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October 29, 2025 12 mins
Macy and Victor first met in-person over Labor Day weekend and ever since then they have actually gone on four dates. Macy tells us that she felt like things were going in the right direction and she enjoyed spending time with Victor, but ever since their last date she hasn’t heard from him. Victor did spend the night after their last date so she isn’t sure what caused things to sour so she asks for our help. 
  
We call Victor trying to figure out if there is anything else between him and Macy that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and he tells us that he wasn’t a fan of who was at her house when he visited for the first time. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update! 
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Second date update on intern John in your morning show.
You are dating somebody. You think there's a vibe, could
be a couple of weeks, could be a couple of dates,
whatever it is. But eventually they stopped talking to you.
They disappear at the face of the planet. We try
to see what exactly is going on. May see, good morning.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Good morning.

Speaker 1 (00:18):
So let's walk through this. You and Victor met in
the wild couple weeks back.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yes, my friends had a cookout and we met there
and there was a vibe and we kind of like
really just hit it off. Everything was great.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Do you do you think your friends were intending on
you guys to meet or is it kind of like
fate just we're drawing each other.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
It was really just fate, I believe.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
So you guys you met at the cookout, go on
like three or four dates, right, who who made the
first move?

Speaker 2 (00:50):
I made the first move? You I know, like I
saw him, I wanted it, and I just I just
made him move.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
I got it.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
Yeah, yeah, Amazon, absolutely my god. Okay, all right, so
let's got the week. So we go on three or
four dates. It looks like we did top golf, did movies,
did dinner, and it feels like this bass in your email.
The conversation kept getting deeper, and like, I guess, dare
I say, the bond kept getting stronger.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
Is that fair? Say?

Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yes? It looked promising, like it was really going somewhere.
So I was excited. So let's have an adult sleepover? Then? Yeah,
I was ready. It was it was headed in that direction, right, Okay,
So he came over, he spent the night, we did
adult things. Everything was great. I thought everything was great.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
Yeah, did he stay over? I sleep over?

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, he stayed over. He stayed over, and everything was fine.
So the next morning he got up and he left.
He looked kind of like in a hurry, but he left,
and I haven't heard from him since we have We
have plants coming up. You know, Halloween is coming up,
so I wanted. I wanted to do the couple Halloween
things because we had talked about we have a game

(02:01):
coming up, a hockey game.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Well, and that you wanted to point out not so
much the Halloween costume doing the couples things, but you
had said this had been his chance to meet some
of your friends, which is big.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
Exactly, it's majors thing.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yeah, yes, it's major, and you know we've talked about it,
so we were both looking.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
Forward to it. Yeah, and he's mentioned your email.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
He either isn't opening your text or he's turned off
his red receipts.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
Yeah, like before when I would text him, I can
see that he read the messages, but now he's turned
that off, so I don't know what is going He
completely ghost me.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
Okay, and you've tried calling, tried facetiming, all that stuff.

Speaker 3 (02:41):
There's just nothing.

Speaker 2 (02:42):
So the voicemail, it goes unanswered.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
Everything that's odd.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
Okay, So let's do this also, have you when you
guys start hanging out, were your friends on border they
against it?

Speaker 3 (02:54):
They like him?

Speaker 2 (02:54):
No, No, they were totally they were totally for it.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Okay, awesome, So let's just I'll try call Victor and
him on this real quick talk to the young man,
young one. I call him for Victor please, hey man,

(03:19):
it's an internshown. I got Sauce and Rose here as well.
We talked in the air real quick about something nothing bad.
Just need about thirty seconds of your time, perhaps thirty
five six seven, So we're doing a second date update.
I got some in the line here, Macy, if you
want to say hello hello. Victor nailed that, and so
Victor Macy reached out to us. She had told us,

(03:40):
you guys had met through friends at a cookout. I
had some dates, had the dolls sleepover. We're going to
do a Caps game, some Halloween stuff perhaps, But you've
gone in theme ghost the last week or so. So
we're trying to see where your head's at. What you're thinking,
is there a future here? What's going on?

Speaker 4 (04:02):
I mean, you know it was a little bob when
we first met.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
We met over it like, yeah, we know that.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
So we're wondering why we we know the story of
how you guys met, and in between we're wondering more
so why the stop after the adult sleepover?

