September 24, 2025 • 108 mins
On today’s show feelings were hurt...but it’s okay because they were Intern John’s feelings so that’s ok right?! Join John, Sos, Rose, Erick and Savera as we find out what led to John getting his feelings a little hurt.., We do an all NEW Second Date Update, Plus we do an all NEW batch of Friend Secrets where we let you tell us the juicy secrets your friends trust you with. All that and more with Intern John & Your Morning Show!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update on intern John in your Morning Show,
Because the only thing worse than dating in twenty twenty
five is finding somebody who you think maybe there could
be a future with then they stop talking to you.
We try to see what's going on, Jessica, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
I'm going through your email, but walk us through this.
You and Evan first matched? Where and how long ago?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
So we met on Bemble and it's been about four months?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Okay, Oh wait a long time four months for yeah,
I know, wait four months if I told daty or
four months ago you matched and it has been slowly
dating in the meantime.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Oh no, no, four months of like in it like dating, dating,
like really awesome dates too, like not just like oh cool,
we'll go for coffee or drink like meat.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
On a second date, he took me to talk.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Golf okay and so fun right, and we like go hiking.
He planned a picnic for us.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
Like.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
I say, you guys call your email to one of
those couple of cooking classes.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I've never.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Been pasted before.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Well mac and cheese probably there we go, Okay, so
we know did it in your email? Was that I
get to the point of like it wasn't the typical
like oh, first date, let's get let's get drinks.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Second date, let's get coffee.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
It was like, in your words, he was putting actual
effort into to woo you, so.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
To speak, oh big time, Like it's been it's been
really nice and honestly, like I'm not that high maintenance,
like we don't need like I don't need a lot
of things.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
But it definitely doesn't need to be expensive.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Yeah, but it was just really nice and I kind
of felt like things were going in the right direction.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Okay, I would assume, So, yeah, that's a pretty decent
a eunt of time to be uh talking to somebody, certainly, okay,
And so explain though, So this past weekend, you guys
took a big step. You actually met his friends.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Right, I did.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
He he said, you know, we talked about what during
this weekend, and he said that he was watching the
commanders gave his house. Yeah, and you know he's having
a bunch of friends over. So I was like, all right, cool,
and it was kind of shocked that he wanted me
to come. Honestly, I felt like that was a really
big step.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
And I mean that is a big stub but watching
football with the front.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
Yeah, and I went and then I haven't really heard
her him since.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Okay, which is how overall? How is the interaction with
the friends and they happy to see you? Was it like, oh,
it's it's good to see you know, Evan's lady friend,
or like.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Was it awkward?
Speaker 6 (02:35):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Okay, yeah, but like honestly, I kind of feel.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Like I sit in pretty well Okay, Yeah, I don't
think it.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Was like a huge red flat.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Maybe.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Okay, so let's do let's do this, Jessica, because you
seem lovely and invement together. Let's call Evan get his side.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Is that cool?
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Absolutely, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
One second, because it to have that much constant communication, yeah,
be cut off is.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
Especially I would feel.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Yeah, I hello, calling for Evan please, man, it's interned, John.
I got Sauce and Rose here as well. Can we
talk to you on the show real quick about something
nothing bad? I need like thirty seconds of your time
(03:27):
radio yes, which, by the way, your voice should be
on there, but really quick, I promise. Okay, I got
some of the other line here, Jessica. If you want
to say hello, Hey, nailed it, and so Evan Jessica
reached out to us. She told us the guys okay
had matched bumble, that you guys have had some lovely
(03:49):
dates over the of course the last couple of months,
but that she met your friends this past weekend, has
not seen you since, so we're trying to pick that
brain yours and see where you're at.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
Brother, Wow, there's there's a lot in like two minutes,
she said, Wow, John, Yeah, I do know her.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
We were seeing each other for a brief amount of time.
About it, you know what I mean, I don't really
know what she putting you guys up to.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Well, she just basically told us that this weekend she
met your friends. It hasn't heard from you since, so
we're trying to see where your brain's at.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Well, so she told you it was like a guy
It was originally like a guy's uh not night out.
