May 8, 2025 • 11 mins
Andrea and Miles have been dating for a little over three years and while they did have some issues at the beginning of their relationship with Miles flirting, Andrea tells us things have been great ever since. However, Andrea has started to notice that Miles is going to a lot of work happy hours and never invites her. At the same time, Miles turns his location off so Andrea has no idea when she’ll even see Miles unless he purposefully texts her. Andrea doesn’t want to assume, but she is worried Miles is slipping into his past behaviors again.
We call Miles pretending to send him a free bouquet of flowers and when we ask Miles who he wants to send the flowers to, Miles ask if we can send them to Andrea. Find out what’s really going on in this week’s War Of The Roses!
We call Miles pretending to send him a free bouquet of flowers and when we ask Miles who he wants to send the flowers to, Miles ask if we can send them to Andrea. Find out what’s really going on in this week’s War Of The Roses!
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
War of the Rosies on internship in your morning show.
Here's how it works. You think your person may be cheating,
and by the way, we don't discriminate. You could be
together for a day, you could be together for one
hundred years. Doesn't really matter if you are committed to
them and you don't think they are to you. We
try to get to the bottom of things. That's why
we do this. Andrea, good morning, Good morning. Your situation
(00:28):
with Miles is a little interesting. You guys have been
together for how long?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Three years? Okay?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Years? In your email you say you have no concrete
proof that he is cheating.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Correct, correct, yeah, exactly, but but yeah, after you well,
we've been together for years and like s Miles is
an outgoing guy. But he used to be more than outgoing.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
He used to just be like super flirty with every woman,
including me. But when we first.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Got together, after about six months, I caught him cheating.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, yeah, it just like you know, bloody hand whatever,
like no doubt he was cheating. Wasn't like he was flirty.
It was like this was this crossed the line.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
No, we found I found panties in his bed and
they were not.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
And a half years ago.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Yeah, and you know, honestly, like it was a huge right.
We worked through it though, and.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Honestly, like he totally changed, like he became all about me.
He really like doubled down on being a good boyfriend.
And honestly it means a lot to me. But like lately,
in the last couple of months, I noticed, like, oh,
(02:02):
he's more flirty again, Like he's really charming those ladies
at work. And I don't know, I just found out that, uh,
he's been going out and there were work happy hours
that he didn't tell me about. Like that's been a
number of yeah, exactly, And there's been a number of
(02:24):
times where like he goes out with his boys and
I just.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Like I can't get a hold of him. I'm trying
to like reach him. No answer, I.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Don't have me cut you off, Andrew. But just so
we know the person that he cheated with, do you
know who she is and how she knew him? Like,
is it somebody in a circle?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Was it just a random No?
Speaker 3 (02:43):
No, No, I have no idea. I think it was
just like a random This is like two and a
half years ago.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Okay, but that also drives me crazy, right, Like I
don't know exactly who it was.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Sure, okay, So and so now here we are, we're,
you know, two and a half years later, and I
guess you're at the point where you can't tell are
the same patterns happening or is your brain not tricking
you but perhaps those wounds having healed and you're worried
that the sad exactly?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
So I get I get that, and listen.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
For We've always said with roses, it's like it's better
rip off the band aid and just find out versus
always wonder.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
So let's do this exactly, no doubt.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I don't to be wasting my.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Life, understand.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
So we'll have Sauce Cough from the flower company offer
him the roses. They should go to you, girlfriend of
three years. If they go to you, we put them
on hold. See what you want to do. If they
go to somebody else, we'll get some answers for you.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Okay, thank you? Yeah, right, is somebody else? Like we're done?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
No, I understood. War the Roses in just over three
minutes on Intern John Morning Show. War the Rosies on
Intern John in your morning show, Andrea, let me recap this.