Speaker 4 (04:17):
After after adult sleepover?

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Cool, we had you know, we had some fun and everything.
But she has a lot of cats, and and I'm
allergy all over allergic to cats, and everything is cat
with her. Got cat walls. You had a cat in
the kitchen, cat in the living room, cat in the bath.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
Wait, you say we way home, we say cat, You
say cat walls?

Speaker 2 (04:42):
That mean.

Speaker 3 (04:43):
Yes, she has cats. Listen, she's totals like a kimber
there almost you know, and it has had that stench
of cat. She's like a cat, you know what I mean?
Like it was, okay, you know she had cat before.

Speaker 4 (05:02):
I understood that she had a cat.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Ma Parler Victory. So you went over there and this
cat's ever it, but you still stay the night?

Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (05:10):
Yeah, well.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
A little warning, you know, you know, totally totally.

Speaker 5 (05:17):
I don't think I would have like gone through with
that though if I wasn't a cat person already knew
that there are cats going to be there, and then
you still like went and like did a whole.

Speaker 3 (05:27):
Runlets listen, you understand, Okay, I also have control though,
you thoughts.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
I mean, he knew that I had cats, and he
acted as if it wasn't a problem the whole time.
I mean, I know that he was sneezing or something,
but I didn't contributed to my cat.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
Yeah, I got say viacder.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
If you knew she had cats and you went over
there with the allergy, isn't that kind of on you?

Speaker 3 (05:54):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (05:56):
I would say somewhat somewhat.

Speaker 3 (05:59):
I didn't realize that was being overwhelmed with cats everywhere.
I mean, come on, my cats, let's listen.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
Wait, okay, how many cats did she tell you she had,
how many does she actually have?

Speaker 5 (06:11):
Ye?

Speaker 3 (06:12):
So understand that she had one cat? Well, I kind
of like about three four cats. I kind of three cats.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
Altogether, Okay, I.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
Told you.

Speaker 3 (06:21):
Okay, let's just.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
How about you guys in hall? Are your team Macy
or team Victor? Eight seven seven nine nine four sixty
one to call nine ninety three three eight attacks It's
second date update on intern John Your Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (06:36):
Second date update.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
On intern John Your Morning Show. We just talked to
Macy and Victor. They first met Labor Day weekend. They've
been going on about four dates since then. The last
time they hung out, they had the adult sleepover. She
had not heard from him since. His words was she's
a cat gal. I guess he knew she had a cat,
but didn't rize how many cats she had. That was

(06:57):
kind of like his reason for backing out Your thoughts
eight seven seven nine four six state one to call
nine ninety three three eight to text, so I get
you and hold sauce your thoughts.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
Uh, I okay, I can't decide. I mean, I can't decide.
I guess I'm on her side, but I can also
not necessarily see a side.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
I don't like that he still stayed over. He was like,
I've allergies.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
Dude.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
You you knew she had cats walking into that spot, yeah?

Speaker 2 (07:21):
Did.

Speaker 5 (07:21):
I don't think though she was very Uh it doesn't
seem like she's very transparent about how many story A
ton of cats.

Speaker 3 (07:29):
It's a bigger.

Speaker 5 (07:30):
It's a bigger number of cats. Sure, no, but it's
not like it's not like she had seven cats.

Speaker 3 (07:35):
Three cats. Is like it depends how the cats are too.

Speaker 5 (07:39):
Yes, And I do think the cats are a little
overwhelming sometimes if it's like a kind of cats that
just likes to walk all over you and will stop
giving you, you know, like three dogs. I just I
think it can be like a little overwhelming. So I
understand that side of it. But he still went over there,
slept over, and hoo hooked up with her, so he
got what he wanted and then goes to her. Sure
I understand. I do think that she sounds like she
was really really really wanting this, and I think goes

(08:00):
like a lot very soon.

Speaker 3 (08:01):
Maybe it's fair.

Speaker 5 (08:02):
I can't really decide. But also I just don't think
I know. I'm on her side. Sorry, I'm on her side.

Speaker 1 (08:07):
Let me give them Perry Hall, Tia, good morning, good morning.
What do you want to say with second date update
on team?

Speaker 2 (08:14):
Maybe?

