October 30, 2025 • 11 mins
Rachel and AJ have been dating for a little over ten months and have actually been living together for the past six months. AJ was moving out of his place, so Rachel though it was a good time for them to live together. However, Rachel has started to notice recently that AJ will go on walks by himself all the time and guard his phone more. Rachel wanted to try and “test” AJ and actually texted his best friend “guess who?” to see who he would reply with. AJ’s friend didn’t immediately say her so she’s starting to think AJ might be seeing someone else.
We call AJ pretending to send him a free bouquet of flowers and when we ask AJ who he wants them sent to, AJ asks if they can be sent to someone named Haley. Find out what’s really going on in this week’s War Of The Roses!
We call AJ pretending to send him a free bouquet of flowers and when we ask AJ who he wants them sent to, AJ asks if they can be sent to someone named Haley. Find out what’s really going on in this week’s War Of The Roses!
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Speaker 1 (00:07):
War of the Roses on Internsjohn in your Morning Show.
The only real rule we have here is why don't
you be in a happy and healthy relationship? And when
you have that feeling that your partner is stepping out,
it is one of the worst feelings in the world.
We have found this better rip off that band aid
than sit around and find out that's what you bring
on rage Ow. Good morning, Good morning. So walk us
(00:29):
through this because you and Aja kind of have a
bit of a rushed timeline so to speak. You guys
have been together for how long?
Speaker 2 (00:37):
We've been seeing each other for like ten months?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
And we've been living the other for like six months, okay,
and so ten months officially dating or like we met
ten months ago?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
We I think we met ten months ago.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Yeah, okay, And so after four months vibes are right?
Your socide to let it move in with you? Or
is it a lease issue? Because that seems and not
not judging obviously, but seems a bit quick.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Well he was.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Over at my place all the time anyway.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yeah, So it's just like, you know, why don't save
your you know, let's let's reduce our rents.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
And make sense.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
So does does he pay part of the rent, like
he's played with them or is he.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
He pays part of the rent?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Yeah, okay, and so uh so if the last four
months he's been living with you, things started fine originally,
but you think that a shift has happened the last
couple of weeks.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yes, you know, it just something was off and he
feels like he's been taking a lot of time kind
of to himself, going on walks.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
With his phone and yeah, my son, well yeah, I mean,
I take my phone where as I go to but
he doesn't. He never used to go on these walks,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
And you even mentioned like if you guys are watching TV,
he goes to the rest. He brings his phone with him,
which is odd if you're in the same space, like
that's that to me is odd if you're living with
somebody to bring your phone with you.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Yet, yes, it seems like I just wanted to be
in private a lot with his phone. Okay, So, but here's.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
The thing, here's the thing.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
Yeah, so last.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Night I took his phone without him knowing, and I
I couldn't find anything on there, but I texted his
best friend from his phone. Okay, thing, you know, I
guess who I'm with right now?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Oh god? Okay, and best friend said what.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
He guessed like like four other.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Girls before he got me? Okay. But is theory though,
so like it's playing Devil's Advocate, Like if I texted
if I was with somebody for a ten I texted Eric,
guess who I'm with? He wouldn't assume I'm with my girlfriend?
Is in theory, so it could just be like maybe
(03:09):
they bumped into a best friend could be thinking, oh,
he must have bumped into the X and like, oh,
how crazy is that past like that, Yeah, you're my crazy?
Like in theory, could be that.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Why why wouldn't he Why wouldn't he guess like a
guy that they used to go to high school with.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
That's awesome valid, That's also valid, So yeah, the mystery deepens.
So let's do this. Rachel will have a sauce call
from the Flower company off from the roses. They should
obviously go to you. Uh if they do, great, If not,
some answers for you. Okay, war are the roses on
Internshohn in your morning show, Rachel, let me recap this quick.
(03:47):
You and aj been together ten months, living together for
about six months of that things have been going fine.
You said that. Recently though, he's been a little bit
distant with his phone, taking long walks, taking a phone
to the bathroom, which and people are texting him. Maybe
he just isn't used to sharing space, which that is
fair if you I feel like guys always take their
(04:08):
phones in the bathroom. Yeah, I messer like I'm saying,
like Devil's Advocate, especially like going on a walk by yourself,
thing like that could be a big adjustment. Sure, you're
kind of smoking gun is you went through his phone,
didn't find anything. However, he texted his best friend saying, quote,
guess who I'm with? And he listed off like five
other women who aren't you right, And we kind of
(04:29):
talked about again, just just like Devil's Advocate is, if
I had texted Eric like guess who I'm with, he
wouldn't assume if I had a girlfriend, like, oh, you
must be with your girlfriend, because because that guest I'm
with implies big surprise, you won't believe this. But your point, Rachel,
to understand is it wasn't like the best friend was saying,
Oh it's Tim from college, Oh it's Drew from work.
