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January 22, 2025 12 mins
 
Maggie and Phil first met on Hinge about a month ago and Maggie tells us that she really enjoyed Phil’s sense of humor. They actually went on their first date two weeks ago and got lunch with one another because of their schedules. Maggie thought things went great and Phil even offered to buy lunch so she thought things were going in the right direction. However, ever since their date she hasn’t heard from Phil at all. 
  
We call Phil trying to figure out if there is anything else between him and Maggie that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and he tells us that he wasn’t a fan of being double-booked in Maggie’s calendar. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update! 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update on intern John in your morning show.
You go on a date with somebody. You thought there's
a vibe, you felt like this could be a potential
future together. Then they stopped talking to you, they stop
returning your calls, text, whatever it is. We shot to
figure out exactly what's going on, Maggie, good.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Morning, good morning.

Speaker 1 (00:19):
So walk us through this. You and Phil first met,
I guess matched where on Hinge? Okay, a month ago
on Hinge? And what about Phil? Sit out for you?

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Oh? Well, I thought he was really cute.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
Sure.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
I liked his profile.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
I mean, he just seems like being in a kind
of a happy guy. Sure, And so we were communicating
and back and forth, and I loved his sense of humor,
and like I said, you just seemed like very upbeat.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
Sure.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
So two weeks ago we all, yeah.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
Make a job. I'm sorry, so match a month ago
and then to your point, so two weeks later, was
it just we were to know each other or schedules
are busy and that's why I was two weeks later,
and not not to cash judgment, but yeap, yeah, no, we.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
Were going back and forth and everything else, and so
we finally decided Okay, let's just do lunch and drinks.

Speaker 2 (01:12):
And so two weeks ago we had our first date.

Speaker 1 (01:15):
Okay, so what did we do? Give us the deeds?

Speaker 3 (01:19):
Okay, well we went out, we had a really nice lunch,
had some drinks. He was a pert gentleman, I mean,
great manners, tap for the lunch, can't stay enough. I
really liked him. I thought everything went great. We seemed
to hit it off in person. He was the person
that you know I was seeing online. So it was like, okay,

(01:40):
this checks all the boxes and anyhow ended it with
a little kiss and good to go and crickets.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
Okay, a couple of questions I have real quick. So
you mentioned it was lunch. Did we agree on lunch?
Was it? Did you not want to do dinner? And
get no shame in the game, but just that interesting.

Speaker 3 (02:03):
You know. It was like I had plans that week
and I had some I have some things going on,
so it was like the lunch work for both of us.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
So that's why we did it.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Got you. The one thing I wanted to note is
in your email you mentioned that you are I guess
old fashioned in the way that you believe a dude
should reach out first However, because we didn't hear from Phil,
you actually reached out to him, is that right? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (02:27):
I mean I waited a while, but I was like.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
You know, I'm gonna give it a chance and to
see if he calls me.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
He doesn't.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
Uh, So I reached out to him and no response. Yeah,
and it's like I said, he's just kind of ghosted me.
He's not following my instant any longer. Yeah, he unfollowed me,
and his hands is still active. Okay, so he's still

(02:54):
alive and well evidently.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
But okay, this one found question. How long have you
been saying? How long has he been single?

Speaker 3 (03:02):
Oh? Boy, he said he's been His last real kind
of steady girl was probably about four or five months ago.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
Okay, how about you?

Speaker 2 (03:14):
And for me it's maybe.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
Events six months okay with a couple of people, but
short term.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
So that's this. We'll call Phil, try to get my
out with us and get his side of the story.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
Okay, sounds like a plan.

Speaker 4 (03:26):
Oh one second, see if you can get mom.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Hello, Hello, all right, looking for Phil please? Hey, that's sill,
Hey man, it's uh interns giohn. I got Sauce and
Rose here as well. Can we talk to you on
the show real quick about something nothing bad. I see
like a second of your time?

Speaker 5 (03:57):
Uh yeah sure on the radio?

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Yes, our do you went a second date update and
I got some of the other line here Maggie if
you want to say hello, Hey, there and so felt
Maggie reached out to us. She had told us you
guys matched on Hinge about a month ago, had date
two weeks ago, everything went well, but that she's not
hurt from you since. So we're trying to see where
your head's at.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
Maggie.

Speaker 6 (04:20):
Yeah, hey, hey, yeah, how are you guys doing. I
guess me and Maggie are you know, we're people.

Speaker 7 (04:28):
We're fine, right?

