July 23, 2025 • 12 mins
Chelsea and Bret first matched on Hinge three weeks ago and actually went on their first date for coffee two weeks ago. Bret tells us that they also went to see a movie together on a separate date where they kissed so he thought things were going in the right direction. However, ever since their movie date Bret hasn’t heard from Chelsea and he isn’t really sure what went wrong.
We call Chelsea trying to figure out if there is anything else between her and Bret that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and she tells us that she wasn’t a fan of what Bret called her. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
We call Chelsea trying to figure out if there is anything else between her and Bret that happened that may have caused things to go wrong and she tells us that she wasn’t a fan of what Bret called her. Find out what’s really going on in this Second Date Update!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update on Internsjohn in Your Morning Show. The
only thing worse than dating in twenty twenty five is
when you find somebody you think there's a connection, then
out of nowhere, out of the blue, they stopped talking
to you. You're wondering why we chat figure out exactly
what's going on?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Brett, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Hey, how are you guys doing? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Man, So let's walk through this. You and Chelsea first
matched where.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
We met up on hinge you know, probably a little
bit a little over a month ago or so.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
And what about Chelsea's hinge me here stand out?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I mean, you know, you know, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
About three weeks ago, we went on a coffee date
and it was great, turned to low pro.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Last week we hooked up again.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
We went and saw the new Jurassic Park movie. Nice,
and I mean everything has been great. I mean we've
we've there's the vibes are good.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
I think we made a connection.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
And after the actually after the movie actually we had
kind of like our first official.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Kiss, and you know, all was good and then I
just she just ghosted me and I had no idea why.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
But the question was what about her hinge? Mader stand out?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Though?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
What about her profile was like, oh I need to
see this script.
Speaker 6 (01:15):
Why did you like her profile?
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
I mean she did, mean she just fit you know everything.
All her answers are similar to mine.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Like I mentioned about the coffee dates, then I have
a huge like up doing that kind of stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
She's into that, She's in the movie thing. Sure, we
even talked to it.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
She's even a little bit into some sports, which I
like too as well. And everything on her profile seem
to match exactly what I was.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Intoactly from what your email kind of leads, it seems
like things are building up from my matching coffee day
to make sure we vibe, We go the movie, we
hang out after the movie, have a little kissy kiss.
So everything was leading to we're gonna hang out again.
But you've tried texting, calling, nothing.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Yeah, just total yeah, just silence.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Was as far as the movie was, it like one
of those things where you wanted to see it and
she didn't. Maybe that was why was she down for
it too?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Park? Yeah, I mean I think she was into it.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I mean we talked about I mean she enjoyed, we
both enjoyed the movie, enjoyed our time.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
I mean everything was seen totally cool.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
That's what doesn't make and there's I don't have some
big hidden skeleton in my closet or actually that I
don't think, so I.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Don't know what the deal is.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
And before we call her, I do want to ask
us two more questions. Number one, how long have you
been single for?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Oh? I mean it's been almost a year, okay.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
And then my second question is I think this is
maybe more interesting too, is how many people have you
actually met off the app? And by the way, not
to shame at all because you're you're a single deal,
but I do think people are surprised by how few
people you actually meet off the app. You can get
a million matches, but to actually go out of the
house and meet somebody, like, how many like dates have
you gotten from Hinge?
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I mean I've besides Chelsea too, that's it.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Yeah, I mean, like, I don't think people get like
it's matching is not the problem. It's like, let's say
this right, we'll call it Chelsea and get it wrong,
because I can understand why that would be confusing if
things are building up but then nothing, so let me
do that. Also, tweint us girls, I thought the new
Durassic Park was your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I dug it, reminding me of the old school DISSI.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Let's trike. We'll talk about this later. Dress park stuff.
But hello, calling for Chelsea.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Please, Hey, it's calling for Chelsea. It's intern John. I
got Sauce and Rose here as well. This is when
I talk to you on the air. Fight real quick
if we could nothing bad, just like need thirty seconds
of your time.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Oh yeah, okay, okay, So we're doing a second date. Update.
