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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is intern John in your morning show. We are
open and honest that the dating world isn't the word poopy.
Everything about it sucks, it's not great. That's why when
you finally have something that seems like a glimmer of
hope that is a normal or different than the normal
turd burger you get when it comes to dating, you
don't want to let it go. So when they stop
talking to you and they pull away, obviously you want
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to know what the heck's going on. We try to
get to the bottom of that, and that's why we're here. Maya,
good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
So this is an interesting one. You and Jake met.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
How we were set up actually by his sister.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Okay, And so his sister and you are coworkers, correct, Yes,
we're coworkers.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
You know, we're friendly with each other, not the best
of friends, but you know, we get along.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
And how long have you guys been coworkers?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
About a year?
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Okay? And so when did you were when were you
made aware that your coworker had a brother?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
A couple months ago. She was just telling me things
about him and it just.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Came up in conversations, okay, And so when did she
start planning the sea, Like, hey, I think you two
had really hit off.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
A couple of weeks ago. She said that she really
thought that we aligned on things and that we would
be good together. So I was like, sure, why am not?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
And so then who reached out to who? Did you
reach out to him? Did he reach out to you?
Because obviously he was on board if we went on dates.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
I reached out to him. She gave me his information.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Okay, I made him reach out.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Yeah, no doubt.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
I'd be like my brother, I'll be like, you're reaching out.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
So did he know you're gonna holler at him?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Oh? No, I don't. I don't think so okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
So she gave Gay's number, like, hey, just just text
him and see what happens.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Yeah, And we've been out a couple of times and
it was great.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Okay, all right, no no judgment. So we've not heard
from Jake in about week and a half. The last
time you guys hung out. What happened? What do we do?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Okay? So we went bowling and we had some drinks. Nice,
reason went fine, We even had a life a nice
little makeup session.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
To the time.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Did you did you touch his butt?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
No? No, just a.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Little sure, and then as and then so that's about
week and a half ago. And then after that year,
word was kind of like the slow burn started, so
the responses became more frequent and kind of less fulfillings
the right word. But you could tell you it was
kind of fade in a way, Yeah, the slow fade.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Yeah, I've been doing everything, like I've DMed him. I
sent him things on Instagram, by call, I text, I
don't know. He just kind of disappeared.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
And you asked his sister and she claims she has
no idea.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Yeah, she has no idea. What I don't get it?
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Okay, kind of say this without knowing anything. I'd be
annoyed if I was you, because like the sister is
the one that pushed this on you. Yeah, so it's
almost like, hey, girl, you can't back out now that
we're in. You've made yourself involved.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
That's fair.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
You can't not know like what's going on, you know
what I mean?
Speaker 5 (03:03):
Because I would just ask my brother, although I don't
think i'd push anyone on.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
I don't want to be involved with any of that.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Yeah, that's a good point too, because I would have
had my brother reach out first.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
Yeah, and also like if if I thought they'd be
a good match, and'd be like, hey, I really do,
like generally think you're a good match, but no matter what,
like I'm not involved. I would want to set them
up if I really really really believe that, but i'd
have to like that would that would never happen in
my lifetime.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
So Maya lift this. We'll call Jake, try to get
him on and get his side of the story. Okay,
all right, one second, Yeah, let's try and get that
uh good one.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Hi is this uh Jake?
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Uh? Yeah? Man?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Keep yeah, man, it's an intern John. I got Sauce
and Rose here as well. If we talked to you
in the air real quick about something nothing bad to
need about, like thirty seconds of your time. Yeah, perfect,
We're doing a second date update. I got somebody on
the line here, Maya, if you want to say, hello,
I nailed it, And so Jake, Maya kind of felled
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this in that your sister sets you guys up. You
guys have some dates, did a little bowling, but she's
not really hurt for me in a week and a half.
So we're just trying to see where your head's out.
With things, Is there a future? What's going on? What
are we feeling?
Speaker 6 (04:27):
I mean, everything was fine for a while.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
It's just got a little weird.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
What happened out?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
So what got weird?
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Poorker?
Speaker 6 (04:37):
How Well, it was almost like she did like a
full research project on me, Like I know that she
knows my sister and my sister should be staying out
of my business for one, but I mean it just
like she knew I had chicken pox in the first grade,
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like what what is going on? Like do I have
a stage three clinger? And now that I'm on the radio,
and that probably did.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Okay, so are you? And just to understand, so you
you felt a little bit weirded about because I'm assuming
your sister gave her almost like notes.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
It was it was more than what my sister could know,
Like she knew where I took, where I went on
vacation last year. Like it was like she stalked me
on socials. It was okay, like I said.
Speaker 5 (05:24):
Sure, So she was just like randomly bringing up things
about you, like oh my gosh, you have chicken pox
in first grade, saying look, well we have in comment
like that kind of thing is what okay?
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Said sure, it was all right, Okay your thoughts hearing this, I.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Feel like there's nothing wrong with doing a little research.
I just did a little research and it, you know,
it helped that your sister is my coworker. But like
that your shows, I was interested in you.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Okay, let me do this. I'm gonna put you guys
in hold. Are you a team? Meyer? A team Jake?
