June 14, 2023 • 10 mins
Matt and Courtney first met on Tinder about three weeks ago and it only took them a few days before they actually met when they got coffee together. Matt tells us that they also FaceTimed each other a lot during their “two and a half dates,” but after their last date Matt tells us things have been off. Matt tells us they haven’t kissed yet, but he thought things were going in the right direction and isn’t sure what to do next.
We call Courtney trying to figure out if there is anything else between her and Matt that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and Courtney tells us that Matt has someone else in the picture. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
We call Courtney trying to figure out if there is anything else between her and Matt that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and Courtney tells us that Matt has someone else in the picture. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
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(00:00):
Your morning shows. It's second dateupdate in turns John in your morning show.
Let me have explained how this works. You go on a date with
somebody, you feel like there's aconnection, like maybe they could be the
one. Then they stopped talking toyou. We need try to figure out
what's going on. Matt, Goodmorning, sir, good morning. How
are you? Yeah? Man,So walk me through this. You and
(00:22):
Cartney met where so we went onTinder? Actually okay, and that was
about a long ago. That wasthat was about me three weeks ago?
Okay, yeah, about three weeksago. And who made the who made
the first move? I actually madethe first move? Okay, okay,
looks pretty good. Okay. Andso how long from Tinder to talking on
(00:45):
the phone or texting? I wouldsay a couple of days. It really
wasn't It wasn't that crazy because Imean the first time we met, we
got some coffee. Okay, actualdate date? Got it? Okay,
because that's the thing I want totalk about. You say was two and
a half dates? Does that meansomebody laugh to date or but no,
no, no, it was justI mean I say, I say days,
(01:07):
so we just got coffee. Yeah, we're crazy, like a couple
of times and like, yeah,okay, god okay. And so the
one thing that's different about your casethan most others, you guys FaceTime and
I talked on the phone a lot, not just like texting, but liked
conversations. Yeah, yeah, wedid. Okay, That to me is
(01:27):
like a good sign, I feellike, because that's actually facetiming somebody you
just met. That's a little bitdifficult. But the conversation was pretty seamless.
I mean, yeah, it waspretty seamless. But I think everybody
should be facetiming before, you know, before it even during date needed just
because like yeah, I'm not judging, okay, And so we do coffee,
(01:49):
we do. We had drinks aswell, and then dinner. Yeah,
yeah exactly. But it was reallyit was really low key. Wasn't
anything crazy like well like there wasthere's nothing. I mean, I wouldn't
really say romantic. It was justwere getting to know each other. Okay,
Well that changes thinks that if itwasn't romantic, like because that to
(02:09):
me might be a well well,I mean it's like you know, you
meet someone for the first time,and like the first few times you getting
to know each other like you're you'rejust kind of like playing to feel a
bit like it's nothing too crazy,but still romantic though, right, Like
did we like pay for dinner andthat type of thing. Do we kiss?
(02:30):
Oh yeah, no, we're notkiss. Okay, we not kiss.
That's why I said it was aromantic. But so it was very
much so like fucking kay to knoweach other. But she knows it's a
date though, right because and thisa little word, you say it's not
romantic that she maybe didn't know hisdate. Oh no, you know,
she knows the date. Okay,And so we have HERFM a week and
(02:50):
a half since since dinner. Yeah, you know, things are going well,
you know, like we're facetiming regularly. We I mean we went on
well, we had coffee, wehad we had dinner, we had a
bunch of stuff, and it wasjust like all of a sudden, just
nothing. You know. I triedto message her tender and I'm blocked him.
Okay, I don't know what doesthat happen? So I mean I
(03:13):
would like to continue things. Yeah, well maybe this we'll call her,
we'll get her on, try tofigure things out, because it seems like
you've done everything I want to beworried about the sheet. Thought maybe it
wasn't romantic. But yeah, let'stry I get around with us and see
what happens. Uh. Hello,I calling for Courtney playse. This is
(03:38):
Courtney Courtney. My name is inturn John. I got Rose here as
well from your mort show. Canwe talk to in the air real quick
about something nothing bad, real quickly, like two seconds of your time?
