June 25, 2024 • 9 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Really is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Lucas.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him see
if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe
get her on another date. But first, literally, how long
has it been since you heard from Lucas?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yea, so it's been two weeks exactly.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Okay, have you reached out to him?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
No?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I kind of feel like the guy she reached out for.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Okay, why do you want to get a hold of him?
Likeuse if it's been two weeks? Like, was the date
just like that good?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Well? I said it was okay, Like it wasn't that great,
But I thought I did everything right and he made
it a point to tell me that he really want
to see me again.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
So I'm just kind of wondering why he haven't reached out.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Well, tell us and tell us about the date, Lily,
what happened?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yeah, well, I haven't been on a date in a while.
I'm kind of like a homebody.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
So my friends were saying that they needed to get
me out. They met this school guy in a neighborhood Barney, Lucas.
So I met up with him for a sangria and
apps at QBR and it was fun. But you know,
he talked about himself a lot. And I don't think
I did anything wrong because I didn't have time to
say anything inappropriate because he was talking about him the
(01:16):
whole time.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Kind of and you want to see him again.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Well, I think that sometimes when people start talking about
themselves incessantly, it's almost a defense mechanism, right, like you
get kind of right. Yeah, so we had two different options,
and he was nervous or he's extremely arrogant. I'm not
sure what was your take on that, Lily.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
No, maybe I thought maybe he was nervous and maybe
I didn't react to him, like maybe I should have
been like ooh and ah about his whatever he was
saying a little bit more. I could have been more engaging.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
So you think that would be that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
I don't know. I mean, I really would like to know.
That's kind of why I'm going in.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Well, tell us a little bit more about the date,
like was there any awkward moments or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Well, he wanted to split the bill, which I'm always
kind of like, I don't know how I feel about that.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I feel like a guy should usually pay. But it
was kind of a casual thing.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
So I was like, okay. But I also think that
when guys wants with the bill, it's kind of like, oh,
do you not want to see me again? So that
was one fine, but I didn't.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Read too much into it. I mean, we had, you know,
pretty good conversations.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
M h.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
It was like a fixed out of him date.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Him, you still want to call him back?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Yeah, I guess my ego's a little bit hurt. Maybe
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
So this is about the principle, not the date.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
It's like, Okay, you're the buddy that had the nerve
to goes to me, and you want to know why.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah, exactly, That's why.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
How did your date end?
Speaker 1 (02:48):
You know, he hugged, he didn't try to go in
for like an awkward kiss, which I think is very
respectful on a first date. And again he said that
he really wanted to see me again, which I was,
you know, flattered, and then he walks me to my car.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Okay, and you said that you haven't reached out to
him because you think that he should reach out, right.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Yeah, and he also said that he was going to
reach out. She wanted to sing.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Had he reached out, Lily, would you have gone on
that second date?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
I always wanted to give people a second because, you know,
people getting nervous.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I was a little nervous.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
They do say you should go on a date with
somebody three times before you make a decision about how
you know about them.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Science and my mother both say those things. I agree.
I'm just saying that's what I've heard.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Okay, Well, we'll play a song come back, and then
call him and see if you tell us why he's
ghosting you, and maybe get you another date. Okay, thank
you if you even want one. Maybe just be able
to find out why we're getting ghosted. All right, Well,
play a song, come back, get your first date, follow
up next. Right in the middle of your first date,
follow up, if you're just joining us, Lily is on
(03:54):
the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named
Lucas that she is okay with. I would normally I
say that I really liked but Lily doesn't really really
really like Lucas. She just wanted to date with him.
She's been getting ghosted for two weeks now, so we're
about to call him, see if I tell us why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if
she wants one. But Lily, why don't you refresh everybody's
memory on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
So I met up with this guy Lucas for like
a cute date, and he talked about himself a lot,
but at the end he said he really wanted to
see me again and he was going to reach out.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
And it's been two weeks.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Okay, you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Right here we go. Hi, masked week to Lucas. Please. Yeah, Hey, Lucas,
how are you. My name is Jewbell and I'm calling
from a radio show. It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
Hi, Lucas, I'm mean als on the show, Hi, and
I'm Victoria Thigs.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Have you heard the show before? No, Well, let me
tell you a little bit about it. It's a radio
show and then also with you a segment on it
called the First Aid follow Up, where if you go
out on a date with somebody and ghost them, that
person can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an
email about you from somebody you want to know who?
