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August 30, 2024 11 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Mark is on the phone today for her first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Sasha.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and Suso
sells why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another day.
But first, Mark, how long has it been since you
heard from Sasha.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about a couple of weeks, now, Okay.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
Have you been reaching out to her during that time?

Speaker 3 (00:25):
Yeah, I mean I've called a couple of times, I've
texted and been no reply. And that's why I'm calling you, guys,
is I and see if we can figure out what's
going on.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Well, why don't you tell us about how you met
her and then the date and stuff.

Speaker 3 (00:38):
Yeah. So we met on Hinge and I just immediately
found her to be so beautiful and classy. I mean
one of her photos she was even wearing pearls and
I thought that was those. We started chatting and she
told me how she always wanted to go to Paris,
so I thought for a date, we could go to

(01:00):
this Parisian cafe and get coffee and croissants, which I
thought was perfect.

Speaker 1 (01:05):
Oh that's cool. Did you wear a beret?

Speaker 3 (01:08):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:10):
Yeah, that's definitely why. I'm just kidding. That's a cute idea, though, Yeah, thoughtful.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
I thought so too. I thought so too. So we,
you know, we had our croissants and our coffee and
we're talking and laughing, and you know, she shared so
much of her life stories with me. I just felt
like she really wanted me to know her, which you know,
was just so sweet. And we were supposed to go
on a bike ride, but then her roommate reached out
that she needed to be taken care of. So I

(01:35):
was okay with that because I love that she's good
to her friends. But after that, I never really heard
from her again.

Speaker 4 (01:43):
So what did she say to you, or like, what
was the interaction like after her roommate called, or like
as you guys were going your separate ways.

Speaker 3 (01:50):
Well, you know, we were supposed to go on this
bike ride and she kind of had to dodge out,
so I gave her a hug, and you know, we
she's had she had a great time, and that was
basically it. I said, you know, i'll call you later.
And when I called, I got no answer. I texted

(02:10):
a couple of times of the course of the last
few days and no response.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
Is hekay, I hope so not the freak job.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
But you don't think it was one of those things
where someone says, hey, I'll text you on the sly
and then you call me and then I'll say I
have to go if you're on a day you don't like.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Do you think that could have been a thing.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
I don't think. I don't think I didn't get that vibe.
I mean, she was opening up so much to me
about like her life and her family and her friends.
It just felt like she was she was having a
really great time. I mean, the only thing I can
think of is like, I mean, there's a bunch of
people checking me out in the cafe, which you know,
sometimes I'm a little awkward, but I do kind of
look like over life Superman at times, so I was

(02:54):
getting a lot of.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
But I just wanted to Okay, you look like a
real life Superman. What is that like? Are you like ripped?

Speaker 3 (03:02):
I got this cart can kind of swirl to my
hair and okay, I've been compared a lot to it,
but my eyes were on her. I don't know I
don't know if that was anything that she was nervous about,
but yeah, I don't think anything was wrong with the find.
I just genuinely thought she had to go help her.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
Did you tell her that you look like Superman at
any point, because that also could.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
Have been Yeah, No, no, I did not.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
Lucky you.

Speaker 2 (03:30):
You're on a date with Superman, I know, all right,
and you didn't get kiss or anything right at the
end of the day.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
No, I was gonna, you know, I was gonna try
and go for it, but there's a bunch of people
outside the shop of the Parisian coffee shop, and I
just felt like warm hug was the right move.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Okkay, all right, Well we'll figure it out where you
will play a song, come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you another date.

Speaker 3 (03:57):
Okay, thank you, I appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
Place, don't come back to your first day follow up
next if you're just joining us for today's first date
follow up. Mark is on the phone and he's getting
ghosted by Sasha. So we're about to call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Mark,
why don't you catch us up on your situation.

Speaker 3 (04:16):
Yeah, well, I met this beautiful girl named Sasha. We
went on Hinge, went on this great date to Persian Cafe,
had a great time, And now I haven't heard from her,
and I want to know why.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
Well, and you do think it's because you look like
Superman maybe and you were getting checked out a lot.

Speaker 3 (04:34):
I'm just worried. I'm just worried that she was aware
of that people were looking at me. That's all right.
I don't know if that that can be kind of
bobery a reason.

Speaker 4 (04:42):
Like if you were somebody that's super hot that everybody's
staring at you do feel like touching me?

Speaker 1 (04:47):
You know?

Speaker 2 (04:47):
I get that. Well, ready for us to call her? Yeah, yes, Slee,
here we go. Hello him, I speaking to Sasha. Please
this Sasha.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
Hi, how are you? My name is Jebel. I'm calling
from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

Speaker 5 (05:11):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
Oh Hi.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Do you listen to the show ever? Sometimes?

Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (05:19):
You guys agreed, this is so crazy.

Speaker 1 (05:21):
You know why we're calling you.

Speaker 5 (05:25):
I have a suspicion, and I'm going it's about it.

Speaker 3 (05:28):
That's suspicion being true.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
What do you think it is? What's your suspicion?

Speaker 3 (05:33):
Is it the second date?

