October 6, 2025 • 22 mins
For A Quick Stop at Johnny's house: When did you turn someone down and they just couldn't take rejection? Have you made friends recently as an adult? How do you do it?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Seventy six now looking for a high today of eighty six. Right,
we're talking about this story off the air, did we
mention her name?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I go Okay, so our girl Tessa who listens from.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Utah, who was a rock star on the cruise, Yes,
she was.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
She was posting about how some dude was like coming
up and like hitting on them and they kind of
like just turned them down, and he was so upset
by them turning him down that he like took her
purse and threw it, and she issues, Yeah, she said, like, well,
in the process of taking her person throwing it, which
(00:39):
she said was very heavy, he almost hit her friend
in the head by throwing it. Oh my goodness, I'm like,
you're really not hurt?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Wow, Like you're really that angry. I'm you know, it
gotta be kind of hard.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
If you're you're a woman that people find attractive, then
it got to be hard for you just to go
out and have a good time because people just assume
that if you're out, then it's okay for me to
hit on you, you know that kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
And sometimes it's not like that.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
But if you always use my method, it will never
ever happen because you only go after people to go
after you, so you ain't got to worry about snatching
somebody's person throwing it into the wind. It's embarrassing if you,
for a guy, you've gotten the courage up to actually
go talk to someone. Yeah, and then you get the
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courage up and then you say hey, you know, blah
blah blah, and they go, I'm not interested. Then you
just pretty much turn around and walk away. Yeah, that's
all you can do.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Like, did you think that that was going to like
change her mind?
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Or did you throwing up the bag?
Speaker 4 (01:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
No.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
So but they've always told me, is it can't be
personal because they don't know yeah, exactly, So guys have
to learn to not take it personally.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Exactly.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
You don't know me, so it can't be personal. You're
just not interested, and that's okay. It depends on how
they say it.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Now.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
I don't think throwing someone's bag is ever the answer.
But I mean, if you're mean to me about the rejection,
now it's become personal. So do expect a little bit
of verbal back at you, because now you've made it personal.
If it's just no, thank you, I'm not interested. I've
seen some that's on me to walk away.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
And we all know Testa she's got she's got a personality,
and she says how she feels, you know, so like
I don't know how she I don't know her situation,
but that still doesn't.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
You know, you should never throw someone's bag or be
overly rude on a rejection. Now they like I said,
they throw the first punch. Now I got This is
when I used to hang out.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
I was with a guy and one of my boys,
and he was talking to a young lady and she said, well,
what do you do? And he told her his occupation
and she just turned it back to him. I was like, yeah, wow,
so that's rude. Wow. And then I was like, dude,
why didn't you just tell her what you did? He goes, no,
(02:55):
you know what, I don't want someone like that, right,
if she just wants me for what I do, why
would I want to talk to.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Her because his surface level is yeah, but what she
don't know? Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
It was a crazy I was sitting there and she's
like and she's like, yeah, so what do you do?
He goes, yeah, this is what I do. She goes
back turned. I'm like at that point is that okay
to dump a drink on the head? Far, that's too far,
that's too far.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
It is okay to say, and it's okay to call
her like a broke bage or something like that.
Speaker 6 (03:23):
That's what.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I don't need your golden digging man anyway, but dump
a drink. No, that's physical.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Nobody knows how to regulate their emotions anymore.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Hey, I used to have a friend. I told you
all about him. He would he would swing at every
pitch the girl walked by, he was to hang on
a second.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
He would run after and baby girl, baby girl. He
would come back.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
He would do it probably ten I'm not kidding, ten
to fifteen times a day because I worked at the mall.
He would come back with three to five numbers and
the other and when they said no, he'd be like cool,
gotcha and he run back and sit down.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Right.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
That's great average, But he knew, yeah, I'm cold calling.
If they say no, whatever, if they say yeah, cool,
But that's how you got to handle it.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
My favorite is when they'll like try to talk to
me or whatever, and this hasn't happened in a while,
but like I'll be like, oh no, like I'm good.
I'm not interested. I'm with somebody whatever, and they'll be like,
well you ugly anyways.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Well you've hurt me, You've hurt my feelings, and I
can't walk away with this hurt.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
You need to feel someone's hurt.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
But I'm not interested. Isn't a feeling hurt her like you?
It's like someone going to asking you do you want to,
you know, buy solar or whenever at your house they
knock on the door. You say, no, it's not personal.
I just I'm not interested in solar today.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
What if I'm walking towards you and you go, I
don't even waste your time? Is that person throwing well? No,
nothing is physical. Yeah, why do you touch you?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
You still a physical action. All you to do is
respond with the same level of verbal if you if
your person is sitting there, I ain't touch you.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Back up, not touch anybody or the property or their things.
I'm gonna talk to you like I talked to my
seven year old.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
You can respond with equal or lesser value is what
you can respond with. Okay, so, and then you can
respond with something snarky back in her.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Yeah, okay, bitch, like there were even.
