September 21, 2023 • 11 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Ashley is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Wade.
What's up, Ashley?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
How are you good? Before we get into your dat
and stuff with Wade? How long has it been since
you talked to him?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
It's been a little over a week, like eight days.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Okay, not too bad yet. What was your last interaction?
Speaker 5 (00:29):
It was the morning after the day we met.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
All right, well, let's stop there and go all the
way back and tell us what happened from the beginning.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
So, okay, I moved to I'm new to the city.
I just moved here. You know, when you're like an adult,
it's hard to meet people. So I decided to book
one of those like city tours till you know, a
day maybe meet somebody. And he sat next to me
on the bus and we were striking up a conversation, chatting.
(01:03):
We were kind of hitting it off. He was really
charming and it was kind of romantic, you know. Seeing
the site, it kind of felt like being on a vacation,
except with like a new person and we decided that
we were enjoying each other's company so much that we
would hop off the bus and pick a restaurant or
(01:26):
a bar and you know, just hang out just the
two of us and like get to know each other.
So we spotted a restaurant and we went there and
grabbed a couple of drinks and started chatting, and he
mentioned like, oh, this is actually kind of turning into
our first date.
Speaker 6 (01:43):
And I thought it was really cute.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
You know, yeah, I was charmed. The drinks continued to flow,
the food not so much. I was kind of like,
you know, this is the first date, Like, why don't
we go back to my place.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
For a nightcap.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
So we did, and things might have escalated. We were
having a lot of fun, and then we were having
some adult fun okay, and something happened that kind of
threw a.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Wrench in it.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
What was the rent?
Speaker 4 (02:20):
My leg was up in the air by his face, okay,
and he just like grabbed my foot and started sucking
on my toe okay, okay, And I was like and
te he like moving it away from his face without
being like gross stop. I was just trying to like
wiggle my toe away from his face.
Speaker 6 (02:41):
But then he just like kept.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
Doing it like and he was so into it, and
I was like, oh Jesus, but I was still like
enjoying myself, so I didn't want to embarrass him, and
we were having so much fun, and so I just
kind of like changed positions, like moved it up to
like make what was happening stop all right, And then
you know, we finished up and we chatted at pillow
(03:05):
Talk for like an hour and it was fine, and
I was like, well, you know, I kind of have
an early shoot, so got to get going. And he
left and I haven't called him back because I'm just
so embarrassed. I've never had my feet in someone's mouth,
and I just if that's the vibe, like I don't
I'm not trying to kink shame. I would never do that,
(03:26):
but I'm really not into like foot play. I don't
even really like my own feet.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
But then I was like, you know, this is this
isn't so bad, so they started getting on board.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
I was like, you know, this isn't so bad, Like
I only have so many firsts left, and so I
was like, okay, like I'm into it, and I just like.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Let it happen and everything was great, and we had
pillow talk and we you know, hung out for a
little bit more. And now it's like a week later
and I still haven't heard from him. So now I'm like, well,
maybe I should have gotten that pedicure, like or were
my feet.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Grossh Okay, we'll see if we can figure it out.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call him
and get your first date and follow up. Brad for this,
all right, Okay, thanks, Okay, we'll do it.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocates la dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Right in the middle of our first date and follow up,
we were just joining us. Ashley is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Wade, and
she thinks it might be because of her toes. Not
really sure, Ashley. Before we call him to see why
he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, why
don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Wade
and why you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
Well, I met Wade on a bus tour of the
city and we decided to get off the turnout drinks
and we went home together and everything was going really well.
But then he started sucking on my toes, which I
thought was really weird, but I just, you know, I
just went with it, and he you know, that's a
lot of extra effort for me. And he hasn't called
(05:08):
me back, so I'm kind of wondering, like was it
my toes or like.
Speaker 6 (05:12):
What was going on?
Speaker 2 (05:13):
And you said you'd never had anybody do that to
you before, right.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Yeah, I mean, you know, like you just you know,
you meet less people the older you get, you gotta
go with it.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Sometimes you got from he took your toe virginity and
never called back.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
All right, well we'll see if we can figure it out.
We're about to call him and see if ho tellus
why he's ghosting. Are you ready?
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
All right, here we go.
Speaker 6 (05:44):
Hello.
Speaker 7 (05:45):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Is this Wade?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:47):
Yeah? Who's calling?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Wade? Was some man?
Speaker 4 (05:49):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (05:49):
My name is Jewbel. I host a radio show. It's
called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
He's not alone, Wade. Sorry, just gonna jump in real quick.
