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Speaker 1 (00:01):
We have a pretty spicy one here.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It's a spicy one, a little spice in the morning.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Here. His name is Armando. Okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Armando and his wife fah freaks.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
I was trying to do freaks.
Speaker 5 (00:19):
Like my wife Marina, who's Ecuadorian, always gives me what
you know, the white guy.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
She's always given me a hard time about.
Speaker 6 (00:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
First of I don't speak Spanish. We've been married for
twenty two years. I don't speak Spanish. Her family hates me,
hates me.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
You haven't even picked any of.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
No, I can't.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Yeah, I'm busy. I want to, but I'm busy. I
don't even roll my rs Armando.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Like you do.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Meal.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Yeah, you don't think that's sexy.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
It's him on top of you in the morning, rolls over.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
Me. Is both about Okay, okay, all right, But there's
Anthony and him.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
We're been going back and forth for the last four hours.
He was backing out.
Speaker 7 (01:07):
Really, I'm back in.
Speaker 8 (01:10):
Might as well talk it out.
Speaker 7 (01:13):
I've been with my lovely wife, the Lillian for ten
years and it's embarrassing. So I was trying to find
the right words for it. In the last two or
three years, our sexual life has declined more than it
had in the beginning of the marriage, and we didn't
(01:34):
know what to do, and she expressed some interest in
taking a second lover, someone that we both knew, which
at first I was very uncomfortable with. But the more
I thought about it, the more I was comfortable with
this person because he's a good mutual friend, and she
(01:56):
was interested in sleeping with Natcha me but also with him,
and we agreed on the condition that anytime she did
sleep with him, I got to take pictures and videos.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, stop stop stop.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
I I'm just I'm trying to wrap my head around
you both decided to bring a mutual friend as a
lover for your wife so you can take pictures and videos.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Yeah, but that's not the whole story, Romando.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
We understand. It's not just this guy.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
It's several guys, and she's allowed to have relationships with
other men. But you've got to be there during the intimacy.
It's a few guys.
Speaker 7 (02:49):
Well, it started, Yes, it started with one guy two
years ago, and now she has her own little roster
of men that I take pictures and videos of her with. Yes,
that's the situation as it's been. But that's not the
reason why I was emailing. The reason I was emailing
was because in the last two months I found out
(03:11):
about a different person that she had not told me about.
Imagine that, and that's the reason I was I was emailing.
Everything honestly was pretty hunky dory.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Go figure, Yeah, that's something.
Speaker 8 (03:28):
Trust is broke it.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Did you see that coming? And where did we begin
to say?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
There are so many problems in this relationship.
Speaker 7 (03:38):
There were warning signs that I ignored, but the fact
that she was willing to tell me about the other
guys outside of our friend kind of At what.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
Point during the decision making process have been before you
actually started doing this, did you say to yourself, this
is going to be good for the long while, this
is going to be you really don't care about your wife?
I mean, because you know why, Because I'm truly in
life love with Marina twenty two years.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
I'm truly in love with her.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
You're not really in love with your wife and she's
not really in love with you.
Speaker 8 (04:07):
I disagree with that wholeheartedly. I think you guys are
being closed minded.
Speaker 7 (04:12):
That is why I didn't even want to do this
in the first day.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Hey, what guy in his right mind would allow his
wife to have sexual affairs with multiple men?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Oh no, no, no, no, their lovers exactly.
Speaker 8 (04:25):
They aren't. They're there, this is this isn't slutty stuff.
They're lovers.
Speaker 7 (04:28):
You know, they're respectful and they're respectful to me too.
All the guys have been very respectful to me.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Is allowing me to sleep with your woman?
Speaker 8 (04:36):
You get it. You're starting to get it, and pep
on my side.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh, please take my wife as your love. I don't.
Speaker 8 (04:43):
I don't expect clothes minded people to understand.
Speaker 7 (04:45):
That's fine.
Speaker 8 (04:46):
I just I get it. I get it. You gotta
be stuck in the past.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Yeah, we're stuck in the past. All right, Yeah, okay,
uh or so we're gonna get there. What is her name?
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Lillian?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
We're gonna get Lilyan on the phone.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
You is not to be.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Interesting in the In the email, it says that you
think she wasn't she's not being honest with you any longer,
and she's having an affair with this other guy.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
What's what's this other guy's name? Do you know what
his name is?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Bill?
