July 15, 2024 • 12 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocuslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Lisia is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.
So in a second, we're gonna call him and see
if I'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get
her another date. But first, Lesia, how long has it
been since you heard from James.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah, it's been about a week.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
And then how many times have you reached out to
him in that time?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, like kind of a bunch. I was, uh, you know,
I was texting a bunch. You know, we had a
great connection and you know, you know, I was we
were trying to get together, and you know I texted
a few times and you know, we had a plan.
He canceled. He felt like he needed the weekend to recover.
I offered to make him soup, which he declined, and I,
(00:48):
you know, and then then after that I texted him
a couple of times. You know, he's feeling and like nothing.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
So, did your date happen or this was after the date?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Well, well we had a first date, okay, okay, but
then after that nothing happened.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Okay, Well, tell us about the date.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Well, we met unhinged first of all, and like we
talked a little bit, and we wanted to go out
because we both like really like food and travel and stuff.
And he's in a band and I used to sing
in a band, so we had like a lot of
great connections. And so we met for cocktails and we
like bounced around and got tacos and ended up at
this like karaoke place, which was really fun. After karaoke,
(01:28):
we went back to his place and we were hanging
out and like cuddling and stuff, but we didn't look up,
but there was like a lot of like affection myself.
And in the morning we kissed, and like we crammed
on seeing each other again like the next weekend. So
that was the date.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Is there anything that happened on the date that could
have been awkward or something that would cause him to
not want to talk to you again?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
So I talked this over a bit, and I think
there might have been which I like want to apologize for,
and like I've been feeling bad about it. So like
when we were like hanging out and cuddling, he like
pulled down his phone to play me like a rough
edit of his band's new song, and I was excited
to hear it. I was glad he wanted to share
(02:12):
it with me, And you know, because I was on
the music background, I didn't feel like I knew to
hold back what I thought, you know, So I mean
I told him, I was like, I think this is
like a great idea for a song. I said, like
some of the lyrics were a little cheesy, and you know,
his voice was a little pissy and certain points, and
like one of the lyrics in particular was like about
(02:33):
her loving like a sugar rush, eating a box of
Kristy cream or something. Okay, I like laughed at that,
and then I kept like asking him if I made
him feel like he was eating a box of Krispy cream.
And I thought it was being funny, like I was joking,
and like I think I may have crushed him. I
don't know, maybe I took it too far. So I
feel like he's apologize.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah, but I mean it sounds like you were being
more playful.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Yeah. No, I was just saying, like that's how I felt,
like that's what the intention was.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Ju Will you are doing music now too, so like
think about this scenario. Wouldn't it be just kind of cute, like,
you're not are you going to be offended?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
No, I wouldn't be.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I'm also a super harsh critic on myself, so I'd
be like, you're right, the whole thing is craft.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
I'll throw it out, you're over, I quit it all.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
So I would just totally be like, yeah, thanks for
the honest feedback I saw.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
That would also be a major turn off and problem. Also, Okay,
so maybe maybe he was a little but hurt. Maybe,
I mean it might be.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
So I feel like, I don't know. I feel like
we need to get him on the phone, Like he
needs to get a third party and to get him
on the phone phone because he's just ghosting me so
like and I just want to apologize.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
We'll play a song and we'll come back, and then
we'll call him and see if it tellus why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date with Krispy
Kreme Boy.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Okay, all right, should.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
We not call him Chrispy Green Boy?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
All right?
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Well, plays, I'll come back get your first a follow
up next Right in the middle of our first date,
follow up if you're just joining us. Alesha is on
the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.
So we're about to call him and see if you'll
tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
But first, Lisha, why don't you catch us up on
your situation.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Yeah, so, I when I had a date with this guy, James,
it like went really well. We had cocktails and tacos,
and we had karaoke and all this stuff, and you know,
we bonded because he's in a band and I used
to sing in a band, and you know, we have
a lot of common interests. And I feel like and
he hasn't tested me back in a week, so and
(04:38):
I feel like something might have gone wrong the night
we were on the date. I feel like I might
have kind of heard his feelings making fun of one
of his lyrics which involves Krispy Kreme, which I kept
springing up. No, I don't know. I feel like I
might have sent him and I need to apologize. And
also he's ghosting me. So that's where we are.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
All right, are you ready for us to call?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Okay, here we go, Hello him, I speak to James.
