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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Riley is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Dominic.
So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and maybe
get her another date if she still wants one. But first, Riley,
how long has it been since you've heard from Dominic.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about two weeks.
Speaker 4 (00:22):
Okay, let's go backwards. Let's talk about how you guys met.
Tell us about the date.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
So we met on Hinge and I liked.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Him immediately because he was engaging.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
She asked questions.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
She saw like one of my pictures had a big
record collection in the background.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
And so he was asking about that.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
It was it's actually my dad's collection and it's like
all the great so it's such a fun thing to
talk about. And if she really was interested in the records.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Too, I think. So it started off like that.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
We ended up meeting for coffee, like the day coffee,
and and then we decided to drive to a spot
that has like a really amazing view that I didn't
even know about this spot that he knew of. So
we go there, we sit for hours. We're just like
chatting about everything. You know, one of those dates where
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it's like you don't even know how much.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Time passed and you're just talking about.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Everything your life, you know, your dreams, everything and music.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Of course.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Sounds pretty fantastic.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yeah, we were there for a while, and I mean,
I don't really want to kiss and tell, but we
did actually kiss up there. I think we were like
on the loof of his car.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yeah, it's like the movies.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
Asome.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
And so then he took me back to my car.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
I think we did kiss again, and then he said,
I'll call you.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
So this sky legit took you to like a makeout
point and then I'll call you.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
Yeah, and you haven't heard anything.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
No, I mean I haven't.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
And I didn't want to be that person like being
annoying or reaching out when they said they'll call. So
I've just been hanging back. But I really did have
a good time, So I just I really stuck with me.
I've been wondering what happened.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Is there anything awkward that happened or anything you can
think of that that would make him ghost you.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
The only thing could be I do think that, Like.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
When I was getting out of his car, I had
my keys in my back pocket, and I think I
might have like scratched his car.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
Oh no, And I.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Probably should have said thing of the time, but I was.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
So embarrassed and I just hoped maybe he won't see that,
and I didn't say anything.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
But what if he did he did, and he's mad
at me for that? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I mean, if if we talk again, like I would
even offer to pay for it if it's really bad.
I don't think it was that bad, but I feel bad.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
So you know, for sure you scratched his car, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I could see something.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Okay, okay, but in your defense, he could have barked
somewhere and somebody else could have keeped his car.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
And then maybe that's not why.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, I mean, I have beams on my car that
I don't know where they came from.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
So okay, well we'll see if that is the reason.
We'll play a song, then come back call him and
see if it's all us why he's ghosting you, and
maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, awesome, And if
he turns you down, for another date. Probably, don't worry
too much about that king his car, plaus, don't come
back and get your first date follow up next if
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you're just joining us for today's first day follow up.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Riley is on the phone. She's getting ghosted by Domini.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
So we're about to call him and see if it
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
another date. But before we do that, Riley, why don't
you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (03:52):
So we met on Hinge.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
We talked to Tone about music and my dad's record collection.
We met up for coffee. We drove out to a
viewpoints after that and just had really nice conversations. Exchanged
a couple of chisses, and he said he would call me.
And it's been like two weeks.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
Okay, and you think you might have keyed his car. Well,
do you know you keep his car?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Yes, but this car accidentally scratched.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Okay, So you accidentally scratched his car with your keys
and you were hoping that he didn't see that, and
no it was you, and then is mad at you
and not.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Calling you because of that?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Correct?
Speaker 5 (04:32):
All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him?
I'm ready Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Hey, Dominic, how are you. My name is Jubil. I'm
calling from the radio show. It's called the Jebil Show.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Hi, Dominic, I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
Hi, I love Victoria. Hi you ever listened to the show?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:59):
Yeah, I love the show?
Speaker 5 (05:01):
So weet you. Well.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
I don't know if you've heard a first date follow
up before, but that's a segment where if you go
out on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,
we call you to ask why you're ghosting somebody.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
I've heard.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
I've heard that you sound like a smart guy, Dominic.
So I'm guessing you know why I'm saying that.
Speaker 6 (05:20):
I do.
Speaker 7 (05:21):
I do, Yeah, I can, I can, I can guess.
Speaker 5 (05:24):
Do you know who you're ghosting?
Speaker 6 (05:26):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (05:29):
Yeah, yeah, well I it's not something I do like
every day, very frequently, So yeah, I'm guessing. Yes.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
She, like Riley, emailed us it has been two weeks
since your date and she hasn't heard from you, and
she thought you guys had a great time. So she
wanted us to ask you if you tell us why
you're ghosting her.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
I don't know how to start.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
She seemed great, she seems a little a little maybe sheltered.
I don't think she's dated my but getting together was nice.
We had to go conversation.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Uh.
Speaker 7 (06:05):
She had a really cool record collection in her photos,
which I thought was cool. Music is by passion. And
we went out for coffee, which was great, and then
we took it a spamp. It's really cool for a
really cool view of the city and we caught up
on the roof and we're just talking and it was
it was great and then really nice. But I asked
(06:26):
her what music she likes and then she said she
like Grimana, which is great, Sabrina Carpenter, so really clectic.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
And then Will Drake I she was talking about.
