July 9, 2025 • 14 mins
Chris and Samantha first matched on Hinge about a month ago and have actually gone one four dates with one another. Chris tells us it only took them a few days before they went hiking with one another and got lunch together. Chris also tells us that after their third date Samantha spent the night at his place so he thought things were going in the right direction, but ever since Chris brought Samantha to his friend’s Fourth of July party he hasn’t heard from her. Chris thought things went well, but he’s not sure what went wrong.
We call Samantha trying to figure out if there is anything else between her and Chris that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and she tells us that she wasn’t a fan of how Chris acted during the party. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
We call Samantha trying to figure out if there is anything else between her and Chris that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and she tells us that she wasn’t a fan of how Chris acted during the party. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update on Internshohn in your morning show. You're
with somebody, you think there's a vibe, you think something's
going well, then they stopped talking to you. We try
to figure out exactly what's going on. Chris, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Yeah, man, so walk us through this because a lot
of times with second date update, I guess it is
a loose term. It is like they've seen the person
once and they vanish. But it seems like you and
Samantha kind of had something special going. So you guys
first matched where and how long ago?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
It's been about a month or so.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
We kind of matched on on a hinge Okay, and uh,
you know we've been kind of you know, we've been
seeing each other for a bit. Yeah, we've been on like,
you know, four dates.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Okay, and let's let's walk through. So we match on
hinge all over a month ago? How long from matching
to going on a first date?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
It had to have been like at least a couple
of days, okayized, sure, absolutely?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
And first date we did what?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Oh, we went hiking. It was really great. I mean
it was a lot of fun. We had a lunch.
Everything seemed to go really good. You know, talked more
and more and more as things kind of you know
went on.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
So with the hiking day, you said lunch. Did you
pack lunch or did you guys get lunch in the way,
Because you packed lunch, I feint that's a double bonus.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Oh well, I mean I thought so too, because yeah,
I packed a couple of you know, a little bag
lunches and stuff, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Sure, So first day was the hike, second date we
did dinner, and the third date, you guys have sleepover.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Yeah, I kind of hang out and you don't watch
a movie, and sure, you know you know how that goes. Yeah, No,
I just don't want to, you know, I ain't gonna
spill too much on that one.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
No, no, now in this carpet. Sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Then.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
So the last thing that happened was this past weekend.
You had a friend who had a Fourth of July cookout,
you have. I had Samantha to the cookout. Correct.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Yeah, it was you know, my buddy was having that
you know, Fourth of July thing, and I decided to
you know, bring her, bring her along, you know, let
her meet my friends, let her meet some other people.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
We and had that got not a great time.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
We were hanging out, playing corn hole, all that kind
of fun stuff, your typical barbecue.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Are you in no shame either way? Are you somebody
who brings a lot of potential partners around friends or
is it like a big deal when you bring somebody around.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
So usually it's a pretty big deal if I bring
them around my friends and everything else.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Okay, And so we've not heard from her those since Saturday?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Is that correct?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (02:49):
And I know in your email you mentioned you guys
were texting like basically every hour, like you guys were
constantly communication.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Like I said, everything was going I thought, okay, and
then just out of nowhere, Blue goes.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Okay, and did you see you have a good time
at the barbecue? It looked like it.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
She was smiling, you know, talking to people.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Sure, so let's let's do this. We'll call Samantha, try
to get her side and then go from there. Okay,
all right, sound one second? Should I get her on
real quick?
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Calling for Samantha please?
Speaker 5 (03:35):
That's me.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Hey, it's intern John. I got Sauce and Rose here
as well. Can we talk to you in the show
real quick about something?
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Okay? We're doing a second date. Update. I got somebody
on the line here, Chris, if you want to say hello, Hey,
how's it going.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
And so Samantha, Chris reached out to us. He had
told us, you guys matched on Hinge about a month ago,
had the hiking date, had dinner date, had a movie date.
But after this past weekend, the fourth of Jly barbecue,
he's not hurt from you. So we're trying to see
what's going on.
Speaker 5 (04:09):
All right now. First of all, I've been meaning to call.
I just didn't really know how to have this conversation.
Speaker 6 (04:18):
I'm being honest with you.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
I was really really pissed about how the barbecue was.