Speaker 4 (08:15):
I just think he could have been an adult and
just told her, like he doesn't have to day there
three cats. Frankly, would that worked for me either, But
he didn't have to go through He could just say,
you know, it's a little bit too much for me.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, I think that's fair, like that's and that's more
than respectable than just not stay over. Tia, thank you
for listening. Have a great day you too, Can I
say too? It depends on if you're a good pet owner.
You're a good pet owner. You can't have one hundred
anything and it can seem like it's one. Some people
can handle one animal. Yeah, I mean, rose your thoughts
with this.

Speaker 6 (08:44):
I can understand why she probably didn't say she had
three cats like she said cats, so obviously you know
it's more than one. But if I had three cats,
I probably wouldn't because people have a certain perception of
a cat lady.

Speaker 3 (08:57):
Yes, you know, so it's like I have cats.

Speaker 6 (09:00):
Okay, I'm not If you're not going to ask me,
I'm not going to volunteer that information. I don't think
he should have gone over there if he's allergic.

Speaker 3 (09:06):
Yeah, that's what.

Speaker 6 (09:08):
This is all on him, honestly, Like he knew what
he was walking into. He knew that she had more
than when cat stayed over anyways, and then.

Speaker 3 (09:15):
It's like she has so many cats for me? No, no,
you want to.

Speaker 6 (09:20):
Yeah, you just wanted to have a little bit of
cake and then you were gonna Yeah. That just seems
like that was his entire.

Speaker 3 (09:26):
Motive in Damascus, Adriana, good morning, good morning. Are you
doing well? Your thoughts with this?

Speaker 6 (09:35):
I completely agree with everyone else, Like it seems like
the allergy was only inconvenience when she decided it was
an inconvenience.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
Yes, And he could have been an.

Speaker 6 (09:43):
Adult, Like it feels like like yeah, like he could
have just said maybe it was too much, too fast,
and maybe that's his excuse, but he could have been
an adult, had an adult conversations that, hey, too many cats
for me.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
I can't do this and that's it. No hart feeling, it's.

Speaker 1 (09:58):
Like he's yes, because not gonna give it their pets,
you know, I mean, age Ron, thank you for listening.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
You have a great day.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
By I had an ex who I supidly dated but
she h yeah, but she like wasn't a fan of
shewey And I was like, hey, I'll tell you he's
not going anywhere.

Speaker 5 (10:17):
I'm surprised anyone let you keep dating her as long
as you did.

Speaker 1 (10:20):
I had bad friends, didn't tell me, didn't tell me anything.

Speaker 5 (10:23):
Well, because I know for a fact, Eric and I
said something.

Speaker 1 (10:27):
If Eric says that about everybody though, Okay, Eric's never
once been like that's the girl for you.

Speaker 5 (10:32):
But also to be fair, when I'm like, hey, like that.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
Girl is, I'm always right, buddy.

Speaker 5 (10:38):
False, yes, yeah, Eric and I like do we have
a lot of opinions, as we do when it comes
to your love life. If they're stupid, I have secure issues.
Are insecure. They need to maybe try therapy. We're gonna be.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
Honest with you.

Speaker 1 (10:51):
Rank my girlfriends. Don't Eric, Eric does no, don't don't Eric, Eric,
don't do.

Speaker 3 (10:57):
Not do not last one? Mm, let's let's not. Let's
not wait? Which one was the last stop? Stop? Is
the last stop? Stop? She's the bottom of the list.
Stop whichever the last one is? Stop?

Speaker 1 (11:16):
What are you talking about? I'm always a bottom. That's
that's how it goes. Anyway you want to do it.
We didn't sleep last night. It's fine secondary updates.

Speaker 5 (11:26):
You're just throwing some clips of us talking so we
don't have to talk so much.

Speaker 3 (11:31):
He said, No, you're still got your job. Shop happens,
so you can't get mad at you asked for this. Sorry,
I'm not blaming. This is your show. You know what
to do. Do you literally have control of her microphone
to you.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
I think this is the first time in Sausage two
years in the show, she's yielded power of my show
to me.

Speaker 3 (11:56):
I can run the show. You can't thank you for
me though.

Speaker 5 (12:00):
What happens Internshohn in your morning show True and iHeartRadio
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