August 6, 2024 • 31 mins
In this week's episode, Falen and Jenny discuss their hopes and dreams...not really, but they do discuss if they do or don't enjoy this favor, Falen's weird face, how Andrew knows if Jenny is in a good mood and what our "third space" is. Thank you for listening!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Hi, Hi Jenny,
how are you? Oh? I'm good. How are you? Though?
That's the real question because I'm looking at i know,
Alan's face right in front of me, and does the
microphone kind of block it? It does block right now,
like I can't even see it. Okay, amazing that because
I'm I do think it would be distracting for you
and for cult to have to look at me, because
(00:24):
you know, obviously like you. They say you shouldn't look
at people if they have something going on, but it's
human nature if like something is off, Like my whole
right side of my face is very bruised, yes, and
very swollen. Yes. So I had like that face procedure again,
which I keep telling people because I'm so stressed out
about it. So literally at Target, I'm like, I had
a face procedure. I'm sorry, can you help me find
(00:45):
this blake brown beauty? I had a face procedure to
the dentist today, not on the phone, can I move
my appointment? I had a face procedure. And then I'm like,
they probably all think I had plastic surgery, which there's
nothing wrong with that, but I didn't say I'm like,
I wouldn't say, it's more like dental work was done. Okay, Yeah,
Well I also was concerned how I sound. I think
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they okay, you sound better. I feel like today I
was like coffee with yesterday. I think you definitely sound
better to okay, good. Yeah, I felt a little less
swollen when I woke up, more bruised, but like the
top part of my cheek is squishy now whereas before
it was, you know, very hard from being swollen. But
I so my hope is the spots were bigger in
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my mouth. If you have no idea what I'm talking about,
I have a malformation of blood vessels, and they go
from the outside. People think they go on the inside
and remove them nose. She goes from the outside. She
injects them with like a needle. It's like a medicine
used in chemotherapy. And long story longer. They were bigger
this time, and she was much more aggressive this time.
So I really really hope that maybe they'll stay gone longer. Yeah.
(01:53):
At least, well, you didn't even think that it was
going to be a thing that you had to deal
with again, right for the first time, Well, she said
it was a possibility, okay, but I just definitely didn't
think it'd be so quickly. Yeah, because I had the
procedure almost two years to the date from and I've
had these for a while now, So I just getting
in with like a highly sought after radiologist not the
(02:15):
easiest thing, right, But I'm fine, I will be fine,
and I'm excited to just like hopefully for them to
at least be gone for a freaking year would be glorious.
So well, seriously, we went to go get coffee yesterday
and I had gone to the bathroom and found was
there by the time I came out of the bathroom
and I walk up and I see her from a distance,
and she's wearing this cute little bucket hat. And I
(02:37):
walk up and then all of a sudden, she looks
up at me. I was like, oh, I forgot about that.
But honestly, the hat really, like really did kind of
cover I've been wearing it. But we definitely sat in
a back corner. I don't know if that was on
purpose or a ROOMI or table for comfort. I asked
Tina and Jenny to share their hopes and dreams of
(02:57):
the Is that a did you think that was a
weird question, not at all, because I have a friend
in our friend group who asks us questions like that
where it's like a random topic and like we all
go around the table and say it. So No, I
didn't think it was weird at all, And I think
it was kind of like different just because I mean,
the three of us used to see each other all
the time, so we just kind of knew everything constantly
that was going on in our lives, and now I
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think when we get together it's like we kind of
get into like the stuff you really want to like
complain to those friends about and you don't always like
stay super positive sometimes I feel like when you don't
see friends as often. I thought this was like almost
our most positive gathering, so I liked it. I personally
did like it. Well. I also like you and Tina
both are you know, like like you listening. Probably you
(03:41):
have hope. We all have hopes and goals and dreams.
But I'm always curious what youurals are. And I'm also
on those people that I feel like, I like want
to like help. If I find out someone is looking
for a job, I start like just asking people because
I want to help. Yeah, but so it's like, Oh,
if you guys are after something and I could help
with it, I would want to. I don't know that
(04:03):
I actually have a really help, but I try. But no,
it was good to see you guys, And we're gonna
go see We're gonna see Tether again tomorrow night, which
is kind of like very back to back. We're gonna
go see that. We got lucky to do an advanced
screening of It begins with us, it ends with us. Yeah,
there is one called that though, Okay, it comes after
Got this one. So it's the new Blake Lively movie.
(04:26):
And I did order all of her hair care stuff
on Targets app. I didn't even know anything about this
until you message Tina like I'm gonna be at Target
at like seven am tomorrow. You don't follow her. I do,
but I don't know. Like all she's been posting about
her new hair care line and it's exclusively at Target.
So I wanted to get it. And I go to
Target and nothing is set up. I go early Sunday morning.
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Three of the people all they didn't speak English, and
that's fine. The first three people I went to they
literally looked like deer in headlights. When I walked up
to I'm like, oh god, don't ask me a question.
And I showed them the picture and they're like they
just said, don't speak English, and I was like okay.
So then I went to like a fourth woman who
did but she's like, this isn't my area. Can't help
you and I was like, yeah, oh my god, like kids,
(05:11):
someone can direct me to. And she feels like that's
not very targeted, and she all she said to me
was early Sunday morning. It's not the most people like
that you could get help from. And I was like okay.
So I went to like a fifth person, a guy
in the like register area. He was super nice. He
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like looked it up on his phone. He's like, it
says it should be there. Maybe walk around a little
bit and by that time they'll have pulled it from
the back, you know, let me know if. He was
like very helpful, but it wasn't there, and I just
was like, I'm not going to another one. Yeah, And
I just ordered them online, so I'll let you know.
I'm supposed to get one today, I think, a couple tomorrow,
and the last one's on Thursday. So what is the
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what are you looking to get out of these products?
There's shampoo, yep, dry shampoo. There's a mask you put
on your hair before you wash, and there's a mask
like later, and then there's like a leaven stuff. She
doesn't do conditioner, but the thing is like the hair
masks kind of act as conditioner because they're just like
a thicker conditioner. And that's freaking everyone out there isn't conditioners.
(06:15):
She's like, I haven't used conditioner in twenty years. What
she said that people in Hollywood don't use conditioner, but
they use these masks. So it's like the same idea.
Oh okay, So I don't know. I'm gonna try it.
Everyone says it smells very good. It's a strong scent. Yeah,
So if you don't like to be if you have
like a uh like a heightened sense smell, then I
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don't think they're going to be for you. So I'm
curious to see because I do have a heightened sense
of smell. So we'll see, do you think. I mean,
I understand that there's other things that she said she uses,
but I couldn't get by with all conditioner. My hair
is so snarly and like that's what the like, Uh, well,
the mask is supposed to do the same thing, yeah,
as conditioner, and then there's a spray in thing you
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can use after that's supposed to help with that. I believe. Okay,
we'll see, because my hair can get pretty frizzy too,
because I have like a natural wave in the back right.
But I don't know. I asked Jake if he would
accept a blowjob with my face like this. What was
his answer. I wasn't gonna give him one. I want
to be very clear, I'm And he was like, oh,
I guess I would take one for the team. And
(07:18):
I was like, you're sick, and I go. I go.
The sick part is you probably would get off faster
and they would have a whole new set of issues.
