December 4, 2025 • 18 mins
For A Quick Stop At Johnny's House... Do you NEVER argue with your significant other? What did you do when you thought no one was watching?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Options, but you want to hang out with us, and
we appreciate that. Sunny today with the high seventy seven
fifty seven right now, right A celebrity couple came out
and say, I don't know about have the rest of y'all,
but we don't em of we don't even fight.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Who it is Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Is he a smart man? You're a smart man. What
are you fighting about? Your house half fun at the
top of your game. You're both rich, but the thing
most people couples fight about.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Money is yes, absolutely, so what are you fighting about? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
So, I guess. They were talking with George Clooney on
New Heights, their podcast, which you can hear on the
iHeartRadio app, and George Clooney said that him and his
wife a mall, they've never fought in ten years.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
Again, what are you fighting for?
Speaker 5 (00:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
So, Travis said that he and Taylor had never gotten
into an argument or haven't yet, you know, although he
noted that they've been only together for two and a
half years, so obviously ten years two and a half
years is a big difference.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
But I think in time you mature, you know, like
when I was younger, I would argue.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
I mean.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
The first time the young lady i'm seeing now we
had a disagreement. I said, okay, let's set some boundaries here.
I will never go toe to toe screaming back and forth.
I will never do that. That will not walk away
before that happens. If I do something that hurts you,
it is not my intentions to do that. All you
got to do is bring it to my attention and
I'll apologize for it and try not to do it again,
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because if I want you in my life, I want
you to be happy. I'm not here to go. Okay
on the man, drus If I did something, hey, you
know what when you said that the other day that
hurt me, you know, I'm sorry. That's totally my fault.
I didn't mean to do that, and I'll stop and
I'll move on. But that going, I just don't have
the energy to do it. I used to though, I'm
going three four days, go to sleep, wake up.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
So you over it yet? Are you over yet? It does?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
It does take a lot of like sort and stuff,
but and it depends on your argumenting like style style.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Yes, I grew up.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Unfortunately I did see my mom and dad like raise
their voice, and so I thought that that's how you are. Yeah, yeah,
you have an argument, and so like I have raised
my voice a lot. But like with more relationships like now,
like Kim and I have gotten into some not so
nice arguments. But like you learn, you do learn, and
(02:17):
it's like okay, why and then you feel embarrassed and
you're like, why am I doing that?
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I'm too old to be doing that.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Yeah, and again, like you said, it's arguing styles. If
that's what you say, if you can you go up
in a household, and that's what you saw, that's what
that's how you do it.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Unfortunately, when you get a little older, you like and
I mean, especially coming from someone who was divorced.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
I'm not doing that again, Yeah I am not me?
What about you?
Speaker 3 (02:36):
My wife and I used to argue like it was
our job. This is pre separation, but like we and that.
So it's a good thing we got separated because it
let us both figure out how to act and then
we got back to here. We very rarely argue now,
like I say, smart ass things, she rolls her eyes, whatever.
Like we've had maybe two or three big ones over
the last couple of years where I consider in an
argument other than that got disagreements because that's what life
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brings it.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
But we don't really argue anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
You get a better understanding of that person. I mean
obviously an argument, not yelling, but like having that kind
of conflict and then conflict resolution. Yeah, it makes you stronger.
I feel like, Yeah, and it's just like, what are
you arguing about? Like, what's the point When you're younger,
you argue to win?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Dumb things, things that aren't really worth arguing over. That's
why I when they said that, these people say this,
they don't live in life. They live in a bubble,
so they've got nothing that there is no bumps in
their road.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
So what are they gonna argue about unless there's two
people trying to be compatible and you're not, and then
you're gonna bump heads all the c because you're not
supposed to be together.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, but most arguments stem from a bump in the road.
They don't have bumps in their road. They just don't.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
And plus they got all the professional help that they
can get id a bump. I had a bump in
the road. What happened, we did this, Well, maybe you
should handle this way and it's done. I mean, they
deal with real life. Let's say, you know whatever, are
one of their loved ones passes away. That's the same
thing that happens with me. But like you wouldn't argue
over that.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
They don't deal with the day to day. You know, man,
we're light on cash. Oh man, I did this, Like, yeah,
it's how work.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Yeah, I read, I will the mere word argument bothers me.
I'm not gonna make that happen. Are you one of
those have a relationship with someone and you you just
don't argue, You don't have arguments. Are you one of
those who listening now going well, I'm in an argument
right now, and I'm sure that's some people listening right
now mad about what happened last night. That's just the
reality that you're in right now. Are you a couple
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that you don't argue anymore? What is your secret? What
do you learn from doing it? Four oh seven now
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we want to hear from you. Arguments in your relationship.