Speaker 7 (04:25):
Why, well, you know, we get this.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
So I was a little wary of going to me
and his friends so seeing I thought I was listing,
but you know, Okay, so he invites me to this
thing and then we get there and he just kind
of immediately goes off with the guys.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
You know what I mean? Okay, women, do you know
what I mean?
Speaker 5 (04:53):
He doesn't even really introduce me, you know, he kind
of just like, all right, we're gonna go play go
hole and.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Almost like he pawned you off. Is that kind of
the vibe.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
So it's me and sorry, like a bunch of track wives,
no offense, but like okay, in the kitchen and stuff,
doing the kids, you know, dealing with the food and
having playing games and drinking beer and stuff.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
And I'm just I really was.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Not sure that is really Chris. Your thoughts? Oh wow.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
I mean.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
I don't know what to say.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I don't think I thought you were having a good time.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I don't know, I don't.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Have well, I don't feel bad about ghost ghosting. Okay,
I do you know I have needing to call you
because I know that I think he probably did not
have any idea really because we didn't really get to
talk about it, and you know, and I just didn't
(06:09):
really know how to make have this conversation.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
But yeah, that's that's why.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
All right.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Well it's really simple, man, I mean, answer a text old.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Are you a team Chris or team Samantha. Second date
update on internshown in your morning show. We just talked
to Chris and Samantha. They matched on hingeby a month ago,
but on about four dates. For the fourth I guess
his friends had like a for the dry barbecue you
in bite her along she was not happy that she
felt basically like he abandoned her at the party for
(06:39):
his friends and left her with the girlfriends. That's why
she stopped talking to him. Whose side are you on?
Eight seven seven nine five four six State one to
call nine ninety three three eight number of tech so
I get you in hold saucy thoughts.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
I mean, they've gone a few dates. Like I, I
just think it's a miscommunication, obviously. But if I was
going to someone's house with a guy that I've been
going on a few dates with and everything, I would hope
that he would have stayed. But what I think is
that he honestly just didn't know because she was hanging
out with all the women, so he probably thought that
she was having fun there, sure, and could he have
(07:13):
checked on her more sure, she could have also walked
outside and talked to him. And it seems like he
just doesn't didn't know. And also, I'm just putting myself
in like the single friend of like a couple's friend group.
He's probably used to just seeing that happen all the
time there, that he just thought that that was normal
that she wanted to stay inside when she could just
come outside and said, Hey.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Yeah, I guess I would also offer.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I think I'm also that friend that doesn't bring people
around unless it's fairly serious. Yeah, I'd be more worried
about a girl I was dating, liking my female friends
than the dudes.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
That's what I'm saying. I would ditch a girl with
you two versus ditcher with Eric.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
And if I ever am in that situation, which I
happened multiple times, I'm just like, hey, where are you?
If I don't feel like doing small talk anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Especially if they're doing like cornwall, it's pretty easy thing
to jump in on.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
And she probably because it sounds like he was like,
you know, posted up out there, So I don't know.
I just I would have gone outside and talked to him.
I don't know, it's a miscommunication obviously.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Real quick.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I'm mean go in silver Spring, Rachel, good morning. What'd
you want to say with second date updates?
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Well, what wasn't in the way say?
Speaker 6 (08:18):
I agree with thoughts about she could have gone on,
but does she really need a man around that fun
that too?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Yeah, it's secured to me.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
She could a grab a drink, but she said and
gone out to the corn hole.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Yeah, the whole time.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Yeah, I think, especially because it was a nice weekend
and it's like a it's a funtivity and.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
Then gets to know his dude friends.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
Yeah, I think that. I don't dissagree.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Rachel. Thank you for listening. Have a great day, you too,
right Rose your thoughts with this.
Speaker 8 (08:48):
I understand what everybody is saying, but I feel like
she was just put in a very uncomfortable situation. When
you're dating somebody, whether it's brand new or like maybe
you're like official, and you go into a group of
their friends, if you don't know somebody, like at least
one person in that group to kind of like help
(09:09):
mesh the friends, it's gonna make you feel uncomfortable, especially
if he's like, okay, bye, like I'm gonna go play cornhole.
Yes you can go outside, but then you're the one
person who's not in on the inside jokes with the buddies,
and then you're like trying to get in with the girls.
But like if nobody is reaching out and being like, hey,
let's talk, it's it's putting her in a really uncomfortable situation.
