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June 11, 2025 14 mins
Sarah and Brent first matched on Hinge a few weeks ago and Sarah tells us they immediately hit it off because of how genuine she felt Brent was. Sarah shares that they went out to dinner about a week after matching and Sarah loved that Brent was the same guy she matched with prior and that he was a good listener. Sarah and Brent did plan to go hiking for their next date, but ever since their dinner she hasn’t heard from Brent and she isn’t really sure why which is why she is asking for our help. 
  
We call Brent trying to figure out if there is anything else between him and Sarah that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and he tells us he wasn’t a fan of Sarah’s TikTok profile. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update! 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update on intern John in your morning show,
you meet somebody could be out in the wild, could
be on app. But the important thing is you think
there's something special. You think they're breaking the mole. Perhaps
they could be the one, but then they saw talking
to you. We try to see exactly what's going on, Sarah.
Good morning, Good morning.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Oh I'm so glad you answered my email.

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Problem. No, no, no problem at all. So let's get
into this. You and Brent first matched where unhinged? Okay,
and what about Brent's profile sit out to you?

Speaker 2 (00:35):
He just was so genuine and yes, that can happen
a lot. But I thought, you know, this guy seems
different and I go on lots of dates and nothing.
Ever six it's like the opposite of tap one. I guess, like,
I just don't kill a connection. And he was the

(00:56):
real deal when we met a couple of weeks ago
for dinner. I mean, just as genuine as his profile was.
He wasn't like a player, he didn't do any of
that alpha male stuff. Sure, he really listened. I felt, wow, Okay,
he is exactly the way he founded in his profiles.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
In his text to me, Yeah, and you mentioned the
email like typical, like genlely things opened the door paid all,
I guess said. But the one thing I thought was
interesting you mentioned your email. You felt like he was
actually listening when you were talking and not just not
just for the sake of that nice conversation.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
Right, yeah, yeah, so he was chivalrous and yes, she
was a great listener.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Okay, So we had that date two weeks ago, you
guys agreed to go on a second date hiking. It
looks like.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
Yes, and we were both really excited about it. You
could feel, you know, when it's like mutual, you.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
Just feel it for sure that you're both like giddy.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
Yeah. Absolutely, and everything's going well. So but you stopped
hearing from him a couple of days after dinner date,
right yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
It's not a week now, Okay, no response, and.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
You've tried reaching out and being like, hey, we'll make
sure we're still on yep, and nothing okay.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
And he's not the kind to ghost like I said, Like.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
She.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
Was very responsive to me and he was excited about
us hiking.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Yeah. Can I ask, just for reference, how long have
you been single? How long has he been single?

Speaker 2 (02:31):
I've been single for a good year, he said, he's
been single for I think it was like two two
and a half.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
Years, okay, and not that matters, but just to paint
the picture, because listen, dating sucks. Of the first days
you've been on in this past year, what percent would
you say you've won a second date with?

Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yeah, yeah, I think warrants the percent.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yeah, okay, listen, I it makes complete sense. All right,
So let's do this. Let's call him and get him
on and get his side because it does sound like
you guys made that big connection and he was down
for the hike that we should be making this happen.
So one second, I'll try and get him on.

Speaker 4 (03:25):
HI.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Calling for Brent please, Hey, Yeah, this is Hey man.
It's an Internshohn. I got Sauce and Rose here as well.
Can we talk to you on the air real quick
about something nothing bad. It's a couple of months of
your time.

Speaker 4 (03:39):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, go ahead.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
We're doing a second date update, which is very exciting.
I have somebody on the line here, Sarah, if you
want to say Hi, Hey, nailed it, and so Brent.
Sarah reached out to us. She had mentioned you guys
matched on Hinge had dinner date a few weeks back.
We're going to do a hiking date. But she has
not heard from you since, so we're trying to see
where your mind's at, where your thought process is, and

(04:02):
why then they're talking.

Speaker 4 (04:06):
Yeah, Sarah, we met on the app hend and we
had a Yeah, we had a date and it it
went all great for me. She was nice. I felt
like I did my thing, you know, was treated her well.
You know, a couple of days later, I'm hanging with
my sister. I'm telling us about, you know, I went

(04:28):
out with this, you know, this wonderful woman, and she said, hey,
let's look her up. You know, I'm like, I really
don't want to do that.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
We look her up.

Speaker 4 (04:37):
She got a TikTok page and she is just going
in on me. You know, I didn't you know, pull
out a chair, I didn't order for you know, I
went Dutch. None of that happened. And I'm like, what

(04:57):
is wait?

Speaker 1 (04:58):
Wait, So she had a fun date review about your
guys' date, but none of it was true.

Speaker 4 (05:06):
None of it was true, Sarah.

Speaker 1 (05:08):
Sarah Sarah, Okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
Well listen, Brent, I just do that to get hits
and like on my profile, it's just something I do
sometimes I get sponsors to keep keep a little a
huffle of funds going on the side. But look, I
didn't mention your name. You are a perfect gentleman.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
But Sarah, though, I mean, okay, let's pause that for
a second. Brent, I did she say your name at all?