You know we're watching watching the game. Is she on
the call, because she could probably tell you.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Yeah, she was here.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, and then but we also she told us that
you meet your friends and then has your.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Sense of why why.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Would you do to your friends? Then cut things off?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I mean I told her, what do you mean, what
do you mean I told you it was going to
be a guy's thing. You know, I'm not going to
be able to pay attention to you as much as
you probably normally would because we've done some some some
cool things, you know, where you had my whole attention. True,
but I told you, like we were really serious into
(05:27):
the game, like we're betting like every quarterly. Yeah, you're
not getting a point. You were the only female, so
it was kind of not of a good game for
us because it was like they were biting their tongue.
Then you got.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
To it's never only until ten.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
So are you saying that it was a guy's night
that Jessica Forrester night for way Into.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
You might as well say pretty much. I mean I
told her, like, you know, we can hang out, you know,
the next or so, but no, I.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
Want to sing with you.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I'll watch the game, blah blah blah blah blah. Next
thing I know, she's there, she's the only girl. They're
looking at me like I'm crazy, Like what are you doing? Bro?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Okay, Okay, that's not really fair.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
That's like yeah, girl, but like if you really didn't
want me to go, then you should have said something.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Yeah, you're going to be the only female that.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Yeah, that doesn't mean don't come.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Well okay, I hedn't want to hurt your feelings, but
you like you just took you just went overboard.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
But she okay, like four months now, like you don't
think I can handle a night, but you're like you were.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Like a moist rag.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Okay, she has a hold because I word, are you
a team Evan or team Jessica? Eight seven seven nine
nine five for six They want to call nine ninety
three three eight to text. Second date update on intern
John in your Morning Shower. Second date updates on internshown
in your Morning Show. Just talked to Jessica and Evan.
(07:05):
They matched on bumble been kind of talking for about
four months. She liked the fact that he puts some
effort in, was not doing the usual like oh we're gonna,
you know, do dinner and a drinks yadiyada. I guess
he was having kind of like a boys' night this
past weekend for the Commander's game. Had said, Hey, if
you want to come, you can, but then wasn't happy
that she came. Kind of what sounds like eight seven
(07:29):
seven nine nine five four six state one to call
nine ninety three three eight to text while we get
you a hold sauce your thoughts.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
I'm so in the middle because like I'm out at
both of them, Like, first of all, like Evan, oh,
gonna be a lot of guys there. I mostly like,
I'm always with a bunch of guys. I'm always like
the single females with all the guys. So I wouldn't
take the hint that you didn't want me coming over,
So I'd be like, oh I miss to that.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
It's fine, Yeah you are, yes, yeah, you of all
people saw us, I.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Really and what so I wouldn't I wouldn't pickup on
the hint. So if you didn't want to come over,
don't even throw it out there. Don't even give her
the option to say, hey, like actually like my guys
and I like we always football Sunday together, and since
this it's so new, how about we hang out tomorrow
or like a different day.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
I will say, the right girl won't ruin guys night. Yeah,
that's my other thing.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
I'm like, if if you're cause I with people i've dated,
I've been like this the only girl when it's guys
night and you're just one of the bros. If you're
if you're partaking, you're not doing anything like needing attention.
And that sounds like it kind of was the problem.
So she shouldn't have She should have just been chilling
and like happy to be in his company, which sounds
so so weird to say, because I don't mean it
(08:36):
like that, but like, I don't think she should have
gone personally, But I'm not really mad at her because
she probably didn't take it as like, oh, he doesn't
want me to come over.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Well, I think he'd he understand the essence of a
guy's night. It could be ten guys in a room,
not saying a word yes, but having the best time ever,
and that's like.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
The And for me, I'm like, why aren't we talking?
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I will always quote backstage when the comedy shows saus like,
so what do you guys want to talk about?
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Like where?
Speaker 5 (09:01):
But even the last I dated, like I like, he
would invite me to his guys' nights and I would say, oh,
I don't have to come, because I was still getting
to know his friend group. And this is how after
I'd already met them out in public, and he still
said that he actually wanted me to come, and he
would invite me if he didn't want me to, like
like verbatim, which is going to.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Spell it out for me.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
So use your words, Evan next time. If you don't
want her coming over, don't come over.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I think.