(09:30):
What he should have done was introduced her to at
least one friend prior to this that way she had
somebody that she knew that she could.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Hang out with.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
That let me go in Laurel Brenda, good morning, good morning.
Are you what do you want to say with second
date update?
Speaker 6 (09:49):
Honestly, I I like, I agree with everyone, like I
agree with Rosa sentiment like he definitely should have introduced her.
I think that was an error on his part. But
I also agree with like thoughts and the other ladies
like kind of saying like you know, if you're out
and you know, like you can. I don't know, I
feel like she could have made more of an effort
to interact with the people. It seems like she was
kind of like being judgmental, also like calling them triadwise
(10:10):
and like saying that she was put in there with them,
Like I don't know. I personally feel like I don't know.
I feel like maybe it's not a good idea to
continue in there, especially that she didn't communicate at all,
like she really could. I mean, we're not kids. You
could have said like hey, I don't feel comfortable, or
hey could you like introduce you know what I mean? Like,
I feel like she could have voiced her feelings more
and not just like expected him to read her mind,
and I think that's kind of what she hoped for.
(10:32):
And I don't know, I don't think that was a
good thing.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
So yeah, I'm too Chris Martin. But Brenda, thank you
for listening. You have a great day.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
You do things.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Got to say this on behalf of Dude's there is
no more awkward moment than when your girl is trying
to reduce you to her bestie's boyfriend. Because women are
the worst wingman when it comes introducing the boyfriends to
each other. Because it's so dudes get along unless he's
a complete doucher. Dude is to go along fine, but
(11:03):
always like John.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
This is Chris.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
He also breathes oxygen like you'll find the most like
obviously with John this is Chris. He also drinks water. Crazy,
isn't they crazy? Yeah, he's like he's also seen sports
get played before.
Speaker 8 (11:19):
But like see in this situation, at least the sheet
is trying to like find common ground with you in
the other person.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Well, dudes, like again like that old edge of like
I'm going to golf play hopefully with DJ Rise and
Andro Day. I will bet you guys my house. I'll
come back tomorrow with no new information on their lives.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
I think than I like I a few weeks ago,
I'm like, oh, why you guys talk about everything and
girls are over. You're like, whatever, what are you talking about?
His conversation like a few weeks with my friends because
I was like, wait, all the gossip we get is
from our guy friends one not one, and I want
(11:58):
to talk to.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
You this job.
Speaker 7 (12:06):
I love the gossip. I love it and it happens.
Everyone comes to me and I find it out in
this building and it's great. And even I got some
sometimes with my friends.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
John, you called me Sunday, don't worry about it?
Speaker 5 (12:19):
Do you not?
Speaker 4 (12:20):
Do not disclose anything that we talked about, but you did.
You're like, hey, I have some tea and they call
me like did you hear about this? Was like yeah,
three weeks ago, see you.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
That's called giving you a heads up about something that's
in your circle. Today would rise and oday?
Speaker 7 (12:36):
Actually try and I bet you they're going to open
up like crazy, what anything?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
No, I'm going to give him three topics to get
tea about.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Okay, one rises week trip in outer Banks. You talk
about that.
Speaker 4 (12:52):
I know you're listing them right now. Okay, I like
tea Eric.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
Gossip. Not I don't care about your vacation.
Speaker 7 (13:03):
Vacation vacations in the gossip.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Who's he going on vacation with prizes? Awake and ask
him hot gossip you real quick?
Speaker 1 (13:12):
You can talk about First of all, it feels like
this feels like Nathan for you or I'm planning like
this subject.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
This subject, and it's a it's a trap because really
I just asked you this to find out if you're
doing a high tonight.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
But I think that's smart. That's not just no, yeah,
that's not like hot goss.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
Guys.
Speaker 4 (13:34):
See when I get gossip, it's just given to me.
I can't help it.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
People, it's just.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Given to me to Eric. You also like they come
to me and they tell me he's good. Hey, Andrew day,
you're on the show.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
You're in the air.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Hey, how are golfing today? Do you have any hot
goss you want to talk about? Lower golfing?
Speaker 3 (13:54):
Hot hot gossip? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Because because sa is convinced that boys gossip more than girls.
So is there any hot goss you want to talk about?