Speaker 6 (05:14):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Okay, her name is Lily.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Do you remember Lily?
Speaker 6 (05:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Yeah, of course thoughts on Lily.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
Uh, she thinks I'm ghosting her?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
M h are you?
Speaker 6 (05:31):
I don't know. I don't call girls after a date.
I wait for them to call me.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Can I ask why?
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Yeah? Because I don't like to play games, Like I
don't want a girl who plays games, so like, I
don't want to like how many days you're supposed to wait?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Not?
Speaker 6 (05:43):
It's just a stupid game, and I don't need that.
So I want somebody who wants to hang out with me. So,
I mean, if anybody's getting ghosted, it's.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Me here, right huh.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Okay, did you like your date with her?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:56):
It's fine. She didn't seem like that. You know, I'm like,
I'm an open book me questions. You know, she didn't
to have much to say.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Okay, it seemed like she wasn't into you.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Really, I mean it was fine, it was you know,
it wasn't It wasn't like a big spark, but it
was fine. Like I would go with her again.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Okay, That's what I was going to ask if she
called me if she did.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Okay, interesting, okay, cool, Well, Lucas, Lily is actually on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Hi. Oh oh hey hi Lucas.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Hey, look, Lucas, she didn't more than call you. We
don't do too hey.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Okay, Well, I mean this this feels like the game
dand all games. Man, I don't I don't think this
is for me. We're doing a radio show after one date.
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
I'm not a game player at all.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
I was just really curious why you didn't text me
after you said you really wanted to see me again
and you were going to reach out.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
You didn't text me either. I mean, it feels like
it goes both ways.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Well, Lucas, actually you're the one that's playing games because
you're waiting to see if I'm going to text you.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
I mean, you could just have texted. This feels like
you're doing games right back. I feel like this is
these are your games.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
To get clarity and communication.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
Look, I don't know what you want, Like, you didn't text,
you didn't say anything, so seems like you know want.
I want to be with someone who really wants to
talk to me. That's enough. That's what I'm looking for.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Don't you see it kind of as a game because
you didn't text either? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
What it feels like now you're trying to do mine games.
I'm just not interested in that.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, no, I'm not trying.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
You're playing games.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Yeah, now, I think we're all playing games. But if
you want someone to like you, shouldn't you also like
them show them interest as well.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
I mean, I'm interested in everybody, So I'm looking for
people who are interested in me.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Oh okay, How am I supposed to know that you're
interested if you don't text or call me?
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Am I supposed to know you're interested? If you don't
text or call me?
Speaker 2 (07:59):
He would you? Guys, i'd like to go on a
second date. We'll pay for it?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Yeah, actually I would?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Oh what you would? Yeah, Lucas, you want to go
on a date too?
Speaker 6 (08:13):
Yeah? Sure it sounds good. You're gonna pay for it.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
So now do we both feel confident that the other
person is interested in the other person? Or do we
need to text again after this call to say I'm
interested and I want to see you. You can go
on the counter three, you can text each other at
the same time.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
Yeah, I mean it sounds like she's interested. That's what
I was looking for. So I think he solved it
all right.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
And now Lily, you know that he was interested too.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
And I'm glad to find that out.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Okay, well, enjoy your date and you guys have a
lot to talk about. I'm sure.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
Yeah, good luck on that.
Speaker 6 (08:47):
We should appreciate this out now. Then I guess you
want to text me only.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
You know what. Sure, but you have to text me
back after.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Isn't that what you do?
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Okay, well, deal, we got a deal, a very really
congratulations guys.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Juble's first date follow up
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Really is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Lucas.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him see
if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe
get her on another date. But first, literally, how long
has it been since you heard from Lucas?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yea, so it's been two weeks exactly.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Okay, have you reached out to him?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
No?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I kind of feel like the guy she reached out for.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Okay, why do you want to get a hold of him?