Speaker 5 (09:24):
Jessica also, don't do that.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
But also you can give him an out, but like, hey,
like it won't hurt my feelings. Yes, I think that's important.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
I'll let me go.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Shelby on the phone and abingdon Hey, guys, what do
you want to say with this?
Speaker 7 (09:39):
So I think I'm team Evan only because they haven't
been dating a while, Like I'm hanging out with my
husband and his friends all the time, now a big deal.
But it just sounded like he was beating around the
bush by saying it, like he didn't want to hurt
her feeling because they haven't been together that long.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Yeah, I kind of got.
Speaker 7 (09:56):
The impression that he just did not want her to
come over that night, but he even gave her an alternative,
like a different.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Time to hang out, you know, So yeah, I'll disagree, Shelby,
thank you for listening to have.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
A great day, but also like, if you like somebody
a lot and you want to see them again, and
you give them the option. Usually like people are going
to take the option, sure, so don't do don't even
give them the option. Just be like, hey, so not tonight,
but tomorrow we can do something something.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
I think anybody respects you respecting me friend times. Yeah,
that's fair Rose your thoughts of this.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
He I agree.
Speaker 8 (10:27):
He needs to use his big boy words and tell
her that it was a guy's night and yeah, you
plan a different day that they could get together. I
understand him being like she didn't take the hint. I
get that if you don't spell it out exactly, some
people don't get it. However, when he called her a
wet moist towel, that is unnecessary, that is like, that's
(10:49):
so mean for no reason.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
Yeah, I absolutely that.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
I was like, sir, might be the grossest phrase around
this show.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
If ever, if anyone ever described me that way, I
would just you would not see me for a week.
I don't have to like work through so anything.
Speaker 8 (11:04):
For crashing boys night, that's what you're gonna call her,
Like you've already disrespected her too much, Like that's the
end of that.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
You gave her the option to come red flat it's
not crashing if you tell somebody, hey, let me get
on Fairfax Elaine, good morning.
Speaker 9 (11:18):
Good morning, I'll do it.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Well, girl, what do you want to say with second
date update?
Speaker 9 (11:23):
I am absolutely team Jess.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
I haven't needed to use those big.
Speaker 9 (11:26):
Boy words and say it's a guys night. Girls really
are not welcome that I will hang out with you
another time, have a good night.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Now I disagree.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
So let me ask if you were talking to a
guy in a similar situation, would you take this okay,
I get it, it's boys night, or would you be like,
oh no, I should be there.
Speaker 9 (11:42):
No, if it's guys night, it's guys night, like put
the shoe on the other foot. If I'm not having
girls night and my boyfriend at four months is like,
well you know I'm coming.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
Along, no, i'd yeah, right, I know.
Speaker 9 (11:59):
So you would need to communicate that. You need to
say it's girls' night, right, this is not and then
plus boyfriends, we'll probably go on double dates another time,
but this ain't it.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
No, I don't disagree, Elena. Thank you for listening. Have
a great day you too, appreciate You're amazing. As a
side note, I've had female friends who their boyfriend is
crash girls night. No self respecting man wants to go
girls' night. I mean that, like, nothing about that sounds appealing.
It's great for your girl to go have phone with
(12:30):
her girlfriends. What guy in a healthy relationship wants to
go to girls' night? It's not gonna be the same.
That to me is like, do you're possessive? If you're
afraid of the roasty in the group chet brother, that's
on you.
Speaker 5 (12:40):
But sometimes I will say like, and it's not necessarily
like a girl's night, Like if a guy showed up,
if my friend brought herson I fianal to girls night
and did not tell me yes, I'd be upset. But
there have been times where we've been having like we're
just like all hanging out someone's like apartment or something,
and then like one of the guys like is like
like ends up stopping bogs like he's so different. No,
but we like some like some of my friends significant others,
we like having around because we like their perspective on things.
(13:02):
We're like, wait a second, you can help us analyze
this better than anyone. That's only a very few because
some of them are like why is this wet rag
here and why are you still with him? This moist
just said, I not say that word. If you, why
do a second date out date? D MS rabant at
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Speaker 3 (13:21):
Intern John in your morning show.