Please yeah, speaking, James, how are you?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Man?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
My name is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Hi, James, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Oh? Cool, wonderful.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
I'm doing good man, I'm getting any calls radio?
Speaker 1 (05:28):
But what's up?
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah? Yeah, I have?
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Okay, thank you? Yeah. Have you ever heard of first
date follow up before? Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Yeah, yeah I have? This is this one of.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
These things, first day follow up?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
You know that's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody,
they can email us and then ask us to call
you and ask why you're ghosting them. Somebody emailed us
about you, James, Oh boy, any idea who would be?
Speaker 6 (05:53):
Yeah? Maybe someone I met someone online, like a little
more than a week ago.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Is that someone's name?
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Yeah? Yeah, Alicia?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Well Lisia emailed us and told us about your day.
She said she really liked you, but she's confused. Can
you tell us why you're ghostinger?
Speaker 6 (06:12):
I really liked.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Her, but man, she's too much.
Speaker 7 (06:17):
She texted me on Saturday to ask about Well, first
of all, I got sick, right, so like I got
sick a little bit afterwards, but not the RNA nothing,
but like, you know, she texted me on Saturday to
ask me about soup, and then again to tell me
good night, and then text me a list of vitamins
I should be taking.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Because you were sick.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
It was like it was like a trip or a
DoorDash GNC, you know, the whole bag fall.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
And and then like not soon after asking if I
missed her.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
This this whole thing about like if I wanted Krispy Kremes, Like,
ask me if I wanted Krispy Kreme.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
It's a joke about some stupid lyric I made, and
and and I mean just more text on and on
and on.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
I'm not even giving you all that was all one day.
That happened all on the same day.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
Yeah, and this is someone I had just talked to online.
They came over, we cuddled, I mean, the sweet it
was great, you know, don't get me wrong. But after
all this just piling on and just happening so soon
I just stopped responding because like I needed to rest
and I wake up and it's like, I mean, I
(07:32):
lose like twelve text messages from her. I don't respond,
but I get even more the next day. Eventually, I
just I just block her because I feel like that
kind of energy I felt it gives me a lot
of anxiety, like and I'm gonna go with the flow
kind of guy. And when it just gets draw it's like,
(07:52):
first off, it doesn't know me feel better, but then
it's like, this is someone I just met. Sweet girl.
I mean, she came over, it was great. The date
was amazing. See karaoke was fun and yeah, like we
talked that it was going to turn into something. But
then the text, just the messaging, it was just nah, nah,
it was just a note going.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
I mean it sounds like she was just concerned because
you were sick.
Speaker 5 (08:16):
Now, granted, twelve and maybe twenty four text messages might
be a lot in two days, but the initial reached
out probably was kind of nice.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Though.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
No, I mean, I get it, she's very sweet, But
is this someone I just started talking to online and
it just started giving me the vibe that this is
the kind of person that's going to give me a
whole lot of anxiety. I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
I just wanted peace, Okay, Well, speaking of Peith James,
I will let you know that Lisa's actually on the
phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Yeah, hi, oh hi, Lisha. Do you have a problem
getting close to people? Like do you know how everyone
cares about you? Like I was just trying to show
you that I cared, And I'm like, actually a good
caretaker in like times like this. I get it.
Speaker 6 (09:05):
But it's just we just had one date after a
little bit of online conversation, and I just feel Look,
you're sweet, wonderful, but I just feel that we're nowhere
close to the come over and make me soup stage
of this relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Okay, Well, you said on your hind that you wanted
to be intentional about the time we spend together and
to prioritize the growth, and I feel like I was
doing that. So I don't know what there is about
this that you don't you wouldn't like, can.
Speaker 6 (09:37):
We go further than or can we have a relationship first?
