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May 20, 2024 10 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com. Jackson was on the phone
today for a first date follow up and he's getting
ghosted by a girl named Farah. So in a few minutes,
we're gonna call her see if she's us, why she's
ghosting him, and maybe get him another date. But first, Jackson,
how long has it been since you heard from Parah?

Speaker 2 (00:18):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Man, it's been a few weeks.

Speaker 4 (00:22):
Have you reached out to her? Oh, you have been
texting her?

Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yeah, I've been texting her. I just this doesn't normally
happen to me. So I'm just kind of.

Speaker 5 (00:32):
Like, don't get ghosted often.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Now.

Speaker 3 (00:33):
It's one of those things almost where it's like, you know,
when you can't have something, you want it even more,
all Right, it happens for me. So I don't.

Speaker 4 (00:40):
I don't know why did you want her when you
thought you could have her?

Speaker 5 (00:43):
Like, how is the date?

Speaker 2 (00:45):
I gotta take you?

Speaker 3 (00:46):
Guys? It was.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
It was pretty damn perfect.

Speaker 3 (00:48):
Like, I don't, I don't really know what else should
have gone better? You know, So we were doing the
whole thing, you know, apps, texting, blah blah, blah. And
then finally came time for a Facebook and she suggested
this coffee shop, you know, the safe coffee date.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
We'll see how it goes. And it went really well
at a ton Common.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
You know, we were talking sports, we were talking cars.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
I'm a pretty big fan of cars, so it went well.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
And then you know, with that was kind of like,
all right, coffee went well, maybe let's roll this into
a happy hour and then dinner and just kept on going,
like went to some really really cool, like slanky spots,
and then the date was over.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
We had a i'll say, a very nice kiss and you.

Speaker 4 (01:39):
Had a nice kiss. What did she say after it?
Was she like, oh, I can't wait to see you again.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yeah, I mean yeah, you know.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Now I'm like hyper analyzing it, like okay, what exactly
did she say?

Speaker 2 (01:49):
But she was like I was like, yeah, we should
like definitely do this again, and she was like yeah,
And I was kind of trying to pin her down.
I was like, okay, like when you know, hey, you
for you next, like and she's.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
Like, uh, yeah, I might be let me know, so
you know, it's like I don't know, I don't know,
the whole thing was kind of weird, but I don't know,
I thought it went really well.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
Okay, so even when you ask for another day, she
was like not totally sure.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
She wasn't totally sure, but I thought based upon the
vibe we were having and again like that kiss, like
it was on point, Like I felt like this this
that was that was a there will be a second
date kids.

Speaker 5 (02:27):
Anything weird happened on the date, like awkward.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
I've been pouring over it. I mean, like you only
say so.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
I again, I like cars, I drive like this really
it's pretty sweet, this vintage Alpha Romeo. And she kept
on getting frustrated because she had this really nice green
dress on and he kept on getting caught when she
was getting the door and you know, going from place
to place coffee, going to happy or going to dinner,
and it just kept hunching.

Speaker 6 (02:52):
Guy.

Speaker 3 (02:52):
Like I kind of stapped at her because she kept
on touching things too.

Speaker 2 (02:56):
So those are the.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
Only things that like I can really like not like
not sapping, snapping, but you know, she was, you know,
picking at this thing on a dashboard and I just
got that thing refinished and quite a bit of money
on it.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
So I just was like, oh, you go, like kill.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
I mean that couldn't do it. And it depends how
you snapped, you know.

Speaker 4 (03:16):
Yeah, that sounds like it could have definitely been a
turning point.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
I mean maybe maybe.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
But come on, we'll plus on, comeback and then call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
you and maybe get you another date if you still
want one.

Speaker 5 (03:29):
Okay, you all right?

Speaker 1 (03:31):
Well, place on, come back, get your first A follow
up next if you're just joining us for today's first
a follow up. Jackson is on the phone and he's
getting ghosted by Farah. So we're about to call her
see if she tell us why she's ghosting him, and
maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Jackson,
why don't you remind everybody about your date with Pharah.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
We went to UH one to really cut coffee shop.
We were talking.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
Cars, we were talking sports, we were talking jobs.

Speaker 3 (03:54):
You know, she's she's super successful, I'm super successful. Like
it just everything seems to a line. And then we
went into a happy hour. Then we went into dinner.
I was driving her in my in my car and
this this nice vintage Alfa Romeo and yeah, I don't know,
I mean, we had a great kiss at the end
of the night. But I did kind of snapping her

(04:17):
because she gets done fiddling with my car, which.

Speaker 5 (04:19):
I can't end.

Speaker 2 (04:20):
But other than that, like it was, it was great.

Speaker 3 (04:23):
I thought for sure, I thought for sure this was
second There's definitely gonna be a second date.

Speaker 4 (04:27):
I forgot to ask you this in the first part.
Was that snap that heard towards the end or earlier.

Speaker 5 (04:31):
On in the date?

Speaker 2 (04:33):
It was kind of towards the end.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
Okay, towards the end? Okay, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi,
I'm asking to Farah please. This is she.

Speaker 5 (04:51):
Hey Sarah, how are you? My name is Jubel. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

Speaker 4 (04:56):
Hi Sarah, I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Speaker 2 (04:59):
Hi. Hi.

Speaker 5 (05:00):
Have you ever listened to the show before?

Speaker 7 (05:02):
I have? What is this bill?

Speaker 5 (05:05):
We're calling because we got an email about you.

Speaker 7 (05:09):
About me?