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Girl, I was just coming to tell you that you
ugly at head, that's all I was coming for. But
I cool and then turn around and walk away.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Fine.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Wow, I want to find out when you had to
handle a situation like that, when someone did not take
your turn down lightly?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
All right?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
You told someone, hey, I'm I'm not interested and they
just went too far. Excuse me, you ugly anyway, I
ain't want to talk to you. I'll trying to talk
to your friend, but she's talking to somebody. Whatever the
insult will happen. When did someone not take your turn
down lightly? Because you know what, if you're not my type,
you're not my type on the state. You got to
understand everybody has a type. If you're not it, it
doesn't mean you're a bad person. They just are not
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interested in you.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Somebody would have to come and close my mouth. If
somebody took my purse and through, I'd be like, is
that okay?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
When you throw the purse, do you stand there and
wait for the reaction or do you walk away? Because
I'm trying to find out how what hey, how about this?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Now? Do I stand there or do I just walk away?
After I thought he should walk away because if she
calls the police, then they're gonna take you.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Well, your boys should be there pulling you off anyway,
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want to find out when did someone not turn take
your turn down lightly? They did something stupid, or they
said something to you. You can laugh at it now,
(06:31):
but you say no, I'm not interested. They said something
stupid or did something stupid. We want to hear that story.
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Speaker 3 (06:54):
You're gonna have to do something, all right.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
A good friend of the show said that she told
the gentleman, Hey, you know I'm not interesting did It's
not funny took took a purse and just threw it.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
It's like kind of comical though, because it's like I've
never heard of that before, and that's how unhinged the
world does.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
And I guess I'm just trying to think because I'm
pitching in my mind again. Do you once you throw it?
Do you walk away slowly? Do you run away? Do
you stand there and look for reaction? I mean, what happened?
Speaker 4 (07:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
It just reminds me of like a bully, like like
o'doyle rules, like yeah, Adam Sailors.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
I would run like Napoleon dynamite.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
But really does that work?
Speaker 4 (07:33):
You know?
Speaker 1 (07:33):
You know what that aggressive of yous just show just
made me more attractive to you? Hey, this is my name. No,
it doesn't work like they but end up going going
to jail? Uh so when did that happen to you?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
From Orlando? Hey, Tiffany, good morning? Hid morning Tiffany.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Winning in a situation where someone you rejected them and
it didn't go well?
Speaker 6 (07:53):
So so I dated a guy? Uh well, here's my
boyfriend for like maybe like on and off for a year,
but every time he can't one every time he got mad,
it was like an explosion of his emotions and.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
He'd leave in a big huff and all that stuff.
And so the most recent time he came back, I
always called him. Every time he called me, I'd be like, oh, look,
I've seen a ghost, because he would just pop up
after like ghosting me. And so the most recent time
he came over and to like put up my TV,
set up the internet, like he was being really sweet,
and then he was like, you know, you're not seeing anybody.
(08:24):
I'm not seeing anybody. And I was like, how do
you know what I had going on in my life?
Speaker 6 (08:28):
And so he was just like, you know, we can
you know things are not working out for me and
I know you already and all these things, and I
was just like, I've done a lot of healings since
we broke up. I've done all these things, and I
just can't. I'm not interested, like we can be friends.
And as soon as I said that, he grabbed all
his things. We had walked on dogs. He grabbed his dog.
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He left in a big huff and everything slammed the door,
and I was just like stood there in awe. I
was like, what just happened? Like, we had a great time,
not interested in dating him, but.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
It was.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Can I tell you a little something. Here's the deal.
I'm glad nothing physical happened. He just took his dog
and left. That's cool.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
But you know what he wanted. You know, he wants
to be your boyfriend. And you called him over to
put your TV up and all that good stuff. His
thing is, okay, she might she's trying to let me
back in, and he you know, he says, hey, let's
get together. You put me, You put him in the
friend zone, but he ain't want to be in the
friend zone.
Speaker 6 (09:29):
It was the same song and dance that we do
every single time we get we hang out, we get close,
all these things. You ghost me. I'm like, cool, I'm
moving on. But this time the difference wasn't I was
for it.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
The difference was, oh, you flip the script. I learned
what I what I'm worth, and that was.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Oh so in the past when you say let's get
back together, he ghosted you. Yeah, and then you flipped
the script on him.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
Oh hand like that, Okay, I got you.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
I goes you. You don't know me. I'm a ghoster.
You're the ghost.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
You know what, Hey, if you're thinking about taking him back, no,
because I'm gonna tell you why.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
As soon as you take him back, he's gonna ghost you, right,
because he just wants to get the upper hand again.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
When does it end?
Speaker 5 (10:13):
That's always a joke. Who has the relationship? Yes, and
you were like, hey, I'd like to get back with you.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
I was just sitting here thinking, I don't think I
want to, and he'll walk away with Okay, I got her.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Don't play that game.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
I am happy I'm in a relationship and someone who
doesn't do those games.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
There you go.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Good for you. I'm happy for you, Tiffany. But if
I was him, I just snatched that TV off the wall.
I'm just saying you would. I wouldn't break it.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
I just say, yes, it was his TV.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
He gave it to me because he said my TV
wasn't thinking up.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
I take the TV home with me.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Of course it wasn't big enough because he was planning
on being over there watching that TV.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
That's why he came in to you. Oh I had
to take him my TV home again.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
What I'm gonna tell my seven year old? These are
intrusive thoughts. We don't act on them. You could picture
yourself ripping it off the wall.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
Just No, I wouldn't rip it off. Yeah, my TV,
it's my TV. I'm taking it.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
I'm about to take the TV. Yeah, I don't even
tell you. I'm gonna ahead and take my TV, right,
you understand?