Speaker 6 (13:23):
That's true and iHeartRadio
Second date update on intern John in your Morning Show,
Because the only thing worse than dating in twenty twenty
five is finding somebody who you think maybe there could
be a future with then they stop talking to you.
We try to see what's going on, Jessica, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
I'm going through your email, but walk us through this.
You and Evan first matched? Where and how long ago?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
So we met on Bemble and it's been about four months?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Okay, Oh wait a long time four months for yeah,
I know, wait four months if I told daty or
four months ago you matched and it has been slowly
dating in the meantime.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Oh no, no, four months of like in it like dating, dating,
like really awesome dates too, like not just like oh cool,
we'll go for coffee or drink like meat.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
On a second date, he took me to talk.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Golf okay and so fun right, and we like go hiking.
He planned a picnic for us.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
Like.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
I say, you guys call your email to one of
those couple of cooking classes.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I've never.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Been pasted before.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Well mac and cheese probably there we go, Okay, so
we know did it in your email? Was that I
get to the point of like it wasn't the typical
like oh, first date, let's get let's get drinks.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Second date, let's get coffee.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
It was like, in your words, he was putting actual
effort into to woo you, so.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
To speak, oh big time, Like it's been it's been
really nice and honestly, like I'm not that high maintenance,
like we don't need like I don't need a lot
of things.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
But it definitely doesn't need to be expensive.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
Yeah, but it was just really nice and I kind
of felt like things were going in the right direction.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Okay, I would assume, So, yeah, that's a pretty decent
a eunt of time to be uh talking to somebody, certainly, okay,
And so explain though, So this past weekend, you guys
took a big step. You actually met his friends.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Right, I did.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
He he said, you know, we talked about what during
this weekend, and he said that he was watching the
commanders gave his house. Yeah, and you know he's having
a bunch of friends over. So I was like, all right, cool,
and it was kind of shocked that he wanted me
to come. Honestly, I felt like that was a really
big step.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
And I mean that is a big stub but watching
football with the front.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
Yeah, and I went and then I haven't really heard
her him since.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Okay, which is how overall? How is the interaction with
the friends and they happy to see you? Was it like, oh,
it's it's good to see you know, Evan's lady friend,
or like.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Was it awkward?
Speaker 6 (02:35):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Okay, yeah, but like honestly, I kind of feel.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Like I sit in pretty well Okay, Yeah, I don't
think it.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Was like a huge red flat.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Maybe.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
Okay, so let's do let's do this, Jessica, because you
seem lovely and invement together. Let's call Evan get his side.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Is that cool?
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Absolutely, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
One second, because it to have that much constant communication, yeah,
be cut off is.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
Especially I would feel.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Yeah, I hello, calling for Evan please, man, it's interned, John.
I got Sauce and Rose here as well. Can we
talk to you on the show real quick about something
nothing bad? I need like thirty seconds of your time
(03:27):
radio yes, which, by the way, your voice should be
on there, but really quick, I promise. Okay, I got
some of the other line here, Jessica. If you want
to say hello, Hey, nailed it, and so Evan Jessica
reached out to us. She told us the guys okay
had matched bumble, that you guys have had some lovely
(03:49):
dates over the of course the last couple of months,
but that she met your friends this past weekend, has
not seen you since, so we're trying to pick that
brain yours and see where you're at.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
Brother, Wow, there's there's a lot in like two minutes,
she said, Wow, John, Yeah, I do know her.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
We were seeing each other for a brief amount of time.
About it, you know what I mean, I don't really
know what she putting you guys up to.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Well, she just basically told us that this weekend she
met your friends. It hasn't heard from you since, so
we're trying to see where your brain's at.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Well, so she told you it was like a guy
It was originally like a guy's uh not night out.