My name's Nina also here on the show.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 7 (05:58):
Okay, Hi, guys, what's going on?
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Well, we're calling you today because somebody emailed us about you. Okay,
And I don't know if you've ever heard a first
date follow up before. Uh uh, Well, that is a
segment we do on the show where if you go
on a date with someone and you end up ghosting them,
that person can email us to get you on the
phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got
an email from Ashley. Oh, she told us about your date.
(06:25):
She said she really liked you and she's wondering why
you're not calling her back. Can you tell us?
Speaker 1 (06:31):
No?
Speaker 6 (06:31):
I mean, actually, Ashley was cool. We had this sort
of magical like meet and.
Speaker 8 (06:36):
First date thing and honestly, like it was really exciting,
which is also scary. But honestly, I don't know what
I can say here. But later in the evening we
were doing stuff and it was really good and I.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
Think it was really good for her. And she leans
in and she whispers, stuck my toes and I've never.
Speaker 8 (07:07):
Done that before, and so I went for it and
it was all right.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
I didn't hate it, but she was like really into it.
Speaker 9 (07:18):
Like I don't know, it's sort of like a side
of her that to be honest, that seeing how into
it she was sort of freaking me out because of
that first.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
Date, stuff like I don't know, you might be too
much for me.
Speaker 8 (07:33):
At one point, I just wanted to slap her foot
out of my face.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
I felt like I was in a boxing match with
her legs.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Wow. Really Okay?
Speaker 6 (07:42):
How much she was into it gave me a weird vibe.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Okay, this is confusing because she you know, she told
us a little something different about your date.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Was it something that I did?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
No, I'll just let her tell it because she's actually
on the phone and wants to talk.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
To you, Kylie. Uh hi, Ashley, what what is this? Okay?
Speaker 4 (08:07):
So I absolutely did not ask you to do that?
Speaker 6 (08:10):
By the way, what, yes you did?
Speaker 9 (08:14):
Yes, you did.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
I did it. I did not request that. That is,
my feet are not on the menu.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
You need to Yeah, I've never ordered feet.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
So like.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
You whispered suck my toes?
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Oh you thought, Oh so you thought I said suck
on my toes. I did not say that. I did
not say that. I said something different.
Speaker 7 (08:38):
Oh uh, I definitely heard stuck on my toes.
Speaker 6 (08:45):
Well why did you look so into it?
Speaker 8 (08:47):
It?
Speaker 6 (08:47):
Like I've never seen eyes like the eyes you gave
me when I sucked on your toes?
Speaker 5 (08:54):
Shucking I didn't want to be rude. We just met,
you know.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
I wasn't going to be thought you liked it, Wade,
she thought that was your choice?
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Yes, what? No?
Speaker 2 (09:06):
No, No, she said that that was She thought that
you wanted to do that, that was your thing.
Speaker 6 (09:11):
I don't. I thought that was your thing, like I don't.
I don't even like I don't even like having sex
with shoes off, like what.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
Oh my god, No, I didn't say that.
Speaker 6 (09:22):
This is such a relief.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
I thought that I thought that you thought I was
a freaking that my feet were messed up or something like.
I did not.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
I just, honestly, I just thought that I thought you
were a freaking away that I just wasn't ready for
her to be honest, I thought I thought you were
playing at a level that I hadn't made it to yet.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
And Ashley thought you were a freak.
Speaker 6 (09:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
I've never asked anyone to put it in between roast
beef and home.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Okay, yeah, well this one went home.
Speaker 6 (09:56):
Like it was. It was cool. I just thought you
were super into it.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
No, I thought you were super into it, so I
was trying to match your energy.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
The good news is that they were both willing to
give each other what they want. That's that's a great sign, Wade.
Would you like to go on another date with Ashley?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Now that we've got this whole toe situation figured out,
we'll get your.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
Gardening tools ready.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
I mean, everything else was great.
Speaker 7 (10:22):
I like, Ashley, do you want to go out and
not stuck each other's toes or.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
At least an appropriate amount right now that you guys know,
or at.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Least we can build back to that, Yeah, let's keep
it above the knees. And I would love to go
on another date with you.
Speaker 7 (10:40):
Awesome, all right, Well that's that's honestly a huge release
because I was honestly meeting you with so great I
was pretty bummed that I was freaked out about that.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
So I'm glad you did this well it communication.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
Congratulations, Thank you guys.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Right right, but we're optional toe you guys. Good lad.
Speaker 6 (11:05):
Juble's first day follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Ashley is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Wade.