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Right?
Speaker 5 (11:21):
Cool?
Speaker 3 (11:22):
And I gotta take the TV. You know that. He's like, no,
you don't take the TV. Hey, I'll put you a
little thirty two inch back up. That's fine. I'm gonna
take the TV back. Will that have been cool? Tiffany?
Speaker 4 (11:31):
No, I expecuted it.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
There were times I thought I was like, man, we're
gonna break up and he can take that TV away
and then I'm gonna have.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
To go back to whatever I Hey, are you wenting
the TV with your new man?
Speaker 4 (11:42):
No?
Speaker 1 (11:42):
Not yet, by Tiffany, Bye bye right okay.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
So Cheryl from the live stream, she said a guy
burned her with a cigarette when she turned him down
and walked away.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
What yeah, And she said.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Il yeah, I didn't realize what happened as I was
walking away, felt stinging, feeling like on my side, and
she looked and he had burned her.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Yeah. I called it police. I have to call it,
have to call it. Law You going down.
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Speaker 3 (12:54):
All right, Brian.
Speaker 5 (12:54):
Forty five percent adults say they don't know how to
do what they say. They don't know how to make
new friends. So they've got friends obviously that they've had
for a long time or whatever, but they don't know
how to go out and make new friends. So there
was a friendship educator somebody who I guess facilitates friendships. Yeah,
on TikTok, and they were dropping some tips, like joining
a weekly activity, like it could be like a run
club or whatever it might be.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
They say, you have to stick to it every week. Friends.
Speaker 5 (13:18):
Familiarity gets you to wear Oh I saw that guy,
Yeah for the last four weeks, let's talk to him
or whatever.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
They say.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
Most people are scared, so they say, be brave. They
they are scared to just reach out and meet new people.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
They say.
Speaker 5 (13:30):
Younger people have never had to do it because of technology,
so they've never actually had to cold call meet somebody,
so they don't know how to make new friends. Wow,
I'm not great at it. I'll be honest.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
He is my thing, and it may sound kind of
kind of arrogant, but I don't have time for new friends.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
I said the same thing. I don't have a slot,
no available for my time. I'm finding I gotta find
time for the friends I already have. I've already had
personal relationships with I gotta find time for us to
hang out.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Yeah, my wife kills me all the time.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
She says, I don't foster friendships, and I don't, and
it's because I'm busy or so I don't. They're out
of mind and I don't. I don't hit him up enough.
Sometimes I do hit them, going, hey man, I'm a jerk,
i haven't talked to you in a week. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
And I'll hit my friends and say, hey, it's totally me.
It's one hundred percent of me, you know, on the
grind and trying to raise a sixteen year old and
I've just been busy, and then when we get together,
you have a great time. So for me, it's not
important that I meet new friends. Same so I currently don't.
I don't see myself trying to foster that. So I
couldn't give you any advice on how to meet a
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new friend because I think the last time I had
a new friend was probably ten fifteen years ago.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
My two newest friends were because they are in relationship
with people that my wife has friendships with. Yeah, and
so I default we all landed together and they're friends
of mine.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
Now, that's the same thing with like when I started
dating Kim and then like her friend group I got
to know, and same with like her knowing my friends
so yeah, I don't know. I think it's very hard though,
when you have like a family, and like you said,
I've been trying to have your own relationship and your friends.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
How many years ago you've had a new friend or how.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Long has it been, I mean, honestly one that I
actually like hang out with and.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Keep up with.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Yeah, I'll say since I met started dating Cam.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yeah, which is sad because it's like we meet people
all the time, and like you know, on the cruise,
I met a lot of new people and I would
love to hang out with them, but it's like I
just don't have I'm only in communication on social media
because I don't have time.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
And the same thing.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
I've met some new people, but then if I want
to hang out with them, they're gonna have to hang
out with my old friends and my old friend Like,
well what are these people?
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Yeah? Right, and they may not have any in comment
or whatever, right Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Yeah, So for me, I don't have any any advice
on that. Maybe that's a good problem to have, Like her,
I got so many friends I can't keep up with. No,
I've established friendship throughout the year that have withstood the
test of time, and I feel bad that I don't
have time to nurture those relationships. So I'm not if
it would be like us dating. I don't have time
for you. I'd love for you to be my friend,
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but your friends do things. I don't have the time
to do those things, so I don't.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
I agree.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
So meeting a new friend of sleeping.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
I mean, that's why people are making friends with Chagibc.
It is because it's right there in the palm of
your heads.
Speaker 3 (16:13):
It's right there. I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
So we want to find out from you. You know,
as an adult, how do you make new friends? And
how often do you make new friends? I mean, you know,
if you knew the town, there's a couple of years ago,
there's a lot of people knew to the area. You
find yourself in a new relationship situation where you lost
half your friends to you know, the significant other. But
the question to you is, as an adult, how do
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you make a new friend? And there's people right now
saying I'm listening because I would love to make new
friends and I don't. And one thing I found out
is that the loneliest person in the world was.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
As adult men. Yeah, that are extremely long like middle
aged young men. Yea, men like eighteen to thirty fours.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Yeah, are the loneliest people because they won't tell people
that they all long right, just kind of just host
up by themselves, by themselves. Four oh seven now or
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want to hear from you, as an adult, how do
you make new friends? And how often do you make
new friends? All right, there's people listening for some suggestions,
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so if you have them, please share them. Four oh
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seven nine When five percent of the adults say they
don't know how to make a new friend, so when
to find out from you as an adult, how do
you make a new friend and how often often do
you make a new friend? Let's go to Orlando and
talk to Karen.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
Hey, Karen, Hey, all right, you got suggestions on how
people can meet new friends?