Speaker 4 (05:40):
No, she's been saying my name. I will give with it.
But I knew who she was talking about. That hurt
my feet.

Speaker 1 (05:45):
Oh yeah, okay, So Sarah, just so I understand, and
you posted a TikTok date review and and kind of
like took bits and pieces, but may have a situation
about your date of Brent.

Speaker 2 (05:59):
Yeah, but I mean, I just wow, it wasn't no,
he was Brent. You were a perfect gentleman.

Speaker 1 (06:06):
Okay, So you know, okay, I'm I'm gonna put you Yeah,
all right, I'm gonna put you guys in hold? Are
you team Brent thor team Sarah? Eight seven seven, nine
nine five for six s eight one to call nine
ninety three three eight to text second date update on internal,
second date update on intern John in your morning show,
we have talked to Sarah and Brent. They had mash

(06:28):
on Hinge, they had a date few weeks back, she
never heard from him. I guess his sister did some reconnaissance,
found a TikTok that she had made, basically leaving a
review of the date, but also taking some liberties and
saying that he did things he didn't do. Your thoughts
eight seven, seven, nine nine for six eight one to
call nine nine three three eight texts while getting you

(06:49):
in hold sauce? What do you think him?

Speaker 3 (06:51):
I am team Brent all the way.

Speaker 5 (06:53):
Look, if you want to have a TikTok and you
want to share your dating life like so many people
on TikTok to you and I've walked a million on
these videos, that's great. But it gets to the point
where sometimes you're just like, this cannot be real because
it just doesn't seem genuine. So if you're lying about
your life, like, sure, make your money off of however
you want, but like, if you're lying and then you
expect to get upset that the relationship's not moving forward,

(07:14):
that's on you. I think that if you genuinely shared
like how great and a gentleman he was, then this
you probably would have kept dating because he seems like
a lovely dude, and you ruin that and rightfully, so
I wouldn't see him again, because that's not like you're
building a relationship on lies. Yeah, just to get a
click and a like, sure, do it in a different way.
It's not that difficult.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
You brought up interesting point, Sonz, because I have seen those,
like those date recap videos where it's like, hey, do
you just make the dumbest decisions all the time, Like there's.

Speaker 5 (07:42):
That girl Molly Rutter who literally got famous off of
her lying about her dating life. Yeah, because it was
so unhinged and so like, I just don't I don't
like that. And then you're upset that they don't want
to see you again because that's not normal behavior.

Speaker 3 (07:54):
I understands T point twenty five.

Speaker 5 (07:55):
Everybody has social media, But if you want to make
that like your side hustle, sure, just don't lie. I
would want to hang out someone that's on the internet
lying about me? Why would I want to see you again?
Don't waste friends time. Nobody wants their time wasted.

Speaker 1 (08:07):
It's like, if you're gonna lie on the internet, what
would you stay behind his back?

Speaker 5 (08:10):
That's what I'm saying. And then she's like, Oh, I
just need to get my clicks girls, shut up something else.
If you talk about how nice he was, people on
the internet would genuinely be.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
Happy for you.

Speaker 4 (08:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
I hope this finds me.

Speaker 3 (08:22):
Yeah, yeah, I don't blame him. Good for his sister
suggesting that too.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, the phones are blown up in silver Spring, Delvina,
good morning, good morning. What do you want to say
of this girl?

Speaker 6 (08:36):
Definitely, ping Branch. They're left out a lot of pertinent information,
So leaving out things is the equivalent of lying. So
she was not honest in the situation, and you know,
using him and she's saying he's this perfect guy, but
then using him and saying how horrible the date was
for clicks and lights like how old are we? If

(08:57):
we want a relationship, let's do it.

Speaker 1 (09:00):
Yeah, yeah, I think that's fair. Delvia, Thank you for
listening to have a great day. Thank you too, Bye Rose.
What do you want to say with this?

Speaker 7 (09:07):
I think this is a huge red flag that she's
lying about this man on the internet and then she's
upset that he didn't like call her back.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
Yea, what how occusional are we?

Speaker 7 (09:19):
If you're gonna lie about this man on the internet,
you should expect that, Like, especially her profiles public that
someone in his life is going to see it and
bring it back to him.

Speaker 1 (09:33):
Also, like I just I feel like lying for attention
is just not it's weird. Yes, it's weird. I mentioned
this a couple of weeks ago. As a dude, there's
been a lot of like I've seen tiktoks, like where
all the good guys at doing these kinds of date
breakdowns after a date and that are posting like screenshots
of hinge stuff. I get when it's really cringe, but

(09:53):
there's somewhere it's like I don't see what the problem was,
and dudes are very hyper aware of that where it's
like you don't want to be a part of that.
I was on a date of the Girl once that
went well. Find out she posted a TikTok, didn't say
my name, but it was like positive things. I was like,
am out. I know it seems like I beat hypocrite. Okay,

(10:14):
I know it seems hypocritical because of this show, but
like we usually don't talk about first dates in the
show until it's like further on. I think if I
was doing that on this show, like every date, if
you want to date with me today, know that tomorrow
and I talk about it and like make up things.
I don't think anybody want going to date with me.
Why am I going to go on a date with
him if he's gonna lie and drag me online the

(10:35):
strangers And I can't defend myself about that show.

