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January 3, 2025 12 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Lisia is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.
So in a second, we're gonna call him and see
if I'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and maybe
get her another date. But first, Lesia, how long has
it been since you heard from James.

Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah, it's been about a week.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
And then how many times have you reached out to
him in that time?

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, like kind of a bunch. I was, uh, you know,
I was texting a bunch. You know, we had a
great connection and you know, you know, I was we
were trying to get together, and you know, I texted
a few times, and you know, we had a plan.
He canceled. We felt like he needed the weekend to recover.
I offered to make him soup wish. He declined, and I,

(00:48):
you know, and then after that I texted him a
couple of times. He's feeling and like nothing.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
So did your date happen or this was after the date?

Speaker 1 (00:57):
No? Well, well we had a first date, okay, okay,
but then after that nothing happened.

Speaker 3 (01:03):
Okay, Well, tell us about the date.

Speaker 1 (01:05):
Well, we met Unhinge first of all, and like we
talked a little bit, and we wanted to go out
because we both like really like food and travel and stuff.
And he's in a band and I used to sing
in a band, so we had like a lot of
great connections. And so we met for cocktails and we
like bounced around and got tacos and ended up at
this like karaoke place, which was really fun. After karaoke,

(01:28):
we went back to his place and we were hanging
out and like cuddling and stuff. But we did look up,
but there was like a lot of like affection myself.
And in the morning we kissed and like we pramned
on seeing each other again like the next weekend. So
that was the date.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
Is there anything that happened on the date that could
have been awkward or something that would cause him to
not want to talk to you again?

Speaker 1 (01:52):
So I talked this over a bit, and I think
there might have been which I like won't apologize for,
and like I've been feeling bad about it. So like
when we were like hanging out and cuddling, he like
pulls on his phone to play me, like a rough
edit of his band's new song, and I was excited
to hear it. I was glad he wanted to share

(02:12):
it with me, and you know, because I love the
music background, I didn't feel like I knew to hold
back what I thought, you know, So I mean I
told him, I was like, I think this is like
a great idea for a song. I said, like some
of the lyrics were a little cheesy, and you know,
the voice was a little picky and certain points, and
like one of the lyrics in particular was like about

(02:33):
her love being like a sugar rush eating a box
of Kristy cream or something.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Okay, I like laughed at that, and then.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
I kept like asking him if I made him feel
like he was eating a box of Kristy cream. And
I thought I was being funny, like I was joking,
and like I think I may have crushed him. I
don't know, maybe I took it too far, so I
feel like he could apologize. Yeah, but I mean it.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
Sounds like you were being more playful. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
No, I was just saying that's how I felt, but
that's what the intention was.

Speaker 3 (03:04):
Jubill, you are doing music now, too, so like think
about this scenario. Wouldn't it be just kind of cute,
like you're not are you going to be offended? No,
I wouldn't be.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
I'm also a super harsh critic on myself, so I'd
be like, you're right, the whole thing is craft.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
I'll throw it out, you're my all over, I quit
it all.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
So I would just totally be like, yeah, thanks for
the honest feedback I saw.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
That would also be a major turnoff and problem also, Okay,
so maybe maybe he was a little but hurt. Maybe,
I mean it might be.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
So I feel like, I don't know. I feel like
we need to get him on the phone, Like you
need to get a third party and to get him
on the phone folk and just ghosting me, so like
I just want to apologize.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Cool, We'll try to figure it out for you. We'll
play a song and we'll come back and then we'll
call him and see if it tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date with Krispy
Kreme boy. Okay, all right, should we not call him
Krispy Crean boy?

Speaker 3 (03:57):
Try he disappeared?

Speaker 2 (04:00):
All right, Well, pleas An'll come back and get your
first a follow up next right in the middle of
our first date. Follow up if you're just joining us.
Lesha is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

(04:21):
a guy named James. So we're about to call him
and see if you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and
maybe get her another date. But first, Lisha, why don't
you catch us up on your situation?