You and Miles been together about three years. Very early
on in the relationship, there was some cheating. You found
some undies in his bed that aren't yours, that weren't his,
(04:01):
and he kind of admitted to Yeah, I was doing
stuff I shouldn't do. We thought we had buried that
in the past. However, you think he's been doing things
recently that kind of reminds you of those times he's
hard to get hold of. He's uh mentioned, Yeah, for sure,
he's mentioned. Or you found out rather about work happy
hours that you were invited to stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
That's kind of fair, right.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
The question I want to know is when you found
out that he did sheet back in the day, did
you tell friends and family?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Yeah, okay, yeah, it was really.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Really upset understood, and so did friends and family tell
you to dump him?
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Some did?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Some the ones that knew him were like, yeah, but
you know, he's really flirty, like that's his thing.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
If he's serious about you.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Flirty is different than finding under those.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
Yeah, because the majority of people were like, all, what
are you doing? Why are you still him? So I
had a few that were.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Like, you know, sure, So I guess what I'm getting
to is two points. So prior to this recent string
of suspicious activity. Were your friends and family support of
the relationship, like after the cheating came out, have they
been support of the last two and a half years roughly?
Speaker 3 (05:22):
I mean, the truth is that some of them still
are suspicious of him and don't like him.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
And this leads to my foul question. Have you brought
up these recent suspicions to your friends of family?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Honestly, I didn't because I just didn't want to.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Have the conversation again.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah, it's like, look, this is between him and me ultimately,
and already a lot of people in my life don't
love that I'm with him. Sure, but it's been two
and a half years. Sure since that incident, We've been
together for years.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Understand, So let's do this. I understand. So what was sauce?
Call from the flower company? Off from the roses? They
should go to you, girlfriend of three years. If they
go to you, we put them on hold. See what
you want to do. If they give us somebody else
that would try to get some.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Answers for you. Okay, Okay, okay, it's all gonna work.
I promise. Let's get him on real quick.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Hold on, hello, Hello, I'm calling for Miles.
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Uh, hi, Miles, my name is Shelby and calling you
from Wymous Flowers and you actually won our contest of
the week, so we want to give to you a
dozen red roses. Congratulations. We just want to try to
get those out today. If you could just give me
the name of who you want to send them to.
We're a new local flower shop. We're called Weymous Flowers.
(06:57):
We have QR codes around downtown, so maybe that's how
you enter. But we give away flowers a bouquet weekly
just to try to get people to come back in
the community. So hopefully you're sending them local, but if
you want to send them around the US, totally cool.
We just don't need your credit card info. We just
need who you're sending them to in the address.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Okay, I don't remember ever entering any contest for flowers.
Speaker 6 (07:18):
Maybe you just scan the QR code and didn't realize
it and it entered you.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
But if you don't want them, totally cool. I can
move on to the next person in my list. But
they are free bouquet a dozen red roses, so I
mean you can make someone's stay for free. We just
hope that you love the flowers, and then you come
back to us.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Really, you're not going to ask you for my credit
card or anything.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
We don't need your credit card, none of that. We're
just trying to hope that people realize that we're a
new flower shop.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Now.
Speaker 6 (07:45):
If the holiday season's over and you come back, you know,
maybe summer at someone's birthday and just you know, support
a new local business, help your local economy.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
If you love no strings attached, No.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
We just hope you like us. That's really the only
string we hope stays attached. You could say, and you're
on me and my ex boyfriend named Miles. So if
you don't want the flowers, totally cool. He didn't send
me flowers either, but I mean they're free and they're pretty.
My mom puts together a gorgeous bouquet of red roses.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
All right, Well, if you don't want any credit card
or anything.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
I guess I could know.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
The only thing we're gonna do is make you a
little file in case you come back and send them
again to the same person, just so that we can
be like, oh, so and so your wife hutt span
whatever you know. Okay, Yeah, so, can I get the
name of who you're saying them to.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
Yeah, the name is Andrea.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
Okay is that just a N D R E A Yes?
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Cool? And then what is she to you?
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Your your girlfriend, wife, friend, sisters, girlfriend?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Cool?
