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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We do a second date update on internshown your morning show.
Because dating is horrendous. It's one of the worst things
you can do. It's frustrating, and there's nothing more frustrating
than when you finally find somebody who breaks the mold.
You think there's a vibe, then they stop talking to you.
We try to see exactly what's going on. Hayley, good morning,
(00:21):
Good morning. So let's walk through this. Because you and
Evan I first met on what app bumble? Okay, and
what about Evan's bumble made you stand out?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
I mean he was just like really cute and like
he just seemed like he.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
Had his his stuff together.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Saying that second I had.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
To edit myself for the vib.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Yeah, and he just seemed like, yeah, like really driven
and really nice, like and just really really like honestly
just really cute. And then we start talking and like
I was like, I was right, he is really driven.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
And really you. And so first date, we do a
dog park. How does that go?
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yes, Oh it was amazing and like and honestly, like
my dog is it's kind of particular about guys and
especially and like has a really good sense of people,
Like I know if my jog doesn't like you, like
I don't like you because there's something wrong with you yet.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Yeah, okay, so we did that second date, we do
what we were hiking? Okay, how are we a hiking
girly or did we just kind of like hiking.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I think that it's a great way to get outside.
It's a great way to like see nature without like
I'm not a camping girl, but I'm a hiking girl.
There's a difference.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
It's a camping appetizer, if you will, exactly.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
It's all the best parts about camping, yes, without actually
the bad part.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Sure, you know. Sure. And then our third date, what happens.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
I went over to his place and he made me dinner. Oh,
you like hung out, watched a movie and like it
was really nice.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Okay, And that was about a week ago, you said
right in according your email, Yeah okay. The one thing
that kind of to me was a bit like, oh,
that's interesting because you had mentioned you guys had gotten
you know, over the course of the last month or so,
to the point where you'd send each other memes and
like tiktoks, which sounds I think to like other folks
like not a big deal, but like that means that
(02:28):
you saw something. Yeah, you thought, oh this person would
like this, let me send it to them. Yeah, exactly exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
That it was both ways, Like it wasn't just like
I was sending him memes and tiktoks and like he
was like cool whatever, you know, Like he was also
sending in the back.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
So it was like, oh, he's also seeing things. And
it's like you guys know each other enough to start
doing that.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Exactly, Okay, exactly. And so but after the night or
the day at his place, that kind of has started
to fade away. I hate to ask, but did we
spend the night?
Speaker 5 (03:01):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I mean I spent a lot of time there. I
left pretty late, but I didn't spend the night.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
I'm not wishing this, but do we have the adult
fun time? Do we think maybe like that?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
I mean there would I would say it.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Was like okay, that's their okay. So firstly, you sound lovely. Yah,
you sound like a Yeah, you sound a ball of
fun times. So uh, I mean I mean that like
mind No, I mean like you sound like a good time,
like you sound like to be a fun personal out.
So let me I'll call Evan and see what his
side is the other question I wanted to ask to
(03:34):
because we've been talking a lot about dating apps in
the show recently. Haley, of the matches you get, I'm
assuming you listen to this show. Clearly you're intelligent, right
and obviously attractive like all of our listeners. What percent
of matches would you say you actually meet in person,
like it gets to the point where you actually go
on date with I would say probably, Like, soby let's
(03:56):
try and get Evan on right now, because that's I
get the dog thing too be I know, like, Hello,
I calling for Evan please? Yeah, hey man, it's a
(04:16):
intern Ghohn. I got Sauce and Rose here as well.
Can I talk to you on the air real quick
about something nothing serious is needed, like a thirty seconds
of your time?
Speaker 6 (04:26):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Okay, I got some in the line here, Haley, if
you want to say hello, Hello, There we go. Nailed it,
and so Evan Haley reached out to us. She had
mentioned you guys matched bumble, you guys had date at
the dog park, you guys went hiking, You made her dinner.
But the course of the last week or so, she
hasn't really heard from you. So we're just kind of
reaching out. See where your head's at, what you're thinking,
(04:51):
what the vibe is?
Speaker 6 (04:55):
Yeah, I think I'm okay.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
What do you What do you mean? Because it sounds
like everything was going great.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
Yeah, yeah, I mean when I Haley when she came over,
she was she was on her phone a lot, which
kind of threw me, and so I asked her if
anything was up, and she let me know that she
was texting with her ex because they share custody of
(05:25):
their dog.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Okay, okay, yeah, I got my dog with my ex,
and since we've broken up, like he spends time with
him too, especially like when I'm going to be out
of my house for a long period time, I don't
want my dog to be alone, and so like help
over to his house?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Okay, can I ask? And I think that probably happens.
I friends that Actually, how long you guys been broken up?
For Haley?
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Like almost three months?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Okay? And so, and I don't mean this in not
trying to be smart ass. Was there a numberg? See
what the dog? Or why was he texting you?
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yeah, he was just like sending me like updates on how.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
He was doing. But like is dog is dog?
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Okay, or is like dog yeaheah, No, it was just
like it was just like pictures and like, okay, different.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Things, you know, like here's what we did today.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
What they were doing? Yeah, okay, does okay, I'm not
I'm not judging. Do you guys have like a set
split schedule or did he know ex boyfriend you're going
to be on a date and you needed dog watched?