Speaker 4 (17:38):
I do?
Speaker 3 (17:39):
Okay, go ahead?
Speaker 7 (17:40):
Probably not? Well, how's the say. I'm a New Yorker
and I think people in Orlando are pretty friendly.
Speaker 8 (17:51):
So I guess I'll just tell you my last situation
where I met I probably seem to be friends. I
was at TG Max getting some stuff and then this
like lady was talking and she's like, oh this price
and blah blah blah, And I was like, don't you
love when that happened, so organically we just started talking.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Really it led to this whole converse.
Speaker 8 (18:12):
Yeah, it led to this whole conversation. We found out
that we both have only children son, Yeah, and collected
her number. Really, and we're meeting up this week.
Speaker 3 (18:25):
Yeah, that is so cool. That is so cool. Are
you new to the area? Is new area?
Speaker 7 (18:32):
No?
Speaker 8 (18:33):
No, my son is. But my son is seven, so
I've probably been here eight years now.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (18:39):
It's like my second kind of tour being in Orlando.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Okay, but you met someone and he's like, hey, let's
get together. You look, I can tell in your voice
you're looking forward to possibly having a new friend.
Speaker 8 (18:49):
Yeah. And I also it's it's also like she we're
talking about like sirtuality and religion because my parents are
two different religions. So I was like, I need something
for my son because.
Speaker 6 (19:03):
We haven't really done much.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
With him in that area and all listen to TJ mag.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
Yeah, I love it Wow, Ray would do something like that, Max,
I see somebody talking, I'm moving away, fast, moving away.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Paisley from Orlando, Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 7 (19:23):
How are you guys doing.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
What's your suggestion as an adult to meet new friends?
Speaker 7 (19:28):
My suggestion is being open, kind of like what Karen
was saying to having new and random conversations. I found
that after recently moving here in January, the most like
eusiest conversations I've had with making friends is in random situations,
especially like out and about at like bars and stuff.
Or I go to Disney a lot because I have
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an annual pass and just talking to people while in line,
and I've met a lot of my friends through that.
Speaker 8 (19:53):
Really kind of awkward sometimes, Yeah, I like you see
a couple of weeks.
Speaker 7 (19:57):
Ago, I met a girl and her boyfriend and we
actually exchange numbers and we have plans to go get
drinks and as.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
You know, that's cool, Paisley, And it's cool that do
you think like that?
Speaker 1 (20:06):
But if I met somebody like that, like they want
me to hook up with them, they swings, that's trying
to trying to swing with me. They would even know
that because you frequent swing your place as well. I
mean one time more than me just saying I.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
Went once time, good morning, Oh good morning. I suggestions
of how to adult to me a new friend.
Speaker 6 (20:34):
Yeah, I just kind of want to second everything that
everyone else says. Just go out there, be yourself. It's
okay to smile at strangers. It's okay to give a compliment.
I'm also originally from New York and I've been in
Florida for about fifteen years, and I agree with the
first caller. You know, people down here are just a
lot more open and friendly. But I also made a
(20:56):
lot of friends in New York too. It just kind
of got to walk the walk, talk to talk nice,
give a compliment. I met a new friend a couple
of months ago. I just like meeting people and talking
to people. Everyone has a story. You know, we have
a lot more in common than we think we do.
Speaker 5 (21:12):
You know, had to give it to you somehow smiled
at me, smiling right.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Wrong you?
Speaker 3 (21:19):
Oh yeah, hey, how you doing? I didn't know you listened? Right?
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Let's see here. A lot of people said that their
work people become that their their best friends, like their coworkers.
Several years I've become friends. I have good friends that
I've never met in person. I just talked to them
through like teams, which is really weird. Yeah, that's pretty
much a lot of people are just saying through work
and then through works coworkers and their friends.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
I'm surprised the three calls that we had to say.
They're like, go out there and put yourself out there,
smile at someone, have a random conversation, which is all
things I don't do right.
Speaker 5 (21:52):
Well, people, they said, and listen to the podcast. What
happens if you do that? And then they don't want
to be your friend? Can you throw their person?
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Absolutely? Listen to the I mean that's rejected them with
your cigarette?
Speaker 2 (22:01):
Why not?
Speaker 3 (22:01):
Can I do that?
Speaker 5 (22:03):
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anything like that. Okay, but then when.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
You do that, you have to talk to you put
yourself out there and talk to someone and you like.
The young lady at TJ Max said she's looking forward
to meet a brand new friend. That was pretty cool.
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Speaker 2 (22:31):
A little updated on the Cardi Nicki Minaj situation.
