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July 11, 2024 10 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Kellen is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's not getting a call back from
a date he went on with a girl named Jen
that he really likes. So we're going to see if
we can find out why she's goosing him in a second,
but first let's hear about the date. Callen, what's up.
How long has it been since you heard from Jen.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
It's been a couple of weeks, almost a month now.
But uh, yeah, so I texted her and just now
respond back, and I just I don't know, I thought
we kind of hit it off.

Speaker 4 (00:37):
So why don't we go backwards? Why don't you tell
us about, you know, how you guys met and what happened.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
Well, we we kind of met on Christian mingle, and uh,
you know, we chat it back and forth and whatnot,
and and I kind out what church she went to,
and I showed up. I showed up to surprise her,
and and uh, I thought she thought it was cute.
And we went to coffee afterwards and we talked and

(01:07):
and just kind of I think we kind of hit
it off. And so we plan another you know, date,
because she had her shirt. There was like a dance
sort of event type of thing going on for couples,
and I made reservations at the sushi place that was
next door to the church, and and so we did that.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
And yeah, I.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
Thought it was a nice, cool little thing that we did.

Speaker 4 (01:34):
Yeah, it's cool. It does seem nice. So were you
So you guys were really getting along? Was there any
like touchiness or any sparks flying?

Speaker 3 (01:44):
I just really I really dig her, like she's so
dedicated to her church, in her community and her kindness.
She is beautiful. I don't know, she just like nobody
like I've ever dated before. You know, it's uh uh
she makes me want to be better.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
Why do you think she's ghosting?

Speaker 3 (02:05):
Well, I guess I get a little jealous. And so
we were at the dance and uh it was one
of her friends, male friends, that asked her to dance
with her, and I agreed. But I just I don't know.
I I think I was. I think I was too
butt hurt about it. And if she saw that, and

(02:29):
I don't know, I don't know why I do that.
I mean, we won't bet on to date so it's like,
I don't know it, just guess it's just even side
because I care about her.

Speaker 4 (02:38):
I mean, you're also you're on a date with her,
so you kind of would hope that your date would
dance with you.

Speaker 2 (02:42):
But but you.

Speaker 4 (02:44):
Know, friends danced together too. Were you like outwardly angry
or was it just.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
I was? I don't know, I guess I was.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
I guess I was poudy, you know, I was just Okay,
So you didn't try to like fight the guy? All right, well, man,
we'll see if we can figure it out. Then we'll
play a song come back, and then call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and
hopefully get you another date.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
Okay, awesome, I appreciate that.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
All right man, So well pla us on come back,
get your first day follow up next. Right in the
middle of our first day follow up, if you're just
joining us, Kellen is on the phone and he's getting
ghosted by a woman named Jen that he really likes.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Kellen, why
don't you catch everybody up on your situation?

Speaker 3 (03:31):
Well, we met on Christian Mingle. I went to our church.
We we hit it off, and we went to a
dance social there at her church and she was dancing
with another guy. And it was a little jealous, you know.
And then and then so I thought i'd text her
again and like see if we can't get a third date,

(03:51):
you know, And just no response. Two days later, no response.
I try it again again, no response, Like maybe I
was too jealous. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
You weren't angry jealous, right, you're poudy jealous.

Speaker 5 (04:07):
I was just yeah, yeah, I was.

Speaker 4 (04:11):
Crying self awareness.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
That's cool, all right, man, for you ready for us
to call her?

Speaker 3 (04:18):
I am. Let's let's hear this all right.

Speaker 2 (04:20):
Here we go hello him asking to gen please, Yes,
hey Jen, how are you? My name is Jubel and
I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show.

Speaker 4 (04:39):
Hi Jen, the whole show is here.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.

Speaker 5 (04:43):
Hi.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
Hi.

Speaker 6 (04:44):
How are you?

Speaker 5 (04:45):
I'm good?

Speaker 2 (04:46):
How are you going great? We do a segment on
the show it's called the first Date follow Up. That's
where if you go out on a date with somebody
and then you end up ghosting them, that person can
email us to get you on the phone and find
out where you're ghosting them. So is there anybody that
you can think of that would want us to call
you because you're not calling him back?

Speaker 5 (05:04):
I mean probably, I guess is it?

Speaker 2 (05:08):
Yes, it's Kellen. Yeah, he wants to know why you're
ghosting him.

Speaker 1 (05:13):
Like listen, he was a great guy, and he was
you know, it was a nice like couple of dates
like a coffee and a date or whatever.

Speaker 5 (05:20):
But like I found out that.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
He was on Tinder, and like, I just don't really
think like our values and stuff like matchup after like
hearing about that, So I just don't think we're going
to work.

Speaker 5 (05:31):
You know.

Speaker 4 (05:32):
Did he tell you that he was on Tinder?

Speaker 2 (05:34):
Are you on tender?

Speaker 1 (05:35):
No?

Speaker 5 (05:35):
No, no, no, no no, I'm not on Tinder.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
Like I'm like, you know, everybody lived your life. I'm
just I'm not about that like whip up culture type thing.