He only listed to women, which could which could imply
(04:52):
that there he's doing bad stuff.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
It's like a pink flag.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Yes enough to be like, Okay, is that is that?
Is that fair? Rachel?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
That's fair?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Yeah? Speaking of his friends, are they cool with you?
Did friends and family think it's a good idea to
move in? What's the vibe of people in your circle?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I mean I had no idea anything was wrong before
he started.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Acting weird, like everybody's cool.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Okay, you know, I get along.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
But even though, how about on your side though, when
you told friends of family, hey, he's moving in and
they're like, oh my god, this makes sense or they're like,
hey girl soon.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Yeah no, I mean it kind of happened like he
was over here anyway, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Yea, that makes sense. So let's say this, Rachel Web
sauce call from the flower company, off from the Roses.
They should go to you girlfriend of ten months. If
they do, we put them on hold and see what
you on doom if they go somewhere else, look, get
some answers for you.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Yeah, one seconds? Do this.
Speaker 5 (06:09):
Hell, Hi, I'm calling for AJ.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Speaking Hi J.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
My name is Blair. I'm calling you from a new
flower shop.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
We're trying out some new marketing where we're offering a
local week a free bouquet of roses, totly free.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
We don't need your credit card info.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
We're just trying to get more foot traffic during the
holiday season since it's basically here.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
I'm super not I'm not the not the the roses
kind of guy at all, not really.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
I understand that. And I am not the kind of
girl to talk on the phone. I hate it, but
I've been trying mostly to call them in. I know
that's like a little like ishy, but they've been sending
it to like their significant others mostly, or even to
make someone's a day. And then you get a gold star,
and then you're more likely to come support a local
business than like, you know, a national chain. And then
you can make my parents dreams come true, which, like
(06:57):
you know, I've been trying since I was born. But
you know this is my next best thing, you know, colleague.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
Strangers, Okay, all right, thank you.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
I'm not great at my pitch, but I'm telling you
you're not gonna regret it, because these roses are gorgeous,
and you get a gold star, like whoever you're going
to send them to your life.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
All right, all right, so like it's like a this
is like roses.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
You just send it to somebody.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
Yeah, A lot of people like to send it to
someone special in their life. So then you know it
makes someone else's day and then you look like you know,
a king if you are a hero, and then you
can just you know, go about your life. And don't
you don't tell anyone that they're free.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I mean, I guess I can even maybe like your grandma.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
She's she's not with us anymore. I'm so sorry somebody
in mind, I don't.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Can I just get a name for who you want
to send them to? I just need a first name.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Uh yeah, I guess I can do Haley, And this
is like a note, like a like is it a
note or just.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Like her name?
Speaker 3 (08:08):
And then.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
What do you want the note to say?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I would just say, like, uh, you know, hard to believe.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
It's been two years, and uh, I guess just.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
Just put a who is Haley? Because I skipped over
that one.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
She's is she?
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Uh no? Not really? She was like a I don't know,
like a relationship. I ended up screwing it up. And
then just being like, uh, not the best the best
version of myself, and I you know, I've been kind.
Speaker 4 (08:47):
Of feeling it's a regret you're sending your ex girlfriend
flowers when you're.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
Living with your.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Holding on real quick, I said, my name's interns, Job,
that's Sauce, that's Rose, that is your girlfriend, Rachel. Don't
want Rose in the show, but kill Zone. Yeah, but
you want to.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
I guess exs kind of you know, that's just just
like a fun little word.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
It could be you know, somebody you're banging right.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
Now, you don't. I haven't talked to her in two years,
you know, so why would.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
You send up?
Speaker 5 (09:26):
Who are you sending your flowers?
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Who sends her ex girl from flowers? Because because I
feel guilty about breaking her heart and I grew.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
Up with her.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Sure, okay, okay, just like we haven't talked in years,
Like do you think she'd want to hear from you
about how you're doing well? Because so she gets the flowers,
so she's out to you. And what you say, Hey,
I have a girlfriend I'm living with, Then what happens? Well,
I mean, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Trying to get back with her or anything sending her
roses giving me flowers.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I'm not giving you flowers because all you do is
mouth off all the time.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Give you a place to live, and I give you
plenty others.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Plenty of I owe you here, just like breaking age.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
You know what, agent, you're so classy, you're so classy, you're.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Such a good guy.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Do you get your stuff and you can show you
can show Hailey all.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
You're bloying.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Moving to her.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
That's what car her car. I don't talk to Haley.
Why her flowers?
Speaker 2 (10:40):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Because I grew up with her.
Speaker 5 (10:46):
Two years later, you're just sitting around.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
You're like, you know what, I got this chance to
send someone free flowers, Haley two years ago.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
I feel bad, and now you broke.