You just don't do it. We want to hear from you,
so call us on Johnny's ire. It is Johnny's house,
sunny with the high of seventy seven. It's fifty seven
(04:47):
right now. I gotta do a thank you. Carmen, who
runs the Baby DJ program, her sister just bought a
house in my neighborhood. And she texts Carmen and they
listening to the show this morning, say if I want
to come over and you still watching, Oh, that's very nice.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Don't get me wrong. If I had all them clothes
in my car right now, would.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
You imagine if their neighbors saw you dragging your laundry
to another house.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I would hope someone posting their little ring video door
so I can see it.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Look at this. Hey what I doing? Hey open your
garage and I back my car in the clothes. But
I would have accepted that dirty.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
They're going to think you're cheating with the neighbor.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Yes, there's no there's no right here.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Well, she just moved in, so I ain't made that
many connections yet. I'm just thinking, but thank you. That
was very kind to you. I just have to wash myself,
all right, They said couples who do not argue, and
celebrity couples say, no, we don't have argument. Brian say,
because you have got no problem?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Right? Were your problems?
Speaker 6 (05:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Everyone has problems, problems, but they're much easily solved when
you're a gazillionaire and you're at the top of whatever you.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Do, and plus a lot of arguments over financing and
you got worried about that when you're rich. Let's talk
with Sarah from Orlando. Sarah, good morning, Good morning, all right,
and how long you been married?
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Sarah?
Speaker 5 (05:58):
So, I've been married for three weeks, but my husband
have been together on and off.
Speaker 6 (06:03):
For nineteen years.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
What that was a long engagement?
Speaker 6 (06:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:08):
So do you do you argue? Rarely argue? What's going on?
Speaker 7 (06:12):
So we rarely argue.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
We have a lot of discussions, and there are some
things that we don't tend to see eye to eye on,
and after after talking and lengthy discussions, if we still
don't see eye to eye, we just kind of look
at each other and go, you know what, agree to disagree, yeah,
and move on, lay it to rest.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Okay, Okay, now, I mean that's something that But for
nineteen years you've heard you've had to learn to communicate
with each other.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yes, Now what type of we're talking about this? What
type of household did you grow up in? Did your
parents argue or they didn't?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
My parents argued all the time, led to a divorce,
and even when my mom got remarried, they argued a lot.
Now I was used to constant fighting.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Now the two things will happen.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
You can look at that and say and you just
absorb it, or you can sit back and go, you
know what, whatever I do. I don't want to be
like that, you know. Yeah, Yeah, Okay, Well I'm glad.
I'm glad it worked out for you and share Sarah,
thank you for sharing that this morning.
Speaker 6 (07:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Absolutely, have a wonderful day.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
All right, We love you too, Bye bye? Right what
they sayd over there?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Somebody said it's very rarely that my husband and I argue.
We've been together for six years. Let's see here, somebody
thinks it's unhealthy if you don't argue in a relationship.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
What depends on what you call an argument? That's what
it is.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
You're supposed to have disagreement, Yeah, and not see eye
to eye on this. If you either talk it out
or you argue.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
See like, for me, arguing is we're sitting there, you know,
yelling at each other, right and other people like, you know,
just having a heated discussion. So I think everybody could
be different. Discussing a disagreement. Isn't arguing, No, I mean
that's that's human interaction. When it turns into an argument,
that's a problem. Avoiding it is unhealthy. Brian, what they
said over there, this is actually pretty smart. This is
from the XL Moble Power by Toorney Dan Neulan. Interrect
(07:57):
need a check. It's a no brainer. Just call it
Toorney Dan Neulan.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I said, in my first marriage, all we did was
argue because I was never having any of my needs met.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
So we finally got divorced. I remarried.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
I have my needs met now in my relationship, my
partner's needs are also met, so we rarely have a
reason to argue.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
Oftentimes, arguing comes when needs aren't being met.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
It's physical needs, it's emotional needs, it's tangible like electricity
bills being paid needs. And that's why I say Taylor
and Travis have nothing to argue about they both meet
each other's needs at every turn.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
So what's the point. And I think sometimes people don't
hear it. It's like, hey, my needs aren't being met
and you're hearing yourself. I got lights on. You know,
I'm doing this. I'm doing that in my mind. I'm
doing your needs. But you're like, what you're doing is cool,
but it's not what I need, right, Because you have
to know your significant other. If one of my needs
is I need you to tell me positive things because
(08:48):
I have bad self esteem, that's a need I need met.
And if you don't, we're gonna argue when you write
that off like that, right, you don't have a little problem, right,
And that's you not knowing who you're married to or
dating or whatever. Ray was going on a certain who
delivery servant, don't know which one it was, all right,
what happened to me?