Speaker 1 (04:30):
But why but why uh? Why blow her off? And
why not reach out to her?

Speaker 5 (04:37):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (04:37):
Me blow her off? Okay?

Speaker 3 (04:40):
Cool?

Speaker 1 (04:42):
What happened?

Speaker 3 (04:43):
I know?

Speaker 6 (04:45):
I thought I thought we were pretty established, well, me
and Maggie Mett about a month or so ago that
for a couple of weeks.

Speaker 1 (04:54):
No, I'm gonna cut you off. So we we know
you guys had the French date. So what from the
end the first date to now? What's happened?

Speaker 6 (05:03):
Honestly?

Speaker 1 (05:04):
Okay?

Speaker 6 (05:04):
She first off, I after her out for dinner. She
puts me off on a lunch date. Okay, which, okay,
it's fine. It's the first time. Maybe she just wants
to be a public okay. So we go on a
lunch date, which is fine. I thought we had a
good time. But then later on in the evenings, I'm
looking on Instagram. It looks like she's out to dinner

(05:26):
with someone, like, I'm a date. Well she doubled book
to me.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Okay, Maggie, but hold on, hold on, hold, I felt, Maggie.
Is that true? Did we do did you have a
date that night as well?

Speaker 5 (05:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (05:43):
I had plans.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
That's I mean, that was why we did lunch.

Speaker 3 (05:45):
It was like I had a date plan for a
while and I went out to dinner. I mean, there's
nothing wrong with that. It's like, hey, you handle a
little competition.

Speaker 1 (05:54):
Wait, competition okay, Okay, so.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
I guess it's like, okay, but.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Are you are you still talking to the other person?

Speaker 3 (06:05):
Yeah, I mean I've talked.

Speaker 2 (06:06):
To him a few times. I haven't been out with
him since.

Speaker 6 (06:08):
Actually we are longing number one, two or three.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
No, it's you know, it's you're hey, look we just.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
Got no I mean, I'm allowed to date. We're not engaged,
for sure, We're not rely.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
No, sure, Megan cast question again. I mean you're not wrong. Technically,
did we post on Instagram hoping that phill would see it?
Or were we just generally sharing that we're out to dinner. No,
I was just sharing that we were out to dinner.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
I mean I didn't put it.

Speaker 3 (06:42):
I didn't put a picture of me with a guy
or anything like that.

Speaker 1 (06:45):
Okay, it was like a picture.

Speaker 6 (06:47):
You're kind of like you're rubbing into my face, Maggie,
to be honest.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
Okay, let me do this. I'm gonna put you guys
in hold. Are your team Maggie or team Phil? Eight
seven seven nine five four six eight one to call,
nine nine three three eighth to text? It's second date.
Updates on interns geon Your Morning Show, magad date updates
on internshon in Your Morning Show. We have talked to
Maggie and Phil. They had matched on hinge about a
month ago, when on a lunch day about two weeks ago,

(07:14):
he never called her back. She was confused why. According
to him, the reason was later on that day he
saw her on Instagram on another date. Whose side you on?
Eight seven seven nine ninety five four six State one
to call nine ninety three three eight to text, I'll
get she in hold Shelby saucyr thoughts.

Speaker 8 (07:30):
I'm gonna be on Maggie's side because when you're dating,
especially in this day and age, it is all about numbers.
The more dates you go on, the more likely you
are to find someone that you're compatible with. And she
posted just that she was at dinner. She could have
been with anyone. It sounds like he's insecure saying, oh,
she's out to dinner with another guy, Like she didn't
post another guy.

Speaker 2 (07:49):
She's posted she was at.

Speaker 1 (07:49):
Dinner, but she did say it was a date that
I believe.

Speaker 8 (07:51):
Yeah, but even he just assumed. He never asked, he
didn't use his words. I mean, she reached out to
be like, hey, are you going on an other date? So,
I mean it does suck that she double book. But
if you have a nine to five job and you're
exhausted after work, when else are you going on dates?
Saturdays and Sundays. Yes, So if it's a Saturday date
and you only have that date, most people don't want
to go on a date on the Sunday, then that's
the only time you can go.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
So no, I think you know what, he sounds insecure thoughts.
I don't think I'm on either side here.

Speaker 9 (08:19):
I think I agree with saus it sounds like he's
a little insecure. But also I personally have never double
booked to date where I had two dates with two
different guys in one day. I would like reschedule to
the next week.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
That's my personal preference.

