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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Work is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Craig.
So in a second we're gonna call him and see
if you tell us why he's ghosting her or maybe
get her another date. But first, Brook, how long has
the vinces you heard from Craig?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Oh? Hey, oh gosh, I haven't heard from Craig in
a few days, which is weird because before the date
we were texting all the time.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Have you reached out to him in that time though?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, Well, at the end of our date, he was like, okay,
well just hit me up when you're ready to hang
out again, and so I did.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
And then Cricket like just nothing, okay.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Thanks, let's go backwards and play detective. Tell us about
your date.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
We met on a dating app like most people. I
think it was Hinge, and I had seen on his
profile leader he had like pictures of him doing that
axpiring thing. So I set up the perfect date where
we threw axes, which by the way, is really freaking hard.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
It's you Oh my, got my shoulders, I'll hurt me.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
So he totally kicked my butt, but like it was
super fun, Like we had fun challenging each other and
we were having so much fun that we went to
the bar next door and kept happing drinks all night
where we played darts, where he also kicked my butt.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Again, I'm not very good at the.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Things, but point being that we had a lot of fun.
Like he was laughing the whole time with me, Like
it's not in my head, like he really had a
good time.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Well, other than laughing and stuff, what kind of gave
you the vibe that he was into it?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I mean, he asked me to go home with him?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
So did you go?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
I did? He did? I mean I felt safe with him,
like we've really connected.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Or so I thought, Well, what happened at his place?
Did all kinds of fun things happen?
Speaker 5 (01:48):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (01:49):
There were some fun adult things that happened.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
But I'm like a.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Little worried because when we first got to his apartment,
he has a roommate that was just chilling on the
couch and we like said hello to him, and he
was really hot, and in my drunken state, I may
have been like, oh my god, your roommate.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
Is totally fine.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
So I don't know if that like offended him, but
like I clearly went into credroom sole she was not
going to hook up with his roommate. I don't know
if that's why he's ghosting me.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
How would you feel, Jubil, you take a girl home
to hook up with you, you have a roommateed on
on her way to your bedroom. She says, Man, your
roommate is so hot.
Speaker 6 (02:28):
Yeah. I guess it depends how hot he is.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
It might be like, yeah, I agree, I know he's
very hot, but you're with me, so probably wouldn't bother
me that much, although maybe it should. I don't know
what did he do when you said that.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
He just kind of ignored it, like there wasn't a
reciprocal conversation about his roommate being hot.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
And then I was like, oh, I'm just like drunk
and rambling.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
But then we just started making out, so, you know,
no more conversation needed.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
I wonder if he like kind of got in his
head and thought maybe you were fantasizing about the room,
would you still follow through the hooking up with a girl,
Jubile if you knew that she was thinking about somebody else.
Speaker 6 (03:04):
Depends how much I liked her. If I really liked her, no, but.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
She's thinking about somebody else, wuldn't that be worse?
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Well if I didn't, if I didn't really like her
that much or whatever.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Yeah, you think about whatever you want, okay, Yeah, but
if you like her, I like her, I would rather
she be thinking about me, Yeah for sure.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Well that's why I want you to call him, because clearly,
if he's thinking that, it's wrong, like I just made
an off the cuff comment while drunk, so I want
to make sure he's not like looking too much into it.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
I really liked him, like.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
A lot, Like we had a lot of fun. I
really want to see him again. He's super hot.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
And how did things end when you left?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Yeah, I mean we had a nice time together and
he said, like, you know, hit me up when you want.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
To hang out again.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
So I felt like we both were into it and
wanted to go on another date. But then, you know,
I text him, it's been a few days and then
now just nothing.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Okay, Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for
you plus come back and then call him and ask
him why is ghosting you?
Speaker 6 (04:01):
And maybe get you another date?
Speaker 5 (04:02):
Okay, okay, cool, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
All right, we'll play a song come back, get your
first Day follow up next if you're just joining us
for today is the first day follow up. Brooke is
on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude
named Craig. So we're about to call him and see
if you'll tell us why is ghostinger and maybe get
her another date? But first, Brook, why don't you refresh
everybody's memory on your situation?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yes, so met Craig on Hinge. We had a great
date where we played some sports y light games that
I sucked at. Then we went back to his place
and we had a really great night together. But I
may have put my foot in my mouth and made
a comment about his roomy being hot, and I'm wondering
if that's why he's now ghosting me.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
Okay, all right, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Yeah? Please?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
Okay, here we go, Hello him, A sweet to Craig. Please,
Yes you are Craig. How are you? My name is
Jewbel host the radio show It's called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Hi, Craig, I'm Nina. Also on the show, Hi, I'm Victorian.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
How are you.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
Hey, Hello, I'm fine.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
You ever listen to the show?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Yeah, let's do it all the time?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Oh sweet cool man. Well then you've probably heard a
first day follow up before. Yeah yeah, oh yeah, perfect.
Well if since you already know, i'll state it anyway.
A first day follow up is where if you go
on a date with someone and then you ghost them,
they can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting them, and we got to
email about you, Craig.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Wait, you said you got email about me?
Speaker 6 (05:37):
Yes, okay, I'm from a woman named Brooke.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yeah, sure, Yeah, she emailed us, told us about your dates.
Speaker 6 (05:50):
Say, she really likes you, but she's confused because you
haven't called her back.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Uh. I remember she's she's she's beautiful, she's one of them.
She's gorgeous. I mean she I'm a sucker for red
lipstick and she wears it. Well, I had a lot
of fun. Whether she's she's gorgeous, she's fun. I had
a great time with her. We went on a date
acts throwing, she's not good at it.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Uh, went on another day, I mean on the same.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Night throwing and then you know, like hung out and
went back to your place, and she thought you guys
were really vibing.