Speaker 3 (09:04):
So they were delivering a bunch of food and they
had a stack in their defense and I guess it's
started tilting to one side and a chicken wing fell
out of the container and landed on the concrete. So
they picked up the chicken wing, put it back in
the container, licked their fingers, and then delivered the food.
(09:26):
I mean, you don't want to waste the deliver And
it was all caught on a video doorbell. Yes, so
they were like wow, because I'm sure they were like
and no one's looking, let me put this back in.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Wow. You never know.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
I think I think people need to get into mindset
that there's almost a camera everywhere. Yeah, everywhere you go, Like,
you don't think on a daily basis about it you're
on camera.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I think the statistic is over forty times a day
you're on a camera somewhere, but you don't think about it.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
I guess if I dropped something, the first thing I'm
gonna do is look around and see who's saw me.
And I guess if I did deliveries. I know if
we're talking about it and I don't do deliveries, I
know if there's a door cam, I'm possibly being recorded.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, I would think that.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
Well, if I dropped the wing, I ain't picking it
up because you're going to assume the restaurant shortened you.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
That's my mindset.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
I'm like, what I wing is just gone, and you're
going to assume the restaurant gave you eight instead of whatever.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
And you get mad at them, not me. Yeah, I
agree with that. I sure wouldn't put dirty wings back
in your container. I had a guy come to the door.
He goes, man, I apologize.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
I was taking here and the pop fell out, the
top fell off, the soulda in half of us gone,
if you want to report it, I understand. And I
was like, nah, I ain't worry about that, kid, don't
need to sold anyway. Yeah, the movie, but they told
me that that was going on, yeah instead of that,
So we want to find out what what have you done?
Not thinking that anybody was watching, and they do that.
I talk to myself going to the bathroom here, I'll
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just go down the hall. I'll make some karate moves
because I do that all the time anyway, and somebody
will go like, yeah, y'all yeah, and I'll go bob
like they think I'm crazy. But you know what, I
don't care. I don't care.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
Row What do you do when you're thinking abouty's watching you?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
The one thing that sticks out to me, and I
felt bad for a long time about it, but I
mean bad like and in the senses it kind of
made me look bad. It was a while back, but
there was money on the floor, like a twenty dollars
bill on the floor. I was broke at the time, okay,
So I walked over to the twenty dollars bill like
I was browsing and just put my foot on it,
and I was just gonna stand there for a little
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bit till everybody cleared out, and then I was gonna
get the twenty.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Dollars to put it in my pocket.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I was broke, yes, Well, I didn't know that there
were people that were over on the other side that
watched me walk over and put my foot on the
twenty dollars bill, so they also stayed.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
Right they were to see if you're going to put
yeah or not.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
And then someone said because the lady that we probably
came from was right on the other side, and they
they said to me, hey, you're gonna tell that lady
stropped that twenty yeah good?
Speaker 4 (11:57):
Like up. I was like, I mean, I was about
to judging me and everything. I was just looking at something.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
First, man, want to split it three ways?
Speaker 4 (12:07):
We could have done that, but no.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Yeah, so I didn't think they were paying attention, and
I slow and I slow rolled stept on it like
it was nothing and just kept browsing like I was
looking for something and then they called me out.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
I'm like, damn it.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
If we were in a meeting and the meetings that
we have and we saw that happen, I tell her,
let's see what happened.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
I want to don't say worse. I was broke, man.
That was lunch.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Remember when I found like one hundred and fifty dollars
on the floor and I turned it in.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
Yes, he did. Never got it back.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
They never called me like someone who claims it or
if they don't claim that, we're going to call you.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
I think when you said that we mentioned that you
were never call back because all they got to do
is tell their friend, Ray, what did you do? And
you didn't think anybody was watching.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
So one time at the grocery store. Actually this has
happened a couple.
Speaker 4 (12:52):
Of times yesterday.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
So when I'm trapping with the kids, the kids want
like stuff that I don't I want to buy, but
so they'll like add something to the grocery card or
they'll be like, oh, can I have this, And then
they'll add like cookies or something, and I'm like, okay, yeah,
we can get it. And then by the time we
get up to the register. I'm like, you guys don't
need these cookies. You guys don't need them, and so
I'll like put them randomly on like a different shelf.
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And one of the one of the grocery workers saw
me put the cookies in like the like the cereal aisle,
and I was like, I'm sorry, and then I was like,
I don't want to make more work for you.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
I'll go put them back.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
But he saw me like putting it on a random shelf,
and I didn't want to be like somebody that makes
their job harder.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
I almost did that the other day.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
I picked up something that I wanted, but then I
found what I really wanted, like six miles over, and
I'm like, I'm gonna put this down, and then I
started to and then I'm like I can't.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
I can, And I walked all the way back six
holes over and put it back.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Dang it.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
I gotta tell you this happened when I was young,
Me and my brothers in storages buying junk food and
we got cookies and didn't want them. We put them
on the shelf. We walked out the door. Security came
and said, excuse us, So, yeah, we want to check
your bag. I want to check the back for what
they said with some cookies that you stole. And they
checked a bag and the guy was like, well where
are they And we took them back to the aisle
and said right there. And we went home and told
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my mom we went back to the store. Oh hell broke.
