August 16, 2023 • 10 mins
Brad and Jennifer first matched on Bumble a few months ago and actually have gone on multiple dates since meeting. Brad tells us that while they were still dating that they would text each other all the time right before the date, but that it would be several days before Jennifer would text Brad to keep things going. On their last date Brad and Jennifer got dinner and drinks, which Brad says nothing went wrong, but he’s note even sure if Jennifer is actually interested in dating him or if she is just using him.
We call Jennifer trying to figure out if there is anything else between her and Brad that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and she tells us that she wasn’t a fan of how Brad made decisions! Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
We call Jennifer trying to figure out if there is anything else between her and Brad that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and she tells us that she wasn’t a fan of how Brad made decisions! Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
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(00:00):
Second date update. I interned Johnin your morning show. You match with
somebody, You on a date withsomebody, whatever it is, you think
they could break the mold, theycould be your person. Then he stopped
hearing from them. We traft figureout what's going on. Brad, Good
morning, sir, Hey, goodmorning. This is a little bit different,
dude, because usually a second dateupdate is you've been on a date
(00:22):
or two dates, but you andJennifer go back three months kind of explain
what's going on. Yeah, Idon't mean they don't really have like a
fifth or sixth date update, butI guess I need one of those.
Yeah, what's happening? So,like, I mean, you know,
we messed on bumbles. I wantto say, like three months ago,
(00:42):
we've been on several like I said, four or five day I'm not sure
how many dates we've been on severalit was like, you know, basically
every other week just kind of seeeach other again, nothing serious whatever,
but more than Carrisable, I think. And it's just it's been more really
like it's been nothing for three weeksnow, like and I'm just it makes
(01:04):
no sense, you know, likeif we were if we were going good
and then I don't know. Ijust so we matched three months ago.
How many dates have we gone on? Roughly? Maybe maybe four, five
or three? I don't know.Somewhere they are about Okay, let's let's
go with five. And then werewe talking every day? Were we talking
(01:25):
weekly? How long was how oftenwas it communication? Probably I would say
at least weekly. It's always alwaystexting, Okay. And then from the
last time seen her to her stoptalking to you? How many how many
days between that last time? Maybethree weeks? It's been a while,
(01:48):
yep, I'm saying, like,so the last time you saw her in
person, how long until after thatdid she stop talking to you? Be
sorry? On Monday? When wasthe last time you heard from her?
Like actually, be sure? Aspine to a text or something like that.
Probably maybe like two weeks, aweek and a half, I mean,
like the set like two to answertext, never initiate them, sure,
(02:08):
and then it just kind of gotlike longer and longer from responses,
and then nothing was she answering likeconversationally or was it like short two one
word answers where it's like clearly shewasn't interested in conversation. More of the
second one okay, more that one? Yeah, okay. And the last
(02:29):
time you guys hung out, what'dyou do is dinner? Movies? Come
over? I think we just hadsome We just had like dinner and some
drinks. Okay. So and nothingfrom that stands out as like, oh,
this would be why she doesn't wantto talk to me. No,
And I would tell you, liketrust me, like I would, I
would be like, oh oh yeah, I definitely like this thing happened.
(02:50):
But yeah, listen, okay,So let me do this. We'll call
her, try to gear go onwith this and figure out what's up,
okay, because I do think it'sit's a bit peculiar that this has been
going on. You know, threemonths is a long time, right,
It's been a while, not oneday. And she didn't like me.
Now I got you, okay,So let me try to get her on.
We'll see what's going on. Here. I get Jennifer on the phone.
(03:22):
Hello, Ali calling for Jennifer please, Hey, it's a interns John.
I got Sauce Rose here as well. We talked to you in the
air real quick. Oh my gosh, nothing bad, nothing bad, I
promise, but like this a quicksecond, is okay? Yes, okay,
we are doing a second date updateand appreciate you. I've given us
(03:43):
a time. Jennifer. I havesomebody on the other line who matched with
you on dat APF three months ago. I guess you guys has some dates.