He's I can't probably okay, so long story longer, Jake
would take one for the team, and I don't need
him to, you know, I don't need him too. I
just feel like any guy would say that to their partner,
(07:41):
but they would accept any kind of blowjob that's true,
puffy face, no puffy face, they would accept it because
it's just like, you get to a point in the
relationship where there are tally marks marked down of how
many blowjobs are given. And I mean, honestly, I don't
even know the last one for Andrew and I do.
Do you mean that Andrew physically has like a note
(08:02):
app No, I'm kidding us. That would be so funny
if he did. I was getting at text Jake and like,
do you have a tally marker? No, he'd have a
pretty slim pick in one like lately, same and like,
I don't know, it's not I it's not that I
don't like doing it anymore. Of course, I don't know
that I ever love doing it, but you always do
(08:23):
it for their pleasure of course, yeah, and so of
course I'll do it sometimes, But it just it depends
on like the sexual interaction. I feel like like I'm
way more giving on a vacation. Are you talking about
full on or like, are you talking about like just
to get him going? No, like full on okay, But
I'm also honestly kind of probably both. Oh, I'm pretty
(08:44):
consistent with like that's how I get things going, Oh
okay to hook up. Yeah, that's kind of like I will.
I don't need to do anything for Andrew. Honestly, Jake
would be very quick but I guess I just increase
the speed. Yeah, it's not like Jake would have a
difficult time by any means. He's a very you know,
(09:06):
fortunate guy in that regard, right, But no, I think
Andrew just always has the jokes about anytime there's a wager, like, oh,
if I win, this happens or whatever. Or we were playing, yeah,
we were playing pick a ball, and I go, Okay,
whoever loses has to buy coffee because we're going to
get coffee or character. He goes, that's not what I
(09:26):
want if I go, that's the only option. But I
was like no, He's like, well, no, that's not what
I want my wager to be. And I was like okay.
And of course it's always always a blowjob, like it's
just it's and I, which probably says a lot about
me and how often I give them. Yeah, he's constantly
saying that. But I also feel like if he asked
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me for one, i'd give him one. Yeah, you know,
I'm not like I'm not going to say no. Actually yeah,
I have plenty of times I've done that. Oh my god,
absolutely no. Yeah, but I also like I have I
think we both have said I am too old to
be finishing things off in my mouth. It's not happening.
Oh yeah, the days that ship has sailed, maybe on
(10:10):
like our tenth anniversary, if that's something. But he doesn't
even care. Like I will ask Jake a lot of
the time, like would you like this? Or would this
be played? And he he is. I feel he's very
honest with things, and he'll like no, I don't want that,
I don't need that, or I don't care about that.
And I don't know if he's just doing it for me,
but I don't care. As long as I offered it
he said no, then then that's I gave it my all.
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I believe I. Okay, this is a weird question, m
and maybe you don't have an answer. Her eyes are
darting like she's thinking the right way to ask me
this question. I'm just trying to think if I actually
asked Andrew this before or not. But I mean, like,
I'm not trying to say that. Of course, when I'm
giving a blowjob, like I make gagging sound sometimes and
I would take that to be such a turn off
to a guy. But I think I've asked Andrew that before.
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I think they like it. I was gonna say, I
feel like it probably they noda like, oh, I would
say I feel like it probably makes them feel like,
oh yeah, I got a big old dog all that.
But I was gonna ask if you've ever asked a
guy like do you like that? Because like, for me,
I feel like I'm turning him off by gagging and
making those weird noises because one time I was brushing
my teeth. I think this is how it got brought up.
(11:18):
I was brushing my teeth and I like made some
giggy noises. He's like, geez, like, what's wrong with you?
And I was like, I do the same thing when
I yeah sucking that day, yeah, And he's like, oh,
And I think he really just like doesn't hear it.
I know I've never asked Jake that. I know that
like they enjoy it more when you like act like
you're enjoying it. It's not like a task obviously, like
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if you're doing like some moans or some vibes, that
like makes like you're really into it, which I'm like,
I don't want to act like I'm not ever at
all into it? Is it the top of my list? No?
But I also it does bring me pleasure to bring
him pleasure. So there's like that mixture and I'm sorry
from extra saliva today, that's disgusting if you have to
(12:02):
listen to that, I'm very sorry. But I also just like,
I don't know I could. I could turn it on
for a second for that. Yeah, yeah, I mean I
could too. I just probably don't do enough of that.
Sounds like you don't have to, so why would you why?
I don't know. Andrew is just like such a giver.
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And I know that that may sound like, oh, well,
you you know, he would be a taker if like
you gave me to him whatever, but it really isn't
with him. He's just like a giver. So I don't know.
When it's like his birthday we're on vacation, things get weird.
Okay that yeah, it's a very like, well stars really
(12:45):
have to align to be on vacation on Andrew's birthday. Well, okay,
it doesn't have to be both of them met one either,
or okay, well you being all saliva. I can't. I'm
not hearing it from my side of the room here,
so I don't know I did. But that's how I
was on Wednesday because I had an allergic reactions something.
It was so weird because I mean, I'm allergic to
sulfa medications. But I found that out when I was
(13:06):
the little kid, and I don't even know what happened
with that. Does that mean I don't know. I just
can't take any kind of medication that has sulf in it. Oh,
so that's always been what I put on my allergy list.
But then I like drank some water with collagen powder
in it and had the weirdest reaction to it. My
mouth was filled with saliva, like it hurt, it felt
(13:26):
metallic and tingly. It was so strange, and so took
a ben a drill and felt better. But during the show,
Dave was off last week, so I was hosting, and
I just was like literally having to turn my microphone
off and spit into a garbage that I had right
next to me every like second. Yeah, pretty much. So
I feel like I've been there. I've been not. I
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mean I don't have a big puffy face with a
sort of bruise on it. But yeah. Also, at coffee yesterday,
I discovered that Jenny's screensaver on her phone is a
photo of just herself, and I called her out because
I think she is. Can you explain that the photo
before you? You can't photo of Jenny swimming in a
beautiful lake with a background, And I go, is you're
(14:12):
a screensaver yourself? And she was like, yeah, I love
that photo, and I, of course, being a great friend,
told her she was. I don't even know what I said,
but I probably was. I just made you feel uncomfortable
about it. No, I didn't feel uncomfortable. You just made
fun of me for it. And I will continue, Jenny,
what the fuck that should be a photo of you?
Like most normal people would have a photo of their
(14:33):
partner like their animal. On my phone, you will see
that the photo inside of my phone is of Andrew
and I. Her wallpaper is her and Andrew, which is
completely covered by all of her apps, but her lock
screen is her swimming luxuriously in water. Didn't you have
a picture like that of Andrew swimming? No? I think
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the last phone me too. Do you have a photo
of you by your bedside as well framed? Is it
your screen shape on your computer? I have a photo.