Speaker 7 (06:37):
She said Will Drake, and she was serious about it.
And I'm like, how out of touch are you that
you don't know the name of one of the biggest
artists of all time.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
Do you think she met Drake?
Speaker 6 (06:50):
She met Drake?
Speaker 7 (06:51):
I assume, yes, yes, she met Drake and she just calling.
Speaker 8 (06:57):
Will Drake and she wanted to go see him in concert,
and she so excited about Little Drake and the you know,
the the new tracker came out and then everything and
I know, maybe it sounds so to you but to me,
like if you don't even know the pave music artists
like that, and you just it's it's a level of
like just I don't know, maybe ignorance or something that
I can't.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
I can't, I can't, Like it was just bugging and
she kept saying little Drake when she meant Drake.
Speaker 6 (07:25):
Well, yeah, it's just Drake, Like it's just Drake. How
who said little I've never heard of that before.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
It's just well, what if she was like funny, Well,
what if she was like trying to minimize him by
being like I'm a fan of Kendrick Lamar, so that's
like little Drake like Drake.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
I don't know. That was a stretch on my part,
but it was a big stretch, was the thought.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
Yeah, yeah, I don't. I don't think so, because you.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
Know, she she just kept going on and on about
about little Drake, and I'm not like the type of
like to stop someone when they're talking with something and
be like in man's playing and like correct her and
say oh actually yeah.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
So its just it should not me And I just
decided maybe she's just not.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
The person for me.
Speaker 7 (08:05):
I want someone who's passionate about music and she obviously
is an is she's calling him little trick.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Tommy, thank you for being honest, because Riley is actually
on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
You know, I shouldn't know that because obviously, Hey, Dominic,
Hi Riley. I'm sorry, and I'm sorry, but yeah, I mean,
I mean what I said. But you know, maybe uh,
listen to music for a while and then we can
always touch face later. Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
Why are you being so harsh about this? I mean
it seems like a little much, especially because I really
did seem a little more healthy little time.
Speaker 6 (08:48):
It was good.
Speaker 7 (08:48):
But this is important to me, like getting knowing the
names of artists that you like music is so important
to me, and being and then just you know, I
don't know, I don't I think maybe I thought you
were more passionate on music.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
I still don't understand what the problem is. I mean,
she does go by little Drake.
Speaker 6 (09:05):
He does not go my little drink.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
You never got my little drink even when he was young,
but we called them little Drake. He's always just been
Drake and I yes, see that's why this could never know.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
No, I don't know who you're thinking of But it's
not Drake, Are you sure?
Speaker 1 (09:21):
I mean, I love listening to music, and like you said,
I like all the different times to go from Nirvana.
It's a Sabrina Carpenter like I was just listening to
Little Drake this morning.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
You know what you're talking about.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
It sounds cute.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
I mean, it's a good name. I don't know what you're.
Speaker 6 (09:40):
Trashing you for, but I cannot. I cannot do this.
Speaker 7 (09:47):
No, absolutely, this would just drive me crazy. I'm sorry.
I just that level of ignorance, not for me.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
He's her nickname for him, you know, that's just how
she identifies him, like some people are, like Queen Bee Tae.
You know though, Little Drake.
Speaker 7 (10:01):
I don't want to I don't want to date anybody
that's going to give nicknames little anything to anyone.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
To be honest, we're going to talk about that.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
I appreciate you guys trying to come to my defense,
but it's not even a nickname like that is his name.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
It's a little Drake.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
You guys are wrong.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
I don't think it is.
Speaker 6 (10:20):
Would you want to date her? I don't. I just
don't understand how Like, No, I mean, I can't. I'm
not I'm not.
Speaker 7 (10:27):
It's not my job to educate you on this level
of ignorant. I can't take this.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
This is so but I.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Don't appreciate you calling me like ignorant or shelter, whatever.
Speaker 7 (10:38):
Of the word ignorant.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
I think it's just weird, Dominic, that you're ghosting somebody over,
just not liking the same artists they like, like Little
Drake is great, and I don't know why you're doing that.
Speaker 5 (10:48):
You're pretty rude.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Thank you. Finally somebody understands and that's what they're talking.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
About, Dominic. Would you like to go out with Riley again?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7 (11:00):
No, I don't want to see her ever again.
Speaker 5 (11:05):
Really harsh though, you guys made things worse.
Speaker 7 (11:09):
So I want to say, in this case, okay, you're.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
The president of but.
Speaker 7 (11:18):
Yeah, after this conversation with her, no, I'm sorry, Riley.
Good luck with the world. Go listen to little Kirk
Cobaine and Little Saprina Carpenter and Will Drake and women you're.
Speaker 6 (11:28):
Alone, Leave me alone.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
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