Speaker 1 (04:29):
Yeah, So, I when I a date with this guy James,
it like went really well. We had cocktails and tacos,
and we had karaoke and all this stuff, and you know,
we bonded because he's in a band and I used
to sing in a band, and you know, we have
a lot of common interests. And I feel like and
he hasn't tested me back in a week, so and

(04:50):
I feel like something might have gone wrong the night
we were on the date. I feel like I might
have kind of heard his feelings making fun of one
of his lyrics which involves speak, which I kept springing up. No,
I don't know. I feel like I might have sent
him and I need to apologize. And also he's ghosting me.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
So that's where we are, all right, Are you ready
for us to call him?

Speaker 4 (05:12):
Sure?

Speaker 3 (05:13):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, I speaking to James. Please, yeah,
speaking James, how are you?

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Man?

Speaker 2 (05:29):
My name is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jebel Show.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
Hi, James, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victoria. How are you?

Speaker 4 (05:36):
Oh? Cool, wonderful. I'm doing good man, I'm getting any
calls on radio? But what's up?

Speaker 3 (05:41):
Have you ever listened to the show before?

Speaker 5 (05:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (05:44):
Yeah, okay, thank you? Yeah. Have you ever heard of
first day follow up before? Oh?

Speaker 4 (05:50):
Yeah, yeah I have? This is this one of these things?

Speaker 3 (05:52):
First day follow up?

Speaker 2 (05:53):
You know that's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody,
they can email us and then ask us to call
you and ask why you're ghosting them.

Speaker 3 (05:59):
Some what he emailed us about you? James?

Speaker 4 (06:02):
Oh boy?

Speaker 3 (06:03):
Any idea? Who would be?

Speaker 4 (06:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (06:05):
Maybe someone I met someone online, like a little more
than a week ago.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
Is that someone's name? Lisha?

Speaker 4 (06:13):
Yeah? Yeah, Lisha?

Speaker 3 (06:15):
Oh yeah yeah. Well.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
Lisia emailed us and told us about your day. She
said she really liked you, but she's confused. Can you
tell us why you're ghostinger?

Speaker 4 (06:24):
I really liked her, but man, she's too much.

Speaker 6 (06:29):
She texted me on Saturday to ask about Well, first
of all, I got sick, right, So, like I got
sick a little bit afterwards, but not the runa nothing,
but like, you know, she texted me on Saturday to
ask me about soup, and then again to tell me
good night and then text me a list of vitamins
I should be taking.

Speaker 3 (06:50):
Because you were sick.

Speaker 4 (06:52):
Yeah, you know, it was.

Speaker 6 (06:53):
Like it was like a trip or a DoorDash GNC.
You know, the whole bag fall, Like not soon after
asking if I missed her, this this whole thing about
like if I wanted Krispy Kremes, Like asking if I
wanted Krispy Kreme.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
It's a it's a joke about some stupid lyric.

Speaker 6 (07:12):
I made, and and and I mean just more text
on and on and on.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
I'm not need doing you.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
All that was all in one day. That happened all
on the same day.

Speaker 6 (07:21):
Yeah, and this is someone I had just talked to online.

Speaker 4 (07:24):
They came over, we cuddled.

Speaker 6 (07:26):
I mean, the sweet it was great, you know, don't
get me wrong, But after all this just piling on
and just happening so soon I just stopped responding.

Speaker 5 (07:36):
Because like I needed to rest and I wake up.
It's like, I mean, I lose like twelve text messages
from her.

Speaker 4 (07:47):
I don't respond, but I get even more the next day.

Speaker 6 (07:50):
Eventually, I just I just block her because I feel
like that kind of energy I felt it gives me
a lot of anxiety, like and I'm gonna go with
the flow kind of guy. And when I just kissed Raw,
it's like, first off, it doesn't know, we feel better,
but then it's like, this is someone I just met.
Sweet girl. I mean, she came over, it was great,

(08:11):
the day was amazing, Karaoke was fun, and yeah, like
we talked that it was going to turn into something.
But then the text, just the messaging, it was just nah, nah,
it was just a note going.