You know we're watching watching the game. Is she on
the call, because she could probably tell you.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Yeah, she was here.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah, and then but we also she told us that
you meet your friends and then has your.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Sense of why why.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Would you do to your friends? Then cut things off?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I mean I told her, what do you mean, what
do you mean I told you it was going to
be a guy's thing. You know, I'm not going to
be able to pay attention to you as much as
you probably normally would because we've done some some some
cool things, you know, where you had my whole attention. True,
but I told you, like we were really serious into
(05:27):
the game, like we're betting like every quarterly. Yeah, you're
not getting a point. You were the only female, so
it was kind of not of a good game for
us because it was like they were biting their tongue.
Then you got.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
To it's never only until ten.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
So are you saying that it was a guy's night
that Jessica Forrester night for way Into.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
You might as well say pretty much. I mean I
told her, like, you know, we can hang out, you know,
the next or so, but no, I.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
Want to sing with you.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I'll watch the game, blah blah blah blah blah. Next
thing I know, she's there, she's the only girl. They're
looking at me like I'm crazy, Like what are you doing? Bro?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Okay, Okay, that's not really fair.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
That's like yeah, girl, but like if you really didn't
want me to go, then you should have said something.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Yeah, you're going to be the only female that.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Yeah, that doesn't mean don't come.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Well okay, I hedn't want to hurt your feelings, but
you like you just took you just went overboard.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
But she okay, like four months now, like you don't
think I can handle a night, but you're like you were.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Like a moist rag.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Okay, she has a hold because I word, are you
a team Evan or team Jessica? Eight seven seven nine
nine five for six They want to call nine ninety
three three eight to text. Second date update on intern
John in your Morning Shower. Second date updates on internshown
in your Morning Show. Just talked to Jessica and Evan.
(07:05):
They matched on bumble been kind of talking for about
four months. She liked the fact that he puts some
effort in, was not doing the usual like oh we're gonna,
you know, do dinner and a drinks yadiyada. I guess
he was having kind of like a boys' night this
past weekend for the Commander's game. Had said, Hey, if
you want to come, you can, but then wasn't happy
that she came. Kind of what sounds like eight seven
(07:29):
seven nine nine five four six state one to call
nine ninety three three eight to text while we get
you a hold sauce your thoughts.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
I'm so in the middle because like I'm out at
both of them, Like, first of all, like Evan, oh,
gonna be a lot of guys there. I mostly like,
I'm always with a bunch of guys. I'm always like
the single females with all the guys. So I wouldn't
take the hint that you didn't want me coming over,
So I'd be like, oh I miss to that.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
It's fine, Yeah you are, yes, yeah, you of all
people saw us, I.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Really and what so I wouldn't I wouldn't pickup on
the hint. So if you didn't want to come over,
don't even throw it out there. Don't even give her
the option to say, hey, like actually like my guys
and I like we always football Sunday together, and since
this it's so new, how about we hang out tomorrow
or like a different day.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
I will say, the right girl won't ruin guys night. Yeah,
that's my other thing.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
I'm like, if if you're cause I with people i've dated,
I've been like this the only girl when it's guys
night and you're just one of the bros. If you're
if you're partaking, you're not doing anything like needing attention.
And that sounds like it kind of was the problem.
So she shouldn't have She should have just been chilling
and like happy to be in his company, which sounds
so so weird to say, because I don't mean it
(08:36):
like that, but like, I don't think she should have
gone personally, But I'm not really mad at her because
she probably didn't take it as like, oh, he doesn't
want me to come over.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Well, I think he'd he understand the essence of a
guy's night. It could be ten guys in a room,
not saying a word yes, but having the best time ever,
and that's like.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
The And for me, I'm like, why aren't we talking?
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I will always quote backstage when the comedy shows saus like,
so what do you guys want to talk about?
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Like where?
Speaker 5 (09:01):
But even the last I dated, like I like, he
would invite me to his guys' nights and I would say, oh,
I don't have to come, because I was still getting
to know his friend group. And this is how after
I'd already met them out in public, and he still
said that he actually wanted me to come, and he
would invite me if he didn't want me to, like
like verbatim, which is going to.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Spell it out for me.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
So use your words, Evan next time. If you don't
want her coming over, don't come over.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I think.