What's up, Ashley?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
How are you good? Before we get into your dat
and stuff with Wade? How long has it been since
you talked to him?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
It's been a little over a week, like eight days.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Okay, not too bad yet. What was your last interaction?
Speaker 5 (00:29):
It was the morning after the day we met.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
All right, well, let's stop there and go all the
way back and tell us what happened from the beginning.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
So, okay, I moved to I'm new to the city.
I just moved here. You know, when you're like an adult,
it's hard to meet people. So I decided to book
one of those like city tours till you know, a
day maybe meet somebody. And he sat next to me
on the bus and we were striking up a conversation, chatting.
(01:03):
We were kind of hitting it off. He was really
charming and it was kind of romantic, you know. Seeing
the site, it kind of felt like being on a vacation,
except with like a new person and we decided that
we were enjoying each other's company so much that we
would hop off the bus and pick a restaurant or
(01:26):
a bar and you know, just hang out just the
two of us and like get to know each other.
So we spotted a restaurant and we went there and
grabbed a couple of drinks and started chatting, and he
mentioned like, oh, this is actually kind of turning into
our first date.
Speaker 6 (01:43):
And I thought it was really cute.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
You know, yeah, I was charmed. The drinks continued to flow,
the food not so much. I was kind of like,
you know, this is the first date, Like, why don't
we go back to my place.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
For a nightcap.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
So we did, and things might have escalated. We were
having a lot of fun, and then we were having
some adult fun okay, and something happened that kind of
threw a.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Wrench in it.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
What was the rent?
Speaker 4 (02:20):
My leg was up in the air by his face, okay,
and he just like grabbed my foot and started sucking
on my toe okay, okay, And I was like and
te he like moving it away from his face without
being like gross stop. I was just trying to like
wiggle my toe away from his face.
Speaker 6 (02:41):
But then he just like kept.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
Doing it like and he was so into it, and
I was like, oh Jesus, but I was still like
enjoying myself, so I didn't want to embarrass him, and
we were having so much fun, and so I just
kind of like changed positions, like moved it up to
like make what was happening stop all right, And then
you know, we finished up and we chatted at pillow
(03:05):
Talk for like an hour and it was fine, and
I was like, well, you know, I kind of have
an early shoot, so got to get going. And he
left and I haven't called him back because I'm just
so embarrassed. I've never had my feet in someone's mouth,
and I just if that's the vibe, like I don't
I'm not trying to kink shame. I would never do that,
(03:26):
but I'm really not into like foot play. I don't
even really like my own feet.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
But then I was like, you know, this is this
isn't so bad, so they started getting on board.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
I was like, you know, this isn't so bad, Like
I only have so many firsts left, and so I
was like, okay, like I'm into it, and I just like.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Let it happen and everything was great, and we had
pillow talk and we you know, hung out for a
little bit more. And now it's like a week later
and I still haven't heard from him. So now I'm like, well,
maybe I should have gotten that pedicure, like or were
my feet.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Grossh Okay, we'll see if we can figure it out.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call him
and get your first date and follow up. Brad for this,
all right, Okay, thanks, Okay, we'll do it.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocates la dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Right in the middle of our first date and follow up,
we were just joining us. Ashley is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Wade, and
she thinks it might be because of her toes. Not
really sure, Ashley. Before we call him to see why
he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, why
don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Wade
and why you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
Well, I met Wade on a bus tour of the
city and we decided to get off the turnout drinks
and we went home together and everything was going really well.
But then he started sucking on my toes, which I
thought was really weird, but I just, you know, I
just went with it, and he you know, that's a
lot of extra effort for me. And he hasn't called
(05:08):
me back, so I'm kind of wondering, like was it
my toes or like.
Speaker 6 (05:12):
What was going on?
Speaker 2 (05:13):
And you said you'd never had anybody do that to
you before, right.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Yeah, I mean, you know, like you just you know,
you meet less people the older you get, you gotta
go with it.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Sometimes you got from he took your toe virginity and
never called back.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
All right, well we'll see if we can figure it out.
We're about to call him and see if ho tellus
why he's ghosting. Are you ready?
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
All right, here we go.
Speaker 6 (05:44):
Hello.
Speaker 7 (05:45):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Is this Wade?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:47):
Yeah? Who's calling?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Wade? Was some man?
Speaker 4 (05:49):
How are you?
Speaker 2 (05:49):
My name is Jewbel. I host a radio show. It's
called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
He's not alone, Wade. Sorry, just gonna jump in real quick.
My name's Nina also here on the show.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I'm Victoria.
