May 14, 2025 • 10 mins
Amanda and Justin first matched on Bumble three weeks ago and Amanda tells us she was head over heels as soon as they started messaging each other because not only was Justin attractive, but he was also funny. Over the past few weeks Amanda tells us they have gone on multiple dates and she has even spent the night twice at Justin’s place. However, ever since the last night she spent at Justin’s she hasn’t heard from him at all and she’s not sure what went wrong.
We call Justin trying to figure out if there is anything else between him and Amanda that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and he tells us that he wasn’t a fan of what Amanda borrowed from his place. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
We call Justin trying to figure out if there is anything else between him and Amanda that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and he tells us that he wasn’t a fan of what Amanda borrowed from his place. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update on Internshohn in your morning show. You're
dating somebody, could be for a week, could be for
a longer time. You think maybe that the one. Maybe
it's sounds special, then they sound talking to you. We
try to see what exactly is going on, Amanda, good morning. Hi,
So walk us through this. You and Justin first met.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Where we match on Bumble about three weeks ago.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Okay, and prior to that, how long have you been
single for? Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
My god, longer than I wanted to be, probably.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
About six months, okay. And do you know how long
he was single for?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I'm gonna say not not as long as I was.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Okay, all right, so we match on Bumble. What about
Justin made him stand out to you?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
You know, he's that type of guy that, you know,
somebody like me doesn't really get lucky to meet. You know,
he's really good looking. On his profile had some funny,
you know, funny quotes in it, and I was just
I was head over heels from the moment I saw
his picture.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Yeah, I say that you did. You deserve the best though,
just like we're on the same page. I man, just
don't say that somebody like you doesn't deserve him because
you do, like you start to be as happy as
anybody else does. So good for you. You match. That's
very good. So how long before matching to see each
other in person? How long did that take?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Oh? We met up pretty quickly. Yeah, we had we
had some dates together over the last three weeks. We
went on a couple of sleepovers too, So things moved
pretty rapidly.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Okay, And so it looks like from emailed to sleepovers
to his place, the last one being this past weekend.
Is that right?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
So I haven't heard from him since this past weekend. Okay,
it's just that's it hosted and.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
And that's and that's because you guys used to talk,
maybe not necessarily on the phone every day, but communicate
through you know, sharing tiktoks, memes, all that kind of stuff.
Right now it's just been nothing.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Oh yeah, we've been constantly talking over the last three weeks.
Like we've become like very good friends, you know, and
more than that.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
And so the last time you guys saw each other,
where'd you leave it, as in, like, I'll see you
this week, you know, call me or was it open ended?
Speaker 4 (02:26):
Well?
Speaker 2 (02:27):
I was under the impression that we would just be
hanging out again. We hang out so frequently that I
thought we were just going to meet up again like usual.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Yeah, okay, so let's just this. We'll call Justin, try
and get him out with us and see what his
side is.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
On second there we go. Hello, all right, calling for Justin. Please,
(03:05):
this is just Hey man, it's uh intern John. I
got Sauce and Rose here as well. Can we talk
to you on the show real quick about something nothing bad?
This thing like forty five seconds of your time.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
This show?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Yeah, this real quick? Okay, Yeah, so we're doing a
second date update. I got somebody on the line here, Amanda,
if you want to say hi, Hi, Justin nail that
and so Justin Mandory shout out to us. Let us
tell you guys matched onn Bumble a couple of weeks back,
been having some dates, had a sleepover this past weekend,
(03:39):
but that she has not being able to get a
hold of you the last few days. So we're just
trying to call and see where your head's at, what
you're thinking? All right, okay, so where's your hat at?
What are you thinking?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I mean, I don't know what that means. I'm just
I guess, yeah, we haven't talked, uh.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Right, So where're you trying to figure out? Where heads
that and what you're thinking.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I guess I'm thinking that we just are not a
match obviously, Okay, but it's not.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
It's not obvious though, because you haven't let us know
where you're at and what you're thinking. So where are
you at and what are you thinking?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
I mean, well, what do I need to explain besides
that she's.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
I mean, we what what happened that made you think that?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Well? What she said was right? She wept over and
you know the first time it.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Was kind of unexpected, and I let her borrow some
clothes and you know, good, she she like returned them.