Eight seven seven nine four six state want to call
nine ninety three three eight to text. It's second date
update on intern John in your Morning show. Second date
update on intern John and your Morning Show. We just
talked to Maya and Jake. They were introduced to each other.
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Maya works with Jake's sister set them up. They had
a bowling date, a little bit of a makeout sash.
She didn't hear from him. He said, it's because she
apparently did a lot of research. He knew a lot Abouttom,
knew chicken pox, new vacation stuff. This kind of had
all the spark notes. If you will, whose side are
you on? Eight seven seven, nine ninety five four six
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eight one to call nine ninety three three eight to
text real quick. I've been in similar situations and this
is not to sound uh, this is gonna sound egotistical,
but it's not like being on first dates. I've been
here for almost like thirteen years, so a lot of
folks know a lot about me. Most people play it
pretty cool. But I was on a date once with
this girl and she was like, remember on your twenty
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second birthday when you were so drunk eric carried heat caddies. Yeah,
And I was like, I mean I remember it, and
she's like that was funny. I was like, hey, but
you weren't there though.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
That was to bring up that was a little bit like.
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Oh yeah, I don't like that kind that happened to
me too, and it freaks me out. How I don't know,
Like one of the last days I went on, he
was bringing up just something I don't remember that. This
was like back in December. I don't remember what the
topic was, but it was something with day. He's like, yeah,
I heard you today talking about how like you haven't
been on a date in a wild uh, And I'm like,
why are we Well, just because he listened to the
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show does not mean you should bring up what I'm
talking about.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
It makes me weird, that's gonna say for you. The
more important that you are a research girly. I when
you're on a date with somebody, you probably know like
their blood type and all this.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I was just gonna say, I'm like, girly, if you want
to be nosy, and you know, we a lot of
us do it. And if you don't, whatever, don't judge,
but a lot of us do it. And you know,
sometimes you have to do for your safety. I don't
know because that guy was not right in that, but uh,
I just think you don't bring it up. And I
think that she maybe got really excited because her coworkers
bringing up a lot of stuff about him, so she's
maybe even started to romanticize it. And then she gets
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on the date and it's even like it's going really well,
and she's just all in her head and then keeps
throwing stuff out there. But that I think that would
freak anybody out.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Yeah, if you knew, like the chicken pox thing is odd, it's.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Just all that stuff. So don't don't bring that stuff up.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
Just because you know it does not mean you have
to bring it up because it's gonna make some anyone
feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Noah, for sure, let me give on Fredericksburg, Bethnego Marnian, Hey,
how are you out doing well? What do you want
to say? A second date update?
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yeah, So I was just I was saying I was
team Jake. I think that her, you know, kind of
finding out all that stuff is a huge flag. I'm like,
I don't know, you don't really need to find that
stuff out before. You need to find that on a date, you.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
Know, and and talk about each other and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
So I just think it's the red flag for her,
and like, like you were saying, like, don't bring it
up too, you know, like you do know all that stuff,
but that's just a little creepy.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
I guess for sure.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
It's one thing to find out they have an arrest record.
It's different than to find out, you know, their blood
type and allergens and where the mathemast their house for sure. Bethany,
thank you for listening. Have a great day.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Yeah, you two, thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I rose your thoughts with this.
Speaker 7 (09:09):
I feel like she's skipping steps like to get to
like figure out how she feels about him without actually
knowing him, by doing all this research, basic research. Yes,
you want to know if they haven't a rest record,
or like what's going on, Like, there's certain things that
you want to find out about a person before you
agree to go out with them. But to know, like
where they went on vacation.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Let you're scrolling too deep.
Speaker 7 (09:31):
Like yeah, it's it's taking away the mystery of the person.
And that's part of the fun of dating, is getting
to know somebody. If you already know everything about them,
that's weird.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Yeah, sorry, your actually sort special, Martinez. I'll get them too.
How do you know that worry about it? What do
you mean worry about Let me go, but tell them
makes Shelley, good morning, Hey, good morning. What do you
want to say of this girl?
Speaker 8 (09:54):
I am definitely team Jake.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
I think that she.
Speaker 8 (09:56):
I mean, knowing information about somebody before you go on
a date with them is normal, of course, especially with
today's day and age. But to know where his vacation
and to know that he had chicken pops at one
in first grade, like that's just a little bit o s.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Yeah, yeah, I think that's that's fairy. Thank you for listening.
A great day, all right, my man, my man. There's
gotta be a balance though, too, because I did once.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
Like you don't bring up anything do you find no no, say,
I was about to go on a day with the
girl and I like searched her on Facebook and saw
that she graduated high school with next girlfriend same year,
and she never brought up And I was like, that
to me, is weird because you probably you must know.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
But why would you bring that up on a first date.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
God, I would not bring that up.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
So you're probably friends.
Speaker 5 (10:39):
My ex because he went to high school together. It doesn't
mean they're friend.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Well, they were friends on Facebook and Instagram. They were
still like I was like, you.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
You must everybody on Facebook back then.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
But Instagram, yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
I mean Instagram came out like in like twenty eleven.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
I have no idea.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
My whole point is I don't think that's that weird,
just because how do you even bring that up on
a first date, Like, oh, by the went to high
school with your ex girlfriend, I know you know, And
then it's like you're bringing it up. You bring up
an X on a.
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