March 21, 2025 • 10 mins
It's been about a week and a half since Jake has heard from Serena after a date. Let's see if we can find out why she's ghosting him. Will there be a second date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jake is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Serena. So in
a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
another date. But first, Jake, how long has it been
since you heard from Serena.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been probably about a week and a half.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Mm.
Speaker 5 (00:24):
So have you been trying to get a hold of her.
Speaker 6 (00:28):
Yeah, I tried to call like a couple times, but
I'm trying not to be too pushy. But it's been
like maybe two days since the last time I reached out.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
Okay, have you reached out a bunch?
Speaker 7 (00:42):
I don't think so.
Speaker 5 (00:44):
What did it meant?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
I think more than three times if somebody's ghosting you,
I feel like more than three times, it's too much.
Speaker 7 (00:50):
How how's two calls and one text?
Speaker 5 (00:54):
Oh that's not bad?
Speaker 6 (00:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (00:55):
Yeah, well I don't know two calls counts for like
two text messages.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
Oh that's okay. This is where we are now crying voicemail?
Speaker 7 (01:04):
Oh no, no, I didn't a plus.
Speaker 8 (01:09):
Yeah, okay, let's talk about the date.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
How did that go?
Speaker 7 (01:14):
So we went out to trivia night at a bar
around town, and it was a lot of fun. We
have really good vibes. I love trivia like and I
figured it'd be a great.
Speaker 6 (01:25):
Date because there's something interactive. We had a lot of fun,
We crushed a few rounds, and our chemistry was it
was awesome. The drinks were flowing. Did the team name
even became like a little flirty and tide joke between
me and her by the.
Speaker 7 (01:41):
End of the night.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
What was the team name?
Speaker 6 (01:45):
The team name was the scores, Like like you're scoring,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Okay, Okay, I see where the joke's.
Speaker 7 (01:54):
Going, right right.
Speaker 6 (01:56):
So and she's also like really really smart, but now
in a like web it in your face kind of way.
Speaker 7 (02:02):
She was like laughing at my jokes. And nobody ever
does that special They layd like fifty to fifty percent
of the time, you know what. So, yeah, it all
went really well, and there was like there was definitely
a kiss at the end of the night.
Speaker 6 (02:22):
And it wasn't like fireworks all over the place, but
it was a little bit of a spark, a little.
Speaker 7 (02:29):
Bit of a thing. If you feel what I mean?
Speaker 5 (02:32):
Okay, so kind of feel what you mean.
Speaker 8 (02:34):
So what you're saying was it wasn't the best kiss,
but it was all right enough that you want to
get a hold of her.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Yeah, I mean, then I guess I wouldn't even say
that the kiss was bad.
Speaker 7 (02:43):
Okay, It wasn't like, you know, so stick your foot
up in the air type kiss.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
I think it was kind of just a it seems
like the kisses in the future.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
Are going to be way better, you know what I mean,
kind of like it's a little, a little kiss.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (02:57):
Was there any moment during the date that fell well,
like it could be the reason why you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 6 (03:03):
Oh man, Honestly, I can't really think it anything. I mean,
maybe I got two into the game because I was
carrying the team at a certain point, but I don't
think I was being annoying. I mean, it could be
that I did like challenge the host on on a
wrong answer.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
The question was what's the capital of Australia, and they
said Sydney. It's it's It's it's not Sydney. So I
corrected him kind of loudly.
Speaker 8 (03:36):
Well, I think that's the right thing to do in
trivia if it's all about correct answers.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
I did call a team out because they were cheating.
Speaker 8 (03:45):
I just that's not bad unless they weren't cheating.
Speaker 6 (03:49):
And of cheating, right, I mean we won anyway, so
it didn't matter.
Speaker 7 (03:53):
But still, I'm like, you can't cheat. It's trivia. What
was she.
Speaker 8 (03:58):
Doing during the time you were yelling at the at
the host? Was she did she look embarrassed or was
she like.
Speaker 6 (04:04):
Yeah, you know, I don't know, and that's probably not good.
Speaker 7 (04:09):
Okay, but but I didn't yell. Yell is a very
strong word for what it was.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out.
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thanks, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up
if you're just joining us, Jake is on the phone.
He's getting ghosted by Serena. So we're about to call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
him and maybe get him another day if he still
wants one. But before we do that, Jake, tell us
what happened on your date again?