I do actually have a photo of me framed, uh,
next to the bedside, but it's aunt Andrew's side, and
then I have one of him on my side of
the bed. Oh, and I picture's the bedroom just like
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there's one of all of them. Now that I'm thinking
about it, I don't think I want to hang that
in my bedroom. That seems weird. Why because we bang
in there. I don't want to like look up and
see all of the smiling face. Yeah. I guess that's
kind of true. I probably would have I would keep
that away from the bed. I think I'm going to
keep that away from the bedroom. Yeah, But I don't
think it's weird because I really loved that photo and
it's just like this beautiful lake that's this gorgeous blue
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color and there's mountains in the background, and I feel
like it's cute. And it's also like you can barely
see my face in it. It's literally like it's just
mean away after I dove in, you can sleep night.
I mean, I could have done just the landscape, but
the landscape alone just I don't know what hits different
with my body in it. You're right, it does. It
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does a different when I can see that white ass
up in the air. Speaking of asses, I had farted
the other day. Yeah, obviously every day for you. Yeah, well,
multiple times, Andrew goes, oh, I love it when you fart,
and I was like, what the fuck? You know, we're
just weird some times, and I was like what. He goes,
I love it when you do that because that means
that you're in a good mood. Why, no, one doesn't
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in normally it means my stomach hurson. Yeah, and he goes, well, okay, maybe,
but he goes, I mean when you fart, it means
that you're happy with me, because when you get mad
at me, you don't far in front of me. Oh
my gosh. The fact that he is like, put this together,
but it's so true, won't why? I don't know, because
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we're like barely talking and I'm not gonna lee all
to fart, like because it'll make it'll lighten the mood
and you want to keep things. Oh okay, okay, yeah,
it's so apparently to him that is hilarious. When he
was like, that means you're in a good mood, I
was like, no, it and it probably means I ate something.
Now my stomach hurts for the next three hours every
day though, Jenny, you're two, and so that mean just
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eat something weird every single day. We got this email
and here we go a little vent sash. She says, Hey,
Fallon and Jenny ufda, do I need a vent sessh
with two awesome women I trust can make me feel
better by the end of this Sorry, I have to
swallow my sliva. For the last few years, my third
place has consistently been the park a few blocks from
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where I live. For those who are unfamiliar what a
third place is, it's a social environment that doesn't include
your home or workplace. That was new to me. I
had not heard of that before. Oh Drake had talked
about that on our show once, so I learned to
look at like a handful of months ago. Other places
can be cafes, churches, gyms, et cetera. I love this
park because it's family friendly, has a lot of courts
and fields for various sports for people to play, usually
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has community events and kickball tournaments, and it's only a
five minute walk to Dinky Town to grab a bite
to eat. But in the last month, I've had three
separate occurrences happen that don't make me feel confident in
my third place as much, or at least it makes
me think twice before going now. First occurrence, I was
reading a book on some bleachers that sit next to
a baseball field. I usually will sit there if nobody
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is in the field practicing because it's a nice secluded
spot to read. As I was reading, I all of
a sudden am startled and almost yip out a noise
when a loud, crashing noise hits against the chain fence
right across from me on the bleachers. A guy maybe
early twenties is standing there staring at me, and he
threw a baseball about ten feet away from the fence
full force. I stared back at him for a couple
(18:37):
of seconds, giving him the wtface. But I go back
to reading, and twenty seconds later, he throws the ball again,
not even ten feet away from the fence, toward the
fence and stares at me while doing it. Pretty sure,
if you're practicing your pitch, that's not the way you
do it. I immediately got up and left and went to
a beach yards away, and the guy stopped doing it.
What the hell. The second occurrence was when I was
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walking back through the park to go back home and
I was passing the jungle gym area filled with kids.
An older guy behind shouts super loud, buck that ass
up at me in front of a ton of kids.
Oh God. I didn't acknowledge him and just continued walking home.
The third occurrence was when I was walking along the
sidewalk right by the park and I'm about to pass
this guy who looks like an MGK want to be
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walking two large huskies. Instead of moving over a little
or having his dogs move to the side, he takes
up the whole sidewalk and his dogs end up jumping
on me and pushing me to the hand railing by
these steps. The guy doesn't give a crap and continues
to walk as I say, what the actual fuck to him? Seriously,
three occurrences with shitty men without a month within a
month just makes me. I don't know, I'm frustrated. I
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feel like you two are great girls girls, and I
want my feelings of this to feel validated without any
guys trying to defend shitty behavior. Is it not shitty
behavior because I look back at these instances and there
is no excuse for them if you think about it.
Sorry for the extremely long email. You two just felt
like a safe place to share my frustrations. You both
make my days so much better when I need to
laugh or distraction thinks so much. God, the baseball thing
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is so weird, unfortunately, the cat calling harassment thing is
so like, No, I feel for someone to do that
around a playground, to me, that's like someone who's mentally unstable,
whether that's because they're on substances or whatever it is.
But to yell something like that, to me, that's not
a mentally stable person. The baseball thing, that's creepy. Yeah,
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that's what I was going to say. It's very creepy.
It's like he was looking at you and almost trying
to warn you of something or like intimidate you. Yeah,
he was getting your attention and then what were you
supposed to be turned on by that? Like there is
no point to that other than intimidation. Yeah, And the
husky owner just sounds like an app idiot, awful, trashy
(20:52):
person because there are just so many dog owners out
there that are not great. But you're also but yeah,
we extremely like we validate you because especially like if
one of those things happened, you'd be like what the
hell and you'd move on. But for those all three
of those to happen within one month. I understand why
you're questioning that being your place, because your third place
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or the third face, whatever you call it, it's your
comfort spot if you're home, if your work, And now
you've chosen a third place where you feel comfortable and
they've taken that away from you, and that is shitty
male behavior on all three of their parts. So that sucks. Yeah,
it really does. So I'm sorry. I would say for me,
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I would like probably still try going there. Yeah, I
would try probably a couple more times. Yeah, if it
continues of other random things happening, trust your gut, yeah
for sure, you know, like your intuition, and maybe be
on the lookout in the meantime for like a potential
other spot that's close to everything, if there's another park
around there. Maybe it's just like, I don't know, maybe
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just got really unlucky in this one month. I wonder
how consistently you've been going there. Has it been like
consistently great until this one month, because then maybe, yeah,
it's like it's just something weird in the air. I
don't know. Do you think that you have a third space? Oh,
I haven't really thought about it. Off the top of
my head, No do you. I mean mine would be
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the gym, but I don't love that. It's like more
of a routine thing. So I almost lumped that in
with like home and work being two main spaces. So no,
I mean, I've found this one coffee shop I like
to go to a lot more recently, and I work
on things at it, so I would say that, But
I also am like frugal, so I don't like to
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go there too Hausen and spend money. So I don't
really know what it is. But Andrew brought up because
his best friend just moved from North Branch back down
into the Twin Cities. They bought a house, and he
was like, man, I'm so hyped to have my third
space back and whatever because he to go to their
house all the time when they lived here. Yeah, And
I was like, wow, like that's cool that you consider
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your best friend's house like yeah, third space, because I
mean I have friends, yeah, but nobody that I'm like
hanging out at their house all the time. And I
mean the only two other places I frequent are I mean,
I get coffee every day, but I don't sit in
there really. In work, I go to pilates. That's like
the most regular place I go. But again, I don't
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consider that because I'm not like reading a book or
I'm just it's like a workout routine. I will go
down by the lake because our neighborhood has like a
private beach, which is nice. But I feel like that
is would that be considered part of my home though,
And I don't go there like all the time, but
I would go down there on a walk and stop
and listen to a podcast or go on my paddle
(23:49):
board or something. I've done that like a few times
this year. I think that that is a good option
because it's I wouldn't consider it your home. Yeah, it
is a space to get away and do things. I
really do work there, But maybe that's the point to
not do work in your third space. I think it
is quite often just to like have you just like
(24:10):
have a different mental state in that third space. Right,
So I would almost consider just like the lakes and
uptown for me in general, because I either walk, run, bike,
rollerblade around like Hammock as we say, you go read
there and stuff too, So I just like it's just
a comfort zone for me. I mean I went around
(24:30):
Lake Harry at the last two weekends. Andrew and I
did Lake of the Isles other night too, So I
feel like just being around the lakes in Uptown are
probably like one of my top ones. Yeah. I know
that we haven't talked about a Qatar in a while.