Speaker 5 (05:42):
You know, Like I very specifically, like this is my
first online stuff going through Christian Mingle. You know, it's
just different.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
I'm looking for something different, and like you know, again
the dates, they were great, and I was showing my
coworker a picture of him and like telling her all
about like how wonderful it was, and imediately she was like, oh,
I've seen him on Tinder and we like you know,
got onto like one of the Tinder apps like with people,
and like they found him and it was like.

Speaker 5 (06:08):
Oh, that's that's him. Cool.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
So I guess, like you know, he just what is
it like a wolf and sheep's clothing clothing type of thing.

Speaker 5 (06:15):
Like, I just he's different than I guess how.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
He presented because yeah, you met on Christian Mingle, so yeah,
Tender and Christian Mingle I think are very different places.

Speaker 4 (06:25):
Yeah, so I just mean, just to be clear, Jen,
is it because he was on a dating app? Or
is it because it was specifically tender?

Speaker 5 (06:33):
Specifically Tender, like you know, like.

Speaker 1 (06:36):
You know, I'm I'm a big big part of like
my church and like that's how I was raised.

Speaker 5 (06:41):
It's just it's different than I know, like how a
lot of people live.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
And again like that's totally fine, like live your life,
but like it just doesn't match up with.

Speaker 5 (06:48):
Like the life I'm leading. So like okay, yeah, you know,
like I.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
Just I'm sure there are a lot of things that
are very different and like expectations I'm sure are very
different between us.

Speaker 2 (06:59):
Okay, well, thank you for being honest with us. I
don't know if Kellen's a freak like you think he is,
but we can find out. Callen, are you a freak? No,
I'm not that kind.

Speaker 3 (07:13):
Of guy anymore. I should have deleted the app, the
profile and everything because the girls on there, they're not
for me anymore.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
Jen, If you couldn't tell, Kellen's on the phone and
he's been listening and wants to talk to you, and
he's not a freak anymore.

Speaker 5 (07:29):
Yeah, I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (07:32):
But yes, I should have deleted Kender. I don't know
why I still have it up. I have many apps
on my phone, you know, and like those girls are
I left that to Christian Mingle because I want somebody
with the values and Christian. I'm sorry. I will try
to prove myself over and over and over if I

(07:54):
have to.

Speaker 2 (07:55):
You're not really on tender. You just didn't close your account, correct?

Speaker 3 (07:58):
Yeah, like I I left the tender a long time ago,
just said I have to delete the app and the
profile and everything like that. I don't know. I don't
know why I didn't.

Speaker 5 (08:10):
Are you even Christian?

Speaker 1 (08:11):
Like you know, I've heard about people like some guys
like get onto this Christian mingle app to like find
the innocent girls and they're trying to corrupt them and whatever,
and like it's the competition and I terrible.

Speaker 3 (08:24):
Yeah, I am a Christian. I just you know, I'm
tired of those girls on Tender.

Speaker 5 (08:31):
They're like you're.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
Tired of because you probably went out with a lot
of them, right, I.

Speaker 5 (08:37):
Don't know, Like again, we had a good time. I
just don't think our values match up.

Speaker 3 (08:41):
You know, I get it, I understand, but I'm not
I'm still going to try it. I'm still going to
prove myself to you. I truly believe that. I don't know.
I like you. How I deleted the app today, That's
what I did.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
And then how are you going to prove to her
that you're there for the Christian and not the mingling.
I'm Christian mingle, not just the mingling.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
I mean, I will go to her church every Sunday.
I will prove myself. I swear you're the one.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
Whoa the one that's kind of a lot.

Speaker 3 (09:17):
Jen.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
What do you think would you like to go out
with Kellen on another date? We'll pay for it.

Speaker 5 (09:22):
I just don't know. I just again, I don't know
if we're both.

Speaker 6 (09:24):
Sharing the same Christian values. And M sorry, maybe it's
not a no. You know, I get it, I get
while you're you know, I'm just I'm just bumped again.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
I uh. But I will be there for you when
when you're ready to go on a on a second
or another date. I really enjoyed your church. It's one
of the better ones in town. Would be awkward if
I still went there. I don't want to make it
awkward for you, but I do like a church and
the people there, so.

Speaker 5 (10:04):
The doors are open for everyone.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
So okay, weird, just like talking about who gets the
Lord and the breakup. I'm sorry, sorry, calm, but it
sounds like you're not giving up hope and Jim, you
know you said maybe so maybe you guys are running
to each other at church and you know.

Speaker 4 (10:21):
See how it goes. But just pursue respectfully. Okay, I'm
just gonna say that.

Speaker 3 (10:25):
Yeah, and I'll be praying for you.

Speaker 5 (10:29):
Well, I will be praying for you too, and I
hope you have a blessed day.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
All right. They're off the phone. She like patted him
on the head big time as he was leaving. Now
you would just have a blessed stay there. I'll be
praying for you too.

Speaker 4 (10:44):
That's like the nicest like you ever.

Speaker 2 (10:46):
Yeah, Jubile's first fall up
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