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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update on internshown in your morning show, brought
to you by Strategic Love Play now playing at the
Signature Theater in Arlington, Virginia. Let's go, Jake, good morning, Hey,
good morning, and man, let's get into this. I got
your email here, but let's kind of build the timeline.
You and Chrissy first met when or you were aware
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of her when.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
We?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Uh we met about three weeks ago.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
I guess you can call it meeting, okay, in person?
Or is that when you match? Because guys met in bumble?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Right?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Yeah we matched online?
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Yeah, okay, okay, so three weeks ago mash on bumble.
What about Chrissy stood out to you or made her
pop if you will?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I mean aside that, you know, she's very beautiful, but
you know, one of the things that sort of attracted
to me in her profile was that she said she
wanted to take things slow. Sure, so yeah, it seemed
like we're at least like on the same page that way.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Okay, Yeah, I get that because I know there is
sometimes on the apps it feels like people want to
get married in two weeks and like that is okay.
So in your email, you said you guys started off
talking on the app, texted for a little bit, uh
coffee date. It was our first time meeting in person.
How'd that go?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Uh? Well, uh, you know, we had a good vibe,
good conversation.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Okay, did the conversation seem as steamless in person as
did via texting a messaging on the app, because I
know that can be a bit of an adjustment.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Yeah, yeah, everything went really well. Yeah, there was no
there were no changes or anything like that. We were
able to kind of pick up conversation in person. Yeah,
it was great.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
You know, in your email and hopefully this is not
meant to be embarrassing, but you've been on the apps
for a little bit, but you said all the dates
you've been on, that was the best first date you've had.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
That's right. Yeah, okay, and.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Just as far as like the ease of the conversation
or just like the whole the whole package.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Like everything, whole package, ease of the conversation, like I said,
being on the same page and you know all that stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
All right, So we did the call, we date, We
do dinner next week. Yeah that's right. Okay, everything's going
well there.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Vibes are good, Vibes are Yeah, vibes are still great.
Everything's seemingly going well. And we we even FaceTime a
couple of times, uh, since the dinner day too.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Okay, how long were the face times?
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Actually they were kind of like some we're just kind
of quick check ins, and then others we talked for
a little bit longer, So yeah, they were kind of variable.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
You guys left it with we're gonna see each other
again though, correct, that's yeah, But here we are. It's
been about week and a half. Nothing from Chrissy, no responses,
she'll if you. This to me was the biggest kind
of honestly alarming. But when you try a FaceTime, instant
rejection instantly I can't ignore, which is not great, and
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you have no idea. Why is that fair?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
That's that's exactly it.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
So I'm gonna we'll call her, get around, get try
to get her side. Let me ask this to just
try to paint a picture about how long have you
been single for?
Speaker 3 (03:02):
I've been single now for about a year.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Okay, and do you know how long she was single
for or has been.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
She's been single for a little bit longer.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Okay, all right, so let me try to get her
on because you seem a good swell fella. Yeah, listen
to this show. Obviously you gotta be a high quality eyes.
That's fair. Hello, Hi, calling for Chrissy please, uh yeah,
this is she, Hey girl, it's uh interns John. I
(03:34):
got Sauce and Rose here as well. Can we talk
to you on the show real quick about something. It's nothing,
not bad, just see a couple of seconds of your time.
I sure, okay, sure, thank you. We're doing a second
date update. I got Jake on the other line here, Jake,
if you want to say hello, Hey, nailed it, and
so Chrissy. Jake reached out to us. He had mentioned
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you guys met Bumble a couple of weeks back, did
the talking, did a coffee date, did dinner, did some facetiming.
But he's not hear for you in a little over
a week. So we're just trying to call and see
where your head's at. And I guess what the next
step should be if you will.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Yeah, Well, you know, Jake is really really a nice guy.
Like he said, you know, we went for coffee. I
need to tell you to you know, and you know
we just we we really he was a really nice guy.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
So I had really high hopes for him. Okay, so wait, okay,
you say we had high hopes that.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Yeah, yeah, actually I did. So We're at dinner and
I was like just kind of put that out in
the conversation, like day, I have a big birthday coming up,
you know, And I was like, Hey, my birthday party
and were a big bash at my place. You know,
you don't have to come, but I'd love to have
you come. And he never showed up. I mean, I
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was telling my girlfriends like this, really cute guys come
to the party, cetera.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
And all of a.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Sudden, like I'm waiting for him to come, doesn't he
totally goes to me, did not come to the party.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I was like, okay, okay, okay, Jake, your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
I mean, I mean, you did say if I wanted
to come, I could come.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
You didn't invite me.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
It was like you left the option up to me,
and I.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Thought we really had this chemistry, and I thought like, well,
maybe he'll be.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Between the lines.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I think I really wanted.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
To come, and you just didn't show up.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I was like, oh, I thought we had something, and
so it was like, oh.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Okay, okay, so that's a little unfair. Okay, So just
so I on the same page. So, Chrissy, your thought
is you put the feeler out there, Hey, come to
my birthday party. You must have told your friends and
whoever said, They're like, hey, this guy I'm talking to
is coming right Yeah? And Jake, your your thought is
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it was more of a like, come if you want to,
not necessarily a full invite.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
That is exactly what she said.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Okay, okay, so you can come. Okay, let me just
I'm gonna put you guys in hold. Are you a
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Morning show. Second date update on intern John in your
Morning Show. We have talked to Jake and Chrissy. They
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had matched bumble about three weeks ago. Took it slow
on the apps, did a coffee date, did a dinner date,
has some face times he had not heard from her,
and this sere gets a little bit messy. According to her.