I was really hot and bothered into it for a while,
(24:51):
I've been off of it. Jenny is still on the
Aqatar series, but she just finished the third third book,
so she's getting ready to enter the fourth shorter book
book YEP, which is almost like a palette cleanser between
battles and different things, and she I won't give anything
away in case you're reading it. Yeah, but she did
(25:12):
send me a photo I woke up in the morning
at like ten something PM of her crying. Yes, I
cried because I cried there too. I was gonna say,
of course, I don't want to spoil anything. So just
something happens and it left me like shocked, and it
made me feel like something that happened in the book
was something happening in my own life. You felt it, dyes, Yeah,
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And so I just cried and cried for like five
minutes and took a picture and sended to fallon and
then I went back to reading it, and so I
found out what happens and whatever. Once again, don't want
to spoil anything, but I was shocked because I don't
think I've had an emotional reaction to a book like
that almost ever. Okay, yeah, I really don't. And have
(25:54):
you read any series though, or just like kind of
one off thing. Yeah, I guess you're right. Maybe that's why,
because you actually more connected to characters. I mean I
read Twilight, I read Hunger Games and Harry Potter. I
don't remember if there was anything that happened in Hunger
Games that I would have ever cried. Probably not, because
I could not get into Hunger Games. I read the
(26:15):
first book and I did not care. Yeah, it was
not my style. I like illegally watched the movie on
some sketchy website in college when it came Obviously, Yeah,
I loved I thought the movie was so great. And
then I think one of my roommates was reading the books,
so I was like, oh, I should read them, and
I got so into them. I was like so obsessed
with the books for a while, and I of course
can't remember the differences between the books and the movies anymore,
(26:37):
but I remember I think I thought that the books
were a little bit better than the movies. Are you
we're getting close to the Minnesota State Fair. Yeah, we
obviously work out there, both of us. But are you
looking forward to anything outside of work for the fair
this year or no? Yes, I'm going to go to
the Tea Pain and Ludacris concert. Okay, so I so
(27:00):
Andrew and I are going to my friend Tiff. We're
going to go. But then also it's like Andrew's best
friend's birthday and his wife bought a lot of tickets
for it, and I don't even think they know who's
all going yet with them, but they're going to be
out there that day, So I'm looking forward to that.
It just kind of sucks because its the Tuesday night,
which means obviously I have to be up for the
show in the morning, and it's not like it goes
(27:22):
super late anyways, But it's just the whole cluster of
getting out of the fair and getting home and going
to bed and whatever. So that. But I don't know
that I'll be out there besides my workshifts and then
for that concert. Oh, I definitely won't be. I mean,
I consider going to the I consider going to that concert.
But yeah, it was like, only if I get free
tickets from the radio station. So that's still a possibility,
(27:44):
I guess, because I'll already be there. But I just
asked for Green Day tickets. Are they that's a fair No? Oh?
I was like, wait to speak, sorry, No, yeah, okay,
it's like next week. Where's that a target field? Oh?
And my understanding is they're doing top to bottom Dukie
(28:08):
and top to bottom American idiots, and if they do
Dukie first, I will shit myself. I will do full Dukie,
and I honestly probably won't really stay for American idiots.
I don't care about American idiots. I'm like, ogee, Dukie's
one of my top ten favorite albums of all time.
So that's kind of what I'm hoping will happen, because
(28:28):
I feel like American adiants will be like the more
mass appeal popular probably so I haven't looked at their
set lists to confirm that's what they're doing, but I
didn't ask for tickets, and even with their crappy tickets,
I don't care because sick I've never seen Green Day.
I don't think I have either, and they're like a
bucket list artist for me, So I'm very excited. I
(28:51):
would love to see Luda of the like because cult
really wants to go to the Luda Tea Pain, but
he's more Tea Pain. But I'm like, again my age,
I am Luda. Oh I'm Luda. Also, yeah, I'm way
more Luda. And Andrew's a huge Ludicrous fan, so and
I like t Pain. I was trying to listen. Is
Andrew like Cadillac Grills Luda or is he after I
(29:15):
would say I think he is. I honestly don't know
if I know he knows like every Ludicrous song though okay,
I swear if that comes on, So I don't know
what he likes better though Okay, he he is. It's
so interesting his music taste to me because he knows
like every single Luda song, eminem ACEP Rocky. But then
(29:37):
he's like Lumineer is a hosier or camp and like
like he has such a but I also am kind
of like that too. I have a very wide range
of artists I like, but he really actually knows like
every lyric to every word of like those kind of
bands or rappers or whatever, gotcha. Well, if you want
(29:59):
to give me and of your tickets for free for
the ludicrous t paying concert because someone's sick, let me know.
I'll let you know. I'm getting my tickets from the
radio station, though, so I must tell you are to
get them too. Okay, I did ask, well, as soon
as I think you were the first one to ask,
because then Cold asked and Ted was like, god, Jenny
already asked, and I'm like, get ready because it's one
that everyone's going to want to go to. Yeah, so no,
(30:21):
I yeah, no, I did ask, And I'm almost actually
to a point where I might see how much the
tickets are that Andrew's best friend and them, God if
they have extra ones, just because it would be fun
to just be by them. And I wouldn't mind paying
like a little bit of money for them, wouldn't. Are
you fucking sure they're cheapskate? You're right, I would mind,
(30:42):
but if they happen to have act. The only thing though,
is that I did tell my friend Tif that I
got us ticket, so then I'd have to probably pay
for her ticket. Then if I don't have a free
ticket for her, so then that might not work. And
I'm definitely too cheap to pay for a two tickets. Well, yeah,
I don't blame you. I don't feel like you're right.
I would probably like, yeah, let's do it, but it
would suck to think you're getting free tickets to then
(31:03):
be like, okay, it's one hundred and fifty dollars. I
don't know they're cheap. I think they're expensive. Yeah, I know,
I agree, but well, the grand stand when you're actually
in the bleachers, usually those ones aren't too too bad,
like fifty, but probably I guess with taxes, fees and
the bullshit, it probably is more than that. When that'd
be funny if on Ticketmaster I said taxes line, fees line,
the bullshit line, that's pretty much what would be. I'm
(31:25):
gonna call this episode taxes, fees and BS. Okay, I
love that. All right, that's time. Okay, I love you.
Thanks for listening it off real quick. You didn't want
to ask me. Bye,
Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Hi, Hi Jenny,
how are you? Oh? I'm good. How are you? Though?