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Real quick.
Speaker 7 (04:49):
So we went out to go play trivia. We had
a really.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
Good time, lots of fun chemistry, but I think I
might have gotten a little bit too intent.
Speaker 7 (05:01):
But she didn't seem.
Speaker 6 (05:02):
Too bothered about it at that, you know, at when
it happened.
Speaker 7 (05:05):
And we did kiss at the end of the night.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
But the kiss wasn't kick your leg up kiss. It
was just a spark. I love that. Yeah, okay, all right,
you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 7 (05:17):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak to Serena. Please,
(05:39):
uh hey, Serena, how are you. This is a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Serena. My name's Nina. Hi,
I'm Victoria and I'm Jewel.
Speaker 8 (05:48):
How you doing?
Speaker 7 (05:49):
Wait? Is this a prank?
Speaker 5 (05:51):
No, this is not a prank. Have you ever listened
to The Jebel Show before? I No, you don't have
to apologize. It's fine.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
It happens like rarely that somebody doesn't listen very rarely.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
But you know, maybe you don't want to know, so, yeah,
I just have to be up really early for work though.
It probably just yeah, yeah, well yeah, it's fine. You
are starring on it though, right now.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Okay, we do a segment on the show called the
First Date follow Up. That's where if you go out
with somebody and then you ghost them, they can email
us to get you on the phone and ask why
you're ghosting them. And somebody emailed us about you. Oh okay,
you know who would email us?
Speaker 7 (06:33):
Not sure?
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Are you ghosting anyone?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
I mean I'm out here dating I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Okay. His name is Jake. You know that's a lot
of guys you remember him?
Speaker 7 (06:44):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
Okay, okay, yeah, this is something Jake would do, like
triton n Jake.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Kay, I love that.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
And he says that it's been a week and a
half since you guys hung out. He thought the date
was good, but you been ghosting him?
Speaker 5 (07:01):
Can you tell us why?
Speaker 7 (07:02):
Definitely? Jake?
Speaker 5 (07:03):
All right, yeah, no, it's nice.
Speaker 7 (07:07):
Nice and the guy it's just takes too much that look.
I love a competitive guy.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
But you know, we went out for a game of
Tribia and it turned into like this full full blown
game show host thing like he was standing up in
high fiving strangers and just giving ted talks between rounds
and people thought he worked there.
Speaker 7 (07:35):
Well, excuse me for bring us some enthusiasm to the game.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
He's on the phone listening and he wants to talk
to you.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
Yeah, no, hi, Jake. I just you also accused a
group of elderly women of cheating.
Speaker 7 (07:53):
Yeah they were.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
They were suspiciously good at pop culture.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
How are they gonna know? Like, how are they gonna
know this stuff?
Speaker 6 (08:03):
And I swear I saw one of them looking at
their phone.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Okay, And let's not also forget that you argued with
the trivia host for a solid five minute.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
I was maybe nineteen streeting off a card old he
was wrong. I was educating him, Jake. The whole bar
was chanting for you to sit down.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
The whole bar chanted firm sit down.
Speaker 7 (08:33):
Oh my god. They were not telling me to sit down.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
They were chanting my name because I was correct.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Is that really what happened?
Speaker 7 (08:43):
Oh my god, Jake, we were losing, all right.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
I need someone who can handle losing with dignity.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Oh come on, I do handle loving well.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
It just doesn't happen to me very often.
Speaker 5 (08:59):
That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
I mean, it was already bad, but when you threatened
to burn down the place because we were losing, that.
Speaker 7 (09:11):
It was a joke. I'm not God wasn't gonna actually.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
Do that, So you're not denying it. You didnlace down,
but I.
Speaker 7 (09:21):
Didn't mean it. Joke.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
And Joe really take like the owner came out at
that point and was saying we had to go.
Speaker 7 (09:32):
Well, we were already leaving, all right, Well like we got.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Roll now, Serena, would you like go out with Jake again?
We'll pay for it, you know, thank you?
Speaker 7 (09:45):
It was so good.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
Well, all right, fine, I guess I'll take my undefeated
record somewhere else and enjoy losing it life.
Speaker 8 (09:55):
Serena, Okay, well right, I hope you find you're someone.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
And you can burn down places together.