Speaker 1 (05:36):
Follow the first date? Follow up?

Speaker 2 (05:38):
Yes, you are ghosting somebody?

Speaker 1 (05:42):
Do you know who knows?

Speaker 3 (05:45):
I have a sneaking suspicion.

Speaker 1 (05:47):
That it's Mark? And you're correct. She hasn't answered.

Speaker 3 (05:52):
All.

Speaker 5 (05:54):
Yeah, well, because I don't really ghost that often, but
this was a unique experience.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Really, Okay, would you mind telling us why you're ghossing him?

Speaker 5 (06:07):
He was just so gross I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (06:09):
That was like the playton the most easiest way to
say it. He just he was burping the.

Speaker 5 (06:15):
Throughout the entire date, and like the first time was
just kind of because it was loud and he didn't
say excuse me or anything like that, but then it
just kind of just kept happening, and so like I
felt like I had to keep talking so that I
didn't have to engage with him, and it.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
Was it was just.

Speaker 5 (06:37):
So uncomfortable, thoroughly grossed out.

Speaker 4 (06:41):
Was it just really loud or was it kind of
under his breath? I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (06:45):
That's the thing.

Speaker 5 (06:46):
I get that burping is natural, but there are ways
that you can kind of minimize the damage, Like you
can kind of put it under your breath, you can
cover your mouth, you can say excuse me. But like,
since none of that was happening, but the burping and
itself kept happening over and over, it just felt like
super disrespectful and just I was so turned off, engrossed out.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
Really I mean that, I mean I wouldn't love that either.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
Like in the place you were at, he was just
burping loudly, yes, constantly.

Speaker 5 (07:18):
It was just it was so frequent and so loud,
like it almost got to the point where, you know,
like a Homer Simpson when he belches, like it.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
Was kind of ripple. Like that's what I felt like.

Speaker 5 (07:30):
Maybe it wasn't that bad, but like that's what kind
of I started to feel like was happening.

Speaker 2 (07:34):
Like I was just, oh, I can't even Okay, Well
you didn't tell us that.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
No, it sounded like a very pleasant day.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Yeah, maybe you forgot, or maybe you haven't heard enough
first day follow ups to know that he's actually on
the phone listening and wants to.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
Mark who Yeah, I saw, so I am sorry, I
don't I honestly don't know what you're talking about. I mean,
I worked a couple of times because I've been dealing
with some like specilated acid reflux. I'm sorry to hear that.

Speaker 5 (08:12):
Then why didn't we go to coffee?

Speaker 3 (08:14):
Like?

Speaker 5 (08:14):
That's not going to help the situation any you.

Speaker 3 (08:16):
Know, well, because I wanted to take you to a
Parisian cafe. I mean, is the real reason that because
I look like Superman?

Speaker 1 (08:25):
What?

Speaker 3 (08:32):
Sorry? Sorry, that's not nice.

Speaker 5 (08:34):
I'm sorry, No, No, that's not the reason. Yes, you
you are an objectively attractive man. But if you're wondering
about the why people were looking at you, it was
because you were burping so much that people were concerned
that you were going to be sick.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
Are you sure that people weren't just looking at me
because of how I look?

Speaker 4 (09:02):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (09:04):
No, I'm sorry. I like it was not attractive. They
were not looking at you because you were attractive. They
were looking at you because they were disgusted. I'm so sorry.

Speaker 4 (09:15):
I can't even help but ask like, Mark, are you okay?
Because to be burping that much, I don't know if
that's normal.

Speaker 3 (09:21):
Yeah, I've been on a different medication to try and
deal with my reflux. It's it's just been a struggle bus.
But I'm doing much better. Thanks.

Speaker 1 (09:30):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
You know, like Sasha, you say you want to go
to France, but you really probably shouldn't go to France
because in other countries it's actually considered polite to burp.
Is it as a comment of the show.

Speaker 5 (09:45):
Even if that's true here in the stage, I like
it when if someone burbs that they at least they
excuse me or cover their mouths or something along those lines.
Maybe I'm reaching for the stars here, but that is
something that I am looking for.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
Blatant respect.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
You guys, excuse me. I usually say excuse me, but
I just I was you were telling these beautiful stories.
I didn't want to interrupt you. I was time to
respect you.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
Sasha, would you like to go on another date with Mark?
Will pay for it?

Speaker 3 (10:16):
You know what, I didn't know that she was so
close minded, So I honestly don't know that this is
going to work out?

Speaker 5 (10:25):
Closed minded? What do you What do you mean?

Speaker 3 (10:28):
I mean, if you can't just be present and accept
the person for how they are, I mean, burbing happens.

Speaker 5 (10:38):
Yeah, I get that, it's just how you handle it
that you know, really changes things and how you handled
it was just not.

Speaker 3 (10:48):
It for me. That's fine. I mean, if somebody going
to accept me, accept me for my purpse.

Speaker 1 (10:54):
Too, well.

Speaker 2 (10:57):
Sorry no second date mark, but it sounds like you're
fine with that.

Speaker 3 (11:01):
Yeah, I think it's for the best.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
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