Likeuse if it's been two weeks? Like, was the date
just like that good?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Well? I said it was okay, Like it wasn't that great,
But I thought I did everything right and he made
it a point to tell me that he really want
to see me again.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
So I'm just kind of wondering why he haven't reached out.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Well, tell us and tell us about the date, Lily,
what happened?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yeah, well, I haven't been on a date in a while.
I'm kind of like a homebody.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
So my friends were saying that they needed to get
me out. They met this school guy in a neighborhood Barney, Lucas.
So I met up with him for a sangria and
apps at QBR and it was fun. But you know,
he talked about himself a lot. And I don't think
I did anything wrong because I didn't have time to
say anything inappropriate because he was talking about him the
(01:16):
whole time.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Kind of and you want to see him again.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Well, I think that sometimes when people start talking about
themselves incessantly, it's almost a defense mechanism, right, like you
get kind of right. Yeah, so we had two different options,
and he was nervous or he's extremely arrogant. I'm not
sure what was your take on that, Lily.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
No, maybe I thought maybe he was nervous and maybe
I didn't react to him, like maybe I should have
been like ooh and ah about his whatever he was
saying a little bit more. I could have been more engaging.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
So you think that would be that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
I don't know. I mean, I really would like to know.
That's kind of why I'm going in.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Well, tell us a little bit more about the date,
like was there any awkward moments or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Well, he wanted to split the bill, which I'm always
kind of like, I don't know how I feel about that.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I feel like a guy should usually pay. But it
was kind of a casual thing.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
So I was like, okay. But I also think that
when guys wants with the bill, it's kind of like, oh,
do you not want to see me again? So that
was one fine, but I didn't.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Read too much into it. I mean, we had, you know,
pretty good conversations.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
M h.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
It was like a fixed out of him date.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Him, you still want to call him back?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Yeah, I guess my ego's a little bit hurt. Maybe
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
So this is about the principle, not the date.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
It's like, Okay, you're the buddy that had the nerve
to goes to me, and you want to know why.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah, exactly, That's why.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
How did your date end?
Speaker 1 (02:48):
You know, he hugged, he didn't try to go in
for like an awkward kiss, which I think is very
respectful on a first date. And again he said that
he really wanted to see me again, which I was,
you know, flattered, and then he walks me to my car.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Okay, and you said that you haven't reached out to
him because you think that he should reach out, right.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Yeah, and he also said that he was going to
reach out. She wanted to sing.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Had he reached out, Lily, would you have gone on
that second date?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
I always wanted to give people a second because, you know,
people getting nervous.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I was a little nervous.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
They do say you should go on a date with
somebody three times before you make a decision about how
you know about them.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Science and my mother both say those things. I agree.
I'm just saying that's what I've heard.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Okay, Well, we'll play a song come back, and then
call him and see if you tell us why he's
ghosting you, and maybe get you another date. Okay, thank
you if you even want one. Maybe just be able
to find out why we're getting ghosted. All right, Well,
play a song, come back, get your first date, follow
up next. Right in the middle of your first date,
follow up, if you're just joining us, Lily is on
(03:54):
the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named
Lucas that she is okay with. I would normally I
say that I really liked but Lily doesn't really really
really like Lucas. She just wanted to date with him.
She's been getting ghosted for two weeks now, so we're
about to call him, see if I tell us why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if
she wants one. But Lily, why don't you refresh everybody's
memory on your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
So I met up with this guy Lucas for like
a cute date, and he talked about himself a lot,
but at the end he said he really wanted to
see me again and he was going to reach out.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
And it's been two weeks.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Okay, you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Right here we go. Hi, masked week to Lucas. Please. Yeah, Hey, Lucas,
how are you. My name is Jewbell and I'm calling
from a radio show. It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
Hi, Lucas, I'm mean als on the show, Hi, and
I'm Victoria Thigs.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Have you heard the show before? No, Well, let me
tell you a little bit about it. It's a radio
show and then also with you a segment on it
called the First Aid follow Up, where if you go
out on a date with somebody and ghost them, that
person can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an
email about you from somebody you want to know who?