He hasn't hurt from me a sensebrand if you want to say hello,
Hi, perfect right on time.And Jennifer, so where is trying
to figure out what's going on?This is so weird because I literally just
(04:05):
told my girlfriend the other day thatI think he's going to do something like
this. I thought he was gonnado a second date update. Yeah,
okay, I did. Okay,so here we are. I didn't want
to. I did not want to, but I guess I did. Wow,
(04:26):
what's going on? Listen? Brad'sreally fun. But the main reason
I just decided, you know,this is not for me is because his
main way of decision making is flippinga coin. Yeah, he like flips
(04:48):
a coin for every And I'm nottalking like dinner. I'm not talking like
pizza, chicken wings or you know, not talking like that. I'm talking
like pay the cable bill or theelectric bill, flip a okay, like
big major life decisions like which apartmentto live in, or you know,
like he told me, like whatcollege he went to, that's how he
(05:11):
decided a coin flip. Yeah,And I'm and like, it's not like
a fun thing like this is somethinglike he told me that he makes his
own luck and that's why he doesit that way. This is like his
bible. Okay, Brad? Yeah, is that how he and no shame
in the game? Certainly? ByIs that true? Well? Yeah,
(05:32):
absolutely, it's true. Yeah.I didn't think it would be this huge
issue, but I mean it makeseverything easier thinking about how often you have
a problem making a decision and thenyou don't know which one to do,
and then you have like buyer's remorseand you're like, oh, I wish
i'd done the other thing. Inever have that. I never have regret.
(05:54):
Okay, So I have you usedit in like every area your life?
Yeah? All aspects? All aspects? Fair fair question to ask.
Have I used it in dating?All aspects my every okay? All right,
all right, all right, letme do this. I'm gonna put
you guys in hold real quick.Are you a team? Brad? A
team? Jennifer eight seven, seven, nine nine five four six eight one
(06:17):
to call me nine nine three threeeight to text second date update on intern
John and Your Morning Show. Thatintern John and Your Morning Show. We
just talked to Brad and Jennifer.It's a little bit of different scenario because
they've been hanging out for I guessover the course of three months. She
thought was on that for major decisions. My man flipped a coin neither here
(06:39):
nor there would love your thoughts eightseven, seven, nine, nine five
four six say one or on holdsShelby sauce your thoughts. It is totally
weirdly does that sure? But havethey been hanging out that much? Why
did she keep doing it? Sheshould have told him instead of ghosting him.
Yeah, I guess, like ifit's worked for him this long too,
I don't know. I mean it'skind of like I do it,
(07:00):
flip the coin for like uber eats. Sometimes it's a small thing, ye,
yeah, not whish bill to pay. Yeah, that's a little bit
different. Yeah, he's doing itfor everything. The thing that bothers me
most if I were in her situationis he flipped a coin to decide to
date me. Yeah. That's abad that's a bad thing to admit that's
bad. Like if you're using theflip a coin method for small things in
(07:20):
life, what to eat, whatto wear, cool, that's great for
big life decisions. Eventually, she'sgonna be like, Okay, we're gonna
get to a point where, oh, is he gonna break up with me?
Or are we gonna get married?Guess we have to flip a coin.
I don't want to lead that toa coin. Now. Yeah,
that's fair. Yeah, that's evenif he did that, brother, don't
admit it. Yeah, it's notgonna it's not gonna help your case.
No, let me go in Hyattsville, tearn, good morning, good morning.
(07:45):
All right, So you used todo the coin flip for big decisions.
I actually used to have an appon my phone, but that was
literally when I was a teenager.Okay, yeah, well there's that permit
for serious life decisions, there needsto be serious thought because just like another
just like you said, if youwere choosing to marry someone, I want
to you know, I want someoneto think long and hard about it.
