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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Carly is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Robbie.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Carly, how long
has it been since you heard from Robbie.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Honestly, it's been on like a two weeks, you know
what I mean, Like, it's been about well, I guess,
not two weeks.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
It's been like almost a week, I guess.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Okay, okay, so long enough that you feel like you're
being ghosted.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Yeah, like two weeks. What I just thought about it,
and it's yeah, it's more like a week.
Speaker 5 (00:35):
Did you reach out to him though, Yeah, Like I totally.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I mean I texted him.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I mean so, I like, I'll tell you guys a
whole story.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
So basically I met he was super cute.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I met this guy Robbie on Tinder, and like, I
just kind of feel like we went into it with
sort of like a like you're friends with benefits sort
of situation, you know, like we've been like we've been
really flirty and stuff and just messaging a bunch and
we want on a date and minted it like a
just like a random local bar and stayed like pool
and darts and stuff turn into it drinking game naturally,
(01:08):
And yeah, I was like he was just really flirty,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
I was wearing darts, he was leaning over me like
it was hot.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
You know, yeah, exactly, Like I just I haven't heard
from him since that day, and I honestly think he
goes with me because we both got drunk, but like
he got really kind of drunk, like almost floppy drunk,
you know what I mean. And I helped him get
into the uber after the night because there's no way
(01:35):
I was gonna want him drive.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
But I don't care.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
You know, he was super cute like it was a date.
We didn't hook up or anything, but I just I
didn't want to think, like.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Be embarrassed from the night because it looks really cool.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Guy, Did you say that to him? Like the next day,
we're like, hey, man, you're wasted, but I don't care.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Well, I've been trying to but he won't get back
to me, like he literally goes to me. We communicated
like a couple times a day before we went on
our day, and like, you know, I texted him to
see I was feeling.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
After that night, nothing like no response whatsoever.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
And like again two days later, I even tried calling
him and like you know, put on makeup and like
was going to face time.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
And see what I was doing, and then I left the message.
But no, so nothing.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
I just I just really really wanted to get back
in touch with them and let.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
Him know he doesn't need to go to me, because
like it's totally cool, We're good.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
We should we should go to a second d would.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
You disappear to like if you like think back to
one of your nights where you were acting a full
and got really hand.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yeah, there's been a lot of those nights actually, And no,
I wouldn't disappear. I would feel like I would want
to disappear, but then I wouldn't because I would just
be like, well, I'll just joke about it and see
if they're cool with it. But there are times where
I have like not wanted to call somebody because I'm like,
what did I did it? Did I make a fool
out of myself? Yeah, maybe it's better.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Not to face it. Yeah, Carly, is he funny? Do
you think he would have been able to handle something
like that with humor?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
I mean I think so.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
I only met him like the one night, and we
only spoke like a couple of times before that.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
But I factly, you know, yeah, I think he would.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Honestly, Okay, anything else you can think of that might
be a reason you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
No, I honestly know.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I mean, that's the only thing that it can be
as far as I can tell.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
I'm just curious about how you know that you guys
were on a friends with benefits trajectory in the beginning,
because then that would kind of hint towards like that
he would want that to happen, or that you would
have wanted that to happen. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
I mean I sort of mentioned I had like recently
gotten out of our relationship, and you know, he's got
some like you know, he's like sort of got like
big bro energy, Like you know, it just seemed like
going into it was just more casual and you know,
nothing too intense.
Speaker 6 (03:51):
Yeah, Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
We'll play a song and then come back and call
him and see if it tells why he is ghosting
you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Okay, awesome, thank you guys.
Speaker 7 (04:01):
All right, well.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Plaus, come back and get your first day follow up next.
Right in the middle of today's first date follow up
and if you're just joining us, Carly is on the
phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Robbie.
So we're about to call him and see if you
tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
But first, Carly, why don't you catch us up on
your situation.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Yeah, so I met this guy and Tinder.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
His name is Robbie.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
We really had it off. We went to a bar,
we played games, start school, had some drinks.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
He was super flirty.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
He got a little drunk, and I put him a
new birth at the end of the night, and I
I want to go on some date with him, but
I think he's probably embarrassed because of our first date.
But there's you know, it was just a great first day.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
I thought it wasn't a big deal.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
So yeah, even though it ended with him as a
sloppy mess.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
You know, I was sort of the vibe.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
Well are you ready? Are you ready for us to
call him?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Yes, okay, thank you.
Speaker 6 (04:59):
Here we go. Hi, I speak to Robbie. Please.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Hey, Robbie, how are you. My name is Jubil. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 6 (05:19):
Yeah, Robbie, Hi, the whole shows here. I'm Nina. Hi,
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
Hi. What's going on?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
You know?
Speaker 6 (05:25):
Not much? It sounds like you listen to the show.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
Yeah, double time, double time?
Speaker 6 (05:33):
Sweet? Okay? Cool? Well have you ever heard of first
date follow up before?