On their dinner date, she had mentioned her birthday was
coming up and it'd be nice if he came to
the party. Sounds like she told her friends. Hey this
guy I'm talking to is coming to the party. He
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did not show his side. Was he think goes an
actual invite your thoughts nine nine three three eight the
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you on hold saucy thoughts.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
The way that he said that she said it though,
was that if you want to come, can come, And
that kind of just sounds like you were maybe even
talking about your birthday coming up, and then you're like
and you mentioned the party and they're like, oh wait,
I should invite you since I'm talking about it. It
just kind of sounds like I don't want to say
a pity invites. I'm sure it wasn't, but it just
kind of sounds like she didn't really She's like, I
don't know if you want to come and come, so
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I wouldn't think that somebody waiting around. But also, he
said that when they connected on the dating app, he
liked that she wanted to take it slow, and that's
not slow if you're inviting somebody to your party to
meet your friends after two dates.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, there is a huge difference between if you want
to come versus I want you to come. Yes, true,
that's a huge Also the part that kind of stock
out to me, she said, like, I expect him to
read between the lines. To the ladies of the show,
you are much smarter than us. But if you leave
it to a man to read between the lines, especially
if he doesn't know you that well, he is not
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going to be able to read between the lines. Yes,
Like that's that's a dangerous spot to put somebody in. Sure,
I think rose your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
I'm confused.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
She was so convinced he was going to show up
if it was a passing kind of invite, like, oh, yeah,
if you want to come, you can come, because.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
It sounds like maybe He responded like, oh yeah, that
sounds fun, and so.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
She took that as yeah, he's coming. And then she
told all her.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Friends if I invited someone like that and that was
their response, it'd be like.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Yeah, he might show up. But she was like dead
set he's coming tonight. And then he never showed Yeah, where.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Where there's obviously miscommunication here?
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Well and to that point too, they said they mentioned
facetiming afterwards. Is weird that she wouldn't have brought up
like for one thing, yeah, if the man never asked
for your address. Well, I guess maybe maybe I should
have asked. Maybe they picked up for the date. Yeah, possible,
maybe like in the face times if you didn't drop
like hints or anything, or he never lat it up.
I'm not too sure. Then he can fault him for
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not going.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
Because even my birthday I had thought that when I
was out with friends one night that I had just
brought up when this person was with me the party.
So the next day I was like, I had as
soon I invited him. So I was like, yeah, if
you want to come, like, this is where it is.
And then this person showed up, but I did not
think they were going to show up at all, Yes,
like at all.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Before we get to your calls. My final thought too
is there's no place I'd rather not be than at
a party when it's just me. Yeah, and like and
it's the person's birthday. I don't want you to be
like worried about me not having fun, but also like
what am I.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Going to do?
Speaker 4 (09:24):
But also like when I in this person, I was
like bring your friends, yes, and she didn't even say that.
And this person that came to my party did not
bring in friends. So I was like super awkward.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yes, yes, but I love your thoughts nine nine three
three eight to text let me go out in Tyson's Tammy,
good morning, good morning. You heard second date up day?
What'd you want to say?
Speaker 6 (09:46):
If you want someone to show up, you have to
be very explicit about your invitation.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
You have to be very direct because if you give.
Speaker 6 (09:54):
Someone an out, they're usually gonna take it, and it
might not even be a personal thing.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
You know.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Well, I would say too, especially for a dude like Tammy.
If you invited med your birthday, which would be an
honor of course, but you're like, hell, yeah, if you
if you want to come, you can. I wouldn't assume
you actually want me there. I would assume you're just
being nice, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6 (10:13):
Yeah, it's that's exactly what it sounds like, Like it
doesn't matter if you're there, But if it matters, then
you have to say it.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Yeah, oh yeah, because I'd be nowhere. It's feeling the
me showing up and you're looking surprised, like, oh he
actually came, and not in a fun way. Yeah, okay, Tammy,
thank you for listening, have a great day.
Speaker 6 (10:31):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Let's go in Rockville, Monica. Good morning, Hey, good morning.
What do you want to say with this to go? Well?
Thank you?
Speaker 5 (10:39):
Okay, Well, I have fine that with with guys. You
have to be like absolutely crystal clear exactly.
Speaker 4 (10:46):
What you want.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
They're not mind readers.
Speaker 5 (10:48):
They can't figure it out, and if they do figure
it out, it's probably not what you had in mind anyway.
So you just got to tell them exactly what you want, when.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
You want it, how you want it. Yeah. I guess
it's like you can't leave up the chance, you know
what I mean, Like you gotta walk the dog to
the water, so to speak, and almost make him drink exactly.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
Yeah, otherwise they're probably gonna disappoint you.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
No, that's fair. Okay, thank you for listening. Have a
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