Speaker 3 (08:25):
I mean, it sounds like she was just concerned because
you were sick. Now, granted, twelve and maybe twenty four
text messages might be a lot in two days, but
the initial reached out probably was kind of nice. Though.

Speaker 6 (08:37):
No, I mean, I get it, she's very sweet, but
it's just someone I just started talking to online, and
it just started giving me the vibe that this is
the kind of person that's.

Speaker 4 (08:48):
Going to give me a whole lot of anxiety. I
just wanted peace, Okay.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
Well, speaking of Keith, James, I will let you know
that Lisa's actually on the phone listening and wants to
talk to you.

Speaker 3 (08:59):
Why.

Speaker 1 (09:00):
Oh huh, Alicia do a problem getting close to people,
Like do you know how to ask someone cares about you?
Like I was just trying to show you that I
cared and I'm like actually a good caretaker in like
times like this.

Speaker 4 (09:15):
I get it, but.

Speaker 6 (09:17):
It's just we just had one date after a little
bit of online conversation, and I just feel Look, you're sweet, wonderful,
but I just feel that we're nowhere close to the come.

Speaker 4 (09:29):
Over and make me stop stage of this relationship.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
Oh okay, Well you said on your hind that you
wanted to be intentional about the time we spend together
and to prioritize the growth, and I feel like I
was doing that. So I don't know what there is
about this that you know you wouldn't like, can we.

Speaker 6 (09:50):
Go further than or can we have a relationship first?
Can we like have some other there's there's steps to.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
This before Okay, wait wait, I'm not ready to be
in a relationship with you.

Speaker 6 (10:02):
Oh look, that's that's that's not what I said.

Speaker 4 (10:05):
Okay, that's that's not what I said.

Speaker 6 (10:07):
It's I feel there's a little miscommunication here.

Speaker 1 (10:11):
Well, I mean, I'm not, Well, you just mentioned wanting
to have a relationship first, Like you talked about me
texting a lot, and you're already talking about a relationship.
So I don't know what the problem is with my
texting when you're like, I want a relationship right now? What.

Speaker 4 (10:28):
No, I'm not I'm not saying right now.

Speaker 6 (10:30):
It's just that I just don't want to jump into
things that just lead to anxiety.

Speaker 4 (10:36):
And just like already we're checking each other's mental health.

Speaker 6 (10:40):
Like I'm just trying to just go go with the
vibe that we had that was that was real good.
It just felt like this was this was just in
a different place, and I was just like, I don't
want to grow with this.

Speaker 1 (10:51):
You are living way too fast, James.

Speaker 6 (10:57):
Look, I just I just I'm I'm all for like
all those texts in the soup, but I just feel
that there's there's just a sequence to it that just
you know, rocks my boat a certain way. And like
I'm sorry for for miscommunicating or or like you know,
just going outside divide that we had. And I just
feel I just feel like we want the wrong direction

(11:19):
with that.

Speaker 3 (11:20):
Well, James, would you like another date with Lisa? We'll
pay for it.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
James, I just so you know, I will go on
another date with you, but I just want to let
you know, like I'm not gonna get together with you
right now, just so you know.

Speaker 4 (11:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (11:35):
So, uh, like I said, I'm not interested in rushing
in and getting together right now. I'm sorry about the miscommunication,
but I'm wanting to give this another go, just as
long as you don't mention the Krispy Kremes.

Speaker 1 (11:50):
Okay, but we're not going to be like dating yet,
Like this is just a date date, not like a
dating date.

Speaker 4 (11:57):
Look, don't worry, I'm not trying to wife you up
just yet.

Speaker 1 (12:01):
Wait a minute, you want to wipe me up like that?
Hold on, why are we jumping to marriage.

Speaker 2 (12:07):
I don't think James wants to marry you yet. I
think you guys should just go out one more day
and see how it goes.

Speaker 1 (12:11):
Okay, okay, yeah, all right, you whiles first, depl
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