(08:05):
It's not something you just flip acoin on. Yeah, kids, So
Terry, So you're saying, ifif somebody said they couldn't marry you because
they flipped a coin and didn't land. Right, you're saying that's not a
good reason. It is not agood reason. I would say thank you
and goodbye. Yeah, honestly Iwent to yes, all right, Taren,
thank you for listening. I havea great day. You're welcome,
my man. Man. Let mego in that beautiful Glenn Bernie Jason,
(08:30):
good morning, sir, Hey,good morning. You're on her side was
seconded. Update what'd you want tosay? So? First off, absolutely,
flipping a coin from major decisions nota good thing. If it was
just for like a meal, somethinglike that, from silly, sure,
why not. But before he evenbefore we even got Jennifer on the phone,
(08:50):
he couldn't even remember anything. It'sI mean, he didn't know how
many dates he was on. Hedidn't know any time for probably because he
was flipping the coin too much.In Jennifer's defense, I bet she flipped
a coin to stop talking to him. They listen, amen, Jason do
thank you for listening. I havea great day, my man. Jason
(09:15):
brings up a good point. Ido wonder if because he didn't put so
flipping the coin right this last thinking, so maybe he legitimately doesn't remember a
lot of things because he didn't hadto put I didn't put a thought into
making a decision, and he's likeused to living that way, which is
sad. Let me go in Hyattsville, Sam, good morning, Good morning.
What do you want to say withsecond date updates? Sam? So,
(09:37):
first of all, I wanted tosay he sounded so annoying in the
beginning. He just had to keepjustifying himself like, oh, well I
did this, but because it's becauseyeah, that's an I've dealt with people
like that. Second of all,I agree with the previous caller with with
(09:58):
the terms of Mary, Like,if I'm dating you, this is just
from my perspective. If I'm datingyou, it's for a reason. And
I don't want to base my futureon your coin flip, you know.
Yeah that's fair. Yeah, yeah, that's that's kind of hard to like
change your whole life because it happenedland tails, which never fails. And
(10:20):
all agree with that. And howdo you make decisions when you're a couple
when one person wants to do itthe coin way and the other person doesn't
up a coin see who's right?Absolutely? Sam, thank you for listening.
To have a great day you too. May You can continue over text
nine nine three three if you wantto do a second date up date dms
are always open at y Miss Radiointern John and your more Nation I Heart Radio
Second date update. I interned Johnin your morning show. You match with
somebody, You on a date withsomebody, whatever it is, you think
they could break the mold, theycould be your person. Then he stopped
hearing from them. We traft figureout what's going on. Brad, Good
morning, sir, Hey, goodmorning. This is a little bit different,
dude, because usually a second dateupdate is you've been on a date
(00:22):
or two dates, but you andJennifer go back three months kind of explain
what's going on. Yeah, Idon't mean they don't really have like a
fifth or sixth date update, butI guess I need one of those.
Yeah, what's happening? So,like, I mean, you know,
we messed on bumbles. I wantto say, like three months ago,
(00:42):
we've been on several like I said, four or five day I'm not sure
how many dates we've been on severalit was like, you know, basically
every other week just kind of seeeach other again, nothing serious whatever,
but more than Carrisable, I think. And it's just it's been more really
like it's been nothing for three weeksnow, like and I'm just it makes
(01:04):
no sense, you know, likeif we were if we were going good
and then I don't know. Ijust so we matched three months ago.
How many dates have we gone on? Roughly? Maybe maybe four, five
or three? I don't know.Somewhere they are about Okay, let's let's
go with five. And then werewe talking every day? Were we talking
(01:25):
weekly? How long was how oftenwas it communication? Probably I would say
at least weekly. It's always alwaystexting, Okay. And then from the
last time seen her to her stoptalking to you? How many how many
days between that last time? Maybethree weeks? It's been a while,
(01:48):
yep, I'm saying, like,so the last time you saw her in
person, how long until after thatdid she stop talking to you? Be
sorry? On Monday? When wasthe last time you heard from her?