Second time, you know, she wanted to borrow one of
my hoodies and I said no because it was the
hooty that my dad gave me, and it was, you know,
(05:03):
kind of a sentimental thing, like I didn't I didn't
want anybody to take it.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Out out anywhere, and she took it anyway.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Oh okay, Amanda, Is that true?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah? Yeah, Like it's not like I really like stole
it or anything like.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
I would if you took it.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
With that asking though, that is well, you did ask
and he said no.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Yeah, yeah, but it's closed, Like.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Yeah, but it's still I mean, it's still not yours. Though,
When did you think like that could be like that's
a basic respect thing, and then maybe he'd be worried
that the the other things.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
No, Oh my gosh, I only had good intentions.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Okay, okay, let me do this. I'm gonna put you
guys in hold. Are you team Amanda or team Justine?
Seven seven four six eight one to call me ninety
nine three three eight to ten said, second date update
any terms you in the morning show? Second date update
on interns you on your morning show? We just talked
to Amanda and Justin. They matched on bumble, had a
(06:17):
couple of days, had a few sleepovers as well. She
stayed at his place his past weekend. Had not heard
from him since we called him. Let us know. The
first time was kind of planned. Second time seems like
maybe it was planned. But then she had asked to
take one of his hoodies. He said, don't take this one.
She did anyway, Whose side do you want? Nine ninety
three three eighth number of texts dms open as well
(06:38):
at wymous Radio. Gotta say. The one thing I noticed
real quick was that when I asked how long she
been single, and she said a really long time six months. Yeah, doubt.
I did expect that.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
I thought she was gonna say like six years.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Yeah. And then and then when I asked how long
he was single, she said, not as long as me.
Six months relative it is not a long time to like,
not fair long able to recover and then yeah, to
do that anyway, that's my That's why I make sure
before I forgot got that there, I shall be sauce
your thoughts.
Speaker 6 (07:10):
I mean, he said, don't take the hoodie, you don't
like wear it, and she did it anyway, So I
I that's this the red flag itself, especially because they
just started hanging out. Even though she returned the clothes
last time, it's still his properly property. Like I had
friends and I've been like, oh, yeah, don't wear that
shirts with my favorite shirts, and they wear it anyway,
and that's and I've literally made them take it off.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Oh if they borrowed your clothes. Yeah, oh interesting, because.
Speaker 6 (07:35):
Like they were over, we were going out to get
food and they wanted to wear it, and I was
like no, because I know it's gonna happen.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
You're gonna go home wearing it. I'm not going to
see it again, yeah, or get stained, or even if
you do bring it back to me, it's still like
I might want it and not have it. Yeah, So
I don't know. I just don't like that, you want
to say.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
I feel like there probably was another hoodie that she
could have taken instead, if she did want to like
borrow a hoodie, that he probably would have agreed to.
But what confuses me is if this was such a
sentimental hoodie that.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
He got, why did he just never speak to her? Like,
how are you going to get it back if you
don't talk to her again? That's true, Yeah, that's fair.
That's a good point. I'll say this. Allegedly I had
somebody over once who wanted to take a hoodie but
had they demanded to be like a station one, And
I was like, this is bizarre. Yeah. I do think
(08:25):
like there are some people who take it, like I
want to say, as trophies. I've had people legitimately try
to take clothes and I'm like, hey, queen, just not
do that. Yeah, like that's gonna be a weird.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
But sometimes, like especially with hoodies, like people just want
to keep them.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
In general, just have like yeah, like keep like we said,
as a trophy or to have just.
Speaker 6 (08:46):
Like like girls do like big hoodies. For me personally,
I don't like to keep guys closed because I don't
want that reminder.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Yeah, and then you have there's always then like the
open door of like they can reach out too. I
think that's like the you don't want to move back here.
I had this guy that I had dated.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
It's like shirt and it was just like a shirt
that he had left because we went to the pool. Yeah,
and I donated it because I was like, I'm not
reaching out to him to give him back the shirt
that he left here last year.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
There said I don't disagree. Let's go in Fairfax Backy,
good morning, good morning. You heard second date update. What'd
you want to say?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I think that that woman was ridiculous.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
I mean, if he expressly asked her not to take it,
why would she go ahead and take it anyway.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
And then expect that things are going to turn out. Well,
it's absurd. Yes, you're saying, Becky, if I went to
your house and you had like a house rule and
maybe it's not wearing shoes in the house and I
sid ah, it's probably fine. You'd be upsetified as blatantly
did the opposite of what you asked. Of course, yes, yeah,
I think he's crazy how that works. And Becky, thank
(09:53):
you for listening. I have a great day.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Thanks you too.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
I would love your thoughts over text nine ninety three
three eight if you want to do a second date update,
DM's are open at WYMS Radio. It is Internshihon in
your Morning Show
Speaker 6 (10:07):
Intern John and your Morning Show, and iHeartRadio.
