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January 19, 2024 11 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates Law dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
If you want to win the jubil Shows trip to
the Caribbean, you got to listen at eight ten. Ryan
is on the phone today for a first date follow up.
He's getting ghosted by a woman named Jennifer. Ryan, thank
you for coming on the show. Hey, before we get
into the date and stuff, how long has it been
since you heard from Jennifer.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (00:22):
Yeah, it's been what a few weeks I believe now.

Speaker 4 (00:26):
So that's definitely getting ghosted.

Speaker 5 (00:28):
Then, Okay, well let's see if we can figure out
what's going on. How about you tell us how you
guys met and what happened on the date.

Speaker 6 (00:36):
Okay, so we met on Hinge if you know what
that is, sure do And okay I figured you would,
and you know, we went to dinner and then you
know that we had a nice time at dinner, you know,
nice conversation and stuff.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
And after dinner we went to a different place and
we got some ice cream, you know, just talked a
little longer and stuff, and then when it was over
we parted ways. But what I thought was a good
sign is we shared a kiss before ending the night.

Speaker 4 (01:10):
That normally is a good sign.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
Yeah, at the end of the night, I mentioned about
a second date, and she said that that would be cool.
So that's kind of why I'm a little confused about
not getting a test back or anything.

Speaker 4 (01:25):
So did you reach out to her again after the date?

Speaker 5 (01:28):
Then?

Speaker 3 (01:29):
Oh, yeah, yeah, I've texted, you know, a few times
and stuff, and I haven't heard anything. Maybe it's because
I mentioned a second date, but I was really excited
to take her to a museum that we were talking
about that night on our first date.

Speaker 5 (01:47):
Well, I think mentioning the second date is always a
good thing because that's your intention, you want to see
her again, because then she would know what to do
with that. Was there anything leading up to the kiss,
like while you were getting ice cream? Did anything happen
that may have been kind of a red flag for her?

Speaker 3 (02:02):
I mean, not that I can think of it all
seeing you know, once we're done with the ice cream and stuff,
when we were partying ways, it just seemed natural, you know,
we you know, you're standing there and there's kind of
that little lull and it's quiet, and you lean in
and she reciprocated. So yeah, I thought everything was fine.

Speaker 4 (02:22):
Did your kiss have any tongue? Was it a good kiss?

Speaker 3 (02:26):
I mean I thought it was a good kiss.

Speaker 5 (02:28):
Describe it in a great detail, please, no serious? Did
your kiss have tongue?

Speaker 4 (02:34):
Uh no, Okay, that could be a good thing or
a bad thing.

Speaker 5 (02:38):
It's a medium that's usually not like a there's a
lot of fire. It's more of like a polite where
it was it an open lip kiss. I'm sorry I'm
asking so many questions about the kiss, but it does
what he.

Speaker 4 (02:53):
Is because I've just given a kiss at the end
of a day.

Speaker 7 (02:56):
You know.

Speaker 4 (02:56):
I didn't like, wasn't feeling it. It was more like
a like a peck on the list.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, you know, grandma's do that, but so like, you know,
just like a little thing of affection, like, oh that
was fun.

Speaker 4 (03:07):
Was it like a kiss from your grandma? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (03:08):
It was it a kiss from your grandma or or
a grandma that a grandma's not your grandma that wants
to kiss.

Speaker 5 (03:15):
Okay, probably don't answer because that's a lose lose for you.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
Yeah, okay, but there was a kiss. That's all we
that's all we know.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
Yeah, okay, Yeah, I mean I think the kiss it
definitely wasn't a quick pack.

Speaker 8 (03:30):
I thought it was.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
Uh, I guess you'd say appropriate for the time. It
wasn't just a quick pack.

Speaker 9 (03:38):
We held it for a while.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
Okay, you know, all right, cool, Well we'll try to
figure out them well, plus on come back and then
call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, all right,
all right, plus on come back, Get your first day
follow up, Next first.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online
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Speaker 2 (03:59):
Right in the middle of the first Day follow Up,
if you're just joining us, Ryan is on the phone.
He's getting ghosted by Jennifer, and we're about to call
her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him,
and maybe get him another date if he still wants one.