Speaker 8 (05:10):
His nickname is Dewey. I don't know what his actual
name is.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Creepy. I agree totally, growth I have to side with
Armando on this.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Oh, here we go, let's find out where she's at.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Hello, Hi, I am calling for Lillian.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
Who's calling?
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Lillian.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
My name is Marie and I'm calling from Redroses dot com.
We have a dozen long stem roses for you today.
I just need to verify some quick information if I could.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
They're for you.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Someone someone's sending me roses. Is that what you're saying? Yes,
what you're going to send the roses to wear?
Speaker 1 (05:47):
What I dress in thirty two? He'll drive?
Speaker 6 (05:52):
Oh no, no, no, don't no, not there? Can you
send them to my work?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Well?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Sure, I'll get your work address in a minute.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
But we have a special going on that if we
have a situation like this where a secret admirer is
sending you roses, you have the opportunity of sending your
secret admirer roses back. Okay, So I don't know if
you have an idea who your secret admirer is, do you? I?
Speaker 6 (06:28):
Oh, it could be anybody.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yeah, I bet it could. Yeah, lucky you.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Armando sending me flowers? Is that it?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Who's Armando?
Speaker 6 (06:44):
Oh nobody, nobody.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Oh nobody. Okay, he's not important, he's off. The list
is oh very warm, very warm.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Oh Dewey, Hans very Hotwey.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Is Dwayne Dewey.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Yes, that's his nickname. But I'd like to send the
roses back to Dwayne.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Okay, Wow, all right, Dewey, Wow, Okay. Lillian, I you're
an interesting lady. May I call you Lily or do
you prefer Lilian? I'm okay, ly, got something to share
with you, Lilian. All right, Lilian, listen to me carefully.
(07:30):
I'm coming in out of left field.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
I don't know where I hear. My name's Hollywood Hamilton.
I'm a radio personality in New York City. I know
you probably I probably you don't know who we are
up there in Buffalo. I host a show on WKT
Radio in New York City, which is on iHeartRadio. Marie
is my lovely co host here. And you're on a
show called War of the Roses, which is a cheater show.
(07:53):
Your husband, Armando of almost ten years, has been on
the phone the entire time.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Okay, and I'm sorry.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
My name is an Armando. I guess it's nobody. They
just finalized my decision. I want a divorce. You broke
our agreement. You broke the trust, and I am with you.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
Trust the trust You allowed your wife to do this
in the first place, and now you've got a problem
with trust.
Speaker 8 (08:17):
And now there's no trust.
Speaker 6 (08:20):
Are you talking about? You know? I don't understand why
all of a sudden this is a big deal.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
To you, Lily.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
And you did break some sort of an agreement that
you had that you know, he was allowing you to
have affairs with other men, but he'd have to be present.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
You don't have a real marriage right now. That's just
not your average marriage. Okay, I get it that you
guys are doing.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
We've had this agreement, Dewey, is that important? Do you understand? Armando?
Speaker 7 (08:52):
Tell me he must be. I gave you an agreement
where you could sleep with whoever you want as long
as I was present. I gave you an open book test.
You still failed an open book test. So no, we're
getting a divorce. You can't fail and open months. This
has been going on for two months. I've had two
months to think about it. I've known about it for
two months, by the way, Lilian, So yeah, I've thought
(09:13):
about it.
Speaker 8 (09:13):
This is my decision.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Armando.
Speaker 4 (09:16):
You were totally okay with the mutual friend because you
knew him.
Speaker 7 (09:20):
I didn't love it, but I got used to it because,
like I said, but the mutual friend, it ended up
being a fun time. So I thought, maybe it might
be fun with some other dude.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
I imagine my wife.
Speaker 7 (09:30):
It's more just well, it's not about your wife right now.
Speaker 8 (09:37):
He's the one.
Speaker 7 (09:37):
He's the one cheating in an open relationship. How do
you cheat in an open relationship?
Speaker 8 (09:41):
That's ridiculous.
Speaker 6 (09:44):
Also doing he's in the.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Room, sh sh.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
Sh yes, he's shine. You don't like to be watched
and you don't want an old video.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
It's Lilian, Lilian, you're out of control. You're out of control.
Speaker 8 (10:03):
What okay, my mind's made up's made up?
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
We're gonna check back with you both in in three months. Okay.
We always do the three month updates. We want to
know where you're at then? Is that okay?
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Guys?
Speaker 8 (10:13):
Why would I ever want to I don't want to
talk about this.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
I don't want to think about this.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
All right, we'll call it Lily in in three months.