Second date update on Internshohn in your morning show. You're
dating somebody, could be for a week, could be for
a longer time. You think maybe that the one. Maybe
it's sounds special, then they sound talking to you. We
try to see what exactly is going on, Amanda, good morning. Hi,
So walk us through this. You and Justin first met.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Where we match on Bumble about three weeks ago.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Okay, and prior to that, how long have you been
single for? Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
My god, longer than I wanted to be, probably.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
About six months, okay. And do you know how long
he was single for?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I'm gonna say not not as long as I was.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Okay, all right, so we match on Bumble. What about
Justin made him stand out to you?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
You know, he's that type of guy that, you know,
somebody like me doesn't really get lucky to meet. You know,
he's really good looking. On his profile had some funny,
you know, funny quotes in it, and I was just
I was head over heels from the moment I saw
his picture.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Yeah, I say that you did. You deserve the best though,
just like we're on the same page. I man, just
don't say that somebody like you doesn't deserve him because
you do, like you start to be as happy as
anybody else does. So good for you. You match. That's
very good. So how long before matching to see each
other in person? How long did that take?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Oh? We met up pretty quickly. Yeah, we had we
had some dates together over the last three weeks. We
went on a couple of sleepovers too, So things moved
pretty rapidly.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Okay, And so it looks like from emailed to sleepovers
to his place, the last one being this past weekend.
Is that right?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
So I haven't heard from him since this past weekend. Okay,
it's just that's it hosted and.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
And that's and that's because you guys used to talk,
maybe not necessarily on the phone every day, but communicate
through you know, sharing tiktoks, memes, all that kind of stuff.
Right now it's just been nothing.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Oh yeah, we've been constantly talking over the last three weeks.
Like we've become like very good friends, you know, and
more than that.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
And so the last time you guys saw each other,
where'd you leave it, as in, like, I'll see you
this week, you know, call me or was it open ended?
Speaker 4 (02:26):
Well?
Speaker 2 (02:27):
I was under the impression that we would just be
hanging out again. We hang out so frequently that I
thought we were just going to meet up again like usual.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Yeah, okay, so let's just this. We'll call Justin, try
and get him out with us and see what his
side is.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
On second there we go. Hello, all right, calling for Justin. Please,
(03:05):
this is just Hey man, it's uh intern John. I
got Sauce and Rose here as well. Can we talk
to you on the show real quick about something nothing bad?
This thing like forty five seconds of your time.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
This show?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Yeah, this real quick? Okay, Yeah, so we're doing a
second date update. I got somebody on the line here, Amanda,
if you want to say hi, Hi, Justin nail that
and so Justin Mandory shout out to us. Let us
tell you guys matched onn Bumble a couple of weeks back,
been having some dates, had a sleepover this past weekend,
(03:39):
but that she has not being able to get a
hold of you the last few days. So we're just
trying to call and see where your head's at, what
you're thinking? All right, okay, so where's your hat at?
What are you thinking?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I mean, I don't know what that means. I'm just
I guess, yeah, we haven't talked, uh.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Right, So where're you trying to figure out? Where heads
that and what you're thinking.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I guess I'm thinking that we just are not a
match obviously, Okay, but it's not.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
It's not obvious though, because you haven't let us know
where you're at and what you're thinking. So where are
you at and what are you thinking?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
I mean, well, what do I need to explain besides
that she's.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
I mean, we what what happened that made you think that?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Well? What she said was right? She wept over and
you know the first time it.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Was kind of unexpected, and I let her borrow some
clothes and you know, good, she she like returned them.
Second time, you know, she wanted to borrow one of
my hoodies and I said no because it was the
hooty that my dad gave me, and it was, you know,
(05:03):
kind of a sentimental thing, like I didn't I didn't
want anybody to take it.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Out out anywhere, and she took it anyway.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Oh okay, Amanda, Is that true?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah? Yeah, Like it's not like I really like stole
it or anything like.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
I would if you took it.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
With that asking though, that is well, you did ask
and he said no.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Yeah, yeah, but it's closed, Like.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Yeah, but it's still I mean, it's still not yours. Though,
When did you think like that could be like that's
a basic respect thing, and then maybe he'd be worried
that the the other things.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
No, Oh my gosh, I only had good intentions.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Okay, okay, let me do this. I'm gonna put you
guys in hold. Are you team Amanda or team Justine?