Speaker 7 (05:58):
Okay, Hi, guys, what's going on?
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Well, we're calling you today because somebody emailed us about you. Okay,
And I don't know if you've ever heard a first
date follow up before. Uh uh, Well, that is a
segment we do on the show where if you go
on a date with someone and you end up ghosting them,
that person can email us to get you on the
phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got
an email from Ashley. Oh, she told us about your date.
(06:25):
She said she really liked you and she's wondering why
you're not calling her back. Can you tell us?
Speaker 1 (06:31):
No?
Speaker 6 (06:31):
I mean, actually, Ashley was cool. We had this sort
of magical like meet and.
Speaker 8 (06:36):
First date thing and honestly, like it was really exciting,
which is also scary. But honestly, I don't know what
I can say here. But later in the evening we
were doing stuff and it was really good and I.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
Think it was really good for her. And she leans
in and she whispers, stuck my toes and I've never.
Speaker 8 (07:07):
Done that before, and so I went for it and
it was all right.
Speaker 6 (07:13):
I didn't hate it, but she was like really into it.
Speaker 9 (07:18):
Like I don't know, it's sort of like a side
of her that to be honest, that seeing how into
it she was sort of freaking me out because of
that first.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
Date, stuff like I don't know, you might be too
much for me.
Speaker 8 (07:33):
At one point, I just wanted to slap her foot
out of my face.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
I felt like I was in a boxing match with
her legs.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Wow. Really Okay?
Speaker 6 (07:42):
How much she was into it gave me a weird vibe.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Okay, this is confusing because she you know, she told
us a little something different about your date.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Was it something that I did?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
No, I'll just let her tell it because she's actually
on the phone and wants to talk.
Speaker 6 (07:57):
To you, Kylie. Uh hi, Ashley, what what is this? Okay?
Speaker 4 (08:07):
So I absolutely did not ask you to do that?
Speaker 6 (08:10):
By the way, what, yes you did?
Speaker 9 (08:14):
Yes, you did.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
I did it. I did not request that. That is,
my feet are not on the menu.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
You need to Yeah, I've never ordered feet.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
So like.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
You whispered suck my toes?
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Oh you thought, Oh so you thought I said suck
on my toes. I did not say that. I did
not say that. I said something different.
Speaker 7 (08:38):
Oh uh, I definitely heard stuck on my toes.
Speaker 6 (08:45):
Well why did you look so into it?
Speaker 8 (08:47):
It?
Speaker 6 (08:47):
Like I've never seen eyes like the eyes you gave
me when I sucked on your toes?
Speaker 5 (08:54):
Shucking I didn't want to be rude. We just met,
you know.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
I wasn't going to be thought you liked it, Wade,
she thought that was your choice?
Speaker 6 (09:03):
Yes, what? No?
Speaker 2 (09:06):
No, No, she said that that was She thought that
you wanted to do that, that was your thing.
Speaker 6 (09:11):
I don't. I thought that was your thing, like I don't.
I don't even like I don't even like having sex
with shoes off, like what.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
Oh my god, No, I didn't say that.
Speaker 6 (09:22):
This is such a relief.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
I thought that I thought that you thought I was
a freaking that my feet were messed up or something like.
I did not.
Speaker 6 (09:31):
I just, honestly, I just thought that I thought you
were a freaking away that I just wasn't ready for
her to be honest, I thought I thought you were
playing at a level that I hadn't made it to yet.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
And Ashley thought you were a freak.
Speaker 6 (09:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
I've never asked anyone to put it in between roast
beef and home.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Okay, yeah, well this one went home.
Speaker 6 (09:56):
Like it was. It was cool. I just thought you
were super into it.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
No, I thought you were super into it, so I
was trying to match your energy.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
The good news is that they were both willing to
give each other what they want. That's that's a great sign, Wade.
Would you like to go on another date with Ashley?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Now that we've got this whole toe situation figured out,
we'll get your.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
Gardening tools ready.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
I mean, everything else was great.
Speaker 7 (10:22):
I like, Ashley, do you want to go out and
not stuck each other's toes or.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
At least an appropriate amount right now that you guys know,
or at.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Least we can build back to that, Yeah, let's keep
it above the knees. And I would love to go
on another date with you.
Speaker 7 (10:40):
Awesome, all right, Well that's that's honestly a huge release
because I was honestly meeting you with so great I
was pretty bummed that I was freaked out about that.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
So I'm glad you did this well it communication.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
Congratulations, Thank you guys.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Right right, but we're optional toe you guys. Good lad.
Speaker 6 (11:05):
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