Speaker 6 (10:20):
Thank you,
We have a pretty spicy one here.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It's a spicy one, a little spice in the morning.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Here. His name is Armando. Okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (00:11):
Armando and his wife fah freaks.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
I was trying to do freaks.
Speaker 5 (00:19):
Like my wife Marina, who's Ecuadorian, always gives me what
you know, the white guy.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
She's always given me a hard time about.
Speaker 6 (00:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
First of I don't speak Spanish. We've been married for
twenty two years. I don't speak Spanish. Her family hates me,
hates me.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
You haven't even picked any of.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
No, I can't.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Yeah, I'm busy. I want to, but I'm busy. I
don't even roll my rs Armando.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Like you do.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Meal.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Yeah, you don't think that's sexy.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
It's him on top of you in the morning, rolls over.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
Me. Is both about Okay, okay, all right, But there's
Anthony and him.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
We're been going back and forth for the last four hours.
He was backing out.
Speaker 7 (01:07):
Really, I'm back in.
Speaker 8 (01:10):
Might as well talk it out.
Speaker 7 (01:13):
I've been with my lovely wife, the Lillian for ten
years and it's embarrassing. So I was trying to find
the right words for it. In the last two or
three years, our sexual life has declined more than it
had in the beginning of the marriage, and we didn't
(01:34):
know what to do, and she expressed some interest in
taking a second lover, someone that we both knew, which
at first I was very uncomfortable with. But the more
I thought about it, the more I was comfortable with
this person because he's a good mutual friend, and she
(01:56):
was interested in sleeping with Natcha me but also with him,
and we agreed on the condition that anytime she did
sleep with him, I got to take pictures and videos.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, stop stop stop.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
I I'm just I'm trying to wrap my head around
you both decided to bring a mutual friend as a
lover for your wife so you can take pictures and videos.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Yeah, but that's not the whole story, Romando.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
We understand. It's not just this guy.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
It's several guys, and she's allowed to have relationships with
other men. But you've got to be there during the intimacy.
It's a few guys.
Speaker 7 (02:49):
Well, it started, Yes, it started with one guy two
years ago, and now she has her own little roster
of men that I take pictures and videos of her with. Yes,
that's the situation as it's been. But that's not the
reason why I was emailing. The reason I was emailing
was because in the last two months I found out
(03:11):
about a different person that she had not told me about.
Imagine that, and that's the reason I was I was emailing.
Everything honestly was pretty hunky dory.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Go figure, Yeah, that's something.
Speaker 8 (03:28):
Trust is broke it.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Did you see that coming? And where did we begin
to say?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
There are so many problems in this relationship.
Speaker 7 (03:38):
There were warning signs that I ignored, but the fact
that she was willing to tell me about the other
guys outside of our friend kind of At what.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
Point during the decision making process have been before you
actually started doing this, did you say to yourself, this
is going to be good for the long while, this
is going to be you really don't care about your wife?
I mean, because you know why, Because I'm truly in
life love with Marina twenty two years.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
I'm truly in love with her.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
You're not really in love with your wife and she's
not really in love with you.
Speaker 8 (04:07):
I disagree with that wholeheartedly. I think you guys are
being closed minded.
Speaker 7 (04:12):
That is why I didn't even want to do this
in the first day.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Hey, what guy in his right mind would allow his
wife to have sexual affairs with multiple men?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Oh no, no, no, no, their lovers exactly.
Speaker 8 (04:25):
They aren't. They're there, this is this isn't slutty stuff.
They're lovers.
Speaker 7 (04:28):
You know, they're respectful and they're respectful to me too.
All the guys have been very respectful to me.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Is allowing me to sleep with your woman?
Speaker 8 (04:36):
You get it. You're starting to get it, and pep
on my side.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh, please take my wife as your love. I don't.
Speaker 8 (04:43):
I don't expect clothes minded people to understand.
Speaker 7 (04:45):
That's fine.
Speaker 8 (04:46):
I just I get it. I get it. You gotta
be stuck in the past.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Yeah, we're stuck in the past. All right, Yeah, okay,
uh or so we're gonna get there. What is her name?
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Lillian?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
We're gonna get Lilyan on the phone.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
You is not to be.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
Interesting in the In the email, it says that you
think she wasn't she's not being honest with you any longer,
and she's having an affair with this other guy.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
What's what's this other guy's name? Do you know what
his name is?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Bill?