When we're playing balls.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Today, I'm I'll find something.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Oh see see I got some hot go see you later, man,
love you by.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
Yeah. He's like, did you know Branngelina broke up?
Speaker 4 (14:20):
Okay, guys, whatever, what whatever, guys Okay, speaking of hot
guy intern John in your morning show at iHeartRadio,
Second date update on Internshohn in your morning show. You're
with somebody, you think there's a vibe, you think something's
going well, then they stopped talking to you. We try
to figure out exactly what's going on. Chris, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Yeah, man, so walk us through this because a lot
of times with second date update, I guess it is
a loose term. It is like they've seen the person
once and they vanish. But it seems like you and
Samantha kind of had something special going. So you guys
first matched where and how long ago?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
It's been about a month or so.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
We kind of matched on on a hinge Okay, and uh,
you know we've been kind of you know, we've been
seeing each other for a bit. Yeah, we've been on like,
you know, four dates.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Okay, and let's let's walk through. So we match on
hinge all over a month ago? How long from matching
to going on a first date?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
It had to have been like at least a couple
of days, okayized, sure, absolutely?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
And first date we did what?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Oh, we went hiking. It was really great. I mean
it was a lot of fun. We had a lunch.
Everything seemed to go really good. You know, talked more
and more and more as things kind of you know
went on.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
So with the hiking day, you said lunch. Did you
pack lunch or did you guys get lunch in the way,
Because you packed lunch, I feint that's a double bonus.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Oh well, I mean I thought so too, because yeah,
I packed a couple of you know, a little bag
lunches and stuff, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Sure, So first day was the hike, second date we
did dinner, and the third date, you guys have sleepover.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Yeah, I kind of hang out and you don't watch
a movie, and sure, you know you know how that goes. Yeah, No,
I just don't want to, you know, I ain't gonna
spill too much on that one.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
No, no, now in this carpet. Sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Then.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
So the last thing that happened was this past weekend.
You had a friend who had a Fourth of July cookout,
you have. I had Samantha to the cookout. Correct.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Yeah, it was you know, my buddy was having that
you know, Fourth of July thing, and I decided to
you know, bring her, bring her along, you know, let
her meet my friends, let her meet some other people.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
We and had that got not a great time.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
We were hanging out, playing corn hole, all that kind
of fun stuff, your typical barbecue.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Are you in no shame either way? Are you somebody
who brings a lot of potential partners around friends or
is it like a big deal when you bring somebody around.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
So usually it's a pretty big deal if I bring
them around my friends and everything else.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Okay, And so we've not heard from her those since Saturday?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
Is that correct?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (02:49):
And I know in your email you mentioned you guys
were texting like basically every hour, like you guys were
constantly communication.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Like I said, everything was going I thought, okay, and
then just out of nowhere, Blue goes.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Okay, and did you see you have a good time
at the barbecue? It looked like it.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
She was smiling, you know, talking to people.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Sure, so let's let's do this. We'll call Samantha, try
to get her side and then go from there. Okay,
all right, sound one second? Should I get her on
real quick?
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Hi?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Calling for Samantha please?
Speaker 5 (03:35):
That's me.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Hey, it's intern John. I got Sauce and Rose here
as well. Can we talk to you in the show
real quick about something?
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Okay? We're doing a second date. Update. I got somebody
on the line here, Chris, if you want to say hello, Hey,
how's it going.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
And so Samantha, Chris reached out to us. He had
told us, you guys matched on Hinge about a month ago,
had the hiking date, had dinner date, had a movie date.
But after this past weekend, the fourth of Jly barbecue,
he's not hurt from you. So we're trying to see
what's going on.
Speaker 5 (04:09):
All right now. First of all, I've been meaning to call.
I just didn't really know how to have this conversation.
Speaker 6 (04:18):
I'm being honest with you.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
I was really really pissed about how the barbecue was.
Speaker 7 (04:25):
Why, well, you know, we get this.
Speaker 5 (04:30):
So I was a little wary of going to me
and his friends so seeing I thought I was listing,
but you know, Okay, so he invites me to this
thing and then we get there and he just kind
of immediately goes off with the guys.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
You know what I mean? Okay, women, do you know
what I mean?