I got this something in the line here Brett if
he wants say, hello.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Hey, what's up Chelsea?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
How you doing?
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Nail it? And so Chelsea the reason we're here.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Brett kind of filled this in on you guys matched
on Hinge about a month ago, had the coffee date
when and saw Jurassic Park, but that he hasn't really
heard me the last week. So we're just trying to
call and see where your head's at and what's kind
of going on with you.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Well, I guess that did happen. I did go on
a date with Brett. We we didn't match on Hinge,
and we had a fantastic time.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
I went to the movies. I love Jurassic Park. And
we actually walked.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
In the park afterwards, you know, great.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Kids, And but what's the hold up?
Speaker 5 (04:58):
I don't know, like he text me, and well, I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Know, Like, my name is not Chelsea?
Speaker 7 (05:08):
So did he not see your name on the times
that you hung out? Or and like, so are you
saying after the Jurassic Parks eight he texted you Chelsea?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Confused?
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Right? Now?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Hold on?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
What do you mean do you call the wrong person Chelsea?
What do you mean your name's not Chelsea?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Chelsea?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
My name is not Chelsea?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Okay, wait before did.
Speaker 7 (05:32):
You hang out with him? Did he have the wrong person?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
So I am okay, okay, let's okay first, so hold on,
so all right, I mean it is possible that you
guys matched. And then I guess, okay, what Brett? If
her name's not Chelsea, do you want a guess?
Speaker 6 (05:51):
What?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Oh my gosh, I don't I don't don't even know
what to say?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Not named Chelsea? What's your what does your guy give
a name?
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Girl? Isabelle?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Okay, that's fair?
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Did he does not bring up your name on the dates?
Or you just didn't tell him that he was wrong?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Question?
Speaker 8 (06:15):
It is possible, Yeah, he didn't on the date, but like,
it's okay, You're sure, Brett, Brett your thoughts real quick?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Is there?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Did you?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
I mean?
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Look, look, it's like Isabelle Isabelle.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I there's I work with someone named Chelsea.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Here.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
I'm gonna put you to on hold real quick. Who's
whose side are you on? Brett or Chelsea Isabelle? Eight
seven four sixty one to call nine ninety three three
eight the text second date update on intern John your
Morning show. Second date update on intern John in your
Morning show, we has time to Brett and Chelsea slash Isabelle.
So they had matched on the apps. They had had
(07:05):
like a coffee date whenside Jurassic Park, had a nice
walk in the park. Afterwards, she stopped talking to him.
Apparently he called her the wrong name over text. Her
real name is Isabelle.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
I'll give this. She played it off very well. Yes
it was Uh. I was equally confused.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
So your thoughts eight seven seven nine ninety five four
six state one to call nine ninety three three eighth
to text while getting on hold, sauce, what are you thinking?
Speaker 7 (07:28):
I know that it could have been accident, you know,
because you're newly dating, but it's not that hard just
to make sure that the person that you set up
a date with has the name on their account. Yes,
you know, and so also, I mean I think that
she was like, chill about it. I if you called
me the wrong name and we just met, I wouldn't
I would obviously correct you, though, but I would be
(07:49):
a text. But yeah, I probably wouldn't answer either. If
especially if it was just like we hung out like
one time or whatever, like I thought, we didn't like
really get to know each other. I'd probably just be like, okay,
never mind, especially if I'm try you're trying and you
get to know me and you can't get my name right, No,
thank you.
Speaker 6 (08:02):
That's just my opinion though.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
That's fair.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Let me go to Arlington, Holly, good morning, good morning.
What do you want to say with second date update?
Speaker 9 (08:11):
It seems like it was kind of an honest mistake,
Like why wouldn't she just correct him and then to
go somebody.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Over what seems like an honest mistake?