Speaker 5 (06:35):
We yeah, yeah, we were, we were. I gotta be
honest with you. She's kind of weird to me. She's
kind of weird to me. Okay, well we got back
to our place, well, I mean my place. I'm sorry,
I'm talking about the place and everything. Well hooking up,
we're having a good time. I'm robbing with everything's great.
And she asked me to bark.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
Like a dog, like a dog like.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
Bark. Yes, she asked me to bark, and okay, I
did it, but I didn't feel quite comfortable, you know,
because it's barking.
Speaker 6 (07:10):
You know, this is the first time anybody's asked you
to bark in the bedroom.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
Yes, yes, dal quick, that came out.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Yes that it came out.
Speaker 5 (07:19):
It's very Yeah, I'd never had I mean, like she
was asking for like a husky while the barks. It
wasn't it too while with stuff she wanted real like
like from the gut bark.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
How far into the you guys getting intimate did she
request this?
Speaker 5 (07:35):
I would say all of maybe it is five minutes,
five minutes you know we'll huggin, we're kissing. Calls a
coming off and we're about to do it, and she's like, hey,
I like you to bark for me. And she was insistent,
like like like her voice dropped like five octa was like,
I really wish you would bark for me. You got it,
(07:58):
whatever had able, because I'm I'm literally barking for my life.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Right now because I don't know what this one was about.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
I mean, she's cool. I mean she brought a bag
in a room.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
People, she brought a bag in a.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
Room with me. I don't know what's in the bag.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
It could have been like t Didy party favorite, probably
her purse in a leather satchel.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
It was a leather bag with a clip you protect me.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
She's cool. No, she's cool, and she's beautiful. My god,
red lipstick. Oh but it was just too much.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
But she's beautiful and the red lipstick and everything else,
like that's why that's.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Why I punched. I mean, I gotta judge.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
I know it's on the radio, but I'm just letting
you know.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
That's what's scared and you off, Okay, barking.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Got me you couldn't have been that scared crag because jeez,
you barked for me like it was no problem you
can't do and you shirt white ship the wire you
bothered after the side.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
Oh whoa, whoa wraw row row row? Is that is
that Brooks?
Speaker 6 (08:58):
Yes, she's on the phone.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
Oh see, I knew that I was gone again. Okay, okay,
Hi Brook, Hi Brook him tie Brook?
Speaker 3 (09:11):
So wait, Cray, did you did you really not like it?
Because I am a very consent based person, like I
would never make you do something you're uncomfortable.
Speaker 5 (09:20):
You stared at me like Hannibal lecteror like the next
answer should have been, yes, I don't scare Brook. You
mean I don't know you? Plus that bag? Brook, Honey,
you you brought the axe from off first date. You
brought the axe home from off first date yours. You're
like a like, how did you even get it out
(09:42):
the how did you even get out.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
The club you brought to act with you? You stole
the from off first I did not.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Act with me.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
You're being ridiculous. Listen, I'm just saying they.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Actually sound really good together. I don't know about you guys, but.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
The Brook Oh yeah, So like, hopefully it's okay, Craig,
because they're stilling some tea. He talked about my bark fetish.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Well, Craig, get a foot fetish and listen.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
It's not really my thing, but I'm going to give
you my feet if that's what you want, and I
give him to you.
Speaker 5 (10:12):
So like, hey, hey, hey, hey, no one talks about
the feet. That's a personal thing to me. I love
the feet. The websites that cater to feet. There's no
websites catering to dudes barking.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
My friends.
Speaker 5 (10:31):
On the dark web. Yes, on the dark Web they are,
And I don't want to be a member of that.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
Little little scenario. I don't want to be a dark
Web member.
Speaker 5 (10:36):
Like, oh, look at this dude.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
He's in the lips, leather skin barking.
Speaker 6 (10:40):
Oh there goes one down you don't like at all, Craig.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
Barking is a gateway drug man. At least the leather
and whips and dominatrix healed on a neck. I don't
know her well enough like that.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Let's have a conversation and we can get to know
each other and slow down in the bedroom.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
If you're comfortball, Yeah, I said it spotted to the fly.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
Actually, no, I want Tom back in the milk carton
talking Bob last time I saw him barking.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Craig, would you like to go on another date with Brooke?
We'll pay for it and then you guys can have
more of a conversation.
Speaker 5 (11:16):
Pay book. When you saw my roommate, how did you?
What were you thinking when you said he looks hot?
What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (11:24):
I totally knew you were about my roommate. Listen, you're
totally hot and still is your roommate. Him being hot
didn't take away my attraction from you. I realized I
was kind of drunk and I shouldn't have made that comment.
And I can see why you might take that and
feel insecure. But I really like you, not just because
you're hot, because you.
Speaker 5 (11:41):
Are, but because we have fun to get here. You're crazy, obviously.
I just want to make sure that we have an
understanding that I'm the hot one here.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Thank you, the bark one.
Speaker 5 (11:53):
Six. We're going to take me out again? Hee hee?
Speaker 3 (11:59):
That?
Speaker 6 (11:59):
Why do so, Craig bark once if you want to
take her out again?
Speaker 1 (12:02):
A fair request twice if you.
Speaker 5 (12:04):
Want to do this to me aren't you're really gonna
make me bark?
Speaker 1 (12:06):
Yeah, one for yes or two for no.
Speaker 4 (12:09):
Okay, bock park, bock park.
Speaker 5 (12:11):
Wow, So you got me walking already. It's looking a
good relationship if I'm barking on the radio already.
Speaker 6 (12:16):
So is that a no then, Craig, Yeah, no bark.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
I'll go out with you again and make sure I
bring my collar
Speaker 1 (12:26):
You Wile's first day follow up