May 29, 2024 • 10 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First day of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocateslad dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Madison is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named
Daniel that she really likes. So in a few minutes
we'll call him and see if you'll tell us why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another day. But first, Madison,
how long has it been since you heard from Daniel?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been a week?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
A week?
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Cool?
Speaker 5 (00:22):
Okay, yeah, okay, have you tried to reach out to
him in the week?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
I have.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
I am not texted.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
And so we met at the gym and I've been
hitting the gym same time we always did, and he's
not been there.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
And I finally I swore my girls at the desk.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I was like hey, and she's like, yeah, he's been
coming in real early lately.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I just don't get it, Like do you need to
avoid you?
Speaker 1 (00:51):
It's got to be right, And I don't understand why,
because like we met there obviously right and worked out together.
Like I was filming one day and I was like,
is that dude watching me?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
But he was?
Speaker 1 (01:06):
He was so hot. I was like, so I did
the thing. I was like, hey, do you know how
like can.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
You help me with my form?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
So he came over and we started working out together
and then he finally asked me if I wanted to
go out, like outside the gym, and I was like yes.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
He went all out. It was an amazing night. Took
me to this rooftop place.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
This was beautiful, like oyster champagne the whole night.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Yeah, like supervibing everything. It was just unreal. I've never
never had it like that with a dud before.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
So we moved from the table to the bar and
we're throwing back cocktails and getting handsy and I mean
it was it was the night.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
And then we were trying to figure out like neither.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
One of us wanted to leave, and he finally was like, hey,
you want to go back to my place?
Speaker 3 (02:06):
And I was I was glad he asked because I
was about to ask Okay, but yeah, I'm not usually
like that, but like, oh my gosh, that everything was
just perfect this night.
Speaker 6 (02:19):
We hooked up like all over everywhere, kitchen, counter, couch, wow,
and yeah, it was amazing.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
He's like butterflies, dude. So that's why I'm so I'm like,
what what happened? I texted him I had to leave.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
After he fell asleep and I get to the car
and you know, I sent him this hot text included
a picture and was like, Hey, I.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Can't wait to see you again. And I haven't heard
from him since.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
So how was so he was super into it too.
Did anything weird happen on the date like that would
have made it awkward or would have changed anything.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
The only thing I can think of is, like, you know,
I threw my phone on the floor when we got
into his bedroom and it was kind of like on
the side where he was. And after midnight, I got this,
like I got a reminder, like a calendar reminder and
it said date with Chris, and I was like, I
(03:23):
was like, oh, that's you know, he picked it up
and I know he saw it, and I was like, oh,
I can feel that, you know.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
And then we got right back to things. And that
was the only thing I can think of. Like I've
been racking my brain because I might was.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
It was a perfect night, Like everything was just perfect.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
So I don't know how I'm getting ghosted.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
A reminder about another person is kind of awkward. Yeah,
so you might be onto something there, but or did
he just like get it? And I was like, yeah,
I don't know, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
It was I thought it was just like a you know,
like a.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
One and done thing at the phone and you know,
tossed it back down and then we got back to it.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
So I don't, you know, he didn't act wear in
the mollment.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
What I did or said or or what I just
I really love to see him again, Like would.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
I love to see him again?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Okay, Well we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting
you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Okay, thank you guys. Yep, get your first day follow
up next.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up
if you're just joining us, Madison is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a guy named daniel So
we're about to call him and see fields house why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But
before we do that, Madison, why don't you refresh our
memory on your date?
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Yeah, Danielle, And then at the gym, we were like
getting along super well.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
He played this like amazing night.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
For a oyster champagne. We hooked up multiple times. Send
him a hot text, I laughed, and I haven't heard
from him since.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Okay, you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (05:06):
I am all right?
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Here we go. Hello, Hi me, I speak to Daniel please.
This is him.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Hey Daniel, how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
Hi, Daniel, I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Cool.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before?
Speaker 7 (05:34):
I've heard of you, guys. I think a couple of times,
but yeah, I don't listen to you all the time.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Okay, I'm calling you today because one of our listeners
actually emailed us about you.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Okay, So we do a segment on the show. It's
called the first Date follow Up.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and then you ghost them, that person can email
us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them?
All right, So we got an email about you from somebody.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
That's pretty weird.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Are you ghosting anybody?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I don't know what classifies as ghosting?
Speaker 7 (06:06):
But is her name.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Madison by Chance? Yes, well, that's hilarious.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
She'd be calling you guys, Okay, why she's a cheater
to say the least.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Oh what, Yeah, she was over my house.
Speaker 7 (06:24):
Her little phone dinged off and it said date with
Chris or whatever. She told me it was some other
guy she was dating and she was going to cancel
it or something like that. And when she left, I
went on her social media accounts and looked up if
she was seeing somebody. Yeah, she's married to a dude
named Chris. Yeah, that was with her husband. She's married.
(06:44):
I'm not really about that kind of thing. So I
don't know why she's calling you that.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
That's kind of hilarious.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Okay, yeah, I mean I guess that would be a
reason to go somebody if you find out they're married.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah, she's in an open relationship.