Speaker 4 (04:10):
Ryan.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
Before we call her, though, why don't you refresh everybody's
memory on your time with Jennifer.

Speaker 8 (04:16):
Yeah. Sure.

Speaker 3 (04:17):
So we met on Hinge and we set up a
dinner date. We went out to dinner, I had some
nice conversation, thought we had a nice time. We got
some ice cream after and we shared a kiss before
ending the night and then you know, after before she left,
I brought up about a second date to this museum

(04:37):
that we were talking about during dinner that we both liked.
I've been texting her with no reply.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
So we'll see if we can figure out for you. Okay,
here we go. We're gonna call her right now. You're ready, mm.

Speaker 9 (04:48):
Hmm okay, Hello?

Speaker 2 (05:02):
Hi, May I speak to Jennifer?

Speaker 3 (05:03):
Please?

Speaker 2 (05:05):
Hey, Jennifer, how are you? My name is Jewbell. I
host a radio show. It's called The Jewble Show.

Speaker 4 (05:09):
Hi, Jennifer. My name is Nina. I'm I'm here too
on the show. Hi end here you.

Speaker 8 (05:14):
Victoria the who show?

Speaker 7 (05:16):
What?

Speaker 2 (05:17):
It's called The Jewbell Show. It's a radio show. We
do a segment on our show it's called the first
Date follow Up. That's where if you go on a
date with somebody and then end up ghosting them, that
person can email us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an
email about you.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
You did.

Speaker 2 (05:33):
Yes, it's from a guy named Ryan.

Speaker 7 (05:37):
Bryan Bryan, I mean, I don't what a guy named
Ryan the other week, but I don't know.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
Show well.

Speaker 5 (05:45):
He is just a little concerned because he never heard
from you after the date, So we're just checking in
to make sure everything was okay and see why you're
not responding to him.

Speaker 8 (05:56):
Oh well, well, okay.

Speaker 7 (05:59):
So I've recently moved here, like I haven't lived here
all that long, and so I've been kind of trying
to connect with people and meet people. So I've been
going out on a whole lot of dates, and I'd
love to go out, but I don't know if Brian's
like the guy like I don't.

Speaker 8 (06:13):
I didn't feel a real connection with him, like at all.
Oh really, our conversations were kind of bland.

Speaker 7 (06:19):
Like he talked about himself like a whole lot and
didn't really ask about.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
Me at all.

Speaker 8 (06:25):
And then felt a little like weird because we went
out for dinner.

Speaker 7 (06:28):
Then we went out for ice cream and he brought
up a second date and I didn't want to be mean,
but then he kissed me and it was not good.

Speaker 8 (06:38):
Let's just say. It was like wet.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
So we talked to him, you know, and we asked
them some questions. He thought that you guys had a
really good time. It was really into you, and he
thought that the kiss was nice, So your experience it
it was and it was wet.

Speaker 7 (06:54):
Yeah, it was like a like I didn't want to
be mean, so I kind of like held it there.
You know, I was trying to her feelings, but it
was an open mouth kiss with no tongue, so it's
just kind of like wet, Like I don't know if
the girl's there. Know what I mean when I say
it's like a wet feeling on your face?

Speaker 2 (07:12):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, and just the lips wet because no tongue.

Speaker 8 (07:17):
Like my whole face wet.

Speaker 4 (07:21):
Yeah, I do know what you mean. That's interesting. He
was really doing some like fishy.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
Stuff, licking his lips a bunch beforehand. Some people just
have like really wet mouths.

Speaker 5 (07:32):
Yeah, And I don't know, I guess why is there reasy?

Speaker 2 (07:35):
You didn't text him back to tell him like, hey,
maybe it's not going to work out or something.