Speaker 6 (10:54):
Me right now.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Who he lived with?
Speaker 5 (10:56):
Who's there? Who cooks some dinner every day?
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Came nothing but bitching me all day.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
I can't imagine that.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
If I'm happy, if I'm so bad, that way can
get out.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
One of the roseses cretied and possibly edited the broadcasts
with permission granted from all participants. Want more roses, go
to y MS radio dot com.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Intern John in your Morning Show at iHeartRadio
War of the Roses on Internsjohn in your Morning Show.
The only real rule we have here is why don't
you be in a happy and healthy relationship? And when
you have that feeling that your partner is stepping out,
it is one of the worst feelings in the world.
We have found this better rip off that band aid
than sit around and find out that's what you bring
on rage Ow. Good morning, Good morning. So walk us
(00:29):
through this because you and Aja kind of have a
bit of a rushed timeline so to speak. You guys
have been together for how long?
Speaker 2 (00:37):
We've been seeing each other for like ten months?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
And we've been living the other for like six months, okay,
and so ten months officially dating or like we met
ten months ago?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
We I think we met ten months ago.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Yeah, okay, And so after four months vibes are right?
Your socide to let it move in with you? Or
is it a lease issue? Because that seems and not
not judging obviously, but seems a bit quick.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Well he was.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Over at my place all the time anyway.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yeah, So it's just like, you know, why don't save
your you know, let's let's reduce our rents.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
And make sense.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
So does does he pay part of the rent, like
he's played with them or is he.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
He pays part of the rent?
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Yeah, okay, and so uh so if the last four
months he's been living with you, things started fine originally,
but you think that a shift has happened the last
couple of weeks.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yes, you know, it just something was off and he
feels like he's been taking a lot of time kind
of to himself, going on walks.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
With his phone and yeah, my son, well yeah, I mean,
I take my phone where as I go to but
he doesn't. He never used to go on these walks,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
And you even mentioned like if you guys are watching TV,
he goes to the rest. He brings his phone with him,
which is odd if you're in the same space, like
that's that to me is odd if you're living with
somebody to bring your phone with you.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Yet, yes, it seems like I just wanted to be
in private a lot with his phone. Okay, So, but here's.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
The thing, here's the thing.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
Yeah, so last.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Night I took his phone without him knowing, and I
I couldn't find anything on there, but I texted his
best friend from his phone. Okay, thing, you know, I
guess who I'm with right now?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Oh god? Okay, and best friend said what.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
He guessed like like four other.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Girls before he got me? Okay. But is theory though,
so like it's playing Devil's Advocate, Like if I texted
if I was with somebody for a ten I texted Eric,
guess who I'm with? He wouldn't assume I'm with my girlfriend?
Is in theory, so it could just be like maybe
(03:09):
they bumped into a best friend could be thinking, oh,
he must have bumped into the X and like, oh,
how crazy is that past like that, Yeah, you're my crazy?
Like in theory, could be that.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Why why wouldn't he Why wouldn't he guess like a
guy that they used to go to high school with.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
That's awesome valid, That's also valid, So yeah, the mystery deepens.
So let's do this. Rachel will have a sauce call
from the Flower company off from the roses. They should
obviously go to you. Uh if they do, great, If not,
some answers for you. Okay, war are the roses on
Internshohn in your morning show, Rachel, let me recap this quick.
(03:47):
You and aj been together ten months, living together for
about six months of that things have been going fine.
You said that. Recently though, he's been a little bit
distant with his phone, taking long walks, taking a phone
to the bathroom, which and people are texting him. Maybe
he just isn't used to sharing space, which that is
fair if you I feel like guys always take their
(04:08):
phones in the bathroom. Yeah, I messer like I'm saying,
like Devil's Advocate, especially like going on a walk by yourself,
thing like that could be a big adjustment. Sure, you're
kind of smoking gun is you went through his phone,
didn't find anything. However, he texted his best friend saying, quote,
guess who I'm with? And he listed off like five
other women who aren't you right, And we kind of
(04:29):
talked about again, just just like Devil's Advocate is, if
I had texted Eric like guess who I'm with, he
wouldn't assume if I had a girlfriend, like, oh, you
must be with your girlfriend, because because that guest I'm
with implies big surprise, you won't believe this. But your point, Rachel,
to understand is it wasn't like the best friend was saying,
Oh it's Tim from college, Oh it's Drew from work.
He only listed to women, which could which could imply
(04:52):
that there he's doing bad stuff.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
It's like a pink flag.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Yes enough to be like, Okay, is that is that?
Is that fair? Rachel?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
That's fair?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Yeah? Speaking of his friends, are they cool with you?