Seventy six now looking for a high today of eighty six. Right,
we're talking about this story off the air, did we
mention her name?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I go Okay, so our girl Tessa who listens from.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Utah, who was a rock star on the cruise, Yes,
she was.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
She was posting about how some dude was like coming
up and like hitting on them and they kind of
like just turned them down, and he was so upset
by them turning him down that he like took her
purse and threw it, and she issues, Yeah, she said, like, well,
in the process of taking her person throwing it, which
(00:39):
she said was very heavy, he almost hit her friend
in the head by throwing it. Oh my goodness, I'm like,
you're really not hurt?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Wow, Like you're really that angry. I'm you know, it
gotta be kind of hard.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
If you're you're a woman that people find attractive, then
it got to be hard for you just to go
out and have a good time because people just assume
that if you're out, then it's okay for me to
hit on you, you know that kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
And sometimes it's not like that.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
But if you always use my method, it will never
ever happen because you only go after people to go
after you, so you ain't got to worry about snatching
somebody's person throwing it into the wind. It's embarrassing if you,
for a guy, you've gotten the courage up to actually
go talk to someone. Yeah, and then you get the
(01:30):
courage up and then you say hey, you know, blah
blah blah, and they go, I'm not interested. Then you
just pretty much turn around and walk away. Yeah, that's
all you can do.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Like, did you think that that was going to like
change her mind?
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Or did you throwing up the bag?
Speaker 4 (01:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
No.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
So but they've always told me, is it can't be
personal because they don't know yeah, exactly, So guys have
to learn to not take it personally.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Exactly.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
You don't know me, so it can't be personal. You're
just not interested, and that's okay. It depends on how
they say it.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Now.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
I don't think throwing someone's bag is ever the answer.
But I mean, if you're mean to me about the rejection,
now it's become personal. So do expect a little bit
of verbal back at you, because now you've made it personal.
If it's just no, thank you, I'm not interested. I've
seen some that's on me to walk away.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
And we all know Testa she's got she's got a personality,
and she says how she feels, you know, so like
I don't know how she I don't know her situation,
but that still doesn't.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
You know, you should never throw someone's bag or be
overly rude on a rejection. Now they like I said,
they throw the first punch. Now I got This is
when I used to hang out.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
I was with a guy and one of my boys,
and he was talking to a young lady and she said, well,
what do you do? And he told her his occupation
and she just turned it back to him. I was like, yeah, wow,
so that's rude. Wow. And then I was like, dude,
why didn't you just tell her what you did? He goes, no,
(02:55):
you know what, I don't want someone like that, right,
if she just wants me for what I do, why
would I want to talk to.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Her because his surface level is yeah, but what she
don't know? Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
It was a crazy I was sitting there and she's
like and she's like, yeah, so what do you do?
He goes, yeah, this is what I do. She goes
back turned. I'm like at that point is that okay
to dump a drink on the head? Far, that's too far,
that's too far.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
It is okay to say, and it's okay to call
her like a broke bage or something like that.
Speaker 6 (03:23):
That's what.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I don't need your golden digging man anyway, but dump
a drink. No, that's physical.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Nobody knows how to regulate their emotions anymore.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Hey, I used to have a friend. I told you
all about him. He would he would swing at every
pitch the girl walked by, he was to hang on
a second.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
He would run after and baby girl, baby girl. He
would come back.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
He would do it probably ten I'm not kidding, ten
to fifteen times a day because I worked at the mall.
He would come back with three to five numbers and
the other and when they said no, he'd be like cool,
gotcha and he run back and sit down.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Right.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
That's great average, But he knew, yeah, I'm cold calling.
If they say no, whatever, if they say yeah, cool,
But that's how you got to handle it.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
My favorite is when they'll like try to talk to
me or whatever, and this hasn't happened in a while,
but like I'll be like, oh no, like I'm good.
I'm not interested. I'm with somebody whatever, and they'll be like,
well you ugly anyways.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Well you've hurt me, You've hurt my feelings, and I
can't walk away with this hurt.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
You need to feel someone's hurt.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
But I'm not interested. Isn't a feeling hurt her like you?
It's like someone going to asking you do you want to,
you know, buy solar or whenever at your house they
knock on the door. You say, no, it's not personal.
I just I'm not interested in solar today.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
What if I'm walking towards you and you go, I
don't even waste your time? Is that person throwing well? No,
nothing is physical. Yeah, why do you touch you?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
You still a physical action. All you to do is
respond with the same level of verbal if you if
your person is sitting there, I ain't touch you.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Back up, not touch anybody or the property or their things.
I'm gonna talk to you like I talked to my
seven year old.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
You can respond with equal or lesser value is what
you can respond with. Okay, so, and then you can
respond with something snarky back in her.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Yeah, okay, bitch, like there were even.
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Girl, I was just coming to tell you that you
ugly at head, that's all I was coming for. But
I cool and then turn around and walk away.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Fine.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Wow, I want to find out when you had to
handle a situation like that, when someone did not take
your turn down lightly?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
All right?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
You told someone, hey, I'm I'm not interested and they
just went too far. Excuse me, you ugly anyway, I
ain't want to talk to you. I'll trying to talk
to your friend, but she's talking to somebody. Whatever the
insult will happen. When did someone not take your turn
down lightly? Because you know what, if you're not my type,
you're not my type on the state. You got to
understand everybody has a type. If you're not it, it
doesn't mean you're a bad person. They just are not
(05:49):
interested in you.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Somebody would have to come and close my mouth. If
somebody took my purse and through, I'd be like, is
that okay?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
When you throw the purse, do you stand there and
wait for the reaction or do you walk away? Because
I'm trying to find out how what hey, how about this?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Now? Do I stand there or do I just walk away?