Speaker 6 (08:54):
Congrats? Love that And what do you want the card
to say? It's just your typical flower card.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Okay, it might sounds a little different, but.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
How about this will.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Probably start a fight, but I'm sending them anyway, Love Miles.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
Okay, sorry, that's cool. Past aggressive for sure, but I'm
sending them anyway.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
Yes, love Miles.
Speaker 6 (09:24):
You want love or heart, I'll put love of love? Yeah,
we want love?
Speaker 5 (09:29):
All right? You mind?
Speaker 6 (09:29):
Have I play on whole while we get these together
and then i'll get the address.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
All right, thank you.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
You're welcome, Andrea.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
So we can we can hang out pretending happen, or
we can talk to him.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
What do you want to do?
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Let's talk to him, to be honest, Like, I'm so
relieved that he put me and that is kind of funny.
It is hous progressive, but it's funny, and like, I'm
just really relieved that he's sending me.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Hold one second, hey Miles, Yes, hey man, my name
is intern John. I got saw some Rose here as well.
We're doing a War of the Roses on the show
Needs to Know You. That got your girlfriend Andrea on
the other line. If you want to say hello, nail.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
It, Miles. The reason we're here.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Andrea had thought that maybe you were stepping out again,
and that's why she wanted to do War the Roses.
I got asked that card seems kind of passive aggressive,
a little bit, a little bit.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Well, you know, I'm just tired of her micromanaging me.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
So okay, what what does that that? Okay, what's so?
Speaker 4 (10:45):
So?
Speaker 3 (10:48):
By joke?
Speaker 2 (10:49):
Micro thank you?
Speaker 3 (10:54):
When we first started dating a couple of years ago,
I kind of pooled around with somebody else and.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
Then we yeah, you're okay, well you know, and I
just feel like she doesn't trust me anymore, and uh,
you know, just tired of it. So I mean, I'm
still with her still level.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
But like, if you it doesn't sound like you're happy
in the relationship, so why stay in it?
Speaker 2 (11:20):
Yeah? Oh it's I am happy. It's okay, it's good.
Speaker 6 (11:27):
You sound like yours going through the emotions. You don't
want to be here, which I get, but like why
stay in it?
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Then?
Speaker 5 (11:32):
If you feel like you're being micromanaged.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
One of the roses is creticked and possibly edited broadcasts
with permission granted from all participants.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
One and more roses go to yms radio dot com
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Intern in your morning show at iHeartRadio
War of the Rosies on internship in your morning show.
Here's how it works. You think your person may be cheating,
and by the way, we don't discriminate. You could be
together for a day, you could be together for one
hundred years. Doesn't really matter if you are committed to
them and you don't think they are to you. We
try to get to the bottom of things. That's why
we do this. Andrea, good morning, Good morning. Your situation
(00:28):
with Miles is a little interesting. You guys have been
together for how long?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Three years? Okay?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Years? In your email you say you have no concrete
proof that he is cheating.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Correct, correct, yeah, exactly, but but yeah, after you well,
we've been together for years and like s Miles is
an outgoing guy. But he used to be more than outgoing.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
He used to just be like super flirty with every woman,
including me. But when we first.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Got together, after about six months, I caught him cheating.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, yeah, it just like you know, bloody hand whatever,
like no doubt he was cheating. Wasn't like he was flirty.
It was like this was this crossed the line.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
No, we found I found panties in his bed and
they were not.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
And a half years ago.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Yeah, and you know, honestly, like it was a huge right.
We worked through it though, and.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Honestly, like he totally changed, like he became all about me.
He really like doubled down on being a good boyfriend.
And honestly it means a lot to me. But like lately,
in the last couple of months, I noticed, like, oh,
(02:02):
he's more flirty again, Like he's really charming those ladies
at work. And I don't know, I just found out that, uh,
he's been going out and there were work happy hours
that he didn't tell me about. Like that's been a
number of yeah, exactly, And there's been a number of
(02:24):
times where like he goes out with his boys and
I just.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Like I can't get a hold of him. I'm trying
to like reach him. No answer, I.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Don't have me cut you off, Andrew. But just so
we know the person that he cheated with, do you
know who she is and how she knew him? Like,
is it somebody in a circle?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Was it just a random No?