Did friends and family think it's a good idea to
move in? What's the vibe of people in your circle?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I mean I had no idea anything was wrong before
he started.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Acting weird, like everybody's cool.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Okay, you know, I get along.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
But even though, how about on your side though, when
you told friends of family, hey, he's moving in and
they're like, oh my god, this makes sense or they're like,
hey girl soon.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Yeah no, I mean it kind of happened like he
was over here anyway, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Yea, that makes sense. So let's say this, Rachel Web
sauce call from the flower company, off from the Roses.
They should go to you girlfriend of ten months. If
they do, we put them on hold and see what
you on doom if they go somewhere else, look, get
some answers for you.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Yeah, one seconds? Do this.
Speaker 5 (06:09):
Hell, Hi, I'm calling for AJ.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Speaking Hi J.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
My name is Blair. I'm calling you from a new
flower shop.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
We're trying out some new marketing where we're offering a
local week a free bouquet of roses, totly free.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
We don't need your credit card info.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
We're just trying to get more foot traffic during the
holiday season since it's basically here.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
I'm super not I'm not the not the the roses
kind of guy at all, not really.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
I understand that. And I am not the kind of
girl to talk on the phone. I hate it, but
I've been trying mostly to call them in. I know
that's like a little like ishy, but they've been sending
it to like their significant others mostly, or even to
make someone's a day. And then you get a gold star,
and then you're more likely to come support a local
business than like, you know, a national chain. And then
you can make my parents dreams come true, which, like
(06:57):
you know, I've been trying since I was born. But
you know this is my next best thing, you know, colleague.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
Strangers, Okay, all right, thank you.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
I'm not great at my pitch, but I'm telling you
you're not gonna regret it, because these roses are gorgeous,
and you get a gold star, like whoever you're going
to send them to your life.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
All right, all right, so like it's like a this
is like roses.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
You just send it to somebody.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
Yeah, A lot of people like to send it to
someone special in their life. So then you know it
makes someone else's day and then you look like you know,
a king if you are a hero, and then you
can just you know, go about your life. And don't
you don't tell anyone that they're free.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I mean, I guess I can even maybe like your grandma.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
She's she's not with us anymore. I'm so sorry somebody
in mind, I don't.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Can I just get a name for who you want
to send them to? I just need a first name.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Uh yeah, I guess I can do Haley, And this
is like a note, like a like is it a
note or just.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Like her name?
Speaker 3 (08:08):
And then.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
What do you want the note to say?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I would just say, like, uh, you know, hard to believe.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
It's been two years, and uh, I guess just.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
Just put a who is Haley? Because I skipped over
that one.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
She's is she?
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Uh no? Not really? She was like a I don't know,
like a relationship. I ended up screwing it up. And
then just being like, uh, not the best the best
version of myself, and I you know, I've been kind.
Speaker 4 (08:47):
Of feeling it's a regret you're sending your ex girlfriend
flowers when you're.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
Living with your.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Holding on real quick, I said, my name's interns, Job,
that's Sauce, that's Rose, that is your girlfriend, Rachel. Don't
want Rose in the show, but kill Zone. Yeah, but
you want to.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
I guess exs kind of you know, that's just just
like a fun little word.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
It could be you know, somebody you're banging right.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
Now, you don't. I haven't talked to her in two years,
you know, so why would.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
You send up?
Speaker 5 (09:26):
Who are you sending your flowers?
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Who sends her ex girl from flowers? Because because I
feel guilty about breaking her heart and I grew.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
Up with her.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Sure, okay, okay, just like we haven't talked in years,
Like do you think she'd want to hear from you
about how you're doing well? Because so she gets the flowers,
so she's out to you. And what you say, Hey,
I have a girlfriend I'm living with, Then what happens? Well,
I mean, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Trying to get back with her or anything sending her
roses giving me flowers.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I'm not giving you flowers because all you do is
mouth off all the time.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Give you a place to live, and I give you
plenty others.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Plenty of I owe you here, just like breaking age.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
You know what, agent, you're so classy, you're so classy, you're.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Such a good guy.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Do you get your stuff and you can show you
can show Hailey all.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
You're bloying.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Moving to her.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
That's what car her car. I don't talk to Haley.
Why her flowers?
Speaker 2 (10:40):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Because I grew up with her.
Speaker 5 (10:46):
Two years later, you're just sitting around.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
You're like, you know what, I got this chance to
send someone free flowers, Haley two years ago.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
I feel bad, and now you broke.
Speaker 6 (10:54):
Me right now.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Who he lived with?
Speaker 5 (10:56):
Who's there? Who cooks some dinner every day?
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Came nothing but bitching me all day.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
I can't imagine that.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
If I'm happy, if I'm so bad, that way can
get out.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
One of the roseses cretied and possibly edited the broadcasts
with permission granted from all participants. Want more roses, go
to y MS radio dot com.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Intern John in your Morning Show at iHeartRadio
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