So from this point on, when I saw that, I
put things back, I put them back. I want to
find out from you, what did you do when you
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good morning, good morning. All right, what do you do?
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You didn't think anybody was looking.
Speaker 7 (15:17):
I don't think this is too bad, but whenever I
go thrifting, I look for like games and puzzles and stuff,
and everything's always taped shut. I untape it because I've
been burned before. And I know, you know, a missing
puzzle piece.
Speaker 6 (15:29):
Could be my thirteen treason.
Speaker 7 (15:30):
I'm not gonna lie to you. Yeah, I definitely got
caught last time. They thought I was trying to steal,
and I have not done it since. I'm like terrified.
Speaker 4 (15:38):
What did you open and what were were trying to do?
Speaker 7 (15:41):
It was a Jenga set because my friend got one,
and it had a bunch of things like well wishes
from like a wedding because somebody had donated it before.
So I want to be wow you know that the
blocks didn't have stuff written on them. Yeah, they definitely
caught me.
Speaker 4 (15:54):
So and what did I say?
Speaker 6 (15:57):
I don't.
Speaker 7 (15:58):
It was just kind of awkward. They're like, oh, hey, like,
can I help you? These are tape shut for a reason,
kind of just like a.
Speaker 4 (16:02):
Little admonishing, ma'am. This is a thrift store.
Speaker 6 (16:06):
Thrill.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
No, you're not gonna get it any cheaper in the world,
and you're gonna find it in here.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
Are you gonna steal?
Speaker 6 (16:12):
No? I think that's so embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
But like people do that in the makeup aisles at
like regular stores, you know, talking about I'll go to
buy like makeup and half of them are already opened
because they want to see the actual color and try
it out on their skin before.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
They buy it.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
So it's like you should feel bad that you're doing
that at the thrift store.
Speaker 4 (16:31):
Not disagree with, but.
Speaker 6 (16:35):
Disagree awkward.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Yeah, you got bunched at a thrill store. Ostal, all right,
from a popkin to cold good morning the day, Good
day to you two, all right. Didn't think anybody was
looking what you do?
Speaker 6 (16:49):
Talk about? Sixteen years old and I was walking with
my oldest sister and I so called a tip it
to litter.
Speaker 4 (16:59):
Wait, what do you mean? What do you mean attempted
to litter? So called?
Speaker 1 (17:03):
If you have trash, right, you have trash in your hand,
it doesn't go to contain, it hits the ground, you're littering.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (17:09):
Well the cops were there. Yeah no, well no, no,
they threatened me with a ticket, but I was under age,
so you know, he gave me a really good, you know,
conversation about it. You know. But I looked left right,
you know, and then it was a it was a
soda bottle, O bottle, And as soon as I chopped it,
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it rolled and the officer was like, did you just litter?
And I'm like no, And then the bottle came rolling
down right and.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
You were not good at it at all?
Speaker 6 (17:43):
Yeah, and then the bottle just comes rolling down in
front of me and I'm like, uh, yeah I did.
And then, you know, he gave me a good talking
to it and told me how much a ticket could be.
I could get a major trouble.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
But I thought no one.
Speaker 6 (17:54):
I thought no one saw me. I looked left, I
looked right, you know, I well I didn't see the one.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
Wow, you didn't do it again?
Speaker 6 (18:02):
Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, never since then everever.
I didn't even get a chance because he made me
pick it up. So it's not like it's staying on
the ground. I had to take it with me.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
That's funny. No, that's not mine. And it rolls all
the way back down. Yeah, a tempting tolitter is illegal.
All right, you hold on be what you got over there,
man x.
Speaker 3 (18:21):
Power by Attorney Dan newl and interrect need to check it. So, no, Brenner,
just call Attorney Dan Newland. So said they really had
to go pee.
Speaker 4 (18:27):
One time.
Speaker 3 (18:28):
They were trying to find something at the store, so
they were shimming around, just trying to do the peepy
dance to hold it, and someone was watching him the
whole time and said, hey.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
You're a great dancer.