Speaker 7 (10:07):
It was a joke. I gonna do that. Jubele's First
Date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jake is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Serena. So in
a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
another date. But first, Jake, how long has it been
since you heard from Serena.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been probably about a week and a half.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Mm.
Speaker 5 (00:24):
So have you been trying to get a hold of her.
Speaker 6 (00:28):
Yeah, I tried to call like a couple times, but
I'm trying not to be too pushy. But it's been
like maybe two days since the last time I reached out.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
Okay, have you reached out a bunch?
Speaker 7 (00:42):
I don't think so.
Speaker 5 (00:44):
What did it meant?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
I think more than three times if somebody's ghosting you,
I feel like more than three times, it's too much.
Speaker 7 (00:50):
How how's two calls and one text?
Speaker 5 (00:54):
Oh that's not bad?
Speaker 6 (00:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (00:55):
Yeah, well I don't know two calls counts for like
two text messages.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
Oh that's okay. This is where we are now crying voicemail?
Speaker 7 (01:04):
Oh no, no, I didn't a plus.
Speaker 8 (01:09):
Yeah, okay, let's talk about the date.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
How did that go?
Speaker 7 (01:14):
So we went out to trivia night at a bar
around town, and it was a lot of fun. We
have really good vibes. I love trivia like and I
figured it'd be a great.
Speaker 6 (01:25):
Date because there's something interactive. We had a lot of fun,
We crushed a few rounds, and our chemistry was it
was awesome. The drinks were flowing. Did the team name
even became like a little flirty and tide joke between
me and her by the.
Speaker 7 (01:41):
End of the night.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
What was the team name?
Speaker 6 (01:45):
The team name was the scores, Like like you're scoring,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Okay, Okay, I see where the joke's.
Speaker 7 (01:54):
Going, right right.
Speaker 6 (01:56):
So and she's also like really really smart, but now
in a like web it in your face kind of way.
Speaker 7 (02:02):
She was like laughing at my jokes. And nobody ever
does that special They layd like fifty to fifty percent
of the time, you know what. So, yeah, it all
went really well, and there was like there was definitely
a kiss at the end of the night.
Speaker 6 (02:22):
And it wasn't like fireworks all over the place, but
it was a little bit of a spark, a little.
Speaker 7 (02:29):
Bit of a thing. If you feel what I mean?
Speaker 5 (02:32):
Okay, so kind of feel what you mean.
Speaker 8 (02:34):
So what you're saying was it wasn't the best kiss,
but it was all right enough that you want to
get a hold of her.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Yeah, I mean, then I guess I wouldn't even say
that the kiss was bad.
Speaker 7 (02:43):
Okay, It wasn't like, you know, so stick your foot
up in the air type kiss.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
I think it was kind of just a it seems
like the kisses in the future.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
Are going to be way better, you know what I mean,
kind of like it's a little, a little kiss.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (02:57):
Was there any moment during the date that fell well,
like it could be the reason why you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 6 (03:03):
Oh man, Honestly, I can't really think it anything. I mean,
maybe I got two into the game because I was
carrying the team at a certain point, but I don't
think I was being annoying. I mean, it could be
that I did like challenge the host on on a
wrong answer.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
The question was what's the capital of Australia, and they
said Sydney. It's it's It's it's not Sydney. So I
corrected him kind of loudly.
Speaker 8 (03:36):
Well, I think that's the right thing to do in
trivia if it's all about correct answers.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
I did call a team out because they were cheating.
Speaker 8 (03:45):
I just that's not bad unless they weren't cheating.
Speaker 6 (03:49):
And of cheating, right, I mean we won anyway, so
it didn't matter.
Speaker 7 (03:53):
But still, I'm like, you can't cheat. It's trivia. What
was she.
Speaker 8 (03:58):
Doing during the time you were yelling at the at
the host? Was she did she look embarrassed or was
she like.
Speaker 6 (04:04):
Yeah, you know, I don't know, and that's probably not good.
Speaker 7 (04:09):
Okay, but but I didn't yell. Yell is a very
strong word for what it was.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out.
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thanks, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up
if you're just joining us, Jake is on the phone.
He's getting ghosted by Serena. So we're about to call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
him and maybe get him another day if he still
wants one. But before we do that, Jake, tell us
what happened on your date again?
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Real quick.