That's the real question because I'm looking at i know,
Alan's face right in front of me, and does the
microphone kind of block it? It does block right now,
like I can't even see it. Okay, amazing that because
I'm I do think it would be distracting for you
and for cult to have to look at me, because
(00:24):
you know, obviously like you. They say you shouldn't look
at people if they have something going on, but it's
human nature if like something is off, Like my whole
right side of my face is very bruised, yes, and
very swollen. Yes. So I had like that face procedure again,
which I keep telling people because I'm so stressed out
about it. So literally at Target, I'm like, I had
a face procedure. I'm sorry, can you help me find
(00:45):
this blake brown beauty? I had a face procedure to
the dentist today, not on the phone, can I move
my appointment? I had a face procedure. And then I'm like,
they probably all think I had plastic surgery, which there's
nothing wrong with that, but I didn't say I'm like,
I wouldn't say, it's more like dental work was done. Okay, Yeah,
Well I also was concerned how I sound. I think
(01:07):
they okay, you sound better. I feel like today I
was like coffee with yesterday. I think you definitely sound
better to okay, good. Yeah, I felt a little less
swollen when I woke up, more bruised, but like the
top part of my cheek is squishy now whereas before
it was, you know, very hard from being swollen. But
I so my hope is the spots were bigger in
(01:29):
my mouth. If you have no idea what I'm talking about,
I have a malformation of blood vessels, and they go
from the outside. People think they go on the inside
and remove them nose. She goes from the outside. She
injects them with like a needle. It's like a medicine
used in chemotherapy. And long story longer. They were bigger
this time, and she was much more aggressive this time.
So I really really hope that maybe they'll stay gone longer. Yeah.
(01:53):
At least, well, you didn't even think that it was
going to be a thing that you had to deal
with again, right for the first time, Well, she said
it was a possibility, okay, but I just definitely didn't
think it'd be so quickly. Yeah, because I had the
procedure almost two years to the date from and I've
had these for a while now, So I just getting
in with like a highly sought after radiologist not the
(02:15):
easiest thing, right, But I'm fine, I will be fine,
and I'm excited to just like hopefully for them to
at least be gone for a freaking year would be glorious.
So well, seriously, we went to go get coffee yesterday
and I had gone to the bathroom and found was
there by the time I came out of the bathroom
and I walk up and I see her from a distance,
and she's wearing this cute little bucket hat. And I
(02:37):
walk up and then all of a sudden, she looks
up at me. I was like, oh, I forgot about that.
But honestly, the hat really, like really did kind of
cover I've been wearing it. But we definitely sat in
a back corner. I don't know if that was on
purpose or a ROOMI or table for comfort. I asked
Tina and Jenny to share their hopes and dreams of
(02:57):
the Is that a did you think that was a
weird question, not at all, because I have a friend
in our friend group who asks us questions like that
where it's like a random topic and like we all
go around the table and say it. So No, I
didn't think it was weird at all, And I think
it was kind of like different just because I mean,
the three of us used to see each other all
the time, so we just kind of knew everything constantly
that was going on in our lives, and now I
(03:18):
think when we get together it's like we kind of
get into like the stuff you really want to like
complain to those friends about and you don't always like
stay super positive sometimes I feel like when you don't
see friends as often. I thought this was like almost
our most positive gathering, so I liked it. I personally
did like it. Well. I also like you and Tina
both are you know, like like you listening. Probably you
(03:41):
have hope. We all have hopes and goals and dreams.
But I'm always curious what youurals are. And I'm also
on those people that I feel like, I like want
to like help. If I find out someone is looking
for a job, I start like just asking people because
I want to help. Yeah, but so it's like, Oh,
if you guys are after something and I could help
with it, I would want to. I don't know that
(04:03):
I actually have a really help, but I try. But no,
it was good to see you guys, And we're gonna
go see We're gonna see Tether again tomorrow night, which
is kind of like very back to back. We're gonna
go see that. We got lucky to do an advanced
screening of It begins with us, it ends with us. Yeah,
there is one called that though, Okay, it comes after
Got this one. So it's the new Blake Lively movie.
(04:26):
And I did order all of her hair care stuff
on Targets app. I didn't even know anything about this
until you message Tina like I'm gonna be at Target
at like seven am tomorrow. You don't follow her. I do,
but I don't know. Like all she's been posting about
her new hair care line and it's exclusively at Target.
So I wanted to get it. And I go to
Target and nothing is set up. I go early Sunday morning.
(04:51):
Three of the people all they didn't speak English, and
that's fine. The first three people I went to they
literally looked like deer in headlights. When I walked up
to I'm like, oh god, don't ask me a question.
And I showed them the picture and they're like they
just said, don't speak English, and I was like okay.
So then I went to like a fourth woman who
did but she's like, this isn't my area. Can't help
you and I was like, yeah, oh my god, like kids,
(05:11):
someone can direct me to. And she feels like that's
not very targeted, and she all she said to me
was early Sunday morning. It's not the most people like
that you could get help from. And I was like okay.
So I went to like a fifth person, a guy
in the like register area. He was super nice. He
(05:34):
like looked it up on his phone. He's like, it
says it should be there. Maybe walk around a little
bit and by that time they'll have pulled it from
the back, you know, let me know if. He was
like very helpful, but it wasn't there, and I just
was like, I'm not going to another one. Yeah, And
I just ordered them online, so I'll let you know.
I'm supposed to get one today, I think, a couple tomorrow,
and the last one's on Thursday. So what is the
(05:55):
what are you looking to get out of these products?
There's shampoo, yep, dry shampoo. There's a mask you put
on your hair before you wash, and there's a mask
like later, and then there's like a leaven stuff. She
doesn't do conditioner, but the thing is like the hair
masks kind of act as conditioner because they're just like
a thicker conditioner. And that's freaking everyone out there isn't conditioners.
(06:15):
She's like, I haven't used conditioner in twenty years. What
she said that people in Hollywood don't use conditioner, but
they use these masks. So it's like the same idea.
Oh okay, So I don't know. I'm gonna try it.
Everyone says it smells very good. It's a strong scent. Yeah,
So if you don't like to be if you have
like a uh like a heightened sense smell, then I
(06:36):
don't think they're going to be for you. So I'm
curious to see because I do have a heightened sense
of smell. So we'll see, do you think. I mean,
I understand that there's other things that she said she uses,
but I couldn't get by with all conditioner. My hair
is so snarly and like that's what the like, Uh, well,
the mask is supposed to do the same thing, yeah,
as conditioner, and then there's a spray in thing you
(06:57):
can use after that's supposed to help with that. I believe. Okay,
we'll see, because my hair can get pretty frizzy too,
because I have like a natural wave in the back right.
But I don't know. I asked Jake if he would
accept a blowjob with my face like this. What was
his answer. I wasn't gonna give him one. I want
to be very clear, I'm And he was like, oh,
I guess I would take one for the team. And
(07:18):
I was like, you're sick, and I go. I go.
The sick part is you probably would get off faster
and they would have a whole new set of issues.
He's I can't probably okay, so long story longer, Jake
would take one for the team, and I don't need
him to, you know, I don't need him too. I
just feel like any guy would say that to their partner,
(07:41):
but they would accept any kind of blowjob that's true,
puffy face, no puffy face, they would accept it because
it's just like, you get to a point in the
relationship where there are tally marks marked down of how
many blowjobs are given. And I mean, honestly, I don't
even know the last one for Andrew and I do.