Can we like have some other there's there's steps to
this before.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Okay, wait, wait, I'm not ready to be in a
relationship with you.
Speaker 6 (09:50):
Oh look, that's that's that's not what I said.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Okay, that's that's not what I said.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
It's I feel there's a little miscommunication here.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Well, I mean, I'm not well, you just mentioned wanting
to have a relationship first, Like you talk about me
texting a lot, and you're already talking about a relationship.
So I don't know what the problem is with my
texting when you're like, I want a relationship right now? What. No,
I'm not I'm not saying right now.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
It's just that I just don't want to jump into
things that just lead to anxiety. And just like already
we're checking each other's mental health. Like I'm just trying
to just go go with the vibe that we had
that was that was real good. It just felt like
this was this was just in a different place, and
I was just like, I don't want to grow with this.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
You are moving away to ask James.
Speaker 6 (10:45):
Look, I just I just I'm I'm all for like
all those texts in the soup, but I just feel
that there's there's just a sequence to it that just
you know, rocks my boat a certain way. And and
like I'm sorry for for miss communicating or or like
you know.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Just going outside the vibe that we had.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
And I just feel I just feel like we want
the wrong direction with that.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Well, James, would you like another date with Lisa? We'll
pay for it, James, I just so.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
You know, I will go on another date with you,
but I just want to let you know, like I'm
not gonna get together with you right now, just so
you know. Yeah.
Speaker 6 (11:23):
So, like I said, I'm not interested in rushing into
getting together right now. I'm sorry about the miscommunication, but
I'm willing to give this another go, just as long
as you don't mention the Krispy Kremes.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Okay, but we're not going to be like dating yet,
Like this is just a date date, not like a
dating date.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
Look, don't worry, I'm not trying to wipe you up
just yet.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Wait a minute, you want to wipe me up like this?
Hold on, why are we jumping to marriage.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
I don't think James wants to marry you yet. I
think you guys should just go out one more day
and see how it goes again.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Ah, Okay, I'll talk right Juble's first day follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocuslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Lisia is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.
So in a second, we're gonna call him and see
if I'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get
her another date. But first, Lesia, how long has it
been since you heard from James.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah, it's been about a week.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
And then how many times have you reached out to
him in that time?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, like kind of a bunch. I was, uh, you know,
I was texting a bunch. You know, we had a
great connection and you know, you know, I was we
were trying to get together, and you know I texted
a few times and you know, we had a plan.
He canceled. He felt like he needed the weekend to recover.
I offered to make him soup, which he declined, and I,
(00:48):
you know, and then then after that I texted him
a couple of times. You know, he's feeling and like nothing.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
So, did your date happen or this was after the date?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Well, well we had a first date, okay, okay, but
then after that nothing happened.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Okay, Well, tell us about the date.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Well, we met unhinged first of all, and like we
talked a little bit, and we wanted to go out
because we both like really like food and travel and stuff.
And he's in a band and I used to sing
in a band, so we had like a lot of
great connections. And so we met for cocktails and we
like bounced around and got tacos and ended up at
this like karaoke place, which was really fun. After karaoke,
(01:28):
we went back to his place and we were hanging
out and like cuddling and stuff, but we didn't look up,
but there was like a lot of like affection myself.
And in the morning we kissed, and like we crammed
on seeing each other again like the next weekend. So
that was the date.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Is there anything that happened on the date that could
have been awkward or something that would cause him to
not want to talk to you again?
Speaker 1 (01:52):
So I talked this over a bit, and I think
there might have been which I like want to apologize for,
and like I've been feeling bad about it. So like
when we were like hanging out and cuddling, he like
pulled down his phone to play me like a rough
edit of his band's new song, and I was excited
to hear it. I was glad he wanted to share
(02:12):
it with me, And you know, because I was on
the music background, I didn't feel like I knew to
hold back what I thought, you know, So I mean
I told him, I was like, I think this is
like a great idea for a song. I said, like
some of the lyrics were a little cheesy, and you know,
his voice was a little pissy and certain points, and
like one of the lyrics in particular was like about
(02:33):
her loving like a sugar rush, eating a box of
Kristy cream or something. Okay, I like laughed at that,
and then I kept like asking him if I made
him feel like he was eating a box of Krispy cream.