Um, okay, okay, allright, awesome. So we're doing a
second date update. I got somebodyon the phone here who told us they
(03:59):
want a couple dates. The youa few weeks back and haven't heard since,
Matt, if you want to say, hello, hey, perfect?
All right, so corny you Iheard the yeah, exhale. So you
know who Mad is? Yeah?I know who that is? Okay,
And so Matt was kind of wondering. He told us the background as far
as dating and uh talking the phoneand that kind of stuff. Why we've
(04:23):
pulled back? Really? I meanyou should know, Matt to use No,
I have no idea. Okay,well, um, yeah, sure,
but you left out some information Ithink that might be pertinent, like
(04:46):
what don't let me asking? Well, did he tell you that he has
a girlfriend that's like completely unaware ofthe fact that he was on Tender trying
to date me. No, thatpart to not get brought up in the
conversation. Matt, Matt, Matt, Matt, Yeah, well she has
(05:08):
a husband. Your girlfriend does orhusband Cartney does? I do? Yes?
But but the thing about what isyes. But the thing about that
is we have an open, defined, open relationship. We talk about everything.
He knows everything. Okay, opencommunication. That's our agreement, and
(05:30):
it's completely above board, okay withMatt. Girlfriend had no clue we were
out. Okay, Matt, howdo you know that? You wait,
but that's really not that. That'snot like the issue though, because that
the year you basically confirmed it.So, Matt, you went on Tinder
even though you have a girlfriend.Yeah, yeah I did. Why you
(05:55):
know, I think that's a problem. I mean I always swipe on people
who are have husbands or half relationship. But yeah, but your girlfriend doesn't
know you're on the app though,that's the problem, Like that's the issue.
Yes, she doesn't know, butyou know it's okay, all right,
all right, I'm gonna put youguys all right for any apologize wasting
(06:19):
time? Are you team Matt,team Courtney, My goodness nine three eight
attacks call me eight seven seven ninenine five four six say one secondary up
date In turn, Johnny Marty Chevyhas talked to Matt in Courtney would love
your thoughts eight seven seven nine ninetyfive four six say one Rose would go
to finds your thoughts with them.I think he's dumb. Yeah, you
(06:41):
can't call someone out for having ahusband when they're obviously in an open relationship
and their husband knows everything and yourperson doesn't. Yeah. Um, the
whole thing's and by the way,Eric talked for during the song, she's
cool with us, keep to keepgoing. So that's um, we're all
clear than that part that it isn'todd like oh yeah, but but she's
(07:04):
married. Yeah, but you knewthat when you're going into it, and
it sounds like her and her husbandhad that kind of communication. Yeah.
Yeah, we say no judgment here. As long as you're happy, let
me go. Jermaine, good morning, Hey, good morning, Hey man.
Listen, I've been listening to youguys for years. I just started
listening back a few weeks ago.I did not know that you ran the
(07:26):
show. Now, Yeah, congratulationsman, I'm excited for you. But
anyway, Jermaine, who is thisguy? But he has the audacity?
I may Oh, I know,I know. By the way, Wait,
Jermaine, I have so many questionsfor you, brother. So why
did you Why did you come backafter a couple of weeks ago? What
what made you come back? Oh? Man, I was I was going
(07:46):
through a little stuff, a littlelike changes and stuff, and I wasn't
even listening to the radio. Andone morning, about two or three weeks
ago, I turned turned it onand I realized that you actually run the
show in turn John Morning Show.I've been listening to you guys for a
long time, way back when itwas you know, the other people.
Listen, Naddie and Nosten. Iappreciate you, dude, Well listen Ja
(08:11):
man, I'm glad you're back.Dude. I'm glad glad you got food
whatever you're going throughdude, thank youso much for listening to a great day.