Do you mean that Andrew physically has like a note
(08:02):
app No, I'm kidding us. That would be so funny
if he did. I was getting at text Jake and like,
do you have a tally marker? No, he'd have a
pretty slim pick in one like lately, same and like,
I don't know, it's not I it's not that I
don't like doing it anymore. Of course, I don't know
that I ever love doing it, but you always do
(08:23):
it for their pleasure of course, yeah, and so of
course I'll do it sometimes, But it just it depends
on like the sexual interaction. I feel like like I'm
way more giving on a vacation. Are you talking about
full on or like, are you talking about like just
to get him going? No, like full on okay, But
I'm also honestly kind of probably both. Oh, I'm pretty
(08:44):
consistent with like that's how I get things going, Oh
okay to hook up. Yeah, that's kind of like I will.
I don't need to do anything for Andrew. Honestly, Jake
would be very quick but I guess I just increase
the speed. Yeah, it's not like Jake would have a
difficult time by any means. He's a very you know,
(09:06):
fortunate guy in that regard, right, But no, I think
Andrew just always has the jokes about anytime there's a wager, like, oh,
if I win, this happens or whatever. Or we were playing, yeah,
we were playing pick a ball, and I go, Okay,
whoever loses has to buy coffee because we're going to
get coffee or character. He goes, that's not what I
(09:26):
want if I go, that's the only option. But I
was like no, He's like, well, no, that's not what
I want my wager to be. And I was like okay.
And of course it's always always a blowjob, like it's
just it's and I, which probably says a lot about
me and how often I give them. Yeah, he's constantly
saying that. But I also feel like if he asked
(09:47):
me for one, i'd give him one. Yeah, you know,
I'm not like I'm not going to say no. Actually yeah,
I have plenty of times I've done that. Oh my god,
absolutely no. Yeah, but I also like I have I
think we both have said I am too old to
be finishing things off in my mouth. It's not happening.
Oh yeah, the days that ship has sailed, maybe on
(10:10):
like our tenth anniversary, if that's something. But he doesn't
even care. Like I will ask Jake a lot of
the time, like would you like this? Or would this
be played? And he he is. I feel he's very
honest with things, and he'll like no, I don't want that,
I don't need that, or I don't care about that.
And I don't know if he's just doing it for me,
but I don't care. As long as I offered it
he said no, then then that's I gave it my all.
(10:34):
I believe I. Okay, this is a weird question, m
and maybe you don't have an answer. Her eyes are
darting like she's thinking the right way to ask me
this question. I'm just trying to think if I actually
asked Andrew this before or not. But I mean, like,
I'm not trying to say that. Of course, when I'm
giving a blowjob, like I make gagging sound sometimes and
I would take that to be such a turn off
to a guy. But I think I've asked Andrew that before.
(10:56):
I think they like it. I was gonna say, I
feel like it probably they noda like, oh, I would
say I feel like it probably makes them feel like,
oh yeah, I got a big old dog all that.
But I was gonna ask if you've ever asked a
guy like do you like that? Because like, for me,
I feel like I'm turning him off by gagging and
making those weird noises because one time I was brushing
my teeth. I think this is how it got brought up.
(11:18):
I was brushing my teeth and I like made some
giggy noises. He's like, geez, like, what's wrong with you?
And I was like, I do the same thing when
I yeah sucking that day, yeah, And he's like, oh,
And I think he really just like doesn't hear it.
I know I've never asked Jake that. I know that
like they enjoy it more when you like act like
you're enjoying it. It's not like a task obviously, like
(11:40):
if you're doing like some moans or some vibes, that
like makes like you're really into it, which I'm like,
I don't want to act like I'm not ever at
all into it? Is it the top of my list? No?
But I also it does bring me pleasure to bring
him pleasure. So there's like that mixture and I'm sorry
from extra saliva today, that's disgusting if you have to
(12:02):
listen to that, I'm very sorry. But I also just like,
I don't know I could. I could turn it on
for a second for that. Yeah, yeah, I mean I
could too. I just probably don't do enough of that.
Sounds like you don't have to, so why would you why?
I don't know. Andrew is just like such a giver.
(12:23):
And I know that that may sound like, oh, well,
you you know, he would be a taker if like
you gave me to him whatever, but it really isn't
with him. He's just like a giver. So I don't know.
When it's like his birthday we're on vacation, things get weird.
Okay that yeah, it's a very like, well stars really
(12:45):
have to align to be on vacation on Andrew's birthday. Well, okay,
it doesn't have to be both of them met one either,
or okay, well you being all saliva. I can't. I'm
not hearing it from my side of the room here,
so I don't know I did. But that's how I
was on Wednesday because I had an allergic reactions something.
It was so weird because I mean, I'm allergic to
sulfa medications. But I found that out when I was
(13:06):
the little kid, and I don't even know what happened
with that. Does that mean I don't know. I just
can't take any kind of medication that has sulf in it. Oh,
so that's always been what I put on my allergy list.
But then I like drank some water with collagen powder
in it and had the weirdest reaction to it. My
mouth was filled with saliva, like it hurt, it felt
(13:26):
metallic and tingly. It was so strange, and so took
a ben a drill and felt better. But during the show,
Dave was off last week, so I was hosting, and
I just was like literally having to turn my microphone
off and spit into a garbage that I had right
next to me every like second. Yeah, pretty much. So
I feel like I've been there. I've been not. I
(13:49):
mean I don't have a big puffy face with a
sort of bruise on it. But yeah. Also, at coffee yesterday,
I discovered that Jenny's screensaver on her phone is a
photo of just herself, and I called her out because
I think she is. Can you explain that the photo
before you? You can't photo of Jenny swimming in a
beautiful lake with a background, And I go, is you're
(14:12):
a screensaver yourself? And she was like, yeah, I love
that photo, and I, of course, being a great friend,
told her she was. I don't even know what I said,
but I probably was. I just made you feel uncomfortable
about it. No, I didn't feel uncomfortable. You just made
fun of me for it. And I will continue, Jenny,
what the fuck that should be a photo of you?
Like most normal people would have a photo of their
(14:33):
partner like their animal. On my phone, you will see
that the photo inside of my phone is of Andrew
and I. Her wallpaper is her and Andrew, which is
completely covered by all of her apps, but her lock
screen is her swimming luxuriously in water. Didn't you have
a picture like that of Andrew swimming? No? I think
(14:54):
the last phone me too. Do you have a photo
of you by your bedside as well framed? Is it
your screen shape on your computer? I have a photo.
I do actually have a photo of me framed, uh,
next to the bedside, but it's aunt Andrew's side, and
then I have one of him on my side of
the bed. Oh, and I picture's the bedroom just like
(15:15):
there's one of all of them. Now that I'm thinking
about it, I don't think I want to hang that
in my bedroom. That seems weird. Why because we bang
in there. I don't want to like look up and
see all of the smiling face. Yeah. I guess that's
kind of true. I probably would have I would keep
that away from the bed. I think I'm going to
keep that away from the bedroom. Yeah, But I don't
think it's weird because I really loved that photo and
it's just like this beautiful lake that's this gorgeous blue
(15:36):
color and there's mountains in the background, and I feel
like it's cute. And it's also like you can barely
see my face in it. It's literally like it's just
mean away after I dove in, you can sleep night.