Speaker 7 (18:37):
Oh my good stuff.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
But it was just a peepy dance. At that point,
You're like, you know what, I can't even hold it anymore.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Whenever you try to steal from a thrift store, we're
gonna hook you up brunch for to a Timmy's New
Orleans Kitchen Race
Options, but you want to hang out with us, and
we appreciate that. Sunny today with the high seventy seven
fifty seven right now, right A celebrity couple came out
and say, I don't know about have the rest of y'all,
but we don't em of we don't even fight.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Who it is Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Is he a smart man? You're a smart man. What
are you fighting about? Your house half fun at the
top of your game. You're both rich, but the thing
most people couples fight about.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Money is yes, absolutely, so what are you fighting about? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
So, I guess. They were talking with George Clooney on
New Heights, their podcast, which you can hear on the
iHeartRadio app, and George Clooney said that him and his
wife a mall, they've never fought in ten years.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
Again, what are you fighting for?
Speaker 5 (00:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
So, Travis said that he and Taylor had never gotten
into an argument or haven't yet, you know, although he
noted that they've been only together for two and a
half years, so obviously ten years two and a half
years is a big difference.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
But I think in time you mature, you know, like
when I was younger, I would argue.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
I mean.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
The first time the young lady i'm seeing now we
had a disagreement. I said, okay, let's set some boundaries here.
I will never go toe to toe screaming back and forth.
I will never do that. That will not walk away
before that happens. If I do something that hurts you,
it is not my intentions to do that. All you
got to do is bring it to my attention and
I'll apologize for it and try not to do it again,
(01:23):
because if I want you in my life, I want
you to be happy. I'm not here to go. Okay
on the man, drus If I did something, hey, you
know what when you said that the other day that
hurt me, you know, I'm sorry. That's totally my fault.
I didn't mean to do that, and I'll stop and
I'll move on. But that going, I just don't have
the energy to do it. I used to though, I'm
going three four days, go to sleep, wake up.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
So you over it yet? Are you over yet? It does?
Speaker 2 (01:47):
It does take a lot of like sort and stuff,
but and it depends on your argumenting like style style.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Yes, I grew up.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Unfortunately I did see my mom and dad like raise
their voice, and so I thought that that's how you are. Yeah, yeah,
you have an argument, and so like I have raised
my voice a lot. But like with more relationships like now,
like Kim and I have gotten into some not so
nice arguments. But like you learn, you do learn, and
(02:17):
it's like okay, why and then you feel embarrassed and
you're like, why am I doing that?
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I'm too old to be doing that.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Yeah, and again, like you said, it's arguing styles. If
that's what you say, if you can you go up
in a household, and that's what you saw, that's what
that's how you do it.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Unfortunately, when you get a little older, you like and
I mean, especially coming from someone who was divorced.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
I'm not doing that again, Yeah I am not me?
What about you?
Speaker 3 (02:36):
My wife and I used to argue like it was
our job. This is pre separation, but like we and that.
So it's a good thing we got separated because it
let us both figure out how to act and then
we got back to here. We very rarely argue now,
like I say, smart ass things, she rolls her eyes, whatever.
Like we've had maybe two or three big ones over
the last couple of years where I consider in an
argument other than that got disagreements because that's what life
(02:59):
brings it.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
But we don't really argue anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
You get a better understanding of that person. I mean
obviously an argument, not yelling, but like having that kind
of conflict and then conflict resolution. Yeah, it makes you stronger.
I feel like, Yeah, and it's just like, what are
you arguing about? Like, what's the point When you're younger,
you argue to win?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Dumb things, things that aren't really worth arguing over. That's
why I when they said that, these people say this,
they don't live in life. They live in a bubble,
so they've got nothing that there is no bumps in
their road.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
So what are they gonna argue about unless there's two
people trying to be compatible and you're not, and then
you're gonna bump heads all the c because you're not
supposed to be together.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Yeah, but most arguments stem from a bump in the road.
They don't have bumps in their road. They just don't.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
And plus they got all the professional help that they
can get id a bump. I had a bump in
the road. What happened, we did this, Well, maybe you
should handle this way and it's done. I mean, they
deal with real life. Let's say, you know whatever, are
one of their loved ones passes away. That's the same
thing that happens with me. But like you wouldn't argue
over that.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
They don't deal with the day to day. You know, man,
we're light on cash. Oh man, I did this, Like, yeah,
it's how work.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Yeah, I read, I will the mere word argument bothers me.