Speaker 5 (04:53):
He doesn't even really introduce me, you know, he kind
of just like, all right, we're gonna go play go
hole and.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Almost like he pawned you off. Is that kind of
the vibe.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
So it's me and sorry, like a bunch of track wives,
no offense, but like okay, in the kitchen and stuff,
doing the kids, you know, dealing with the food and
having playing games and drinking beer and stuff.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
And I'm just I really was.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Not sure that is really Chris. Your thoughts? Oh wow.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
I mean.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
I don't know what to say.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I don't think I thought you were having a good time.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I don't know, I don't.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Have well, I don't feel bad about ghost ghosting. Okay,
I do you know I have needing to call you
because I know that I think he probably did not
have any idea really because we didn't really get to
talk about it, and you know, and I just didn't
(06:09):
really know how to make have this conversation.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
But yeah, that's that's why.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
All right.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Well it's really simple, man, I mean, answer a text old.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Are you a team Chris or team Samantha. Second date
update on internshown in your morning show. We just talked
to Chris and Samantha. They matched on hingeby a month ago,
but on about four dates. For the fourth I guess
his friends had like a for the dry barbecue you
in bite her along she was not happy that she
felt basically like he abandoned her at the party for
(06:39):
his friends and left her with the girlfriends. That's why
she stopped talking to him. Whose side are you on?
Eight seven seven nine five four six State one to
call nine ninety three three eight number of tech so
I get you in hold saucy thoughts.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
I mean, they've gone a few dates. Like I, I
just think it's a miscommunication, obviously. But if I was
going to someone's house with a guy that I've been
going on a few dates with and everything, I would hope
that he would have stayed. But what I think is
that he honestly just didn't know because she was hanging
out with all the women, so he probably thought that
she was having fun there, sure, and could he have
(07:13):
checked on her more sure, she could have also walked
outside and talked to him. And it seems like he
just doesn't didn't know. And also, I'm just putting myself
in like the single friend of like a couple's friend group.
He's probably used to just seeing that happen all the
time there, that he just thought that that was normal
that she wanted to stay inside when she could just
come outside and said, Hey.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Yeah, I guess I would also offer.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I think I'm also that friend that doesn't bring people
around unless it's fairly serious. Yeah, I'd be more worried
about a girl I was dating, liking my female friends
than the dudes.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
That's what I'm saying. I would ditch a girl with
you two versus ditcher with Eric.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
And if I ever am in that situation, which I
happened multiple times, I'm just like, hey, where are you?
If I don't feel like doing small talk anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Especially if they're doing like cornwall, it's pretty easy thing
to jump in on.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
And she probably because it sounds like he was like,
you know, posted up out there, So I don't know.
I just I would have gone outside and talked to him.
I don't know, it's a miscommunication obviously.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Real quick.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I'm mean go in silver Spring, Rachel, good morning. What'd
you want to say with second date updates?
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Well, what wasn't in the way say?
Speaker 6 (08:18):
I agree with thoughts about she could have gone on,
but does she really need a man around that fun
that too?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Yeah, it's secured to me.
Speaker 6 (08:28):
She could a grab a drink, but she said and
gone out to the corn hole.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Yeah, the whole time.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Yeah, I think, especially because it was a nice weekend
and it's like a it's a funtivity and.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
Then gets to know his dude friends.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
Yeah, I think that. I don't dissagree.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Rachel. Thank you for listening. Have a great day, you too,
right Rose your thoughts with this.
Speaker 8 (08:48):
I understand what everybody is saying, but I feel like
she was just put in a very uncomfortable situation. When
you're dating somebody, whether it's brand new or like maybe
you're like official, and you go into a group of
their friends, if you don't know somebody, like at least
one person in that group to kind of like help
(09:09):
mesh the friends, it's gonna make you feel uncomfortable, especially
if he's like, okay, bye, like I'm gonna go play cornhole.
Yes you can go outside, but then you're the one
person who's not in on the inside jokes with the buddies,
and then you're like trying to get in with the girls.
But like if nobody is reaching out and being like, hey,
let's talk, it's it's putting her in a really uncomfortable situation.
(09:30):
What he should have done was introduced her to at
least one friend prior to this that way she had
somebody that she knew that she could.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Hang out with.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
That let me go in Laurel Brenda, good morning, good morning.
Are you what do you want to say with second
date update?