Like actually, be sure? Aspine to a text or something like that.
Probably maybe like two weeks, aweek and a half, I mean,
like the set like two to answertext, never initiate them, sure,
(02:08):
and then it just kind of gotlike longer and longer from responses,
and then nothing was she answering likeconversationally or was it like short two one
word answers where it's like clearly shewasn't interested in conversation. More of the
second one okay, more that one? Yeah, okay. And the last
(02:29):
time you guys hung out, what'dyou do is dinner? Movies? Come
over? I think we just hadsome We just had like dinner and some
drinks. Okay. So and nothingfrom that stands out as like, oh,
this would be why she doesn't wantto talk to me. No,
And I would tell you, liketrust me, like I would, I
would be like, oh oh yeah, I definitely like this thing happened.
(02:50):
But yeah, listen, okay,So let me do this. We'll call
her, try to gear go onwith this and figure out what's up,
okay, because I do think it'sit's a bit peculiar that this has been
going on. You know, threemonths is a long time, right,
It's been a while, not oneday. And she didn't like me.
Now I got you, okay,So let me try to get her on.
We'll see what's going on. Here. I get Jennifer on the phone.
(03:22):
Hello, Ali calling for Jennifer please, Hey, it's a interns John.
I got Sauce Rose here as well. We talked to you in the
air real quick. Oh my gosh, nothing bad, nothing bad, I
promise, but like this a quicksecond, is okay? Yes, okay,
we are doing a second date updateand appreciate you. I've given us
(03:43):
a time. Jennifer. I havesomebody on the other line who matched with
you on dat APF three months ago. I guess you guys has some dates.
He hasn't hurt from me a sensebrand if you want to say hello,
Hi, perfect right on time.And Jennifer, so where is trying
to figure out what's going on?This is so weird because I literally just
(04:05):
told my girlfriend the other day thatI think he's going to do something like
this. I thought he was gonnado a second date update. Yeah,
okay, I did. Okay,so here we are. I didn't want
to. I did not want to, but I guess I did. Wow,
(04:26):
what's going on? Listen? Brad'sreally fun. But the main reason
I just decided, you know,this is not for me is because his
main way of decision making is flippinga coin. Yeah, he like flips
(04:48):
a coin for every And I'm nottalking like dinner. I'm not talking like
pizza, chicken wings or you know, not talking like that. I'm talking
like pay the cable bill or theelectric bill, flip a okay, like
big major life decisions like which apartmentto live in, or you know,
like he told me, like whatcollege he went to, that's how he
(05:11):
decided a coin flip. Yeah,And I'm and like, it's not like
a fun thing like this is somethinglike he told me that he makes his
own luck and that's why he doesit that way. This is like his
bible. Okay, Brad? Yeah, is that how he and no shame
in the game? Certainly? ByIs that true? Well? Yeah,
(05:32):
absolutely, it's true. Yeah.I didn't think it would be this huge
issue, but I mean it makeseverything easier thinking about how often you have
a problem making a decision and thenyou don't know which one to do,
and then you have like buyer's remorseand you're like, oh, I wish
i'd done the other thing. Inever have that. I never have regret.
(05:54):
Okay, So I have you usedit in like every area your life?
Yeah? All aspects? All aspects? Fair fair question to ask.
Have I used it in dating?All aspects my every okay? All right,
all right, all right, letme do this. I'm gonna put
you guys in hold real quick.Are you a team? Brad? A
team? Jennifer eight seven, seven, nine nine five four six eight one
(06:17):
to call me nine nine three threeeight to text second date update on intern
John and Your Morning Show. Thatintern John and Your Morning Show. We
just talked to Brad and Jennifer.It's a little bit of different scenario because
they've been hanging out for I guessover the course of three months. She
thought was on that for major decisions. My man flipped a coin neither here
(06:39):
nor there would love your thoughts eightseven, seven, nine, nine five
four six say one or on holdsShelby sauce your thoughts. It is totally
weirdly does that sure? But havethey been hanging out that much? Why
did she keep doing it? Sheshould have told him instead of ghosting him.