Speaker 9 (08:20):
I am sounds like that, that's the weirdest part, Like
then to I don't know, it's like him.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Yeah, because I mean, Hollywood, it would be where they
were dating for a year and he called the wrong name,
that's for sure, red flag.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
But yeah, I do think.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
If she said they had a fantastic time.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Sure, yeah, I don't disagree. Yeah I disagree.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Looking for an excuse, but I disagree.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Thank you for listening, have a great day.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
Thanks you to you by I.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Do think there is something too. If you are doing
online dating, you in theory of access to more daters
than anybody in the history of dating. Is it possible
that he had gone on a date with somebody else
named Chelsea and for me, like, I don't say people's
phone numbers and telling now'm gonna need it.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
But it's more so the fact that he spelled it out.
Speaker 7 (09:05):
If I'm looking at you and I to call you
Steve and your name is Mike, yeah, she's like Steve Mike.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I think it's it's almost like the unspoken thing of
online dating, right, we all know we're dating on the people,
but you don't talk about it.
Speaker 7 (09:15):
Yeah, So maybe she just saw that and she's like,
I'm so tired of this, and it's just like I'm
not even gonna deal with this. I don't feel like
going through like a little like thing where you have
to explain, like that's not your name. Then it's like emotional.
It's like I don't want to see a guy, and
I think that's weird. Some she doesn't feel like dealing
with any.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Of that she's did, Sir, Rose, would you want to
say with this?
Speaker 9 (09:31):
I think it would be different if it were like
they were several dates in and then all of a
sudden there was a change in her, like he just
randomly started calling her Chelsea.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
The fact that it was in a text is very
bizarre to me.
Speaker 9 (09:42):
Even if you don't save the number of the person,
I feel like that's weird because then I'm thinking, Okay,
how many.
Speaker 6 (09:49):
Girls are you texting right now? Yeah, that's fair because
and also why wouldn't you.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Have her name saved if you're texting her like that?
Speaker 6 (09:56):
Yeah, it doesn't, and it doesn't.
Speaker 7 (09:59):
I don't like it because if you're not going to
say their number, that's one thing, but make sure you're texting.
Speaker 6 (10:02):
The right person.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Well, I don't disagree with that.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
You know a lot of people don't save numbers like
I understand that. I've just you got to make sure though.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
That is also the thing where Apple needs that update
instead of all the other stup bass updates where you're
texting the wrong person. That's like, hey, just see now
you're saying you're calling this person Chelsea.
Speaker 6 (10:19):
That person's not named Chelsea.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
That and when I take a screenshot when the cars
and Apple play, I don't want to screenshot of the GPS.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
I don't stupidest thing I will say.
Speaker 9 (10:29):
When you're texting somebody, even if you have their numbers saved,
usually on like the iPhone, it'll pop up as like
this is their contact information, So like he's either completely.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Oblivious or that they don't. I don't know. It's just weird.
It's just weird. He's a dude, bra, So what we do? Yeah,
let me go and Sharon, good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
I love your show.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Thank you sir.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
So here's what I would say. I would say, maybe
I'm just really old and I've been married way too long.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
But I think it's incredible, incredibly petty of her to
ghost him over using the wrong name.
Speaker 7 (11:05):
Especially since they've just begun hanging out.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
She herself said she had a fantastic time on the date.
We don't need to look for reasons not to hang
out with people who we enjoyed our company. I don't understand.
I think it's petty, it's dumb.
Speaker 7 (11:18):
She should have just corrected him and we could have
continued to date and hang out.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Its great, Sharon, thank you for listening. I have a
great day you as well.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
She kind of brings up a good point where I
do think the problem with dating today is it's very
easy to find the smallest reason to bail. Yeah, but
like that's true, maybe wait for the big ones. Do
you mean, because he can find the littlest ones for
for anything, how they swallow, how they legitily anything breaker.
Speaker 6 (11:46):
I don't think she liked him.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yeah, what I'm saying that kind of what it's giving.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
Even though she said she had a great time. Okay,
I don't think she liked him, because if if that's.
Speaker 6 (11:53):
Like where you'd all a line, you definitely didn't like him.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
I wouldn't. Yeah, I wouldn't.
Speaker 7 (11:58):
If I were and hung out with me one time
they called me Shelley, I'd be like, Okay, well so
that's a bee.