Speaker 5 (09:24):
Jessica also, don't do that.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
But also you can give him an out, but like, hey,
like it won't hurt my feelings. Yes, I think that's important.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
I'll let me go.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Shelby on the phone and abingdon Hey, guys, what do
you want to say with this?
Speaker 7 (09:39):
So I think I'm team Evan only because they haven't
been dating a while, Like I'm hanging out with my
husband and his friends all the time, now a big deal.
But it just sounded like he was beating around the
bush by saying it, like he didn't want to hurt
her feeling because they haven't been together that long.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Yeah, I kind of got.
Speaker 7 (09:56):
The impression that he just did not want her to
come over that night, but he even gave her an alternative,
like a different.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Time to hang out, you know, So yeah, I'll disagree, Shelby,
thank you for listening to have.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
A great day, but also like, if you like somebody
a lot and you want to see them again, and
you give them the option. Usually like people are going
to take the option, sure, so don't do don't even
give them the option. Just be like, hey, so not tonight,
but tomorrow we can do something something.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
I think anybody respects you respecting me friend times. Yeah,
that's fair Rose your thoughts of this.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
He I agree.
Speaker 8 (10:27):
He needs to use his big boy words and tell
her that it was a guy's night and yeah, you
plan a different day that they could get together. I
understand him being like she didn't take the hint. I
get that if you don't spell it out exactly, some
people don't get it. However, when he called her a
wet moist towel, that is unnecessary, that is like, that's
(10:49):
so mean for no reason.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
Yeah, I absolutely that.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
I was like, sir, might be the grossest phrase around
this show.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
If ever, if anyone ever described me that way, I
would just you would not see me for a week.
I don't have to like work through so anything.
Speaker 8 (11:04):
For crashing boys night, that's what you're gonna call her,
Like you've already disrespected her too much, Like that's the
end of that.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
You gave her the option to come red flat it's
not crashing if you tell somebody, hey, let me get
on Fairfax Elaine, good morning.
Speaker 9 (11:18):
Good morning, I'll do it.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Well, girl, what do you want to say with second
date update?
Speaker 9 (11:23):
I am absolutely team Jess.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
I haven't needed to use those big.
Speaker 9 (11:26):
Boy words and say it's a guys night. Girls really
are not welcome that I will hang out with you
another time, have a good night.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Now I disagree.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
So let me ask if you were talking to a
guy in a similar situation, would you take this okay,
I get it, it's boys night, or would you be like,
oh no, I should be there.
Speaker 9 (11:42):
No, if it's guys night, it's guys night, like put
the shoe on the other foot. If I'm not having
girls night and my boyfriend at four months is like,
well you know I'm coming.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
Along, no, i'd yeah, right, I know.
Speaker 9 (11:59):
So you would need to communicate that. You need to
say it's girls' night, right, this is not and then
plus boyfriends, we'll probably go on double dates another time,
but this ain't it.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
No, I don't disagree, Elena. Thank you for listening. Have
a great day you too, appreciate You're amazing. As a
side note, I've had female friends who their boyfriend is
crash girls night. No self respecting man wants to go
girls' night. I mean that, like, nothing about that sounds appealing.
It's great for your girl to go have phone with
(12:30):
her girlfriends. What guy in a healthy relationship wants to
go to girls' night? It's not gonna be the same.
That to me is like, do you're possessive? If you're
afraid of the roasty in the group chet brother, that's
on you.
Speaker 5 (12:40):
But sometimes I will say like, and it's not necessarily
like a girl's night, Like if a guy showed up,
if my friend brought herson I fianal to girls night
and did not tell me yes, I'd be upset. But
there have been times where we've been having like we're
just like all hanging out someone's like apartment or something,
and then like one of the guys like is like
like ends up stopping bogs like he's so different. No,
but we like some like some of my friends significant others,
we like having around because we like their perspective on things.
(13:02):
We're like, wait a second, you can help us analyze
this better than anyone. That's only a very few because
some of them are like why is this wet rag
here and why are you still with him? This moist
just said, I not say that word. If you, why
do a second date out date? D MS rabant at
WYMUS Radio list.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Intern John in your morning show.
Speaker 6 (13:23):
That's true and iHeartRadio
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