Oh cool, all right, man, appreciate you and thank you so
much for calling. Yeah, andat a side now too. Anybody who's
going through something right now, that'sproof it comes out on the other side.
It will get better. Let megoing hanover. Emily, good morning,
good morning. What do you wantto say with second date update?
(08:35):
Sorry, let's say that again.Yeah, what'd you want to say with
second date update? Oh? Isaid I was on team court Man.
Matt just really need to grow up? Yeah, yes, yeah, great,
yeah, I think that's kind offair. Emily, thank you for
calling it a great day? Yeah, thank you? Bye, I mean
giving Fort Washington. Nicole, goodmorning, good morning, you heard second
day update. What do you wantto say, girl, I am on
(08:56):
team Matt's girlfriend, I hope yes, the show and dumps his whole bitch.
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,the audacity man said, yeah,
Nichole, thanks, we're all onthe same page. Nicole, thank you
for call. I have a greatday. Thank you, my man,
my man. By the way,we if we can get her back her
(09:18):
figure out how she found out thathe had a girlfriend. I would love
to know that side of the story. Miguel is Sarah, good morning,
good morning, you heard a secondto update. What do you want to
say? Obviously team Courtney, ButI'm also gonna say when Nichole said and
go with team as girlfriend, that'sjust terrible. Yeah, because I would
(09:39):
I would wonder then Sarah, howlong he's beound the app for do you
know what I mean? Like,how long has you been doing this?
And how many maybe we don't knowabout you know that's true. So I
have my own shop cutting men's hair, and you'd be surprised how many people
who are in supposed monogamous relationships andthey're on these app It's pretty sad.
(10:01):
Oh it's wild. Hopefully they'll getcaught. Sarah, thank you so much
for calling. I have a fantasticday, my mom. Man appreciate you
a listen live texts coming into TeamCourtney. Um, Team Courtney. Matt
needs to grow up Team Courtney.Yes, yeah, we say no judgment,
but my goodness, a little hard. Yeah. If you want to
(10:22):
do a second date update very symbold m us on the gram at y
MS Radio. Give us your info, give us their info, how to
contact. We try and bring peopletogether. Right. If I miss it
on the show, I download thepodcast your morning show
Your morning shows. It's second dateupdate in turns John in your morning show.
Let me have explained how this works. You go on a date with
somebody, you feel like there's aconnection, like maybe they could be the
one. Then they stopped talking toyou. We need try to figure out
what's going on. Matt, Goodmorning, sir, good morning. How
are you? Yeah? Man,So walk me through this. You and
(00:22):
Cartney met where so we went onTinder? Actually okay, and that was
about a long ago. That wasthat was about me three weeks ago?
Okay, yeah, about three weeksago. And who made the who made
the first move? I actually madethe first move? Okay, okay,
looks pretty good. Okay. Andso how long from Tinder to talking on
(00:45):
the phone or texting? I wouldsay a couple of days. It really
wasn't It wasn't that crazy because Imean the first time we met, we
got some coffee. Okay, actualdate date? Got it? Okay,
because that's the thing I want totalk about. You say was two and
a half dates? Does that meansomebody laugh to date or but no,
no, no, it was justI mean I say, I say days,
(01:07):
so we just got coffee. Yeah, we're crazy, like a couple
of times and like, yeah,okay, god okay. And so the
one thing that's different about your casethan most others, you guys FaceTime and
I talked on the phone a lot, not just like texting, but liked
conversations. Yeah, yeah, wedid. Okay, That to me is
(01:27):
like a good sign, I feellike, because that's actually facetiming somebody you
just met. That's a little bitdifficult. But the conversation was pretty seamless.