Speaker 6 (12:02):
You spelled it wrong, But yeah, I think it was
she d. It is shell d. It's just so annoying
to change it all the time for people.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Just want to make sure if you want to do
you a second date. Update. Dms are open at WYMUS
Radio intern
Speaker 7 (12:15):
John in Your Morning Show's True and iHeartRadio
Second date update on Internsjohn in Your Morning Show. The
only thing worse than dating in twenty twenty five is
when you find somebody you think there's a connection, then
out of nowhere, out of the blue, they stopped talking
to you. You're wondering why we chat figure out exactly
what's going on?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Brett, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Hey, how are you guys doing? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Man, So let's walk through this. You and Chelsea first
matched where.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
We met up on hinge you know, probably a little
bit a little over a month ago or so.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
And what about Chelsea's hinge me here stand out?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I mean, you know, you know, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
About three weeks ago, we went on a coffee date
and it was great, turned to low pro.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Last week we hooked up again.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
We went and saw the new Jurassic Park movie. Nice,
and I mean everything has been great. I mean we've
we've there's the vibes are good.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
I think we made a connection.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
And after the actually after the movie actually we had
kind of like our first official.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Kiss, and you know, all was good and then I
just she just ghosted me and I had no idea why.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
But the question was what about her hinge? Mader stand out?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Though?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
What about her profile was like, oh I need to
see this script.
Speaker 6 (01:15):
Why did you like her profile?
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
I mean she did, mean she just fit you know everything.
All her answers are similar to mine.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Like I mentioned about the coffee dates, then I have
a huge like up doing that kind of stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
She's into that, She's in the movie thing. Sure, we
even talked to it.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
She's even a little bit into some sports, which I
like too as well. And everything on her profile seem
to match exactly what I was.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Intoactly from what your email kind of leads, it seems
like things are building up from my matching coffee day
to make sure we vibe, We go the movie, we
hang out after the movie, have a little kissy kiss.
So everything was leading to we're gonna hang out again.
But you've tried texting, calling, nothing.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Yeah, just total yeah, just silence.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Was as far as the movie was, it like one
of those things where you wanted to see it and
she didn't. Maybe that was why was she down for
it too?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Park? Yeah, I mean I think she was into it.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I mean we talked about I mean she enjoyed, we
both enjoyed the movie, enjoyed our time.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
I mean everything was seen totally cool.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
That's what doesn't make and there's I don't have some
big hidden skeleton in my closet or actually that I
don't think, so I.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Don't know what the deal is.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
And before we call her, I do want to ask
us two more questions. Number one, how long have you
been single for?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Oh? I mean it's been almost a year, okay.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
And then my second question is I think this is
maybe more interesting too, is how many people have you
actually met off the app? And by the way, not
to shame at all because you're you're a single deal,
but I do think people are surprised by how few
people you actually meet off the app. You can get
a million matches, but to actually go out of the
house and meet somebody, like, how many like dates have
you gotten from Hinge?
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I mean I've besides Chelsea too, that's it.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Yeah, I mean, like, I don't think people get like
it's matching is not the problem. It's like, let's say
this right, we'll call it Chelsea and get it wrong,
because I can understand why that would be confusing if
things are building up but then nothing, so let me
do that. Also, tweint us girls, I thought the new
Durassic Park was your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I dug it, reminding me of the old school DISSI.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Let's trike. We'll talk about this later. Dress park stuff.
But hello, calling for Chelsea.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Please, Hey, it's calling for Chelsea. It's intern John. I
got Sauce and Rose here as well. This is when
I talk to you on the air. Fight real quick
if we could nothing bad, just like need thirty seconds
of your time.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Oh yeah, okay, okay, So we're doing a second date. Update.
I got this something in the line here Brett if
he wants say, hello.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Hey, what's up Chelsea?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
How you doing?