Speaker 7 (06:55):
Oh well you would tell me about that, right, shouldn't
I be aware of that?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
So I'm not this side piece.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
Look, I've been cheated on before. I'm not really about
that kind of life.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
I don't like women who cheat on their men.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
And uh yeah, that's kind of where I'm at on
the whole situation. She should have told me if I'm
some kind of like weird piece in their you know,
triangle relationship.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I should have been aware of that.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Okay, well, thanks for telling us.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I'll also tell you that Madison is on the phone
and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
She's been listening.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Okay, why would why would you go on my social
media and dig everything to ask?
Speaker 7 (07:38):
You're being pretty sloppy about the whole thing, Like you're
lucky I didn't just text message christ and just let
them know what the hell's going on or send them
a message on whatever. I mean, that's pretty sloppy on
your part. You know, you didn't even tell me what
was going on. I should have probably known, right.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Why why are you bringing Christen to this? You didn't
need to know any of this. I'm not cheating.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
I'm enjoying my life.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Like, why dude, it tell me you didn't have an
amazing night?
Speaker 7 (08:14):
I okay, that is completely not the damn point. Does
your husband know you're out here baying other dudes?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Why does that matter? Like, it's not about me? This
is about you and me.
Speaker 7 (08:28):
Well, when you're seeing somebody you care about their integrity
and their willingness to just turn around and screw on
somebody to completely.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
That shows who they are on the inside, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
So, yeah, that's why, that's why it's important.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
You're getting so deep. Like I'm not trying to like
have you pay my bills. I just want I just
want to hook up like that. I thought that's what
we were doing.
Speaker 7 (08:54):
There's another guy on the end of this, and I've
been that other guy before, and I don't want to
hurt somebody.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Do you like that?
Speaker 7 (09:01):
And if I'm participating in it, then I'm equally a
part of it, and I'm not going to do that.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
That's what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
How's he gonna hurt if he doesn't know nothing to
do with this?
Speaker 3 (09:17):
This is an ab situation.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Not like I'll ask the question, Daniel, would you like
to go out with Madison again on another date?
Speaker 4 (09:27):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
No, I think she's nuts. Absolutely not.
Speaker 7 (09:32):
We're good. We we hung out together one time, did
a few squads.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
That's it.
Speaker 7 (09:36):
Let's call it.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Were good.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
We're good.
Speaker 7 (09:38):
Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
Sorry, Madison, you don't get another date there?
Speaker 1 (09:43):
I know the least now I know, But like, can
we still like work out together?
Speaker 7 (09:54):
No?
Speaker 3 (09:59):
First you follow up
First day of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocateslad dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Madison is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named
Daniel that she really likes. So in a few minutes
we'll call him and see if you'll tell us why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another day. But first, Madison,
how long has it been since you heard from Daniel?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been a week?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
A week?
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Cool?
Speaker 5 (00:22):
Okay, yeah, okay, have you tried to reach out to
him in the week?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
I have.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
I am not texted.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
And so we met at the gym and I've been
hitting the gym same time we always did, and he's
not been there.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
And I finally I swore my girls at the desk.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I was like hey, and she's like, yeah, he's been
coming in real early lately.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I just don't get it, Like do you need to
avoid you?
Speaker 1 (00:51):
It's got to be right, And I don't understand why,
because like we met there obviously right and worked out together.
Like I was filming one day and I was like,
is that dude watching me?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
But he was?
Speaker 1 (01:06):
He was so hot. I was like, so I did
the thing. I was like, hey, do you know how
like can.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
You help me with my form?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
So he came over and we started working out together
and then he finally asked me if I wanted to
go out, like outside the gym, and I was like yes.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
He went all out. It was an amazing night. Took
me to this rooftop place.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
This was beautiful, like oyster champagne the whole night.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Yeah, like supervibing everything. It was just unreal. I've never
never had it like that with a dud before.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
So we moved from the table to the bar and
we're throwing back cocktails and getting handsy and I mean
it was it was the night.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
And then we were trying to figure out like neither.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
One of us wanted to leave, and he finally was like, hey,
you want to go back to my place?
Speaker 3 (02:06):
And I was I was glad he asked because I
was about to ask Okay, but yeah, I'm not usually
like that, but like, oh my gosh, that everything was
just perfect this night.
Speaker 6 (02:19):
We hooked up like all over everywhere, kitchen, counter, couch, wow,
and yeah, it was amazing.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
He's like butterflies, dude. So that's why I'm so I'm like,
what what happened? I texted him I had to leave.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
After he fell asleep and I get to the car
and you know, I sent him this hot text included
a picture and was like, Hey, I.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Can't wait to see you again. And I haven't heard
from him since.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
So how was so he was super into it too.