Speaker 8 (07:40):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (07:41):
I just kind of didn't want to hurt feelings. And
I you know, like I said, I like going out,
I like eating people. I just didn't feel a connection.
And honestly, this is gonna sound terrible, but I've been
out with so many people that I forgot who is who?

Speaker 4 (07:55):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (07:55):
Okay, so yeah, so you forgot that, Ryan, was the
wet kiss guy.

Speaker 8 (08:00):
Well, now that you refresh my memory, I can't forget it.

Speaker 7 (08:02):
But you know, I went on like to rehiregate them,
so you know, I kind of I just want to
meet people and and find a connection, and I just
don't feel a connection with him, which is probably why
I just put it to the side.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
Okay, all right, Well, thank you for being honest. I
appreciate that. I need to be honest with you now.
And let you know that Ryan has been on the
phone this whole time. He's been listening and wants to
talk to you.

Speaker 8 (08:23):
Uh what, Yeah, yeah, Hi, Jennifer, it's Ryan. I wow. Sorry, no, no,
that's fine.

Speaker 3 (08:39):
And I mean one of the things you said was
the conversation was was bland.

Speaker 8 (08:45):
And I talked about myself a lot.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
I mean I did that because you know, you were
asking a lot of questions about me.

Speaker 8 (08:53):
So I was, you know, answering the questions.

Speaker 3 (08:56):
I don't know, uh, I mean, yeah, I kept.

Speaker 7 (09:01):
Usually question someone asked you a question about you, you say, oh,
and what about you?

Speaker 8 (09:06):
But you kind of never did. You just kept talking
about yourself the whole time.

Speaker 7 (09:10):
And I didn't want to sit there and act like
I was talking about myself the whole time. But basically,
like I would ask you a question like how did
you grow up? And you didn't even bother to ask me.
It's so weird.

Speaker 8 (09:21):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (09:22):
I mean, it is twenty twenty three. You can easily
just go, oh, by the way I grew up here,
and I can't read your mind going oh, I should
want me to ask you questions now and stuff.

Speaker 8 (09:32):
But just I don't know.

Speaker 7 (09:34):
I just feel like it's basic, like you know, etiquette, conversation, etiquette,
you asked people about themselves as well. You try to
balance it and you just get in and I mean
not either here nor there. I just I don't know.
I just had to put you to the side.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
And I'm sorry, Okay, yeah, I get it asking questions
back and stuff, but I gotta say we'll turn off
by the your description of the kiss, the of it, what,
yeah that is I've never heard that.

Speaker 8 (10:10):
Yeah, it was pretty slippy.

Speaker 6 (10:11):
I mean you sloppy sloppy, I mean sloppy, wet.

Speaker 8 (10:17):
We didn't even kiss with tongue. How could it be sloppy.
I don't know, man, Maybe you need to like practice
or something.

Speaker 3 (10:26):
This is in high school I'm not going to use
my hand like you see nerds and movies do hold
on before. Look, my lips are appropriately moist Okay, I.

Speaker 6 (10:43):
Know that that means that I've never had a complaint
before about the wetness, moistness whatever.

Speaker 8 (10:51):
You want to save my lips.

Speaker 3 (10:53):
And I'm touching them now they're appropriately moist.

Speaker 7 (10:57):
I mean, I don't well, maybe what do you think
of appropriate moisture? Is not appropriate for me?

Speaker 8 (11:02):
Ryan? Sorry?

Speaker 2 (11:04):
Okay, well you know we're real quick. I'll just interject, Jennifer,
would you like to go on another date with Ryan?

Speaker 4 (11:11):
Will pay for it?

Speaker 7 (11:12):
No?

Speaker 8 (11:12):
Thank you?

Speaker 5 (11:14):
What?

Speaker 4 (11:14):
Okay? Shocked saw that coming? Well, good luck. I hope
you find somebody that has appropriately wet lips for you.

Speaker 3 (11:20):
Yeah, I definitely will, And Jennifer, good luck in your
quest to find somebody with appropriately dry limps.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
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