And I thought it was being funny, like I was joking,
and like I think I may have crushed him. I
don't know, maybe I took it too far. So I
feel like he's apologize.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah, but I mean it sounds like you were being
more playful.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Yeah. No, I was just saying, like that's how I felt,
like that's what the intention was.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Ju Will you are doing music now too, so like
think about this scenario. Wouldn't it be just kind of cute, like,
you're not are you going to be offended?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
No, I wouldn't be.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I'm also a super harsh critic on myself, so I'd
be like, you're right, the whole thing is craft.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
I'll throw it out, you're over, I quit it all.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
So I would just totally be like, yeah, thanks for
the honest feedback I saw.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
That would also be a major turn off and problem. Also, Okay,
so maybe maybe he was a little but hurt. Maybe,
I mean it might be.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
So I feel like, I don't know. I feel like
we need to get him on the phone, Like he
needs to get a third party and to get him
on the phone phone because he's just ghosting me so
like and I just want to apologize.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
We'll play a song and we'll come back, and then
we'll call him and see if it tellus why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date with Krispy
Kreme Boy.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Okay, all right, should.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
We not call him Chrispy Green Boy?
Speaker 4 (04:00):
All right?
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Well, plays, I'll come back get your first a follow
up next Right in the middle of our first date,
follow up if you're just joining us. Alesha is on
the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James.
So we're about to call him and see if you'll
tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
But first, Lisha, why don't you catch us up on
your situation.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Yeah, so, I when I had a date with this guy, James,
it like went really well. We had cocktails and tacos,
and we had karaoke and all this stuff, and you know,
we bonded because he's in a band and I used
to sing in a band, and you know, we have
a lot of common interests. And I feel like and
he hasn't tested me back in a week, so and
(04:38):
I feel like something might have gone wrong the night
we were on the date. I feel like I might
have kind of heard his feelings making fun of one
of his lyrics which involves Krispy Kreme, which I kept
springing up. No, I don't know. I feel like I
might have sent him and I need to apologize. And
also he's ghosting me. So that's where we are.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
All right, are you ready for us to call?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Okay, here we go, Hello him, I speak to James.
Please yeah, speaking, James, how are you?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Man?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
My name is Jewbell. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Hi, James, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Oh? Cool, wonderful.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
I'm doing good man, I'm getting any calls radio?
Speaker 1 (05:28):
But what's up?
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah? Yeah, I have?
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Okay, thank you? Yeah. Have you ever heard of first
date follow up before? Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Yeah, yeah I have? This is this one of.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
These things, first day follow up?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
You know that's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody,
they can email us and then ask us to call
you and ask why you're ghosting them. Somebody emailed us
about you, James, Oh boy, any idea who would be?
Speaker 6 (05:53):
Yeah? Maybe someone I met someone online, like a little
more than a week ago.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Is that someone's name?
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Yeah? Yeah, Alicia?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Well Lisia emailed us and told us about your day.
She said she really liked you, but she's confused. Can
you tell us why you're ghostinger?
Speaker 6 (06:12):
I really liked.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Her, but man, she's too much.
Speaker 7 (06:17):
She texted me on Saturday to ask about Well, first
of all, I got sick, right, so like I got
sick a little bit afterwards, but not the RNA nothing,
but like, you know, she texted me on Saturday to
ask me about soup, and then again to tell me
good night, and then text me a list of vitamins
I should be taking.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Because you were sick.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
It was like it was like a trip or a
DoorDash GNC, you know, the whole bag fall.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
And and then like not soon after asking if I
missed her.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
This this whole thing about like if I wanted Krispy Kremes, Like,
ask me if I wanted Krispy Kreme.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
It's a joke about some stupid lyric I made, and
and and I mean just more text on and on
and on.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
I'm not even giving you all that was all one day.
That happened all on the same day.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
Yeah, and this is someone I had just talked to online.