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Nail it? And so Chelsea the reason we're here.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Brett kind of filled this in on you guys matched
on Hinge about a month ago, had the coffee date
when and saw Jurassic Park, but that he hasn't really
heard me the last week. So we're just trying to
call and see where your head's at and what's kind
of going on with you.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Well, I guess that did happen. I did go on
a date with Brett. We we didn't match on Hinge,
and we had a fantastic time.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
I went to the movies. I love Jurassic Park. And
we actually walked.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
In the park afterwards, you know, great.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Kids, And but what's the hold up?
Speaker 5 (04:58):
I don't know, like he text me, and well, I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Know, Like, my name is not Chelsea?
Speaker 7 (05:08):
So did he not see your name on the times
that you hung out? Or and like, so are you
saying after the Jurassic Parks eight he texted you Chelsea?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Confused?
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Right? Now?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Hold on?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
What do you mean do you call the wrong person Chelsea?
What do you mean your name's not Chelsea?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Chelsea?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
My name is not Chelsea?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Okay, wait before did.
Speaker 7 (05:32):
You hang out with him? Did he have the wrong person?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
So I am okay, okay, let's okay first, so hold on,
so all right, I mean it is possible that you
guys matched. And then I guess, okay, what Brett? If
her name's not Chelsea, do you want a guess?
Speaker 6 (05:51):
What?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Oh my gosh, I don't I don't don't even know
what to say?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Not named Chelsea? What's your what does your guy give
a name?
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Girl? Isabelle?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Okay, that's fair?
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Did he does not bring up your name on the dates?
Or you just didn't tell him that he was wrong?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Question?
Speaker 8 (06:15):
It is possible, Yeah, he didn't on the date, but like,
it's okay, You're sure, Brett, Brett your thoughts real quick?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Is there?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Did you?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
I mean?
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Look, look, it's like Isabelle Isabelle.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I there's I work with someone named Chelsea.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Here.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
I'm gonna put you to on hold real quick. Who's
whose side are you on? Brett or Chelsea Isabelle? Eight
seven four sixty one to call nine ninety three three
eight the text second date update on intern John your
Morning show. Second date update on intern John in your
Morning show, we has time to Brett and Chelsea slash Isabelle.
So they had matched on the apps. They had had
(07:05):
like a coffee date whenside Jurassic Park, had a nice
walk in the park. Afterwards, she stopped talking to him.
Apparently he called her the wrong name over text. Her
real name is Isabelle.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
I'll give this. She played it off very well. Yes
it was Uh. I was equally confused.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
So your thoughts eight seven seven nine ninety five four
six state one to call nine ninety three three eighth
to text while getting on hold, sauce, what are you thinking?
Speaker 7 (07:28):
I know that it could have been accident, you know,
because you're newly dating, but it's not that hard just
to make sure that the person that you set up
a date with has the name on their account. Yes,
you know, and so also, I mean I think that
she was like, chill about it. I if you called
me the wrong name and we just met, I wouldn't
I would obviously correct you, though, but I would be
(07:49):
a text. But yeah, I probably wouldn't answer either. If
especially if it was just like we hung out like
one time or whatever, like I thought, we didn't like
really get to know each other. I'd probably just be like, okay,
never mind, especially if I'm try you're trying and you
get to know me and you can't get my name right, No,
thank you.
Speaker 6 (08:02):
That's just my opinion though.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
That's fair.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Let me go to Arlington, Holly, good morning, good morning.
What do you want to say with second date update?
Speaker 9 (08:11):
It seems like it was kind of an honest mistake,
Like why wouldn't she just correct him and then to
go somebody.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
Over what seems like an honest mistake?
Speaker 9 (08:20):
I am sounds like that, that's the weirdest part, Like
then to I don't know, it's like him.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Yeah, because I mean, Hollywood, it would be where they
were dating for a year and he called the wrong name,
that's for sure, red flag.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
But yeah, I do think.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
If she said they had a fantastic time.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Sure, yeah, I don't disagree. Yeah I disagree.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Looking for an excuse, but I disagree.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Thank you for listening, have a great day.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
Thanks you to you by I.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Do think there is something too. If you are doing
online dating, you in theory of access to more daters
than anybody in the history of dating. Is it possible
that he had gone on a date with somebody else
named Chelsea and for me, like, I don't say people's
phone numbers and telling now'm gonna need it.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
But it's more so the fact that he spelled it out.