Speaker 8 (05:10):
His nickname is Dewey. I don't know what his actual
name is.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Creepy. I agree totally, growth I have to side with
Armando on this.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Oh, here we go, let's find out where she's at.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Hello, Hi, I am calling for Lillian.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
Who's calling?
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Lillian.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
My name is Marie and I'm calling from Redroses dot com.
We have a dozen long stem roses for you today.
I just need to verify some quick information if I could.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
They're for you.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Someone someone's sending me roses. Is that what you're saying? Yes,
what you're going to send the roses to wear?
Speaker 1 (05:47):
What I dress in thirty two? He'll drive?
Speaker 6 (05:52):
Oh no, no, no, don't no, not there? Can you
send them to my work?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Well?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Sure, I'll get your work address in a minute.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
But we have a special going on that if we
have a situation like this where a secret admirer is
sending you roses, you have the opportunity of sending your
secret admirer roses back. Okay, So I don't know if
you have an idea who your secret admirer is, do you? I?
Speaker 6 (06:28):
Oh, it could be anybody.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yeah, I bet it could. Yeah, lucky you.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Armando sending me flowers? Is that it?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Who's Armando?
Speaker 6 (06:44):
Oh nobody, nobody.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Oh nobody. Okay, he's not important, he's off. The list
is oh very warm, very warm.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Oh Dewey, Hans very Hotwey.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Is Dwayne Dewey.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Yes, that's his nickname. But I'd like to send the
roses back to Dwayne.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Okay, Wow, all right, Dewey, Wow, Okay. Lillian, I you're
an interesting lady. May I call you Lily or do
you prefer Lilian? I'm okay, ly, got something to share
with you, Lilian. All right, Lilian, listen to me carefully.
(07:30):
I'm coming in out of left field.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
I don't know where I hear. My name's Hollywood Hamilton.
I'm a radio personality in New York City. I know
you probably I probably you don't know who we are
up there in Buffalo. I host a show on WKT
Radio in New York City, which is on iHeartRadio. Marie
is my lovely co host here. And you're on a
show called War of the Roses, which is a cheater show.
(07:53):
Your husband, Armando of almost ten years, has been on
the phone the entire time.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Okay, and I'm sorry.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
My name is an Armando. I guess it's nobody. They
just finalized my decision. I want a divorce. You broke
our agreement. You broke the trust, and I am with you.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
Trust the trust You allowed your wife to do this
in the first place, and now you've got a problem
with trust.
Speaker 8 (08:17):
And now there's no trust.
Speaker 6 (08:20):
Are you talking about? You know? I don't understand why
all of a sudden this is a big deal.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
To you, Lily.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
And you did break some sort of an agreement that
you had that you know, he was allowing you to
have affairs with other men, but he'd have to be present.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
You don't have a real marriage right now. That's just
not your average marriage. Okay, I get it that you
guys are doing.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
We've had this agreement, Dewey, is that important? Do you understand? Armando?
Speaker 7 (08:52):
Tell me he must be. I gave you an agreement
where you could sleep with whoever you want as long
as I was present. I gave you an open book test.
You still failed an open book test. So no, we're
getting a divorce. You can't fail and open months. This
has been going on for two months. I've had two
months to think about it. I've known about it for
two months, by the way, Lilian, So yeah, I've thought
(09:13):
about it.
Speaker 8 (09:13):
This is my decision.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Armando.
Speaker 4 (09:16):
You were totally okay with the mutual friend because you
knew him.
Speaker 7 (09:20):
I didn't love it, but I got used to it because,
like I said, but the mutual friend, it ended up
being a fun time. So I thought, maybe it might
be fun with some other dude.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
I imagine my wife.
Speaker 7 (09:30):
It's more just well, it's not about your wife right now.
Speaker 8 (09:37):
He's the one.
Speaker 7 (09:37):
He's the one cheating in an open relationship. How do
you cheat in an open relationship?
Speaker 8 (09:41):
That's ridiculous.
Speaker 6 (09:44):
Also doing he's in the.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Room, sh sh.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
Sh yes, he's shine. You don't like to be watched
and you don't want an old video.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
It's Lilian, Lilian, you're out of control. You're out of control.
Speaker 8 (10:03):
What okay, my mind's made up's made up?
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
We're gonna check back with you both in in three months. Okay.
We always do the three month updates. We want to
know where you're at then? Is that okay?
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Guys?
Speaker 8 (10:13):
Why would I ever want to I don't want to
talk about this.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
I don't want to think about this.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
All right, we'll call it Lily in in three months.
Speaker 6 (10:20):
Thank you,
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