I mean, I could have done just the landscape, but
the landscape alone just I don't know what hits different
with my body in it. You're right, it does. It
(16:02):
does a different when I can see that white ass
up in the air. Speaking of asses, I had farted
the other day. Yeah, obviously every day for you. Yeah, well,
multiple times, Andrew goes, oh, I love it when you fart,
and I was like, what the fuck? You know, we're
just weird some times, and I was like what. He goes,
I love it when you do that because that means
that you're in a good mood. Why, no, one doesn't
(16:26):
in normally it means my stomach hurson. Yeah, and he goes, well, okay, maybe,
but he goes, I mean when you fart, it means
that you're happy with me, because when you get mad
at me, you don't far in front of me. Oh
my gosh. The fact that he is like, put this together,
but it's so true, won't why? I don't know, because
(16:50):
we're like barely talking and I'm not gonna lee all
to fart, like because it'll make it'll lighten the mood
and you want to keep things. Oh okay, okay, yeah,
it's so apparently to him that is hilarious. When he
was like, that means you're in a good mood, I
was like, no, it and it probably means I ate something.
Now my stomach hurts for the next three hours every
day though, Jenny, you're two, and so that mean just
(17:11):
eat something weird every single day. We got this email
and here we go a little vent sash. She says, Hey,
Fallon and Jenny ufda, do I need a vent sessh
with two awesome women I trust can make me feel
better by the end of this Sorry, I have to
swallow my sliva. For the last few years, my third
place has consistently been the park a few blocks from
(17:34):
where I live. For those who are unfamiliar what a
third place is, it's a social environment that doesn't include
your home or workplace. That was new to me. I
had not heard of that before. Oh Drake had talked
about that on our show once, so I learned to
look at like a handful of months ago. Other places
can be cafes, churches, gyms, et cetera. I love this
park because it's family friendly, has a lot of courts
and fields for various sports for people to play, usually
(17:56):
has community events and kickball tournaments, and it's only a
five minute walk to Dinky Town to grab a bite
to eat. But in the last month, I've had three
separate occurrences happen that don't make me feel confident in
my third place as much, or at least it makes
me think twice before going now. First occurrence, I was
reading a book on some bleachers that sit next to
a baseball field. I usually will sit there if nobody
(18:17):
is in the field practicing because it's a nice secluded
spot to read. As I was reading, I all of
a sudden am startled and almost yip out a noise
when a loud, crashing noise hits against the chain fence
right across from me on the bleachers. A guy maybe
early twenties is standing there staring at me, and he
threw a baseball about ten feet away from the fence
full force. I stared back at him for a couple
(18:37):
of seconds, giving him the wtface. But I go back
to reading, and twenty seconds later, he throws the ball again,
not even ten feet away from the fence, toward the
fence and stares at me while doing it. Pretty sure,
if you're practicing your pitch, that's not the way you
do it. I immediately got up and left and went to
a beach yards away, and the guy stopped doing it.
What the hell. The second occurrence was when I was
(19:01):
walking back through the park to go back home and
I was passing the jungle gym area filled with kids.
An older guy behind shouts super loud, buck that ass
up at me in front of a ton of kids.
Oh God. I didn't acknowledge him and just continued walking home.
The third occurrence was when I was walking along the
sidewalk right by the park and I'm about to pass
this guy who looks like an MGK want to be
(19:23):
walking two large huskies. Instead of moving over a little
or having his dogs move to the side, he takes
up the whole sidewalk and his dogs end up jumping
on me and pushing me to the hand railing by
these steps. The guy doesn't give a crap and continues
to walk as I say, what the actual fuck to him? Seriously,
three occurrences with shitty men without a month within a
month just makes me. I don't know, I'm frustrated. I
(19:44):
feel like you two are great girls girls, and I
want my feelings of this to feel validated without any
guys trying to defend shitty behavior. Is it not shitty
behavior because I look back at these instances and there
is no excuse for them if you think about it.
Sorry for the extremely long email. You two just felt
like a safe place to share my frustrations. You both
make my days so much better when I need to
laugh or distraction thinks so much. God, the baseball thing
(20:07):
is so weird, unfortunately, the cat calling harassment thing is
so like, No, I feel for someone to do that
around a playground, to me, that's like someone who's mentally unstable,
whether that's because they're on substances or whatever it is.
But to yell something like that, to me, that's not
a mentally stable person. The baseball thing, that's creepy. Yeah,
(20:29):
that's what I was going to say. It's very creepy.
It's like he was looking at you and almost trying
to warn you of something or like intimidate you. Yeah,
he was getting your attention and then what were you
supposed to be turned on by that? Like there is
no point to that other than intimidation. Yeah, And the
husky owner just sounds like an app idiot, awful, trashy
(20:52):
person because there are just so many dog owners out
there that are not great. But you're also but yeah,
we extremely like we validate you because especially like if
one of those things happened, you'd be like what the
hell and you'd move on. But for those all three
of those to happen within one month. I understand why
you're questioning that being your place, because your third place
(21:13):
or the third face, whatever you call it, it's your
comfort spot if you're home, if your work, And now
you've chosen a third place where you feel comfortable and
they've taken that away from you, and that is shitty
male behavior on all three of their parts. So that sucks. Yeah,
it really does. So I'm sorry. I would say for me,
(21:37):
I would like probably still try going there. Yeah, I
would try probably a couple more times. Yeah, if it
continues of other random things happening, trust your gut, yeah
for sure, you know, like your intuition, and maybe be
on the lookout in the meantime for like a potential
other spot that's close to everything, if there's another park
around there. Maybe it's just like, I don't know, maybe
(22:00):
just got really unlucky in this one month. I wonder
how consistently you've been going there. Has it been like
consistently great until this one month, because then maybe, yeah,
it's like it's just something weird in the air. I
don't know. Do you think that you have a third space? Oh,
I haven't really thought about it. Off the top of
my head, No do you. I mean mine would be
(22:21):
the gym, but I don't love that. It's like more
of a routine thing. So I almost lumped that in
with like home and work being two main spaces. So no,
I mean, I've found this one coffee shop I like
to go to a lot more recently, and I work
on things at it, so I would say that, But
I also am like frugal, so I don't like to
(22:43):
go there too Hausen and spend money. So I don't
really know what it is. But Andrew brought up because
his best friend just moved from North Branch back down
into the Twin Cities. They bought a house, and he
was like, man, I'm so hyped to have my third
space back and whatever because he to go to their
house all the time when they lived here. Yeah, And
I was like, wow, like that's cool that you consider
(23:06):
your best friend's house like yeah, third space, because I
mean I have friends, yeah, but nobody that I'm like
hanging out at their house all the time. And I
mean the only two other places I frequent are I mean,
I get coffee every day, but I don't sit in
there really. In work, I go to pilates. That's like
the most regular place I go. But again, I don't
(23:28):
consider that because I'm not like reading a book or
I'm just it's like a workout routine. I will go
down by the lake because our neighborhood has like a
private beach, which is nice. But I feel like that
is would that be considered part of my home though,
And I don't go there like all the time, but
I would go down there on a walk and stop
and listen to a podcast or go on my paddle
(23:49):
board or something. I've done that like a few times
this year. I think that that is a good option
because it's I wouldn't consider it your home. Yeah, it
is a space to get away and do things. I
really do work there, But maybe that's the point to
not do work in your third space. I think it
is quite often just to like have you just like
(24:10):
have a different mental state in that third space. Right,
So I would almost consider just like the lakes and
uptown for me in general, because I either walk, run, bike,
rollerblade around like Hammock as we say, you go read
there and stuff too, So I just like it's just
a comfort zone for me. I mean I went around
(24:30):
Lake Harry at the last two weekends. Andrew and I
did Lake of the Isles other night too, So I
feel like just being around the lakes in Uptown are
probably like one of my top ones. Yeah. I know
that we haven't talked about a Qatar in a while.