I mean, yeah, it waspretty seamless. But I think everybody
should be facetiming before, you know, before it even during date needed just
because like yeah, I'm not judging, okay, And so we do coffee,
(01:49):
we do. We had drinks aswell, and then dinner. Yeah,
yeah exactly. But it was reallyit was really low key. Wasn't
anything crazy like well like there wasthere's nothing. I mean, I wouldn't
really say romantic. It was justwere getting to know each other. Okay,
Well that changes thinks that if itwasn't romantic, like because that to
(02:09):
me might be a well well,I mean it's like you know, you
meet someone for the first time,and like the first few times you getting
to know each other like you're you'rejust kind of like playing to feel a
bit like it's nothing too crazy,but still romantic though, right, Like
did we like pay for dinner andthat type of thing. Do we kiss?
(02:30):
Oh yeah, no, we're notkiss. Okay, we not kiss.
That's why I said it was aromantic. But so it was very
much so like fucking kay to knoweach other. But she knows it's a
date though, right because and thisa little word, you say it's not
romantic that she maybe didn't know hisdate. Oh no, you know,
she knows the date. Okay,And so we have HERFM a week and
(02:50):
a half since since dinner. Yeah, you know, things are going well,
you know, like we're facetiming regularly. We I mean we went on
well, we had coffee, wehad we had dinner, we had a
bunch of stuff, and it wasjust like all of a sudden, just
nothing. You know. I triedto message her tender and I'm blocked him.
Okay, I don't know what doesthat happen? So I mean I
(03:13):
would like to continue things. Yeah, well maybe this we'll call her,
we'll get her on, try tofigure things out, because it seems like
you've done everything I want to beworried about the sheet. Thought maybe it
wasn't romantic. But yeah, let'stry I get around with us and see
what happens. Uh. Hello,I calling for Courtney playse. This is
(03:38):
Courtney Courtney. My name is inturn John. I got Rose here as
well from your mort show. Canwe talk to in the air real quick
about something nothing bad, real quickly, like two seconds of your time?
Um, okay, okay, allright, awesome. So we're doing a
second date update. I got somebodyon the phone here who told us they
(03:59):
want a couple dates. The youa few weeks back and haven't heard since,
Matt, if you want to say, hello, hey, perfect?
All right, so corny you Iheard the yeah, exhale. So you
know who Mad is? Yeah?I know who that is? Okay,
And so Matt was kind of wondering. He told us the background as far
as dating and uh talking the phoneand that kind of stuff. Why we've
(04:23):
pulled back? Really? I meanyou should know, Matt to use No,
I have no idea. Okay,well, um, yeah, sure,
but you left out some information Ithink that might be pertinent, like
(04:46):
what don't let me asking? Well, did he tell you that he has
a girlfriend that's like completely unaware ofthe fact that he was on Tender trying
to date me. No, thatpart to not get brought up in the
conversation. Matt, Matt, Matt, Matt, Yeah, well she has
(05:08):
a husband. Your girlfriend does orhusband Cartney does? I do? Yes?
But but the thing about what isyes. But the thing about that
is we have an open, defined, open relationship. We talk about everything.
He knows everything. Okay, opencommunication. That's our agreement, and
(05:30):
it's completely above board, okay withMatt. Girlfriend had no clue we were
out. Okay, Matt, howdo you know that? You wait,
but that's really not that. That'snot like the issue though, because that
the year you basically confirmed it.So, Matt, you went on Tinder
even though you have a girlfriend.Yeah, yeah I did. Why you
(05:55):
know, I think that's a problem. I mean I always swipe on people
who are have husbands or half relationship. But yeah, but your girlfriend doesn't
know you're on the app though,that's the problem, Like that's the issue.