They came over, we cuddled, I mean, the sweet it
was great, you know, don't get me wrong. But after
all this just piling on and just happening so soon
I just stopped responding because like I needed to rest
and I wake up and it's like, I mean, I
(07:32):
lose like twelve text messages from her. I don't respond,
but I get even more the next day. Eventually, I
just I just block her because I feel like that
kind of energy I felt it gives me a lot
of anxiety, like and I'm gonna go with the flow
kind of guy. And when it just gets draw it's like,
(07:52):
first off, it doesn't know me feel better, but then
it's like, this is someone I just met. Sweet girl.
I mean, she came over, it was great. The date
was amazing. See karaoke was fun and yeah, like we
talked that it was going to turn into something. But
then the text, just the messaging, it was just nah, nah,
it was just a note going.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
I mean it sounds like she was just concerned because
you were sick.
Speaker 5 (08:16):
Now, granted, twelve and maybe twenty four text messages might
be a lot in two days, but the initial reached
out probably was kind of nice.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Though.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
No, I mean, I get it, she's very sweet, But
is this someone I just started talking to online and
it just started giving me the vibe that this is
the kind of person that's going to give me a
whole lot of anxiety. I don't.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
I just wanted peace, Okay, Well, speaking of Peith James,
I will let you know that Lisa's actually on the
phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Yeah, hi, oh hi, Lisha. Do you have a problem
getting close to people? Like do you know how everyone
cares about you? Like I was just trying to show
you that I cared, And I'm like, actually a good
caretaker in like times like this. I get it.
Speaker 6 (09:05):
But it's just we just had one date after a
little bit of online conversation, and I just feel Look,
you're sweet, wonderful, but I just feel that we're nowhere
close to the come over and make me soup stage
of this relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Okay, Well, you said on your hind that you wanted
to be intentional about the time we spend together and
to prioritize the growth, and I feel like I was
doing that. So I don't know what there is about
this that you don't you wouldn't like, can.
Speaker 6 (09:37):
We go further than or can we have a relationship first?
Can we like have some other there's there's steps to
this before.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Okay, wait, wait, I'm not ready to be in a
relationship with you.
Speaker 6 (09:50):
Oh look, that's that's that's not what I said.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Okay, that's that's not what I said.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
It's I feel there's a little miscommunication here.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Well, I mean, I'm not well, you just mentioned wanting
to have a relationship first, Like you talk about me
texting a lot, and you're already talking about a relationship.
So I don't know what the problem is with my
texting when you're like, I want a relationship right now? What. No,
I'm not I'm not saying right now.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
It's just that I just don't want to jump into
things that just lead to anxiety. And just like already
we're checking each other's mental health. Like I'm just trying
to just go go with the vibe that we had
that was that was real good. It just felt like
this was this was just in a different place, and
I was just like, I don't want to grow with this.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
You are moving away to ask James.
Speaker 6 (10:45):
Look, I just I just I'm I'm all for like
all those texts in the soup, but I just feel
that there's there's just a sequence to it that just
you know, rocks my boat a certain way. And and
like I'm sorry for for miss communicating or or like
you know.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Just going outside the vibe that we had.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
And I just feel I just feel like we want
the wrong direction with that.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Well, James, would you like another date with Lisa? We'll
pay for it, James, I just so.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
You know, I will go on another date with you,
but I just want to let you know, like I'm
not gonna get together with you right now, just so
you know. Yeah.
Speaker 6 (11:23):
So, like I said, I'm not interested in rushing into
getting together right now. I'm sorry about the miscommunication, but
I'm willing to give this another go, just as long
as you don't mention the Krispy Kremes.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Okay, but we're not going to be like dating yet,
Like this is just a date date, not like a
dating date.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
Look, don't worry, I'm not trying to wipe you up
just yet.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Wait a minute, you want to wipe me up like this?
Hold on, why are we jumping to marriage.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
I don't think James wants to marry you yet. I
think you guys should just go out one more day
and see how it goes again.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Ah, Okay, I'll talk right Juble's first day follow up
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