Speaker 5 (10:37):
I will say as a single woman, I don't mind
the women that are around my age looking for love
and taking us on that journey, cause it's just like
very if it's very authentic, Like there's some there very authentic,
and most of these people they just go over like
they gloss over it and they don't go into detail, like, oh,
he was this, like you know what I'm saying, So
just like we went here, it was nice. This is

(10:57):
why war get ready with me? And then after they're like,
don think we're going to seach other again. And that's fine,
But if you're lying about stuff, that's weird.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
That would make me lose respect for you as a
content creator.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
That's weird.

Speaker 7 (11:09):
Oh you're lying, Like all of this is a big ruise,
Like especially if you're playing it off as like this
is real life.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yes, there's been times where Sauce has come to me
with things that she's heard. I've given Sheldon my phone
and going here and it's like, not even in the
same wheelhouse.

Speaker 3 (11:24):
Yeah, I've heard some wild things about you, John, Honestly.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
God, I have.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
I have.

Speaker 1 (11:29):
I have heard some weird other I'm like, my John, No,
I heard too, and I'm like, yeah, that sounds great.
But I was playing FIFA last night.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
I did confront that girl about her behavior online though
I had to.

Speaker 5 (11:43):
Good for you, I do. I'm like, you're gonna I
was like, you're gonna be on the internet talking about
my friend?

Speaker 1 (11:49):
How to go?

Speaker 4 (11:51):
You know?

Speaker 3 (11:51):
You know I went. You would like to know you
have a FaceTime message of me explaining it to you. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I'll tell you later.

Speaker 1 (12:01):
It was great, Okay, let me go in Catonsville, Diane,
good morning, good morning, And what do you want to say?
It was second date out there, girl.

Speaker 6 (12:11):
I am team Brent all the way.

Speaker 2 (12:13):
That is so rude.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
How old are you twelve?

Speaker 3 (12:16):
I don't think you have to post thing on TikTok.

Speaker 6 (12:18):
I mean I don't have TikTok personally, but if someone
pushed something about me on TikTok, I partly would want
to know, especially.

Speaker 3 (12:25):
If it was rude and ignorant.

Speaker 2 (12:27):
I mean, sez A wins. Let's grow up people.

Speaker 4 (12:30):
It's dating is hard enough as it is.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
Yeah, so you don't need to add you know, people
are people just so rude.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
People just don't care about people anymore.

Speaker 1 (12:41):
Yeah, I disagree, Diane. Thank you for listening. I have
a great day.

Speaker 6 (12:46):
Thank you too.

Speaker 1 (12:47):
Somebody said I wish I had a Shelby Pitbull in
my corner. Yeah, you know, and also I do. I'm
I'm the listener saying that, not me.

Speaker 4 (12:58):
I know, I know.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
I'm like, yeah, like everybody should have me.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
It's funny because I do think with Sauce people underestimator
because of her size.

Speaker 5 (13:07):
I am just a very protected person of my friends,
and it doesn't matter like how good of friends we are.

Speaker 3 (13:11):
I just care.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
Yes, what I was gonna say is because they under
asked me because of your size, they assume you're gonna
be going in with kitten. Pause, and it's gonna be
like a little cotton hits and so no, no, no, no.
She will leave a grown man crying as she tells
them about himself if he deserves it rightfully.

Speaker 5 (13:28):
So I usually just lay out the truth, I agree,
and then they are just like Okay, and I'm like,
is that very nice?

Speaker 3 (13:35):
Yes, it's not nice, is it? And you did that?

Speaker 1 (13:37):
And then I'll walk away going how many times she
work on that in her head? I'm like, oh, yeah,
I know her probably a lot.

Speaker 5 (13:43):
Yeah, yeah, I'm just I don't like hi. When people
are me and my friends for no reason. I think
that's good, especially after you waste your time on a
date with them.

Speaker 1 (13:49):
Yeah, that's why you're right or die? I think that's uh.
I have a group chat of like dating advice, you're
what you're when the main advisors thank you, which is,
you know, fantastic, So it's fantastic. Somebody said we should
do a station FIFA tournament. Well I can't because I'm
too busy to live an interesting life, apparently doing other
things running around the streets. This is the same guy

(14:09):
who had pregnancy science hanging up all across the DMV.
This guy, Meanwhile, I'm building dynasties in football in.

Speaker 3 (14:15):
Soccer, So they're just trying to get your tention, dude.

Speaker 1 (14:18):
Yeah, yeah, I'm trying to get my attention too, but
I don't think that's the way to go about it.
But I digress. It's so weird life anyway you want
to do a second date update. Dms are open at
Ymus Radio. You can also text nine to ninety three
three eight, let's do this.

Speaker 5 (14:30):
Intern John in your morning Show's True on iHeartRadio
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