Seven seven four six eight one to call me ninety
nine three three eight to ten said, second date update
any terms you in the morning show? Second date update
on interns you on your morning show? We just talked
to Amanda and Justin. They matched on bumble, had a
(06:17):
couple of days, had a few sleepovers as well. She
stayed at his place his past weekend. Had not heard
from him since we called him. Let us know. The
first time was kind of planned. Second time seems like
maybe it was planned. But then she had asked to
take one of his hoodies. He said, don't take this one.
She did anyway, Whose side do you want? Nine ninety
three three eighth number of texts dms open as well
(06:38):
at wymous Radio. Gotta say. The one thing I noticed
real quick was that when I asked how long she
been single, and she said a really long time six months. Yeah, doubt.
I did expect that.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
I thought she was gonna say like six years.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Yeah. And then and then when I asked how long
he was single, she said, not as long as me.
Six months relative it is not a long time to like,
not fair long able to recover and then yeah, to
do that anyway, that's my That's why I make sure
before I forgot got that there, I shall be sauce
your thoughts.
Speaker 6 (07:10):
I mean, he said, don't take the hoodie, you don't
like wear it, and she did it anyway, So I
I that's this the red flag itself, especially because they
just started hanging out. Even though she returned the clothes
last time, it's still his properly property. Like I had
friends and I've been like, oh, yeah, don't wear that
shirts with my favorite shirts, and they wear it anyway,
and that's and I've literally made them take it off.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Oh if they borrowed your clothes. Yeah, oh interesting, because.
Speaker 6 (07:35):
Like they were over, we were going out to get
food and they wanted to wear it, and I was
like no, because I know it's gonna happen.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
You're gonna go home wearing it. I'm not going to
see it again, yeah, or get stained, or even if
you do bring it back to me, it's still like
I might want it and not have it. Yeah, So
I don't know. I just don't like that, you want
to say.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
I feel like there probably was another hoodie that she
could have taken instead, if she did want to like
borrow a hoodie, that he probably would have agreed to.
But what confuses me is if this was such a
sentimental hoodie that.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
He got, why did he just never speak to her? Like,
how are you going to get it back if you
don't talk to her again? That's true, Yeah, that's fair.
That's a good point. I'll say this. Allegedly I had
somebody over once who wanted to take a hoodie but
had they demanded to be like a station one, And
I was like, this is bizarre. Yeah. I do think
(08:25):
like there are some people who take it, like I
want to say, as trophies. I've had people legitimately try
to take clothes and I'm like, hey, queen, just not
do that. Yeah, like that's gonna be a weird.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
But sometimes, like especially with hoodies, like people just want
to keep them.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
In general, just have like yeah, like keep like we said,
as a trophy or to have just.
Speaker 6 (08:46):
Like like girls do like big hoodies. For me personally,
I don't like to keep guys closed because I don't
want that reminder.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Yeah, and then you have there's always then like the
open door of like they can reach out too. I
think that's like the you don't want to move back here.
I had this guy that I had dated.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
It's like shirt and it was just like a shirt
that he had left because we went to the pool. Yeah,
and I donated it because I was like, I'm not
reaching out to him to give him back the shirt
that he left here last year.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
There said I don't disagree. Let's go in Fairfax Backy,
good morning, good morning. You heard second date update. What'd
you want to say?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I think that that woman was ridiculous.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
I mean, if he expressly asked her not to take it,
why would she go ahead and take it anyway.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
And then expect that things are going to turn out. Well,
it's absurd. Yes, you're saying, Becky, if I went to
your house and you had like a house rule and
maybe it's not wearing shoes in the house and I
sid ah, it's probably fine. You'd be upsetified as blatantly
did the opposite of what you asked. Of course, yes, yeah,
I think he's crazy how that works. And Becky, thank
(09:53):
you for listening. I have a great day.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Thanks you too.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
I would love your thoughts over text nine ninety three
three eight if you want to do a second date update,
DM's are open at WYMS Radio. It is Internshihon in
your Morning Show
Speaker 6 (10:07):
Intern John and your Morning Show, and iHeartRadio.
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