I'm not gonna make that happen. Are you one of
those have a relationship with someone and you you just
don't argue, You don't have arguments. Are you one of
those who listening now going well, I'm in an argument
right now, and I'm sure that's some people listening right
now mad about what happened last night. That's just the
reality that you're in right now. Are you a couple
(04:26):
that you don't argue anymore? What is your secret? What
do you learn from doing it? Four oh seven now
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You just don't do it. We want to hear from you,
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(04:47):
right now. I gotta do a thank you. Carmen, who
runs the Baby DJ program, her sister just bought a
house in my neighborhood. And she texts Carmen and they
listening to the show this morning, say if I want
to come over and you still watching, Oh, that's very nice.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Don't get me wrong. If I had all them clothes
in my car right now, would.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
You imagine if their neighbors saw you dragging your laundry
to another house.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I would hope someone posting their little ring video door
so I can see it.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Look at this. Hey what I doing? Hey open your
garage and I back my car in the clothes. But
I would have accepted that dirty.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
They're going to think you're cheating with the neighbor.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Yes, there's no there's no right here.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Well, she just moved in, so I ain't made that
many connections yet. I'm just thinking, but thank you. That
was very kind to you. I just have to wash myself,
all right, They said couples who do not argue, and
celebrity couples say, no, we don't have argument. Brian say,
because you have got no problem?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Right? Were your problems?
Speaker 6 (05:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Everyone has problems, problems, but they're much easily solved when
you're a gazillionaire and you're at the top of whatever you.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Do, and plus a lot of arguments over financing and
you got worried about that when you're rich. Let's talk
with Sarah from Orlando. Sarah, good morning, Good morning, all right,
and how long you been married?
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Sarah?
Speaker 5 (05:58):
So, I've been married for three weeks, but my husband
have been together on and off.
Speaker 6 (06:03):
For nineteen years.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
What that was a long engagement?
Speaker 6 (06:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:08):
So do you do you argue? Rarely argue? What's going on?
Speaker 7 (06:12):
So we rarely argue.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
We have a lot of discussions, and there are some
things that we don't tend to see eye to eye on,
and after after talking and lengthy discussions, if we still
don't see eye to eye, we just kind of look
at each other and go, you know what, agree to disagree, yeah,
and move on, lay it to rest.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Okay, Okay, now, I mean that's something that But for
nineteen years you've heard you've had to learn to communicate
with each other.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yes, Now what type of we're talking about this? What
type of household did you grow up in? Did your
parents argue or they didn't?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
My parents argued all the time, led to a divorce,
and even when my mom got remarried, they argued a lot.
Now I was used to constant fighting.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Now the two things will happen.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
You can look at that and say and you just
absorb it, or you can sit back and go, you
know what, whatever I do. I don't want to be
like that, you know. Yeah, Yeah, Okay, Well I'm glad.
I'm glad it worked out for you and share Sarah,
thank you for sharing that this morning.
Speaker 6 (07:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Absolutely, have a wonderful day.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
All right, We love you too, Bye bye? Right what
they sayd over there?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Somebody said it's very rarely that my husband and I argue.
We've been together for six years. Let's see here, somebody
thinks it's unhealthy if you don't argue in a relationship.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
What depends on what you call an argument? That's what
it is.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
You're supposed to have disagreement, Yeah, and not see eye
to eye on this. If you either talk it out
or you argue.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
See like, for me, arguing is we're sitting there, you know,
yelling at each other, right and other people like, you know,
just having a heated discussion. So I think everybody could
be different. Discussing a disagreement. Isn't arguing, No, I mean
that's that's human interaction. When it turns into an argument,
that's a problem. Avoiding it is unhealthy. Brian, what they
said over there, this is actually pretty smart. This is
from the XL Moble Power by Toorney Dan Neulan. Interrect
(07:57):
need a check. It's a no brainer. Just call it
Toorney Dan Neulan.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I said, in my first marriage, all we did was
argue because I was never having any of my needs met.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
So we finally got divorced. I remarried.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
I have my needs met now in my relationship, my
partner's needs are also met, so we rarely have a
reason to argue.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
Oftentimes, arguing comes when needs aren't being met.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
It's physical needs, it's emotional needs, it's tangible like electricity
bills being paid needs. And that's why I say Taylor
and Travis have nothing to argue about they both meet
each other's needs at every turn.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
So what's the point. And I think sometimes people don't
hear it. It's like, hey, my needs aren't being met
and you're hearing yourself. I got lights on. You know,
I'm doing this. I'm doing that in my mind. I'm
doing your needs. But you're like, what you're doing is cool,
but it's not what I need, right, Because you have
to know your significant other. If one of my needs
is I need you to tell me positive things because
(08:48):
I have bad self esteem, that's a need I need met.
And if you don't, we're gonna argue when you write
that off like that, right, you don't have a little problem, right,
And that's you not knowing who you're married to or
dating or whatever. Ray was going on a certain who
delivery servant, don't know which one it was, all right,
what happened to me?
Speaker 3 (09:04):
So they were delivering a bunch of food and they
had a stack in their defense and I guess it's
started tilting to one side and a chicken wing fell
out of the container and landed on the concrete. So
they picked up the chicken wing, put it back in
the container, licked their fingers, and then delivered the food.