Speaker 6 (05:14):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Okay, her name is Lily.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Do you remember Lily?
Speaker 6 (05:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Yeah, of course thoughts on Lily.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
Uh, she thinks I'm ghosting her?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
M h are you?
Speaker 6 (05:31):
I don't know. I don't call girls after a date.
I wait for them to call me.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Can I ask why?
Speaker 6 (05:36):
Yeah? Because I don't like to play games, Like I
don't want a girl who plays games, so like, I
don't want to like how many days you're supposed to wait?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Not?
Speaker 6 (05:43):
It's just a stupid game, and I don't need that.
So I want somebody who wants to hang out with me. So,
I mean, if anybody's getting ghosted, it's.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Me here, right huh.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Okay, did you like your date with her?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:56):
It's fine. She didn't seem like that. You know, I'm like,
I'm an open book me questions. You know, she didn't
to have much to say.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Okay, it seemed like she wasn't into you.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Really, I mean it was fine, it was you know,
it wasn't It wasn't like a big spark, but it
was fine. Like I would go with her again.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Okay, That's what I was going to ask if she
called me if she did.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Okay, interesting, okay, cool, Well, Lucas, Lily is actually on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Hi. Oh oh hey hi Lucas.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Hey, look, Lucas, she didn't more than call you. We
don't do too hey.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Okay, Well, I mean this this feels like the game
dand all games. Man, I don't I don't think this
is for me. We're doing a radio show after one date.
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
I'm not a game player at all.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
I was just really curious why you didn't text me
after you said you really wanted to see me again
and you were going to reach out.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
You didn't text me either. I mean, it feels like
it goes both ways.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Well, Lucas, actually you're the one that's playing games because
you're waiting to see if I'm going to text you.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
I mean, you could just have texted. This feels like
you're doing games right back. I feel like this is
these are your games.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
To get clarity and communication.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
Look, I don't know what you want, Like, you didn't text,
you didn't say anything, so seems like you know want.
I want to be with someone who really wants to
talk to me. That's enough. That's what I'm looking for.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Don't you see it kind of as a game because
you didn't text either? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
What it feels like now you're trying to do mine games.
I'm just not interested in that.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Yeah, no, I'm not trying.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
You're playing games.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Yeah, now, I think we're all playing games. But if
you want someone to like you, shouldn't you also like
them show them interest as well.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
I mean, I'm interested in everybody, So I'm looking for
people who are interested in me.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Oh okay, How am I supposed to know that you're
interested if you don't text or call me?
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Am I supposed to know you're interested? If you don't
text or call me?
Speaker 2 (07:59):
He would you? Guys, i'd like to go on a
second date. We'll pay for it?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Yeah, actually I would?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Oh what you would? Yeah, Lucas, you want to go
on a date too?
Speaker 6 (08:13):
Yeah? Sure it sounds good. You're gonna pay for it.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
So now do we both feel confident that the other
person is interested in the other person? Or do we
need to text again after this call to say I'm
interested and I want to see you. You can go
on the counter three, you can text each other at
the same time.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
Yeah, I mean it sounds like she's interested. That's what
I was looking for. So I think he solved it
all right.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
And now Lily, you know that he was interested too.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
And I'm glad to find that out.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Okay, well, enjoy your date and you guys have a
lot to talk about. I'm sure.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
Yeah, good luck on that.
Speaker 6 (08:47):
We should appreciate this out now. Then I guess you
want to text me only.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
You know what. Sure, but you have to text me
back after.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Isn't that what you do?
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Okay, well, deal, we got a deal, a very really
congratulations guys.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
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Therapy Gecko
An unlicensed lizard psychologist travels the universe talking to strangers about absolutely nothing. TO CALL THE GECKO: follow me on https://www.twitch.tv/lyleforever to get a notification for when I am taking calls. I am usually live Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays but lately a lot of other times too. I am a gecko.