Speaker 7 (04:49):
So we went out to go play trivia. We had
a really.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
Good time, lots of fun chemistry, but I think I
might have gotten a little bit too intent.
Speaker 7 (05:01):
But she didn't seem.
Speaker 6 (05:02):
Too bothered about it at that, you know, at when
it happened.
Speaker 7 (05:05):
And we did kiss at the end of the night.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
But the kiss wasn't kick your leg up kiss. It
was just a spark. I love that. Yeah, okay, all right,
you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 7 (05:17):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak to Serena. Please,
(05:39):
uh hey, Serena, how are you. This is a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Serena. My name's Nina. Hi,
I'm Victoria and I'm Jewel.
Speaker 8 (05:48):
How you doing?
Speaker 7 (05:49):
Wait? Is this a prank?
Speaker 5 (05:51):
No, this is not a prank. Have you ever listened
to The Jebel Show before? I No, you don't have
to apologize. It's fine.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
It happens like rarely that somebody doesn't listen very rarely.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
But you know, maybe you don't want to know, so, yeah,
I just have to be up really early for work though.
It probably just yeah, yeah, well yeah, it's fine. You
are starring on it though, right now.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Okay, we do a segment on the show called the
First Date follow Up. That's where if you go out
with somebody and then you ghost them, they can email
us to get you on the phone and ask why
you're ghosting them. And somebody emailed us about you. Oh okay,
you know who would email us?
Speaker 7 (06:33):
Not sure?
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Are you ghosting anyone?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
I mean I'm out here dating I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Okay. His name is Jake. You know that's a lot
of guys you remember him?
Speaker 7 (06:44):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
Okay, okay, yeah, this is something Jake would do, like
triton n Jake.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Kay, I love that.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
And he says that it's been a week and a
half since you guys hung out. He thought the date
was good, but you been ghosting him?
Speaker 5 (07:01):
Can you tell us why?
Speaker 7 (07:02):
Definitely? Jake?
Speaker 5 (07:03):
All right, yeah, no, it's nice.
Speaker 7 (07:07):
Nice and the guy it's just takes too much that look.
I love a competitive guy.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
But you know, we went out for a game of
Tribia and it turned into like this full full blown
game show host thing like he was standing up in
high fiving strangers and just giving ted talks between rounds
and people thought he worked there.
Speaker 7 (07:35):
Well, excuse me for bring us some enthusiasm to the game.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
He's on the phone listening and he wants to talk
to you.
Speaker 4 (07:44):
Yeah, no, hi, Jake. I just you also accused a
group of elderly women of cheating.
Speaker 7 (07:53):
Yeah they were.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
They were suspiciously good at pop culture.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
How are they gonna know? Like, how are they gonna
know this stuff?
Speaker 6 (08:03):
And I swear I saw one of them looking at
their phone.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
Okay, And let's not also forget that you argued with
the trivia host for a solid five minute.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
I was maybe nineteen streeting off a card old he
was wrong. I was educating him, Jake. The whole bar
was chanting for you to sit down.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
The whole bar chanted firm sit down.
Speaker 7 (08:33):
Oh my god. They were not telling me to sit down.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
They were chanting my name because I was correct.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Is that really what happened?
Speaker 7 (08:43):
Oh my god, Jake, we were losing, all right.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
I need someone who can handle losing with dignity.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Oh come on, I do handle loving well.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
It just doesn't happen to me very often.
Speaker 5 (08:59):
That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
I mean, it was already bad, but when you threatened
to burn down the place because we were losing, that.
Speaker 7 (09:11):
It was a joke. I'm not God wasn't gonna actually.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
Do that, So you're not denying it. You didnlace down,
but I.
Speaker 7 (09:21):
Didn't mean it. Joke.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
And Joe really take like the owner came out at
that point and was saying we had to go.
Speaker 7 (09:32):
Well, we were already leaving, all right, Well like we got.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Roll now, Serena, would you like go out with Jake again?
We'll pay for it, you know, thank you?
Speaker 7 (09:45):
It was so good.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
Well, all right, fine, I guess I'll take my undefeated
record somewhere else and enjoy losing it life.
Speaker 8 (09:55):
Serena, Okay, well right, I hope you find you're someone.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
And you can burn down places together.
Speaker 7 (10:07):
It was a joke. I gonna do that. Jubele's First
Date follow up
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