I was really hot and bothered into it for a while,
(24:51):
I've been off of it. Jenny is still on the
Aqatar series, but she just finished the third third book,
so she's getting ready to enter the fourth shorter book
book YEP, which is almost like a palette cleanser between
battles and different things, and she I won't give anything
away in case you're reading it. Yeah, but she did
(25:12):
send me a photo I woke up in the morning
at like ten something PM of her crying. Yes, I
cried because I cried there too. I was gonna say,
of course, I don't want to spoil anything. So just
something happens and it left me like shocked, and it
made me feel like something that happened in the book
was something happening in my own life. You felt it, dyes, Yeah,
(25:34):
And so I just cried and cried for like five
minutes and took a picture and sended to fallon and
then I went back to reading it, and so I
found out what happens and whatever. Once again, don't want
to spoil anything, but I was shocked because I don't
think I've had an emotional reaction to a book like
that almost ever. Okay, yeah, I really don't. And have
(25:54):
you read any series though, or just like kind of
one off thing. Yeah, I guess you're right. Maybe that's why,
because you actually more connected to characters. I mean I
read Twilight, I read Hunger Games and Harry Potter. I
don't remember if there was anything that happened in Hunger
Games that I would have ever cried. Probably not, because
I could not get into Hunger Games. I read the
(26:15):
first book and I did not care. Yeah, it was
not my style. I like illegally watched the movie on
some sketchy website in college when it came Obviously, Yeah,
I loved I thought the movie was so great. And
then I think one of my roommates was reading the books,
so I was like, oh, I should read them, and
I got so into them. I was like so obsessed
with the books for a while, and I of course
can't remember the differences between the books and the movies anymore,
(26:37):
but I remember I think I thought that the books
were a little bit better than the movies. Are you
we're getting close to the Minnesota State Fair. Yeah, we
obviously work out there, both of us. But are you
looking forward to anything outside of work for the fair
this year or no? Yes, I'm going to go to
the Tea Pain and Ludacris concert. Okay, so I so
(27:00):
Andrew and I are going to my friend Tiff. We're
going to go. But then also it's like Andrew's best
friend's birthday and his wife bought a lot of tickets
for it, and I don't even think they know who's
all going yet with them, but they're going to be
out there that day, So I'm looking forward to that.
It just kind of sucks because its the Tuesday night,
which means obviously I have to be up for the
show in the morning, and it's not like it goes
(27:22):
super late anyways, But it's just the whole cluster of
getting out of the fair and getting home and going
to bed and whatever. So that. But I don't know
that I'll be out there besides my workshifts and then
for that concert. Oh, I definitely won't be. I mean,
I consider going to the I consider going to that concert.
But yeah, it was like, only if I get free
tickets from the radio station. So that's still a possibility,
(27:44):
I guess, because I'll already be there. But I just
asked for Green Day tickets. Are they that's a fair No? Oh?
I was like, wait to speak, sorry, No, yeah, okay,
it's like next week. Where's that a target field? Oh?
And my understanding is they're doing top to bottom Dukie
(28:08):
and top to bottom American idiots, and if they do
Dukie first, I will shit myself. I will do full Dukie,
and I honestly probably won't really stay for American idiots.
I don't care about American idiots. I'm like, ogee, Dukie's
one of my top ten favorite albums of all time.
So that's kind of what I'm hoping will happen, because
(28:28):
I feel like American adiants will be like the more
mass appeal popular probably so I haven't looked at their
set lists to confirm that's what they're doing, but I
didn't ask for tickets, and even with their crappy tickets,
I don't care because sick I've never seen Green Day.
I don't think I have either, and they're like a
bucket list artist for me, So I'm very excited. I
(28:51):
would love to see Luda of the like because cult
really wants to go to the Luda Tea Pain, but
he's more Tea Pain. But I'm like, again my age,
I am Luda. Oh I'm Luda. Also, yeah, I'm way
more Luda. And Andrew's a huge Ludicrous fan, so and
I like t Pain. I was trying to listen. Is
Andrew like Cadillac Grills Luda or is he after I
(29:15):
would say I think he is. I honestly don't know
if I know he knows like every Ludicrous song though okay,
I swear if that comes on, So I don't know
what he likes better though Okay, he he is. It's
so interesting his music taste to me because he knows
like every single Luda song, eminem ACEP Rocky. But then
(29:37):
he's like Lumineer is a hosier or camp and like
like he has such a but I also am kind
of like that too. I have a very wide range
of artists I like, but he really actually knows like
every lyric to every word of like those kind of
bands or rappers or whatever, gotcha. Well, if you want
(29:59):
to give me and of your tickets for free for
the ludicrous t paying concert because someone's sick, let me know.
I'll let you know. I'm getting my tickets from the
radio station, though, so I must tell you are to
get them too. Okay, I did ask, well, as soon
as I think you were the first one to ask,
because then Cold asked and Ted was like, god, Jenny
already asked, and I'm like, get ready because it's one
that everyone's going to want to go to. Yeah, so no,
(30:21):
I yeah, no, I did ask, And I'm almost actually
to a point where I might see how much the
tickets are that Andrew's best friend and them, God if
they have extra ones, just because it would be fun
to just be by them. And I wouldn't mind paying
like a little bit of money for them, wouldn't. Are
you fucking sure they're cheapskate? You're right, I would mind,
(30:42):
but if they happen to have act. The only thing though,
is that I did tell my friend Tif that I
got us ticket, so then I'd have to probably pay
for her ticket. Then if I don't have a free
ticket for her, so then that might not work. And
I'm definitely too cheap to pay for a two tickets. Well, yeah,
I don't blame you. I don't feel like you're right.
I would probably like, yeah, let's do it, but it
would suck to think you're getting free tickets to then
(31:03):
be like, okay, it's one hundred and fifty dollars. I
don't know they're cheap. I think they're expensive. Yeah, I know,
I agree, but well, the grand stand when you're actually
in the bleachers, usually those ones aren't too too bad,
like fifty, but probably I guess with taxes, fees and
the bullshit, it probably is more than that. When that'd
be funny if on Ticketmaster I said taxes line, fees line,
the bullshit line, that's pretty much what would be. I'm
(31:25):
gonna call this episode taxes, fees and BS. Okay, I
love that. All right, that's time. Okay, I love you.
Thanks for listening it off real quick. You didn't want
to ask me. Bye,
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