Speaker 4 (06:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I was on date, but he knew that I was
not going to be home and that I, you know,
for and I just I didn't want to, you know,
like in case I decided to spend the night, I
didn't want to have to be like I would love
to stay. But yeah, if there can't leave my dog alone,
you know so I understand.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
But if you have plans that shouldn't be texting you when.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
You're out, well yeah, let me do this. I'm gonna
put you guys in hold. Are you team Hayley or
team Evan? Eight seven seven A nine ninety five four
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morning shot. Second date update on intern John in your
morning show. We has talked to Haley and Evan. They
mashed on bumble By a month ago, went on a
(07:15):
couple of dates. Third date, they went to his place.
He made dinner very nice. She did not mention that
the dog she has she shares with an X. He
found out because the X was texting her while they
were hanging Your thoughts eight seven seven, nine ninety five
four six eight one to call nine ninety three three
eight text will get you a hold, Sauce. What are
you thinking?
Speaker 5 (07:34):
I mean, I think that she should have not been
on her phone texting her ex about her dog if
it wasn't an emergency. And also, I just like be present.
You're at his house, he's you know, taking care of you,
he's trying to, you know, impress you, and then you're
just absorbed with your phone texting your X, even though
it is about the dog.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
I think that it's odd and you weren't present.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Yeah, it's almost like the X knows what she's doing
and is just trying to be a distraction.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
That's what Yeah, That's what I was saying like kind
of earlier, because I'm like, why would he be reaching
out to you if he knows you have plans? Yeah,
so I don't like it. I understand why, you know,
like Evan didn't want to pursue anything. Because if I'm
taking the time and you're just absorbed into your phone
texting and it's also your ex, I don't I don't know.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
That's odd.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
That's like you clearly like to me, it would seem
like you haven't moved on from the X.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Let me give him Fort Washington to call. Good morning,
good morning everyone.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
What do you want to say, girl, I am I'm
team Evan, because again, like Paul said, she has if
the dog is okay, why do you need to continually.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
Be on the phone with the X.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
Yeah, if you're not if you're not over him, then
just say you're not over him and don't get on
the dating absence exactly. I think three months since they
broke up, So girl, GEI yourself time to heal and
then go out on a date to somebody else, for sure.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
Man Nicole, thank you for listening to have a great day.
Thank you rose your thoughts with this.
Speaker 7 (08:59):
I know that some people do this where they get
a dog in a relationship and then you know they
each want to have custody of the dog. Essentially, I
don't need a play by play of your day with
the dog. If that's how you're spending time with the dog, cool, great.
If something bad happens and there's an emergency, then contact me.
But I don't need to play it by play. I
(09:20):
don't need to know what he eats. I don't need
to know what you're doing. You're broken up for a reason.
That that is a bridge right there. That's keeping you
guys connected for what reason?
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Yeah, I mean I agree with that. I would almost
say it's like when you break up with the X
and they're trying to stay in contact, where it's like, hey,
your leftovers are still in the fridge from three weeks,
so do you do you want to come get these
or she throw them out? It's like, yeah, it's got
a mold on it. Hey, like left your you left
your sock here? Do you want the sock back now?
Speaker 7 (09:46):
Yeah, you don't need to reach out to me unless
it's like we're communicating on like, oh, I need to
pick up the dog at this time because X y Z.
Like if there's I personally would not want to share
custody give a dog with X.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
That sounds terrible to me. Well, I think it'd be
different too. He never watched the dog before, and it
was like, hey, is this normal? But if they had
the dog together, yeah, and they've got broken part for
three months. They've had a dog for at least three months.
It's like he knows. I think he probably knows what
he's You never watched the dog before? Why are you
sharing custody with it?
Speaker 4 (10:14):
Yeah, I'll discreace go.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
In Stafford Ariel, good morning, Good morning girl. What do
you want to say with that second date update?
Speaker 8 (10:23):
Well, listening to all the commentary, heart, oh my gosh,
because I'm Tim Haley like, I don't know why she's
like being the pointed out as the bad guy because
her ex texted her like, clearly he had no idea she.
Speaker 9 (10:40):
Was on a date and to assume she was absorbed
in her phone and ignoring Evan, like, I highly doubt
that's what happened, and sounds like he's sit in her
a text or a picture and she responded like oh
that's cute or cool things whatever.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
It was probably just that short and simple. I think
Evan got.
Speaker 8 (10:56):
Thrown off because he's like, oh, wow, you communicate with
your X. Sure, So I think he's being a big
insecure man child, because if you really liked Hailey, like,
that's when they should have had the conversation and set
boundaries things you just don't go somebody because they have
an amical, full relationship with their ex, such if they're
sharing a dog.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Sure, So if we flipped it and like you were
on date with somebody and their ex was texting them
about a dog they watched, if it wasn't the emergency,
you would would you be cool with there? I know
you like a little bit like that's kind of odd.
I yeah, I probably would be cool with it.
Speaker 9 (11:29):
I would be like, hey, can you like, can you
let them know you're on a date or yes, you know,
wait till the.
Speaker 8 (11:35):
Next day to talk about it, Like, hey, this is how.
Speaker 10 (11:36):
That made me feel like people just need to learn
to communicate. Yeah, I think that the problem with the
second day. There's two sides in the truth, and we'll
never quite know the truth. So I think that's moret
and fair.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
Ariel. Also, I feel like if you're the friend that
will tell me about myself if I needed to be done,
so remind me if I ever ask you for advice,
then my feelings will get hurt and the best I possible.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Sorry no no, no, no no no. Thank you so much
for listening. To have a great day, you too. Bye.
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