After I thought he should walk away because if she
calls the police, then they're gonna take you.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Well, your boys should be there pulling you off anyway,
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want to find out when did someone not turn take
your turn down lightly? They did something stupid, or they
said something to you. You can laugh at it now,
(06:31):
but you say no, I'm not interested. They said something
stupid or did something stupid. We want to hear that story.
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Speaker 3 (06:54):
You're gonna have to do something, all right.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
A good friend of the show said that she told
the gentleman, Hey, you know I'm not interesting did It's
not funny took took a purse and just threw it.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
It's like kind of comical though, because it's like I've
never heard of that before, and that's how unhinged the
world does.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
And I guess I'm just trying to think because I'm
pitching in my mind again. Do you once you throw it?
Do you walk away slowly? Do you run away? Do
you stand there and look for reaction? I mean, what happened?
Speaker 4 (07:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
It just reminds me of like a bully, like like
o'doyle rules, like yeah, Adam Sailors.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
I would run like Napoleon dynamite.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
But really does that work?
Speaker 4 (07:33):
You know?
Speaker 1 (07:33):
You know what that aggressive of yous just show just
made me more attractive to you? Hey, this is my name. No,
it doesn't work like they but end up going going
to jail? Uh so when did that happen to you?
Speaker 3 (07:43):
From Orlando? Hey, Tiffany, good morning? Hid morning Tiffany.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Winning in a situation where someone you rejected them and
it didn't go well?
Speaker 6 (07:53):
So so I dated a guy? Uh well, here's my
boyfriend for like maybe like on and off for a year,
but every time he can't one every time he got mad,
it was like an explosion of his emotions and.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
He'd leave in a big huff and all that stuff.
And so the most recent time he came back, I
always called him. Every time he called me, I'd be like, oh, look,
I've seen a ghost, because he would just pop up
after like ghosting me. And so the most recent time
he came over and to like put up my TV,
set up the internet, like he was being really sweet,
and then he was like, you know, you're not seeing anybody.
(08:24):
I'm not seeing anybody. And I was like, how do
you know what I had going on in my life?
Speaker 6 (08:28):
And so he was just like, you know, we can
you know things are not working out for me and
I know you already and all these things, and I
was just like, I've done a lot of healings since
we broke up. I've done all these things, and I
just can't. I'm not interested, like we can be friends.
And as soon as I said that, he grabbed all
his things. We had walked on dogs. He grabbed his dog.
(08:50):
He left in a big huff and everything slammed the door,
and I was just like stood there in awe. I
was like, what just happened? Like, we had a great time,
not interested in dating him, but.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
It was.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Can I tell you a little something. Here's the deal.
I'm glad nothing physical happened. He just took his dog
and left. That's cool.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
But you know what he wanted. You know, he wants
to be your boyfriend. And you called him over to
put your TV up and all that good stuff. His
thing is, okay, she might she's trying to let me
back in, and he you know, he says, hey, let's
get together. You put me, You put him in the
friend zone, but he ain't want to be in the
friend zone.
Speaker 6 (09:29):
It was the same song and dance that we do
every single time we get we hang out, we get close,
all these things. You ghost me. I'm like, cool, I'm
moving on. But this time the difference wasn't I was
for it.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
The difference was, oh, you flip the script. I learned
what I what I'm worth, and that was.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Oh so in the past when you say let's get
back together, he ghosted you. Yeah, and then you flipped
the script on him.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
Oh hand like that, Okay, I got you.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
I goes you. You don't know me. I'm a ghoster.
You're the ghost.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
You know what, Hey, if you're thinking about taking him back, no,
because I'm gonna tell you why.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
As soon as you take him back, he's gonna ghost you, right,
because he just wants to get the upper hand again.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
When does it end?
Speaker 5 (10:13):
That's always a joke. Who has the relationship? Yes, and
you were like, hey, I'd like to get back with you.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
You know what.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
I was just sitting here thinking, I don't think I
want to, and he'll walk away with Okay, I got her.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Don't play that game.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
I am happy I'm in a relationship and someone who
doesn't do those games.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
There you go.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Good for you. I'm happy for you, Tiffany. But if
I was him, I just snatched that TV off the wall.
I'm just saying you would. I wouldn't break it.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
I just say, yes, it was his TV.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
He gave it to me because he said my TV
wasn't thinking up.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
I take the TV home with me.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Of course it wasn't big enough because he was planning
on being over there watching that TV.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
That's why he came in to you. Oh I had
to take him my TV home again.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
What I'm gonna tell my seven year old? These are
intrusive thoughts. We don't act on them. You could picture
yourself ripping it off the wall.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
Just No, I wouldn't rip it off. Yeah, my TV,
it's my TV. I'm taking it.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
I'm about to take the TV. Yeah, I don't even
tell you. I'm gonna ahead and take my TV, right,
you understand?
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Right?
Speaker 5 (11:21):
Cool?
Speaker 3 (11:22):
And I gotta take the TV. You know that. He's like, no,
you don't take the TV. Hey, I'll put you a
little thirty two inch back up. That's fine. I'm gonna
take the TV back. Will that have been cool? Tiffany?