Speaker 9 (08:34):
And I also have never that I know of, posted
a picture from a first date on Instagram. Feel like
that's something that like, I don't want people knowing that
I'm out on a date right now, because what if
this doesn't go anywhere? And it's kind of like a
lot of people do that to soft launch a relationship.
So I could understand where he's like, well, if I'm
just second fit all, like, I don't want to be

(08:56):
in this.

Speaker 8 (08:57):
That's a first date, Like why are we even comparing
our tell the people that pinet.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
I get both sides. I mean if it was me,
I would understand if I'm my date with somebody, we're
not official to date other people. I would assume if
you post if I want a date with you during
the day, and he posted something that night, you probably
want me to.

Speaker 9 (09:12):
See it and yeah, well that and it doesn't necessarily
mean it was her first date with a guy at night.
That's what That's what I mean by like soft launching,
Like it could be like they've been on several dates.
I'd be like, Oh, I guess she's going with this guy.

Speaker 1 (09:25):
Now, Yeah, I guess. I mean to kind of I
guess your point two saus like he should expect she's
dating other people because everybody.

Speaker 8 (09:32):
Yeah, that's why I think he should be insecure. And
if it's a new restaurant or I don't know, I
just don't think it's weird. It's twenty twenty five, like
we're posting where we are.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
Fair let me go in Warrington Ashley, good morning.

Speaker 10 (09:45):
Okay, good morning.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
What'd you want to say at this?

Speaker 10 (09:49):
Yeah, I mean I've I've gone on dates with multiple
people before, but I've never done it in the same day,
the next day or two days later. So yeah, I mean,
and I wouldn't post about it or let the.

Speaker 1 (10:02):
Other guy know. Sure, Yeah, yeah that makes sense, Ashy.
Thank you for listening, have a great day, Thank you too.
I we go. Danielle good morning, Hi, Hey, what do
you want to say with this?

Speaker 5 (10:17):
I'm seeing Maggie. Just because they had one day doesn't
mean that she has to be exclusive with them. Yeah,
I'm I'm sorry because he's actually like they're exclusive and
they're not. Because they went on one dates.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
That's not an exclusive thought. Yeah, Danielle, thank you for listening.
Have a great day.

Speaker 5 (10:38):
Thanks you too.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
I we go Monte, good morning, good morning. What do
you want to say a second date update?

Speaker 10 (10:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (10:46):
Man, that's so like Maggie's, you know, just living her.

Speaker 6 (10:49):
License and adult and he showed a lot of reflex there,
you know, but being upset for not really much and
then not communicating.

Speaker 3 (10:58):
That's the number one thing that all.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
Couples need is good communication.

Speaker 7 (11:02):
That he didn't use his and just decided it's a
Ghoster' very mature.

Speaker 1 (11:06):
Yeah, I'm just agreae Manta Man, thank you for listening.
Have a great day. By Let's go in now West River, Jamie,
good morning, good morning. What do you want to say
with second date update?

Speaker 7 (11:19):
Just I'm team Phil. I think that it's I think
that it's inconsiderate of her to do that and post
it and kind of like just rub it in his
face in a way. I think I think that he
was right in the situation, and who would want to
be with someone who's in considerate. Sure, she can keep dating,
but you don't have to post about it and rub

(11:40):
it in people's faces if you're dating other guys.

Speaker 1 (11:42):
Sure, yeah, Jamie, thank you for listening. Have a great day.

Speaker 7 (11:47):
Thanks you too.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
Yeah. I guess to that point again, the guy said,
I would assume you're trying to make it known to
me that you're on another date that night.

Speaker 2 (11:54):
I don't know.

Speaker 8 (11:54):
I just feel like that's like making everything about you
like she's outliving her life, she went on a date
with you.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
You guys just met.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
Why am the center?

Speaker 8 (12:01):
I think like that, Yeah, but I wouldn't be like,
oh wow, like they they're they're posting that to make
me jealous, Like we literally just met. Why we are
still having like this negative outlook about who they are
as a person.

Speaker 1 (12:11):
That's fair.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
Maybe they're not ready to date.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
Dating sucks.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
Sounds like Phil isn't righty to date.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
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Speaker 2 (12:28):
This couple broke up. I'm gonna tell you first.

Speaker 9 (12:30):
Chapel Roone intern John in your morning show.

Speaker 5 (12:33):
That's true.

Speaker 1 (12:34):
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