Speaker 5 (05:10):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (05:12):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (05:13):
We do a segment on a show called the First
Date follow Up. It's where if you go out on
a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,
they can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an
email about you from someone who you've been out with
and now you're not talking to Oh no, oh yeah,
I canna say it, Like, who do you think it is?

Speaker 7 (05:36):
I think I remember was his name? Jackson?

Speaker 1 (05:41):
Yesh, it is Jackson. He told us about your date
and he's curious why you're ghosting it.

Speaker 7 (05:48):
I mean, so the.

Speaker 6 (05:51):
Date was fine, but after marinating on it and like
how everything.

Speaker 7 (05:57):
Went to be quite honest, he's a little bit dumb.
Oh yeah. All he talked.

Speaker 6 (06:04):
About was his car, and which is fine. But then
I thought maybe we could have more of an intellectual conversation,
but that just didn't happen. And what really intrigued me
about his dating profile and his dating app and whatnot
was on his profile he had pictures of himself with books,

(06:25):
and you know, he looked like he was really well educated,
and I thought, great, we can.

Speaker 7 (06:29):
Have a conversation about our favorite authors, what we're reading.

Speaker 6 (06:32):
And it was like he couldn't even name a book
and it seemed like he had never like even read before,
just like the way he pronounced some things on the menu.
I was like, oh, and you know, he's a nice kid.

Speaker 7 (06:48):
He does have a nice car, but I just feel
like his quote.

Speaker 6 (06:51):
Unquote success is just things that he's purchased, like he
hasn't worked for it or earned like I am my
own startup career.

Speaker 7 (06:59):
I'm working hard for it, you know.

Speaker 6 (07:02):
And it just sort of seems like things are handed
to him. And there was definitely a disconnect on that aspect.

Speaker 4 (07:09):
Did you feel that way the entire date, because he
did mention that you guys were in three different locations.

Speaker 7 (07:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (07:16):
So we started off at the coffee shop and then
we decided, Okay, it's going really well.

Speaker 7 (07:20):
We'll do happy hour dinner and everything.

Speaker 6 (07:23):
And I guess during the happy hour dinner is when
I really started to think, Okay, maybe this isn't going
to work copy. I gave the benefit of the doubt.
We're just meeting face to face for the first time.
It should be you know, we're both a little bit nervous.
But then when he got a little snippy with me
in the car, I was like, oh, that's that's a

(07:45):
little jarring. So, I mean, yeah, it was. I don't
think it's a thing.

Speaker 5 (07:51):
Would you like to be sure?

Speaker 7 (07:54):
What do you mean?

Speaker 1 (07:55):
Well, what I mean by that is Jackson is on
the phone listing and wants to talk.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
To you Hey Pharaoh.

Speaker 7 (08:01):
Oh oh hi, Hey, how's it goes? I'm doing really well?
How are you?

Speaker 3 (08:13):
I am dumbfounded by everything I deserved.

Speaker 7 (08:20):
You heard everything.

Speaker 6 (08:24):
I mean, I'm sorry that's harsh, but if you wanted
to know the reason why I ghosted you, that's really
the honest truth.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
Well, I mean you know I'm a big boy.

Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yeah, I get paid the big bucks for a reason,
Like you can just tell me these things.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
You don't have to just like not text me back
for two weeks.

Speaker 6 (08:45):
I mean, I'm busy with my company and just mumbling
and everything.

Speaker 2 (08:51):
Well are you? Uh yeah, I work very hard. Like
I showed you a picture of my like that doesn't
vay for itself.

Speaker 7 (09:03):
That was like, are you saying that's not your parents' house.

Speaker 2 (09:06):
No, that's not my parents' house. Yeah, that's mine.

Speaker 6 (09:10):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 7 (09:11):
I mean that's the point.

Speaker 6 (09:12):
You base your success on your material things, things that
like you could just purchase.

Speaker 3 (09:18):
Yeah, well, I mean how else do you measure it?
I mean I could put a hand on my house,
Like what, Like, I what else do you even measure
success buy?

Speaker 7 (09:27):
Yeah? I mean it goes deeper than that.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
Okay, So if they're not houses, like I look at
the zeros in my bank account, and I feel pretty
darn good about that.

Speaker 6 (09:39):
I mean, it goes deeper, Jackson than material objects, Like
you don't just base success off of that.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
Yeah, I travel though, like you know, I even like
any of my buddies were on the yacht and like
the Mediterranean it was amazing.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Like I genuinely I do not know what you're talking about.

Speaker 7 (09:58):
That's just it. Jackson just mentioned the yacht in the Mediterranean.
You're not getting it all.

Speaker 3 (10:05):
Right, Like fine, I've been on a yacht in the Caribbean.
I went snorkeling and scuba diving for like three weeks
last month.

Speaker 2 (10:14):
In uh, you know, in Australia. Like, I don't know
what else do you want?

Speaker 7 (10:19):
I think you need to take a yacht to bring
me to Triangle and not come back.

Speaker 5 (10:23):
Whoa, whoa, Well, no that you said that? Fair? Would
you like another day with Jackson? Will pay for it?

Speaker 7 (10:27):
And you know what, I'm going to pass on that
second date. However, I do have a friend that I
feel like he would click with because they have the
same type of delusions, so I feel like they would
get along.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
Just great. I'll take it safe for her. Oh, my god.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
Okay, successful first day follow up. Yeah, you guys can
text each other and work that out.

Speaker 7 (10:52):
Jules First date follow up
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