Speaker 4 (11:31):
No, I expecuted it.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
There were times I thought I was like, man, we're
gonna break up and he can take that TV away
and then I'm gonna have.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
To go back to whatever I Hey, are you wenting
the TV with your new man?
Speaker 4 (11:42):
No?
Speaker 1 (11:42):
Not yet, by Tiffany, Bye bye right okay.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
So Cheryl from the live stream, she said a guy
burned her with a cigarette when she turned him down
and walked away.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
What yeah, And she said.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Il yeah, I didn't realize what happened as I was
walking away, felt stinging, feeling like on my side, and
she looked and he had burned her.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Yeah. I called it police. I have to call it,
have to call it. Law You going down.
Speaker 5 (12:14):
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How do you know you don't like man? If you
ain't have one like this, I can change you, all right, Right,
(12:38):
you ain't found the right one exactly.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
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All right, any questions just hit one of usselfs.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
All right, Brian.
Speaker 5 (12:54):
Forty five percent adults say they don't know how to
do what they say. They don't know how to make
new friends. So they've got friends obviously that they've had
for a long time or whatever, but they don't know
how to go out and make new friends. So there
was a friendship educator somebody who I guess facilitates friendships. Yeah,
on TikTok, and they were dropping some tips, like joining
a weekly activity, like it could be like a run
club or whatever it might be.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
They say, you have to stick to it every week. Friends.
Speaker 5 (13:18):
Familiarity gets you to wear Oh I saw that guy,
Yeah for the last four weeks, let's talk to him
or whatever.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
They say.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
Most people are scared, so they say, be brave. They
they are scared to just reach out and meet new people.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
They say.
Speaker 5 (13:30):
Younger people have never had to do it because of technology,
so they've never actually had to cold call meet somebody,
so they don't know how to make new friends. Wow,
I'm not great at it. I'll be honest.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
He is my thing, and it may sound kind of
kind of arrogant, but I don't have time for new friends.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
I said the same thing. I don't have a slot,
no available for my time. I'm finding I gotta find
time for the friends I already have. I've already had
personal relationships with I gotta find time for us to
hang out.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Yeah, my wife kills me all the time.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
She says, I don't foster friendships, and I don't, and
it's because I'm busy or so I don't. They're out
of mind and I don't. I don't hit him up enough.
Sometimes I do hit them, going, hey man, I'm a jerk,
i haven't talked to you in a week. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
And I'll hit my friends and say, hey, it's totally me.
It's one hundred percent of me, you know, on the
grind and trying to raise a sixteen year old and
I've just been busy, and then when we get together,
you have a great time. So for me, it's not
important that I meet new friends. Same so I currently don't.
I don't see myself trying to foster that. So I
couldn't give you any advice on how to meet a
(14:32):
new friend because I think the last time I had
a new friend was probably ten fifteen years ago.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
My two newest friends were because they are in relationship
with people that my wife has friendships with. Yeah, and
so I default we all landed together and they're friends
of mine.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
Now, that's the same thing with like when I started
dating Kim and then like her friend group I got
to know, and same with like her knowing my friends
so yeah, I don't know. I think it's very hard though,
when you have like a family, and like you said,
I've been trying to have your own relationship and your friends.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
How many years ago you've had a new friend or how.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Long has it been, I mean, honestly one that I
actually like hang out with and.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Keep up with.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Yeah, I'll say since I met started dating Cam.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yeah, which is sad because it's like we meet people
all the time, and like you know, on the cruise,
I met a lot of new people and I would
love to hang out with them, but it's like I
just don't have I'm only in communication on social media
because I don't have time.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
And the same thing.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
I've met some new people, but then if I want
to hang out with them, they're gonna have to hang
out with my old friends and my old friend Like,
well what are these people?
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Yeah? Right, and they may not have any in comment
or whatever, right Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Yeah, So for me, I don't have any any advice
on that. Maybe that's a good problem to have, Like her,
I got so many friends I can't keep up with. No,
I've established friendship throughout the year that have withstood the
test of time, and I feel bad that I don't
have time to nurture those relationships. So I'm not if
it would be like us dating. I don't have time
for you. I'd love for you to be my friend,
(16:00):
but your friends do things. I don't have the time
to do those things, so I don't.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
I agree.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
So meeting a new friend of sleeping.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
I mean, that's why people are making friends with Chagibc.
It is because it's right there in the palm of
your heads.
Speaker 3 (16:13):
It's right there. I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
So we want to find out from you. You know,
as an adult, how do you make new friends? And
how often do you make new friends? I mean, you know,
if you knew the town, there's a couple of years ago,
there's a lot of people knew to the area. You
find yourself in a new relationship situation where you lost
half your friends to you know, the significant other. But
the question to you is, as an adult, how do
(16:36):
you make a new friend? And there's people right now
saying I'm listening because I would love to make new
friends and I don't. And one thing I found out
is that the loneliest person in the world was.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
As adult men. Yeah, that are extremely long like middle
aged young men. Yea, men like eighteen to thirty fours.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Yeah, are the loneliest people because they won't tell people
that they all long right, just kind of just host
up by themselves, by themselves. Four oh seven now or
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want to hear from you, as an adult, how do
you make new friends? And how often do you make
new friends? All right, there's people listening for some suggestions,
(17:14):
so if you have them, please share them. Four oh
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seven nine When five percent of the adults say they
don't know how to make a new friend, so when
to find out from you as an adult, how do
you make a new friend and how often often do
you make a new friend? Let's go to Orlando and
talk to Karen.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
Hey, Karen, Hey, all right, you got suggestions on how
people can meet new friends?