Yes, she doesn't know, butyou know it's okay, all right,
all right, I'm gonna put youguys all right for any apologize wasting
(06:19):
time? Are you team Matt,team Courtney, My goodness nine three eight
attacks call me eight seven seven ninenine five four six say one secondary up
date In turn, Johnny Marty Chevyhas talked to Matt in Courtney would love
your thoughts eight seven seven nine ninetyfive four six say one Rose would go
to finds your thoughts with them.I think he's dumb. Yeah, you
(06:41):
can't call someone out for having ahusband when they're obviously in an open relationship
and their husband knows everything and yourperson doesn't. Yeah. Um, the
whole thing's and by the way,Eric talked for during the song, she's
cool with us, keep to keepgoing. So that's um, we're all
clear than that part that it isn'todd like oh yeah, but but she's
(07:04):
married. Yeah, but you knewthat when you're going into it, and
it sounds like her and her husbandhad that kind of communication. Yeah.
Yeah, we say no judgment here. As long as you're happy, let
me go. Jermaine, good morning, Hey, good morning, Hey man.
Listen, I've been listening to youguys for years. I just started
listening back a few weeks ago.I did not know that you ran the
(07:26):
show. Now, Yeah, congratulationsman, I'm excited for you. But
anyway, Jermaine, who is thisguy? But he has the audacity?
I may Oh, I know,I know. By the way, Wait,
Jermaine, I have so many questionsfor you, brother. So why
did you Why did you come backafter a couple of weeks ago? What
what made you come back? Oh? Man, I was I was going
(07:46):
through a little stuff, a littlelike changes and stuff, and I wasn't
even listening to the radio. Andone morning, about two or three weeks
ago, I turned turned it onand I realized that you actually run the
show in turn John Morning Show.I've been listening to you guys for a
long time, way back when itwas you know, the other people.
Listen, Naddie and Nosten. Iappreciate you, dude, Well listen Ja
(08:11):
man, I'm glad you're back.Dude. I'm glad glad you got food
whatever you're going throughdude, thank youso much for listening to a great day.
Oh cool, all right, man, appreciate you and thank you so
much for calling. Yeah, andat a side now too. Anybody who's
going through something right now, that'sproof it comes out on the other side.
It will get better. Let megoing hanover. Emily, good morning,
good morning. What do you wantto say with second date update?
(08:35):
Sorry, let's say that again.Yeah, what'd you want to say with
second date update? Oh? Isaid I was on team court Man.
Matt just really need to grow up? Yeah, yes, yeah, great,
yeah, I think that's kind offair. Emily, thank you for
calling it a great day? Yeah, thank you? Bye, I mean
giving Fort Washington. Nicole, goodmorning, good morning, you heard second
day update. What do you wantto say, girl, I am on
(08:56):
team Matt's girlfriend, I hope yes, the show and dumps his whole bitch.
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,the audacity man said, yeah,
Nichole, thanks, we're all onthe same page. Nicole, thank you
for call. I have a greatday. Thank you, my man,
my man. By the way,we if we can get her back her
(09:18):
figure out how she found out thathe had a girlfriend. I would love
to know that side of the story. Miguel is Sarah, good morning,
good morning, you heard a secondto update. What do you want to
say? Obviously team Courtney, ButI'm also gonna say when Nichole said and
go with team as girlfriend, that'sjust terrible. Yeah, because I would
(09:39):
I would wonder then Sarah, howlong he's beound the app for do you
know what I mean? Like,how long has you been doing this?
And how many maybe we don't knowabout you know that's true. So I
have my own shop cutting men's hair, and you'd be surprised how many people
who are in supposed monogamous relationships andthey're on these app It's pretty sad.
(10:01):
Oh it's wild. Hopefully they'll getcaught. Sarah, thank you so much
for calling. I have a fantasticday, my mom. Man appreciate you
a listen live texts coming into TeamCourtney. Um, Team Courtney. Matt
needs to grow up Team Courtney.Yes, yeah, we say no judgment,
but my goodness, a little hard. Yeah. If you want to
(10:22):
do a second date update very symbold m us on the gram at y
MS Radio. Give us your info, give us their info, how to
contact. We try and bring peopletogether. Right. If I miss it
on the show, I download thepodcast your morning show
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