Speaker 6 (09:49):
Honestly, I I like, I agree with everyone, like I
agree with Rosa sentiment like he definitely should have introduced her.
I think that was an error on his part. But
I also agree with like thoughts and the other ladies
like kind of saying like you know, if you're out
and you know, like you can. I don't know, I
feel like she could have made more of an effort
to interact with the people. It seems like she was
kind of like being judgmental, also like calling them triadwise
(10:10):
and like saying that she was put in there with them,
Like I don't know. I personally feel like I don't know.
I feel like maybe it's not a good idea to
continue in there, especially that she didn't communicate at all,
like she really could. I mean, we're not kids. You
could have said like hey, I don't feel comfortable, or
hey could you like introduce you know what I mean? Like,
I feel like she could have voiced her feelings more
and not just like expected him to read her mind,
and I think that's kind of what she hoped for.
(10:32):
And I don't know, I don't think that was a
good thing.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
So yeah, I'm too Chris Martin. But Brenda, thank you
for listening. You have a great day.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
You do things.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Got to say this on behalf of Dude's there is
no more awkward moment than when your girl is trying
to reduce you to her bestie's boyfriend. Because women are
the worst wingman when it comes introducing the boyfriends to
each other. Because it's so dudes get along unless he's
a complete doucher. Dude is to go along fine, but
(11:03):
always like John.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
This is Chris.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
He also breathes oxygen like you'll find the most like
obviously with John this is Chris. He also drinks water. Crazy,
isn't they crazy? Yeah, he's like he's also seen sports
get played before.
Speaker 8 (11:19):
But like see in this situation, at least the sheet
is trying to like find common ground with you in
the other person.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Well, dudes, like again like that old edge of like
I'm going to golf play hopefully with DJ Rise and
Andro Day. I will bet you guys my house. I'll
come back tomorrow with no new information on their lives.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
I think than I like I a few weeks ago,
I'm like, oh, why you guys talk about everything and
girls are over. You're like, whatever, what are you talking about?
His conversation like a few weeks with my friends because
I was like, wait, all the gossip we get is
from our guy friends one not one, and I want
(11:58):
to talk to.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
You this job.
Speaker 7 (12:06):
I love the gossip. I love it and it happens.
Everyone comes to me and I find it out in
this building and it's great. And even I got some
sometimes with my friends.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
John, you called me Sunday, don't worry about it?
Speaker 5 (12:19):
Do you not?
Speaker 4 (12:20):
Do not disclose anything that we talked about, but you did.
You're like, hey, I have some tea and they call
me like did you hear about this? Was like yeah,
three weeks ago, see you.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
That's called giving you a heads up about something that's
in your circle. Today would rise and oday?
Speaker 7 (12:36):
Actually try and I bet you they're going to open
up like crazy, what anything?
Speaker 4 (12:42):
No, I'm going to give him three topics to get
tea about.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Okay, one rises week trip in outer Banks. You talk
about that.
Speaker 4 (12:52):
I know you're listing them right now. Okay, I like
tea Eric.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
Gossip. Not I don't care about your vacation.
Speaker 7 (13:03):
Vacation vacations in the gossip.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Who's he going on vacation with prizes? Awake and ask
him hot gossip you real quick?
Speaker 1 (13:12):
You can talk about First of all, it feels like
this feels like Nathan for you or I'm planning like
this subject.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
This subject, and it's a it's a trap because really
I just asked you this to find out if you're
doing a high tonight.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
But I think that's smart. That's not just no, yeah,
that's not like hot goss.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
Guys.
Speaker 4 (13:34):
See when I get gossip, it's just given to me.
I can't help it.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
People, it's just.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Given to me to Eric. You also like they come
to me and they tell me he's good. Hey, Andrew day,
you're on the show.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
You're in the air.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Hey, how are golfing today? Do you have any hot
goss you want to talk about? Lower golfing?
Speaker 3 (13:54):
Hot hot gossip? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Because because sa is convinced that boys gossip more than girls.
So is there any hot goss you want to talk about?
When we're playing balls.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Today, I'm I'll find something.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Oh see see I got some hot go see you later, man,
love you by.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
Yeah. He's like, did you know Branngelina broke up?
Speaker 4 (14:20):
Okay, guys, whatever, what whatever, guys Okay, speaking of hot
guy intern John in your morning show at iHeartRadio,
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