(09:26):
I mean, you don't want to waste the deliver And
it was all caught on a video doorbell. Yes, so
they were like wow, because I'm sure they were like
and no one's looking, let me put this back in.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Wow. You never know.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
I think I think people need to get into mindset
that there's almost a camera everywhere. Yeah, everywhere you go, Like,
you don't think on a daily basis about it you're
on camera.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I think the statistic is over forty times a day
you're on a camera somewhere, but you don't think about it.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
I guess if I dropped something, the first thing I'm
gonna do is look around and see who's saw me.
And I guess if I did deliveries. I know if
we're talking about it and I don't do deliveries, I
know if there's a door cam, I'm possibly being recorded.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, I would think that.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
Well, if I dropped the wing, I ain't picking it
up because you're going to assume the restaurant shortened you.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
That's my mindset.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
I'm like, what I wing is just gone, and you're
going to assume the restaurant gave you eight instead of whatever.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
And you get mad at them, not me. Yeah, I
agree with that. I sure wouldn't put dirty wings back
in your container. I had a guy come to the door.
He goes, man, I apologize.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
I was taking here and the pop fell out, the
top fell off, the soulda in half of us gone,
if you want to report it, I understand. And I
was like, nah, I ain't worry about that, kid, don't
need to sold anyway. Yeah, the movie, but they told
me that that was going on, yeah instead of that,
So we want to find out what what have you done?
Not thinking that anybody was watching, and they do that.
I talk to myself going to the bathroom here, I'll
(10:52):
just go down the hall. I'll make some karate moves
because I do that all the time anyway, and somebody
will go like, yeah, y'all yeah, and I'll go bob
like they think I'm crazy. But you know what, I
don't care. I don't care.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
Row What do you do when you're thinking abouty's watching you?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
The one thing that sticks out to me, and I
felt bad for a long time about it, but I
mean bad like and in the senses it kind of
made me look bad. It was a while back, but
there was money on the floor, like a twenty dollars
bill on the floor. I was broke at the time, okay,
So I walked over to the twenty dollars bill like
I was browsing and just put my foot on it,
and I was just gonna stand there for a little
(11:29):
bit till everybody cleared out, and then I was gonna
get the twenty.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Dollars to put it in my pocket.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
I was broke, yes, Well, I didn't know that there
were people that were over on the other side that
watched me walk over and put my foot on the
twenty dollars bill, so they also stayed.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
Right they were to see if you're going to put
yeah or not.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
And then someone said because the lady that we probably
came from was right on the other side, and they
they said to me, hey, you're gonna tell that lady
stropped that twenty yeah good?
Speaker 4 (11:57):
Like up. I was like, I mean, I was about
to judging me and everything. I was just looking at something.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
First, man, want to split it three ways?
Speaker 4 (12:07):
We could have done that, but no.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Yeah, so I didn't think they were paying attention, and
I slow and I slow rolled stept on it like
it was nothing and just kept browsing like I was
looking for something and then they called me out.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
I'm like, damn it.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
If we were in a meeting and the meetings that
we have and we saw that happen, I tell her,
let's see what happened.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
I want to don't say worse. I was broke, man.
That was lunch.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Remember when I found like one hundred and fifty dollars
on the floor and I turned it in.
Speaker 4 (12:32):
Yes, he did. Never got it back.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
They never called me like someone who claims it or
if they don't claim that, we're going to call you.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
I think when you said that we mentioned that you
were never call back because all they got to do
is tell their friend, Ray, what did you do? And
you didn't think anybody was watching.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
So one time at the grocery store. Actually this has
happened a couple.
Speaker 4 (12:52):
Of times yesterday.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
So when I'm trapping with the kids, the kids want
like stuff that I don't I want to buy, but
so they'll like add something to the grocery card or
they'll be like, oh, can I have this, And then
they'll add like cookies or something, and I'm like, okay, yeah,
we can get it. And then by the time we
get up to the register. I'm like, you guys don't
need these cookies. You guys don't need them, and so
I'll like put them randomly on like a different shelf.
(13:17):
And one of the one of the grocery workers saw
me put the cookies in like the like the cereal aisle,
and I was like, I'm sorry, and then I was like,
I don't want to make more work for you.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
I'll go put them back.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
But he saw me like putting it on a random shelf,
and I didn't want to be like somebody that makes
their job harder.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
I almost did that the other day.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
I picked up something that I wanted, but then I
found what I really wanted, like six miles over, and
I'm like, I'm gonna put this down, and then I
started to and then I'm like I can't.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
I can, And I walked all the way back six
holes over and put it back.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Dang it.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
I gotta tell you this happened when I was young,
Me and my brothers in storages buying junk food and
we got cookies and didn't want them. We put them
on the shelf. We walked out the door. Security came
and said, excuse us, So, yeah, we want to check
your bag. I want to check the back for what
they said with some cookies that you stole. And they
checked a bag and the guy was like, well where
are they And we took them back to the aisle
and said right there. And we went home and told
(14:13):
my mom we went back to the store. Oh hell broke.