Speaker 3 (02:43):
No, No, I have no idea. I think it was
just like a random This is like two and a
half years ago.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Okay, but that also drives me crazy, right, Like I
don't know exactly who it was.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Sure, okay, So and so now here we are, we're,
you know, two and a half years later, and I
guess you're at the point where you can't tell are
the same patterns happening or is your brain not tricking
you but perhaps those wounds having healed and you're worried
that the sad exactly?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
So I get I get that, and listen.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
For We've always said with roses, it's like it's better
rip off the band aid and just find out versus
always wonder.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
So let's do this exactly, no doubt.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I don't to be wasting my.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Life, understand.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
So we'll have Sauce Cough from the flower company offer
him the roses. They should go to you, girlfriend of
three years. If they go to you, we put them
on hold. See what you want to do. If they
go to somebody else, we'll get some answers for you.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Okay, thank you? Yeah, right, is somebody else? Like we're done?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
No, I understood. War the Roses in just over three
minutes on Intern John Morning Show. War the Rosies on
Intern John in your morning show, Andrea, let me recap this.
You and Miles been together about three years. Very early
on in the relationship, there was some cheating. You found
some undies in his bed that aren't yours, that weren't his,
(04:01):
and he kind of admitted to Yeah, I was doing
stuff I shouldn't do. We thought we had buried that
in the past. However, you think he's been doing things
recently that kind of reminds you of those times he's
hard to get hold of. He's uh mentioned, Yeah, for sure,
he's mentioned. Or you found out rather about work happy
hours that you were invited to stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
That's kind of fair, right.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
The question I want to know is when you found
out that he did sheet back in the day, did
you tell friends and family?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Yeah, okay, yeah, it was really.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Really upset understood, and so did friends and family tell
you to dump him?
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Some did?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Some the ones that knew him were like, yeah, but
you know, he's really flirty, like that's his thing.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
If he's serious about you.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Flirty is different than finding under those.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
Yeah, because the majority of people were like, all, what
are you doing? Why are you still him? So I
had a few that were.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Like, you know, sure, So I guess what I'm getting
to is two points. So prior to this recent string
of suspicious activity. Were your friends and family support of
the relationship, like after the cheating came out, have they
been support of the last two and a half years roughly?
Speaker 3 (05:22):
I mean, the truth is that some of them still
are suspicious of him and don't like him.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
And this leads to my foul question. Have you brought
up these recent suspicions to your friends of family?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Honestly, I didn't because I just didn't want to.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Have the conversation again.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah, it's like, look, this is between him and me ultimately,
and already a lot of people in my life don't
love that I'm with him. Sure, but it's been two
and a half years. Sure since that incident, We've been
together for years.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Understand, So let's do this. I understand. So what was sauce?
Call from the flower company? Off from the roses? They
should go to you, girlfriend of three years. If they
go to you, we put them on hold. See what
you want to do. If they give us somebody else
that would try to get some.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Answers for you. Okay, Okay, okay, it's all gonna work.
I promise. Let's get him on real quick.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Hold on, hello, Hello, I'm calling for Miles.
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Uh, hi, Miles, my name is Shelby and calling you
from Wymous Flowers and you actually won our contest of
the week, so we want to give to you a
dozen red roses. Congratulations. We just want to try to
get those out today. If you could just give me
the name of who you want to send them to.
We're a new local flower shop. We're called Weymous Flowers.
(06:57):
We have QR codes around downtown, so maybe that's how
you enter. But we give away flowers a bouquet weekly
just to try to get people to come back in
the community. So hopefully you're sending them local, but if
you want to send them around the US, totally cool.
We just don't need your credit card info. We just
need who you're sending them to in the address.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Okay, I don't remember ever entering any contest for flowers.