Speaker 8 (05:38):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:40):
Cool?
Speaker 2 (05:40):
How do you feel about being on one?
Speaker 5 (05:43):
I don't know. I guess I'm gonna let's wing it.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
Yeah, that's the second word.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
If you go out with somebody and you end up
ghosting them, they can email us to get you on
the phone and ask why you're ghosting. And we got
an email about you from somebody.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Okay, I don't think anywhere you're going?
Speaker 6 (06:00):
Are you hosting? Robbie?
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Well, I went on a daily uh chick Carly a
couple of nights ago.
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Well, guess what he's wondered?
Speaker 8 (06:10):
Why I have a returner called.
Speaker 6 (06:14):
I can see why she wants to go with you again.
You know exactly who it was?
Speaker 5 (06:21):
Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 8 (06:22):
I don't easily do that, but it was just kind
of a stick a way, and you know that I
didn't feel like it was weird because I mean, on
her on her profile, she was like, I mean, she
didn't look anything like.
Speaker 5 (06:33):
Her picture on her profile. That was my biggest thing.
Speaker 8 (06:36):
It's like, you know, our profiles is all blonde and
light makeup and stuff like that, and then you know, I.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Show up and she's like dark haired, dark makeup.
Speaker 8 (06:46):
I mean she was telling me, you know, uh, Robbie, Margot,
Margot Robbie.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
Yeah, yeah, she was.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah, she was telling me Margot Robbie.
Speaker 8 (06:54):
And I show up and it's it's card asking, you know,
and it was just I don't know, it was just
it's weird, fake eyelashes, takes on makeup and stuff and look,
I mean, look, I'm not gonna I feel embarrassed about
even saying anything about.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Her way because I like Kurby Girl.
Speaker 8 (07:09):
But she had at least ten pounds on the pictures
she had on her profile.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Okay, so she just didn't look anything like her profile.
Speaker 8 (07:16):
No, It's like like she was like all those pictures
on her profile from were like years ago, and now
she just kind of resembles those pictures. I don't know
she basically, I feel like she lied to me, you know,
and uh, you know, I got so hammered, you know,
I didn't even want to hook up at the end.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Okay, Okay, I'm sorry, but are you serious?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Are you actually serious? Right now?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Robbie?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
That's Carly. She's actually on the phone and surprised.
Speaker 5 (07:47):
Yeah, Hi Carly.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yeah, like hi, Robbie noticed like in your lifetime, let
me change her hair color all the time.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
Like we also changed her profile picture too, don't they.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Yeah, nobody changed their prople pictures on tinders?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Like seriously, that.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
That is what are you talking about?
Speaker 6 (08:07):
Dude?
Speaker 1 (08:07):
That isn't mean? And I was now I have dark hair. Yeah,
it was a big you.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
Know, it's a Vaga Clipps sort of deal.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
No, I mean, we're just gonna hang out and how coup, Like,
what is your problem?
Speaker 6 (08:22):
Really?
Speaker 4 (08:23):
You like?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
You know, its just I feel like, you.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
Know, I don't even know it is your name even
really Carly? You know, I mean I feel like I
was dupe.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
That's so absurd.
Speaker 7 (08:35):
Wait, we were gonna look up wow wows Like yeah,
well I'm not anymore obviously, You're not bad.
Speaker 5 (08:46):
I mean you're cute and everything. I mean, we can
still look up.
Speaker 8 (08:50):
That.
Speaker 5 (08:51):
Seriously, screw you, no, how dare you? I'm not what
is wrong with you?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Seriously, you're sad too, because you know, I mean, okay,
your profile.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Robbie's gotten really creepy, but I think that your profile
pictures should be at least within the last like a year.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
No, thank you, I just I don't see why I'm
out Honestly, if it's within a.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Year and it's literally just like Bland of Dark, I mean,
it really is not a big deal. And that shouldn't
have You shouldn't have ghosted me over Darna here.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
Dude, I mean that's her too. That is also true
if it was all within the same year.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
You know, Robbie, you're like a bona fide You're actually
big bro. I'm glad that I got my answer, and
I'm glad that I figured out why you were ghosting me.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
It's because you stuck.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
You actually don't really stuck.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
I still have to ask, Robbie, would you like to
go on another day with Carly? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 8 (09:48):
Well, you know, oh no, not not really, And I
mean I would Carly. But I mean, I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
I think Na is kind of cute.
Speaker 6 (09:58):
Is cute? I have dark hair.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Robbie, Okay, movie, I can see the picture.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
Nina, will you go with Robbie. We'll pay for it.
I'm good, but thanks so who what?
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Well, Carly, I'm sorry or happy that no second day
for you.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Well, thanks guys for me an answer.
Speaker 5 (10:19):
I appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Robbie, seriously, I hope you do some soul searching. Dude,
I hope you do some serious soul searching.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
Have a good life. I hope you change your proof
O pictures.
Speaker 6 (10:33):
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