Yeah, I guess, like ifit's worked for him this long too,
I don't know. I mean it'skind of like I do it,
(07:00):
flip the coin for like uber eats. Sometimes it's a small thing, ye,
yeah, not whish bill to pay. Yeah, that's a little bit
different. Yeah, he's doing itfor everything. The thing that bothers me
most if I were in her situationis he flipped a coin to decide to
date me. Yeah. That's abad that's a bad thing to admit that's
bad. Like if you're using theflip a coin method for small things in
(07:20):
life, what to eat, whatto wear, cool, that's great for
big life decisions. Eventually, she'sgonna be like, Okay, we're gonna
get to a point where, oh, is he gonna break up with me?
Or are we gonna get married?Guess we have to flip a coin.
I don't want to lead that toa coin. Now. Yeah,
that's fair. Yeah, that's evenif he did that, brother, don't
admit it. Yeah, it's notgonna it's not gonna help your case.
No, let me go in Hyattsville, tearn, good morning, good morning.
(07:45):
All right, So you used todo the coin flip for big decisions.
I actually used to have an appon my phone, but that was
literally when I was a teenager.Okay, yeah, well there's that permit
for serious life decisions, there needsto be serious thought because just like another
just like you said, if youwere choosing to marry someone, I want
to you know, I want someoneto think long and hard about it.
(08:05):
It's not something you just flip acoin on. Yeah, kids, So
Terry, So you're saying, ifif somebody said they couldn't marry you because
they flipped a coin and didn't land. Right, you're saying that's not a
good reason. It is not agood reason. I would say thank you
and goodbye. Yeah, honestly Iwent to yes, all right, Taren,
thank you for listening. I havea great day. You're welcome,
my man. Man. Let mego in that beautiful Glenn Bernie Jason,
(08:30):
good morning, sir, Hey,good morning. You're on her side was
seconded. Update what'd you want tosay? So? First off, absolutely,
flipping a coin from major decisions nota good thing. If it was
just for like a meal, somethinglike that, from silly, sure,
why not. But before he evenbefore we even got Jennifer on the phone,
(08:50):
he couldn't even remember anything. It'sI mean, he didn't know how
many dates he was on. Hedidn't know any time for probably because he
was flipping the coin too much.In Jennifer's defense, I bet she flipped
a coin to stop talking to him. They listen, amen, Jason do
thank you for listening. I havea great day, my man. Jason
(09:15):
brings up a good point. Ido wonder if because he didn't put so
flipping the coin right this last thinking, so maybe he legitimately doesn't remember a
lot of things because he didn't hadto put I didn't put a thought into
making a decision, and he's likeused to living that way, which is
sad. Let me go in Hyattsville, Sam, good morning, Good morning.
What do you want to say withsecond date updates? Sam? So,
(09:37):
first of all, I wanted tosay he sounded so annoying in the
beginning. He just had to keepjustifying himself like, oh, well I
did this, but because it's becauseyeah, that's an I've dealt with people
like that. Second of all,I agree with the previous caller with with
(09:58):
the terms of Mary, Like,if I'm dating you, this is just
from my perspective. If I'm datingyou, it's for a reason. And
I don't want to base my futureon your coin flip, you know.
Yeah that's fair. Yeah, yeah, that's that's kind of hard to like
change your whole life because it happenedland tails, which never fails. And
(10:20):
all agree with that. And howdo you make decisions when you're a couple
when one person wants to do itthe coin way and the other person doesn't
up a coin see who's right?Absolutely? Sam, thank you for listening.
To have a great day you too. May You can continue over text
nine nine three three if you wantto do a second date up date dms
are always open at y Miss Radiointern John and your more Nation I Heart Radio
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