Did anything weird happen on the date like that would
have made it awkward or would have changed anything.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
The only thing I can think of is, like, you know,
I threw my phone on the floor when we got
into his bedroom and it was kind of like on
the side where he was. And after midnight, I got this,
like I got a reminder, like a calendar reminder and
it said date with Chris, and I was like, I
(03:23):
was like, oh, that's you know, he picked it up
and I know he saw it, and I was like, oh,
I can feel that, you know.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
And then we got right back to things. And that
was the only thing I can think of. Like I've
been racking my brain because I might was.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
It was a perfect night, Like everything was just perfect.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
So I don't know how I'm getting ghosted.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
A reminder about another person is kind of awkward. Yeah,
so you might be onto something there, but or did
he just like get it? And I was like, yeah,
I don't know, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
It was I thought it was just like a you know,
like a.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
One and done thing at the phone and you know,
tossed it back down and then we got back to it.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
So I don't, you know, he didn't act wear in
the mollment.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
What I did or said or or what I just
I really love to see him again, Like would.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
I love to see him again?
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Okay, Well we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting
you and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
Okay, thank you guys. Yep, get your first day follow
up next.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up
if you're just joining us, Madison is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a guy named daniel So
we're about to call him and see fields house why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But
before we do that, Madison, why don't you refresh our
memory on your date?
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Yeah, Danielle, And then at the gym, we were like
getting along super well.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
He played this like amazing night.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
For a oyster champagne. We hooked up multiple times. Send
him a hot text, I laughed, and I haven't heard
from him since.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Okay, you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (05:06):
I am all right?
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Here we go. Hello, Hi me, I speak to Daniel please.
This is him.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Hey Daniel, how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
Hi, Daniel, I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Cool.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before?
Speaker 7 (05:34):
I've heard of you, guys. I think a couple of times,
but yeah, I don't listen to you all the time.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Okay, I'm calling you today because one of our listeners
actually emailed us about you.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Okay, So we do a segment on the show. It's
called the first Date follow Up.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and then you ghost them, that person can email
us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them?
All right, So we got an email about you from somebody.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
That's pretty weird.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Are you ghosting anybody?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I don't know what classifies as ghosting?
Speaker 7 (06:06):
But is her name.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Madison by Chance? Yes, well, that's hilarious.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
She'd be calling you guys, Okay, why she's a cheater
to say the least.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Oh what, Yeah, she was over my house.
Speaker 7 (06:24):
Her little phone dinged off and it said date with
Chris or whatever. She told me it was some other
guy she was dating and she was going to cancel
it or something like that. And when she left, I
went on her social media accounts and looked up if
she was seeing somebody. Yeah, she's married to a dude
named Chris. Yeah, that was with her husband. She's married.
(06:44):
I'm not really about that kind of thing. So I
don't know why she's calling you that.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
That's kind of hilarious.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Okay, yeah, I mean I guess that would be a
reason to go somebody if you find out they're married.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah, she's in an open relationship.
Speaker 7 (06:55):
Oh well you would tell me about that, right, shouldn't
I be aware of that?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
So I'm not this side piece.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
Look, I've been cheated on before. I'm not really about
that kind of life.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
I don't like women who cheat on their men.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
And uh yeah, that's kind of where I'm at on
the whole situation. She should have told me if I'm
some kind of like weird piece in their you know,
triangle relationship.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I should have been aware of that.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Okay, well, thanks for telling us.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I'll also tell you that Madison is on the phone
and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
She's been listening.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Okay, why would why would you go on my social
media and dig everything to ask?
Speaker 7 (07:38):
You're being pretty sloppy about the whole thing, Like you're
lucky I didn't just text message christ and just let
them know what the hell's going on or send them
a message on whatever. I mean, that's pretty sloppy on
your part. You know, you didn't even tell me what
was going on. I should have probably known, right.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Why why are you bringing Christen to this? You didn't
need to know any of this. I'm not cheating.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
I'm enjoying my life.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Like, why dude, it tell me you didn't have an
amazing night?
Speaker 7 (08:14):
I okay, that is completely not the damn point. Does
your husband know you're out here baying other dudes?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Why does that matter? Like, it's not about me? This
is about you and me.
Speaker 7 (08:28):
Well, when you're seeing somebody you care about their integrity
and their willingness to just turn around and screw on
somebody to completely.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
That shows who they are on the inside, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
So, yeah, that's why, that's why it's important.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
You're getting so deep. Like I'm not trying to like
have you pay my bills. I just want I just
want to hook up like that. I thought that's what
we were doing.
Speaker 7 (08:54):
There's another guy on the end of this, and I've
been that other guy before, and I don't want to
hurt somebody.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Do you like that?
Speaker 7 (09:01):
And if I'm participating in it, then I'm equally a
part of it, and I'm not going to do that.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
That's what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
How's he gonna hurt if he doesn't know nothing to
do with this?
Speaker 3 (09:17):
This is an ab situation.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
Not like I'll ask the question, Daniel, would you like
to go out with Madison again on another date?
Speaker 4 (09:27):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
No, I think she's nuts. Absolutely not.
Speaker 7 (09:32):
We're good. We we hung out together one time, did
a few squads.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
That's it.
Speaker 7 (09:36):
Let's call it.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
Were good.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
We're good.
Speaker 7 (09:38):
Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
Sorry, Madison, you don't get another date there?
Speaker 1 (09:43):
I know the least now I know, But like, can
we still like work out together?
Speaker 7 (09:54):
No?
Speaker 3 (09:59):
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