So from this point on, when I saw that, I
put things back, I put them back. I want to
find out from you, what did you do when you
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good morning, good morning. All right, what do you do?
(15:15):
You didn't think anybody was looking.
Speaker 7 (15:17):
I don't think this is too bad, but whenever I
go thrifting, I look for like games and puzzles and stuff,
and everything's always taped shut. I untape it because I've
been burned before. And I know, you know, a missing
puzzle piece.
Speaker 6 (15:29):
Could be my thirteen treason.
Speaker 7 (15:30):
I'm not gonna lie to you. Yeah, I definitely got
caught last time. They thought I was trying to steal,
and I have not done it since. I'm like terrified.
Speaker 4 (15:38):
What did you open and what were were trying to do?
Speaker 7 (15:41):
It was a Jenga set because my friend got one,
and it had a bunch of things like well wishes
from like a wedding because somebody had donated it before.
So I want to be wow you know that the
blocks didn't have stuff written on them. Yeah, they definitely
caught me.
Speaker 4 (15:54):
So and what did I say?
Speaker 6 (15:57):
I don't.
Speaker 7 (15:58):
It was just kind of awkward. They're like, oh, hey, like,
can I help you? These are tape shut for a reason,
kind of just like a.
Speaker 4 (16:02):
Little admonishing, ma'am. This is a thrift store.
Speaker 6 (16:06):
Thrill.
Speaker 1 (16:07):
No, you're not gonna get it any cheaper in the world,
and you're gonna find it in here.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
Are you gonna steal?
Speaker 6 (16:12):
No? I think that's so embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
But like people do that in the makeup aisles at
like regular stores, you know, talking about I'll go to
buy like makeup and half of them are already opened
because they want to see the actual color and try
it out on their skin before.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
They buy it.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
So it's like you should feel bad that you're doing
that at the thrift store.
Speaker 4 (16:31):
Not disagree with, but.
Speaker 6 (16:35):
Disagree awkward.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Yeah, you got bunched at a thrill store. Ostal, all right,
from a popkin to cold good morning the day, Good
day to you two, all right. Didn't think anybody was
looking what you do?
Speaker 6 (16:49):
Talk about? Sixteen years old and I was walking with
my oldest sister and I so called a tip it
to litter.
Speaker 4 (16:59):
Wait, what do you mean? What do you mean attempted
to litter? So called?
Speaker 1 (17:03):
If you have trash, right, you have trash in your hand,
it doesn't go to contain, it hits the ground, you're littering.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (17:09):
Well the cops were there. Yeah no, well no, no,
they threatened me with a ticket, but I was under age,
so you know, he gave me a really good, you know,
conversation about it. You know. But I looked left right,
you know, and then it was a it was a
soda bottle, O bottle, And as soon as I chopped it,
(17:32):
it rolled and the officer was like, did you just litter?
And I'm like no, And then the bottle came rolling
down right and.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
You were not good at it at all?
Speaker 6 (17:43):
Yeah, and then the bottle just comes rolling down in
front of me and I'm like, uh, yeah I did.
And then, you know, he gave me a good talking
to it and told me how much a ticket could be.
I could get a major trouble.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
But I thought no one.
Speaker 6 (17:54):
I thought no one saw me. I looked left, I
looked right, you know, I well I didn't see the one.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
Wow, you didn't do it again?
Speaker 6 (18:02):
Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, never since then everever.
I didn't even get a chance because he made me
pick it up. So it's not like it's staying on
the ground. I had to take it with me.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
That's funny. No, that's not mine. And it rolls all
the way back down. Yeah, a tempting tolitter is illegal.
All right, you hold on be what you got over there,
man x.
Speaker 3 (18:21):
Power by Attorney Dan newl and interrect need to check it. So, no, Brenner,
just call Attorney Dan Newland. So said they really had
to go pee.
Speaker 4 (18:27):
One time.
Speaker 3 (18:28):
They were trying to find something at the store, so
they were shimming around, just trying to do the peepy
dance to hold it, and someone was watching him the
whole time and said, hey.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
You're a great dancer.
Speaker 7 (18:37):
Oh my good stuff.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
But it was just a peepy dance. At that point,
You're like, you know what, I can't even hold it anymore.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Whenever you try to steal from a thrift store, we're
gonna hook you up brunch for to a Timmy's New
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