nice legs, then you wouldn't take
one of them, because I feel like you should compliment
her legs no matter what her legs look like, if
that's just strategy going.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
For well, she had nice legs, But I wasn't. I
mean it was it was just something to hit like,
you know, to say terror. It wasn't like I was
hitting on her.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
If no matter what, if you say to a woman
you have nice legs, that comes across as.
Speaker 8 (09:12):
Hitting on yeah, for real, Like I mean, because you're
complimenting like her looks all the time. You could have
like if you were doing that, you could have said like, oh,
you're so nice and thank you and you're so helpful
and like, you know, you could have said like I
like your nails, not like oh, your nails are so
beautiful and I love that collar, like you know what
I mean.
Speaker 7 (09:29):
Like you could have just been like, oh, where'd you
get have done or something? But no, like you're hitting
on her because you're talking about.
Speaker 8 (09:35):
Her looks to her every time she came to the table,
Like that's not like that's not getting extra stuff out
of it.
Speaker 7 (09:44):
That's not what you're talking about.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
Wow, I didn't really realize you really tells type Like
I'm not into that, Like I'm.
Speaker 7 (09:55):
Just not into rude people. And let me remind you
that you're the one that like wanted me so bad
that you're willing to go on the.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Radio and do this.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
It's all good because I was really so good to
that girl. I got her number, and you know, so
you were.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
Then if you got the number, have you tried the number?
Speaker 4 (10:15):
Because I got a stake, Amanda, You're impossible.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Well, I would love to ask, Amanda, would you like
to go on another date with Jackson?
Speaker 3 (10:23):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7 (10:25):
There is never a chance in this world that I
would ever do that.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
Absolutely, Okay, So your loss, Amanda.
Speaker 7 (10:36):
Oh no, I guess I'm just gonna have to take
the l on that one.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
Jules first follow up