Speaker 7 (09:05):
If I'm looking at you and I to call you
Steve and your name is Mike, yeah, she's like Steve Mike.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
I think it's it's almost like the unspoken thing of
online dating, right, we all know we're dating on the people,
but you don't talk about it.
Speaker 7 (09:15):
Yeah, So maybe she just saw that and she's like,
I'm so tired of this, and it's just like I'm
not even gonna deal with this. I don't feel like
going through like a little like thing where you have
to explain, like that's not your name. Then it's like emotional.
It's like I don't want to see a guy, and
I think that's weird. Some she doesn't feel like dealing
with any.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Of that she's did, Sir, Rose, would you want to
say with this?
Speaker 9 (09:31):
I think it would be different if it were like
they were several dates in and then all of a
sudden there was a change in her, like he just
randomly started calling her Chelsea.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
The fact that it was in a text is very
bizarre to me.
Speaker 9 (09:42):
Even if you don't save the number of the person,
I feel like that's weird because then I'm thinking, Okay,
how many.
Speaker 6 (09:49):
Girls are you texting right now? Yeah, that's fair because
and also why wouldn't you.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Have her name saved if you're texting her like that?
Speaker 6 (09:56):
Yeah, it doesn't, and it doesn't.
Speaker 7 (09:59):
I don't like it because if you're not going to
say their number, that's one thing, but make sure you're texting.
Speaker 6 (10:02):
The right person.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Well, I don't disagree with that.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
You know a lot of people don't save numbers like
I understand that. I've just you got to make sure though.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
That is also the thing where Apple needs that update
instead of all the other stup bass updates where you're
texting the wrong person. That's like, hey, just see now
you're saying you're calling this person Chelsea.
Speaker 6 (10:19):
That person's not named Chelsea.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
That and when I take a screenshot when the cars
and Apple play, I don't want to screenshot of the GPS.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
I don't stupidest thing I will say.
Speaker 9 (10:29):
When you're texting somebody, even if you have their numbers saved,
usually on like the iPhone, it'll pop up as like
this is their contact information, So like he's either completely.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Oblivious or that they don't. I don't know. It's just weird.
It's just weird. He's a dude, bra, So what we do? Yeah,
let me go and Sharon, good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
I love your show.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Thank you sir.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
So here's what I would say. I would say, maybe
I'm just really old and I've been married way too long.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
But I think it's incredible, incredibly petty of her to
ghost him over using the wrong name.
Speaker 7 (11:05):
Especially since they've just begun hanging out.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
She herself said she had a fantastic time on the date.
We don't need to look for reasons not to hang
out with people who we enjoyed our company. I don't understand.
I think it's petty, it's dumb.
Speaker 7 (11:18):
She should have just corrected him and we could have
continued to date and hang out.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
Its great, Sharon, thank you for listening. I have a
great day you as well.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
She kind of brings up a good point where I
do think the problem with dating today is it's very
easy to find the smallest reason to bail. Yeah, but
like that's true, maybe wait for the big ones. Do
you mean, because he can find the littlest ones for
for anything, how they swallow, how they legitily anything breaker.
Speaker 6 (11:46):
I don't think she liked him.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
Yeah, what I'm saying that kind of what it's giving.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
Even though she said she had a great time. Okay,
I don't think she liked him, because if if that's.
Speaker 6 (11:53):
Like where you'd all a line, you definitely didn't like him.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
I wouldn't. Yeah, I wouldn't.
Speaker 7 (11:58):
If I were and hung out with me one time
they called me Shelley, I'd be like, Okay, well so
that's a bee.
Speaker 6 (12:02):
You spelled it wrong, But yeah, I think it was
she d. It is shell d. It's just so annoying
to change it all the time for people.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Just want to make sure if you want to do
you a second date. Update. Dms are open at WYMUS
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