Speaker 6 (07:18):
Maybe you just scan the QR code and didn't realize
it and it entered you.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
But if you don't want them, totally cool. I can
move on to the next person in my list. But
they are free bouquet a dozen red roses, so I
mean you can make someone's stay for free. We just
hope that you love the flowers, and then you come
back to us.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Really, you're not going to ask you for my credit
card or anything.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
We don't need your credit card, none of that. We're
just trying to hope that people realize that we're a
new flower shop.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Now.
Speaker 6 (07:45):
If the holiday season's over and you come back, you know,
maybe summer at someone's birthday and just you know, support
a new local business, help your local economy.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
If you love no strings attached, No.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
We just hope you like us. That's really the only
string we hope stays attached. You could say, and you're
on me and my ex boyfriend named Miles. So if
you don't want the flowers, totally cool. He didn't send
me flowers either, but I mean they're free and they're pretty.
My mom puts together a gorgeous bouquet of red roses.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
All right, Well, if you don't want any credit card
or anything.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
I guess I could know.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
The only thing we're gonna do is make you a
little file in case you come back and send them
again to the same person, just so that we can
be like, oh, so and so your wife hutt span
whatever you know. Okay, Yeah, so, can I get the
name of who you're saying them to.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
Yeah, the name is Andrea.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
Okay is that just a N D R E A Yes?
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Cool? And then what is she to you?
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Your your girlfriend, wife, friend, sisters, girlfriend?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Cool?
Speaker 6 (08:54):
Congrats? Love that And what do you want the card
to say? It's just your typical flower card.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Okay, it might sounds a little different, but.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
How about this will.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Probably start a fight, but I'm sending them anyway, Love Miles.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
Okay, sorry, that's cool. Past aggressive for sure, but I'm
sending them anyway.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
Yes, love Miles.
Speaker 6 (09:24):
You want love or heart, I'll put love of love? Yeah,
we want love?
Speaker 5 (09:29):
All right? You mind?
Speaker 6 (09:29):
Have I play on whole while we get these together
and then i'll get the address.
Speaker 4 (09:33):
All right, thank you.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
You're welcome, Andrea.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
So we can we can hang out pretending happen, or
we can talk to him.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
What do you want to do?
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Let's talk to him, to be honest, Like, I'm so
relieved that he put me and that is kind of funny.
It is hous progressive, but it's funny, and like, I'm
just really relieved that he's sending me.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Hold one second, hey Miles, Yes, hey man, my name
is intern John. I got saw some Rose here as well.
We're doing a War of the Roses on the show
Needs to Know You. That got your girlfriend Andrea on
the other line. If you want to say hello, nail.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
It, Miles. The reason we're here.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Andrea had thought that maybe you were stepping out again,
and that's why she wanted to do War the Roses.
I got asked that card seems kind of passive aggressive,
a little bit, a little bit.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
Well, you know, I'm just tired of her micromanaging me.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
So okay, what what does that that? Okay, what's so?
Speaker 4 (10:45):
So?
Speaker 3 (10:48):
By joke?
Speaker 2 (10:49):
Micro thank you?
Speaker 3 (10:54):
When we first started dating a couple of years ago,
I kind of pooled around with somebody else and.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
Then we yeah, you're okay, well you know, and I
just feel like she doesn't trust me anymore, and uh,
you know, just tired of it. So I mean, I'm
still with her still level.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
But like, if you it doesn't sound like you're happy
in the relationship, so why stay in it?
Speaker 2 (11:20):
Yeah? Oh it's I am happy. It's okay, it's good.
Speaker 6 (11:27):
You sound like yours going through the emotions. You don't
want to be here, which I get, but like why
stay in it?
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Then?
Speaker 5 (11:32):
If you feel like you're being micromanaged.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
One of the roses is creticked and possibly edited broadcasts
with permission granted from all participants.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
One and more roses go to yms radio dot com
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Intern in your morning show at iHeartRadio
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