Speaker 4 (17:38):
I do?
Speaker 3 (17:39):
Okay, go ahead?
Speaker 7 (17:40):
Probably not? Well, how's the say. I'm a New Yorker
and I think people in Orlando are pretty friendly.
Speaker 8 (17:51):
So I guess I'll just tell you my last situation
where I met I probably seem to be friends. I
was at TG Max getting some stuff and then this
like lady was talking and she's like, oh this price
and blah blah blah, And I was like, don't you
love when that happened, so organically we just started talking.
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Really it led to this whole converse.
Speaker 8 (18:12):
Yeah, it led to this whole conversation. We found out
that we both have only children son, Yeah, and collected
her number. Really, and we're meeting up this week.
Speaker 3 (18:25):
Yeah, that is so cool. That is so cool. Are
you new to the area? Is new area?
Speaker 7 (18:32):
No?
Speaker 8 (18:33):
No, my son is. But my son is seven, so
I've probably been here eight years now.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (18:39):
It's like my second kind of tour being in Orlando.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
Okay, but you met someone and he's like, hey, let's
get together. You look, I can tell in your voice
you're looking forward to possibly having a new friend.
Speaker 8 (18:49):
Yeah. And I also it's it's also like she we're
talking about like sirtuality and religion because my parents are
two different religions. So I was like, I need something
for my son because.
Speaker 6 (19:03):
We haven't really done much.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
With him in that area and all listen to TJ mag.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
Yeah, I love it Wow, Ray would do something like that, Max,
I see somebody talking, I'm moving away, fast, moving away.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Paisley from Orlando, Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 7 (19:23):
How are you guys doing.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
What's your suggestion as an adult to meet new friends?
Speaker 7 (19:28):
My suggestion is being open, kind of like what Karen
was saying to having new and random conversations. I found
that after recently moving here in January, the most like
eusiest conversations I've had with making friends is in random situations,
especially like out and about at like bars and stuff.
Or I go to Disney a lot because I have
(19:48):
an annual pass and just talking to people while in line,
and I've met a lot of my friends through that.
Speaker 8 (19:53):
Really kind of awkward sometimes, Yeah, I like you see
a couple of weeks.
Speaker 7 (19:57):
Ago, I met a girl and her boyfriend and we
actually exchange numbers and we have plans to go get
drinks and as.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
You know, that's cool, Paisley, And it's cool that do
you think like that?
Speaker 1 (20:06):
But if I met somebody like that, like they want
me to hook up with them, they swings, that's trying
to trying to swing with me. They would even know
that because you frequent swing your place as well. I
mean one time more than me just saying I.
Speaker 3 (20:23):
Went once time, good morning, Oh good morning. I suggestions
of how to adult to me a new friend.
Speaker 6 (20:34):
Yeah, I just kind of want to second everything that
everyone else says. Just go out there, be yourself. It's
okay to smile at strangers. It's okay to give a compliment.
I'm also originally from New York and I've been in
Florida for about fifteen years, and I agree with the
first caller. You know, people down here are just a
lot more open and friendly. But I also made a
(20:56):
lot of friends in New York too. It just kind
of got to walk the walk, talk to talk nice,
give a compliment. I met a new friend a couple
of months ago. I just like meeting people and talking
to people. Everyone has a story. You know, we have
a lot more in common than we think we do.
Speaker 5 (21:12):
You know, had to give it to you somehow smiled
at me, smiling right.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Wrong you?
Speaker 3 (21:19):
Oh yeah, hey, how you doing? I didn't know you listened? Right?
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Let's see here. A lot of people said that their
work people become that their their best friends, like their coworkers.
Several years I've become friends. I have good friends that
I've never met in person. I just talked to them
through like teams, which is really weird. Yeah, that's pretty
much a lot of people are just saying through work
and then through works coworkers and their friends.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
I'm surprised the three calls that we had to say.
They're like, go out there and put yourself out there,
smile at someone, have a random conversation, which is all
things I don't do right.
Speaker 5 (21:52):
Well, people, they said, and listen to the podcast. What
happens if you do that? And then they don't want
to be your friend? Can you throw their person?
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Absolutely? Listen to the I mean that's rejected them with
your cigarette?
Speaker 2 (22:01):
Why not?
Speaker 3 (22:01):
Can I do that?
Speaker 5 (22:03):
Oh yeah, well you're ugly anyway. Excel will Power by
Attorney Dan Newland in direct need to check. It's a
no brainer. Just called attorney Dan new and someone's at
book clubs. Yeah, and then they said they sign up
for a lot of events. There's tons of free events,
pop up workout classes. Uh, just seminars, pet events and
anything like that. Okay, but then when.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
You do that, you have to talk to you put
yourself out there and talk to someone and you like.
The young lady at TJ Max said she's looking forward
to meet a brand new friend. That was pretty cool.
Sliber News, What's on the Way.
Speaker 2 (22:31):
A little updated on the Cardi Nicki Minaj situation.
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